Classic Divorce Court: Can You Keep Up?

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They moved in together very quickly but their intense relationship has given way to petty jealousies and unjustified suspicions. Merlin says ever since Ricardo got out of jail, he has not been the same person. She feels Ricardo is not happy with her because he is always staring at other women. Ricardo says he doesn’t like the way Merlin dresses when she goes out in public. He says she shows off too much of her body and attracts the wrong attention.
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[@harris1653]

She tryn so hard to sound smart, she jealous as hell, she has no confidence in herself, she justifies her actions so she's stuck in her ways, she has a bad understanding of finance, she's immature, she is for she bruh...not you.

[@brent9571]

"You all about her and she all about hers" - Lil Wayne (these hoes ain't loyal)

[@Lynai0812]

Want a $1k bag, and don’t even have $20 in it. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@myal7532]

Yes! It makes no sense.

[@ninaray3300]

FACTS💯

[@2015humblebeginningzb]

You said that right...order is relevant!

[@issatoukamara783]

People seem to forget all those bags are made from china the company just puts there logo on it and rip u off just like apple iphones made from china

[@PureAloha78]

Lynne Williams exactly!!!!!

[@loraleijessick9581]

I'm only at 2:14 and already I'm fed up with this broad. He's working, she isn't, and she wants him to get a second job or go to school, but only wants him to go to school so he can make more money, not to improve himself.

[@mamigotz4]

She's a brat and he's a people pleaser. She gon stress that boy out so much he's gonna snap

[@cearamatthews5180]

So true 💯

[@journeygreen6272]

She found a good one😂 Just like I did at her age

[@ricardobaez5282]

I did snap lol over with now

[@b-ybeenhim6051]

She has champagne 🍾 taste with beer 🍺 money 💰 😂

[@coolkidzmedia3259]

B-Y Been Him ayooooo😂

[@rtg722]

More Like Kool-Aid Money😎😎🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️!!!

[@charmingd.6725]

🤪😂

[@RoughJustice2k18]

she isn't very attractive either - too much make-up, not enough intelligence

[@heatherhepner4798]

You mean koolaid money

[@melissawhittaker8033]

I don't own a suit a clothes or bag that has a brand name on it, but when I put those cheap ass things together I turn heads. Girl get your shit straight. It's not the cost it's how u put them together

[@denisesaintil993]

Amen to that

[@keltwonda1359]

You speaking my language my sister

[@shanimorrison8730]

None of my clothes are brand name lol in my dreams maybe lol

[@tarledamanley2832]

💯

[@moccisimo]

Period, having designer doesn't mean you have a sense of style

[@cadillacdeville5828]

First off college is NOT for everyone and it's not a sure path to money. Secondly, for what she expects ,she better be able to do those things herself last...you get who you choose. Damn headache and I need a drink

[@marisol8924]

😃

[@willLLIt]

🗣 say that

[@ddnquestion1]

You should tell Judge Lynn that she is the one always yelling college this, college that and most of these kids can't even finish High School anymore!!!!

[@terencedove5047]

College may not be for everyone; but self-growth and self-development is, no matter what one's station in life...

[@cadillacdeville5828]

@@terencedove5047 yes it is 👌

[@richieakz]

He better ruuuuuun away. She’s going to ruin his life.

[@abigailsimpson5904]

Amen

[@cjohnson7004]

And his credit

[@abigailsimpson5904]

@@cjohnson7004 amen

[@evonjohnson4078]

I'd say FLY AWAY.

[@soloman_am]

Fast not slow she's gonna break him when he catches her cheating with a richer man

[@SlashTheWeasel]

When I was her age, I had the perfect figure and all, and I knew how to dress well without buying designer anything. I dressed extremely well but I didn't pay much for it. Sales racks, Good Will and consignment shops. No one knew how much I spent, only that I looked well put together. She should have been taught that looking good is better than any name brand.

[@marismellla6589]

you can look like a queen with stuff from a thriftstore.just need to be creative

[@crystalhall-davis9748]

SlashTheWeasel exactly 🙏🏾

[@taylorthenatural5509]

Agreed!

[@Brandiisbeloved]

Women nowadays are into the labels and maintaining a certain lifestyle. I don’t understand it

[@taureanheart8931]

@Jamilla Dobson she needs to place herself in a position to be able to provide all that she wants for herself. That’s a lot of the problem for some. They want a man to give them a certain life style. Smh

[@misslauren6798]

She's not going to change. She might as well find someone who can afford her (or better yet, therapy), and he might as well run...

[@NaturallyPrettyBrownK26]

Lauren Kindred 🤣🤣🤣

[@only1butterscotch]

He's one step away from heartache and not seeing she going use men to get to where she want be

[@veneziamckinney8343]

Get a degree and better job

[@kattiethomas4687]

That's what he thought he wanted..

[@thatguyteejayy]

I agree 💯💯

[@angelphilbert1200]

Tolerism for the episode is; It's called "Conspicuous consumption", and what it does is it keeps you broke! This is a real problem for people who have self-worth issues.

[@andremacintosh9501]

Her expensive lifestyle is going to mek her cheat when her man can't give her the money for expensive things

[@cynthiapickens177]

Run

[@taureanheart8931]

Your right!

[@blackyodaprime]

He says he feels like an old man, but he doesn't have the wisdom that can come with age. She's a headache and a bill. Drop that one.

[@neffybaby2273]

I wish I had a Judge Lyn when I was in my teens! Love her, she gives such great advice. ❤

[@lb1798]

You should read her book...a lot of her good advice came from her Mom❤❤

[@reyjenetapia2559]

Same

[@Elanjdriab23]

“I mean he can get a second job” Judge lynn: “do u work” “No i dont work” Me : 🤨🤨🙄🙄🙄🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@CraftedEyeCandiesOG1]

Yesss, that part! lmbo and smh

[@na8dgr829]

$5 for everytime she said "like"

[@bajanzelly]

...wealthy like Louis Vuitton...

[@ThatPaliRN]

I was looking for this comment. Underrated

[@joycesmith53]

2000 dollar purse with no money in it

[@sarcasm176]

I mean... this girl gonna make him broke in the future

[@coolkidzmedia3259]

Fleur she is definitely going to break his bank

[@redbuddha8373]

She is making him broke now!

[@LeshaFBaby]

Then on to the next

[@Tony_Wes]

I had a girl like this and cut her off

[@anthonywilliams855]

Right now

[@GigiDrummond]

Has anyone else here wonder what thd hell is up with her blouse? Hanging on a that good plated dinosaur bone necklace?

[@59thanks61]

Attention

[@onetoone1775]

I would say its confusing as her mind and lack of a good design like the lack of some brain cells.

[@GigiDrummond]

@D Whe 😅🤣😂yes we certainly do!

[@beb5407]

Great Observation 🧿👁️👀

[@kilo9439]

Homeboy need to kick rocks before she burn you out

[@coolkidzmedia3259]

picheau she going to stress him out

[@robertbrowne4524]

Paternity court

[@thephantom1939]

He definitely can't afford this one...⏳

[@karenbeee4568]

And he will die trying poor guy. He will never give her enough (love, possessions, time, attention) in her eyes and he will hate himself in the end.

[@nicolea5796]

And she clearly can't afford herself either. Her mother and boyfriend give her money/purses, friends gift her purses, does side jobs to save up money just to spend it all. She is broke.

[@nicholasallen4036]

No one haven't cheated on her before and she is so insecure, girl you better grow up.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

No one that she knows of lol.

[@JohnDoe23292]

She has a lot of growing up to do

[@alexiscartertaylor5396]

I strongly agree

[@melodywalker6055]

I agree too...

[@JB-uy9ts]

Money hungry

[@whitetiger7148]

She's materialistic, shallow and quite frankly, "she ain't all that"! I would like to see her put to the test on UDY's "Catching Goldiggers". She will probably dump him for the first "rich guy" that can afford her! I never heard her mention "love"! Run brother, run!! She's not worth it, because it will only get worse! 😱

[@musicgal9830]

I don’t think it’s a money problem because it never is. It’s deeper than that - her problem is IMAGE, which is connected to her identity. Who am I? what is my value? What is my purpose here?? are very common questions that ALL people grapple with in the midnight hour. This insecurity manifests itself in different forms from accumulation of money or success to countless relationships because everyone is trying to find an objective meaning to life! We are in no position to judge her way of dealing with this confusion.

[@whitetiger7148]

@@musicgal9830 Please don't confuse judgements with opinions. Opinions are beliefs, not necessarily based on facts. They are personal preferences that take into consideration one's mood, the mindset of the crowd being addressed and the overall environment of the situation. Judgement is more of an assessment which takes information into consideration.

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

I agree…

[@Asmera-1]

Brother! You run as fast as you can from this woman, god knows which planet came from for her to think that way.

[@melodywalker6055]

Love Judge Toler, she always has so much wisdom to share🙌🏽

[@shadesofvioletcat]

Everytime judge toler mentions the girl having insecurities she looks like she might want to cry. I believe she’s spot on and I hope she can find her confidence.

[@jaynehogue2459]

She's an entitled brat

[@mercurybell1772]

She's not worth the money, she'd get better use out of therapy. she's trying to make up for self worth by being draped in gold, too bad her tasts looks trashy and no amount of name brands can change it. He's got some inferior issues himself by the way he stays, but the beach life is all about image, no substance.

[@theresamuro1897]

She wants the best of the best, but can’t fix her teeth? $1,000- 2,000 on purses when she can fix her smile.

[@fuseinaalhassanbanda6230]

That mean,but is the true 👍

[@paintb0x]

You’re as shallow as she is

[@Mzpretty17]

All I can say is judge Lynn we need you to squeeze 5 more years in for us because the amount of gems 💎 you drop speaks volumes towards people who is not even on divorce court...But since I know u want to do more, I’ll hold on to these video for as long as KZbin allows it..

[@sl5299]

my sentiment exactly. i m thankful for my friend introducing Judge Lynn n this program to me. Her wise words guide me to think n are always good reminders, not just for love issues but also how we should work on ourselves. Thank you, Judge Lynn!❤

[@Firebol84]

Judge lynn toler is so beautiful tho ...insightful, intelligent,confident and absolutely is self aware . Wish we could all be that way

[@ard3128]

I mean.. I cannot stop looking at the top right strap that's over the necklace ..it's all messed up

[@cynthiahicks1796]

Yes... very distracting!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Elanjdriab23]

Right !! And her hair looks mad messy !!! Of all the days to want to wear nice designer and TODAY on TV you decide to look mediocre.. the IRONY 😂😂😂🤣

[@Sin_Falimus]

Well yeah, that's why EVERYTHING has to be designer brand name. Because she doesn't know how to dress well...... Or at all

[@pcarebear1]

That Gussini fashion LOL

[@MyGoodenessGracious]

Judge Toler hit a side eye tht should have let him knw....she ain't it! Run young man run 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️

[@salenachannel769]

The judge wanted to go in on her and girls like her but she held back. You have to be gentle with insecure people like her because they can break easily

[@evonjohnson4078]

That Guy needs glasses , contact lens or probably an eye transplant. That is a very slippery slope. Dangerous girl to be around.

[@onetoone1775]

lol, and some running shoes.

[@bridgetts4767]

She's doing to much. He better run. She's giving Rosie Perez vibes. Lol

[@KB-rb3vl]

This is old... hopefully she matured some and shops at fashion nova and stopped tripping 🤣🤣🤣

[@happyguy2k]

Yeahh agree with you... she is young so no point bashing her,, hopefully she understood and took judges advice to heart

[@Toniegoodaz12]

Oh man every time she says “like...wat is going on” jeezas Shit I be so fly in my Old Navy jeans and $4 clearance shirt smh some ppl really do got it all wrong!!!

[@chantalpenn9234]

She from Miami. Some speak like this

[@willLLIt]

🙌🏾

[@ArtisticDreams2U]

Yes. Old Navy is the spot! Top this... Walmart clearance rack... shirt marked down to $1. I am not shamed! I make money... Money does not make me. Take care.

[@Toniegoodaz12]

ArtisticDreams2U amen we can definitely go shopping together when this thing is all over lol

[@willLLIt]

i just purchased a bag for 109 aint no way im dropping 2k on a purse i aint wana pay 109 😂

[@wildfiregirl1556]

Facts.

[@zoeykrish4302]

I don’t understand her dress?! 😂 Like why is it folded over her necklace

[@leslie3566]

Zoey Krish same lol

[@aball7654]

That was the first thing I noticed her fuked up dress I want to straighten it up for her shit make my head hurt

[@buttercupc1255]

I think its fix that way to hide cleavage probably had to much showing and was asked to cover up ,due to the fact that it’s not allowed in court

[@aball7654]

@@buttercupc1255 right she knew she wasn't going to the club she should have wore appropriate clothes to court

[@zoeykrish4302]

M Bailey so? It still looks weird tho

[@itsyagirlnatasha2158]

Divorce Court teaches me so many life lessons ❤️

[@Esther-rl8ft]

SAME!!!

[@sammyjays8270]

She's so insecure, it's sad this woman has no confidence in her self and in her relationship 🤦‍♀️

[@traceysbodytreats257]

She’s oozing with insecurity.

[@jessigurl9375]

Preach judge!!!! The lables dont make u u make what u got work for u 💅💅💅 i call it beauty on a budget

[@ricardobaez5282]

She got worst 😅we not together anymore thank y’all for watching tho

[@1234j]

How you doing now?

[@rowkass22]

Good man 🙏🏻 thank God for that.

[@markeetarayford8885]

She's Silly

[@jamesartemus5016]

She isn't worth it, RUN

[@frankjweatherspoon8838]

run 🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️as fast as you can run

[@mraims2plez]

If he's a maintenance technician, he's got the opportunity to make more in the future. She doesn't even have a job. I'm a maintenance tech and I make more than everyone I work with and always have in that position. She's just a gold digger and a hard headed one at that. IMO she doesn't have the goods to be that way and 'sides gold digging ain't cool. And designer doesn't mean the best. Name brand items are usually the best because they have to maintain a quality for the sake of their brand. But designer items aren't made to last any longer than name brand items.

[@ramseyabsessien8990]

I think she is side hustling rich old men to buy those designers.

[@kuroe-chan5190]

So true. My husband been a tech for 10 yrs he does very well. At 22 that’s a good job to have and like you said he can go further. She’s moneybhungry

[@sweetcaroa8961]

Is she really 24. She buys 1000 bag after saving and asking mommy... God help him

[@hobbytechtv7007]

I hope that wig didn’t cost too much

[@Sin_Falimus]

You already know it was 700 bucks

[@peterwebb4468]

Run forest run your life is going to be very miserable trying to please her wow she’s crazy

[@joycejoseph4151]

Judge you nailed Merlin by your valuable advice, she seems to create problems for her self.Every man and woman keep admiring people who dress well and also those who dress inappropriate,eyes catch up can't control.Merlin needs to grow up responsible 👍🙏

[@coolkidzmedia3259]

She is wanting too much from him too soon

[@gregorysmith7859]

For real

[@pebblesshannele3900]

Right! And she broke, no job herself...FOH!

[@seoulseokjin]

Im sorry, wth is “conversating”? The US is inventing English now LMAO

[@MinisterAngel777]

Please sir, she does not represent us all . 😭🤦🏽‍♀️ we know it’s conversing .,.. and it’s irritating as hell

[@MinisterAngel777]

Conversate is a nonstandard verb that means “to have a conversation.” The standard verb (and the one you should use if you want to be correct) is converse.

[@seoulseokjin]

Angelique Anderson yes im aware, heard enough of it. It was just sarcasm 😅

[@francisjohnson665]

@Meme Melanin, La Negrita Americana it has , like many other words that sound so wrong .

[@dupree380]

If you have to save for a liability you dont need. "By the time you can afford it, the shit ain't important"-Nas

[@rosej5029]

This should be a "Before Your Vows" episode. They're not married.

[@closedmouthchunkyheel8866]

She’s real jealous and the constant nagging is annoying

[@prittyrican]

When she has to pay all the bills, car payments, car maintenance, gasoline and buy $1000 bags, with her OWN money, I'll bet she gets regular real quick

[@anthonyrmoten]

22yrs all men have a wondering eyes

[@anthonyrmoten]

@D Whe and I'm 46 with a great wondering eye If you dont use them you may loose them 🙂

[@barbaragould500]

It's not what u do..its how u do it...🤷...i admire a man that can "look"without"looking"..i.e..STARRING LIKE A ZOMBIE!!!

[@cynthiahicks1796]

@D Whe ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cynthiahicks1796]

@@anthonyrmoten ...🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vangoghsotherear4114]

Would men be so coy if the woman had the wandering eye?

[@kylemchynn9376]

First of all, imagine her without that war paint like makeup, awful wig and with her designer stuffs.

[@annarroyo7204]

She ugly her wig is trash and she look old

[@andyjosiah7893]

That wig is too big for your her head ma'am.

[@bryantworley2922]

Seen this one years ago, and still feel the same way: not workable. She wants to change him (in her head she's thinking 'I want to better him [by force]). People should remember to do unto others, as they want done to themselves - if you don't want to be changed/readjusted, don't try to change/readjust others. Also, even though opposites attract sometimes, most times they repel.

[@clients26]

I can see this dude life from now through my crystal ball, lol working 5 jobs a day to maintain this woman lol

[@wildfiregirl1556]

He choose lol.

[@kimberlyk912]

Since this is such an old episode...I wonder whether they are still together?

[@cmatlock26]

She is on a new show with Judge Star under the name “Mimi Cruz” vs Keion Green

[@Loruca]

Ricardo replied to one of the comments from two years ago. Everything people have predicted has happened and they are no longer together. Sadly, he ended up in jail again.

[@sexiidashayy]

Word of advice to the man... FOKIN RUNNNNN BEFORE ITS TOO LATEEEEE

[@robeltoburrows3768]

A very jealous woman, usually the person who is cheating?

[@Tony29103]

I love the whole "he should get a second job".. Bitch get a first job lol.

[@CorazonDKJH]

Take a drink every time she says the word 'like'

[@tellnolies8530]

What does she have on?🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tripleekitchen...6676]

This is what we have to deal with in society.. Living beyond their mean. Soon she'll drop out of college, have some babies, live on welfare and take all the tax money and buy expensive purses.. So sad..

[@Sin_Falimus]

And bait guys into giving her more money and buying her things

[@bryanmitchell6809]

And marry a guy to pay her college loans then divorce him and take most of what's left. For the last step trick a provider male, that will put up with her post wall used up b.s., into marriage for retirement.

[@gumbs4]

Looking at her top for 10min trying to figure out if it’s worn correctly with the necklace 🤯

[@334LIVING]

She sounds like cardi B. She must be Dominican.

[@earlibee]

yes, you read my mind

[@jazzdaagreatestt3645]

M. Wilson she sounds more like Rosie Perez not really Cardi

[@kuroe-chan5190]

At first I thought cards but she is a Rosie Perez junior lol

[@damienkirksey7026]

That's not a good thing

[@renemillions8651]

There is nothing wrong with wanting the best of everything but you have to work towards that. She's in school. He has been in jail. They don't have the same goals. But there is nothing wrong with how she feels.

[@SuperQueenV.]

Sad when someone you don't even know can see right through you. Hopefully she comes back to earth

[@samiazidane5041]

Oh no she came back few months ago, with new partner. 😂

[@samiazidane5041]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqpaKSlhNmZY9k

[@elizabethgarcia6160]

She didn't even appreciate him grabbing her and kissing her she just put her head to the other side issues of being in control and it's definitely not her she's not the man but like the judge said he's got a lot to learn and he's going to learn the hard way

[@toppmax]

Son, run you have your whole life ahead of you, you do not need this.

[@rachaelramos]

If I had a penny for every time she said "like", I would have enough for a castle an escalade and enough to put all 3 my babies through collage lol

[@asingleton8295]

Ms. Cruz needs to find a man who can already afford her desired lifestyle. Period. She is pretty enough and a man who already has wealth might go for that. She is putting this young man up for a challenge he is not ready nor or interested in.

[@clients26]

Man run, she is a crazy, mad, crack, jealous type. She will stressed you out till you die lol

[@cheyc2270]

I strongly believe that he has wandering eyes and disrespects her with the way he operates with other women. She is not delusional or overly jealous. It’s so easy to paint her in that light to avoid calling out this man for his inappropriate behavior. He is not ready to be in a relationship. She deserves better! No woman should have to deal with that. He needs to find a woman that will accept his “wandering” ways.

[@gracemorganspeaks]

Can you keep it up. Please stay safe everyone

[@onetoone1775]

I did and I am on my third bottle, lol, just kidding, but that's what is would be for real.

[@Zulu-Lemon]

Lil Rosie Perez crazy af

[@ninaray3300]

😃

[@charlesanderson1422]

Cereal Killa Rosie is the coolest person on the planet for about 15 seconds. This girl, I couldn’t handle that long.

[@Rye617]

That's the worst combination , jealousy and wanna be rich. Damn smh. He needs to run.

[@Esther-rl8ft]

"She's gonna push you to be her Sugada--- NOT Suggadaddy! lol 😂

[@bryanmitchell6809]

The delusion she thinks she hasn't been cheated on. 😂😂

[@KisweBeauty]

Aside from the jealousy, there is nothing wrong with wanting the best for everything. Why people want to shame people who are high-maintenance.

[@dillionhq]

Im still trying to understand that shoulder-region of her outfit.. 🤔 cute tho.. ?! Uh?

[@dillionhq]

🙂

[@ashleywilliams2674]

Official Dillion 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dillionhq]

@@ashleywilliams2674 lol

[@coolkidzmedia3259]

Official Dillion what you mean lol

[@dillionhq]

@@coolkidzmedia3259 i mean.. I’m still trying to figure it out.. that must be a new swag or something? In fact; Im lost 😅

[@andreatingle1494]

I don’t like mediocre🤣. Get an education girl!

[@wildfiregirl1556]

She is in school she didn't say for what lol.

[@boyblackhardtruth5967]

Great Judgement! No sugarcoating nothing. Blessings your honor.

[@kayangvue30]

$2000 purse with no money in it lmbo!!

[@roxybrowning7558]

I am six minutes in and I am out she is too jealous.

[@Baddestchik911]

She spend all of that to look like a prepubescent Wendy Williams smdh

[@hangtyme765]

LMMAO!!!!!! AND THE COMMENT OF THE YEAR GOES TO............................

[@Mina-vr1kw]

😂😂😂🤣

[@1234j]

She's on a new episode of divorce court today, with lip fillers, silicon upgrade and a victim approach with a silly, poisonous man

[@kiernanoleary2147]

Her eyebrows upsetting me and my homegirl.

[@lakendrasashe6512]

Kiernan O'Leary 🤣😭😭

[@blackjesus4685]

If that don’t sound crazy

[@MG-ex6wf]

I know 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cocokurniawan942]

Advice to this guy, RUN, RUN.!!!!!!

[@LMartin-fw1py]

I just came here for the comments. 🍿

[@sya286]

Just a couple of kids actin like kids 🤷🏾‍♀️ wastin the judges time

[@RJermaineJ99]

Boy!! Simpin is at an all time high out here!!!

[@YourShadowKeeper]

Having "the best" when it comes to clothing and accessories doesn't always mean you have to rely on brand names. In fact, you should avoid the high-price brands quite often because you may be paying for the label, not the item itself. A US$2K purse from one of the fashion houses mentioned may not be the best (long-lasting) quality, nor made of the best materials, it's all about that symbolism of "wealth". You can get amazing quality products for a fraction of that price, and although they may be pricey compared to the average or the cheap products (because of the excellent quality of materials used and the hours that are taken to hand-make the item), you're paying for something that will last a long time if taken care of properly. If it's about looking like you exude class and fashion sense, then go no further than Angela Bassett. She always looks amazing, yet you rarely see her off a red-carpet or photoshoot with anything high-end/brand name.

[@ScarlettRoseOfficial]

Nah. What kind of bullshit excuse is that "he's just 22"? If she left her boundaries clear he needs to respect them or leave her. PERIOD. Another thing, she dresses nicely to catch HIS eye since he apparently looks at everyone when it's again, a boundary of hers. Also, men looking at her, which she can't control isn't the same as him ACTIVELY looking at other women in front of her. Being fucking 22, which I AM, isn't an excuse for being a disrespectful piece of shit. I wouldn't look at men if my boyfriend felt uncomfortable, or at least not do it right in his face. Porn isn't a necessity so if your partner isn't ok with it, leave it, it ain't that hard damn. The judge seems to excuse shitty behavior as long as they're under 25, and I get it, we're not as wise as a 60 year old, but we still are ADULTS and we must behave as such. You get to marry, have kids, work and buy a house? Then you have to act like a responsible adult too. If you aren't on board with your partner's boundaries, bye. Don't push them, just leave. Otherwise you will create a very insecure individual that will take too long to heal, and that's not fair. I feel sorry for her in that regard.