The Law of Detachment: Expect Nothing, Gain Everything

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@clarkkegley 2 ай бұрын

Re-uploaed because the last 3 min got cut off! What if everything you want is slipping away because you’re holding on too tight? We're talking about DETACHMENT and stripping a complex subject down to something you can actually USE. I’ll be sharing stories about how it FEELS to detach and offering THREE practical solutions. Also - I got a new FREE gift for ya: the BEST 7 Shadow Work Questions to change your life (free gift for yt subs): www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work

@Bethdent 2 ай бұрын

The link doesn’t seem to be working? Is it just my device or is there an issue with it? :)

@claudiabl5787 2 ай бұрын

..I recall it.. the goosebumps were the air conditioning.. it was a very hot and humid summer day. And today, because of the wind, I didn't go to the beach again. Thank you for helping me spend all this time detached.. Now, it seems I write poetry. It is a well spent time, but mostly important is that everything goes as planned

@hightreestess 2 ай бұрын

@@Bethdent It worked fine for me. It maybe you're device.

@hightreestess 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this link & all your great advice, Clark! 👌🏼☺️🦸🏻‍♂️

@dm4life579 2 ай бұрын

"If you are thinking too much, you are not acting enough." Gold

@mollydooker9636 2 ай бұрын

Every job interview I go to, I tell myself I dont care if I get the job or not. Its a role playing game to amuse myself nothing more. Honestly it really works, you remain calm, you think better , you give off an air of casual confidence. This works on dates as well.

@rangerdanger10 2 ай бұрын

Literally. I used to get jobs on accident. Would apply for jobs I knew I couldn't get and went into the interview with a "fuck it" mentality. Got every job lol

@gapper3 Ай бұрын

Completely agree. I got the best job of my life when I already had a good job, and went to the interview entirely detached. See, I didn't really care about the getting the job. I was very happy where I already was. I just saw this dream job, and instead of thinking there will be thousands of applicants more qualified than me, I just thought, I've got absolutely nothing to lose.

@TheProactivePatients 2 ай бұрын

I was a competitive figure skater growing up, and yes, it's true, I always did better in competition when I didn't care what the placement was and I focused more on the pure joy of the movement. That being said, that didnt apply to my training. I needed to feel the push during practice then I could release and purely enjoy the performance.

@jennyjenkins877 2 ай бұрын

That's exactly what came to my mind too. I was never more nervous than during skating competitions and I did way better in dance events than free skating because the fear of falling and embarrassment wasn't there.

@KingaGorski 2 ай бұрын

Crazy how much self-imposed pressure impacts our performance!

@JayTheStoic Ай бұрын

As the Stoics said: "Happiness comes from wanting less, not more." - Contentment comes from within, by aligning your desires with what you already have.

@booktalk69 2 ай бұрын

If you're objective is to become a better version of yourself, you always win

@nickjee Ай бұрын

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

@emilyclark-m2g Ай бұрын

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

@nickjee Ай бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/her?

@emilyclark-m2g Ай бұрын

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@nickjee Ай бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@nicknovakk 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely love your detachment videos. Shifts my mindset 100% of the time.

@KingaGorski 2 ай бұрын

Saaaame detachment in practice is so freeing 🕊

@alisaglore2991 2 ай бұрын

Love the quote “if you’re thinking too much, you aren’t acting enough.”

@hightreestess 2 ай бұрын

Very useful! You worded it so well that I had a huge break through from this video! 💯 I finally learned the real meaning of detachement. Thank you, Thank You, Thank You! I have so much Gratitude for your words! I've read Buddhist philosophy & listened to a million different people doing a million different videos on detachment & I still walked away confused, not knowing how to detach or even what the word truly meant. I love connecting with people. I love love. So, I've been resistant thinking detachment means you have to be emotionally detached, as in like you have to leave people you love, not have as deep of connections with people or never be too in love. A thought pattern started to form in my mind of, "fuck all this detachment bs, I came to Earth to love, connect, experience attachment & be loved! I will detach when I leave this world." Clark, your wording, "detached is outcome independent. Do it for the genuine excitement & because you love it".... OMG! ! Thank you! This is what finally resonated with me after all the years of research I've done! Maybe I've been "overthinking" detachment this whole time. 😂 Dude, detachment sounds easy now & not this big horror story anymore! Thanks again! Total game changer! I feel like if I were Link in The Legend of Zelda, all my hearts just got replenished from only having half a heart left. ❤❤❤❤❤ (Thanks ahead of time to all the old school heads who get my analogy) I just made a huge shift. I quantum leaped! Yay! ✨🤸🏼‍♀️🎉🤸🏼‍♀️✨ ❤❤❤❤❤

@KingaGorski 2 ай бұрын

Excited for you, I feel your shift! 〰

@hightreestess 2 ай бұрын

@@KingaGorski Thank you ! 🙏🏼💗

@zatlanibrahim5438 2 ай бұрын

The backward law , guys just lose hope in everything but yourself and you’ll get everything , think of it this way , you don’t own anything really you don’t , when you came you were naked empty hands , so why would you fight your whole life for something, you won’t bring it to death, it was given to you then you give it back to life, you don’t loose anything and you don’t own anything so detach .

@carlapires7732 2 ай бұрын

I like the way you frame the concept Detachment, somehow different from what Buddhism actually teaches us, but so fitting to our consumerism society. The answer might be just making the right choice between empiricism & pragmatism. Thank you for a daily dose of common sense...in a very messy world!

@KatMo7121 2 ай бұрын

Clark, your videos always help me, right when I'm struggling with the problem you address in them. I don't know how you do that, but thank you, just know you make a lot of sense!

@KingaGorski 2 ай бұрын

When the student is ready, the teacher/message appears 💫 no accidents in the universe!

@hannahdevriend2692 2 ай бұрын

I like how you mentioned that if you are thinking too much, you need to take more action.

@BigestDaveTrades 2 ай бұрын

Pure gold, thank you so much. I have been watching videos about detachment for 2 weeks now, but this is the only video that has given actionable steps and not just stating the obvious "detachment brings better results"

@KingaGorski 2 ай бұрын

I lost my iPhone at the beach a few months ago while running around and playing with my dog. It was inconvenient at most. I looked for it for about 15 minutes and then bounced because I have better things to do with my time and I had somewhere I had to be. Got a new phone the next day and just dealt with it. Shit happens and we have to learn to self-soothe, cause what's done is done and no use being hot and bothered if there's nothing you can do about it. 🤷‍♀

@rodneyguyette1129 2 ай бұрын

Thank You!!! There's seems to be a Fine Line, between Living in the End, and Letting Go so the Universe can do its job and Manifest. Blessings! 💜🙏💜

@mahesh777les 2 ай бұрын

Happy Teachers' Day, 🌼 I know this is a bit late, but my appreciation for you is always there. You've not only taught me lessons from books but also lessons for life. Your guidance has been like a bright light in my journey. 🌟 Sorry for the late wishes, but your impact on me goes beyond a single day! Thank you for being an incredible teacher! 💖🙏

@KingaGorski 2 ай бұрын

Much love to all our teachers 🙏 & everyone can be our teacher. Lessons everywhere you look.

@richy4472 2 ай бұрын

I just spent a couple hours doing those 7 questions. Absolutley life changing and it's totally changed my outlook on life it just lifted a huge weight off of my shoulder. Thank you! You've helped me gain clarity about the recent events going on in my life, as well as uncover stuff I didn't even know about myself.

@matthewvoorhies7840 Ай бұрын

Thank you, I actually needed that. When you talked about, not making your over attachment wrong but separating yourself from it.

@priyankaupadhye 2 ай бұрын

My favourite speaker 😊🙏🏻

@charlynhawley2038 2 ай бұрын

Thank you 🦚 🦋 🌻 peace and joy

@TheBhannah 2 ай бұрын

Spot on Clark !

@khfgt616 2 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this. Thank you!

@1josephyeo 2 ай бұрын

loved the video, thank you clark! this was a really useful reminder.i had felt that i was able to use the law of detatchment in highschool all the time to change from a b student to an a+ student, and it was the most fun and happiness ever because it was about the journey, not the destination. I have been struggling with depression for 5 years to reclaim that sense of detatchment and your video helped me realize that again. I always wanted to start a KZbin channel but maybe I know enough to start one now and I should stop watching videos to overload my brain with. Much love!

@You-uj8jl 6 күн бұрын

I loved this video and I had this question in my mind as how to practice it, and the way you gave practical and simple solutions just made it so easy. Thank You Clark❤

@indiaindia4556 Ай бұрын

MAN! WTF. You just destroyed me to form new me. Love and Respect

@KarsonsChannel 2 ай бұрын

"I study meditation. I love anything that says the act of non-doing is the most important thing you can do with your life. My whole life my parents have been like 'you are so lazy'. Turns out I'm a Buddhist." -Daniel Tosh

@Mr.Fomalhaut 2 ай бұрын

Clark your vids have been consistently fire, keep cooking ❤‍🔥🔥

@Mmyythandle 2 ай бұрын

The content, delivery, editing…you’ve done well for yourself with this channel sir. And at such a young age. Bravo 👏 I hope you are proud of yourself.

@eirysepoet 2 ай бұрын

Hi there.. I'm glad to be 😊here for your first hour!! Learning detachment is just all my life long learning. Is to learn to let go from Buddha's teaching 🙏 Thank you for all your contents Clark 😊

@rsimonw14 2 ай бұрын

So much value in 10 minutes. U r da best mate, thanks for everything! 💚🙌

@rian.segarra 2 ай бұрын

Can’t believe how your letting go videos helped me a lot. I saw your previous videos where you shared you’re a drummer. 🥁

@movementcreatorTV24 Ай бұрын

Wow! What a great story of Olympic skater Jansen to showcase the importance of detaching! That was impactful! While I was going through my separation I cared too much to repair things and too much about my former wife and I did things that were desperate. I learned so much from that experience, including the importance of detaching of the outcomes we may want and just put in the work for the love of what we do.

@klscriviner 18 күн бұрын

Noted. Thank you for this!! 👏👏

@tomboy-sh7ur 22 күн бұрын

Very helpful, i am stuggling with over-attachment and this video really helped me, will definitely put this into practice

@stanguitars 2 ай бұрын

Dude the guide to detachment is exactly what I figured this morning I need to look into. Clark is always on points, thanks a lot for this piece of content and for everything you do bro. Cheers

@Zara-Zen 2 ай бұрын

Your skin is glowering looking healthy Clark. Thank you for this

@adrianhayton9883 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your views on this. I will replay in as much as I can . I am struggling with this issue xx

@davidcohn4861 Ай бұрын

This is the best self help video I ever seen

@Alisha_Mariiee Ай бұрын

Love this! 💕💕this helps me so much to detach from my manifestation and growing my KZbin channel. Just take action less thinking! Thank you I will definitely be brainwashing myself to think like this every day.❤

@magicselfandspirit 18 күн бұрын

This is an excellent approach, thanks so much

@worldtraveller4613 22 күн бұрын

Thanks. Nice explanation

@greghutch2014 2 ай бұрын

Detachment from the following really sets up individual for success. Detachment from Things, Places, People, Situations and finally Outcomes. When I first received this download I was completely blown away because I had spent most of my life being so attached to all of the above. Once I began to adapt I realized that I am the most important person in my life and everyone and everything else are supporting characters for my future. I am still a work in progress but my life has now become more productive and I can be more effective in all aspects of my life. Please share your thoughts and do give me your feedback.

@christopherboudreau6328 24 күн бұрын

This is great information, definitely subscribed 💯

@A.L.I.S.O.N 2 ай бұрын

I liked how you laid it all out. Great job! Holding everything loosely has become a way of life. Fluidity. Nice 😊👌

@1234zcrom Ай бұрын

Love the video and it addresses my problem for sure. In the work force and career world I get more if I dont get too attached to it

@mysterio1374 12 күн бұрын

Ty for this!

@kates4906 2 ай бұрын

Just when I needed it. Thank you❤

@antoniaosborne4972 2 ай бұрын

Omg you just helped me so much. 1. love the separate vs suppress reframe - been a major issue for me. Past tense :) 2. I LOVE taking action - major overthinking (past identity). Tysm!

@jesuscolina2337 26 күн бұрын

Shalom!!! Thank you 🙏

@pamelasndr6334 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, your videos are very helpful 🙏🏻☺️ it’s beautiful to see, that there are people who want to see other people win 👏🏻

@TheRyankainec Ай бұрын

This is great content. Thank you!

@Caramelinfused 2 ай бұрын

I release my attention and attachment for people situations and outcomes 😊

@tommobayliss 2 ай бұрын

Fantastic video! Thank you!

@MissAmyPea 2 ай бұрын

Great material and inspiration!

@wthsajit Ай бұрын

Hey, quick suggestion. Take 6:15. When you are telling the story about Tiger Woods, instead of making it b/w, you could zoom in for effect to make it look more appealing to the viewers. Just my two cents. B/w looks a little off for situations like these. But otherwise, top notch content as usual.

@MXVcreative 2 ай бұрын

Great lesson - thanks for this video 👌🏻

@100mathswizard Ай бұрын

Incredible bade bhaiya

@khuramali2519 27 күн бұрын

Great video 💯📸

@ansonalford5116 2 ай бұрын

Awesome! Sums it up nicely

@eeva9585 2 ай бұрын

I’ve been horse riding my whole life and i feel nervous every time before getting on the horse but when i dont, i know its time for a break

@lisamarie870 2 ай бұрын

I’m more confused. The speed skater finally stopped trying to do it for himself and do for his family and was finally successful but the next thring you talk about is doing things for yourself and not others. What am I missing? How do you detach when you can’t find a job and the bills keep coming? I would just like to make enough not to worry about shut off, evections, having food. I’ve tried focusing on the feeling of relaxing and not stressing about it and the feeling of the freedom of waking not worried about money but how can I not constantly worry n think about money? I’ve taken so much action applying for jobs and trying different ways to earn money online that it’s seeems that’s alls I do anymore. I feel detachment is my issue. How do you detach from needing enough money to just live? Advice? Thanks

@rangerdanger10 2 ай бұрын

Apply for jobs that pay more and that you may think you might get. Go into that interview thinking if you don't get it then it's ok. Might surprise yourself. Break out your comfort zone.

@jamesroufs1881 2 ай бұрын

I like the video

@Uncommony 2 ай бұрын

The 3 D majors to success, Desensitise, Declutter, and Detach. Stay Uncommon!

@PeterS-ns5ke 2 ай бұрын

Seriously great video!

@alismart 2 ай бұрын

superb, thanks for sharing

@tinatin9677 2 ай бұрын

I'm adore your videos 🤩

@audreytessier5816 2 ай бұрын

Love your videos clark 🫶🏻

@acctahmed7055 2 ай бұрын

wow this is amazing

@rodrigosuarez1942 2 ай бұрын

Great content as always. I think I've never seen a video in this channel that wasn't worth watching.

@chineduodu 2 ай бұрын

Brilliant.

@louisphilip_s 2 ай бұрын

Awesome stuff man! Thanks for the truth bombs😅

@heematara27 2 ай бұрын

You could also say that I love letting things come to me instead of I love taking action. You could still get the same result.

@Minouky 2 ай бұрын

Your insights really resonated with me, as I've been grappling with detachment for some time now. Your video was incredibly helpful! I'm eager to learn more from you and would love to join your email list and get the 11 questions that can change my life.However, I'm curious - how do you recommend moving forward when attachment is all that's on your mind? I'd appreciate any guidance on how to break free from these thoughts and cultivate a greater sense of detachment.

@mollydooker9636 2 ай бұрын

Every job interview I go to, I tell myself I dont care if I get it or not. In fact i tell myself I

@amariadore1618 2 ай бұрын

Beautiful..-- Clark, welcome to the party. ~AA

@dailyrepsofficial 2 ай бұрын

Embrace the Law of Detachment as Buddha advised: 'The root of suffering is attachment.' Letting go allows for true freedom and growth. By releasing control, we invite new opportunities and deeper contentment into our lives.

@Freewill33 2 ай бұрын

Good way to deal with “anxiety”

@Gjermund-Sivertsen 2 ай бұрын

Perfect timing. This is in sync with me listening to Grant Cardone's 10x message this week. Don't think. Jut take action! By the way: What do I think of this video? Good as always.. but the music was slightly too loud, hard to concentrate on the message.

@ahmadi3718 2 ай бұрын

Because the goal is just a step towards God, attachment to goal is idolatry, also attachment to current reality, break free to succeed

@Edwindeleon-gi8os 2 ай бұрын

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@phucnguyen-mh5ft Ай бұрын

could you make video that compare law of attraction and law of detachment please

@DanOsborne 2 ай бұрын

Love your shirt In the thumbnail, do you mind me asking where it’s from?

@simonekilby8907 2 ай бұрын

My sons called Clark think I was meant to come across your video

@georgiedoors5369 Ай бұрын

Grateful for this… it really struck a chord 👌🏻🙏🫶🏻

@Darius-y1e Ай бұрын

You ever try sleeping but cant then you stop trying and end up falling asleep or you lose something can't find it stop looking for it and it finds you.This cant just be me.