Your Ex NEEDS To FEEL That You've LET THEM GO

[@warriorforchrist30]

Sometimes it's better to let people walk out, it's only confirmation that they were never suppose to be in your life or at the very least served their purpose for that season

[@AdamJamesEarlyChasebliss-ru8tq]

I used to be wanting us to be together again, ...but NOW I've completely changed, I actually don't want that person to cone back. I don't want someone who behaves like that, I'm happy to meet someone NEW.x

[@kszwomcszkaszky3291]

Now say it like if you actually believed it.

[@myutube5882]

It blows my mind how they can tell when we move on, even when we're far apart with no contact.

[@sterneprinzessin]

Energy! 😊

[@myutube5882]

@@sterneprinzessin I guess. They must be psychic.

[@Kuzeyturk76]

What do you mean

[@myutube5882]

@@Kuzeyturk76 I mean that I have heard many people say that the narcissist comes back as soon as they have gotten over them, even though there has been no contact and even when they are very far away. In one case, the narcissist came back as soon as the person started dating again.

[@37napa]

Love your videos. Helps me so much with healing and learning to love myself and value myself, and not try to force myself back into a relationship where I clearly was not wanted. I didn’t realize how high I had raised my exe’s pedestal during our relationship, at the cost of lowering my own, and forgetting about my own value. For the longest time I thought I’d never find anyone as attractive as him. Oh….. but I will! Someone even more attractive, inside and out. Thank you

[@tumsterbruh8481]

In the sea of "how to gain power over him/her" relationship channels that smell of desperation, it's refreshing to see someone share genuine good advice.

[@danieltrottier8599]

Hard core advice that works 100% every time. Awesome vid sis.

[@heematara27]

I finally get this whole thing. It has been almost a year for me. Thanks Christine. Your advice is very clear, straightforward and to the point. I did move on with someone else and now I’m alone again and back to thinking about my ex all the time. I have been in radio silence for almost one year though, so I do have that going for me. But I haven’t pulled back energetically at all. Sometimes I feel like more of my mental energy is focused on him than it would be if we weren’t in no contact, because I’m compensating for the fact that he’s not in my life anymore. Anyway, after watching this video, I know that the next step is actually moving on again. It’s not giving up hope. It’s opening my life and my mind up to the different ways he could or could not come back. Yes I want to be with someone who wants and is ready to be with me. And if it’s not my ex right now I need to move on. It doesn’t preclude the future. It creates the energetic space for life to flow again. Thanks! ❤

[@jordanjohnson9032]

Idk about this, it feels somewhat subjective. Namely because there’s always the chance that they never will come back. To genuinely move on is good, but I feel someone will take this as to try and win them back, instead of just trying ur best to move on.

[@franciskoomson7312]

Thanks a lot, Christine.

[@Whoismikejones25]

This is so good. Thank you for sharing your personal story. My ex is extremely attractive (to me at least) and I had thoughts that I wont meet anyone as beautiful. I will as you did. I will find someone better its my mission.

[@LatvjuAvs]

20 years :D Anyway, I am trying to do speed-recovery thing, I don't want to feel like in a nightmare for few years. Thanks, your messages are amazing!

[@AdamJamesEarlyChasebliss-ru8tq]

The relationship I had with a man for 15 years, I got that when I STOPPED TRYING

[@sydluthor]

My ex partner has blocked me. So I have already walked as, and building a better life without her. If she unblocks me, I'm not interested in communicating with her at all

[@buddyandgeorge]

Being a person trying to keep someone, sounds to me as being a stalker, or something else which could be used against. Using such a thought process, could wind someone in a place not wanted to be in. Accepting the truth allows me to place said person in the memory category. Ergo, moving on.

[@madebyhan]

wow. i've been watching all the no contact videos by dudes and thinking, yeah but it doesn't work when it's two women though. thank you. this is exactly what i needed to hear for me to know it can apply to me too.

[@cj2144]

how do you know if they still have feelings or care for you after they broke up with you?

[@AdamJamesEarlyChasebliss-ru8tq]

If it's CAUSED you to feel bad, ....and it doesn't feel good *righ! Now!* !!!!!!!! Then you must!! Cast that person to HISTORY. For!! Get!!!!!!! All about him/her! ....an excellent don't leap into thinking about/trying about getting someone new, at allllllll.

[@rayejohn79rj11]

Thanks so much...and I love your accent

[@Cat-el4td]

Does this work if an ex bf who was unforgiving and wanted to remain friends but the ex gf declined and went no contact ?

[@Edwinm-j9g]

Could it backfire?

[@LovedontPaythebills-z9t]

I was begging and pleading with my ex for months and it pushed her so far away, she’s fallen into another man’s arms and ended up living with him. She called me to meet up a few days after I was constantly calling, and we did. We had a dinner out at a restaurant and dropped her home. She called me the following day and invited me round, we got it on. Couple days later, I’m told that she is going to give the other guy a shot because he has put in a lot of effort to be worth the opportunity with her and she wants to give it a try with him and that what happened between us the other night didn’t happen. It’s strange because she has cheated on her current boyfriend with me and he will never know! What is likely to happen now that I haven’t contacted her since she told me she wants to give it a try with him in comparison to how I was acting before?

[@kszwomcszkaszky3291]

Hahahaha. You are so lost

[@55maltesers]

What if you don't want them back but they feel this stuff anyway?

[@michelleribeiro3121]

True

[@malcolmcouturier6993]

Why would you want someone who left you back? It sounds like an ego filled manipulation tactic.

[@OfficialReckM8]

If you feed your ego, it’s much easier to move on. Like if you start working out and you look at yourself in the mirror and you think “Damn, I’m not half bad looking. Maybe there is a chance I can find someone who sees the same thing.” But also if you get your ex to miss you, that’s also a hell of a boost in confidence. You just have to know what to do in that situation. Do you go back to her/him? Or do you use that confidence boost to push them away and focus on someone else that gives a damn about you?

[@malcolmcouturier6993]

@@OfficialReckM8 only one is actually healthy for you while the other is manipulative.

[@OfficialReckM8]

@@malcolmcouturier6993 Manipulative to who? You or your ex that broke up with you?

[@AdamJamesEarlyChasebliss-ru8tq]

1. Accept it, that he's not coming back, 100%. 2. Even accept that you might NOT meet some new! Today! As well!!!

[@Love_laugh_happy]

How about a video about a situationship… not together but u know… and they force u to ‘dump’ them when really it was their actions

[@MyMarko84]

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