I have guy friends who said they would NEVER be with a woman who has kids… then that friend fell in love with a woman that had kids and embraced those kids like his own
@Nerdish9137 ай бұрын
Love hearing things like this ❤
@freeagentgirl237 ай бұрын
@@Nerdish913 guys say what they say BUT when they are IN LOVE WITH YOU they take you and the entire package aka kids, your crazy family, and your pets 😂
@kristysmith25527 ай бұрын
I think about it in terms of ideals. Ideally they say men want women under 30, childless and fit. Some women that don’t fit into that ideal feel no one would want them. But men date and marry outside their ideals all the time when they meet women exceptional in other areas.
@freeagentgirl237 ай бұрын
@@kristysmith2552 💯💯💯
@Tatianarain7 ай бұрын
It’s like Shera says 😂😂
@OrangeMusk-zo3ju7 ай бұрын
To all my ladies: May the Future you let go, bring the Russel of your dreams
@user-gu2pb7km8f5 ай бұрын
😂well stated 🎉
@Handle188807 ай бұрын
Alex is on a higher level than so many of these other weird channels. He understands things from a higher perspective.
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
Awww thank you
@TheDuchessWithNoDuke7 ай бұрын
When he plugs his own plug 😂❤
@Maria-oh1nq7 ай бұрын
he is just catering to women he doesnt believe what he says
@Addease7 ай бұрын
FACTS!!!!
@artlover31207 ай бұрын
To sum it up, make sure you find a man who is genuinely good, to the core like Russell. If the man is good to begin with it will all be easy
@blackgirllovesart7 ай бұрын
A guy knows what he wants RIGHT AWAY. If he says he’s not sure within a couple dates, he’s cappin! If he wants a house he will put a down payment, if he wants a car badly he will take it out the lot, if he wants a specific shoes he will purchase it or find ways to get it. Don’t ever let a man make an excuse on why y’all not together.
@janellinell45527 ай бұрын
Men do not change behavior based on whether or not you're the one. This is Russell's character as a husband, as a man. There are several man who are married and believe their wife is the one but they cheat and they're abusive. They're abusive behavior won't change suddenly if he finds a girl he's more attracted to.
@abenadickson16607 ай бұрын
This!!!!🎉🎉🎉
@Frugal6377 ай бұрын
It sure won’t
@jillianminton85067 ай бұрын
Yup men are predators by nature
@trinigirl78467 ай бұрын
So true. Character and upbringing has a lot to do with how men treat a woman
@navimarlow7 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯💯💯💯
@DhahabuAO7 ай бұрын
For the first time in my life I am experiencing real love and feeling blessed to be with my partner and he feels the same way about me, he is consistent I never really have to initiate contact, it feels easy, no gaps in communication. I have learned that when you meet the right person all those strategies go out of the window, don't be needy, have a busy/your own life, be authentic, have a bit of mystery and it will all be good..
@mariaseidi40237 ай бұрын
Greetings from Germany ,Im very happy for you ,i hope in This 2024 God brings a man like that to me ,i have been strugling for many years now,another thing i look for is a man that interact good with children.
@DhahabuAO7 ай бұрын
I pray you find what you are looking for.
@denisselee65447 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful couple! No games no manipulation. Clear intentions and standards.
@Handle188807 ай бұрын
Men don’t really care about sex when they’re secure and when they see a future with you. Men with integrity and good character don’t focus on that and appreciate a woman controlling the pace. As long as you are affectionate and communicate your desire for them by being friendly, soft, kind you can sustain their interest with that.
@Vintagebarbie737 ай бұрын
Exactly what I have right now❤
@ladyofspa7 ай бұрын
So exact
@creatureofstyle6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I guess he didn't see a future with me then because I did all that and he was super inconsistent
@jibarabicha48537 ай бұрын
It takes a man that is very secure to be this kind stand up guy. A person who doesn’t have this healthy masculinity, feelings of being a protector; will not be able to get past that this child is not their own and they will be inconsistent with the step child throughout the relationship. That’s why it’s safer for most single moms to raise their kids and date later in life.
@abenadickson16607 ай бұрын
It’s so nice to see a positive couple Story. Goes to show the toxic ones outnumbers the good ones, unfortunately . Choose wisely, ladies.
@KOLAkola7 ай бұрын
This the ☝️
@Moszan7 ай бұрын
Also keep in mind that a lot of people are that damn good at masking their true colors.
@samxsara2 ай бұрын
And also we need to notice them when they choose us :)
@Bluntgirly7 ай бұрын
That's very true. Bad men will help you spot a good man QUICK! Really good video! Your points are too real
@inesrezqi32887 ай бұрын
It’s not because he loves ciara so much, it’s because he loves God that he treats her and her children so well
@blacksongbird1007 ай бұрын
THIS is the key!!! If he truly loves God, he's going to treat you and anyone connected to you correctly.
@makslyna17 ай бұрын
To be honest. Having a belief in anything higher than your self and having it a part of your life is a HUGE green flag. The only men that have lied and been deceitful were the ones that had no values or faith in god.
@Nikky_Wachira7 ай бұрын
They have such a HEALTHY DYNAMIC
@dontsweatya7 ай бұрын
New single mum here.. this video gave me hope. Thank you Alex & I love the way you evolved.. keep up the good work :)
@Nell-yh9og7 ай бұрын
This video warmed my heart thank you ❤
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
I'm not going to lie, It also warmed my heart
@wonderwomanx12687 ай бұрын
They are so darling and tender with each other. It is refreshing, beautiful and a perfect display of what high class looks like. Bravo.
@nataliexrd2567 ай бұрын
Russell going to get the last laugh on future. Futures son gonna be calling another man daddy.
@learningearning83857 ай бұрын
If you’re a traditional woman…Dating a Christian man would really solve so many of our issues. Some of us bend and ignore or hope that the man will grow into conservatism but we end up Damaged in the process.
@TheUglyTruthWriterOfficial7 ай бұрын
Omg... No lol... Religion never qualified anyone....
@luckyjessica35187 ай бұрын
Omg so I ghosted this guy about twice and I never took him serious, recently I gave it another try, and he remembers so much of our small conversations, I don’t remember anything… I didn’t think he liked me that much lol
@muskaanbedi84066 ай бұрын
How's things now
@elizam87147 ай бұрын
Thx for switchin it up by highlighting green flags. Yeah, it's progress that we now acknowledge & educate the signs in a more productive manor, but it also kinda gets ppl that dont know any better to stay on alert or in trauma mode. It's was to the point that we almost forgot to let the fr healthy examples also have a place in ppls thought process.
@RRthee17 ай бұрын
Alex!! You have made the absolute BEST, most superior video on this topic!! This is the video folks need to see. 🔥 I even cried a bit at the end because of how much your words resonated with my life. Congrats on nailing such a critical love topic in the most beautiful, transparent way. ❤
@FaithAnswered7 ай бұрын
Off topic but I honestly hope you never stop making videos
@stphy29397 ай бұрын
Russel is a man of God first, find Jesus y’all. He will renew your mind and change you, internally. Struggle/pain/insecurities/fear will feel like a walk in the park when God is your standard.
@Lovelyyesi7 ай бұрын
Best video!!! Made me shed a tear and thought about my toxico. I walked away 2 months ago 🎉🎉🎉
@tammyevans57997 ай бұрын
You are a very insightful young man! Proud of you
@78beckyboo7 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this one! It's great to see consistency at work! When guys tell me, things are always take a step back and observe to see if the actions follow and match their words. Along with consistency this is the best way to determine if a guy is serious about me 🙏🏼
@KocheiTim7 ай бұрын
This his most wholesome video ever i believe❤
@J786994 ай бұрын
Liked, and Commenting for the algorithm. Hope this gets lots of views. Good content in here Alex. 👍
@judithstevens43237 ай бұрын
Thank YOU Alex for doing THIS❗ This IS RELATIONSHIP GOALS....NO TOXICITY❗ LOVE IT.....WE NEED THIS BREATH OF FRESH AIR & IT DOES EXIST❗❤❤
@truluxury117 ай бұрын
Father Alex you’re amazing!! Love your channel! Can you do a video on the last topics you discussed in the video-1) not wanting it too badly and how to not be so attached when it comes 2) men settling because you don’t know their past thank you!!😊❤
@EcoworksFL7 ай бұрын
Great idea ! How to know that the guy is just settling with you and you're not the one that he really wants
@shaybaby41697 ай бұрын
Thank you Alex! I can proudly tell ppl I watch YOUR channel!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@marlingbtt59957 ай бұрын
Amo las caras que pone y los cambios de cámara! Súper simpático! Amo tus vídeos! GRACIASS!!
@bebecitan7 ай бұрын
this is one of the best videos Alex! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯💯💯💯💯
@sweet2sourr7 ай бұрын
You're so funny! Bringing smiles to us! You took off your bulletproof vest 😭🤣
@deepthi69967 ай бұрын
You've helped me a lot Alex! I'm a student right now and i can't afford your course. I'd definitely buy them after i start working in a year xD
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
Send me an ig message and I'll give u access to one for free
@MsAldil7 ай бұрын
THAT'S SO SWEET OF YOU @@MindfulAttraction2.0
@katerina39027 ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0very nice of you namaste 🙏
@no-one007 ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0wow that’s so kind
@no-one007 ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0you’ll definitely receive blessings upon blessings wow
@millions2nette7 ай бұрын
Just found your channel today... You are fantastic. Such a sound and reasonable point of view on relationships and behaviors etc.
@zonbella20147 ай бұрын
This is a beautiful video❤ I love their relationship and appreciate you for speaking positively about a man being good to his woman
@jeandoe48877 ай бұрын
😊 Im not hoping in my part, but hope everyone find their peace.
@TheNisiu7 ай бұрын
Alex, your trademark is "toxicity", but you're the least toxic man I know. The way you think through situations and advise accordingly? You're the type who'd make a great big brother/dad. I know manipulation/BS when I see it (my dad made sure of it). So it bothers me that so many women let toxic manipulative men tell them "how to get/keep a man" & 99.9% of what I've heard from men are attempts to manipulate women into being used. I see you un-doing this damage & I really appreciate it!!!
@ShaBella5097 ай бұрын
I appreciate this message so much 🙏🏾 you are my big brother in my head 😂 love your content!
@susubooboo98207 ай бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this
@julianao79887 ай бұрын
I like the cleaning attributes in the background 😁
@ashluagri7 ай бұрын
I really love your videos so much. The content is definitely awesome and it really helped me a lot. But what sets you apart is that I always get positive vibes from your videos. That could be because of your meditation. I always feel better after watching your videos. That’s an added bonus. Thank you so much, Alex! ❤
@skinbeautyproducts19986 ай бұрын
Thank you so very much for the breakdown of this video, and for saying OUT LOUD the truth of what we already subconsciously know!! This video has truly Blessed Me, and bought to the forefront just HOW MUCH I HAD A LUCKY ESCAPE!! 💯🙌🏽
@skinbeautyproducts19986 ай бұрын
You can have your mind made up that a particular person doesn't deserve you, and that you definitely do deserve better, But when you got cheated, and not chosen, even though you've finally moved on, Your memories of the outcome of the situation is that "I GOT CHEATED, I somewhat MISSED OUT" But after watching this, I can't even explain how liberating you've made me feel on an old memory that I don't even care about, it's like the closure I never needed, Because the way that I look at it now is, IT COULD HAVE BEEN SO MUCH WORST! I COULD HAVE BEEN STUCK WITH A LYING NARCISSISTIC GASLIGHTING WHORE, WHO GOES AROUND INTENTIONALLY BREAKING HEARTS, TO BOOST HIS OWN BROKEN EGO! I could have been stuck with that, while admiring true happy couples, But I'm actually on the road to genuinely being one of those true happy couples!! No apology, no amount of money, can ever make me go backwards on this!! 💯 In Jesus name!
@juliehernandez807 ай бұрын
These religious men have to practice what they preach though. Plenty men in church that are players, flirtatious.
@YAHSNUM17 ай бұрын
Very true i experienced this with two men that said they follow GOD.
@jfaustin17427 ай бұрын
This was a nice video.
@ToniToussaint7 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video father Alex
@MsStacey_6 ай бұрын
I’m a new follower. Enjoying your content. Thank you!
@marvishah79977 ай бұрын
Alex please do Zendaya and Tom Holland next!
@AskEmmaJOnline7 ай бұрын
Best video ever!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@steph61097 ай бұрын
Im a conservative woman but i cant find a conservative man. Im learning to adapt to the world shifting left.
@danitaoliver2647 ай бұрын
❤ Could you do Rihanna n her Hubby?????😂
@YAHSNUM17 ай бұрын
I already know this but this is good to send to my friends ❤
@justicebarone64207 ай бұрын
Has Alex this what we need!!
@victorialiarakos85936 ай бұрын
attachment disorders could be why someone is inconsistent
@Handle188807 ай бұрын
It’s so interesting his interviews compared to that guy married to Simone Biles.
@tiffanysabrinag7 ай бұрын
This video brought tears to my eyes because I met a man that meets these standards. And I’ve been watching father Alexis channel for a loooooong time. Just goes to shows how much I’ve evolved in love and the man I chose to be with
@zoeliu487 ай бұрын
Best of luck to u sis❤❤❤
@tiffanysabrinag7 ай бұрын
@@zoeliu48 thank you love ❤️ same to you
@orls90687 ай бұрын
That's great 😊 happy for you, love the evolution and best wishes to you both
@glamgurl56187 ай бұрын
Great video! ❤
@cocoblanche35057 ай бұрын
Loved this❤
@jenjen28687 ай бұрын
My bf wasn't sure if he wanted to commit for a minute or two. It grew over time. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
That's interesting. How long you guys been together. Give us the story
@ariesaries69817 ай бұрын
Great video! Omg I can't stop laughing 😄 “Bronx Vibes” sooo true that borough is sooo toxic!!!! I started calling toxic relationships “Bronx vibes 😅😅😅😅
@heiditugers7 ай бұрын
Great video! Thank you for sharing your own personal stories. This video gives me hope that good guys exist.
@alexiusscott98807 ай бұрын
I don’t know why that granola story made me cry
@nikki-tb5nl6 ай бұрын
HE got lucky too…❤
@yonigrace7 ай бұрын
I learned more here than anywhere else. More of this content please!
@cmoe66977 ай бұрын
Very good video Alex 🙏🏽
@melvisgumbo7 ай бұрын
i listen to you because ofcourse your vibe😊
@chocopan77307 ай бұрын
I love your videos but can you have a staple mic sound?...
@merriw47157 ай бұрын
❤this video. Absolutely brilliant analysis. You could review Jlo and Ben Afflick.
@asecretchannel41357 ай бұрын
Yay, a healthy couple. 🎉❤
@vfry78967 ай бұрын
Very proud of you 😊❤
@anniebootboot23 күн бұрын
Religion and family values go together
@FruitLeeatlanta7 ай бұрын
Great video Alex ❤
@kems007 ай бұрын
I married my ex while pregnant with another man . Isn’t that a crazy story . Well now he love more the baby then me I guess 🤷🏾♀️
@sandy-leechetty97037 ай бұрын
This video and you have a non-toxic vibe....we missed you, Father Alex... where is the magic stick???😊 oophys i just saw the stick 😅
@dopestethiopiann7 ай бұрын
Alex you gotta watch the music video by Future “Love You Better”. Future was talking about Ciara on it.
@mirianmercado77 ай бұрын
❤❤❤loved this
@freeagentgirl237 ай бұрын
Hey Alexians
@catherinesquire66567 ай бұрын
hey… hi from Liverpool… home of the Beatles 👩🎤
@dscrmortgagegal7 ай бұрын
I agree with you. A conservative man is easier to be in a relationship with.
@JustUsSystemInc7 ай бұрын
Can you do Teyana and Iman shumpert
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
Why
@ishtaneel83057 ай бұрын
So … how many months it takes to be sure he is consistent & not love bombing
@laluna4247 ай бұрын
Fa Alex does it matter if a man has better social status than you even though you have good status no debts, owns property does he still considers that he has one up over you??
@openeyes16057 ай бұрын
A man doesn’t care about your finances or assets at all. If he’s more physically attractive than you, then most likely he believes he is better than you.
@cmoe66977 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@iremersmusic7 ай бұрын
So random but can u do a video on ur thoughts about Patrick Mahomes and his wife. They always give me fake for the camera vibes
@adlinosishell99977 ай бұрын
You did a mistake by saying " You go to muslim church " there is not such a muslim church 😅 but you go to mosque. Muslim go to mosque 🕌
@estefaniacastillo1337 ай бұрын
2 scorpios likely to both be possessed with each other. Not for me id run but it works for alot of couples. Some couples love all that.
@klessad29477 ай бұрын
He’s a sag
@pernellwalker84207 ай бұрын
Lordt you so petty about the Bronx, you talk like you’re from BK😂
@micaelaguimaraes73747 ай бұрын
Talk about gisele bunchen and tom brady🎉🎉
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
That's a good one, about what though?
@buyop94417 ай бұрын
33:00 Hi there Alex, it’s a Muslim mosque as opposed to church. Thank you.
@raquelita38337 ай бұрын
No pun intended 😂😂😂😂
@sarahbanana15547 ай бұрын
We finally out of the Bronx 😂😂😂
@GigiKeen7 ай бұрын
love that for ciara
@rawfit124247 ай бұрын
NEAT SHIRT..
@Nerdish9137 ай бұрын
All true ❤
@Nastarannikmehr7 ай бұрын
Father alex, muslim church is called “Mosque 🕌”
@MindfulAttraction2.07 ай бұрын
i'm trying lol
@Nastarannikmehr7 ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 Keep going we got your back
@laluna4247 ай бұрын
😂😂
@archanabhardwaj63487 ай бұрын
I really like Alex sayin Muslim church rather than mosque .. I ll use it more often.. 😂😂😂 just for a change😅😅
@laluna4247 ай бұрын
@archanabhardwaj6348 u sound ignorant taking pleasure even after knowing what its called. The other person corrected it politely.
@AnaE19797 ай бұрын
Why are you saying, when you were a Christian? What happened to you faith?😢
@IndigoWisdom17 ай бұрын
Love it
@hawanajwaabdullah61347 ай бұрын
What if, it's the girl who hve a hard time romantically fantasising about the man?