Christian Singles/Engaged || Misconceptions of Godly Courtship || WATCH TIL THE END!

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Hey everyone! Thank you so much for tuning in. Please drop in the chat questions y’all want me to answer for Part 2 in regards to courtship? What did I miss that y’all want me to go in depth about?

[@MsTonJon]

I am almost 20 years divorced, separated 5 years prior. I got married as a backslidden Children/prodigal. Married at the age of 22 and I am now 52. When I tell you this is right here is ACCURATE!!! Please accept this godly counsel and save yourselves devastation and heartbreak unnecessarily!

[@thesharonofficial]

“If they will not change their life for Jesus Christ, they will not change their life for you” HELP 👏🏾 US 👏🏾 😂 Dust your feet OFF!!✌🏾

[@prophetessmarie9742]

Point. Blank. Period!

[@battleready5890]

This was so good!!! I am 54 and have been married for 22 years ONLY by the grace of God….cause honey we did it all wrong. Please don’t think that what I have is a license to think it’s ok to move outside of Gods will. When I tell you it was stupid, crazy, I thought I was going to lose my mind hard, that is no exaggeration AT ALL. Marriage is already hard. When you do it wrong, baby! LISTEN!!! Stop right now, fall prostrate before the Lord, submit to His will and do it right!!!!! No matter how inconvenient it may be to fix how you are moving, IT IS WORTH IT, but even more important than that is Gods will. Obey GOD! Malissa!!!! Do a part two and maybe interview a couple that did it wrong, but got on track with God, because that is a lot of people’s story in these crazy, disobedient days. My husband and I are warring right now in prayer and fasting for one of our children and we know for a fact that her struggles were birthed out of our disobedience. I’m telling yawl OBEY GOD!!!!! Honey, you may have to do a 10-12 part series.

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Wow hallelujah! Thank you for your transparency and just beautiful comment. I know it will truly help many in this thread. Hallelujah 🙌🏿

[@florrobertson7923]

THIS! Would truly enjoy a video from this perspective.

[@normabarros3124]

You have such an anointing on premarital preparation for marriage. I have never heard anyone minister in this way. A lot of revelation, in doing things God's way. I will be praying for all the details. This is a blessing I receive God's truth, thank you.

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Hallelujah! Praise the Lord

[@beautyforashes06]

PAAAAAART 2!!!! I am married AND WHEN I TELL YOU EVVVEERRYY POINT YOU MADE WAS 🎯🎯🎯🎯!!! The good people need a parrrrttt 2!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽

[@vinyannahall3148]

I must admit, a lot of this I am struggling with! A lot of this I am uncomfortable with. I realize that I honestly have a perverted and unrealistic view of marriage! Pray for me that by the Holy Spirit and wisdom of God that my mind be renewed concerning this! Lord make me holy and righteous like you!😭😭😭😭

[@nikkilewis2520]

Your channel is going to do well. The Holy Spirit is leading you.

[@dannib3948]

I STRONGLY AGREE..just in a few days she has gone from 300 subscribers to almost 1k

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

THIS WAS SO GOOD ! Ppl usual pick the date to get married, but when it’s God he will give you a date because he has an Appointed time.

[@TheTiaraMakia]

Wow, this gave me so much clarity regarding courtship and what that looks like. Dropped lots of gems! Thanks for letting the Holy Spirit speak through you!

[@monir3781]

I’m glad you’re talking about thisss cause whew 😭😫😫

[@godsdivinepurpose2460]

Thank you Woman of God! I really needed this teaching and continued to let God use you! Glad you started your KZbin channel

[@Profalssional]

Am I the only one who realized the people God designed to be together look alike? Lol Can you make about 10 more videos this week. I love your personality and wisdom! Haha lol

[@fortitudeandflourish]

Part 2 please. This has been very sobering and I truly have a better understanding of what courtship is. Thank you so much for this video.

[@juanitabrown8691]

Malissa you are the realest of the realest! I truly appreciate your wise counsel. This is so needed. I am 61 years old and this kind of instruction would have saved me a lot of stress, strife, and struggle.

[@Bermygem]

I must say, your videos are refreshing because you actually seem to be genuine and really have a relationship with Christ.❤ Please Lord shield this woman and her family. keep her in your perfect peace in Jesus name. Amen🙏🏽

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Amen!!! I literally give all glory to the Lord and the Holy Spirit for any wisdom He has entrusted to me. Thank you for commenting sister.

[@teresagary7716]

So good! I love raw and honest biblical teaching. Thank you, sis!

[@LaLaJenkins]

Sis! This entire video is GEMSSSSS! 🙌🏽🥹 (And I loved the bloopers at the end too with Ronke’s commentary. I was cryiiing!! 🤣)

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Ronke is nuts man Lolololol 💕💕💕

[@Feej81]

Whoa whoa… be careful with the “marriage is difficult, marriage is hard”…. No ma’am, people are difficult and hard! Marriage is a gift from God! It is his design! It is beautiful and perfect. Be Blessed😘🙏🏾

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

No I meant what I said. Marriage is difficult and hard. The same way the “narrow way” is described as difficult and hard. That is the truth. Marriage being beautiful has nothing to do with it being difficult. Both are true. And I serve the Lord in Spirit and Truth. This is the reason so many singles are expecting perfection because people do not tell the truth and explain counting the cost. If Jesus explains walking with him as difficult and hard that is what it is. God bless you.

[@Feej81]

I feel ya, Jesus also said my yoke is easy and my burden is light.. if we do things God’s way marriage won’t be difficult and hard. People want to take a God created institution and operate it in a worldly way… Marriage like all relationships has it challenges…that is why it was meant to be for two virgin believers who love and honor God first… With that being said I appreciate you sharing your experiences/beliefs/testimonies … I know others like myself are blessed by it. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@dannib3948]

Keep them coming Malissa!! Don't stop girlfriend! Your background is all that!💝

[@valentithomas8170]

You were speaking from your heart allowing the Holy Spirit to feed us at all levels. Let them that hath an ear to hear what the Spirit is saying......about courting and or dating. THANK YOU!

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Hallelujah! Praise the Lord 💕

[@TakingTheRainbowBackGen9-16]

MARRIED PEOPLE CAN USE THIS ADVICE..

[@jessicadixon2836]

This is so great!! Really giving me help as a Single woman!! Keep up this great Ministry!!!

[@tykia_maxie]

Love this!!!!!! Thank you for ❤️❤️ Courtship DOES NOT = Marriage!

[@briannamartin9945]

Definitely a new follower of yours from Nebraska! 🤣 Prayerfully, I do not reside there anymore lol BUT this was such a powerful video, I LOVE how direct and straight forward you are, His words through you are seriously the sword of the Spirit! Thank you for being such a voice of CLARITY and WISDOM, the fruit is evident. Looking forward to part 2!

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

I am cryingggggg 😭😭😭😭 lol thank you so much for watching. This is gold!!!

[@NadiaslifewithChrist]

I’m so happy Lala did a video with you and for you starting your channel! Your words really speak and bless me I’ve been showing my sisters

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Yay Amen. Thank you so much for your kind words 💕

[@lashelleluxe6918]

This really convicted me of some things in my life. I appreciate this breakdown it’s so helpful ❤

[@NealManig]

Love the accountability and the marriage group❤

[@beverlyashman5435]

I applaud you Sista 👍 you telling it as it needs to be told. I made a life altering mistakes, marrying to someone saying "I'm a man of God." I jumped head first into this long distance relationship, ending up marring him, it turned to be a pit of he'll experience. I pray the people seeing this post will take your advice 🙏🏽 ❤

[@mightymouse1005]

I completely understand. Mine was not long distance and we didn't marry, but....3 of the worst years of my life. Horrible experience

[@mightymouse1005]

I hope you got out of that situation. You deserve real love

[@bethanyjones-bj3uc]

Thank you so much for this video it has really helped me. The lord just recently told me who my husband is going to be and I can't tell you enough how grateful I am

[@SimplyKea]

I am about to share it with my friend. Thank you so much. This was helpful to me especially the part about confirmation. I am so glad that you mentioned that if God said it in the spiritual it has to manifest in the physical because we can see someone who is not interested in us yet we go with what we thought the word of the Lord was. Totally freedom for me. 🙏🏽 signed your best friend from South 🇿🇦 Africa.

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Amen! Sister hallelujah!!! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@salomejewelaphane]

Thank you Vriendin for the plug totally enjoyed it, very informative

[@acalledfoodie]

Wow so good I’m single and I’m young (22) and this really helps such good biblical advice I came to your channel from your testimony on video so good

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

I'm so glad! Welcomeeee

[@ravenalade957]

So good! Please do a part 2! I love the part about different calls and offices. You have to mesh with your spouse and I don’t always think about that! Thank you, sis!

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Amen sis 💕

[@shareenladd1048]

Good job! I agree with all the points. That’s what I’m waiting for. I done fasted and prayed too much to waste time on the wrong one!

[@dannib3948]

Tell me about it..I wish this video came out 10 years ago❤

[@christinawhitfield1720]

Wow this was straight up confirming some things I was already thinking about courtship. Thank you for this!

[@YongamaLove]

Hi Mellisa. Shout out to La Jenkins. Saw you there. Love from South Africa❤

[@donnagaines3396]

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you Lord for that word!!

[@bethanyjones-bj3uc]

Please do a part two!!!!😆

[@TheJpowell16]

Malissa!! I'm so proud of you! So excited to see where God takes you next sis!

[@dinahlopez6408]

I appreciate your video. You're giving us so much Godly advice that is needed. Thank you so much.

[@kingdom_journey1484]

Such a good video Sis, peace and blessings to you and your husband PT 2,3,4 lol provide all the biblical gems 😁

[@SassyC18]

This!!!! This video right here made me subscribe to you. My sister in Christ, you are speaking NOTHING but facts! I thank God for making me stumble on this video. I am in my single season waiting for my kingdom spouse.

[@Queenconsciousness311]

Your advice has been incredibly helpful, particularly since I'm currently in the process of courting a man-an entirely new experience for me. As a recent subscriber, I've found myself drawn to your videos, which I must say are nothing short of phenomenal. Thank you, Sis, for sharing such valuable insights.

[@jluvc00]

Thank you so much. I can't wait for God to send my Godly husband, waiting patiently and love the teaching to prepare me.

[@TheWorthyMuva]

Please talk more about your experience with the counterfeit. I had the same experience where we thought we both heard God but the fruit just wasn’t there. What did you do after that relationship? How was this one different?

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

That’s a great topic. Ok cool!! Thanks.

[@inkonp-Able]

@@MrsMalissaBlairplease have this as a topic considering this is a new year now lol.

[@cynthiamcham5197]

It’s the realness for me! I love it ✨

[@daikeviawhitfield1842]

🔥 That’ll preach, please keep teaching biblical truth I’m locked in and here for it!!!! Pray Jesus continues to bless you and that you are poured into as much as you pour out! I receive this message !

[@inettabennett7922]

Please do a part 2. This was absolutely wonderful! God bless you and your husband ❤

[@donnagaines3396]

Part 2 please.

[@ChrissyTina]

Definitely need a part 2

[@Anotherchance423]

Amen sis !! Thank you God for confirmation 🙏🏾

[@dopeandgifted1359]

5:21 awwwwwww that’s so cute ❤❤❤

[@MsHinds-cp1oq]

Very nice video

[@yandiswamakeke3357]

A part 2 would be lovely please 🥰 this was beautiful to watch

[@Christiana_sheree]

Omggg I’ve been searching for your channel.. hey boo 🫶🏾💕

[@kazbaby261]

Part 2 is needed expeditiously ❤

[@antoniavillanueva2290]

Thank you for sharing! This is great, biblical teaching. I shared with my adult son. Looking forward to hearing part 2.

[@dopeandgifted1359]

I love the bloopers at the end

[@survivingthelastdaystv]

Tune in this morning!!!

[@safetyfirst2345]

Thank you for your encouragement, I was the fool you mentioned and Christ has transformed my heart and revealed the truth

[@amyberchtold2728]

Hello Malissa. Just discovered you on Delafe! Thank you for this video that has really helped me to see if the Lord wants me married He will make it very clear otherwise it is not His perfect will. Love the scriptures that back up everything.

[@lovevioletflowers3442]

Please do a part 2. Please address things to consider if the potential partner is a person who is divorced. Please also address how to handle things when one or both partners are bringing children into the relationship. Thank you.

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Amen I will be sharing that on the page I’m starting with my Husband who also is divorced before He was in the Lord. So we will be going in depth in that.

[@dopeandgifted1359]

I’m soooooooo haappppppy to see your own channel

[@zoeyfoshoeyy]

I love love this! Everything you said spoke to me ❤ The only question I have about is toward the end and you said that "even if you and the other person heard the voice of God if there's no confirmation, to not follow it" because you're saying that was probably not the actual Lord's voice? Someone else recently told me about a similar situation and I'm so confused

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Yes, exactly

[@MichelleMurrayArtis]

Yes. Please!!! Another video. Thank you, Beautiful!

[@normapatterson4018]

Awesome message! Need part 2.

[@aprilchambers4697]

You are a blessing

[@libbylib1819]

This is so good and much needed ❤️

[@VicChildOG]

Part 2, Please and Thank You !!

[@LRamey]

Good morning! Thank you for this surprise video❤🙏🏾

[@NaturalBabyDoll10]

Great teaching. Very much needed. Party 2 please

[@ilenebrown5490]

Yes!! Say that sis!

[@AshleyMechell]

Thank you for this breakdown. This helps me out a lot.

[@graceetvhost2885]

So good 100%

[@dopeandgifted1359]

23:36 amen to that ❤

[@dopeandgifted1359]

24:12 and that too🎉🎉

[@dopeandgifted1359]

26:27 ❤❤

[@thebraveone1675]

You are awesome!!

[@libbylib1819]

Sadly, ALL my counterfeits have been very intentional, offering marriage on first date (organised by church elders, who also believed he was my husband) or expressing their desire to marry within weeks or months of knowing me. My guess is the devil heard that it was either marriage or they can keep it moving. With exception of the the first, the others were "Ronaldos."

[@chezsalrobinson2337]

Can you discuss pre-nups during the courtship process in a Godly union? Quite a few horror stories out there of one person changing their mind after marriage .

[@chiquitac.4222]

Thank you for sharing this teaching video and making a video for the older and mature singles ages 55 + concerning this topic. Well, blessings to you and your ministry and family. 🙂👍🙏🏾

[@shalonda0414]

Love this video!! Part 2 please♥

[@naomimussaa]

So insightful 💗

[@JaeCalese]

This was so good and eye-opening!

[@lynmariah3539]

Honestly thank you for this video. It really has helped me see things. If you have more video like this can you please do it. Learning boundaries with family members with your relationship/marriage

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Sure thing!

[@lynmariah3539]

@@MrsMalissaBlair thank youuuuuuu! I’m taking notes you should definitely do series on this.

[@faithmovesforward]

Wow thank you so much for this message. I needed to hear every word !!!

[@dopeandgifted1359]

Yaaaaaaaayyyyyyy😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@fayeb.778]

This was great , yes do a part 2

[@jessicadixon2836]

Yes do a part 2!!

[@BellaKayeLLard]

New Subscriber ❤️

[@BellaKayeLLard]

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[@jacquelinegray9992]

I've been enjoying your channel 🙏🏽❤️

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

I'm so glad!

[@jacquelinegray9992]

@@MrsMalissaBlair God bless you 🙏🏽♥️

[@thulisilegumede8060]

Yoh this was good sis 👌🏾🙌🏾, thank you and God bless you. Yes please part 2 and many more 😊

[@Tia_Rock]

This is good ma’am!!!!

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Love you sissyyyyy ❤

[@kamilhaymon2244]

Soooo good sis! Looking for that part 2 👀

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

I'm working on it

[@mightymouse1005]

My beloved husband died Christmas Eve 2017. I am ready to love again but can't find a Good Godly man

[@mightymouse1005]

Pray for me a Godly husband. I don't want a hook up, shack up or ungodly relationship. I want to be courted and married

[@Lovegod4821]

AMEN

[@ToyniaTucker]

Thank you and yes a part 2 or "series😂" please

[@cherylajohnsonsterling5141]

And please discuss being with someone we had a sexual relationship with. I don't believe God will put someone with a person from my past . All things are made new , it will be someone we / I don't know. Am I right or wrong?

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Hmmm I can’t give a definitive answer on the mind of Christ. It’s mostly based on the fruit of their character in the present you know!

[@thando3495]

What does it mean to receive the Holy Spirit

[@sanaimcclain]

What about prodigals…?

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

In what way? Like courting a prodigal?

[@yakemalatyfa6575]

on ur testimony video you said that you hadnt recieved the infilling of the holy spirit, can you tell you testimony of when you did?

[@MrsMalissaBlair]

Yessssss that’s such a good question I will do a video of that for sure