39daph reacts to A Parasocial Problem with 39daph by Meli | daph reacts

[@Caiuxa190]

I only occasionally watch Daph because her schedule is fucked so i had no idea any of this shit happened, this is some fucking insane stuff.

[@edd9891]

Hoomans and donations lol

[@happy_camper]

relatable. her goblina schedule keeps me out of the loop

[@distinguishedallureproduct879]

Same I honestly catch up on her YT and Vod Clips channels...but Jesus Christ, this was the guy who made the birthday game?!

[@JawadBhuiyan]

@@distinguishedallureproduct879 The video, not the game.

[@woody_you_want]

Same here and I'm sad I missed it tbh 😂

[@emmmmz]

If you aren't strict with your community you end up inviting more of that behavior and the experience becomes worse for everyone. I hate that she has to deal with people shaming her for this on top of having to deal with uncomfortable behavior in the first place

[@JawadBhuiyan]

This is even worse because Daph is pretty strict. But some weirdos just slip through I guess.

[@Lucaz99]

I don’t even know that daph or her community but her behavior seems commendable. It’s hard to be so strict with the same ppl who support, some people feel uncomfortable, others are afraid to do it. But the truth is, trauma dumping and all that stuff really doesn’t belong on a stream. Streamers are entertainers, not therapists, they aren’t there to help people overcoming their struggles.

[@c0hink176]

I think there is quite a substantial lack of weirdos in her chat because she is so strict

[@shwiiiiies4704]

I like Daph's communititty. It's the best chat experience I will ever have in every chat,,titiys

[@imlewishehe]

It's nutty that out of all the streamers, this dude chose dap to obsess over, who has consistently expressed her views on people like him and how brutally honest she is

[@DandyZero]

This is just speculation but I bet it's a case of him thinking he's special. Like he expected Daph to see him as a uniquely good foil to all the "others" or something like that.

[@tweenytwinkies]

@@DandyZero he thinks money controls everything ig, he thinks he deserves it if he donates or else he “wasted” money. When he made that choice to donate

[@misolaneous]

Maybe that masochistic aspect of their personality is what drew them to watching Daph? Like they knew she would react that way so it's the best person to do it to?

[@johnlemon3732]

dude had a yellowfever

[@tweenytwinkies]

@@johnlemon3732 thats extremely racist

[@slowloris2894]

Dudes would rather donate 4000 dollars to 39daph rather than go to therapy.

[@onedoorhrshy]

fr

[@tubblestop414]

Quit mentioning therapy thinking it will help. You're probably some child.

[@maxxvii2037]

Lmaooo

[@pey5571]

this is why i love daph man, she isn't afraid to speak her mind or be blunt to weirdos that make her and other people uncomfortable. she's one of the few streamers that makes it extremely clear that she's just an entertainer and isn't the viewers' friend or therapist.

[@JDotS.]

This is definitely about syph I hate that guy

[@archillect3522]

He'll never become a real boy

[@fangbite6969]

this is about syph??? omfg youre joking

[@TheTimeSaga]

Nooo not master syphylis

[@rustyhook69]

@@fangbite6969 obviously. Have you ever seen his logs?

[@cypdead]

@@fangbite6969 its about gold gregory lol

[@hibal6827]

the video itself is top quality but when u add daph and chat's reaction to it??? PERFECTION KEKW

[@Sneakysxn]

Silversteven reminds me of those rude ass customers i interacted with while working at McDonalds that treated me like shit simply because they were customers that are “Paying me”

[@kenasssss]

That's one of the Shtty things with providing customer service, you have to suck it up

[@phyokyawkhaing2251]

@@kenasssss Not really. If you work at a minimum wage mcdonald branch then sure, but if you work anywhere with a reputation then you can kick them out for disturbing the other guests or deny them service.

[@kenasssss]

@@phyokyawkhaing2251 sure, it depends on where you work. I'm glad I never worked at Macdonalds then, I tend to snap a bit if a customer gets too entitled. I'm self employed now, Glory to God, ain't dealing with customers no more.

[@GoofyGoober690]

These type of dudes literally treat Twitch like a pron cam site. It's fuckin diabolically weird.

[@jalp-km4rn]

as a vod frog, i too comment on 39vod channel for praise from the witch herself. i see to it that i click like, share, and subscribe atleast 40 times everyday

[@liamk8609]

only 40 times? pathetic

[@TheMoonlight1711]

why not 39 times?

[@herosive8762]

Literally every stream I tuned in, he was the top gifter

[@edd9891]

Guess that was a HUGE red alert from him, fans can go pretty crazy about someone even if they can donate huge amounts, sadge

[@discountasian]

same, I thought I was bugging every time I saw him, it was like an insane deja Vu trip

[@greasygrass39]

That time he lost to another oiler by 1 sub, he got triggered and called him a meli alt LMAO? Thats something

[@Roflmao6173]

As a youtube andy, the lowest lifeform, the vid is hilarious

[@Ressel_]

actually, this kinda behaviour is not that rare. pretty common in fact, even in some 500-1000 viewers channels. you know, you cant deny that being an oiler makes you get recognized by the community faster than a regular viewer. which, if you just tuned in to twitch, makes them "feel" superior to among us peasants. its not gonna be long until that guy would say something like "i would give you 100subs if you eat spaghetti from your nose or something." its just the nature of it, they give money, they want something in return while feeling superior over others. now its just a matter of the said person if they're mentally deranged or never get enough educations or parasocial it could be hella weird. just like this one.

[@willmcpherson2]

p2w online popularity LUL

[@JawadBhuiyan]

Yup. Every time I've started watching a smaller channel, there's always that 1 person gifting/donating a lot and acting overly friendly. And I always wonder if they're just a big fan or a parasocial Patrick in disguise.

[@mpfmax0]

pretty much

[@iunnoo]

among us

[@sanadabiege3789]

What's an oiler?

[@joni-lm8jt]

I WAS WAITING FOR HER TO REACT TO THIS

[@weirdaisongz]

Man this is SCARY. Hope things have gotten better in her community and that this isn't commonplace now.

[@ItSpiatz]

The Random Reaction gifs unironically help lighten the mood cuz this is so fucked

[@spyczech]

I might've cut one or two for being too aggressive (the one with little people after calling him a freak was a bit much, then labelling the LP as him) but overall I agree that lightening was super needed

[@sloesty]

The epitome of "I pay her wages, so she is mine now." You see this in the service industry too. These people look at Daph like she's a product that they own a share of because they payed. Asolute lunacy.

[@lilcarttheoneandonly]

what a humble streamer im gonna donate my life savings for validation from herp

[@hteekay]

That guy is in desperate need of friends.

[@surprisedanimegirl1628]

I only watch daph on yt and this popped up on my recos, I was like "what the actual fuck?" stuff like this happens on twitch huh.

[@wauberz6587]

I always wonder when it comes to people like this (shmoldshmegory). Just by using your brain you can obviously come to the conclusion that their behavior is cringe and inappropriate. But, what if the person has problems? Obviously it wouldn't excuse the behaviour but I feel like we often view other people online through the lense of what is neurotypically appropriate when in reality, when you're talking to people online you could be talking to anyone. I hope ShmoldShmegory finds the crumb of essential knowledge that they should in all of this. As stated in the video, there's no shame in being passionate about a content creator (the Clipony youtube channel is proof of this LMAO). But, don't let a content creator be a substitute to any real, meaningful connections that you can make with real life people. Technology and online spaces isolate us more than we realize and the person this video was made for is proof of this.

[@euclid4703]

just because you’re neurodivergent doesn’t excuse ur behavior no matter what you say or do lol

[@wauberz6587]

@@euclid4703 Yeah i kind of said that lol

[@edd9891]

If you can donate it means you work for that $ but yea no one is forcing them to donate, some people with these kind of problems shouldn't even donate (imo) if they gonna act like that afterwards

[@wauberz6587]

@@edd9891 Yeah I agree!

[@greyscaleadaven]

@@euclid4703 I mean it depends how severe it might be, but yeah. As someone who is neurodivergent, hyperfixation is really the only thing I could see happening here (which is like being super focused on one thing/hobby that you're very passionate about for people who don't know what that means). Everything else? Straight up parasocial behavior, not really excusable by neurodivergence. Maybe facilitated by it, but not caused by it.

[@POWCHEWAH]

I finally understood "Silver Steven" LOL I was confused on the name for a bit

[@kromos.mp451]

What it mean

[@Miguozi]

@@kromos.mp451 His real name is Goldgregory

[@justins8634]

This is why the only thing I ever type, in the rare event I'm on twitch, is Gaming. No matter what category, what context. I'm the guy who says Gaming.

[@maxjackson4530]

Real talk, I haven't watched her as much because to get myself to watch twitch streams it requires me to want to watch it, hence why this whole issue is relatively new to me. I feel bad that Daph has to deal with this bullshit more often than I thought.

[@hyon2441]

Oh man if this is what happens in a normal female stream i cant imagine in amourants

[@nilionth]

i remember i sent my first chat to daph around 2 years ago, and she responded. my life was made and my dreary life brightened up. this is the first time ive watched her in those 2 years. ill be back in 2 more, good luck guys

[@じゃがいものソース]

_He kinda reminds me of No Face from Spirited away._

[@alkazar625]

She has no duty to do what a dono asks of her. Just how a donation is voluntary, so is the request the dono is making.

[@gowonsmother169]

Hide the money YALL there’s poor people around

[@Chromaspell]

this is why i love gay people

[@iunnoo]

?????

[@henrymorales9584]

@@iunnoo The creater of the video is gay

[@bk5for4]

this is more offensive than just calling me a slur

[@fuyu5571]

I'd rather you call me the f word wtf do you mean

[@ItzClobert]

I thought he was just a cringe oiler until the 'I don't get a say in her joining Sentinels?' like what in the entirety of your existence lead you to believe you have the ability to influence a big life decision just by donating money? That should've been a red flag to whoever that DM was to.

[@apollstar1]

This crazy. Was in your stream a few days ago when you dropped this link. Barely watched it now cause busy playing Stardew and petting my cat. I always thought about this though. Like too many ppl sub and give money expecting something in return that I feel like I have to put a disclaimer, "not trying to buy your love and don't expect anything in return," if I genuinely want to donate a large sum of money because I think the person is genuine and provides good content and wants thing they can't afford. It's like subscribing to netflix or cable to enjoy content. I feel like I should give money for all the damm free content I am getting from this person. Some of it gets me through hard times so I like to show appreciation when I can.

[@wakemeupinside83]

Bro I’d get a restraining order 💀

[@IlllIlIIllllIllIIIlIllI]

A restraining order on pixels wowowow (like a piece of paper even does something against someone irl)

[@GoldGregory]

I am actually going to do that.

[@edd9891]

I mean... Steven really went too far lol enjoy the ban! Also I've never donated to Daph and she replied to me on her Twitch live the other day, but that doesn't mean she will only reply to me if I donate, I feel like this is what Steven expected kek

[@off_suki]

i've asked a bunch of question which were answered, don't be a weirdo in daph's chat (or any other), it's that easy really

[@kromos.mp451]

@@edd9891 what

[@edd9891]

@@kromos.mp451 Guess someone deleted his/her comment 🤷🏾‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

[@diegosotomiranda4107]

@@off_suki yes, basically not being a creep and a total douche it's some ancient myth to those people

[@Jujuvaka]

THE EDITS IM LAUGHING

[@bastianriv1124]

In my country there's case that even weirder than this sht, an 29 year old woman take a troll to police for talking sht about her kpop idol in twitcast 😂

[@ozzytadashi]

PLEASE, it took me rewatching this part of the VOD 3 times to finally realize silversteven wasn’t an entire different person 😭 I never knew g*ldgr*gory was weird like that. What a shame and good riddance tbh

[@iunnoo]

that's such a clever rename

[@EliteNormie]

@@iunnoo meli even alluded to it at 3:52 hahaha

[@spyczech]

Ohhh I have def seen that name in chat before, probably in Carter's chat. Such a clever rename I didn't even realize

[@aldiy1707]

THERAPY THERAPY THERAPY

[@yeysbaws]

it's GoldGregory. he is old and weird.

[@GoldGregory]

Thank you now I can officially file for defamation.

[@yeysbaws]

@@GoldGregory VeryPog woah, this is what I love to see. I hardly care about anyone in daph's chat anyways. this is going to be fun

[@yeysbaws]

@@GoldGregory btw i read your logs, they are pretty weird and daphYikes lole

[@GoldGregory]

@@yeysbaws it isn’t going to be fun I just needed someone to reference who the video was actually about. Enjoy your life. It’s pathetic that you had such a boner for my suffering that you reviewed my chat logs. All I care is that I got my money back good riddance.

[@EliteNormie]

@@GoldGregory bro you brought this upon yourself 😭. anyone who even lurks in daph's chat will be able to know it was you man 3:52.

[@dotdotdotdotdotdotdottod]

honestly ibe only ever seen daphs youtube vids.....twitch seems wild from over here

[@2BVayne]

I'm a vod frog and even I'm getting second hand embarrassment just from writing in the comment section

[@chokeolatte]

WAIT HO HO LY I AM STUPID I ONLY JUST PUT TWO AND TWO TOGETHER AND REALIZED WHO THE WEIRD CHATTER WAS

[@EliteNormie]

G̶o̶l̶d̶ SilverSteven... lolol 3:52

[@alexmighty693]

It seems Steven suffers from extreme narcissism

[@jaywhypeejailcell3202]

20:01 Celebration

[@bekjanz]

This is why we appreciate daph, just zero fcks person xD hey its her channel and its a "donation" nobody owes anything to anybody Ngl daph chat is like another layer or a bonus entertainment xD

[@Sip_White_Stuff]

💀They exist 💀

[@patricktjia]

"not even a quarter I make in a month" she's that rich huh damn

[@blitzkrieg3341]

I watch Daphnes streams but I guess I don't pay much attention cause I didn't even know who that guy was. Silver, if you're reading this, I know you like Daphne but I think you took it too far. Thank you for doing so much for 39daph but I think it would be a good idea for you to find something else to be so invested in. I know how it feels when you like someone so much you just want to insert yourself into their lives but she's a streamer and everyone else is just a viewer. While I think she appreciates the support people give her and she jokes around with people on stream no one should assume that they're anything more than a viewer. I was a little disappointed when I learned that myself but that's how it is

[@STRONTIumMuffin]

good video, more people should see this

[@Fx2real]

Bro could have spent those 4k on therapy yet chose to stay miserable

[@Greg_Stache]

Lol well this was an eye opener for me! I never met anyone like this on twitch. 😂

[@tristlb3756]

I don’t really watch 39daph but that chatter got on my nerves so quick

[@liamk8609]

this is abt golf grefory right?

[@alicecattx]

Yes

[@mark030531]

No it's about silversteven

[@liamk8609]

@@alicecattx thought so. even as a vod frog that dude always “stood out” to me lol…

[@liamk8609]

@@mark030531 i see, sorry steven!

[@appreaciator]

@@liamk8609 same im a devout yt frog but he was v obviously… obsessed

[@dedded4]

Sometimes i hope daph and mod just go full aris.shooting people left and right

[@ariesonyt1844]

A certain vtuber could learn from her

[@EliteNormie]

G̶o̶l̶d̶ SILVERSTEVEN I know who this is LMFAO the guy weirds the fuck out of me whenever I lurk in daph's chat. he's always at the top of that damn gifting chart and by light-years. knew he was a weirdo in one way or another 😹

[@Vastilious]

How is the situation now?

[@EliteNormie]

@@Vastilious bootlicker's long gone. daph's gift sub leaderboard is usually vacant now that he's not there to infest it. except for one or two donators who gift like 5 at a time. I'm sure she likes it better like that anyway. he used to gift her like 50 gifts at one time..... in each and every stream...

[@Vastilious]

@@EliteNormie that's good

[@xajiru]

Uncancelleble: 39daph

[@natusMCMII]

can't believe to this day that this was the behavior of a 36 year old man...

[@BUHTHEFIRST]

damn so there was a creature before the creature we know now

[@distinguishedallureproduct879]

Steven....if you watching this.....dude...get a life 😅😂

[@theredsum1485]

Looked at my twitch dms and literally had a guy do the same thing like bruh

[@nick-xu9wz]

love u 4Rezz for pointing out maplestory music

[@4mnemon]

me seeing this again and hasan reacting to it (the video without daph reacting) is interesting 😗 He seems to be liked there (downplaying what he did, something like that) But like, I guess hasan didn't see daph reacting to the vids

[@spyczech]

Hasan didn't finish the end part what he did after he got banned, but I think it comes down to this video itself being just like, 15 to 20 percent too mean. Some of the clips edited in had toxic vibes (like the one where he calls him a freak, then uses the clip involving little people), I think that made some people reflect and give charitability. Hasan is generally quite a sympathetic person when it comes to reforming behavior too so that was my read. I watched hasan react first so it was something I noticed too though

[@seanhsieh6849]

i am a yt frog, but i sure would love to meet this silver steven fella

[@armani_151]

LimeD 🔪 they just don't understand.....

[@woody_you_want]

Daph definetly learned how to scold chat from Hasan. I love when they pop off on weirdos 😂

[@sadnesspadness4332]

Aris now that’s a man who will tell you he’s glad ur feeling depressed

[@narcissism9643]

She actually learned it from Aris, her favorite streamer I think.

[@hazardousjazzgasm129]

Avoidingthepuddle

[@AcornRiot]

What's the name of the furry detective game

[@off_suki]

blacksad now yiff away daphFurry

[@ceasarcesare5121]

@@off_suki Great comic book as well. Legitimately one of the best written comic books I have ever read. I remember thinking that a furry noir comic book couldn't possibly be that great and was blown away while reading it.

[@off_suki]

@@ceasarcesare5121 I fully agree with that, it's one of my favorite comic too. >:]

[@Hassan-zw9tb]

damn thats crazy

[@harper5378]

I wonder where Bronze Bobert is now...

[@solana9622]

imagine being too weird that you get 39daph a controversy and a video made out of you

[@miloticshiny4916]

I was rewatching this, and i don't remember seeing g*old's name on the birthday game, were was he?

[@JesusRaves]

damn some people really do need help

[@johnpizza950]

Daph is a morbillionare

[@dullux]

i dont think your friend with "depression" needs a bunch of random people knowing they have "depression"

[@garga.mel.o]

daphs great

[@bloodwolf2609]

walmart "i am not your friend" video

[@EliteNormie]

**gucci "i am not your friend" video. ftfy. it's way more entertaining 🥱

[@xPorsum]

Is something wrong with me if I want to start watching Daph's streams but only after adopting SilverStephen's identity?

[@NainheddoMEEK]

To be satirical, right?????

[@123newjersey3]

"A good jedi knows when is the right time to troll." - Yoda Mahmisufatte Use this knowledge wisely

[@maxxvii2037]

Daph WHITEPEOPLEHAPPY

[@divanda5591]

14:18 why he kinda...

[@gothique.]

..what is she drinking omg

[@dokowhere]

vegetable oil

[@563spaceman]

Looks like ice tea

[@gothique.]

@@dokowhere yummy

[@EliteNormie]

some sort of asian tea. you can get it at the asian market idk my friends bring it to school all the time

[@julentheoret9106]

Ronaldo best oiler

[@jaywhypeejailcell3202]

12:00 dafuq🤨🤨

[@Narumi_Nokami]

buh

[@SolidSt]

Godwyn...

[@xanderuchida2398]

Goldgregory

[@NuunDavid]

Hey SilverSteven Get the fuq off the internet...

[@terencelo9731]

WHO IS SILVERSTEVEN I NEED 2 KNOW!!

[@gothique.]

someone said goldgregory its like a play on words w silversteven and it makes sense pepeLaugh

[@johnpizza950]

@@gothique. we love steven and mark. I wonder when that tank stream will happen. Not silversteven

[@Zalazaar]

it's weird, but then again the whole concept of being a pretend friend to people online for donations is weird too

[@manuelsputnik]

A good restaurant or business would recognize regular customers. That's not that weird to me. People aren't your friends just for knowing you exist...

[@Zalazaar]

@@manuelsputnik you go to a restaurant to eat tho. It's not companionship they're selling, streamers do tho

[@dotexe4981]

Sounds like Daph bf got jelous

[@thecommenternobodycaresabout]

I try to avoid posting comments not related to the video but related mostly about myself, but sometimes I can't stop myself (like now). I tend to give constructive comments, whenever I can, otherwise not comment at all, unless I want to "add something", like providing useful info about something that might not be related to the video directly and after watching this video I just feel worse thinking about it, especially when I, consciously, make a comment just for farming likes (just like this one). Thankfully, I tend to be ignored, which is the origin of my "name", but I can slightly understand the guy in question in this video. He just wanted attention but did not have the correct approach on how to get it. He messaged people, initially, to start a conversation about a common topic, 39daph, but as it didn't work he got to more extreme measures. I pray I won't get down to that level, but, it's nice to have a normal conversation with someone on the internet. The only thing that I can be thankful of is the fact that I tend to forget those "urges" I have in about a day or so and get back to my normal life as if I never did that and won't expect a result from doing it, which in hindsight might be even worse than I thought. This is a genuine comment from someone very drunk and honest that will not go back and change their comment to make it look better, aside from any grammar mistakes that they have during its composition. Like it or not, I don't care, I just wanted to share my thoughts and I most definitely will forget this comment's existence soon, so, no hard feelings. If you read until the end, thanks.

[@josha618]

NEVER SUBBED

[@TheMasterFro]

NEVER SUBBED NEVER FOLLOWED NEVER DONATED ADBLOCK ON STOLEN LAPTOP NEIGHBOURS WIFI MOMMAS HOUSE STOLEN SOLAR PANELS STOLEN SUN FREE ENTERTAINMENT

[@andgeo3374]

i find it weird to make such a big deal out of this, like.. yeah everyone gets weird orbiters it's the internet

[@JDotS.]

Yeah I feel like this blew up more than it needed to but I can see why it did when this guy was harassing other viewers and tried to hold his 4,000 dollars over the streamers head.

[@IlllIlIIllllIllIIIlIllI]

@@JDotS. Not his, he gave it to Daph. Its Daph's now.

[@WeOnlySayHelloReal]

it shouldn't be normalized; this kind of behavior should be called out and shamed.

[@EliteNormie]

you can't defend this, that's why banning and blocking is in place people shouldn't put up with getting harassed over any sort of medium, including the internet

[@lensreview8955]

Bruh, something people are weird but isnt this just bullying. So many people hating on this guy, silversteven is weird but yall cant just ignore him and move on?

[@hiddenleafdrip3869]

Bullying would be holding favors over someone else's head because you're mad at what they said lmao.

[@Miguozi]

why you want to giving sympathy to this guy? they literally ignore him like many times and even block him, it's him that constantly dm and harrassing people. why can't him just stop doing these at the first place when many people even daphne already told him?

[@ha-itsme]

Sometimes i do wonder if daph is just asmon as a female.

[@lostconciousness4255]

easy, stop saying things like "it's me, your girl..." influencers make money off exploiting the parasocial relationship. It sucks when viewers can't distinguish the difference but that person the person in chat could be some inexperienced 14 year boy/girl who REALLY thinks you are their "besty". It must be a mind fuck to them when the person who just said "yo, it's your boy" comes back moments later calling them a loser.

[@JaredTSM]

person was in their 30s

[@aeigir]

she has never said shit like this, even if ironic

[@LucasMattos2002]

steven is right

[@GoldGregory]

It’s really easy to take a fuck ton of comments from 15 months out of context. I admit I over reacted to the ban but I really had no idea how it happened because it was off stream. Meli made this probably to get me to harm myself. I can’t believe I gave any of you anything.

[@velmauchihasamadesu984]

Delusion big time

[@yayalu8650]

This must be satire right…

[@301klink2]

Bro go to therapy context doesn’t make this not parasocial

[@butttter]

Look at this goofy ass dude 💀

[@zepar_]

greg

[@ollivainionpaa684]

Fans are fans. What did anyone expect?

[@WeOnlySayHelloReal]

stop normalizing that behavior , it's unhinged behavior

[@ollivainionpaa684]

@@WeOnlySayHelloReal Why else term 'fan' comes from 'fanatic'? You have normalized the word 'fan' as a positive sign.

[@Narumi_Nokami]

buh