Cia Yawm Saub Mam Qhia. 8/8/2021

[@maoleekue1468]

qhov tseeb ces koj yeej xav xav yuav koj tus kwv thiab na ! nrog koj tus kwv tu siab tshaj li o ! cov niag niam tij ua pheej Kam yuav tus kwv no los yeej khib xuaj kawg !

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Lady, what fo you expect. You are his brother's wife with 5 children. He's like your son. Shame on you. No matter what the elders say, you can refuse but you needed a husband. You did not give him a chance to choose his life. You and the father in law forced him. You will receive karma too for your part.

[@monkeybanana9269]

Actually according to her, it wasn't even her that agreed. Her BIL was the one that agreed because his crazy daddy was going to kill himself if he didn't marry his SIL. The only fault are the crazy old folks and crazy ass Hmong tradition. I really don't get all the threats of suicide back then. Shouldn't they be scared of what will happen to them in the afterlife if they take their own life? In most beliefs, suicide is the same as murder.

[@lovepeace9635]

You write English and yet couldn't comprehend the Hmong story she's telling. Like the other comment, crazy as5 fil tried to kill himself so son accepted in marrying sil. 🤦🏻‍♀️ She's definitely not going to receive karma for she's done nothing wrong but only stayed and loved that cheating bastard til he died on his death bed.

[@nkaujhmoobusa2116]

Haub yaus,,,,,cov niag niam tij uas twb muaj 5 tug me nyuam lawm es tseem yuav kam kam txis rau tej kwv nraug xwb. Koj yog ib niag niam tij nav koj tseem yuav tus kwv koj siab phem cas koj thiab koj niag txiv yawg neb tsis sib txis kiag xwb mas. Hmoob ntxim ntxub. Koj tseem yuav npam thiab os. Vim koj niag pog laus tseem yuav yuav koj tus kwv hluas hluas pab koj txaj muag dhau.

[@maitonglee6398]

Raws li kuv mloog mas koj yeej xav yuav koj tus kwv thiab koj twb tsis yig npaum li cas. Koj tus txiv yawg yeej cog lus yuav niam yau rau koj tus txiv lawm los koj yeej tseem xav2 yuav nws.

[@vimdabtsi]

Can't blame it all on your husband because it seem like you "do" wanted to marry him in the beginning but won't admit it. If you don't want to marry him like you say, you should have stand your ground til the end.

[@itsmaichee]

I do think it was a lot easier said than done back then. I think she too was just trying to survive without trying to lose her face and still hope to have family to help support her when her died. :/

[@maximuszone8721]

@@itsmaichee poor

[@User-h6t6s]

It’s not her fault is the two Cheater fault only. She did said she doesn’t want to married him too, but she got no choice. If she choose to be a knotty person and run off. she will loose all her son. She have 5 son. In Hmong culture I pretty sure her father in law will keep all 5 of them. If I was her I will choose to stay with my children too. Plus they told him that they will allow him to married his girlfriend to be a second wife. It was his girlfriend fault for coming to early to married him too. She should Waite for a month to married him and be his second wife. If she miss him that much too. So can’t blame the brother wife. She agree for him to marry a second wife too. Both of them choose this so they will pay a price.

[@gnavlove]

@@User-h6t6s I agree with you💯

[@TracyLovee]

@@itsmaichee not true! There was a women in another story a while back who fought for herself not to be marry like that and won. But in hmong culture people hated her because she had no husband and yet she made it to the usa with all her kids living a single life because she stood her ground!!! So thats a bunch of BS!

[@hmooblubneejpok]

Kj txiv yawg neb muaj txim txaum ib yam thb mog txhob rawm z siab o mog

[@pkcyang2910]

Yog kuv mas kuv tsis kam yuav tej kwv ib sim neej tseev leejtwg hais li. Xu siab dhau lawm. Tsis tas khib li os niam tais aw. Nws yog koj tus kwv xwb. Sim neej no cas nej ho ua taus neej uake. Yus tej kwv los hamtsis zoo li yus tej nus niam txiv ib plab yug xwb vim nws twb yog yus tus txiv tus kwv kiag ntawm xubntiag xwb. Kuv tsis to tau tias cas cov niam tij ho kam yuav tej kwv, tej txiv laus ho tsis xu siab yuav tej niam hluas li.

[@colleenchan9872]

Yog kev npam yeej muaj tiag tiag li leej twg tsis ntseeg los xij peem nyias ua ces nyias ris nyias xwb thov kom txhob raug rau cov neeg dawb huv xwb!!

[@onglee3292]

It’s the og fault for not letting him married his gf. He is wrong for messing around with a married women period. Both cheater will have to pay for it. Karma.

[@cgggzcgggz7551]

จะคมคมคำสอนในห้องจตตจจะติดอยู่ที่บ้านก็ได้แต่อย่ามากพอจึงได้จัดให้จะตจะยังบทบลจบัวหลวงจำกัดขออภัยที่ต้องมีคนบอกลา

[@thihoavang8481]

Kuv nxub ncov niam tij es nceg muas lus siab xav yuav tug kwv thiab yog tiag yug zoo tiag mas yuav tsug tsis kaj yuav mas yug thiab yog tug zoo tshawm yog leeg twg los yees tus siab heev

[@maryly09]

Idk, but if i got forced to marry a bil like this and i don't love him, i don't think i would be jealous or care if he cheats or doesn't love me.

[@semicharmedlife]

She may not have loved him at first, but after having kids together there is obviously some love there. She's not the one having extramarital affairs. She's still committed to him even if it was a forced marriage.

[@nkaujhouathao8285]

But she shouldn't feel any type of way. Because she knew that he never loved her. Knew that he didn't want her. The only person that she should be mad at his her father n law.

[@kellielee9829]

Right! It should just be in name. There was another story the brother was only 12 and she already had like 3 kids. She had to raise the bil to be her husband and she got jealous when he remarried.

[@Behappy-mj4xc]

Zaj no muab mloog los cas yuav pab tus txiv tsev no tu siab ua luaj li os lawv...... Tej niam tej txiv cas yuav siab phem ua luaj rau tej me nyuam. Es yus yuav muab yus tus tub rau txim sawm neej no txog ntua hnub tuag es ho mus rau nruab dab es dab ho rau txim rau yus tus tub aub......cov laus no cas yuav ntse ua luaj li tiag lau...... lub txim no tsis tsim nyog rau txim rau koj tus txiv li no li nawb tsim nyog rau txim rau koj tus txiv yawg neb 2 tug laus ntawm neb tshaj plaws li nawb neb los yeej yuav muaj kev npam ib yam thiab vim neb 2 tug laus qhuab yuam tus hluas no thiaj ua rau nws lub neej thiaj yuam kev tag li no thov lub ntuj muab kev ncaj ncees rau tus txiv tsev no thiab mog vim tsis yog tim nws tim cov laus xwb tos niaj hnub niam no es tej me nyuam no hos tsis mloog tej niag laus no hais li lawm los tej niag laus no yeej xuaj dhaub heev lawm

[@zt6399]

Sister koj zaj story mas zoo heev tias koj ua siab ntev thiab koj ua yog lawm uas koj coj koj tus menyuam laub dab cia koj txiv nyob rau nws lub txim.

[@somman9639]

Cia thaub laus tuag zoo dua cia yus tuag los sas ! Ghov nyuag yuag tua xwb ais txawm siv yeem kiag cais yog koj twb maj ua nyuj laus noj zaub mos kawg li loj twb paub tias muab yuav cia kom tau pab tub xwb ais nws mam musyuav lwm tus no ne koj yeej xav tias yuav tau tsawg hnoob los xij no ntag .

[@mayvaungh5377]

AMEN to dah!! Karma is real...be true to yourself👍

[@panghouathao4723]

Its sad that they didn't get to be together but it was the gf decision. He told to be his second wife and she still refused. If she really loves him that much that maybe being second wife is better than not being together at all. She rather married the uncle instead then why she is acting like this. The uncle is innocent and victim for her stupid plot.

[@yl7495]

Niam tais, koj thiab koj txiv yawg neb txhaum 50% thiab nawb. Vim neb txiav luag kev hlub thiajli muaj tej teebmeem nov.

[@penelopecabana8834]

I don't blame this 2 lover. I blame all of you guys for not allowing them to be together. I don't think that's a sin. The sin should be everybody else too. The heart wants what it want😭

[@yl7495]

Agree with you 100%.

[@tubvajchannel1935]

ີຫ ຫາ ຫາ. ນັໂໂປ໑ປປກຜນນຂຂໂຂ

[@xyozajlustxhawbzogchannel7443]

Agree with you

[@joycelychanel5331]

Yes it is sin, his dad is the one, also both spouse was innocent.

[@McBride999]

His dad is 100% at fault for threatening the son that he’ll eat poison if the son doesn’t marry his sister in law. Shame on the dad for ruining his sons life.

[@Loveistheanswer0012]

Tim cov laus xwb os. Tsis yog pham li nej xav

[@ginamoua9989]

At the end of the day you were the one who stayed with the txiv dev so you just his niam dev. The end.

[@fulovelyly9161]

Ntxhub hmoob txoj niag kev uas niam tij txis kwv... nej tsuas yog xav txog nej txoj kev zoo siab xwb... nej twb tsis paub tias nyuaj thiaj lwj koj tus kwv ntawd siab npaum li cas...yav tom ntej no mas yog leej twg yaum kom niam tij yuav kwv mas cia tus ntawd yuav kiag xwb nawb..... nws tsis yog tus txhaum nawb tus txhaus yog koj txiv yawg.... cas thaum ntawd tsis cia koj yuav txiv yawg naj?!.....

[@xayxiong1061]

Yog lawm!

[@Mai1nOnly]

I understand you thought he can love you because you gave your heart up to him especially after two kids but you should understand his hurt too. No one would want to marry their brother’s wife well normal humans haha

[@nenglorvue5117]

Ućvvvvvvvvvvvvll

[@kouavang5928]

Tib cov neeg ruam tham lawv lub neej ruam xwb.

[@chervang6550]

Xav mas yeej yog tim koj thiab twb koj koj tus kwv xwb es koj tseem yuav thiab.

[@maylovang1880]

Niag txiv yawg no tseem muaj lub chim thiab, tsis tsim nyog chim rau koj tus tub li vim koj niag thaub laus ntawm koj, koj tus tub thiaj ua tsis tau ib tug neeg zoo ntag lau.

[@lasung3500]

Ntuj aw.... 5 tug me nyuam diam yuav ua cas muaj tau lub siab yuav yus tug kwv. Xyov cas cov laus no e yuav ua tau ntxim tu siab ua luaj li os.

[@user-ng5zq1cf3k]

These were back in the day, so sad to be pressure and forced. Glad it’s changed and this is America.

[@yogkuv7218]

Zaj no ua kev kawm rau peb nyias zam nyias txoj kev txhob mus lob kev Txhaum rau saum tau hau

[@maypayang7990]

Kuv tus qub txiv los yeej ua kiag li no thiab os. Thaum kawg nkawv cia li mus sib yuav kiag lawm. Tiam sis kuv yeej xav tias cia lub ntuj mam li txiav txim rau nkawv ib hnub twg xwb thiab no os .Leej twg tsis ntsai lub ntuj daim av los nyias ua nyias ,nyias mam ev nyias xwb.

[@saykaomee]

Cia txiv yawg tuag ces tsis muaj tej teeb meem no. Koj los yeej ntshaw yuav nws kawg thiaj li nrog nws nyob nyob nws tuag kiag.

[@layathoj3316]

Cov niag laus thaum ub ma phem thiab txhob txwm ua rau tu nyab nraus xwb na

[@seeyang72]

Tos niam no poj niam laus pheej rov mus yuav tub mos los vim thaum ub tej laus pheej muab niam tij yuam rau kwv mos ab yuav ne

[@vangxai3355]

peb cov hmoob tseg txoj kev muab niam tij txis kwv thiab lau tej tus poj niam es zoo li yus niam es yus yeej tsis xav hlub ua cas cov laus mas tsuav yog nws tau tus hluas lawm xwb ces pheej muaj tej tub yuam yuav cov pog laus tsis yog tim koj tus txiv tim koj thiab koj txiv yawg xwb

[@yeejheev8187]

This guy should go, "dad, koj cov tshuaj npaws lab nev? koj noj ib nraab kuv noj ib nraab es wb tuag uake..."

[@QSL.]

Wow! So there is a god and devil!

[@delilahyang8061]

you reap what you sowed

[@leexiong5741]

Yuav noj tshuaj los cia nws noj nws tuag tseg mas. Nov yog cov yawg hmoob hlwb 75.

[@paolor2956]

Luag twb tsis xav tau yus txoj kev hlub, es tsis tas hlub los yeej tsis ua li cas.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Neeg liam neeg siab nyoos siab phem yeej npam li ntawm zoo kawg, Neeg phem yeej Tsi tau zoo neej ua kiag

[@lisvaj7375]

I think if I lived back in these days, I would be the meanest and most outspoken person OGs would hate. I would be the person who never listens to anyone cause these customs were ridiculous. I’m glad these days are over!

[@nkaujhmoobtushaibhaib4677]

Tim neb ob leeg thaum xub thawj lawm ua neeg nyob yog tsis yuav ces tsis yuav xwb kev tawm muaj ntau cas tsis ua naw....😏

[@caaspasvang7427]

Tus txiv teb cov neej tsa tau zoo kawg👏👏

[@keith23615]

Thaub no yog txiv dev 🐕 tsis yog txiv tib neeg

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Muab mloog los mas zoo li koj yeej xav2 yuav tus kwv thiab vim txiv yawg twb hais tias lwm hnub mas yuav niam yau rau tus tub no ne koj yeej yeem koj as,

[@cocopha5778]

Npam tiag tiag laiv yom

[@maipha8560]

I guess there's such a thing as a 1st and 2nd husband. People have choices, choose wisely.

[@วัลลีเเซ่โล่]

hlub koj tus txiv kawg

[@txhuazaum]

Bad person on earth makes a bad ghost spirit. Can never leave a good person alone

[@mv.3dfsm715]

Muab xav ma yog nej cia koj txiv yawg noj tshuaj tuag thaum tsi tau muab neb sib txi yuav tsi muaj tej teeb meem no nkawv lo nkawv txoj kev sib hlub tsi sib tau nkawv yeej lwj2 siab tuag ku thiab 😥

[@OppoA-rx3yk]

Me niam ntsuab teev thov txim Kuv saib koj nyuam qhuav laus ib yam kuv thiab cas koj txawm siv hais lus yuam kev zoo ib yam kyv lawm thiab os yuam Thiab tau ob xyoos no mloog koj hais lus zoo koj lub suab txawv lawm puas yog koj khwv heev yog khwv ๆ ho tso hauj lwm tseg es coj tus me tub txiv rov tuaj ncig ua si peb thaib thiab tim nplog so kom pov khawv tso mam ho rov lis khwv dua tim MK no nawj

[@monayang9720]

Vim nws hlub nws tus hluas nkauj no tiag2 ne nej muab lub txim rau nkawv tsis tau thiab kom nws mus hais nws txiv daws lub txim no na vim nws txiv yuam nws yuav niam tij xwb es nws thiaj tsim tau kev npam loj npaum no kom nws txiv cia li lav xwb twb yog tim nws ntag

[@dinayoung4797]

tiam no ces npam sai sai lawm nawb

[@mouavang5380]

Koj twb 5 tus mu nyuam es news yog tub hluas xwb es yuav Cas na Tim koj xwb o

[@bliathao5878]

Cov niag laus thaum ub mas ntxim ntxub kawg nkaus tsua yog npav muab niam tij txis kwv xwb os lawv aws

[@tinayang2268]

so sad. Its all because of them OGs fault for stupid rules.

[@hlubyang4072]

Nws ua zoo nws nyob xwb lo cov tom qab ntsib teeb meem thiab tsis ncaj ncees kiag li

[@lcvwj2949]

I don’t blame him. Hmong tradition rules are stupid and sick. I been there once. It’s a deep depression. I rather die then marry my sister in law. That’s how how I save myself from it.

[@chuckyang3821]

Ntuj kaj txoog hnub tawm plaws Tim npoo Roob🌤, 🕺hmoob niam leej ntxhais, hmoob leej tub nim ua neej laus li no lawm los nws puas tseem yog koj tus qub nraug hmoob 🤣🤣 Ntuj kaj txoog hnub nim Ci ntuas tuaj puv Toj, hmoob niam ntxhais li koj nim mus ua neej muaj tub muab nyab, ntxhais muaj vauv los hmoob txiv leej tub haj tseem nco nco koj 😜

[@konglor9497]

Nej mus de txiv qhov twg ua cas ncw thiab zoo nkauj ua luaj ntxim qab kawg li

[@hmongsiabzoo]

She cared about him but realized that he doesn’t love her and to me she feels indifferent. She just want to put it out there that Karma/kev npam is real. Especially if you do it to someone who is innocent. Especially the ex-gf’s husband, he didn’t deserve what they did to him. Like someone said you reap what you sow.

[@tsimmuajchannel7122]

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[@tsimmuajchannel7122]

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[@MaiMai-ov9pl]

Agreed

[@Loves_DuckSR]

No more forcing our younger son to marry the deceased older son's wife. No more.

[@seanmoua6810]

Lessons: 1. Feeling is very strong. 2. Solve the problem at the beginning and not at the end. This could not resolve the problem with his father. He punished others. 3. Never force any one do things. The consequences are unbearable. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you.

[@Flannelsinxaiy]

Nah the one wrong in it all is the dad who forced his son to marry his sister in law. Relationships between them broke because of this. Elders really think they know better and when the tough gets to shove they wanna kill themselves because nobody wanna listen to them. Shame on the dad. He deserves the karma.

[@maimoua1371]

Cov problems no twisted soo tas nej 4 leeg qhov loj yog niag txiv yawg siab phem ntawm,nawb luag twb g yeem yuav tus poj ntsuam Es tseem yuav muab luag laub thiab

[@minecraftboy2676]

Karma is real! Do the best to be good and kind!

[@puayang2506]

so sad for the lovers... its the ogs fault. i hope thing clear for them so they cn be together in the next life.

[@nalyvallyyang2447]

Kuv muaj 1 zaj thiab but cia nej muab nej cov rau niam ntsuab teev tham kom tag tso kuv mam li muab kuv txoj rau niam ntsuab teev tham. Vim kuv zaj dab neeg tsis tau tas🥺😩😫

[@kellielee9829]

No matter what era I’m in I would never marry my husband’s brother. How can anyone say they don’t have a choice. I heard stories of women who chose not to marry their brother in-law.

[@Unic0rnsfur]

You can say that in this modern Era but back in the days when women have no rights it is easier said then done. Whether you agree or not isn't up to you

[@AprilMay.2023]

This story is very sad but your exhusband did it to himself. What the elders did was wrong but it doesn't justify his actions. You and your family should also go to church. He can come and hurt you guys if you all don't do anything so best to go to Church and help yourself.

[@thanasapkittiweera7841]

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[@bluewhisper5008]

Tib tug tsis npam ces yog koj tus kwv. Nej sawv daws npam tag nhro. Koj muaj 5 tug menyuam es ib tug tub hluas yuav tsis taus koj li os. Yog tuag ces koj kavtsij mus nrog txiv yawg sib hais ua plaub hauv dab teb xwb os. Cas kpj txiv yawg tsis yuav koj ua niam yau nas?

[@leelaiyah789]

Cas cov tub hlob hos tsis pab thiab ma, tsis tsim nyog tus khwv tsa cuab tsa yim rau. Yus tsis yog lawv txiv ces lawm yeej tsis hlub. Kev mob kev keeg tsis yog kev npam tag li os, it's more likely health and diet. Koj lam hais kom zoo koj siab xwb os, neeg ces laus lawm zujzus yeej muab mob os.

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

I believe they deserved the punishment for their evil affair

[@leexiong5741]

There is no nyuj vag teem. The guy is just in stress and ashamed of himself.

[@seximamiyaj8273]

Oyo, lilly aws. Koj yuav sab lo.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

It’s your fault for marry him. He is your brother in laws. He have no love you. You expected him to love him. You guys all have sin not just him.

[@bchang227]

Ua cas zaj no tsis hnov li os?

[@pojxeemvaj8703]

Kuv twb hnov ne. Koj hais tsis hnov suab lov? Hnov zoo kawg.

[@amazinggrace8136]

So what did you do? You listed their bads but didn’t yours. Seems like you had it the worse. If you were a good person this couldn’t possibly happen to you. That’s how karma works right?

[@a2dazgod539]

Some women have no courage, no self-esteem and no self respect that’s why they suffer.

[@cofisher5708]

Hi May, where is this fruit plantation, Florida?

[@suesanchang7082]

Hmoob mas tas ua neej poob qab los vim tej niag laus qias neeg li no. Phem tshaj plaws. Hos tus niam tsev no los cas yuav ntshaw tis kwv ua luaj. Twb laus tag 5 tug mi nyiam lawm los tseem tsis paub txaj muag es tseem kam yuav tus kwv. Koj mas siab phem tshaj. Txhob txwm ua kom tus kws txom nyem siab ntsws xwb. Koj thiab koj txiv yawg haj yam yuav npam loj tshaj vim neb siab phem siab txia ntshav. Neb los yuav tsis tau zoo ib yam. Tseem yuav ntsib kev txom nyem tshaj koj tus kwv. Karma will hit soon.

[@amandavang4747]

Very bad 👎 father in law

[@xengher72]

หมากลำไยน่ากินจังเลยเห็นแล้วน้ำลายไหล

[@MissPeachie]

I kind of feel bad for this woman. Her husband died and was forced to marry his brother. He cheated on her throughout the entire marriage but he wouldn’t divorce her. Him and his ex-girlfriend had the chance to be together again but they chose not to, yet continued the affair. It is their karma. I just don’t get why this woman didn’t leave him. She wasted her whole life with him.

[@starkissed3878]

I agree I told my husband if he doesn't love me anymore let me know so I don't waste my time on him. Everyone deserves love and to be happy this lady didn't get neither.

[@tcmb5061]

Kj ces yog dev xwb o niag niam loj kj thiaj yuav niag txiv dev no lawm xwb

[@thanasapkittiweera7841]

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