Is She Flakey, Not Interested or Testing Me?

[@jeffstone4624]

Don't humiliate yourself pursuing a chick that doesn't want you. That is the absolute worst thing possible. Move forward with lessons learned.

[@Arsenal_03]

Facts

[@dorkga1092]

These days, it's not just "The Rules" book that makes things a problem, it's the toxic dating advice all over TikTok too. Corey's book really does help you see right through all of this crazy behavior and help you navigate it and your emotions

[@davidcamero2063]

But coreys rule book is okay

[@TruthAplomado]

I totally agree. It's like a network that tries to corrupt the essence of man in a relationship. There are popular tiktoks of women literally saying they're turned on by things men should NOT do. "He held my hand", "he hugged me", "kissed me on the cheek", this and that.

[@elsquibbs]

I used to run myself in circles trying to figure out the answers to the flakey/not interested/testing questions. Then I realized that it's irrelevant, because chicks I was successful with never gave me an opportunity to think about those things.

[@fabianpatrizio2865]

damn straight

[@3PCTManOrBust]

The REAL problem is them, not the guy. These same women will live with cats on their own and cry “where have all the good men gone?” when they get older or they will simply resort to throwing their box around in hook up sites. The sooner men realize this the better off all men will be.

[@elsquibbs]

@@3PCTManOrBust I agree. It's the same repeat offenders.

[@Chris-ey7zy]

Yeah screw these girls. They have daddy issues where they continually test men. They like torturing men with their absence. Best thing to do is let them know they meant nothing by ignoring them

[@gymgainsbeginners]

What do you mean by ”never gave opportunity to think about these things”?

[@ClashOfClans252]

If a woman cancels on you and doesn‘t reschedule, she‘s out.

[@theguy4615]

I've been with lots of women. The ones I chased didn't last long. If they like you they make it easy and would drive an hour through a thunderstorm to get to you. I never played their games or tests, I would pull back until they stopped that nonsense. If their attraction fades, there's not much you can do about that, let them go if that happens.

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

Problem is most men don’t get this because we’re not taught this instead we’re taught the blue pilled disney fantasy romance bull shit.

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

@@Halifax839 You’re exactly the reason why boys need coach corey to show them the way 😂 Y’all wonder why men aren’t loyal and affectionate and why you have trouble finding a good man to stay well hun take a good long look in the mirror.

[@theguy4615]

@@Halifax839 men don't like to play games, all we want is a woman that's fit, feminine, and friendly, hard to find these days. You're right, most women have unlimited options with social media, so move on easily if the guy isn't perfect and doesn't put her on a pedestal. For guys it's usually too much effort for too little in return. Most older single women are overweight, broke, and looking for a retirement plan. Hard pass.

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

@@theguy4615 Women literally only have one job and it’s just to not be a total washout in looks and it’s amazing how so many fail at just that. A 4/10 woman could get many guys so long as she’s not grossly overweight or looking like kim foxx or lori lightfoot 😂 if only it were that easy for us guys. We have to go through so much more just to simply be appreciated by society.

[@theguy4615]

@@TheGreatSalsaMan I agree !

[@RealityHurts2024]

Letting go of a woman is the hardest thing. As men we hate to fail. But failing with a woman hits us extra hard. It's just how we were programmed.

[@svtben]

That's why you have the opportunity here to reprogram yourself.

[@Chris-ey7zy]

It’s not your failure. You should just feel disappointed that the girl you chose is ditzy

[@rastock9894]

I bought the book and audiobook. I highly recommend. I give it 5 stars. I never struggled attracting women, getting dates, or getting laid. The struggles came 1-3 months down the road with maintaining attraction. I knew I wasn’t doing something right when women were clearly losing interest in me. This book has helped me realize so much more not only about women, but also myself. This book helped me realize just how much I was screwing up. We always have room for improvement and we can’t grow until we fix ourselves and this book is the start of you and me realizing and understanding what we lack, our strengths and weaknesses, and how to build and correct them. I’m on my 3rd read and learn more each time because I’ll think “oh wow I forgot about that part”. Coach wasn’t kidding about retaining about 8% of what you read. Definitely read this 10-15 times. You won’t get bored or it because you’ll learn more each time. I will say on my 1st read it helped me realize that “SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS”!

[@Anth_D]

Amen brother! CW changed my life.

[@jasonrocksvegas]

Single women are flaky because a better deal always is waiting on a dating app

[@mummiefied]

You counteract that by being the best deal.

[@jasonrocksvegas]

Unless your wealthy or Chad you ain't gonna be the best deal they want. Women are super shallow from all the attention they get online.

[@gymgainsbeginners]

That’s why you should only date married women

[@jasonrocksvegas]

Thou shall not commit adultery.

[@StrassenbahnBen]

People like the second guy make my laugh. He questions Corey's work. But with every sentence he proves Corey's point. It made me smile.

[@moukingrou8942]

I laughed so hard 🤣 We keep giving excuses and being delusional instead of facing the reality And let them gooooo

[@chrismais]

The question is why do you care ? A man about his purpose who lives with an abundance mindset would not care if she is testing, doesn't care or is flaky..he would leave her to flake by herself and test herself or care about whatever she wants to by HERSELF. Whether they are attracted to you or not no one respects weak, clingy and questioning themselves with a lack of confidence. There will always be women who are attracted to you today and not attracted to you tomorrow but YOU will always remember the loss of self respect you put yourself through begging to retain her attention not necessarily her devotion.

[@Mancer1980]

Women like this ALWAYS end up in a very bad place in life. They never think they're wrong and just got more and more damaged over the years - seen it at least a dozen times. Remember gents, we always win in the END.

[@marco18979]

Plenty out there, everyone got options with social media etc etc also this kind of toxic women end up alone with 5 cats average

[@darrenleejones3516]

A structured woman ! Now there’s something new

[@johnokeeffe3096]

Every day these newletters seem to answer a specific problem I've been thinking of! God Bless you Corey!

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

Just proof that AWALT. We all struggle with the same problems with women no matter where and who we are.

[@Malitubee]

Right it’s soooo amazing , how he always seem to post exactly what I need at any given moment

[@johnrblur6476]

If a woman likes you, I mean actually likes you; not just 'meh he's ok', then she'll kiss you pretty much anytime you want. It's easy to simply wait until the end of the first date to kiss her. If she won't kiss you at the end of the first date, just leave it. She doesn't like you. But you should know way before the end if she likes you or not.

[@dianazalokova704]

If a girl likes you it's going to be super obvious, in most cases!

[@aitorinarra]

This was the funnest I watched in a while haha. With, of course, great and wise advice. Thank you coach!!

[@aspe434]

I'm absolutely convinced that these situations are way worse than the way the men depict them in the emails. The guys already admit to some behavior that makes them look bad an weak, just imagine what they're leaving out. 😬 Regarding the woman in the last email, her attitude towards dating would completely change if she ever had the chance to date a 3% man.

[@Julie_77777]

If she's 38, been single for a long time, lives an independent life - she can easily break up with a guy even if she loves him. I say this because I've done this. Several times. It is hard, but when you're not 16 and you see certain 'deal breakers' in a relationship or behaviors, you call it a day. Another important detail - a man should bring certain 'values' into your life, to make it brighter, to make me WANT to share my space, my life with someone. If that's not the case - I'd rather be on my own. This type of women are usually strong, established life, career, have their own toolbox for repairs, they don't NEED a man, but they WANT to have someone in their life. The problem here, that man needs to be even STRONGER, to make them feel like a woman in order to have proper relationship dynamics.

[@mikemaryniuk571]

I respect being equal and cooperative.....FYI. you had some good points though.

[@mig022]

You say “doesn’t need a man…strong, established with her own toolbox” …I say a prig and a spinster without an understanding heart. -The Philadelphia Story

[@Julie_77777]

@@djbobby224 nobody should lower their standards. Why would you? Do you choose anyone, just not to be alone? This is not how you live your life. You say men only need young and beautiful, but don't you think those men are the ones complaining all girls are gold diggers and only after their money?

[@Julie_77777]

@@djbobby224 I wasn't talking about lowering the standards in beauty, because let's be honest, you have no idea how Beyonce is as a person and what her character is like. Im talking about not lowering standards of thr values, personallity traits, to stick with your 'deal-breakers', etc. Youth and beauty fades for both, men and women, so I'm not talking about hook ups, but more of a long term partnership. You also might be surprised how many men nowadays want financially stable women and they are not afraid to speak about it. I'm not saying it is wrong, because one of the reasons they want to be proud of her while bring to his parents. Gold digging is not really a character, the phrase was created by men who had beautiful girls with no finances

[@realtalk6720]

@@Julie_77777 98% of women who follows this feminist mindset all, dies alone with a high body count. FYI no man in his right mind will take seriously a woman with high mileage. There's nothing special about a woman many men be with, we look down on ya, why you think men like younger women. Less miles and baggages if any from previous realtionship. Those feminist woman only are or should be taken as sex playmates nothing else seriously. 🥱

[@makuIa]

the 2nd guy was so delusional & kept repeating the same bs like he was trying to convince himself as much as us

[@matthewmayfield8095]

“If you keep acting like a chick you’re gonna get blue balls” -CW 😂🤣😂 that’s some Taoist philosophical shit right there.

[@marco18979]

in addition to your book would be interesting to buy or borrow this book called "the rules" as counterweapon

[@jensangelsgaard1854]

There are 4 billion women on the planet... Next!

[@smurfy7972]

So, if a woman doesn’t want to kiss you on the first date, she’s difficult?!? My god. Only insecure men would think this.

[@arricammarques1955]

Practice the art of not being tested or second chances.

[@stephenciotti2127]

Good morning coach!

[@j.l.7325]

The coach is Yoda woman whisper spot-on all the beta delusional rationalizing, obsessing, insecure jealousy, pedestal highness mentality, and delusional expectations. Every man has to work thru break cycles of beta Behavior thank God for Coach Corey Wayne to set us on the right path and avoid being a male girlfriend all the needy attachments validation seeking weakness hardest thing to break but necessary thank you for your help coach!! Read your book still working on it daily. Hangout have fun hookup thanks coach appreciate your help!

[@akatheprize]

Fuck around and end up with a restraining order bruh 🤣🤣🤣

[@lukegonano3956]

Wait coach looked at my lips…. Oh shietttt 😂

[@andrebaxter4023]

"OH, you're highness, thanks for the sandwich." 🤣

[@chasingmavrx6797]

Love how Corey keeps emphasizing that the women was very difficult 😂

[@bleedingkansai9961]

The sandwich bit at 14:40 had me rolling.

[@judeelue4521]

This episode cracked me up 😂 especially the second guy who put the chick on a pedestal

[@SergioFernandez-cj4mt]

Hey coach, in regards to the first email, she definitely must have been a Capricorn ♑️ 😅😂🤣, btw, the the j.o. motion of the left hand is straight out of the car industry lingo …. 😅

[@timnichols7760]

That second guy is in TOTAL denial and isn't going to listen to ANYTHING!! LOL!

[@lukegonano3956]

Just me again from aus 😂🇦🇺🦘

[@tonygee6418]

The end theme song really makes my day, TGIF

[@darrenyoung9444]

Kudos to u Corey for being able to listen to these delusional jackasses who are all Mack daddies yet can’t get any play

[@jaimemaniglia2594]

This is why doing the corentine, I sltared listening to your book repeatedly, and when i got my fist shot i started going out more. As a kicker, I'm a motoredline disabled, whom was recently diagnosed with anxiety disorder. It's kind of ironic don't you think? But its actually quite a blast, with the right mindset, of course... regards

[@Coletrain0128]

She’s unsure but wants me loll Corey’s reactions so funny 😂

[@catholicpedro]

If the guy is emailing Corey questions then "the rules" book is probably working.

[@danodendaal4572]

So glad i read the book. I was a delusional bitch before i read 3% man and now i chuckle at dudes making the same errors. Coach, you helped me in so many ways. Thank you for your teachings. It's helped me in all aspects of my life.

[@tavar16]

She's very easily scared away from a relationship. Corey's response "well when you act like a bitch, yes" 😄😄😄

[@jonathanc3570]

My goodness. Hearing that second email was painful Someone give him “The Rational Male” by Rollo Tomassi after he’s read Coach’s book 10-15 times

[@VoiceOfThe]

TRM needs a revision. It’s unnecessarily long winded and wordy, needs to be much more concise and more easily digestible.

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

Corey reading the last guys email and laughing at him has got to be the most embarrassing thing ever.

[@jarradhurley4866]

"Oh your highness, thanks for the sandwich" hahahahahahahaha

[@adamasawadogo4937]

What I love about 3% Man is that it teaches you to value your worth and have a peace of mind. You are strong and independent, guess what, I am not interested in a woman who will only be around if she's getting value. Anyway, I learned that the woman who is worth your time will not play games. Losing a player is winning a peaceful life. It hits hard when he says "youre being a chick dude haha"

[@valterdante1951]

Hello Corey love your content, I’m a healthy 20 year old who works out and has a life going, at the moment my gf lacks in emotion and flakes on me whilst this is happening I am having attention from other woman which are valuing me more for which I have to ignore because I am loyal idk what to do??

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

3:50 As men we have enough problems in our life with our mission and our purpose, the last thing we need is a woman who’s giving us a hard time about everything. You don’t want friction - there’s enough friction in life and in the world 7:00 ‘The Rules’’ book 13:00 Your job as a man is to create an opportunity for sex to happen, that’s it 13:35 *Trying to prove yourself to a woman is incredibly unattractive. You following her lead basically makes her the man in the relationship. Approval seeking behavior, ruins the sexual polarity.* 18:20 Doesn't how much you like her - if you keep acting like a chick, she's going to treat you like a gay male girlfriend. When you act like a b**ch, or like a soy-boy, you're not providing a *masculine container* in the relationship. So, she doesn't feel safe trusting your masculine core. That's why she stays in her masculine, which makes it feel unnatural to her. She wants a man that she respects, that she can look up to, that she can admire, that can lead her. Treating like her celebrity and acting like a fan = therefore, fans get to sit on the sidelines, while she goes and sleeps with somebody else 19:30 She’s a little masculine - and most masculine men don’t want a masculine woman, so she ends up dating a lot of Beta males and walks all over them. She then never feels safe - and therefore she gets hurt, and probably keeps attracting the weak beta guys that *she walks all over and who never provides a masculine container for her to feel safe.* 20:00 Becoming needy and over-pursuing - seeking her approval, instead of seeing yourself as a prize. 20:35 Trying to let down easy to prevent the dude coming unglued, and becoming a stalker or weirdo - probably like the other beta males in the past who have hurt her. 21:20 Putting her on a pedestal and kissing her ass is going to cause her to lose all respect, where it's easy for her to ghost you. 21:50 Relationships are the woman's department. 22:20 You simply make dates in the evening, that can lead to sex. If she reaches out to you, assume she wants to see you, and invite her over to make dinner together.

[@ThomasThomas-xg9vk]

These arent tricks, its a way of being. Thats his problem.

[@513Headstrong]

I think I'm doing a good job as a student, I can now call when Corey is going to make a joke about the person's behavior and what he's going to say about it. Or I will even think "oh gosh what an idiot" right before Corey comments.

[@brianmiller6047]

answer is yes to the title

[@Dr.HowieFeltersnatch]

I have yet to meet a girl who is easygoing and easy to get along with.

[@RAntonio93]

If a girl is showing interest but being flakey, 99% of the time she is attracted to you, but dealing with another dude, or in a relationship. Meeting her off a dating app and her showing this behavior is a red flag. I have dealt with this multiple times and they always admit after we hook up that they broke it off with some other guy before finally agreeing to meet up.

[@justjayy85]

Most guys like the dude in the second email know they are doing something wrong. Yet they want a shortcut around their wrongdoing. I talked to a teenager one time about what he was doing wrong. Wasn't giving me much context either and he did he opposite of what he was suppose to do and wasn't getting the results. Most people want to do it their way not according to the rules P.S. His first experience should be with girl who doesn't have a child. Those ones with kids are more challenging.

[@albert-lutherrandolph2808]

Let's goooo 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@rezur3kt698]

I love when Corey says something super corny a girl wanting to kiss him haha it’s so corny I’m sure the girl laughs and it actually works

[@caveman354]

Coach lookin kinda like thanos with the beard

[@dennise1110]

He’s not applying any of the principles from the book so how can he say it’s not working? He’s putting her on a pedestal and it’s not going to end well.

[@breakingthehabit]

Corey, we need few videos on how girls try to manipulate handsome guys, some advices for handsome guys😅usual things dont work

[@goatofdeparture]

Best video I’ve seen lol

[@faisalnoor7081]

Hello coach!

[@faisalnoor7081]

Finished my 9th read of 3% Man today and 4th of QR&Cs

[@jasonschell7473]

The guy in the second one, sounds like I did about 10 years ago with a chick that I thought was absolutely amazing. FFW 10 years I wouldn't even think about giving her a chance! He better just move on and read the book like he was told!

[@alfredholmes9516]

What if she says she was looking forward to seeing me and she missed me but she said she had food poisoning on the day she was supposed to come over …she canceled 5-6 hours In advance. Call me crazy BUT Isn’t it possible things come up and she was looking forward to seeing me but she wasn’t feeling well???

[@alexandergarcia5389]

Razor blades are only a buck at the 99cents only stores🤣

[@Chris-ey7zy]

Just pretend you never set a date. Ignore the girls who does this. It will drive them crazy. Women come and go. Go only for girls in front of you not someone who disappears. Imagine if you had a kid with her and she just ghost you. Let some other guy deal with her BS

[@gauravbhan]

This guy is so me when I was 15 years old.

[@ryanthepianoman27]

How old are you now

[@gauravbhan]

@@ryanthepianoman27 38

[@Quiese22.]

All this s*** is just confusing to me I read the book it's just probably not going to work for me honestly I'm just going to be myself trying to worry about too much if I'm operating and masculine energy of feminine energy it's just too much of a headache in order to try to keep a woman interested it's like f*** it I'm just going to be myself if she likes it oh well she doesn't kick rocks

[@TruthBounty]

Literally, set a date for 2-3 weeks and if she hits you up before the week timeframe she has high interest and is pursuing. Dont joke and set another date. Then when she hits you up do another date. Smash on date 2-3, and rinse repeat. Not that hard brother. You got this!

[@Suri_02]

"Your girl should make you a sandwich" - Corey Wayne

[@orinayers6200]

So we teach women the rule book and teach men to not put up with them if they follow the rules book 😂

[@huntermusar8522]

Corey wayne will help you if you do the work IF

[@frankirwin5684]

Well, the rebound relationship can thank the second guy because that chick is going to bang him out of her life.

[@kvs7876]

Is it good to start dating during the holidays?

[@KieferGaming1]

No,it's kinda like getting a puppy for Christmas. You probably will get tired of it and want to let it go.

[@emptysoul2757]

@@KieferGaming1 I agree. They’re simply feeling lonely. Good chance you’ll be replaced after they blow over

[@michaelstevenson4200]

D) all of the above!

[@petrosk7789]

I am sleeping in my crush house

[@paulcolin9071]

He's too emotional by far

[@bibigreen6533]

The Rules sounds like the stupidest book.

[@Phantomcrust91]

I kind of want a sandwich now

[@jamesf3583]

a man's only job in the courtship is to create an opportunity for sex? it takes two to tango . She has to accept the invitation and you have to build the initial high interest

[@droidgunner3840]

I play guitor

[@nurdeens]

shes definitely not interested in you bro lmao

[@avalonmist254]

I Love Kissing

[@khgriffi]

how am i not first?

[@NewLeaf88]

Dem Soy Boyz dough..