Clashing: Divorce Court - Leslie vs. Michael

[@KevinMadison-vc1ky]

He is a good dude and she definitely got big headed when she lost that weight smh she needs to humble herself and keep him because he loves her unconditionally and I can tell.

[@juanitabrown6566]

Girl by u better keep him he love you

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

True

[@jackieo8672]

Agreed

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

THAT IS ONE KIND AND HUMBLE MAN .GOD BLESS YOU

[@ronnimartin7033]

Any mother with children in the house who stays out all hours is setting a very poor example, esp for her girls.

[@revans100591]

I get the feeling she is cheating or is on the verge of it because ain't nobody staying out that late with a husband and kids at home unless they got someone on the side. She better chill because the grass isn't always greener on the other side and whoever it is at that club that has her feeling herself might not be a long term thing.

[@ChellyJ]

Believe it or not, that’s just motorcycle club “conduct”. I had an aunt who was in a club and it was like this ALLL the time. The only time it really works is if you’re married to someone in that club!

[@MarinaRhymin]

@@ChellyJ I think they said she WAS in a motorcycle club. I don’t think it’s a current thing. Edit: ikr? Those clubs are WILD! If you miss a mandatory meeting, they FINE you!

[@soloman_am]

As usual the stable man providing a fairly comfortable lifestyle is "boring" ma'am leave him and go get with a pookie who is "exciting" just don't complain when his lifestyle catches up with him

[@carolynmathison4981]

Judge gave them great advice hopefully things work out for them.

[@Fleefromsin]

Sometimes the people that you are the most gracious to, will be the same people that are the most judgmental towards you. Sometimes the people that you throw gifts to, will be the same people that will throw javelins back at you. This is life. This is leadership. Don’t be discouraged. Keep giving grace. Love everyone. It’s not in vain. God has a reward for you.

[@CandyCoated96]

In my opinion. He loves her unconditionally, but he is overwhelmed with having to take on the burden of holding it all together. It's a union it will take two parties to compromise and comply. She needs to step up and let go of what she did for the 1st 7 yrs, as there may be some secret resentment there, since she brought it up twice. He on the other hand does need to compromise and show more interest in her, and go out from time to time. She wasn't living at 400 pounds, now she can and wants to enjoy life outside of being a mom. Word of the day is Compromise. Love isn't selfish. It seeketh not it's own. nor does it keep record of wrong. It endures. Judge gave solid advice. They can work it out. She wife needs to take things more serious though.

[@lesley5380]

Biratric surgery changes are not spoken about enough. Your hormones, alcohol abuse, vitamin deficiency etc...

[@MarinaRhymin]

Indeed. Not to mention excess skin and the self-esteem issues that can cause.

[@ZjxjdNxxjdn]

Yes she got the big head and i don't think she really wants him anymore. She's all about herself. Just say if she put the wait back on and i bet she'll change . If i were him i would find someone the appreciate him

[@damianmahabir7720]

That's some good advice thanks

[@msloverluvaPAS]

I like them together. Hopefully she was able to chill out on the going out so much and he was able to stop being so boring and neglectful towards her. They can work this out with a little compromise from both sides.

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

I agree

[@sandrarice4197]

She is all wrong!!! She needs to be single if she wants to party all of the time. He's a good man. He is being responsible. He's tired!!! Who wouldn't be tired after working 16 or 18 hours a day!!! Sh needs to be resent in her children's lives. I feel sorry for her their children. The Dad is being responsible working on the road which he can't help. That's his job. The mom is out partying. I hope and pray she listens to what the judge told her.

[@secemoiraharrell1035]

Jack in the box😂😂😂

[@jameekagillis]

She don't like him. Point blank period.

[@saturnladee110]

Evidently, he doesn't like her either.

[@Edward_Strong1982]

I hate when people say “you were beautiful both ways.” I’m glad judge came back to acknowledge as long as she’s happy that’s all that matters. It’s not about what other people think about you but it’s about what YOU think about yourself.. As far as this wife I’ve seen this myself first hand of someone losing weight then losing their minds, partying, cheating on their partner, etc. A lot of these people need counseling along with the weight loss surgery.

[@sereneamani1713]

Among other things, they are too young to have some of the problems they're experiencing. This does not make for a marriage lasting happily into their 60s and 70s. EDIT FYI They are in Merced, Ca (central California). In 2016, their rent was $1100. Don't be fooled if you're thinking about moving to California. Because in the Bay Area (even in 2016), you are not going to find anything (not even a kitchenette) for under $2000 or MUCH MORE. And you don't want to live in Central California unless you like burning hot summers and meth labs.

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

RIGHT BEFORE PRIDE COMES DESTRUCTION LADY

[@cedricliggins7528]

Ms Graves is really pretty ❤️

[@kingnajiyd7282]

Why do people.clap when females say they had weight loss surgery...its not like they performed the surgery clap 4the surgeon they literally choose the easy way out there's no hard work N someone having surgery the people that should get applause R the ones that work it off

[@privatename40]

This relationship never worked the way she wanted it to. At 400lbs she accepted it. Obesity is more than lbs it is depression, feeling tired, embarrassed and often health issues. The wife that he had is dead. If he wants to save the marriage they need to date again and learn what physically healthy people do to have fun. If he worked out he might not blame his sedentary lifestyle on being a truck driver. If he refuses to grow then stay as is and go get another 400lbs woman and eat at buffets and call it entertainment. I distanced myself from my bestie because no matter how much I tried, she let herself go and doesn’t do anything but go to Restaurants for entertainment! Her body her choice 😊

[@highlander666]

You're absolutely right

[@anonymousreview1049]

He’s a truck driver….period. She wants to live the life of a party girl and a biker, two very different worlds. If she don’t accept this man and his work life, I see her cheating in the very near future trying to get someone with the same lifestyle.

[@revans100591]

I think it's already happened or at least was about to before coming to court and this was her airing her grievances to seem justified in cheating. Dude could step things up but he's not a bad guy and doesn't seem unreasonable she's just full of herself and thinks she could do better than him and I think that's a mistake on her end.

[@kyleyoung9326]

this is something that is so sad to see. A couple that fell in love and helped each other through life and the SECOND the woman loses all the weight that was "holding her back" she gets a big head and wants to go out and party all the time because she didn't feel comfortable doing it as much when she was fat. This man loves her unconditionally and all he wants is his wife back, i just dont think she will ever come back. I feel like she is going to get tired of him always wanting to stay home and will end up hooking up with someone at her motorcycle club since they are the only people she is spending quality time with. YOU ARE GROWN AND YOU HAVE KIDS, stop acting like you are some party animal staying out all night. I dont care if it's for the motor club or clubbing in general, it's completely disrespectful to your partner when the ONLY thing he asks of you is to come home to him and you dont because you spent all night out.

[@JohnJones-lp2pp]

She doesn't respect him. Dude go to the gym and be more romantic and tap it every chance you get and she will get you the world. Worked for me.

[@lamaridelbridge9601]

Smh

[@ericamonroe7659]

He seems a little naggy and she seems irritating ..... judge Lynn always has the best advice 😂❤

[@highlander666]

He's not an attractive man, but he seems decent at least. She looks significantly better now, 400+lbs isnt beautiful 😬

[@sereneamani1713]

What's unattractive about him in your opinion?

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

​@@sereneamani1713exactly, what's wrong w him?

[@JudeGliz]

@@aprilbouknightmarquez6340There’s absolutely Nothing wrong with him, they just chattin.