DATING ONE VS DATING MULTIPLE!!! || HCPOD

[@Thegreatdon2023]

For someone who is proud to say is a long-time fan of this show, I’d say that Poet brings more positive vibes these days… it’s good to see! 💪🏾

[@fahemabegum8314]

Yeahhh I hearrr thattt - he use to be soo aggi back in the day

[@aprillll96]

the way poet's energy has evolved these past few years is beautiful to see. he seems lighter in his spirit and I love that for him

[@ithappens3370]

He's been reading comments for sure

[@bbbbbbbbbb0]

I really agree with Poet; as you get older you're no longer placed in environments where you're around people everyday unless you work a 9-5, but even then the options at work may be little to none. So going straight into it with someone via online dating, at a party, etc is risky because both of you are only going to put your best foot forward. So the idea of fostering natural environments in order to get to know someone is actually a good way to help you make a better judgement of them before taking things further.

[@skyexmonique]

Yeah but regardless in the pursuit of getting to know somebody that you like your putting your "best foot forward" your not showing them all your flaws and bad traits off the rip even if the environment is natural. So unless your strictly friends for years with no other intentions and then just happen to fall, I can't see how this works because the moment people are aware of an mutual attraction to each other, behaviours change whether your aware or not.

[@jzen1032]

Margs knows how to pick a wife 😉. Poets in the metaverse. Chuckie will make a great husband, when he finds his intellectual equal.

[@michaelcorleone7598]

Dating in 2023 is an absolute mess.

[@ryanstrafe9474]

Why? stop following trend. Give me a reason. Infact give me a couple chai

[@x12-y8v]

I think it's sick

[@josephfofana2996]

U clowns will say anything 🤣.

[@1996PURE]

🤝

[@CatEyesKiki]

Facts

[@kevin084life]

YES MARGS!!! First time on the show we appreciate it 🙏🏾

[@galaxywolfplays863]

He’s been on b4

[@andypandy1114]

Defo not gigs first time he used to always be in like 3 years ago

[@kimmiek_kala]

Margs is actually quite layered and complex...

[@acethestrange5703]

wtf did you think?

[@kanthony9154]

He don't play by the f... rules

[@beammeupscottyny]

I love him

[@hmmemz1654]

He’s intelligent

[@PJ-po7fu]

He's hood but good.. he's basically got Chuckie intelligence, and poets toxicity wrapped up in a street man's pov. Love it

[@rukshanakhanum9755]

I enjoyed this episode a lot. 3 men who have different views in dating, love,companionship etc. very interesting. Absolutely loved margs on this. You should have him more on the podcast.

[@4lifegunner]

Margs was talking facts, but the way he says things is too funny 🤣💯

[@MA-ox5jl]

I agree with Chuckie 💯 online dating ruined dating in general and no one really knows how to work on making a relationship strong because they have too many options kmt.

[@ryzmckenzie]

Dating multiple just seems stressful. Focus on 1 and actually try to connect. If it goes well congratulations if it doesn't we move lol. Nowadays too many people have the "grass might be greener on the other side" mentality

[@bathroomdiaries5393]

love me some margs...he's keeping it real about the dating situation ...take people out get to know them

[@ViewtifulVideos]

"You can find your own way no matter how that looks like..." I really needed to hear that right now

[@youheard03]

I love margs. It’s criminal this is his first time on the pod. BRAZY

[@PJ-po7fu]

It's deffo not his first time on hc

[@nekaneeks8627]

Poet needs to be on every podcast...I have the biggest grin when he's on here. He's renk 😄😄but I love him ❤️

[@Kasanova2x]

Man like margs. Still remember listening to my man in secondary school days. In regards to the social media ting, 100% you need a team. Every KZbinr and content creator you see who are successful have teams behind the scenes. The lone wolf only makes it so far. No behaviour brand got crazy potential with margs as the face.

[@davidjohnson7497]

OH MY DAYZ!!! I have been waiting for Chuckie and Poet to have BIG MARGS from the EAST SIDE!!! on here on the couch!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@niamhoshea5538]

Great episodes the ''relationships'' convo was refreshing!! People make things and take things too complicated! Do what makes you happy, times have changed life goals are no longer marriage, kids and babies that's not it!! Big up having margs on we need him and loons on No behaviour x HC would be lit 😂😂😂

[@coleyj1340]

Who else zoomed in on the window to pree what the girl looked like that was talking 😂

[@carameldarling2980]

All these semantics are why the dating scene is in the gutter lool, everyone's got their own definition of dating/linking/courting/talking/vibing etc. Paradox of choice also has a lot of people in a chokehold

[@manlikesaam-4704]

38:07 poets face 😂😂😂 Margs made it worse by saying cocktails

[@Mayaninha]

He got turned on what you meaaaan he is Biting his lip😭

[@deezyldn]

Im glad these two light skinned niggaz linked up. Margs and poet are like pinky and the brain lol I’m joking but I could see them having good chemistry

[@starishbee]

Looool Chuckie seemed obsessed with Margs being on road

[@HBPTV1]

Is chuckle alright health wise. He been coughing for 3 episode straight. We care bro

[@andredrayton5668]

Noticed. My sister has been coughing continuously off & on since October and it’s got me worried. I’m like…you still got this cough!?

[@HBPTV1]

@@andredrayton5668 make her go see the GP bro. Health is Wealth

[@inouemakoto8564]

Poet out here scouting gyal on various matchdays

[@jasminbrown7180]

“You can’t serve someone else” 😂😂

[@AP.lovetoAll]

Agreed‼️ When interested in a real relationship, it’s not about maybe that other person has and perhaps that other other person can 😐🤔 talk about unsure core, but more so lack of faith. Get right. Love to all. Bless.

[@hoodiemelo84]

We need more of the evil killy here. Good episode mandem 👏🏾

[@youngrottweiler6163]

Loons for poet and this would of been a sensational conversation.

[@TheRealCSB]

Oh hell!!! Margs, Po, and Chuckie!

[@raerae6824]

Agree with Chuckie. Let's be honest, you can't date multiple people and give them all your best effort. It's like trying to do multiple things at once; something has to give. You are taking away from the energy and focus that could really help you progress with a particular person; and people often do this out of fear.

[@AP.lovetoAll]

True convos ah dis‼️ From NYC, love to all. Bless.

[@danielwilson9397]

This was a classic episode cant front nuff true talking and a lot of funny joke from margs poet and chuckle we need a pt 2 🫡 salute to you man.😮😄🤣🔥

[@UpTopBoss100]

I member I always used to see chuckie in Ealing grabbing his little healthy snacks, haven’t seen you in a while bro

[@51CK33]

LEGENDARY EPISODE LET LOVE LEAD US MAN TO HAPPINESS, YES MARGS YES PO AND YES CHUCKIE GO ONA ADVENTURE WITH THIS TOPIC I WISH U MAN DID DATING CALL INS WHEN IS UNCLE PAIN COMIN ON THE POD WITH MARGS DAN AND PO PLEAAAAASE

[@dollyrevenge98]

These 2 could pass for brothers. Great episode!

[@cocox8897]

Love Margs being on the podcast, well overdue! However Poet says some good things but does the most at times it’s just annoying, makes it feel childish

[@fahemabegum8314]

Is it just me or when margs is speaking the sound low?

[@thatguy2.09]

These man ain't scared of STDs.

[@missNCW]

Men aren’t. Eww

[@ShadowMoon96]

This episode gonna be legendary Should of got loonz too

[@msuni3915]

Chucks just a suggestion if want to talk about what really happens in sex.. from what your saying you want to know what happens scientifically to the body, whilst Margs was giving examples of what the girls were saying spiritually. I think both prospectives will be magnificent. As a spiritual person, the soul does leave your body one time after you die but the energy remains in the world(in terms of you will still feel there presence in the home or where they worked etc if your that intuned cause some people just operate on subconscious)and that’s the energy that remains in you when you and that person are consistent with the sex and if its sporadic then it’s a hit and miss but when you like someone and you spend time with them a lot, even friends, you FEEL their energy, it’s not just a physical connection anymore, it’s a bond. For me something that happens a lot, I can think of someone and I call them and there like “ I was just thinking about you” energy is powerful, especially as some who originated for Africa, that shit is real. Picture this, your in a room full of 1000 people but that one particular girl stands out, her energy and your energy are exchanging words, you just need to figure whether it’s lust genuine interest or deception.

[@sharonleitch7157]

Check in with the woman you had on with Koy, had recently became a mum and spoke about the yoni energy, she breifly spoke about the concept of sexual energy exchange. Maybe she has some updates and new additions to share. Check out some tantric spiritual teachers, who relate to manifesting using sexual energy exchange xxx

[@jordypord]

Bare fuckery going on in the world and you wanna ask about sexual energy exchange smh

[@honeybrown6501]

Kamasutra is great too

[@shhh2583]

Nonsense 🤣

[@angelicvibrations261]

Margs and Chuckie talking the most sense. Dating should be intentional. Unfortunately, attitudes toward modern dating is a mess. Poet’s views seem childish

[@robashley9876]

Love Margs man 🙏🙏

[@TazerBlack]

THIS EPISODE IS TOP QUALITY!!!!!

[@nasriarms3696]

whos trying to pree the ting through the reflection LOL

[@WJones-jf8mf]

I now see why me and men keep having an issue. Women need time guys, we can’t just go the next day. No lie, I’m usually already doing something. Give me a couple days to see you.

[@ellllyjm]

1:00:30 Margs spoke nothing but facts here 🤣

[@kevinthompson4127]

Conversation was lit alot of honesty 💯👏🏿👏🏿

[@denzz_0938]

It was only right to get Margs from the east side👏🏾👏🏾

[@ruud6828]

Found out about chuckie through vice, and Vuj from copa 90, found out bout poet and margs through filthy

[@FLYSTARTVLONDON]

Man said one hour 😂

[@MrD-tu3hp]

I think Chuckle was right we men love fantasies too much.

[@Dwayne3007]

Another classic episode 💯

[@fafasakaloking6080]

This would not be a problem for a high value woman because a high value woman is not texting you. Asking If she can see you, next week. You are one to do that the texting & arranging of next week date. We don’t do the chasing.

[@GZMJr]

Preach.

[@SuperFreshprince007]

I hear it but we’re also all equal in this life. Putting these titles on ourselves like “high value” for what lol. If you like someone & the energy is being reciprocated properly then calm. If it’s not, they’re not the right person for you! No need for games & waiting for one person to message or show more interest. Should always be even

[@GZMJr]

@@SuperFreshprince007 If that system works well for you, then I am very happy to hear it. I personally like to take initiative and use my energy with intent. My family has a rich history of being go-getters & with this energy, I found myself a high value woman. She’s got a double masters degree, working on her PhD, funny, out going, family oriented & loves to travel, just like I do. I wouldn’t have found her, cuffed her now be living happily if I was waiting for her to text me back when we met but good luck to you & that way of operating. P.S. Nothing on planet earth is even or equal.

[@SuperFreshprince007]

@@GZMJr different strokes for different folks! Happy for your success in finding a companion & wish the two of you all the best 🙏🏾 My issue is a lot of women claim to be “high value” but all they really are is confused lol. All they want is just “soft life”. I still believe that effort should be equal. I don’t mean effort in terms of planning dates etc but just intentions & motive. Gives best chance for something to work when you’re on the same page

[@GZMJr]

@@SuperFreshprince007 💯% intentions and motivations must be on the same page to result in success especially if you want the relationship to last. All I can say is you dictate what and who you attract. Keep working on yourself and the right lady will appear on your way just make sure to move with intent when she does appear.

[@columbablango5660]

I am hearing margs though, the things for peace, stay in your own lane. Everybody has their time.

[@kevin084life]

47:13 Girls gas about that ‘serious’ shit

[@elchoco3559]

Can you just snitch LOOOOL Margs is too cold

[@TulipaBigDipa]

Ngl, you man need to advance your topics a bit, can’t be talking about things 18 yr olds talk about. Some of your line of questioning is very childish. This is deadbeat mentality icl. Let me finish the pod then I’ll add an edit opinion. EDIT: To answer Chuckie, in French theres is a phrase ‘La petite mort’ which means ‘the little death’ in reference to loss post orgasm. You’re right, there is a likening to death when it comes to orgasms.

[@ZainabAmina]

I agree, really sad to hear men over the age of 35 have such immature opinions about life and relationships.

[@TulipaBigDipa]

@@ZainabAmina exactly, they need to evolve. Sometimes I believe men tend to have stunted growth… like overall. Unfortunately, it becomes a bit dull doesn’t it…… & I’ve been watching these lot for a while now too.

[@ZainabAmina]

@@TulipaBigDipa I think the male podcast community is over all toxic. It's one big echo chamber of trash opinions.

[@kwameopoku3576]

@@ZainabAmina same as the blk women ones

[@kwameopoku3576]

Ur absolutely right dese man shud b discussing how they getting mortgage’s advancements in salary Problems us men go through

[@nagamo_5368]

Im very nonchalant with gyal but u see when I care bro im done out here !

[@adamelmino8359]

Chuckie agreeing with Mario Winans - 42:15

[@tailaniofficial]

Soul ties is what takes place.

[@itsnadss9142]

How can you take anyone seriously if you’re talking to multiple please ? If you can entertain multiple people at once maybe you should be in a polygamous relationship

[@beammeupscottyny]

*polyamorous

[@andrewthomas4641]

what's the difference between reasoning and arguing

[@PJ-po7fu]

Reasoning is discussing your opinions with no pressure to agree. Arguing isn't

[@teexo678]

Loved this episode 🔥😂

[@andredrayton5668]

I know this is a late notice comment, but please, please please can you have a conversation on 58:27 ! It’s a MUST! Soul ties are REAL cousin!

[@thatguy2.09]

Keep it simple. It's either Linking Or Relationship Dating is vague

[@rygetit811]

i got here from vice naira marley so i get it it's interesting seeing what these guys do

[@tailaniofficial]

When they find their wives, they’ll be able to say what they’re doing next week and then pin something into the diary. So if you are replied to with this nonsense; cut it off.

[@itzsmissagain93]

Margs sounds like he needs a pa

[@bountyhunterlee]

Margs and poet be the same guys sometimes.

[@FLYSTARTVLONDON]

😂 chuckie is hilarious

[@mishanelson5145]

This is super wild to me … do you guys even like women ?

[@ZainabAmina]

They obviously don’t

[@andredrayton5668]

Come on. You hear one or two things you personally don’t like, all of a sudden they don’t like women?

[@kwameopoku3576]

I dont hate u all shame it’s woman’s world now

[@missNCW]

@@andredrayton5668 men do that, get their heart broken one or two times, suddenly they know every woman’s intentions.

[@K3oniii]

Bms need at least 3 days in advance more time the kids are with us so we dont share the same spontaneous benefits as yall.

[@Ace707-c6w]

Consistency!

[@PJ-po7fu]

How am I properly crushing on margs tho? 😍

[@mdb7442]

Margs way overdue

[@cp_abloh]

I wish poet got left outa this one man

[@kanthony9154]

Margssss🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jav4163]

You guys should rank the top 5 dancehall artiste

[@jjjjokok7132]

Daisy posh

[@pudddingpie]

Love when Poets here ❤

[@FLYSTARTVLONDON]

❤️💛💚🖤

[@Torriotorres]

36th!

[@msdeangelox]

First ❤

[@msmaglorie4720]

First! 🥇

[@tjm5065]

First

[@GZMJr]

The homophobia & those little off jokes are why sponsors don’t think this pod. is brand friendly. 38:27 Don’t lie to a lady about how many people you are seeing it’s not rocket science, if she f’s with the vibe she won’t mind & if you can’t tell her what you’re doing your ego is running your world & lying is corny. 39:12 Chuckie is right don’t be a maybe guy you’ll 39:36 never win the raffle… Also don’t do things because you’re friends are doing things focus on yourself that kind of thought process leads to kids without a stable home. The only woman in the room didn’t get a single word in but when she did she was given one thing to say & she was sexualised straight away. 📉😕

[@hisirihwyd]

You're being sensitive lol

[@missNCW]

@@hisirihwyd this is a pod where people talk about their opinions. One person comments and you call it sensitivity. Okay. Well you’re being a hypocrite. Grow up

[@missNCW]

@@hisirihwyd keep this energy for men when they have anything to say. Make sure you call it sensitivity.

[@missNCW]

@@hisirihwyd poet clearly sexualised the girl the only 2 times she spoke. And you acting like this person’s comment isn’t accurate? His behaviours is pathetic, for a man who claims to get so many women. So why can’t he control himself from the childish comments? You don’t see any other men doing that.

[@AP.lovetoAll]

Agreed‼️ When interested in a real relationship, it’s not about maybe that other person has and perhaps that other other person can 😐🤔 talk about unsure core, but more so lack of faith. Get right. Love to all. Bless.