I am convinced there are cameras and listening devices in your house, your car… Girl, mooooove! Tomorrow! Hell, move yesterday and do not give him your address! Praying for you, lady! Been here since the early days and your transformation has been inspiring. The way you leveled up! Wooo *chef’s kiss*
@lizamor47355 ай бұрын
You need to @ her DIReCTLY!! I feel the same girl!!!
@dayna69385 ай бұрын
I hope you seen my comment on your last video, but just incase you missed it, please check for hidden spy cameras. You never know what he could have done. Not trying to scare you, but rather trying to look out for you and the kids. Hugs xoxo
@julialee1435 ай бұрын
YESS. And trackers on your car
@vanessaadams14525 ай бұрын
I don’t think she knows how dangerous this guy could be. I don’t put anything past him. Did she do police report about things missing from her home.
@CrownsAndThings5 ай бұрын
Sadly I agree, it sounds like he’s deranged enough to do something like that.
@MsNicoleChanel5 ай бұрын
Yes there is a app on your phone that can pick up other devices
@tonyaprince_19855 ай бұрын
I'm confused. Why were they at your house when you weren't there? Was it for convenience because of the kids or just to try and mess with you and your stuff?
@ayeshaats775 ай бұрын
Thank you for giving a Home to a Kitty, she looks really happy with you and they're healing in many ways. I hope everything gets better for You. Sending you support from Mexico city ❤
@sonyamoore46455 ай бұрын
Jessica I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Sending hugs to all of you and I know you are hurting they violated your privacy but God will strengthen you and protect your home 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@potato66585 ай бұрын
As much as I was looking forward to a motivational video, I wouldn’t want it under these circumstances. It was hard watching this, I couldn’t enjoy because of why your house was in this condition. I had so many thoughts in my head, I wonder if you even want to stay there after all this. I feel like I wouldn’t, I probably wouldn’t even sleep in my bed. I am thoroughly disgusted by these people, whom ever they were. I am sorry Jessica, I am glad you face things and you voice your feeling it’s, very healthy and healing. I hope whatever transpires in the future that things will be what you hope for, and you will finally feel yourself again and be happy. Maybe you’ll throw an amazing celebratory party getting past all of this, I can look forward to that cleaning video and feel joy as I watch you clean your self into a new chapter a completely new one! Thanks for being you❣️
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
thank you 🥹🩷
@potato66585 ай бұрын
@@jessica_tull_ I wanted to say, that I was glad of your sweet kitty and the comfort she gave you. It’s true, my cats are very attuned to me, especially if I am unwell. They stay by my side until I am better. I enjoyed watching her scamper around she really is sweet 🥰. Yay for kitties!! 🐈⬛
@adrianellaneta84075 ай бұрын
I really do miss your cleaning videos...been a fan ever since love how u always rise up to any challenges
@TherealRachelRay5 ай бұрын
This is crazy Jess, sorry you had to endure that! He will get what he deserves, in due time💯 He probably took things that he could either sale or give to one of his women smh, but you know what you’re still good, blessed and beautiful😘🫶🏽
@shawnnasandles76805 ай бұрын
I would spiritually cleanse the home, too. That energy may still be hanging around.
@kaumadiewickramasinghenuga90124 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same.
@gabriellaleticia63535 ай бұрын
It’s giving coming back stronger
@jjfield62105 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree with checking for cameras/listening devices. He seems like a person that would be that dumb. Personally, I would hire a professional to sweep the house. And get a big dog. Lol Praying for you and your kids. ❤ from a fellow Jessica!
@jjfield62105 ай бұрын
Oh! And change all the locks!
@laurynwinters48375 ай бұрын
I totally agree!!!
@kaumadiewickramasinghenuga90124 ай бұрын
I would say get TWO dogs, security cameras, and fingerprint locks in addition to the normal door locks.
@gcjackson85 ай бұрын
Check for cameras.
@mimose57475 ай бұрын
I don't understand why you weren't allowed back into your own home because of that man...nothing about it seems legal. 😖I would absolutely be raging!
@shaahidadecoteau91675 ай бұрын
Everything happens for a reason, the good and the bad. All things reveal themselves and God always has a plan. Praying for all the pease and healing for you and your family 💕
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
thank you 🫶🏽🤗
@CrownsAndThings5 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you and your kids went through this, you don’t deserve any of this. although it’s still fresh, I hope that sharing this experience can allow for some level of healing for you and your family. I know it’s been said a few times, but I really would suggest that you get a trusted friend or r family member to help you sweep your home for hidden cameras and/or listening devices. From everything you’ve described, it sounds like this man is more than likely to put something like that in your home to keep tabs on you.
@betydominguez79265 ай бұрын
Por favor dime q paso la sigo hace muchísimos años..a veces me llegan los vídeos...estoy en la ciudad de México...gracias...
@63mjandres5 ай бұрын
A tall cat tree can help kitty from going on there. Also treats off the counters.
@kBB_37735 ай бұрын
Kitty is a tree dweller :)
@didntcreateahandle5 ай бұрын
Sprinkle it with catnip.
@missirma10275 ай бұрын
I work with DV survivors and he is a narcissist who loves control. Can’t believe he did that to the mother of his kids. Definitely check for hidden cameras & devices. I had a client hire a private investigator who uncovered a bunch of hidden cams and wifi controllers…insane what lengths crazies will go! Stay safe hun!
@emilyharley9455 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you are physically ok, remember to get help if you need it emotionally. What you went through is horrible and it might help to talk to someone! You are a strong momma!! You got this!
@anniejohnson16544 ай бұрын
This is your season of lessons learn from them and protect you and your children. I been watching you for years you have my support. Stay strong honey all will be fine.❤
@vanessaadams14525 ай бұрын
You should set up cameras in your home for your security and also check to see if this fool installed some.❤
@Zuckerschnute055 ай бұрын
Cats dislike bitter smells like vinegar or citrus. You can place some kitchen towels with lemon juice or vinegar on your countertops. Maybe it'll work. Our cats also weren't a fan of platic bags because they're loud. So i used them also in places where i didn't want our cat ^^
@JustTheThree3ofUs5 ай бұрын
Girl put your sprayer on "mist" and spray her with water. It's not mean. Lol that's how I trained my kitten and do not give her treats on the counter. It encouraged that behavior. I'm so sorry about your home! Hang in there girl. ❤
@mamat12135 ай бұрын
Some cats dgaf, ours is completely unphased by water spray, she does what she wants😂
@JustTheThree3ofUs5 ай бұрын
@@mamat1213 😂😂 oh no.
@Stirchley19515 ай бұрын
Personally, I would never allow a cat on the table or the countertops. Definitely no treats there. (Don’t give too many treats, cats put on weight easily & it’s hard to get it off.) As the other poster says a spray mist will quickly deter a cat from jumping where she’s not supposed to go. It doesn’t hurt them & quite quickly just showing them the mist spray bottle will do the trick. Worked for me many times.
@BetterYouNow275 ай бұрын
A breakthrough is coming ❤️❤️
@Kitty192415 ай бұрын
I love to clean with your videos and your music taste is so relaxing 😌
@gcjackson85 ай бұрын
They have some really cool activity sets to keep the fur baby occupied. I saw a video that says they need constant activity. Reduces the naughtiness! Lol.
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
thank you! 😊
@carlabraham48575 ай бұрын
Jess when did it happen? girl I am so sorry did you call the police
@laisvbb5 ай бұрын
The cat is so cute, I hope she brings some joy to your life
@keepingitkianatural5 ай бұрын
Sometimes things have to happen as a reminder. Let this serve as a reminder of why boundaries are necessary. Im really sorry this person took advantage of your second chance.
@RosettaHenderson-gi5zp5 ай бұрын
Your such a beautiful person and an inspiration. So sorry you and your family had to go through that nightmare. Sometimes friends are nit true friends. God bless you. Time for a security system. Luv ya Jessica ❤
@RanniMoonbeam5 ай бұрын
I am lov_ING your music choices! Loud and clear, lol
@donnat46505 ай бұрын
Omg hope u and your family’s healing. Wow praying 🙏🏽 God watches over you and your family. God keep you safe. 🤗🧼🧹🧽🧺🏡
@matherprice4 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to go through this but that closet footage was sooo motivating!
@ayeshatahseenshaik80155 ай бұрын
Very accurate about folding cloths at the end.. Same with me
@1stubble5 ай бұрын
Love watching you cleaning so fast!!
@brendabrown24505 ай бұрын
Love you! Love your cleaning videos! You motivate me clean up my house.
@simplymanda5235 ай бұрын
damn I never wanted to fight a man I did not know so much. I am so sorry for all the bs and trauma that scum has caused you and your babies. Please stay safe and stay blessed boo. Only up from here thats why he so mad!
@kittysuperlove5 ай бұрын
I have the same dresser you have in your closet. Although I put taller bottom things on it so it was up higher.
@زينباا-ج4ر5 ай бұрын
حبيبتي نورتي الفيديو متابعتج من العراق عاشت ايدج ع ترتيب وتنظيف ❤❤
@AA-bx5zx4 ай бұрын
Get a cat perch. Or do what i did, i didn't want that look for my aesthetic, so I bought a tall thin bookshelf but a good sturdy one I propped it against our patio windows. Cat thrives and loves being up high.
@DaniellesDanielle5 ай бұрын
I literally don’t know how I would react to someone doing this to me. Especially an ex. The nerve to go through someone’s personal belongings like this
@sandischneider14935 ай бұрын
So sorry for what happened to you. Don't trust your ex ever. Get a security lock for your front door and your office. You punch in a code and that's how yoy open your doors No key needed! Keep your kids and you safe. Check your house. For any kind of device that shouldn't be there. I remember him stealing money from you, he hasnt changed. Be safe Jess. He's a fox in sheeps clothing. From one who has gone through the same thing. Do what ever needs to be done.
@busybeexoxo5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry you're going thru this! I've been watching since the apartment & you are so strong, even tho you shouldn't have to be. I hope he doesn't get to be around the kids! I don't trust him
@George_straitsfanpage5 ай бұрын
Hello
@imakeajiffypuff45255 ай бұрын
Girl, this makes me mad for you! It wouldn't matter if all your clothes came from a second-hand store - they're YOUR belongings. He violated your personal space and stole your belongings. I hope he pays for what he did.
@reesmit69205 ай бұрын
Hey Jess, im in prayer🙏🏽🤗🤗 I have a question, why weren't you allowed to lock up your house and have him gone?
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🩷 I left pretty much right away. I asked for him not to stay there but they didn’t listen to me
@reesmit69205 ай бұрын
@jessica_tull_ this happened to a neighbor of mine some years ago where I use to live, and I was right there and he told the officer he needs to lock up his home, officer wouldn't let him go back but he asked can I go in & get his keys & lock his door n I did & gave him his keys. They have to allow you to lock your home or if no one's around, you can ask the officer to lock your door. So sorry that happened to you. 🙏🏽🤗
@tarataylor17435 ай бұрын
Jess people never seem to shock me, Just crazy…prayers for you my dear🌻❤️
@mskaren381585 ай бұрын
I know everyone has used this phrase but...."JESSICA STRONG"...chin up & you will all get through this...luv ya
@aimeescreativekitchen72245 ай бұрын
Hey Jess thanks for the video girl because we don’t trust that man. Internet sis not saying this would happen and I pray it never does, but did you thoroughly check your Home for cameras or any voice recording videos because at this point that narc done clearly lost it😳🤦🏽♀️not being weird or anything you just care about all of you. Also, I am strongly strongly considering moving to Florida me and my two girls. Just curious if you don’t mind sharing what part of Florida do you live in or what’s a good place to call home I have a 16-year-old and a nine year old, ready for a huge transition. Hope that wasn’t too much thanks girlie.❤
@rebeccapridgen50154 ай бұрын
Sorry that that happened to you but I’m thankful to God that the kids and you were safe and we’re not home when it happened. Thank God you are see you and the kids.
@kdcutie62465 ай бұрын
To keep your adorable kitty off the counters I would suggest you “catify” your house. Get a cat post, some floating shelves, and some areas just for them but up high
@betydominguez79265 ай бұрын
No se q paso Jesica...te sigo hace muchos años...soy de la ciudad de mexico..a veces me llegan tus motificaciones y di mo yo te busco...Estoy contigo...animo...tienes unos hijos bellos...y diempre te has mantenido al pie de tu xasa y siendo una madre ejemplar....
@betydominguez79265 ай бұрын
No se bien English...pero ya ya entendí el título...
@jeniageorge35275 ай бұрын
I love how you love animals, raccoons , your kitty on the counter.. because she does what she wants lol . that’s cute.
@jenettabarlow31975 ай бұрын
Haha, I love that you and Ruby have such a cute relationship and you can try on her jeans. 😂❤
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
it’s only fair! She’s always in my closet shopping 😂
@jenettabarlow31975 ай бұрын
@@jessica_tull_ So fun! 🥰
@thequeenofsweden1115 ай бұрын
Cut all lights and then go room by room with your phoneflashlight you’ll see some reflection IF there are cameras hidden
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
thank you! I didn’t think of this. I’ll do it tonight 🩷
@thequeenofsweden1115 ай бұрын
@@jessica_tull_ if i were you i might even have the police come, they mabye have some tools to discover metal or something 🤷🏼♀️ BE safe Jess
@Justme234565 ай бұрын
Not platform Vans! You had me rolling. Sorry you’re dealing with that. 🙏🏾
@ayanegalvao40755 ай бұрын
Chegando agora, eu nal sabia o que havia acontecido! Chocada! Proteja-se. Deus a abençoe! 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
@Mexi-world15 ай бұрын
Don’t give her treats in top give her in the flor she know that what she do ring and didn’t jump to the top
@Kelly_Nicole805 ай бұрын
How was he able to be at your house for two weeks!? And what was the logic for you not being able to go to home? Florida is crazy!! Girl I would have cut up with that man in my house!!😡
@yaniamore5 ай бұрын
Miss your cleaning video🎉 and wow you have a cat which is awesomeow❤
@Shatterspeed5 ай бұрын
Redirect the kitty to a different spot when she gets on the counter! They want/need perches, so give her somehere else high up for that safe feeling to give treats on exclusively! Gently but firmly putting her on the floor every time she gets up there will help, as well.
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
thank you 😊
@marijmarie5 ай бұрын
LOL as a cat owner, your people have already given great advice but they'll do what they want when they think ur not looking anyway HAHA congrats on being chosen and Good luck with everything and your family. Thank you for sharing bc you didn't have to
@AnastasiaAlonso-gt3fe5 ай бұрын
Did u change your locks? Get an alarm…
@wandaezell58815 ай бұрын
Please change your Locks front and back. In time change your living arrangement and be safe
@sweetpeathebreadtamer4115 ай бұрын
Sending hugs from Texas ❤️🫶🏽
@Sarah-xw2ff5 ай бұрын
Hope you're safe now! Will the police find the person who did this eventually, hopefully?
@dinaariley3405 ай бұрын
in her previous video she mention it was her ex-husband and his friend that did it, after he called the cops on her in her own home. over staying his welcome.
@jennifer21855 ай бұрын
The audacity of this man to completely trash your home. Agree with others, check for cameras and change locks immediately if you havent yet. Wow, he's a horrible person and im sorry you and the kids have to deal with this!
@tamikamoniquetv34625 ай бұрын
This hurts my heart, it scares me… this is very serious…. That fact that he can do this means he knows there is nothing that will be fine to punish him. Idk y but I’m like this with my ex husband too. I blame it on our shared birthday. Y?
@soulsister24104 ай бұрын
Do you have an alarm system? If you do not get one, because they will contact the police immediately, when your alarm goes off, if they do not hear from you.
@wallace298035 ай бұрын
Get something to put on the stove, like one of those stove, coverings made out of wood
@Stirchley19515 ай бұрын
Jessica, what is the cat’s name? Couldn’t hear it in the vlog. Misa?
@dionisiasanders77915 ай бұрын
One thing about cats, they will definitely do what they want. 😂 I have two and they pretty much run things.
@LynnWood-vk6by5 ай бұрын
Don't give her a treat when she is on the counter! treat her when she is on the floor!
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
Ok ok ok 😅
@Ben5722-v9x5 ай бұрын
Cats don't like citrus smells. You can add orange essential oil on the counter. Next time you eat an orange or lemon let her smell it. You will see how she hates the smell and backs away.
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
I’m going to try that!! Thank you 😊
@luvlyv33zfaith755 ай бұрын
You can buy a stove top board cover to prevent the cat from getting burned. I'm sorry for what happened to you and the kids.
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
thank you 🫶🏽
@shawnaharris98135 ай бұрын
I think it’s so wrong that he was allowed to stay in your house while you were arrested and banned from your own home even though he was not a resident! He should be arrested for what he did to your home and someone should get sued for allowing him to be there in the first place! I am sorry you and your kids had to go through this!❤❤❤❤
@Ms.Lulu.915 ай бұрын
Jessica, I've been watching you for years and I absolutely love your content and spirit. But I have to come here and also ask that you truly listen to the warnings from your subscribers. This man seems extremely narcissistic and dangerous, and people like this tend to reach points of going to unfathomable extremes that can't be undone. If you don't get your home professionally sweeped, please consider a new and VERY safe home, with extra security for you and your babies. In the long run, you'll look back and be glad you did. That man should NEVER be allowed near your home again. Alot of us have been through this as well. I wish you the very best mama💐stay well.
@traceysamuel64585 ай бұрын
Cats hv to be taught just like dogs .. prayn water won’t hurt them AT ALL , except to make them avoid those areas
@GenaGilder5 ай бұрын
Def get that restraining order asap. I wouldn’t even let the kids go over his house anymore either. Something is wrong with him having people in your house and letting them go through your things and take your belongings.
@cassandraeverett87855 ай бұрын
Cat's are very smart all you have to do is constantly keep telling her no no in soft voice and she will automatically stop jumping on your counter top. So with the bleach that you are using in her litter box , stop using that it's not healthy. Use hot soap and water. When put her litter in her box put armor hammer baking soda in her litter and mixing in real good. That will keep the odor down. 😊BLESSED Day.
@wejustlovefood044 ай бұрын
I love cats I’ve always been a cat person
@Stirchley19515 ай бұрын
Misa needs stimulation! I don’t see any cat trees. One or two trees would be great for her as she is what’s called a “jumper”. Also scratching boards are lots of fun & they come in all sizes & types.
@Stirchley19515 ай бұрын
Something else she would like is a wheel she can run on. Like a hamster wheel but bigger. Cats love them & it will burn off excess energy.
@catvitki25575 ай бұрын
Just keep putting her back on the floor every single time. Stay consistent, don't pet her or give her attention when she gets up there, just pit her back down. Also don't give her snacks or any food on the counter. She will eventually learn. Just be consistent about counter tops or tables.
@kiwanyvillarin50175 ай бұрын
What a violation of your and your kid's personal space. The audacity. I hope you guys are safe and continue to be!
@kittysuperlove5 ай бұрын
Your kitty is so cute! Sorry this happened to you.
@kerimartin59495 ай бұрын
I pray you changed the locks
@jenvasquez885 ай бұрын
I'm confused and feel like I missed something. What happened to your house? Who did this?
@YudelkaVerónicaGonzález5 ай бұрын
Qué le pasó a tu clóset Oh Dios mío😮😅
@norahalqahtane68125 ай бұрын
اهم شي هي سلامتك انتي واطفالك.
@Seehame4 ай бұрын
ليج شوفيها ليج انتقلت
@SincerelyShamsa4 ай бұрын
😮😮wow.
@maiteasin50184 ай бұрын
Qué mono gatito tiene
@iamstrangepeaches5 ай бұрын
People in my personal space... Going through my shit.... Touching my undies.... #PERVBEHAVIOR!!!
@yuvalshohat29755 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOUR CATTTTTTTT
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! I’ll tell her 🩷
@whitney14545 ай бұрын
I am shocked that they allowed people to stay in your house. I hope you take whatever action possible against EVERYBODY!
@audreytaylor99475 ай бұрын
Just found this channel. I’m confused. Who trashed your house?
@George_straitsfanpage5 ай бұрын
Hello
@maiteasin50185 ай бұрын
Qué otra segunda pregunta por qué por qué tienes algo en la mano te hiciste daño o qué
@George_straitsfanpage5 ай бұрын
Hello
@ElizabethM35 ай бұрын
Did they stole something?? Omg I would be furious!!
@lucidlori5 ай бұрын
It looks like he had his 'girlfriends' over and allowed them to help themselves to your stuff. I hope you can press charges. He deserves hell and so much worse for what he's done to you.
@gcjackson85 ай бұрын
Love you Jess!! You got this life!!!!!
@tammybrown7795 ай бұрын
Its not good for kitties to be where you cook and have food. Use a rolled newspaper and give her a little whack. Newspapers aren't heavy enough to do any damage, but she will get the message.
@jessica_tull_5 ай бұрын
noooo 😭 i would feel so bad doing that
@George_straitsfanpage5 ай бұрын
Hello
@Kayra0105 ай бұрын
Jess lütfen Türkçe altyazı ekle seni takip ediyorum anlamak istiyorum
@luiza20215 ай бұрын
Then learn english
@lydiazertuche59545 ай бұрын
😅😅😅@@luiza2021
@kaumadiewickramasinghenuga90124 ай бұрын
My heart just broke seeing your closet... I was imagining how I would feel it if it happened to me. So violated. And girl, you have a right to feel bad about losing your expensive possessions.... because you worked very hard to be able to afford those. I would never let anyone get away with this. Ensure your safety, move if you must... and get a restraining order from that lower ex of yours.
@Stirchley19515 ай бұрын
Surprised Jessica is wearing an Istanbul tee shirt after what has happened.