This is so true. My husband proposed after 8 months. We wed after 16 months of dating. He courted me with intentions of marriage. It doesn't take long for them to know if they want to marry you.
@queentina47able11 ай бұрын
My husband asked me to marry him on our first date I gave him my list of reasonable expectations and he gave me his. I said "if I like you after 6 months we will get married." Notice I didn't say "love" love grows it's a choice you make everyday, it's not a fuzzy feeling. Six months later I liked him we got married on December 19, 2023 was our 15th wedding anniversary and we both have kept every promise and commitment we made to each other.
@7n1sun2111 ай бұрын
Deion Sanders Is A Narcissist. At One Of The Games In Jackson, You Can See His Disrespect Towards Tracey. Deion Knew Along Time Ago He Wouldn't Marry Tracey. During Deion Play Book Reality Show.,,, On That Show, It Shows Tracey Mother Not Liking Him, And His Mother Not Being Welcoming To Tracey. She Was Good For His Image. He Wanted That Trophy 🏆 Piece On His Arm. And He Kept It There. Narcissist Come In Every Form. Deion Is Not A Bad Narcissist Or A Evil Narcissist. Everything Is About His Ego. Most Narcissist Always Put Themselves 1st. And This Is What Deion Did To Tracey For The Last Time. Everything In His Life Came 1st, 🏈, His Mother, And His Children. Tracey Came Last. The Only Problem Is, She Stayed Way To Long. And The Only Thing He Use To Keep Her Was Sex.
@unavocatepice11 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this. Oftentimes, we fail to value ourselves the way we should. We CAN do better, and we will! Blessings to all my single friends!
@FeelingFitFabFun11 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this. I just got out of a long term relationship. He was stalling for years regarding marriage. He had no plans of marriage. This is a hard truth that I had to learn.
@Missteree2111 ай бұрын
The best thing about this podcast episode is the sincerity and concern in hostess. Thank you for having the heart to do what you do. Message received!
@patriciacollins465111 ай бұрын
@MVMO Channel I have received a lot of valuable insight from your podcast since I started watching you two months ago. I’m 40, so I could’ve used your advice when I was in my twenties, but better late than never. I know a couple thats recently engaged, the female partner definitely twisted the male’s arm to get engaged. Because her approach worked, I begin to think it’s ok to do what she did to get the ring. I’m glad you decided to cover this topic, because this is something I can stick in my back pocket. If a man truly wants you, you won’t have to twist his arm. If it weren’t for you, I’d still be walking around here thinking my potential partner needs to be active in the church to be seen as husband material. As you pointed out, there are many men who don’t attend church, but they are integral , loyal, and filled with goodness. Basically, you were saying to keep your eyes and your mind open. Collect data during the dating process and don’t become blind to the BS just because he claims to be Christian. Whoever knows you IRL as a friend, sister, cousin, etc is truly blessed they have you in that way. You insight is truly valuable.
@mvmochannel11 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I could pass on the wisdom given to me, pass it on. God bless.
@GospelMusicians11 ай бұрын
Coming from another man of God.....Everything she is saying is absolutely correct. Met my wife and married her after 6-months of dating...Didn't even last a year and that's only because of wedding planning and getting the ring made. A man knows almost immediately! This is absolutely true!
@octaviaterry707411 ай бұрын
It was very clear to me who Deion Sanders is when I watched the reality show about his family. He treated his wife like she was less than him and he didn't hide it from the cameras. I knew he was never going to marry her...to bad it took her this long to realize this too.
@nettalopez650511 ай бұрын
Very on point commentary! This is why women shouldn't 'lay and play' without making it a benefit of MARRIAGE! The other thing, too, is that if a man sees you as GOLD, he would want to make sure that you aren't swooped up by another man out there who would beat him to the punch! YES, he would put a RING ON IT! Deion in Colorado and Tracey in another state? C'mon! How long did you think that was going to last? Of course, he wasn't serious about a commitment, leaving Tracey all alone to be approached by someone else who wants to shoot his shot! The bottom line is that women have to know their value and stop giving themselves away hanging on hope, fantasy, and unicorns! #KnowBetterDoBetter
@hairnmore257911 ай бұрын
Great insight! Such precious time wasted on someone who was never going to marry her.
@msdee290511 ай бұрын
She dodged a bullet in marriage to Deion. All Deion would do is cheat
@jackeeo82411 ай бұрын
Claudia Jordan is a close personal friend of Tracey's and has dropped hints to confirm everything you've said. Including the fact that someone else may now have his attention. I think Deion made use of Tracey because she was so heavily involved in film, and he was shopping the reality TV show for his then young family around this time. He saw compatibility which in this case could be considered a means to an end.
@chappy947211 ай бұрын
I said this once and I'll say it again. You want to learn about men. Ask a man. Never listen to a woman about the psychology of men.
@shadymccoy711 ай бұрын
I agree with you about men. They will date you for 10,000 years knowing you are not the one and when y'all break up he goes on and marries the next woman after you. They know....I didn't ever understand long relationships like that or long engagements for people of a particular age. Yes, I'm glad she cut her losses. When I heard they broke up my reaction was "They're still together?!?!!!" I knew he wasn't going to marry her from watching the reality show.
@Iheartpeace2211 ай бұрын
Women need to let their needs be known…period. If a man leaves you hanging for 12 years without a marriage…it’s your fault if you never walk down the aisle because you are the one who put up with it. Women please leave, move on and find a man who WANTS YOU FOREVER! I lived with my now husband for 2 years…at the end of that two years I basically told him that if we are not getting engaged and moving toward a future then my time is being wasted….long story short…he put a ring on it quickly and we are 32 years into our marriage. Women need to be very clear about their needs/wants and if the man can’t or won’t or doesn’t make it happen….keep it moving and find love and your bliss elsewhere.
@Apostylicpoet11 ай бұрын
I could listen to you talk all day. Very good advice. I cannot believe Tracey is 56!
@warpeace632011 ай бұрын
You are so right. But I am afraid many women still think that they are more important to the man than his last woman. Sometimes, a man who doesn’t want to marry the woman he is with, will keep her around because he can have his cake and eat it too. The woman will take care of him, live in his big house, and watch him cheat on her and she will have to grin and bear it, because the moment she objects to any of his deviant behavior, she gets kicked to the curb. Women have to love a man sometimes from a distance. If you are not the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with, you can threaten suicide if he doesn’t marry you soon and he may just hand you the rope and leave the room.
@queentina47able11 ай бұрын
If a man's mind isn't made up you are the one and wants to get married the first year of dating you are just a bed warmer.
@KammieLux11 ай бұрын
This happened to me I dated a man 5 years who said I was wonderful and I loved his children -he left me then a year later got married to someone else- I was devastated and will never love another man like that again
@freebluebutterfly658311 ай бұрын
He deceived you. But GOD saw it... Karma is real. U might never see it but things have a way of mysteriously leveling the field, even when u've moved on.
@KammieLux11 ай бұрын
@@freebluebutterfly6583 yes thank you. When he married another woman a year later I felt so bad about myself his excuse was let me pay off my alimony ..and I waited ..and he left
@betsy588911 ай бұрын
I don’t know why I thought of George Clooney. I’m old enough to remember George Clooney really was another Common until he met Amal. It’s proof of what you’re saying. When George Clooney found who he really wanted to marry he married her and had kids and everything and they’re still together. Before that he was just stringing women along for so long and didn’t really want to marry them 😂
@elainelyons927211 ай бұрын
They both cannot keep a marriage so they are better off apart. People cannot claim to walk with God and at the same time breaking his commandments by living in adultery.
@freebluebutterfly658311 ай бұрын
A great message & lesson. Thank you.
@charlottegibson386211 ай бұрын
Tracy has had 3 failed relationships to end. She was w Kenny Edmonds, Eddie Murphy, and now Deion. No u can change men. Not have a mother and father is damaging. Deion didn't want to get married. Yes, sister I agree. He knew she wasn't the one for him. Ithink he knew almost immediately. U r so right. He knew she wasn't the one for him. He wanted control of his kids. He enc'd her to cont her career. She was pushing for it. Shaunnie knew she was the one pushing. Tracy has spent 12 years of her life w no input of any relationship w his children. She was just there for him. Her sons didn't want this blended family either. They were in private school and grew up in L.A. why she put her sons through this running back and forth to her endeavors and back to Deion kept her away from her sons who needed her. Don't get it twisted she didn't want to be stepmother to Deions kids either but she missed out on her kids development. She spent more time w Deion and her work than her sons. I really fault her for this. Deion from years back had no intention of ever marrying her. He was a Texas boy. I'm sure he appreciated her kindness but she wasn't the person he wanted. His children was his career after football. I think he saw her as why not spend time w ur own sons. I'. Not having any kids w u. Maybe she couldn'g have anymore kids. But I knew he wasn't going to .arry her. It was convenient for Tracy and convenient for Deion. Of course even if he said he would marry someday he didn't mean her ow when that would happen. Now Tracy is 56 or so and her sons whom she spent less time w r grown and probably have finished college at some prestigious U have been left out for 12 years. They have been afford the best of everythinv but a mother. I'. Sorry, I can see why Deion didn't marry her.
@humbleheart265011 ай бұрын
It’s the Tracey Mack comment for me! She was his lil ride or die! 😡
@msdee290511 ай бұрын
I’m glad she got smart finally. She deserves a full commitment. She is not getting any younger or prettier.
@derickcrooms11 ай бұрын
Just finished listening to the Part 2 Addendum and wanted to hear that before I commented. I think you've given a very fair assessment. I'll just say this: I remember watching Deion's [their] reality show a few years back. Even back then you could see a deep level of insecurity on his part with respect to real connection and commitment. When they were building a home together and Tracy had a request on the master bathroom features, his entire pushback to her and to his mom about not doing it was... "what if you/she leaves me?" That spoke volumes to me!
@betsy588911 ай бұрын
Interesting 🤔
@corinehoyt291511 ай бұрын
Thank you. Your assessment is on point. I appreciate your honesty and the fact you zoned in on a great point. I respect your insight to provide and it is always a nugget to take away.
@latoniaproctor747510 ай бұрын
I just came across your channel and absolutely ❤ your content. You are spot on and so informative. I have a feeling she'll be married in the next year or two.
@dsstewbaby911 ай бұрын
Good luck to both of them
@ldm313411 ай бұрын
He just was not ready for marriage again. It was about his kids and career. He has often said that you don’t find a woman like her. She was hard to find. I think the conflict is the children and their career and his. Both successful individuals, but I agree she probably was pushing to be first and she was not. His kids are and that’s the conflict.
@pattythomas976711 ай бұрын
12 years is a long time, they had a good time they enjoyed each other at least that didn't get married because we would be reading about a divorce right now. Look some marriages don't even last that long.
@mvmochannel11 ай бұрын
How do you know they had a good time? They were hardly together most of the time due to both their travel schedules.
@annettescroggins390511 ай бұрын
So true! The man will not end it 😊 Agree.. we can't change men.
@doreendraughn823811 ай бұрын
Amazing that you’re doing this video about her and I was just thinking about Tracy last week and was wondering if they were still together and here we are. Thanks for sharing this video.
@snooty418011 ай бұрын
7:05 Speaking nothing but FACTS! No untruths here.
@angelangel447611 ай бұрын
Great summary! Thank you. Totally agree with you. They both stated in interviews that after Tracy son graduate from high school they were going to marry. He was good time that is it and that is all. So many gems in your video❤ Have a great Christmas and New Year!
@freebluebutterfly658311 ай бұрын
Makes me Sad... Thankufully he is good riddens. He helped her gain more wisdom; now she's much more alert of red flags. All she has to do is be herself - remain mellow, kind hearted, still & silent. Rest assured - TRUE LOVE, PEACE & JOY COMES to those focus on GOD.
@theresamorelli110811 ай бұрын
Great explanation
@thinkdifferentlybiblestudy477111 ай бұрын
You have spoken truth. Now she is posting these silly emotional post on her social media. You hv to be mature in relationships to understand her posts? This man check out a long time ago he could care less he has moved on
@lucyd414911 ай бұрын
Your commentary was spot on based on Tracey’s post!
@annemcintyre976910 ай бұрын
Their long distance relationship is why it lasted so long. He was using her in so many ways.
@donaldsquires267411 ай бұрын
She is not for all that health failing responsibilities that comes with dealing with Deon. She waited until the season was over so he didn't have additional distractions. She is not married to him so really she don't owe him wife duty loyalty...deuces it was fun while it lasted
@muriellea839911 ай бұрын
Yes best wishes to both of them to be blessed with the love they desire. 💜🌻
@khines299410 ай бұрын
I like Deion, and I understand that he didn`t want to get married again for the third time, but he screwed up on this one. He`s not going to find another Tracy. She`s the full package. He should have been up front with her earlier on and not have her waste 12 years with him.
@keejackson212111 ай бұрын
That new coaching job probably caused some strain in their relationship. I remember learning they had a long distance relationship at some point that worked for them, but thus time around probably made things difficult. Sometimes things just does not work out.
@rikrod1111 ай бұрын
I agree with you on this commentary and the commentary from the addendum. However, some men usually have an idea early on if "you're the one" or not. If you're not the one but you are doing all the right things that a typical man usually likes, we are going to stick around until that woman starts to read between the lines. Lot of times, even if she does see through the BS, it's not a deterrent for her or him. As you mentioned, some women will try to mold a man into the man they think he can be and that usually back fires. As I got older, I got wiser. If I didn't want a woman wasting my time, why would I want to waste Her's? As a man, make your intentions known from the jump. It'll be "GO TIME" after that. You'll find out real quick if you and that woman are on the same page. It's unfortunate Coach wasted her time. Hopefully she can find her TRUE love.
@lynwill994611 ай бұрын
They lasted longer than many marriages.
@williamsavicejr762411 ай бұрын
Coach Prime should've married Tracy! I'm or we're SHOCKED that this didn't happened! She's a VERY,VERY GOOD person! Coach Prime!!! We ❤ you Mann;but you shouldn't have WASTED her TIME this long our HERO & a REAL BLACK MAN!
@Dsuebutler11 ай бұрын
Get this Tracy was at the hospital when he had his medical crisis before the football season started. He had to have rehab afterwards and there was a woman trainer helping him and I feel he became involved with. Tracy was not there all the time and found out about this and I feel that is the main reason she ended things.
@mvmochannel11 ай бұрын
If this is true I'm not surprised. I mean he cheated on both his wives. He is an obnoxious, self-centered blow hard. I'm sure he hadn't changed his ways while with Tracey.
@annettescroggins390511 ай бұрын
Great commentary
@lynetteprice36011 ай бұрын
Great review and very on point
@danimiller36487 ай бұрын
People need to heal and mature, and stop wasting grown people's time.
@frankieallen490011 ай бұрын
Great content/ commentary. I totally agree.
@nikkib744211 ай бұрын
I don’t think Deion is looking for marriage since the ugly break up with Pilar ….
@yummybrown918811 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing you view on this.
@carmenrosa849510 ай бұрын
I never have or will talk about marriage to a man… that is why Im single now….
@mrrpswife11 ай бұрын
I really like both of them. But, they were too old to be girlfriend and boyfriend or engage without marriage. The could said they were like Stedman and Oprah and let it ride.
@sdub704511 ай бұрын
I don't think she cut him off. I think he just wanted to demonstrate to the public that they were cool.
@BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx11 ай бұрын
His age definitely catching up with him and I just don’t get why wouldn’t he want to settle & marry her after dating her and having her round your kids & mom all those years ….
@lindae701311 ай бұрын
She was just about to marry Eddie Murphy and decided she didn’t want to. I feel she was tired of putting her life on hold and she was married to another narcissist,Babyface. She met him when she was very young .
@mvmochannel11 ай бұрын
She was actually married to Eddie, but it was so brief
@patrickhatcherson341611 ай бұрын
This is a lot of surmising.
@mvmochannel11 ай бұрын
Right, that what I told you it would be...uh duh ...
@lindadavis656711 ай бұрын
There are reasons why and I am not in that relationship but a man or women are diabetes there is no sexual activity in addition, they are cutting his body parts starting with his toe. She is young and beautiful and why should should be wait when I'm sure Tracey can get another man.
@mvmochannel11 ай бұрын
You're right about diabetes. But I'm confused, does he have it? I don't know much about his health
@loveheals618411 ай бұрын
While I understand the presumptions some may have made due to unfamiliarity with your channel. That said, 99% of this video and the entire addendum clearly, coherently succinctly put forth your intention and thesis. I'm a first time viewer who fervently wishes I'd been the beneficiary of such wisdom years ago. Having been raised to be a wife with my own educational/professional pedigree, cultivated in domestic excellence worthy of a good hostess, and an urbane, cosmopolitan person at ease regardless of social class of those around me, it would've been great to have this explained in ways that didn't seem "anti-love" or elitist. Potential and proving myself were the bane of my relational choices. While admittedly late to this realization 😂, I'm thankful that the scales have fallen from my eyes. Wishing you exponential reciprocity of the generosity of spirit you share in sisterhood. 🙏🏿🥰💃🏿