closing the last chapter of my life | Voicenotes with Jordan Theresa S04Ep01

[@suni197]

we missed you sm babe hope youre doing well and thriving its what you deserve xx

[@-sammie5902]

went through a break up 6 weeks ago which resulted in me moving back home w my family and leaving my friends behind but this was SO healing to watch, i do 100% agree with how much extra time you have! i miss my ex partner of course but i really do feel lighter, and it’s so comforting to see you thriving bc that will be me soon i’m sure!!

[@Motley14]

I was in a relationship with my ex from about 19-30 years old. I remember when we split and I moved out on my own for the first time I had a similar realization where I was like wow I can literally do anything I want any time and I don't have to worry about how this decision will impact anyone but me! We had lived together for EIGHT YEARS prior to splitting. I mean, I didn't have to check in with him like a parent lol you know what I mean, but it was still incredibly freeing. So happy to hear you're in a similar boat now. Enjoy it!

[@saltysneeze]

BABES WAKE UP JORDAN THERESA HAS POSTED A NEW VOICENOTE

[@Essiggurke-r2h]

listening to you yalk about london is SO HARD. I had to leavein 2021 due to brexit and london was my home. i moved there at 22 and spent the majority of my grown up live there. i left my whole live, friends and partner behind. it hurts. i couldnt even say goodbye to anyone because of covid. i built a new life in a new country and i dont think ill ever want to live in london again. but LONDON WAS MY TWENTIES

[@icymaya217]

jordan since your last episode I’ve gone through a break up with my partner of 10 years 😭 but it’s honestly so okay it was mutual and good. and now we get to all be single girls together!

[@suni197]

NEW JORDAN PODCAST WOOOO

[@photostrips]

you've always been such a gorgeous girlie who is the dream girl's girl bestie, but in your single era you're seriously glowing! so happy for you as you continue to mend your heart and find yourself. I'm a 35 y/o babe who is in a relationship for the first time since I was 30, and though I'm happy in my relationship I totally remember this feeling you described about reentering singledom with excitement for what was to come for ME. such an important era, and one that everyone deserves to have at least once.

[@danielgsmellsofp]

I completely agree about having more energy! Genuinely used to think I had some sort of chronic fatigue or something because I was always SO exhausted in my relationship, but over time I’ve realised it was just that I was putting so much energy into making my relationship work and being the person I thought I needed to be… I never even realised I was doing it until after the breakup and never realised how much pressure I was putting on myself! All for a man! One that I had to teach (at the age of 21) to brush his tongue and wear deodorant! Tragic I was broken up with earlier this year (we were together 7 years) and we had just got back from travelling so I had no money and was unemployed so it was the trenches lol. But I got work, did volunteering, and now I’m finally doing my Master’s in a new city after 4+ years out of uni! When I was in the relationship I never thought I could never do anything like this and it’s been so great seeing how capable I am on my own like my self-esteem was badddddd. It’s stressful being at uni ofc and my hair is lowkey falling out lmao but I’m so much better for it 🤣 Also thank you for the notes on heartbreak recommendation back in Summer… Literally made my processing of the breakup so much better and I even spent time writing my thoughts about it and quotes etc which I really NEVER do normally so like genuinely think it healed me so much and made me more emotionally ready to move and study again. Still feel sad sometimes but I just put on my sad girls playlist on spotify for a bit and then I’m alright lol I'm in no rush to date as I think I need to stay on this self-trust journey but maybe one day! Think I miss the feeling of safety I used to feel more than anything else but excited for the day I don't miss that. Glad you're doing so much better!! ❤❤

[@Baileymcm555]

I recently got broken up with 2 months ago and your podcast has been a huge comfort during the whole thing :)

[@Amyamaze25]

I resonate to your points you made about your break up so much… I was with my ex for over eight years, it was for virtually all my adult life and I was absolutely devastated when we split. Now being single for over a year, I am really enjoying it.. which was something I wasn’t expecting from my break up! Completely understand about not wanting to dwell on the break up and starting a new chapter in your life after this video… but thank you so much for making this video as you have explained your points so well and I completely relate to everything you have said! Keep up the great work!❤

[@Elsa-fe8ld]

I have to say I’m a recent subscriber of yours on your main channel but have just felt super connected to your videos and now this podcast. I had the opposite experience to you in terms of dating - I am 29 and was single for my whole adult life basically and have now found the loml and we’ve been together almost a year. What I’ll say is time alone is SO valuable - I think it’s a good skill to be able to have periods of living and functioning well by yourself, getting to know who you are outside of a relationship, living your life on your own terms - in whatever form that means for you (I am an introvert so can’t relate to your extroversion hahah). It’s really magical. I agree about the pressures of needing to be alone and happy all the time, it’s not realistic. In any case, you seem really happy recently and I’m super excited for your next phase/era/chapter 🎉

[@micaela.herrera]

Omg Jordan I have adhd too and please know that non stimulant meds exist (for example attomoxetine) and I personally love them because they don't have those tiring effects as stimulants. And I am able to take it every day without it feeling weird.

[@ainokettunen6657]

Yeah I have adhd too and have been using attomoxetin. I haven't experienced any side effects. Tho now I would need to take some papers to my doctor to get the recipe renewed and that has been way too hard xdd it's been like two months already and I have the papers. Would just have to take them.

[@nicolecruz7215]

Girl same. Separated from my husband Sunday, haven’t been single for more than 3 months my whole adult life and I’m 37. Currently apartment hunting and getting excited about making my apartment a feminine oasis. I feel like my anxiety from the past few years dissipated after realizing I would thrive in this divorce. So happy we’re living our best single lives putting ourselves first 🎉

[@giavx]

thank you internet for jordan theresa🙏🏻

[@iamangieh]

3:44 *I* sit down to watch *your* podcast eps 🥹🩵

[@icymaya217]

me too 😭

[@ianthe.w]

so glad you’re thriving lovely!!!!

[@rachelneto]

this podcast rlly SPOKE to me. i’m not newly single, but i moved countries this september and it’s been rlly hard i think to centre myself in my life and to navigate what to do with all this extra time on my hands for me, but u reminded me what a gift it is for me to be in spain with so much time for myself for a year and anything i could ever possibly do. girl i never comment but ur so authentically urself and i’ve been feeling sooo insecure and lonely but this helped me feel a lot more confident in being alone atm thank u queen 💋

[@60aquarius2]

My fave white girl 🥹🥹🥹🥹 so so happy to see you healthy and glowing

[@museradio]

🫶🏾 missed you and this podcast, i’m excited for this new chapter in your life and to continue seeing you thrive

[@JessicaLucy330]

I met you at Reading after your set!!! I enjoyed it so much and just been rooting for you and so glad you were there ❤️

[@kl97x]

When I came out of a 5 year relationship, there was a period of time where I genuinely enjoyed my own company and doing things on my own. Whether that was going to the cinema, going on trips, or taking myself out to dinner. But the novelty of that wore off after a while. My circumstances shifted and I found myself alone a lot kind of against my will - I had some negative dating experiences and a lot of my friendships weakened or disappeared because they got into relationships. That's when taking myself out to dinner or going to a gig alone started to make me feel very lonely. Instead of making me feel empowered or enjoying my own company, I felt like I was surrounded by other people's connections, and it was a reminder of how isolated I was feeling.

[@bridieeleanor]

im going through the exact same breakup situation and you have no idea how much hearing you talk about it validates how i feel cos its the worst when you love someone but just know they're not your person

[@cecimn3977]

I woke up from a terrible nightmare and have to go to work, jordan's laugh is the thing keeping me sane right now lollll

[@Ana-mq8zh]

Omg Jordan I’m so thrilled and happy that I found this podcast channel! Every time I’d watch your videos on your main channel, I always wanted to hear more of your thoughts and learn more about you as a person. Listening to you is so comforting and mind opening, it feels like being with a friend who’s totally in tune with what you’re thinking, while also challenging you to question life and reflect on things you’re afraid of. Thank you for creating this! The fact that you love doing it too makes it even better. I’m so happy I found it ❤️

[@Sarah-zt3oc]

this is exactly what i needed this fall day

[@natterlie]

I'm so happy you're back with the podcast yay, I really could listen to you talking about anything forever!! hope you're doing well xx

[@reneeeve]

missed you, upload whenever you want

[@buffoello]

i was thinking about you recently and hoped you were doing well! i'm glad to hear you're having fun behind the scenes and i'm excited to see what your team helps you create! i personally LOVED the catfish video, your insights and coverage were spot on. sending love and i'm so excited for what you show us next! 💖

[@noelkempster]

I really relate to what you said about your bedroom after being single for the first time in forever like I know the circumstances here are wildly different but I was in an ab*sive relationship from when I was 15 years old to 21 years old and we lived together for a large chunk of that time and when I got to decorate and pick furniture for my bedroom when I was single again, I felt more free to be myself and have my own space than I ever had even when I was a child getting my own room away from my little brothers for the first time. Cherishing your time and your space as a single person is vastly underrated when people talk about being single vs being in a relationship and even though I’m in love right now (luver grllll), I still look back really fondly at my 21 year old self picking a dramatic red velvet vampire esque headboard for my bed that I wouldn’t have to share with anyone.

[@emilybirchall745]

Welcome back! My favourite podcast!!

[@aphrodite5499]

this episode was so conforting and you look radiant

[@gil-hv7my]

omg pls do an episode on fashion or how to improve your fashion sense. i feel like i always buy clothes but have nothing to wear

[@milenabianca9787]

I’ve been single and celibate for exactly 6 years and I don’t regret it at all I love being single. I don’t have to explain my reasons for doing things like waking up early or what I’m eating or how I’m spending my time, I just do it and I hope I’m never in a serious relationship again

[@bun__]

usually I don't like chatty podcasts but I love to listen to your yapping. it's almost soothing to me haha

[@gaymooshroom371]

She's back 🎉🎉

[@majocisneros6155]

I always sit and watch your podcast just like jack lol

[@lanalanablx]

Its so interesting how different people live, I never understood it when people said stuff like being single is oke etc.. cuz ofcourse it it, me and all my friends are always single its the base. I'm now in my first real relationship at 27, before that I just dated to find someone who truly fits. Its great being single, to only have to think about yourself, relationship is great but singleness is a must have experience too

[@thatcoolcatcaroline993]

every time i listen to your podcast i feel so seen

[@giuliarizzo7729]

Went through a breakup this summer, in the midst of writing my dissertation and truly felt like my world was ending. Well, I graduated last Wednesday and I am just so proud of myself and feeling so powerful and full of energy, it really is a journey🥹 Just wanted to say that your podcast helped me a lot over the past couple months, truly felt like talking to a friend 🫶🏻 Aaalso, fellow adhd girlie here, i have really been thinking about how it might have impacted my relationship, idk when you were talking about feeling under pressure and the relief that it came with being single and able to manage your own time and life really resonated with me, like not having to justify or explain why i function the way i do all the time is really really nice lol

[@miaadelizi4714]

Would love to hear how you approach dating after being in a long term relationship, do you see multiple people, how do you juggle it and friends ect

[@miaadelizi4714]

Glad you are back girlie!

[@anon9067]

the commments on any youtube upload of harvest moon by neil young make me cryyyy bro

[@montelwilliams26]

the adhd thing is sooo real like that shit is not my superpower, its my kryptonite!

[@beomkyutie1112]

3:44 i am sitting and watching your podcast after waiting for them for so long 🥲🥲🥲

[@roiffeJJK]

I'm happy for you

[@raysunshine1987]

girl i missed you soooooo much!!!!!

[@sandrae2398]

I used to watch your videos before you blew up and honestly slay girl slay

[@cjray04]

17:37 I remember I watched this person on KZbin and she was always chronically talking about her hook ups and boy problems on her KZbin videos Instagram lives TikTok lives and TikTok’s in general and I was like thinking the whole time girl this is probably why you couldn’t keep a relationship with those men because you were literally talking about them online and exposing like what their personal problems and I’m like girl like no that’s probably why you can’t keep like a stable relationship like I get you use your platforms as an outlet to vent, but like some things need to stay on the Snapchat app yk?

[@flickerofdrama]

I really relate to the ADHD part, I am not at that stage of my life where I can call it my super power. Yes I am the way I am because of my ADHD, but sometimes I do wish I didn't have it. I love my medications as they literally saved my life but it gets to me some days that I need a medication to exist and perform like a “normal” person.

[@persephone3585]

i’ve missed youuu

[@malininin]

that title sounds wrong 🫢

[@taniathecreat0r]

literally listening to this while cleaning my loo lol

[@hillclimbracer5413]

this might me more main channel-ly but a fashion video about cores and peoples obsession with fitting into strict aesthetics

[@cecegru]

Not me eating my lunch while watching this podcast episode 😶😂

[@4sar123]

42:22 Strange to hear from someone of the opposite talking about this, or idk as a 23yo girl who's been alone for 6 years in terms of friends and in terms of relationships since the dawn of time this feels tone-deaf...hear the obvious jealousy for someone who's never been much lonely or who's always had people to give love to and be loved by, like lined up, sounds nice. Oh well, just sucks not to be able to find similar minded people.

[@rengalicious]

Me watching the pod episode whilst eating my dinner...

[@laskelle]

Missed this podcast sm!! Ps if you’re in a techno era listen to miss bashful she is hottie techno 💅

[@alixgilbert830]

JORDAN WoodChuckSato makes really high quality dupes of the margiela tabis!! They are real leather and a fraction of the price, they even have the model that Isabella Vrana has!!

[@oliviadiaz3663]

INDUSTRY MENTION !!!

[@laram5931]

I was thinking about you a few days ago, wondering when a new video/podcast is coming!

[@peaches8864]

The LAST chapter or the PAST chapter. Damn girl you’re not one foot in the grave yet!

[@echokilo333]

Are you on the app indyx?! Its my favorite clothing/wardrobe app rn. Would love an episode on your personal style getting better when you buy less!

[@timetraveler878]

I read Annie Bot this year and I thought it was quite good! Not groundbreaking feminism but I think it's a very interesting premise that was well done!

[@fR-zg8eh]

i need one of those bonnets 😭

[@JessieArt]

I like u so muchhhh❤❤❤❤

[@margiefallon4400]

❤❤

[@caseyshotton1818]

❤❤❤

[@bzztthundaa]

💘💘💘

[@julierod16]

YAY

[@PrincessNebbia]

I site and watch the podcast

[@danielleg8257]

❤

[@clairegerdenich7971]

Forgetting that you even have ADHD is such an ADHD mood

[@kippie2414]

we lowkeh need a dc server for the girl s

[@machinegirl03]

omg that title gave me a scare i can't lie

[@bzztthundaa]

🫶

[@vincentvancoughh]

If you’re loving techno music and festivals in Amsterdam atm you’d love Liquicity, happens every July and it’s a whole VIBE. Lots of dancing lots of sun and lots of DnB 🕺🏻🪩🌤️🌷🌈

[@priyasheldon6798]

I came off Ritalin after going through titration, it was so good for getting my work done but omg the crash after and all the other side effects nahh - I also agree I lost all my charisma and I enjoyed being mysterious for about 5 mins and then I realised I just became aloof haha. swings and roundabouts ig :)

[@30secondstochar1]

I used to live in Holloway too 🥹 (slightly more east now but north london girl forever) I thought I recognised the vibe but didn’t want to dox you! I think you’ve handled this whole transition so well sharing what you’re comfortable with - it’s such an emotional time and probably even more so with the parasocial aspect of people maybe feeling like they’re entitled to knowing things, way to go on the boundary setting!

[@chloegroff1010]

ahh love that you’re back and you’re taking care of yourself babe 🩷 ive just moved to a new city (with my partner 😭) and struggling with not having my core best mates with me anymore, any tips for finding some best girlfriends?

[@fR-zg8eh]

YAY