3 Hidden Signs A Man Is Falling In Love With You (How To Know If He Loves You)

“3 Hidden Signs A Man Is Falling in Love with You”
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In this video, Clayton is going to talk about three signs that he's falling in love.
If you're searching for signs that a man is in love, you're probably coming from a place of feeling a bit anxious, that you're beginning to fall for this guy and you don't want to make a mistake and get hurt and you're wondering whether or not he's on the same page.
The point of this video is to help move you from being inside your head, down more into your body and your heart so you can begin to relax and let go. You begin to go with this experience and allow it to unfold in whatever way it needs to unfold and have the most fun possible.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN HE’S FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU??
What happens with any human that's falling in love, we get to a place where it begins to feel like a crisis point.
[01:28] LOVE UNEXPRESSED FINDS A WAY OUT
However, there's also another side of falling in love that is quite terrifying and when this emotion isn't necessarily expressed, if a guy's falling in love with you and he's not necessarily expressing and saying I love you what very well might be happening is that this emotional experience is going to come out in these interesting ways.
[02:07] SIGN #1: HE IS IN AWE OF YOUR UNIQUENESS
What happens when someone falls in love and what creates that honeymoon stage is quite literally there are chemical reactions in our mind that cause us to begin to drop judgment.
We start to see our partner in a way where it's almost like we're seeing them through these rose-colored glasses. We start to see them in a way that just bring love and acceptance to them.
Love begins to dissolve the boundaries and the judgments that we have about other people and they cause us to step forward and want to merge with that person.
[05:04] SIGN 2: THERE IS AN EMOTIONAL FRAGILITY TO HIM
Because love tends to rip us open involuntarily to a new level of vulnerability, it can be unsettling experience for men, primarily because men don't typically have the same emotional capacity or expression as women especially if they're raised in a traditional society.
And what that means is that when he's with you, there's a certain level of fragility to him. There's a certain way that he is perhaps maybe stressed out, or he's getting triggered easily. He may become jealous. He may become kind of possessive. There could be a clinginess that occurs as well. There could be an anxiety that is there.
These are all signs that he's getting attached to you, not necessarily, that you're doing anything wrong but rather that he's beginning to move into a certain place of vulnerability psychologically.
[05:47] SIGN 3: THERE IS A DEEP AND WIDE CONNECTION FORMING
Let's start with a wide connection of what that looks like. What that means is that there are multiple places, multiple categories in his life where you begin to see more of.
What that might look like is he starts to introduce you to his friends. He starts to show you off to his family.
[06:57] AWARENESS AND CONNECTION
Within this depth of emotional connection, I'm going to call this awareness and Consideration.
What it means is that there's a certain amount of awareness. There's a depth of awareness that he is beginning to have about you, about the things that you like and want, perhaps him being able to do things for you without you even asking for them, maybe there's some type of thing that you mention in passing and suddenly he just jumps in and ends up doing it on another day, and what you are completely surprised by is how close he was listening to you.
There is an uptick in his presence when he's with you. He's really focused.
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[@claytonolsoncoaching]

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[@alonagumansing5279]

Clayton olson..im not lucky to have someone in my life..

[@electramoseley2165]

Yes he is doing all of this 2!😁❤ Thank you

[@evareyes601]

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[@johnniepreston8585]

@@alonagumansing5279 p

[@sgmermaid3189]

@@alonagumansing5279 Me too...never cross my path.. it's up to God..if He wants to put love life into our life...(sigh)

[@fireballplay2946]

You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting before you allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache.

[@luna84_]

@Ligeia D.Aurevilly I hope to hear what he has to say as well ha..ive had a similar case but long ago...i hope it goes well..and as long as he's not under age then go for it 🙏

[@luna84_]

@Ligeia D.Aurevilly the best of luck hun

[@tulifranz9336]

Mason Kissel , easy said than seen. Bad guys knows they r bad. They will camouflage their behavior .

[@hildazcampos3182]

Yea too late for me get to know his back ground

[@coppersulphate002]

Agreed!

[@cindypattana6071]

When a man loves you, there is absolutely NO DOUBT. You will know.

[@davismarthin451]

Hello Cindy hope you’re having a wonderful day?

[@davismarthin451]

Nice to meet you here,where are you originally from?

[@areufkingkiddingme]

@@davismarthin451 wtf?

[@palc9591]

​@@areufkingkiddingme 😂

[@kathyglass2922]

@@areufkingkiddingme He (davis marthin) wants Google play cards......

[@sammyjo2852]

1) He’s in awe of your uniqueness. 2) Clinginess to you. 3) Deep, wide connection with you.

[@michellemckinney4678]

Thanks for the condensed version. Sometimes I wish these experts get to the damn point.

[@baby24142]

Thanks

[@goodone8516]

@@michellemckinney4678 Are they really experts?

[@sharonbrowne2311]

You did it in 3 seconds and it took him over 9 minutes; ain't nobody got time for that...SMH God bless you and thank you so much!

[@justmeonthebeach]

Thanks saves time

[@AJ-jf2ui]

When you can be yourself with someone and they dont judge you is an amazing feeling. And when his face lights up upon seeing you.

[@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego]

Yea, that’s really nice.

[@violetacamps8573]

So true

[@amiyahnewton4563]

YOU FALL IN LOVE BY CHANCE YOU STAY IN LOVE BY CHOICE -Love :)

[@siphiweladypdlamini5809]

☹

[@egyptnz27]

💯👌

[@sgmermaid3189]

Oh tats awesome..to hear that.But if a much younger man than me by decades, get interest in me..I would be wondering what does he want me to do with him? I find it embarrassing though I might look younger than him than the numbers in decades...why do they not able to find women of their own age, or he can't find any same age group woman interested in him?

[@janicesmith7524]

This is so true!

[@jeanettacrawford110]

That right!

[@tabathaakers1985]

My bf said a man will play with your hair if he’s in love with you! I was laying in his arms one night and he was rubbing my head and running his hands through my hair! He definitely protects me! He picks me flowers! No other man has ever done that! He cooks for me, cleans house! He even shaved my legs for me the other night just out of the blue for more reason! I’ve never had a man do these things for me! I love him so much and I have no doubt he feels the same!

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Love it!! Very happy for what is blossoming in your life.

[@anjou6497]

Beautiful. 🧡🌷

[@MissScorp0111]

Shaving your legs is going in deep. Men don't usually find that very appealing.

[@justimagine...5436]

“Love is not only something you feel, it is something you do."

[@s.crockett5457]

I TOTALLY AGREE with you insight

[@blingblingnelida]

HI THERE COACH Maturity comes With Commonsense... Words & Actions NEEDS- MUST- BE In Alignment Together. They work Conjunction.

[@stephaniebracey943]

Boy stop musiq soulchild had this lyric in one his songs lol..😛🎶

[@nehaelis8323]

True

[@gunjanchhetri1618]

100 👌

[@hollyconger9037]

100% agreed that men have a certain look in their eyes when they love u. U will feel it. It may seem corny but I know it to be true. Also, 100% agreed that if a man loves u his friends and family will treat u well. If u find disrespect from people around him, walk away. Also, a guy that wants to have no part in ur problems or protecting u, does not love u.

[@graceg4996]

Spot on

[@jouninecondez4273]

true

[@kathyglass2922]

Agreed. If his friends treat you badly, run away, don't walk away. :)

[@gilliangodden3386]

If a man wants no part in your problems or protecting you. Thank you that made me come to a realization.

[@kathyglass2922]

@@gilliangodden3386 I'm glad. You deserve to be cared for.

[@tzukhi]

Narcisist do all that when they are getting to know you and want to enchant you to win you over , and them .. you are heartbroken.

[@shellducker7078]

Being in love is letting them be who n how they are, and loving them regardless of the outcome. Wanting them to be happy. Treasuring every moment you have and had. That is true love.

[@anitataylor4287]

Unconditional

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do. Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.

[@shellducker7078]

@@icysnow57cold64 I wouldn't agree with that. Every person has masculine and feminine energies, and it's how those energies are balanced.... not being male or female.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@@shellducker7078 But males and females are wired differently, and females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do.

[@shellducker7078]

@@icysnow57cold64 What bond have you formed? Be it your dad, mum, dog, cat where you love them that much you would...miss them, cry if they got hurt, admire, love seeing them be funny, just be themselves...??

[@nakiflo]

Please remember, falling in love doesn’t warrant a long term relationship. Falling in love is a good component to get a relationship starts, but the candles don’t lit forever. LTR is hard work and self sacrifice. Unconditional love.

[@TheSlipperyOtter]

I always wait for the guy to say “I love you” first.

[@TJ_Eats]

I did, he probably said it 200 times before me and he still ended up being trash

[@xCherryRedx]

@@TJ_Eats ugh saaameee...

[@mintingfuture]

It slipped out. I thought he did. He did everything right. But once I slipped he freaked out and pulled away and we ended up breaking up.

[@annamarie2849]

My cousin did not like his wife when she made it clear she liked him and they ended up married...It worked for them..

[@anitaali4346]

Totally ❤️💗🌺❤️💗🌺❤️💗🌺❤️💗🌺❤️💗🌺❤️💗🌺❤️💗🌺

[@mariamayer6181]

My husband did all of this to me, and then he did it with someone else and we divorced; and I recently found out a year ago he’s doing it again with another girl; and maybe by now he’s doing it again with someone else. And to think I gave up having kids to his sterility. Never let love override what you really want. Dump them and live for you!

[@dellchica2373]

Chele Myers best advice

[@sgmermaid3189]

Wrong guy

[@Blossom4ever]

😂😂😂dump them got me

[@coletteannemaud1340]

My younger guy is still in awe of me after three years ....He is a one in a million to me ....and I am to him . We are years apart in age and it just works ....

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[@melissanix1443]

You can tell when a man truly loves you. Actions speak louder than words

[@leopardrockssherrylemeille1192]

I’m blessed ! Finally got it right ! My baby loves me “ just as I am “ Been waiting years for a man to just love me for me and he does and it makes me feel so alive ! I’m never letting him go ! We have a very good relationship with each other it’s a real blessing!!

[@alicetrejo1992]

Bless you and your man

[@athenasakorafos5032]

There’s a song for you! It’s : My Baby Loves Me! I like the song!

[@christianpulisic7784]

@@alicetrejo1992 You must be a kind being 💓🤙

[@alicetrejo1992]

@@christianpulisic7784 🤗

[@davismarthin451]

Hello jewelry hope you’re having a wonderful day?

[@LeaHannalov3]

Waiting for the one that will fall in love with my scars.

[@wookieelee38]

Scars are awesome,,they were your journey and story 😀

[@beastly.warner]

Oh they're out there. But we have to be able to love our scars first. If we dont we push people away unintentionally. Be patient with yourself love.

[@katizz988]

👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽I'm sure you will Ley Lea, I know where you're coming from👍🏽

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Just don't reopen them. Heal first and then be open to new love, manifest new love.

[@chrisdonner228]

Yet be careful a person can learn these skills to play u.....both male and female can do this

[@dayondastribling5080]

And they do. Discernment is crucial, and if we get played we have to forgive _ourselves!_ Then the user fades in importance and we can/must forgive them so we're not chained to them forever. This is how we get free of toxic ppl: By first forgiving ourselves, which dumps our feelings of embarrassment and we can learn and grow and develop discernment free of the embarrassement that keep us from moving on. See, if we let ourselves be embarrassed by a situation or a person then we give up ownership of it, they have power over us by our letting them own it, thus making ourselves helpless to move on: Chained forever. But if we can say, ''Well, that didn't go as planned! _I_ fell into that: What can _I_ _learn_ from it / what can _I_ _gain_ from it to make myself more effective? WE then own the situation and its consequences and WE control our future so that we _can_ learn from it. Which makes the final step simple: ''Forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do'' in the famous words of the most discerning person Earth ever hosted as he was being executed for showing love. We can do that! And we have to or we blunder along hurting ourselves through eternity, or so it seems.

[@luna84_]

@@dayondastribling5080 couldn't have said it better baby doll

[@mineshukri3444]

I had that 2 times in my life they both were fraude

[@thomaspatricia6436]

Right

[@flowerchild3312]

Dayonda Stribling Soo right on! One of the best comments I've heard in a long time, Thank you so much for sharing this 🌹

[@lehuafromkailua8781]

I love him and that's what's important to me. If he loves me back, it's a bonus!

[@lavicadariu4656]

😢

[@G254611]

Wow! Gosh! I hope I meet this person soon in Jesus Name. Amen

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[@cherylthompson2731]

💗🌸💗🌸💗🌸

[@maluravalo1029]

I already met mine❤️

[@cherylthompson2731]

@@maluravalo1029 me too💞

[@ladyowl9187]

Amen.

[@beckyshebesta3567]

I actually left the love of my life because I didn't think we were on the same page. I still love him till this day it's been 30 plus years.. I told him I loved him, he said thank you. I felt so hurt. So I broke up with him.

[@kittyhawes8047]

I remember my bfs first sign - he introduced me to his nieces. He's very protective of them and wanted to wait to do that because of previous bad experiences. After that he included me in his interests - showing me places he liked, offering to let me use his PS4 (he's a gamer), and hanging out with his friends. The next and one of the most significant was when he told me he trusted me. He has trust issues so it really meant a lot that he opened up like that. The last thing I noticed was when he started talking about serious future plans with me. He's a very careful person and very direct so I knew that these showed he's serious about me.

[@jengable4888]

I am a direct person...communication is key..!

[@luna84_]

Same here man..screw assuming things which I do alot but try not to

[@snnsriderz6165]

@@luna84_ same here what's ur name

[@luna84_]

@@snnsriderz6165 real name is Angelica, yours?

[@Dtella55]

Exactly not text...!

[@404LenaNotFound]

Hell yeah and yesterday I told my friend who was standing infront of the mirror that he‘s beautiful and he should hurry up to come cuddle (which we always do). And a while after I showed him a note I took on my phone which said „holy sh*t I forgot how beautiful he was...“ Deep down I already knew he didn’t have the same feelings but it didn’t stop me to tell him at least one beautiful thing about him because all I want is him to understand how much I care about him. How much he means to me. That he‘s so crazy beautiful in so many ways and I wish I could show them all to him. I don’t regret telling him in words. It‘s hard to describe what I feel. But according to all the videos I just watched I guess I am somewhat falling in love with this person or at least crushing on him.

[@LinYouToo]

What you’re talking about is limerance. It lasts for about 18 months to two years. Love is a choice. Love is choosing loving behaviors and actions even when it’s difficult. Love is committing to the commitment. Love is having the grace to hold a space for someone without blame, shame, or judgment. Love is inter-dependence-you, me and we.

[@wshelby83]

Beautiful post!!

[@areejalsham6662]

LinYouToo exactly it is a choice 👌🏻

[@darlenepaul2918]

Limerance? I've never heard this word before.

[@darkhorse7460]

You heard it here first-Falling in love is a crisis!

[@mythoughtsarenothisthoughts]

Lol

[@mysteriousme3006]

Lol...you're right! I've lived it. It's a scary, yet awesome experience.

[@rosalbahamer994]

An older woman once told me better to be alone that to get involved n invest in a person who isn't real best advice ever she's alone but drama free.

[@cayenneangel]

My guy got scared and ran away. He said "I have to focus on my finances and kids". Awesome, so lovely that I'm not important enough to focus on.

[@misselle1430]

Stop dating men with kids he is still looking after. You'll never be top

[@Helsyedd172]

How long does it take men to fall in love? I had a first date with a man and I’ve never had a man look at me the way he did, I felt this intense connection, absolutely insane like I can’t describe it. Almost as if I felt like he’s the one.

[@kristine8338]

Dear boy, a man comes to you and simply declares his love to you .

[@augustayarteh7524]

As for me the one I am really in love with is jesus christ is the sweetest name that will make me fall in love more for because of his great work over my life and my sweet families.

[@alanastone5241]

Stupid

[@nanasophy]

Yes he is

[@darlenepaul2918]

Jesus is the author of marital attraction and love so it is just as godly as loving the Lord.

[@pawerjam670]

Indeed 😍

[@vangeogilvie7543]

I always say tht too but i really need somone physically too

[@lo-fidreamsASMR]

Excellent timing. It's good to know what's normal psychologically, in the vulnerable sense, for men. Such great insight!

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Happy you found this valuable, Autumnpixx

[@wildwoman8310]

LOVE this program about LOVE!! LOVE CLAYTON FOR MAKING THESE VERY HELPFUL, INFORMATIVE, INTESTING & INSIGHTFUL VIDEOS!! THANKS CLAYTON!!!!

[@wildwoman8310]

Clayton is great for this type of program!

[@elnina7]

A sign that I saw is..he started to be unusually shy around me and he couldn't even do eye contact with me. Unlike what we think, guys can become shy around the person they really like.

[@Brandi.Nicole]

Sooo many people need this video. 😂One spark in cortisol and people get weird! Just relax, breath, enjoy. Love yourself. Love all. Merge. Enjoy it. There is no special one person. Everyone is beautiful - so BE love, be acceptance & kindness. Great video! Thank you.

[@Rabbatullbayt]

I am in awe of how in depth and well thought out this delicate topic has been clarified! Thank you so much

[@SquaddieSoul]

Hit the nail right on the head with your opening lines...'falling for him dont, wanna get hurt, so coming from a place of anxiety..a tough place to be in.' I'm right at this place, the fear swept over me when I realised I'm falling in love and I don't wanna get hurt. I felt I wanted to run away from him cos he is showing signs he is doing the same and I'm so scared . Everything you say seems to be where we're both at. Very useful information. Thanks.

[@judithstith6378]

Thanks for being so ‘tuned in’! You are a old soul, and you are awake! 💕

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

🙏❤️

[@lauravanschaick9558]

You always present your topics with valuable information in an intelligent, well spoken manner. I really get alot out of them, thank you Clayton.

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thanks for the feedback, Laura. I'm glad this is how you are receiving me.

[@jenniferwhite6195]

Laura Vanschaick he loves me he loves me not!

[@natalieharris01]

I have literally watched every single one of your videos in their entirety and you always share such wonderful ideas, concepts, and advice. Thank you for putting all of this out to the world. You have helped me so much in my personal relationships with both my boyfriend and myself. Really appreciate you. Your channel is the best that I've found! Cheers!!

[@christianpulisic7784]

Properties by Natalie,I admire your lovely smile!😊😊😊

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thank you, Natalie. Whether you’re referring to Mark or me, I appreciate it.

[@joleenroth4494]

He calls me his person and sings to me...even gave me a key to his place! I must be on the love track!❤💜

[@dbedazzling1]

Grass is always greener no matter how happy you think he is. I'm over it.

[@catherinedorfman7700]

When he is in general very confident, and around me he all of a sudden so confused and cannot put two words together. He is constantly saying that I am so unique to him...

[@Michellemybell739]

This is great info and sooo true! I’ve seen all of these with my guy it’s surreal. Thank you for sharing!

[@wildwoman8310]

Clayton U R AWESOME! How did U know I needed your help??? Your voice is made for videos. You have a LOT of insight!! That's a HUGE blessing for us who need your help! SO happy I found U. Keep doing what U do!! You have a great thing going on here. Thanks SO much!!

[@missturnbaugh7947]

WILD WOMAN and thanks for not having us sit for 20 minutes to get to the “point” or the “insight or clarity” that you plan on sharing. I loathe the “teasers” via ads that promise information they will gladly deliver for $xx.xx dollars and will throw in a cd if you click now. Drives me nuts.

[@JayDiamond]

I think you're one of the best coaches on the planet Clayson. Thankyou for inspiring me to show up more deeply x

[@janis9523]

Jay Diamond then you don't no Ralph smart .

[@cathybaldry7822]

Thank you so much. I've watched a number on online youtube relationship advice stuff and no one... and I do mean no one has worded what goes on so straightforwardly and accurately wuth no gimmicks no buts etc. I have found you to be very insightful and your videos have given me confidence in myself and where I am going relationship wise thank you very very much!

[@Jeliar]

YES.THANK YOU LOVE TEACHER . WHAT YOU SAY IS SO TRUE .NICE TO HEAR FROM YOU AND THANKS FOR SHARING .AND I HOPE THAT THE TYPE OF FEELING WILL BE FOUND INSIDE OF MY LOVELY HEART .AS MY LOVE FOR HIM IS SO STRONG BUT HE IS VERY FAR AWAY FROM ME .BUT EVEN THOU HE IS FAR AWAY FROM ME BUT HE IS ALWAYS IN MY HEART IN EVERY MOMENT IN MY HEART BEAT.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*

[@54leelee]

Thank you Clayton. It does clear up a few things. He is a strong believer in actions speak louder then words. In the past he has always expressed himself by yelling and being condescending, he started out that way with me but for a year now he hasn't done that. There are numerous other things he had started out doing but no longer does them.

[@cheriekrausz3731]

Thank you so much. My man was in love with me when he first saw me. He was a customer & I had no idea until he said something one day & only wanted me to serve him over the pharmacist! I knew then something was happening & he chased me! Ha ha.

[@MessagesFromAurora]

The way u did the intro gave me anxiety but I appreciated the rest of the video. Thanks for your work!

[@MichelleBaxoPowerLove]

Great information, I especially like how you talk about how love begins to dissolve judgments.

[@christianpulisic7784]

Michelle Baxo,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷🌺

[@valentineday3941]

this is a great video. it makes lots of sense, and I love it. my guy is falling into all of these things mentioned in this video. I love him, and never want to loose him.

[@AJ-jf2ui]

Heart racing when he says i love you for the first time !!

[@Gracie130]

Totally agree! So insightful and always such a pleasure to listen to!

[@victorytarotdivini]

I like the uptick of his presence!! Thank you for this video 🙂

[@maehelsinki6464]

i ended up smiling and blushing like an idiot because he has done this for years.

[@katerinapatiniotis5598]

Thank you very much for your time sir. Very helpful information.

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

You're welcome

[@chickadeeemily7045]

This video is brilliant. Thank you! Totally moved me down into my body and intuition. Appreciate your coaching skills.

[@ZanyProductionz]

I don't remember my husband ever exhibiting these signs. I don't know if he has ever loved me.

[@yellowhmsconqueror]

His love language might be different from yours, thus causing you to ask yourself this..take a love language test with him

[@shaktiliaom]

Thank you for this high quality video Clayton! So accurate and knowledgeable!

[@garypierce7380]

In the same regard, once you feel like your partner accepts the things about you that you're apprehensive about, when the "honeymoon" starts wearing off it can be devastating when they make derogatory comments about those things you thought they were okay with. It's a lot easier to "fall in love" than it is to stay there.

[@kellyadley2058]

Wow! this video was really helpful! It was much more than just 3 signs. The way he elaborated on each one packed much more into this video. Thank You so much for providing such valuable and useful advice! You seem like such a genuine man. I almost feel your love and care coming at me through your video!

[@kathyglass2922]

It goes both ways. You will know what people say about you based on how their friends treat you. If he says good things, they will be nice. If he says bad things, they will ignore and be cold to you. It's crazy.

[@ethangerald9609]

I'm enjoying a passionate, loving and committed relationship with my lover again after many years of separation, I got help from a psychic who brought us back within 48 hours

[@ethangerald9609]

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[@ethangerald9609]

What app👆

[@larryrubin5150]

Instead of looking for the right person..be the right person

[@7mrugo]

I could listen to you for hours, heaps of insightful content served in a calm, almost soothing manner. Always a pleasure to tune in ;)

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

thank you!

[@wildwoman8310]

Clayton is SO good. I usually start these type videos & in 2 secs I'm losing focus. Not with Clayton! I'm with you on that. Can't believe I found his channel! I sure need it tho, PRONTO!! It's been a while since I loved a man. But things are picking up in a big way now. Being IN LOVE is just SO SPECIAL!! If we could just bottle it up, we would be all set!!

[@wildwoman8310]

Clayton U R WONDERFUL!!

[@indigoearthangel888]

I totally agree

[@salsag01]

Thank you.. All of these things were present in my relationship and I love him with all my heart. I am saddened that we broke things off due to his fears, and uncomfortableness. I truly feel he was afraid of being hurt. I will say everything you pointed out was present in his behavior.

[@absb.5978]

This was very helpful. And it couldn't have come at a better time! I'm always happy to hear your insights 😊

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thanks for the comment. Happy it's helping.

[@20000pinkflamingos]

Oh my gosh...so helpful. He checked all of these boxes and this video helped confirm my gut feeling. :)

[@ceciliabortoluzzi2301]

I really appreciate how Clayton goes so in-depth in his video clips. He truly describes human nature in a way you seldom come across in these kind of videos. It’s very deep and insightful.

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thank you, Cecilia. I hope you’ve been following my work recently as well.

[@janiemartinez1189]

I love the painting/picture behind you ... it seemed very familiar as i saw something similar in another video as in that video there was a woman explaining the meaning of something very in depth to the meaning of the church.

[@BlessedLifeLoveandFaith]

Wow you explained everything so brilliantly. This reminds me so much of my boyfriend. Thank you. God bless you💛

[@gasparaangeles7411]

Clayton, this video is extremely helpful and beats the rest of the guides I have ever read and heard. Bless you and thank you.

[@FoodShowFan]

These signs sound so lovely. I would love to feel precious

[@strongerasone2403]

I will give Gollum a call! 😉👍

[@naudianeels1328]

Awww. Is there any better feeling than falling in love? So sweet. ❤

[@annabellanillas677]

Hi Clayt good to hear you back! I like the tone of your voice. You’re confident in what you are saying. You inspire women......

[@georgialee6755]

You know a man loves you when he tells you and he’s sharing his life with you. That’s pretty much it in a nutshell

[@Tam438]

I love your energy, very masculine and very deeply heart centred

[@davismarthin451]

Hello Tammie hope you’re having a wonderful day?

[@weemanifestin6473]

Seeing all these signs in the man I'm involved with, even though I never thought we'd be where we are. Also, look out for him fighting it and himself with self-sabotage If he's been severely betrayed and damaged his psyche will make him act out at things you might think are insignificant. He does this as a defense mechanism to try to keep from getting crushed if he's not sure if you feel the same. Sometimes, it looks like a toddler pitching a fit. How have I dealt with it? Unlike the majority of women, I get quiet and let him have at it. Or I leave the situation saying in a calm voice "when you're done and have made your decision we can talk". Yelling or trying to figure it out, or trying to make it better does not work. Let him battle with himself then accept an invitation to hear what he has to say. Like the signs in this video, which are all true by the way, if he is falling in love with you but can't say it because of fear of vulnerability and betrayal, he will at times make things seem impossible and almost act like a different person all together. It's his old persona that he had to carry in his previous intimate relationships fighting with his new desire to want to believe he's allowed to be happy and can trust in you. Wow, that ended up being a lot longer than I intended.

[@freshstrt3140]

I really appreciate you for sharing this. You are describing verbatim what I have been experiencing, with a person who has, otherwise, been an absolutely extraordinary man and lover to me. It's been so painful, I cry so much, and my self-esteem has been plummeting. I feel so confused all the time, about who this person really is. I have been extracting myself from the relationship, because I am unable to discern whether this behavior is going to improve, or if it is the onset of what will develop into abuse. My gut tells me something is not right, but my heart is not is not at peace with that, the Love between us is unforgably sincere, and no matter how much I watch, read, or listen too, I cannot sort out psychogically what is going on here. Nothing 'fits'. He demonstrates almost every single sign that ive come across from all the coaches, for a man who is invested, serious, and falling in love. But he keeps having these episode of anger, just like you describe, and I can tell its insecurity, but its all fight fight fight fight fight, and getting accused of things I didn't say/think/imply/mean. My mind gets twisted into knots and my heart breaks deeper every time. There is no effort to create resolution on his part, whatsoever, ever. He accepts no responsibility or accountability, and only rarely apologizes, but does not demonstrate remorse. He will just, all of a sudden start being nice again, and "put it all behind" and "move forward", but he never fully comes back to me, and then the anger all comes back again, and again and again, increasingly fueled by previous angers that never got resolved, bcs he doesn't want to process it and build from it. Its shredding my heart, and my self-esteem, and my confidence, and my sense of value and self-worth~~ all of which, are things that I deeply need to develop and build and make stronger, even on the very best of days. Thanks for listening🙏🏽 and for sharing🙏🏽 please dont feel obligated to respond, but i appreciate any insight you may have if you feel called to share. God bless🌹

[@twade39]

I’m where you are talking about right now with mine. Its hard watching him fight what we could have because of past demons... It hurts to sit back and be patient and let him work it out...

[@strongerasone2403]

@@freshstrt3140 have a look into personality disorders like narcissism. And also attachment styles. For some people it's an automatic self defense mode and for others it's calculated, strategic abuse to have their own needs met at your expense. But having your self esteem eroded is very serious and can take years to heal from if you don't get out soon.

[@freshstrt3140]

@@strongerasone2403 Thank you so much for writing to me. I appreciate your insights, and remembering I'm not alone, and what im dealing with is to be taken seriously. Thank you very much for your support.

[@julieannsikiti8245]

Very informative info, thank you for the insight you give it's great hearing this info from a male perspective. Thanks Clayton

[@violetacamps8573]

I love your brief and right to the point explanation.Thank you so much.

[@AK-ec3id]

Sensitive, informative and nuanced presentation on this topic. I like that you provide a breadth of examples allowing for better understanding of the points, rather than being solution based.

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

Thank you!

[@ildiko1vt]

Your description is quite insightful and helpful....wish i had heard you when i was younger and before i ended my last possible relationship. do you have insights for senior people by any chance???

[@juliaskagfjord6207]

This is a sweet and lovely description. Clayton, healing hearts everywhere!!! Well done

[@christianpulisic7784]

Julia Skagfjord,Love your innocent smile ☺️

[@elanafariss1]

3 minutes in to this video, everything resonates and your delivery is great! Thank you for posting this.

[@christianpulisic7784]

Elana Beth Fariss,Hope you are with a good man!

[@maryjflanagan1922]

This is very interesting and makes me think of my guy friend in a different way.

[@marynakombe6891]

am African but my boyfriend does the exact things you mentioned, even though our way of doing things is different .Thank you have learnt something

[@aliajohnson470]

Wow, beautiful insightfull. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience.

[@chitramoontarot]

You are so knowledgeable!!!! He use to look at me for long eye contact. I felt very precious!

[@SH-ux5ij]

I Am An introvert and I express every little thing in my writings AND comments

[@mwansalubumbula7648]

There is a guy i love such that i cant date anyone else, we have been friends foe 7 months now sometimes he shows like he has feelings for me. I help please

[@sgmermaid3189]

@@mwansalubumbula7648 forget it..not worth it.

[@cryptomieko]

Thankyou for this. Such great insights as usual. I've been feeling quite anxious as I'm falling in love so it's a relief to know he is too ;-)

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

:)

[@cryptomieko]

@@claytonolsoncoaching Hey so for some reason this video popped up in my feed again and I watched it again and saw my comment. Its been 6 months and we have both fallen deeply in love with each other now and now he also tells me he Ioves me nearly every time we talk. He has moved in with me and we were on a 1 week holiday just the two of us recently that he shouted for my birthday.

[@randyussery1738]

I am the guy who you mention here. And yes I am falling in love with the best person I have ever known. Her beauty is breathtaking to me, but what I saw inside her heart is the real reason. Her heart is full of goodness, she is kind and genuine. I feel she is a gift from God and a blessing in my life. I am still in the early stages of this relationship. I have not told her that I love her yet. But I told her I adore her and she is special to me.

[@TouchnotDAnointingof136DZion]

Beautifully Stated. Don't know how I ended up here. However, You have a "New" subscriber.

[@maratillett2752]

Thank you, deeply! I have learned so very much from your coachings.

[@ladylakemusic5958]

I can't tell you how much your coaching has improved my relationship. Thank you 💖

[@davismarthin451]

Hello lady hope you’re having a wonderful day?

[@aiieneulemuria7356]

Perfect timing! Thank you so much for your insight!

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

You’re welcome!

[@Passion535]

Right On! Good One!!! All makes so much sense.. I guess I'm doing pretty good right now?

[@elizabethc9843]

Best explanation I’ve heard so far! Thanks it all makes sense now 😌

[@FairyBlossomFriendsASMR]

I can’t even get a guy to text me back 😭😂

[@christinemarlow9296]

FairyBlossom & Friends ASMR They are being jerks. Make them hang like they do us.

[@MelB868]

No scott I don’t your so shallow

[@ChefOuattara]

Thank you for explaining this so intellectually, and logically.

[@claytonolsoncoaching]

You’re welcome!

[@ingridramirez4436]

I love it thanks omg I am 52 and I never knew all the good stuff that you are saying. thank you

[@Unaminousverdict]

I love your calm soothing voice I could listen to you all day