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@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
I have good news for you (in about 4 months) but this is annoying. 😉 -alan
@TheCommonGentry Жыл бұрын
Alan. what are the chances of a It's Get me So Hard shirt c/o Cinema Therapy?
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
Not... great? lol
@jordonavant5153 Жыл бұрын
@@CinemaTherapyShow Alan when will you guys be able to do Spider-Man Across The Spider Verse and Josee the Tiger and the Fish?
@helenl3193 Жыл бұрын
If you ever do a part 2 on this film, or another film that deals with dreams and subconsciously processing emotions/issues, etc, I think it would be fantastic to get an EMDR specialist on the couch with you - assuming it's also not in Jono's existing wheelhouse. I've had some this year and it's been a real game-changer for me and I don't think it's a very well known area - I've been in and out of therapy for 30 years and my social worker sister is retraining as a family therapist, and we only heard about it in 2019. She's hoping to become an EMDR therapist in the future, we're both so impressed by it. I now rave about it to everyone I know, and explain how it can be really helpful for all sorts of things, not just PTSD cases. It's helped me to let go of some shame and negative, untrue core beliefs about myself that CBT, interpersonal and ACT courses hadn't. The other stuff helped me identify and intellectualise a lot of things, but this is the only thing that's enabled me to step back from the pain of specific experiences and let go of the unhelpful messages that came from them. I think it could be really helpful for you to raise awareness of it too, if you think that's appropriate, obviously. I hope you don't mind the suggestion, I'm just so fascinated by the process and the difference it has made for both of us, and I wish more people knew of/ understood the therapeutic options available, so were empowered to advocate for the best treatment for them/their loved ones. But maybe that's more fitting for (already on?! 🤷♀️) your mended light channel..? Love you guys and the work you do here, long may it continue! ✊
@Dreveryn Жыл бұрын
Fun fact about the ending: you don't need to see if the top falls, because that's not Cobb's totem. It's Mal's. Cobb's totem is his wedding ring because "In my dreams we're still together." He's not wearing his ring in the end, meaning he's not dreaming. He really made it to his kids. Also a great piece I love about the big orchestral music in the mountain scene. It's just the French song slowed down and dramatized. They play it in the dreamer's ears, and because their mind is acting faster it seems slower in the dream. A really nice Nolan detail.
@rbrainsop1 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Further proof is the kids themselves. The ones he sees in dreams throughout the movie are the memory of when he last saw them. When he sees them at the end, they are two years older (played by different actors, and the credits list them by their ages, showing two years have passed) and wearing slightly different clothing (notice the girl's sleeves)
@morgancrooks Жыл бұрын
Also Michael Cain has said that any scene he is in isn't a dream
@crazygingerdub Жыл бұрын
Oh wow I have watched this film several times as I love all the actors.....but never noticed the wedding ring. Yea I thought the topper was Cobbs.....now I NEED to watch it again 😂
@saikogrrl Жыл бұрын
Wow, good spotting! I didn't notice that about the ring in multiple watches
@saikogrrl Жыл бұрын
NON, JE NE REGRETTE RIENNNNNN
@Kymmarix Жыл бұрын
"Dreams can be cathartic." I literally just experienced this for myself last week. My husband passed away last year. At the time of his passing, we were having a rough go in our marriage. One of my big grief factors is worrying that he died thinking I no longer loved him (which wasn't true at all). Last week, I had a dream of him. He appeared to me, told me he couldn't stay, but that he needed me to know that he loved me and knew I loved him. He told me to let that bit of my grief go. I woke up knowing full well this was likely nothing more than my own subconscious. But it still made me feel at peace. It's strange that a dream was able to alleviate so much of my guilt and grief, but it did.
@adinaholmes5269 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad this dream gave you peace.
@saulwiner2999 Жыл бұрын
My family and I are a religious sort, and we believe that these sorts of dreams could possibly be the person's spirit visiting you. My parents have both had those dreams with their family members. I myself have been "visited" by my late dog. Whether or not you believe this is up to you; I choose to believe it. Regardless, I think the catharsis is the same. I am glad that you've found such catharsis from such a "visit".
@cymph1157 Жыл бұрын
I cried in the midst of reading your comment. Subconscious, dream, or real - the message is perfect and important. Thank you for sharing and I wish you so much peace in your heart.
@ABJK-ds4wq Жыл бұрын
🧡🧡🧡
@melindoranightsilver9298 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your loss. At least you were able to dream of him. Sadly, I can't dream at all so if someone who I care about dies I won't get that experience. I can't even close my eyes and visualize how someone looks. Your ability to dream makes you lucky for someone like me.
@trinaq Жыл бұрын
The entire movie could been seen as a metaphor for filmmaking, which Christopher Nolan has supported in an interview. Cobb is the director, Arthur the producer and researcher, Saito is the funding producer, Ariadne the screenwriter and set designer, Eames the actor, Yusuf the cameraman, and the projections are the audience.
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
See, it works!
@kandyappleview Жыл бұрын
I've heard this explanation before too and it tracks!
@jordonavant5153 Жыл бұрын
@@CinemaTherapyShowAwesome movie hey can you guys please do Spider-Man Across The Spider Verse and Josee the Tiger and the Fish please! 🙏🙏🙏
@ZettaPrime Жыл бұрын
@CinemaTharapyShow how does one go about dealing with nightmares that translate to extreme anxiety/fight or flight responses when they awake? I found the idea about external forces effecting dreams and vice versa interesting.
@kyliewalter2599 Жыл бұрын
I would argue that Fischer could be interpreted as an audience member as well.
@meltingpointcreations1457 Жыл бұрын
There is just so very much to love about Cinema Therapy- internet dads, men being vulnerable and emotionally available, immature jokes, and (possibly my favorite) HYSTERICAL EDITS. The editors of this show are me and I. AM. HERE FOR IT.
@LillikoiSeed Жыл бұрын
Definitely. They really do round out the edges and help us move forward on so many levels.
@katsfairytale Жыл бұрын
Its between here and Watts the Safe Word for my favorite random editing lol
@JT_Film Жыл бұрын
It’s one of the most wholesome, comforting, healthy channels! And the edits in this one had me rolling 😂
@sandollor Жыл бұрын
Disabled veteran, former, and sometimes still, stay-at-home, that majored in psychology and philosophy here for it too. Vulnerable dads unit!
@Gerishnakov4 ай бұрын
It gets me so hard.
@LivingFire_BurningFlame Жыл бұрын
I wish I had my memory erased, so I could experience this masterpiece again. What I like about Nolan is that he creates movies that makes the audience think, analyze and admire. Which means he respects the audience.
@-Garaf- Жыл бұрын
This! So many movies don't trust their audience to understand or follow, they either over explain or skip the matter
@Aeras89 Жыл бұрын
My brain erased most of this movie for some reason. I could totally watch it again and almost completely reexperience it.
@dozer11 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! And just like they said in the video, it’s not pretentious so it’s a good balance of being thought provoking while still being action packed when it needs to be.
@sspectre8217 Жыл бұрын
I kinda wish that too but it wouldn’t have had the same impression of awe in me. I saw it in my early teens for the first time and back then I saw movies very casually unlike today now that I actively try to pay attention to detail and have more experience with clever movies. I’d be interesting to have both first experiences
@methos1999 Жыл бұрын
If there was ever any question about Nolan respecting the audience it's been answered by Oppenheimer. I saw it in IMAX and when people asked what I thought I said it was an excellent film, but not an easy watch. When asked to elaborate I say: Oppenheimer is 3 hrs of non-linear story consisting of a large cast mostly talking in rooms. Oh and the perspective shifts...
@Scarletlight525 Жыл бұрын
As a blind person who has been asked the question if I dream, and seen other blind people answering it many times, I really appreciate how this movie speaks of dreams definitely not only being visual.
@Yutah1981 Жыл бұрын
I am not blind at all, and I actually have a very good eyesight, but I SO much don't rely on my (good) vision IRL, hardly noticing or paying attention to anything visual (without looking at, myself I won't be able to describe what I'm wearing) that I hardly ever actually SEE anything in my dreams. I more, like, KNOW I'm with such and such people, etc. Or get only fragmented poorly detailed 'screenshots'. So I can very easily imagine what the dreams of blind people are like. And the only moments I actually see something clearly and remember it afterwards is right before the dream is going to turn into this bad looped sequence (like, I'm trying to get home and can never get there). And these visuals are strangely always either a lot of intertwined railways, or rainbows, or the sky filled with patterned moons or halos. No idea why. But if I see them, that's it, the dream is going to go into that pattern.
@susantownsend8397 Жыл бұрын
Though I have fairly decent vision now, my vision was very poor when I was a child. I am a mostly non-visual thinker. My dreams contain almost no visual content. It’s all sound, touch, sometimes even smell, with a lot of emotional content. Yes, it’s mostly about feelings.
@honeyb.981 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of discussions I've heard of non-white people discussing racism, and one where I heard a woman who came from Africa to the US was explaining how weird it is to hear how white people identify others. Like, "the woman with red hair" or "with olive skin". She said that where she came from, people described each other more by their personalities, their mannerisms, things like that. "The woman with bright eyes who smiles a lot" or "the man with the deep voice that always complains." I think that visual people are curious since it's different, but it is goofy to assume that people who experience the world a bit differently aren't still human, who experience similar things to each other. I learned ASL for 2 years and one of the things our hearing teacher taught us was that yes, deaf people do have a voice in their minds, that they sort of sign. I've noticed when I think in my mind, it's not a voice actually in my brain; we hear our voices reverberate through our skulls so we picture it reverberating. I notice that I am also picturing the muscle movements to move my tongue and my mouth. And when I think in ASL sometimes, I realize I am sort of picturing the muscle movements of how my hands, my body, and my face are all moving, and kind of picturing the visual as well.
@natashafigueroa9198 Жыл бұрын
I love this comment @@honeyb.981
@360.Tapestry11 ай бұрын
it must've taken some doing to type this for a visually impaired person...
@BloodyMary74 Жыл бұрын
Cillian Murphy doesn't get enough credit for how great he is in this role. His character knows that nobody in his company cares about his grief and just expects him take care of the succession so he puts on this professional, calm facade but it's so powerful when he starts to break down.
@renata8979 Жыл бұрын
Like the guys mentioned, people love to say Christopher Nolan's movies are cold and has no place for feelings, the first few times I've watched Inception I was, I suppose, too invetsed in "will they succeed in what they are trying to do", but in 2020, when there was a cinema re-run, I was hit hard (pun intended) by how heartbreaking the bedside scene actually is.
@Duiker36 Жыл бұрын
@@renata8979 Most of Nolan's films are pretty damn emotional. It's just the kind of emotion you feel when you're also masking it constantly. The problem is mostly that they're *all* like that: they're always men who feel it's important to put a brave and stoic face on things while they're dying inside. Which is fine if that's what you're up for, but sometimes you're not and that's okay too.
@renata8979 Жыл бұрын
I don’t disagree but I think that this is not the entirety of it, I think that this maybe applies most of all to Dunkirk, but deliberately so. But if you make a quick mental recall of most of Nolan’s movies, there are plenty of emotional people and/or highly emotionally charged situations. IMO, “Nolan is cold” stems from his movies generally having a “cold” atmosphere as opposing to something as “warm” as, say, Paddington movies, but people kinda extrapolate this to the films as a whole.
@IndyDraws Жыл бұрын
Brilliant episode! Also, quite possibly the first time I’ve laughed out loud in over a month- “The love story in this movie gets me so hard.” “I would phrase that differently.” 20:17 The calm response. xD the editing. You guys are awesome. Thank you. :)
@StorymasterQ Жыл бұрын
I had YT playing in the background while I work and the opening "Does the top fall?" made me think of bikinis. That's probably just my own head 🤣
@ji-soopark57 Жыл бұрын
the ad placement as well hahaha
@catdragon2584 Жыл бұрын
The editor is the hero we didn’t deserve, but the one we all needed
@jlcollins14 Жыл бұрын
I have an anecdotal dream story about grief as well. But it was also a shared dream . When I was 12, my best friend (boy) died in a drowning accident. He had moved away the previous year but we grew up on the same street, had known each other 10 years, his grandparents lived down the road. A few weeks after he died, I had a dream that we were standing in the yard, near the Church by our school. We had just finished playing a game of Baseball. All our friends were standing there. Each of us giving him a hug and telling him we missed him. He turned to me and said, I'm sorry I have to leave. But I'll come back and see you soon. Take care of each other. Then he turned toward the church and a light swallowed his form. When I woke up, I felt a little lighter than I had in weeks. So, I decided to ride my bike up to our school, but I had to get air in my tires first. So I walked to the gas station up the road and was filling my tires, when my other best friend (girl), came running up a few minutes later. She said, "I've been looking for you. I just went to your house and your mom said you came here. I had the wildest dream last night and had to tell you." As she matched the description of my dream, down to the colour shirt he was wearing, we were both getting goosebumps. I'd also like to note that I'm not religious. I didn't attend this church outside of the occasional wedding or funeral my parents attended. And I don't remember my friend ever attending this church with his parents either. But, it's been almost 30 years and I still remember this dream and the feelings it gave when I woke up.
@julietardos5044 Жыл бұрын
My dad has had a few dreams of family members who had died--but before he learned of their deaths--who came to him in dreams and said goodbye. And then days later, he learned that they died. Anyway, there is no way to prove it scientifically or anything, but I firmly believe there is something beyond what we can perceive consciously that we can sometimes get adjacent to when we dream or in a hypnotic state.
@shellyhill6804 Жыл бұрын
Incredible! What a gift.
@Ket6393 Жыл бұрын
My aunt passed away about 5 years of terminal cancer. And several months after her death I would have dreams of her where we just sit and talk. One specific one that I remember still is her and I sitting on my college dorm bed talking about nothing at all but enjoying each other’s company. She’d never been to my college before, seen my then current bedroom in college but it felt good to see her again and talk like old times. Though it never happened like it was all in a dream. It always felt good when I woke up that I got see and talk to her again. 😊
@Skyler_Rain Жыл бұрын
When I had my first miscarriage I was obviously devastated, I had so many dreams with my girl before hand it felt like I had lost a 5 year old. About a month afterwards I had a dream where she came to visit me to let me know that she was okay, and taken care of, that I could move on and heal. All of the dreams were all so real, I've never experienced anything like it.
@harvestmoon_autumnsky Жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience. My uncle was dying of covid, alone in the hospital. His son lived internationally, and I was trying to hook him up through the nurses, over facetime, to say goodbye. Understandably this was horribly stressful. We were successful, thanks the beautiful heart of a nurse who used his own social media to help make it happen (against the rules). That night I had a dream that my uncle came to me, and talked to me super gently. Said he knew I'd tried contacting him, that he was going now, and that he loved me. Called me honey, which he was the only person in my family to ever call me that. Which made me feel really special. And I found out that he'd passed at the same time I was asleep. I'm happy to believe he came to say goodbye.
@placeholder2937 Жыл бұрын
Since it’s spooky season they should do an episode on Over the Garden Wall. It may be a mini series but it’s the length of a movie and it’s SO GOOD. There would be so much for them both to talk about what with all the artistry that went into it as well as Wirt’s struggles with self worth, anxiety, and pessimism, and the themes of existential dread, and hopelessness present in the setting of the unknown itself. I really really really hope they cover it one day
@torytellstales7 ай бұрын
I want them to talk about the character "Marvin the Martian", not just because he's one of my favorite Looney Tunes, but because there's a lot of oddness to be discussed about Marvin's overall personality and quirks over the years outside of just being a martian who wants to "blow up Earth", but also why so many people love him and how he's related to people in the autism and neurodivergent community and what they theorize why he seems to be not really included in anything and why so many people even to this day invest in his character no matter how small of appearances he's made
@macroxela Жыл бұрын
I remember watching this movie when I was really tired and sleepy so I was half asleep throughout most of it. Somehow, I fell asleep with my eyes open and started dreaming that I was in the film with them. Woke up after the credits thinking I missed the movie by sleeping through it. But when I told my friends what I dreamed, it was exactly what happened in the film. My brain somehow took what I was seeing and turned it into a dream in real time. Trippiest film experience I've ever had. Literally had the dream experience of a film about dreaming.
@halloween42 Жыл бұрын
dude...
@wendychavez5348 Жыл бұрын
My memories shortly after my traumatic brain injury are like that. I remember it as a dream; I dreamed I was sleeping and couldn't wake up. Whenever I tried to wake up, "They" would tell me I couldn't and "push me under" again. I presume "They" were the doctors, nurses, neurosurgeons, my parents, and whoever was around, and I presume that "pushing me under" is a metaphor for my brain accepting "Their" message that I couldn't wake up. Finally, my mind decided that "They" had no say in the matter, so I dreamed that I fought to wake up. My family says that my dream fairly well mirrors the really at that time, though truly I don't think it matters. The dream got me through something that really wasn't going to help with-- the brain finds a way!
@Vinemaple Жыл бұрын
That's not a rare experience for me when I fall asleep listening to the radio. I also used to listen to a TV station audio channel over radio, and to this day there are Stargate: SG-1 episodes that I've never seen, but I've visually directed based on my knowledge of the show, and I get confused when I finally see the real video. I was so into SG-1 when I did that, that often I don't realize until quite a way in that it's one I've only ever listened to, because I got so many things disturbingly right. Case in point is the orbital defense satellite Daniel invents in the Harsesis episode. When I saw the wireframe computer image, it was spookily like the real visual. Probably because the concept designers for that show really knew how to give the different alien technologies distinct and consistent visual identities!
@newperve Жыл бұрын
You didn't wake up after that movie, you're still dreaming. In fact that movie never existed we made you think of it so you can write it when you wake up.
@PrincessKJBunni518198 ай бұрын
that happens to me 90% of the time
@d-docnemesis7925 Жыл бұрын
I remember having dreams (more like nightmares) that have left me physically sick. In one instance I dreamt about a very traumatic incident that I have not even come close to experiencing irl. Still, when I woke up ut felt real and it took days to fully recover. The first day after I felt physically sick and kinda disgusted with myself. I experienced something close to a panic attack and I had like flashbacks from things that happened in the dream. Those symptoms faded after a few days, though there's a person I know irl - even though we never really talked much - who in this dream played a big role in causing that trauma I dreamt about. I still feel very uncomfortable around this person. They've never done anything to me irl, but I simply can't help it. It's crazy what our own subconcious can do to us.
@francleighscarlett Жыл бұрын
My favorite part of this episode, Jono goes high by not teasing Alan that he has frequent flying dreams, but Alan goes low and repetitively edits in Jono's misspeak of "hits me hard". That's how we know you two are close, like brothers, even as friends and co-hosts.
@PredatorH2O Жыл бұрын
In the end Cobb had dealt with his trauma (even if not completely) and found acceptance which means he no longer doubted his perception of reality. He wanted to be sure he was going to his real kids but when he saw them he didn't need the totem's confirmation to know they were real. Having learned the same lessons we are in turn left to come to the same conclusion on our own. The top wobbling is in line with this as it should .
@abookwormjedi2704 Жыл бұрын
What’s strange is my sister disowned my family with no warning. I decided to just not think about it, however, I started having dreams in which I would yell at her for hurting me and I turned her into a snake in one. It felt very therapeutic to tell her how she made me feel even though it was in my dreams.
@livialimaastrologia Жыл бұрын
It's completely normal to dream of things that are bothering us and we can't resolve... I always have these type of dreams... But I hope you can have a real talk to your sister.
@jamesellison45752 ай бұрын
Less likely "with no warning" and more likely "none of us paid attention to her pain".
@pebblebrain4448 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video today. I ran away from my abusive family earlier this year to move to another state and start over. Ever since I’ve been having night after night of nightmares. It’s not every night but often enough there are nights I don’t want to go to bed in case I have a nightmare. Most of the time it ends with me waking up and I have a panic attack that leaves me feeling anxious for hours. Last night was a bad one. All I remember is I was at my fiancé’s house and we were just cuddling and talking and there was a knock at the door and my mother comes in in this bright pink track suit trying to get me “back home.” My fiancé was the one opening the door so he put himself between us but she pushed past and came closer and then he was gone and she started going on and on about how I abandoned them and I was a terrible child and that I would never make it in the real world and would have to come back when he left me. I started crying and he came back with this cartoonish policeman in orange who lifted her by the armpits and took her away. I ended up having a panic attack in the dream and he just held me. The funny thing is the dream just transitioned like all that didn’t happen. Some KZbinr I like was like “hey guys let’s go to the mall” I was still shaking and holding onto my fiancé like he was going to disappear and the dream was just so normal. He gave us a tour and even stopped at a restaurant but all I could think about was my mom finding me and trying to hurt me. I woke up and had one of the worst panic attacks I’ve ever had. I was originally going to go out and get errands done today but I just couldn’t I was emotionally drained and anxious. I know it would probably be good to get therapy and get the help I need but it’s expensive so I have the support of my Fiancé and I’ll be okay.
@theladyamalthea Жыл бұрын
I would like to recommend EMDR to you. My therapist has used it to help me with nightmares about my family, and I have been healed of certain themes in just a single EMDR session! I was amazed!! I’m also so sorry your family is like that. Mine is awful, too. 💔
@VampireAntics Жыл бұрын
Hi! Daughter of a Hypnotherapist here! My dad and i watched this film together back in the day and a lot of the reasoning they use for dream stuff comes from hypnotherapy! (Stuff like always working in positives, your brain doesn’t think in negatives, you have to think of a pink elephant before you can think of the absence of a pink elephant) Love your videos guys!
@MossyMozart Жыл бұрын
@VampireAntics - Nightmares are plenty negative.
@VampireAntics Жыл бұрын
Yes, but when giving a post-hypnotic suggestion you wouldn’t say “you DON’T feel pain” you would say “you feel _____ in place of pain”. And nightmares are, as Johnathon said, your brain telling you you’re ignoring a problem. It has to work in images that will invoke a certain feeling.
@emilyharvey4930 Жыл бұрын
@@MossyMozartIn psychology, a "positive" means "a thing that is present" and "negative" means "a thing that is absent."
@ignesfatuis Жыл бұрын
I've had catharsis from a dream. My nephew died a few hours after being born... and when I fell asleep, I dreamed that he had lived, that my family got to meet him and I got to hold him and he was perfect. And I woke up with such a feeling of peace that it actually took me a while to remember that he hadn't made it. I don't think I'll ever forget that dream and how it made me feel.
@darthnazgul Жыл бұрын
This is my all-time favourite film. Much like Shawshank, I saw it during a particularly vulnerable time in my life mentally speaking. Cobb dealing with grief while also being haunted by his own dreams was something I related to all too well. The film really helped me start to turn my life around.
@tlahmed Жыл бұрын
Yes!! Top 3 movie of all time for me
@laurabrown8161 Жыл бұрын
one of my most visceral and potent memories of therapy is when i came to her, after receiving a medical diagnosis not long after recovering from a prior one. i asked my therapist, "WHAT DOES IT MEAN?!!?" and she very calmly and with a gentle smile replied, "What would you like it to mean?" wowwwza - it continues to change and challenge how i live my life.
@PKMono Жыл бұрын
Inception took heavy inspiration of Satoshi Kon's Anime movie "Paprika", and while Paprika was better at showing off the "surrealist" side of dreams, I think Inception went much more in depth into the true "fascination" of what dreams are, can be, can never be, symbolize (and so on) for people. Inception is to date one of my favourite movies ever, exactly because it does all of these aspects, the hopeful ones and the scary ones, so so well.
@susantownsend8397 Жыл бұрын
All my life I’ve had dreams in which I was in a serious conflict with people I knew (mostly but not exclusively family). In those dreams I always felt helpless because I couldn’t express my own point of view. As I approached my 73rd birthday I had that dream but this time I stood up and screamed what I had always felt. I woke up feeling astonished - I had never expressed myself because I had never acknowledged what I was really feeling. That dream changed my self-image because it explained so much about my reactions and choices.
@Michelle_Lynnn Жыл бұрын
This is my favorite film of all time! The plot, the score, the filmography! I’m so glad you did a video on it! I can’t wait to watch this the second I get home from work! 👏🏼🤗
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
We hope you enjoy it!
@Michelle_Lynnn Жыл бұрын
@@CinemaTherapyShowI absolutely did; it was a highlight of my day! You never disappoint! Thank you! 😊
@mhuntprofessional9 ай бұрын
I've experienced real-life catharsis from a dream. It's a wild experience to go to sleep. Have your subconscious untangle a knot in your life that you've been unable to resolve. Tell you a story that makes you understand in a way that not only enlightens you, but actually CHANGES the way you behave after that. It was like waking up as a different person. For me i had suddenly understood how to let go of regret and resentment. And i had fought with those demons for so long...
@christinaacevedo7305 Жыл бұрын
You should take a look at Satoshi Kon's final film Paprika. Inception was heavily influenced by it and the premise was a device invented to enter dreams for the purpose of psychiatric therapy. Also a mind#@%$ of a movie.
@sketchygetchey8299 Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen Perfect Blue (and was traumatized by it), so I’m looking forward to seeing Paprika (and also get mind#@%$ed by it)!
@crawllingchaos Жыл бұрын
I'm honestly sad that people barely know paprika and it feels like it was overshadowed by inception because it's a hollywood. I don't know how should I feel about this movie.
@christinaacevedo7305 Жыл бұрын
@@crawllingchaos they are both excellent films and at least Nolan did not directly steal shots like Darren Aronosky did.
@misslady582 Жыл бұрын
@sketchygetchey8299 OMG! Perfect Blue had me climbing the walls 😂
@ko-miyavi Жыл бұрын
Was looking for the obligatory "You Cant Talk About Inception Without Talking About Paprika" post :p But for real, i would use "inspired" loosely, as he has absolutely been accused with direct (alleged) plagiarism as well. BUT that aside yes. If you enjoyed Inception you should absolutely watch Paprika. Personally I think it's a more fun movie. Also 'Girl From Byakkoya' is such a top tier theme song!
@houdin654jeff Жыл бұрын
Love Inception, love you guys for taking it on this way. I absolutely agree with the “it’s a movie about making movies” interpretation, so good. Also, Jono is going to have that slip of the tongue haunt him for the rest of this channel’s existence. Alan, it is your duty as a friend to constantly remind him, and the editor, of it. I kind of saw the debate about the top as a missing the point exercise. All through the movie, Cobb has been obsessively checking the totem to make sure he’s in reality, but in the final instance, it no longer matters to him. Either he’s home with his real children, or he’s slipped into a dream world where he can pretend to be with them forever, and in both cases, he doesn’t see if the top fell… so we the audience don’t get to know either. It is interesting to hear you say you need him to be in reality, however. Ambiguity is something hard to achieve in filmmaking and leaving the topic open to interpretation is not a path many filmmakers take, so I feel it should also be praised.
@Jonathan_Collins Жыл бұрын
You'll never dream the same again or even look at life the same again once you've watched Inception. Such a powerful movie!
@hanramz Жыл бұрын
I need to rewatch it, I saw it when it came out but that was at a time when I sort of just absorbed movies instead of engaging with them, so I barely remember it! I will probably appreciate it more now!
@Myke_thehuman Жыл бұрын
This movie led me to learning how to lucid dream.
@haigis04 Жыл бұрын
@@Myke_thehuman I've looked into lucid dreaming but part of me is paranoid of not being able to break out of the lucid dream when I'm ready.
@foreverkent2225 Жыл бұрын
I agree that it’s a powerful movie, and it certainly has affected my perception of life in some aspects, but I can’t say it ever changed the way I dream 🤷♂️
@MonkeyJedi99 Жыл бұрын
The movie that most changed my dreaming was Scarface. For a few months after I would wake up with a jolt, imagining myself as the guy handcuffed in the shower when the chainsaw started up. - I hated waking up like that.
@bretthake7713 Жыл бұрын
This was probably mentioned in the comments but in case it wasn't: Michael Caine said in an interview that he was having trouble following the script and "what is real". Apparently he asked Christopher Nolan and was told that his character never enters dreams, he's only in reality. I mention it to point out that he's in the final scene so it confirms Cobb is not dreaming when he is reunited with his kids (in other words the top will fall). Great vid and commentary as always!
@AspiringToFailure Жыл бұрын
As an emetophobic, 5:08 gave me severe anxiety but 20:04 made me laugh so much. So thanks for the emotional rollercoaster this episode haha 😅
@elcisitiak172 Жыл бұрын
yeah i was really upset by that 😅 and didn’t see that it added much to the episode so i really wish they wouldn’t do that 😅
@RockyDaTherapist Жыл бұрын
I definitely needed a warning. I don’t understand why so many movies have that. It’s not funny.
@stephwittek Жыл бұрын
SAME. I can deal with it when I know it is coming, but the hard cuts are the WORST
@michelesantos6159 Жыл бұрын
yeah for sure.. also I was eating 5:08 guys come on ... rsrsrsrsrs
@sw0rdbyte Жыл бұрын
same here the first part made me annoyed because i have that emotophobic stuff but the second edited part was hilarious
@mpet483 Жыл бұрын
Inception was the most immersive movie experience I’ve ever had. Thanks for doing this one!
@RobAyling Жыл бұрын
Love the video chaps! Personally, I think Memento is his best movie - "I have to believe in a world outside my own mind. I have to believe that my actions still have meaning, even if I can't remember them. I have to believe that when my eyes are closed, the world's still there. Do I believe the world's still there?" - this is one of the most fascinating questions raised in his films and where Nolan really took off as a filmmaker & storyteller.
@katietoole8345 Жыл бұрын
I love Memento and definitely think its a contender for top spot.
@Road_to_Dawn Жыл бұрын
“My computer is my subconscious…” That may have been deeper than you realized lol (now we need to go deeper) Inception is one of the few movies I watched five times in theaters. I got a little burnt out on it at that point, but still an awesome movie. And yes! Please do an episode on The Prestige! And have you done one on Memento yet? If you haven’t, please do!
@peterakin5793 Жыл бұрын
This was a masterpiece of a film, I remember my cousin had to breakdown everything that was happening in this movie while we saw it.
@dots_com1386 Жыл бұрын
This film still holds the spot as my favourite movie. It is absolutely packed with some of my favourite actors. I absolutely fell for the trick of being made to feel smart for being able to follow the movie. I loved that it really felt like a dream that you get lost in and then wake up from when the movie ended. The performances were brilliant. The concept was awesome and I loved that it had many layers of themes and metaphors. It’s so good.
@socloseno Жыл бұрын
I love how when watching this movie and it can be a simple sci-fi adventure but then rewatching it is the most complicated thing you ever seen.
@MossyMozart Жыл бұрын
Similar to "Momento".
@footh1013 Жыл бұрын
Here's an interesting thing I learned from keeping a dream journal: Dreams are (in part) there to process long and short term memories, especially the latter. Therefore, I had a lot of dream content that appeared because I was thinking about certain things a lot that day. But when I didn't get enough sleep, I'd start dreaming about stuff from a couple days ago as well. So if you don't get enough sleep, your dreams play catch-up
@gabrielaantonioli Жыл бұрын
I had a cathartic dream last week: in real life I am experiencing some issues with my family. Moved abroad a year ago and I'm still struggling to adapt to the new place. But that's my struggle, not theirs. So, two months ago my mother started saying I couldn't do it on my own, I didn't had the capacity. I called her attention that what she was saying was not emotionaly mature of her so I disconnected with her for a while. Then comes the dream: My parents showed up without being invited, here in the other country. My first thought in the dream was "lets talk this through and be comprehensive" but another part od me started shouting that they cannot control me anymore and expel them from my house. It was liberating, even now, one week after I still feel freed.
@lunamay4019 Жыл бұрын
One of the last things you say about reoccuring nightmares hit home for me. I realized a little while back I would often have the same kind of nightmare, a situation where I was being chased by a beast, usually a werewolf, but no matter how much I ran or moved my body, I would never move an inch. Like I was stuck in place. I realized that the werewolf was my trauma that I have been fleeing from my whole life. Now that I have started therapy to face and address all that trauma, the nightmare has gone away. Amazing how the subconscious works.
@cischris1 Жыл бұрын
Christopher Nolan, my favorite director. I don't think there's a single master piece from his portfolio that I don't absolutely adore. Amazing video!
@danthomassolo Жыл бұрын
Also, I now desperately want to watch this movie again now that you’ve pointed out how it’s just Nolan talking about filmmaking.
@darktemplar441 Жыл бұрын
I have learned so much from this channel since i started watching. And you guys have incepted me more than once. I hope it's not the false epiphany stuff but I've made more progress in this year than i have in the past 3. I hope your channel only succeeds because you are not only entertaining but you are helping people.
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@aprilly165 Жыл бұрын
Definitely!! My family got kicked out of the house I grew up in due to “traditional” culture things. I had so much anger towards my family and so much attachment to that house. It was always really hard for me to let go of that house even after my uncle decided to sell it. I always felt like every house we lived in after was just a house but never home. But one night I had a dream about that house. There was a plum tree that we had planted when I was really young. I remember growing up with that plum tree and it had always had a lot of meaning to me. I used to tell my younger sister that if you wrote a wish and tied it to the tree that your wish will come true. I was obviously lying but it made us feel better and it gave us something to believe in. In my dream, that plum tree had called to me. The tree told me that it was time for us to say goodbye and that it would no longer be there waiting for our return. I was really sad in the dream, but I knew we had to say goodbye. Every since that dream, all angry feelings and longing attachments to that house went away. I feel at peace with it all. And I can finally call my parents new house “home”
@robertgerrity878 Жыл бұрын
THE GIVING TREE book.
@160p2GHz Жыл бұрын
I had a like 5 year span of being extremely into dreams (I mean... within a lifetime of being a more manageable level of this) and loved learning about how dreams function in memory and in being basically internal free therapy. I've had wild vivid dreams most of my life. I remember looking at those "dream meaning' dictionaries as a teen and being like, this sounds like it's just a horoscope version of "you dream about what you're too afraid or limited to think about while awake". When I started looking to actual research years later I found that read was likely pretty correct. It's been great because I have now spent most of my life having a healthy relationship with my mind and with dreams even though I have mental disorders to work through in my day to day. If I have a disturbing dream I feel that unease when I first awaken but then immediately go "why did I have that dream... ohhh my buddy bill wasn't really Bill in that, he represents people from a time when I behaved poorly" or something and I quickly find what I was working through. If I have a dream about a traumatic experience like my dog dying I wake up upset but quickly think "my body is just trying to prepare me and let me walk through that before I have to face it" and often the healing takes place in the dream as well. It also means that I went from frequent nightmares and sleep paralysis to immediately recognizing SP and knowing that every character in my dreams is something I made up... all those lil monsters. I just ask them if I can help them now. And if I see a real person being scary in a dream I know that it's usually them (or maybe someone who feels like them even if the body is wrong) subconciously giving me bad vibes and I try to note in my day whether they are showing signs of not actually being great or if I am suffering from some paranoia or jealousy. Anyway... amazing all this is free less the price of evolution.
@mistykuoha-silva7167 Жыл бұрын
So interesting and awesome for you!
@wendychavez5348 Жыл бұрын
That's a beautiful reasoning process-- thank you for sharing it!
@MonkeyJedi99 Жыл бұрын
Most of the dreams I wake up remembering are my subconscious incorporating sounds in my bedroom into something other than what they are. The most common are the overfull answering machine screaming for attention (the business across the street has a truck backing up to it) and "Why can't the band just play the whole danged song!?" (my alarm going off and stopping after thirty seconds, or the phone ringing for fifteen seconds) or the one about flying an experimental but noisy new jet (the upstairs neighbor running their vacuum)
@margaretmercer7774 Жыл бұрын
OMG PLEASE DO AN EPISODE ON THE PRESIGE!!! It's literally my favorite movie and it doesn't get enough attention 😅 I'm so glad yall like it too!
@CCPShiny Жыл бұрын
I remember watching this movie alone when it came out in theatres. I was living on my own for post-secondary in a city I hated, and was still a decade or so away from truly starting to recover and grow after a rocky childhood. I can’t describe how hard this movie hit me, and how important it’s themes, characters, and messaging was to me, then and now. At the time that I first saw it, I loved all of it so much but I didn’t fully understand its implications in my own struggles, or understand why that final frame cutting away from the spinning top made me so viscerally furious and sad… Looking back on it now, I’m humbled by how brilliant the storytelling was, and how important that movie has been for my own personal growth. That movie and ending were so powerful that it led my brain to being that angry at the idea of the catharsis not being “real”, not really counting somehow if it wasn’t for certain that that moment had happened in the real world… and I’m literally just now realizing that that was my own subconscious yelling at me, trying to make me see that all of my own little and big moments of internal catharsis have mattered. That I’m not as lost as I’ve thought, all these years. I’m not stuck like I’ve wondered if I am since being abandoned and let down so severely by one person in particular, and I don’t need to wait for that person to give me “real” closure. I also don’t need to wait for some overt sign of permission or something for it to be okay to let go of the grief over the death of another person and be not monstrous or disrespectful of their memory for doing so… I’m not stuck. I’ve grown so much, and healed so much, and the catharsis I’ve been looking for has been what I’ve been building for myself with the family of my own I’ve started. Bit by tiny bit, I am surpassing all the hurt, the trauma, the grief… I’ve done that. It’s real, because it is real to me. Thanks “Inception”, for existing ❤ and thanks Cinema Therapy for prompting this decade-belated realization, and thanks to my brain for speaking up so often that it’s slowly but surely become possible for me to hear and understand ❤ …Though, psychological healing and growth completely aside, that top ABSOLUTELY did eventually fall. There 💯 was no wobble whenever it was in a dream. I will die on that hill lol because my heart and soul believes fully that Cobb and his kids get the happy ever after they freakin deserve.
@LeviDove-e3q Жыл бұрын
Could we maybe get an episode featuring a film with OCD? Great episode by the way.
@marcaroon513 Жыл бұрын
fun fact: Inception was based on/inspired by Paprika by Satoshi Kon. Highly, HIGHLY, recommend! There is also a game(not related to Inception) called 'To The Moon'(part of a series of games), which explores the concept of catharsis and healing through dreams and memories. Absolutely recommend that too for the gamers out there
@TheSamBogan Жыл бұрын
20:04 may just be the hardest I've laughed at one of these episodes. Props to the editor(s) for that one!
@Miss_Myth Жыл бұрын
Amazing video guys, personally I'd love a Part 2 if y'all could justify it! I was with Jonathan, I'd never seen/caught the many different bits that Alan pointed out that reflect the movie making process! Also plenty of what Jono said - about catharsis, ownership of ideas, and so much more - resonated with me as well. I'd watch a 2-3 hour seminar with you both discussing all the things in this movie! ((PS - Michael Caine has confirmed that the ending is reality, not a dream. He said he asked a question, and was told that if he was present in a scene, it's reality. He's in the ending, therefore Cobb's awake. Just thought I'd share for anyone who hasn't heard that story/seen that clip. 😊))
@moonhajung6742 Жыл бұрын
the episode i've been waiting for!!! i just think it would be great to have a Lucid Dreamer guest who knows so much about dreams AND its relationship with psychology and neuroscience comment along in this ep. it'd be so fun and mind blowing!!
@elysian6461 Жыл бұрын
As someone that does not see pictures and does not dream in a visual sense either, it is fascinating to me when people talk about dreaming and having pictures play in their brain. I don't have that, never did. So this film feels very crazy to me because it is so far from my reality.
@lumiukko4296 Жыл бұрын
Dreams are never this visual and detailed though. I think dreaming reminds visually a bit same than when you are reading a book and "see" things happening. Maybe a bit more but mostly you just see what is important not the whole picture.
@shadw47017 ай бұрын
@lumiukko4296 Yes they are. It depends on your level of dream recall. With good dream recall your dreams can even feel more real than real life. Have you ever had a lucid dream, a dream where you know you're in a dream? I have and it often is indistinguishable from real life. I am always mesmerized by the detail
@briangruenewald7536 Жыл бұрын
20:02 I’m so glad you kept this in 😂😂😂
@Galaxydefnder5282 Жыл бұрын
I have been DYING for you guys to do this movie!! Not only is it in my top 5 favorite movies of all time, it was super therapeutic for me. My dog died in January and it absolutely broke me. I was trying to get my mind off of it so I watched Inception and I got to the part where Cobb is in Limbo with Mal where he says, “We had our time together but now I have to let you go.” I kept dreaming about my dog and I would wake up absolutely devastated but it’s still cathartic in a lot of ways. This movie is just so good and I’m so happy you talked about it!!!
@birdiewolf3497 Жыл бұрын
Wait a minute. Going off the film being a metaphor for filmmaking, Cobb having a problem of injecting his subconscious into other people’s dream and him having his own catharsis is a metaphor about how directors inject aspects of themselves and their stories into films and how the process can also be sense of catharsis for them. In trying to make the audience feel something, they feel something. Love it!!! Also the projections being hostile towards foreign dreamers is related to the uncomfortableness directors/creatives have with someone else coming in and taking their ideas and changing it up too much.
@racheldeschaine Жыл бұрын
I was so excited when I saw you guys did inception!!!
@NLAnna Жыл бұрын
Definitely do The Prestige. Just in general, do more movies that have been released a while back. I really appreciate that the KZbin algorithm makes you do more relevant movies, but I can't watch a video by you guys if I haven't seen it yet and if a movie has only been out for a few weeks, or even a month or 2 -3 I haven't always been able to see it yet.
@HouseMDaddict Жыл бұрын
Love this movie!
@ellingtonlilly Жыл бұрын
as someone who mostly has nightmares and the rest is at least 50% mundane, could be a day in my life sort of dreams that screw with my perception of reality, the vast majority of which I feel (in excruciating detail) and regularly wakes up in a terrible panic...this video is so lovely and makes me feel better. Thank you.
@shadw47017 ай бұрын
I tend to enjoy my nightmares because instead of just being attacked by things I'm often fighting instead. I highly recommend getting into dream incubation and watch/playing action horror (stuff like supernatural, the forrest, doom ect.)
@amandahobson1602 Жыл бұрын
This was a masterpiece. I was a Christopher Nolan fan after this. The visuals and intriguing story had me hooked from beginning to end. It won best film of that year for me. I never thought about it that it was about making movies but now I see it. Like the responsibility and relationship the filmmaker has to the audiance. I always saw it a story of grief and facing reality when tragedy falls on you. Thanks for yet another great episode fellas!
@tyanhikam3096 Жыл бұрын
20:03 I REALLY love how the jokes here are feels like a joke the younger gen Z would make, but it's also delivered like a it's a dad joke. Bravo, Internet Dads.
@Rembreiker_lychec9257 Жыл бұрын
This film is so good that I even try to watch it as less as possible, so I can forget some things and have a better experience watching it again in some years. This is the movie where my love for films began.
@bumbylbea9715 Жыл бұрын
Why was this video cathartic? All of your videos I usually turn to CT when I need a pick me up. Thanks guys. A million.
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
We love that. Thanks for watching!
@noobwithaplan Жыл бұрын
Every Nolan film is by definition a must re-watch, and this is one of my favorites. Glad to see a video from you guys on this!
@THEsweetlil1610 ай бұрын
25:08 - I’m a psychologist also speaking from personal dream experience and YES. I once had a dream about having a heated argument with my friend who was careless towards me in real life and when I woke up I had the most amazing feeling of relief/catharsis and didn’t really have a need to have a heated argument with her in real life. I finally talked to her so it got sorted in real life, but thanks for reminding me of this event. It was truly healing and empowering.
@michelletale Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you mentioned what dreams may come and Inception - love dream analysis. Would love a review of “what dreams may come”. You must have so many movie requests. I am here for them all!
@donya410 ай бұрын
I loved this episode! Also I thought about lucid dreaming and how in lucid dreams you actually can create the dream and decide what happens next. I didn't do a lot of research about this, but this is my experience from lucid dreaming for quite some time now.
@InkyDustMan Жыл бұрын
Something fascinating from my own experience: You can have cathartic nightmares and pleasant dreams which are the opposite of catharsis. Like Jonathan said at the end, we can have dreams that can give us catharsis which would otherwise be nearly impossible to get in real life, or we can have dreams which are effectively our subconscious calling for us to face the things we refuse to face in real life. I have a history of "nightmares" which never scare me and often involve me facing down monsters and various horror villains, things which would normally be nightmares for someone else, is just a standard dream to me which I might even draw catharsis from. But this past year or so, I have had no "nightmares", instead I have reoccurring, pleasant dreams of the girl I'm in love with who was separated from me by her abusive family over a year ago, and whenever I have those dreams and wake from them, it's the most dreadful feeling ever, one that not even the worst nightmare can compare to, because it's my subconscious' way of motivating me to get my shit together and go help her to get the life I literally dream of every night but always wake up from. I can say with certainty, that it's not the contents of a dream which determine if it's a good dream or bad dream, but the feel of it during and afterwards. A face full of glass can be infinitely preferable to a dream that part of you genuinely doesn't want to wake up from. I've always been able to roll with the punches, and I've even faced monsters in my dreams in rematches, where I can lose dozens upon dozens of times, but I only need to win once for it to count. But nothing compares to having that lucid dream, where I'm holding her, and we both know it's just a dream, and I tell her "I know this isn't real...but just let me hold you a little longer until I wake up..."
@nicolebrowne1433 Жыл бұрын
Please do an episode on The Prestige!! One of my fave movies! And maybe focus on toxic ambition and how far people are willing to go to “win”
@iliananunez011 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found your channel, as I absolutely love cinema. It has seriously helped me realize some things about myself and my loved ones. You guys are the best! 🥺🙏
@rosstasker8590 Жыл бұрын
You should ABSOLUTELY do an episode on The Prestige; Grief, Blame, Self-Destructive Obsession...
@rosstasker8590 Жыл бұрын
You could get a stage magician in, talk about the importance of secrets and belief
@JaslynFellows Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Another opportunity to talk about the top. My theory is that it’s shot that way because it doesn’t matter if the top falls because for Cobb, seeing his family means that I don’t care if the top falls or not (unlike it’s been the whole movie). I think for him, he’s fought so hard for this moment and wanted it so bad, that ultimately, he doesn’t want to face the possibility of it still being a dream. Hence he just rushes for the hug from his family. Whether it’s real or not, I need my family.
@roguebarbarian9133 Жыл бұрын
I will say, however, there is a definitive answer: Cobb’s totem, which is not the top like some people think. That’s Mal’s totem. His totem is his wedding ring, which he doesn’t wear in reality, but does wear throughout the dream sequences. He even comments on it, saying something like, “In the dreams, I’m still married to her.” And in that final scene, he’s not wearing the ring. Additionally, you can see that his kids are slightly older than they are whenever he dreams about them, showing he’s reunited with the kids he’s been apart from for the last two years, not the dream kids who will always be the same age of the last time he saw them.
@zethcrownett2946 Жыл бұрын
I wanted to say, I'm glad you mentioned that some people question their perspective obsessively, because it's been a long process of me realizing that most people don't and that feels weird to me. Because I do, constantly. And it frequently feels like I'm quite far out from where everyone else is for it.
@wanderingbardgaming Жыл бұрын
Loved the point about good therapy guiding with questions rather than answers; that's exactly how my experience with therapy was and it was very healing. I also popped off so hard when Alan complimented The Prestige; it's one of my all-time favorite movies
@vaikharijoshi980 Жыл бұрын
Finally!!!! The video I had been waiting for so long!!! Thanks a lot guys😊
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure, hope you enjoyed it!
@vaikharijoshi980 Жыл бұрын
@@CinemaTherapyShow Yes! Idid enjoy it! Thanks again😊 Also, one more request .... can you please make a video on Interstellar as well?
@AFLoneWolf Жыл бұрын
Inception really is kind of a window into how Christopher Nolan's mind works, specifically how he dreams. It also made me realize I kind of do the same.
@cricketjuices Жыл бұрын
absolutely do the prestige. one of the most underrated (?) films in modern history, and I'd love to hear your guy's take on it. I say "underrated" only bc every time I mention the prestige to people irl they're like "....the what?" but they know what inception it. the prestige is such an amazing film and it'd be really neat to hear y'all's thoughts!
@LogansCrazyLand Жыл бұрын
Dude I literally watched this a couple of days ago. One of the best films I’ve ever seen! So compelling, so visually appealing, so thoughtful. Among my top 50.
@katietheordinary Жыл бұрын
My dreams are so frequently healing for me. I've had so many dreams about saying things to people in the past that I just needed to get out. Recently, it has been (good) dreams about my upcoming surgery. Regardless of how these dreams go, I get to unpack them in my waking moments. It is so helpful.
@GipsyD29 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, Inception. One of my most favorite movies. But I was too young to experience this in theaters. I wish I could see this in the cinema.
@carynfisher9463 Жыл бұрын
YES you should do an episode on The Prestige! Grief, ambition, obsession, reasons for and consequences of living a double life, David Bowie... MANY reasons to do an episode on The Prestige!
@claymccoy Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@MWTravesty Жыл бұрын
I think this is why I only thought this movie was okay when I saw it. It was never ahead of me, I totally followed it from beginning to end. I thought it over-explained itself if anything, and was surprised to find out how many other people were so confused by it and needed to watch it multiple times to understand what was going on. You don't see the top fall over at the end because it doesn't matter whether it falls over or not. He's choosing to accept this as his reality, and who are you to tell him different? Even if he's dreaming, he's choosing to stay here in the dream and is no longer going to live his life in fear that he might be dreaming. He's choosing to be present and happy and enjoy these moments rather than always questioning them. Whether or not the top actually falls is intentionally ambiguous because it's irrelevant.
@danielleking262 Жыл бұрын
21:50 omg, *thank you* for saying this!!! My bf says me to ALL THE TIME that when you have some kind of messed up dream or nightmare that when you wake up, you should be relieved that it's over and that it wasn't real (he's not trying to be dismissive, he's just trying to make me feel better) but see, the thing is... I am not like that at all !!! My heart is still racing, my mind is recalling everything single detail from what I can remember, and I am feeling too wired up to just go back to sleep! Like hell that I will feel "relieved" that it was just a dream!!! I am glad that other people see this too!
@rebeccat715 Жыл бұрын
Regarding shared dreams: my college roommate and I got along super well. Like a "they're on the same wavelength" type friendship. One night we both had a dream that involved a concert on campus. Hers was a matter of fact "oh we're going to this concert" background detail, mine was a very stressed "trying to get things done so I can go to the concert," with the concert being a major plot point. As far as we know, there wasn't anything irl that would have caused us to both think of concerts. I like to think that we were just that in tune, but maybe I was frantically talking in my sleep or both our brains somehow equated finals and concerts
@candellina6 Жыл бұрын
YES! Inception has been my number one favorite movie to this day. I love a big concept world, psychology, and dreams.
@silvyx Жыл бұрын
So excited you guys did this one! It blew my family and I's minds when we watched it and it's probably one of the best movies I've ever seen. Can never watch it again for the first time, unfortunately, but I'm certain there are so many details to notice on a repeat viewing. I think the psychology of dreams is really fascinating and I loved seeing you analyze it! On a side note, are you planning/would you consider doing a Psychology of a Hero on Cobb analyzing his journey of grief over his wife and his transition from guilt to acceptance? You touched on it here, but I think it deserves to be talked about in more depth and I'd love to see your take on it.
@L4dyShadow320 Жыл бұрын
I've only been pregnant once and it was an ectopic pregnancy. I grieved for a long time and for the next 9 months I kept having dreams in which things were going on and all of a sudden I'd find out I was like 8 months pregnant (since the ectopic pregnancy was also a surprise). Around the "due date" I had a dream like the others where all of a sudden I'm in labor after not even knowing I was pregnant, but this time I delivered it, held it in my arms, and it was a boy. In the dream, I even said "I can't believe this is the first time we're seeing him" when they did the ultrasound because in real life they were never able to find it either, they were gauging it based on my blood tests. I saw his face and named him. I think it helped give me some closure.
@Wednesdaywoe1975 Жыл бұрын
That's beautiful. And I am sorry for your loss.
@creece6904 Жыл бұрын
You guys really knocked it out of the park with this one 👏 amazing episode guys and girls!
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@Voyse.8 ай бұрын
I had a dream with my child self. I was feeling immense guilt for enjoying anything in the present day, while my child self was trapped in the trauma (she was literally trapped in a dark basement in my dream, its amazing how the brain represents these things). She gave me permission to enjoy life, and reminded me that the defense mechanisms I used as a kid were for the sole purpose of surviving to adulthood. That dream gave me so much relief, and I'm now in a place where I can handle going back and holding the trauma with her
@maradandrade Жыл бұрын
Awesome to see you guys discuss this iconic movie! Would LOVE to see you do The Prestige. Not sure what the therapy angle would be, but I'm ready to hear the Internet Dads discuss it nonetheless. :D
@NanaNushka8 Жыл бұрын
Yes please! The Prestige is one of my favorite movies, it would be awesome to see your angle! *___*
@chenilleoneil1289 Жыл бұрын
@@NanaNushka8it’s one of my favourites too!
@whessharman730 Жыл бұрын
i've! complimented your captions before but i wanted to compliment them again because THANK-YOU for moving the captions to the top of the screen when including text at the bottom to provide definitions. it's a small detail, but a very appreciated one.
@CinemaTherapyShow Жыл бұрын
Anna, our caption writer, is amazing!!
@HalfKort Жыл бұрын
We also dream in emotions I have full retrograde amnesia from CPTSD and my dreams will always be environments but they all come with emotions. Which is what I got from the scene where she didn’t know it was a dream. The coffee started shaking and the explosions went off because she was having an emotional reaction to it. At least that’s what it’s like in my world
@hannukahcelt2027 Жыл бұрын
I, like Jonathan, believe dreams can be healing. I was going through a minor bout of depression after my grandmother passed from cancer back in 2020. About 2 weeks after the funeral, I had a dream where I was in the house I lived in for the first 10 years of my life. There, I first met a young man who at first I didn't recognize, but then I felt a light tap on my shoulder, and turned to see my grandmother as she was before she had cancer. When I turned back, I saw my grandfather, who I wasn't able to say goodbye to before he died suddenly about 15 years ago. I remember him asking me if I had the house blessed, and then I joked, "Obviously not if you're here." We both had a laugh, with him having the smile I had known my grandfather to make in happier times. Even now, thinking about this evokes bittersweet feelings within me. I'm happy that they are in a better place and no longer in pain, but sad by the fact that I must continue my life's journey without them, comforted solely by their memory. Now while my mother is going through a similar health crisis to my grandmother, it was caught earlier, so there is a better chance for her to recover. However I still fear for my mother's health as she is going through this since this is what took my grandmother from me, and I'm not sure I have the ability to handle it should something happen.
@ravneiv Жыл бұрын
I thought the limbo level of the dream demonstrated depression quite well. The real world flies by while someone is stuck in their own mind, in an empty world alone. And the real Mal's behaviour.
@barbradawnbarrett Жыл бұрын
Dream catharsis is amazing!! I had a crappy ex, and years of being mad at him later... I had a dream where I yelled everything I ever wanted to say at him. Every grievance, complaint, and insult perfectly worded and hurled at him! He looked like I had hit him, but then it dawned on me... None of it mattered. Nothing I could do or say would make it undone. I was just carrying around anger and poisoning myself. So I let it go. I woke up and felt lighter and happier than I had in a long time. 10/10 Highly recommend!
@alderblanco2362 Жыл бұрын
I'm a person who has very vivid and storied dreams. One of the hardest things for me is dreams that make me grieve. I dreamt I was married to an African chieftan once and when I woke up, I missed him so vividly all day. There was no reason for it, but the emotions in that dream had been so believable and strong that it felt like I had been ripped away from my home. And it is hard to get people to take that seriously, because it sounds so ridiculous, to get that worked up over a dream.
@macmcleod1188 Жыл бұрын
I had a similar theme of dream this morning. Someone I care about deeply had achieved great success in the dream and was moving on without me. I was trying to get my keys to the car back from them and all their followers kept getting in the way and increasing in numbers.
@shadw47017 ай бұрын
If you can remember the details of a dream character you can make them recurring. I wouldn't use it for companionship too much though
@alderblanco23627 ай бұрын
@@shadw4701 I think this would work for some people, but I've never been able to force a dream or go lucid. If I realize it's a dream and try to influence it, I wake up. It's unfortunate, but I've learned to just enjoy the free stories and write down anything I truly want to hold onto. My dream husband, much as I missed him, is gone on the wind with the rest. A beautiful summer fling to tell my grandkids lol
@zuvasq Жыл бұрын
I remember dreaming of my grandma something around a month after her passing away. She died with the wish of going back to the town she was born with, but she couldn't make the trip long before her cancer, because she had a heart condition and it wasn't a gentle journey up to the mountains. In my dream, she was back there, enjoying the views around her and she told me, I'm alright now, I'll stay here. I think this is what ultimately helped me actually deal with the grief, I remember i wrote some sort of poem about it, and honestly, I have only dreamt of her a couple of times in the 8 years since then, so yep, I'd agree dreams can be quite cathartic
@mollymattingly6736 Жыл бұрын
The first time I saw Inception was with a group of friends at a drive-in theater and there was a thunderstorm happening 5mi away. We couldn't hear half the exposition lines, so we assigned two people per dream level to keep track of what was going on 😂
@vantruong8495 Жыл бұрын
I actually recovered from a trauma I got from my high school teacher through a dream. What she did was so bad and got me haunted for years afterwards and then one day when I had a dream that replayed what she did to me and to my classmates, I was so sick of it and fought back, screaming at her that "I'm no longer afraid of you!". Even though it didn't happen in real life, when I woke up, it made me feel as free as a person who just got out of prison. That emotional release was what I needed to move on
@howdopeoplesocialize Жыл бұрын
Hey guys! This was an amazing episode, Inception is literally one of my favorite movies and I'm so happy you guys did an episode on it! I have a recommendation for Apple TV's "Severance" , it's honestly one of the craziest shows I have ever watched and it's so cool. I think you guys would like it :)) Again, love you guys and continue being great!!
@Becizzle Жыл бұрын
I did feel a sense of healing when i had dreams with my late husband in them. I felt his warmth, his hands on my face, the weight of his arms.....