Ep. 58 Don't Trust Your Feelings | Where My Moms At Podcast

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WHERE MY MOMS AT!? It's the show by the Moms for the Moms. Hosted by everybody's favorite "cool mom" Christina P! Not only the most REAL show for moms, but the most interactive. An open place to admit no one really knows what they're doing.
Christina P starts this episode of Where My Moms At by discussing how men are crybabies when it comes to handling pain. She then watches a TikTok of a guy ridiculing peanut allergies. She also discusses her recent Pazsitzky Effects regarding sharpening knives and buying soap, and responds to listener-submitted Pazsitzky Effects. CP then looks at emails from the mommy listeners containing #MomHacks and some gross habit follow ups. She watches another TikTok of a foreign pool kiss, and discusses menstrual cups, boys roughhousing, pet reptiles, and why she gets hotel rooms with two beds.
Christina P. wants to hear from you since she is seriously lacking in cool mom friends. If you want to share a "Mom Fail" or "Mom Hack" please call into our voicemail [phone] and let Christina know! We want to talk to as many moms across America as we can.
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[@acatnamedmarvin]

Anyone else not have kids but are obsessed with this pod? I know i'm not alone out here lol

[@retrogirl9089]

It's my favorite podcast, and I have no kids, don't even want any!! Hell, I don't even like kids! XD

[@Kanggaxx]

Yeah! I just like to see a Cool Mom's perspective on things.

[@quinnj3679]

We just really like Christina ^_^

[@FurbyMomma]

yes ma’am

[@dennislowry8260]

🙋🏾‍♂️

[@Greatlakeskyle.]

The fact that I, as a 26 yr old guy can sit through a podcast about mom stuff weekly is something I never thought I’d say haha.

[@likwidmagik]

37 here

[@JoeSkutnik]

30 here. She could make a pomcass about whatever the fuck and I’d watch it.

[@benjakes7994]

I’m 24. I try to watch every week, but my dick gets so hard and I can’t focus

[@immortalizer242]

Same here!

[@Trueskater313]

Me too bro, me too

[@spookygarbage]

I don't know if I'll ever have kids but I love watching this. Thanks mommy

[@boscoedash6363]

Oof

[@courtney2590]

My pazsitzky effect was realizing that I don’t have to buy my shoes at Payless and I can buy name brand shoes and sneakers.

[@giorgiaperotti9517]

Omg this!!! I bought cheap shoes for years because it didn’t make sense to spend 80 dollars on a pair of shoes. But now I buy converse and fuckin birks and it’s like heaven on my feet, they last longer, look better. I get it now.

[@XtheroCKER21X]

Inst he dizzy off the ups and downs

[@zakkholguin3942]

Similar thing here but for me it was the fact that it's okay to spend more than 100 bucks on shoes fro yourself, especially if it's your fucking money lol. Oh and it's okay to buy more than one pair of shoes a year.

[@ryana8022]

Bark Whittler got a lil Whitney put it in the blunt for now

[@ashleysartattack5600]

Same! I was always made to get Payless shoes as a kid. And when I was like 22 I was like, hey I don’t have to buy shitty shoes anymore that just fall apart in like a year. And I started buying brands like Nikes and Steve Madden and demonia.

[@sloanefrances1881]

My Pazsitzky effect is: I can organize my drawers monthly instead of letting them become chaotic hellholes filled with trash, lol.

[@SwampRobin]

Holy shit, Christina’s story on the girl stabbing herself with the Epi pen reminded me of doing the same when I was twelve over some pecan pie. Thank you for supporting that.

[@DelightfulDissident]

My friend used to do that too! But with avocados and benadryl 😂

[@jaunid344]

Has anyone seen the episode of broad city when Illana eats sea food fully intending to stab herself with her EpiPen 🤣

[@ashleysartattack5600]

Yes! My friend did that in college with Chocolate. She would get hives all over and swell up and she still went for it once a year because she loved chocolate.

[@laurenjulia1877]

2:32 oh damn, he spoke it into the universe and the universe heard and added in an arm lol

[@SwampRobin]

I actually really like Native with a shaved head

[@Kanggaxx]

The full shaved head is certainly better than the half-way old-man look. His red jew curles were amazing though.

[@littlefrog9553]

Native has a nicely shaped head!

[@IHeartZui]

Navad, it's Hebrew

[@mcspam9119]

Nadav even :D

[@littlefrog9553]

Guys. Calling him Native is a joke. Obviously his name is Nadav.

[@nicolemickle1851]

My mom put all kinds of bills in me and my sisters name when we were teenagers!!! She never paid the bills! LOL

[@DelightfulDissident]

Your mom sounds like a cool guy

[@savvyc.4328]

Same

[@ashleysartattack5600]

My parents did too. And my father was such a piece of shit, that when I turned 18, if I didn’t do whatever he wanted, he threatened to put more bills in my name to purposely destroy my credit.

[@jayceebbyxx]

My pazsitzky effect is realizing that I don’t have to just let shit happen I can make an effort to feel better instead of just giving up 😂

[@kendrakane8400]

That sweater is flattering on you. My pazsitzy effect would be buying fresh vegetables instead of just canned or frozen veggies.

[@jenney17]

These are my favorites because I love Mommy and Native's friendship.

[@LifePerMari]

Omg watching this 6mos+ into the future and Nadev says, “what if he broke his leg?” 😂

[@kellie_s6648]

WE HAD A FAMILY RAG AT DINNER!! LMAO😂 it came from my moms family who were immigrants from Hungary (Christina!😉) my dad first witnessed this while having dinner with my mom's family and watched them pass around this rag and he exclaimed "what is this.. A community?" So from then on my sister and i grew up with a dinner rag we thought was just called a community..

[@cynthiagutierrez1590]

I will say I thought the same thing when you said 2% milk and whole milk. My mom raised us so frugal, I think it’s because of our grandmother who came from over seas. But she would buy whole milk and then WATER it down because it would “break down the fat” and last us longer....needless to say I buy the fancy milk 😂😂😂😂

[@rebeccaanne8546]

I love the stories about people not realizing they can upgrade their life in different ways..very funny

[@kirstenbarnett4257]

I relate to 90% of this! This is the best - its nice to know i'm not alone with my habits.

[@SammStrom]

Girl who wrote in about the milk here🙋🏼‍♀️ it was more poor people milk cause of it ALWAYS being generic but regardless, whole milk turns turns me into a telescope!

[@Kamalashairypussy]

A telescope?

[@boldbileg]

@@Kamalashairypussy Yep, four strokes. Try it out.

[@BrianCzapiga]

12:55 Re: Sharp Knives, I have used dull knives for most of my adult life because when I was young, my mother had glass cutting boards, and I thought that's just what you use. Glass cutting boards, while they are very sanitary (since they're not porous), they're the worst for your knives and will blunt the edge almost immediately. I had no idea and had glass cutting boards up until around 5 years ago. Get wood cutting boards or plastic (and replace them regularly.) If knives aren't super sharp they're more dangerous. A blunt knife will slide down the side of an onion instead of cutting through it. If you're not sure if your knives are sharp enough, try gently slicing a paper towel (with light pressure.) If it doesn't cut (or cuts but you need a lot of pressure), it's not sharp enough. The electric sharpener that Mommy Tina mentioned on Amazon is just fine. There's a whole lot of ways to get knives super sharp with specialty contraptions or wet stones, but the electric ones are good enough, really fast, and almost dummy proof. If you insist on going the professionally sharpened route, and can't find a guy at the farmers market to do it, you can also bring your knives to a Williams Sonoma, Sur La Table, or most specialty cooking stores. (Call ahead.) Specialty stores can either send your knives out or sometimes they have sharpening events where they'll sharpen a whole lot of knives at once. I also have a sharpening (honing) steel rod on my knife block, and would suggest using the honing steel every time you use your knives, search youtube for help.

[@Barbievel]

Ugh I’ve had glass cutting boards my entire adult life and wondered why my knives are always dull even after sharpening them.

[@DelightfulDissident]

Literally have never heard of a glass cutting board, but will avoid the purchase. Great share Jeans!

[@BrianCzapiga]

@Kristie C Replace "onion" with another vegetable or fruit with a slippery outside like a tomato or green apple. The more force you need to cut, the more dangerous the knife is to your fingers. I don't disagree about onions - I don't like raw onions, but I feel like cooked onions/shallots have their place in a finished dish.

[@ashleysartattack5600]

I never knew that about the glass cutting boards! We actually have one built into our countertop that my mom likes. But I prefer a wooden one because i feel like stuff slides around too much on the glass. Like vegetables. But our knives are duller than children’s safety scissors and I now understand why.

[@mwmmidwestminiboats9543]

I'm at 36:37 and I have to say this episode has been soooooo good for my mental health. TY Mommy

[@PAB1068]

OMG Nadav! You completely shaved your head! Every day is a new adventure. It's why I watch all the YMH shows. LOL Love you Christina!!

[@xavier626262]

i cured my allergies from exposure therapy, thats the old school way, take it eassss

[@well_as_an_expert_id_say]

Call me crazy, but I think granola bars are actually made from granola.

[@Action_Slacks]

Granola is mostly oats and other grains, I think she might be thinking of trail mix or GORP.

[@well_as_an_expert_id_say]

@@Action_Slacks Or a Payday, those are fire 🔥

[@boldbileg]

You're nuts (:P)

[@magnoliamoonbloom6473]

And....what is granola made with??? 😂

[@maymayrays]

My husband uses a “Family Napkin” at our dinner table 🤦🏻‍♀️😑🤣

[@estefaniaca3925]

Us (mexicans) just always eat salsa from bowls or tiny bowls.

[@HENSONnOZ]

That's because we actually make it in a bowl. We don't grab it from our local farmers market. Viva la salsa 🎉

[@annmarie5484]

Your weird mom phrases segment killed me 😂

[@chriscrosby9414]

i usually do my shower beers at 3 in the morning before blacking out

[@aliciasmoores6066]

Same

[@Kanggaxx]

It was so cool how you dominated Bobby Lee.

[@layloxx1]

Waiting on hold with a company and listening to Christina with the soft jazz hold music in the background is beautiful.👌 😅

[@Joeliepolieravioli]

Why buy travel tissue paper when you can just ask for extra napkins in the drive-through?

[@Mikemikemike13579]

I’m a 26 year old guy, and making the switch to Tresemmé about 2 years ago, was definitely a game-changer! It’s about the same price as other popular shampoo and conditioners for men, yet Tresemmé makes you feel like you went a spa. (Or what I imagine a spa might be) #ThePazsitzkyEffect #TreatYourselfToTresemmé

[@aamm347]

Love rogan but this is my new favorite podcast. Love the different segments

[@PauloNideck]

I got my scissors sharpened recently. I was about to buy a new one lol

[@JR-yt5dq]

“Feeling that I’m a loser” is not a feeling Christina! I’m also a shrink. Feelings are not more important; they are just as important. Feelings are “transient,” but thoughts are transient as well.

[@RaePhelps745]

I always did that traveling in hotels for work - two queens in the room. 1) was my office/dining bed and 1) sleeping bed

[@MrCatmaster5000]

Why would she make poop soup when she can just eat Cream of Wheat?

[@TheCaspairaAcula]

Because it probably tastes like shit and doesn’t make her shit?

[@DelightfulDissident]

@@TheCaspairaAcula you new here?

[@wanderingfool27]

Damn it, mommy Tina, much wisdom in this eppisode. 💜💙🖤

[@Timmytree618]

When I was about 5, my dad had a piranha in our kitchen. And we had a small deer in the house for a good amount of time. Before I was born he used to raise foxes in the back yard.

[@lesliebates22]

I once had a couple shower beers getting ready for Wednesday night church. Lol i

[@rebeccaanne8546]

You've got mom questions? I've got mom answers!! 🤣🤣

[@StephenKyle91]

Christina needs a Cockroach DNA shirt up! 🧬

[@sonnywilliams9610]

Nobody: ... Christina P: TrAY-sa-mAy

[@diggylifts9199]

Looks like someone just got done reading “The Coddling of the American Mind” The book addresses peanut allergies and how you shouldn’t always trust your feelings.

[@nikkiponto9087]

This is the funniest thing ever because my husband insists on buying every kind of funking knife sharpener there is so we have like 10. LMAO 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@PileUhFlapjacks]

PSA: Kristen! I switched to a menstrual cup earlier this year. Shit’s REVOLUTIONARY. You just pop it in there and you’re good like all day bro. 10/10

[@susie7336]

What about when you pee or poo? It doesn’t get pushed out? What about overflow?

[@jenniferk4244]

​@@susie7336 ive been using a cup for 5 years now. The cup doesnt come out when you pee or poop you don't need to worry about taking it out or anything which is extremely convenient. It is best thing ever. you only need to change it once in the am and once at night, for the most part. Overflow can happen when you are adjusting to the cup but youll know after a couple cycles when you might need to change it mid day. Its far more sanitary than any other product on the market for periods, you don't smell or itch down there from all the cotton and and all the random additives put into pads and tampons. Edit: just wanted to say its an adjustment forsure and maybe not for teenagers or everyone (i was scared of tampons for years so i can't imagine a cup at 11) and the down side would be the five minutes in the am and 5 minutes in pm to clean and wash up. but thats better for me personally than being concerned about a tampon all day, wondering if my flow is heavy enough for a regular size tampon, toxic shock, pee on the string lol etc.

[@jazmindiaz5936]

Christina you should get your son a tortoise! They live long and are easy maintenance, they’re fun to feed (they look like mini dinosaurs) and their hard shells prevent them from kid damage lol 😝

[@Goblinfire]

Christina please take a goddamn glass of wine into the shower! it is a beautiful time 💚😂

[@Khathaar]

I'm a 30 yo guy who's had long hair for years and had to get told by an ex that you can shower without washing your hair. That email in is super relatable.

[@andrewhalter876]

When I was a kid I got a box turtle and it was fantastic. I named her Shelly and I kept her in a shallow plastic container with newspaper on the bottom.

[@lovesthetunes]

Growing up poor but marrying a normal man- my hack is to ask him to pick up anything I need because he will always buy me a nicer version of whatever I need, like socks (nice socks are a game changer), coffee, phone accessories, computer things. He taught me to pay more and only buy it once and that saves money in the long run.

[@savvyc.4328]

The boy mom shirt is my FAVE!

[@sloanefrances1881]

I am 22 years old-Christina reminds me of who I was in high school. Seriously. Her exact personality, especially in this episode, is nearly identical to how mine was at 16.....but thanks to meds...I am no longer as terrifying to be around! Hilarious. I love you Main Mommy!!!!

[@isarosepete]

Ive gone down the reptile owner rabbit hole on yt and there is a lot of info out there 😂

[@Spongekelp]

33:36 lmaoooo yess Im 27 and just bought tissues for the first time

[@willycolton]

I got tested for a peanut allergy by being fed peanut butter when I was a month old. Never was fed any peanuts again after that due to my mouth not following proto by swelling up to an extreme extent after my mouth being in contact with peanuts

[@littlefrog9553]

My pazsitzky effect is realizing I can buy the occasional expensive treat. Last year I bought a 200 dollar perfume for myself for Christmas, because I went through a horrible year. I was held at gunpoint and I survived botched surgery (for medical reasons) that was supposed to be routine. I had been disassociating and was put on antidepressants. I felt guilty immediately after, like I made a mistake, but I could afford to do it. I don't own anything else like that. I don't wear brand clothing, and I don't have nice purses. The perfume makes me really happy, and I only wear it for special occasions. It makes special things feel more special, like date night. The botched surgery and sutures make me feel ugly, but when I wear the perfume I feel pretty and elegant.

[@littlefrog9553]

I also used to not turn on the heating in the winter. I would just wear thermal underwear and sweaters.

[@CCCTTT3737]

Lol the soaps i like the smell of... Love you!!! You are the realest! And honestly nadav doesnt look half bad with no hair

[@penniewyatt9391]

I’ve had two vag blowout deliveries, bunion surgery (big toe bone surgery) was way worser.

[@robynalice879]

Welp I'm about to be the local knife sharpener. Thank you Nadav, my disabled ass will be saving for College. 😂

[@david_dabz530]

U can buy a machine to attach to yourself and it simulates the pain of birth and other things get it try it on josh

[@jennifercampbell975]

On Nadav!!!

[@GoalOrientedLifting]

It's not even close, cause electrodes on your skin will never be the same as something internal getting out.

[@taxscandalandthebuenos]

Nadov just needs forearm tattoos and he'll complete the 'cool guy' look

[@maddogmatt44]

I'm a dude, and I gotta say, Christina is throwing hard facts out there. My mom would be sick as fuck back in the day and STILL carry out the daily normal routine like it's nothing! Props to Jeans!!

[@kayleighfoley2351]

I literally ALWAYS complain about when my husband is sick. He is incapable of doing anything. But if I'm sick its business as usual

[@sarahwatts9402]

So excited for the live show Jeans

[@MalorieMelts]

We also had a family rag 😂😂😂

[@eileeneslick2415]

Love me some Tresemme...been using it for well over 20 years.

[@alyssaawilliams]

"Super Nintendo, Sega Genesis When I was dead broke, man, I couldn't picture this" ♥️

[@cierralowery7096]

My childhood pastor always says: "feelings don't get a vote"

[@susie7336]

Damn, pastor is savage.

[@cierralowery7096]

@@susie7336 he is a gem 💎

[@mollygregory3725]

Mommy! We need a girl mom shirt too!🤩😘

[@siriusdoomboomx3390]

Seconded. They may not be physically destructive but are masters at the art of mental warfare. 😂 So maybe a shirt including Tom because we all know he's a low key serial killer

[@theredjalopy3884]

"What if he broke his leg." Hasnt aged well.

[@joshuaking7186]

I'm with Nadav, the shower beer is hands down the best beer at times.

[@MonkeDLuffy]

10 days in college. Busy finals week.

[@hillaryg1251]

Nadav looking more like Tom everyday...I like that

[@deepthought1987]

Thanks for the steering message.

[@BirchWeber]

Christina get your kiddo a chameleon. People say they are hard to care for, but really it's not that bad. They are super rewarding. You can get crickets and worms delivered to your door.

[@DelightfulDissident]

They are easily stressed out and not a great option for smaller children because of the care needed when handling them. They are super cool though.

[@loriburbrink3061]

"Out with the old, in with the new" - slogan for Toilet Spaghetti™

[@back.that.Ash.up85]

A turtle maybe? My nephew had a really small one that ate just scraps and mealworms and was super cute and easy to keep, plus they are hard to kill lol

[@alexakimov]

I don’t think you’re crazy for the two bed thing... I totally did that when I travelled for work keep one bed messy one for sleeping lmao

[@antoinecoston6944]

1:02:00 when Nadav gets a glimpse of himself in the monitors and double takes the camera. It’s like he forgot how he looks

[@Beardymanlol]

LMAO Toddy gave himself a herniaaaaaa XD

[@Beardymanlol]

Holy shit I was right. Go dunning Kruger

[@WorldJudgement]

Nadav looks like Michael Rapaport when he was in Higher learning.

[@PageShearling]

Geckos don't regrow legs 😂 And Garter snakes do eat fish. You can feed snakes frozen mice, you just have to thaw and warm them. Leopard geckos do eat live insects. Don't keep the gecko on sand and make sure to buy it a heat lamp or under tank heater.

[@pink420mom9]

Talking about going thru life by the way you feel preach mommy I totally want to be that role model of what not to do for real. I fucked up so hard and lived and learned and wouldn't change a thing but now I want to educate girls boys kids everyone on what not to do fuck your feelings and get on with your life! Love having your podcast to listen to everyday right now while I binge all of them!!!!

[@zakkholguin3942]

I'm a guy obviously but I've had long hair since high school and yeah, Tresemme or however you spell it is where it's at. Other shit makes it too flat and greasy or does the same thing for twice the price. The 2 for 5 bucks almond suave is great too.

[@Barbievel]

I have a friend who once told me he only showers once a month. He always smelled so bad and I thought maybe it was just because he was a bigger dude that he just smells heavy after a long day but looooooooord he really thinks his cologne covers it up. Also as his friend should I tell him? Of course! However his 2 roommates have told him already multiple times and he still sticks to his once a month routine 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Wiggles_vs._snuggles]

I almost find that hard to believe. Skin must look so bad, so many serious health problems

[@thomashaverford6207]

Does he smell better after shower day or just marginally better?

[@DelightfulDissident]

Depression. That's depression.

[@Barbievel]

T I want to agree with you except he’s the most upbeat happiest person you’d ever meet. Like annoyingly positive. I honestly think he’s just lazy lol.

[@Barbievel]

The Fairest I’m not sure how to describe his skin, he is a black man so he uses lots of lotion so not sure what “bad skin” intells

[@zoew4805]

Yooo shower beers are the move

[@puddspudds5102]

Missing those red curls native 😢

[@penniewyatt9391]

There are new mommy groups or Lamaze classes where you can meet new people to commiserate with.

[@MrKiely415]

Come on Mark, don’t be stingy.

[@Action_Slacks]

I have a limited education (GED, no college), not particularly well-read or well-traveled and yet I know what a whetstone is and that knife sharpening exists. WOW!

[@DelightfulDissident]

Good for you.

[@lesliebates22]

I can't remember the full name of the pregnancy itchy thingy. I was allergic to something about being pregnant. It was like having poison ivy from head to toe for the last 3 months. The short term was P.U.P.P.P. I was miserable & luckily it didn't return in my second pregnancy.

[@medusa3083]

Im not a mom but this is one of my favorite podcasts. I can just listen to Christina rant all day and btw loved you on the tigerbelly podcast

[@amandapanda4918]

Omg shower beers are the best!

[@loganheim1394]

Mommy Tina, if you want to take that shower beer to the next level pick up a Shakoolie. It's a koozie that sticks to the side of your shower to hold your beer. We had them in the showers at my frat and they were put to near constant use.

[@x...CrankyOldMan...x]

29:45. A shower beer... Anyone who works hard everyday knows about a shower beer... I have 2

[@00SamG]

Since when did Tom sit behind the studio glass?... ohhh shit! That’s Nadav! The first disciple

[@goatpepperherbaltea7895]

Mommy Tina helping tha worldddddd

[@crusheen]

I just started buying tissues this year, because my GF won't let me use TP.....I'm 34 years old. Apparently regular people don't like to see toilet paper outside the context of where you shit.....This: ... I .....A HUNDRED percent, ...did not know. I didn't realize until I was 20 that to fill up the ice cube tray, I can just hold it on an angle and let the water cascade down from cell to cell until they're all full, instead of trying to move the tray around to each section and the water goes everywhere and some are super full and some are almost empty. I know all these shower products unfortunately. My mom uses White Rain, grew up on it.

[@asciulli6994]

Outrageous shampoo smells the best

[@jg6344]

I work at a school and for years this little boy who we assumed had a peanut allergy, well one day I saw him eat a peanut granola bar, walking over to him I ask “do you need your epi pen?” He replies? “ No, my mom just thinks I have an allergy, she’s crazy.” 😐😐🤫