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I need to do this for me, you should try it too. When fear shows up choose courage. Just do it! Thanks for your support friends!

[@ellexamg8497]

I feel like you're still the "good old" mommytard, but so much stronger and more true to yourself! I was 12 when I started watching you and I'm 18 now, I guess we all grow together! You can't even imagine how excited I am to watch your videos every thursday! 😍 Sending you and your family lots of love from Belgium :)

[@camillapiirainen251]

MissA i live in Belgium and tbh i thought i was the only one who knows about them

[@ellexamg8497]

haha same actually! Nice to meet you! :)

[@camillapiirainen251]

nice to meet you too 😘

[@animallover2594]

Don’t worry Colette!!! You do what you are comfortable with! I’ve always loved watching you and your family and I know you’ll get into the swing of things when your ready!

[@KadenceX]

Colette is so graceful

[@victoriaannexoxoxo]

I'm 50 years old and have lived in fear for so many years. This year it hit me, what has worrying or fear done for me the first 50 years of my life? Nothing! So here goes to "do it! And do it afraid if necessary!" I support you 1000% Colette 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@montanagirlification]

Now I have another reason to love Thursdays! Thank you Colette! Being one of seven kids with three of my own. I love your videos! Love your thoughts and feelings! Your insight and your silliness! Keep being you! It's the easier way for sure! That's what people love the most! 💞

[@nicolafigini784]

You've had a really rough time, and we are all rooting for you. People watching this will respect you for overtaking your fear.

[@AussieBeckyHTD4LIFE]

Thats so true well said Nicola Figini

[@xAshleighLuvx]

I had a very tough and emotional day today and seeing you posted brought some warmth. I knew I could just listen to you talk and be hopeful and excited about your journey and your struggles and your opportunities, because it is a truly beautiful thing to be able to confront and understand yourself and your ways. I think im rambling, but regardless your words are a calming reminder of life and its ups and downs.

[@katieglidden8052]

Just come back when you’re ready! I’ll still be patiently waiting. No matter the situation you make a positive atmosphere. Your videos are a great break in my day as a busy nursing student.

[@Violet_Willows]

These kind of videos are so needed! Just hearing you talk about life and your experiences is really helpful! And we all go through these fears, I also feel like im constantly holding myself back because of fear!

[@Taylornbug]

This hit me home today because this is everything I have been struggling with very intensely for the past 6 weeks. I’ve struggled with it before and was able to over come it but now it seems like any little amount of motivation I let my anxiety portion of my mind take over and shut it down. So thank you for perfectly putting into words what I’ve been feeling and telling me in person that I am not alone. ☺️

[@borboleta1015]

Go for it girl!!! 💖😘 You're amazing and you have it deep down in your soul!! We Love You...and I promise you will get more encouragement than negativity! I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!

[@claudiak2016]

Go for it Collette !! We all Love you and missed you. Much good luck going forward. Bless you and all good wishes. You are a very beautiful woman, very intelligent, very compassionate, a great mother, a wonderful wife , YOU can do anything you truly want to do. Go for it with all your heart. Love you and your family , Claudia

[@natalieb3493]

I love you Colette. Life is hard and you always cheer me up and inspire me by being the pillar of strength that you are. You make a difference. Thank you for every piece of advice you've ever given us. I know it all comes from your amazing and genuine heart and it is received by mine, it both soothes and inspires me. Thank you!.

[@CutTheFat]

Can so relate to this. Whether it's fear, laziness, depression, anxiety... I know I am the one standing in the way of achieving the things that I want. Hindering my own journey, and it is so infuriating! I have been reading "Daring Greatly" by Brene Brown. She's got a few TED talks too, and she talks about vulnerability and shame, and how connecting and being open to vulnerability can really shift things for us. Thanks for being so open and honest! Excited to see you on a more regular basis just you.

[@AshyMiss]

One of the BEST things people can do is be real and honest on social media, ESPECIALLY during hardships. Everyone’s going through something or will go through something. It is so encouraging to walk through those things with each other rather than hide away. Your courage and strength have uplifted me. Keep doing you!

[@thomascee]

Yayyyyyyy!!!!! Was hoping you'd post sometime! Loads and loads of support for you!

[@Coffee24733]

Love you Collette! I’d watch anything you put out there. Especially your music with the kids or with your sis. Love, love, love your attitude! 🌷

[@brendaanne0810]

Love you...your honesty...your transparency...all of you...I'll be here!!! Next Thursday!! Hahaha!! 😂😝💞💋

[@alysanikki]

I love you and I love seeing people admitting with transparency that they are on their life journey and they are learning and making discoveries and having epiphanies every day because that is all every single person on this earth is doing and I personally love talking about it and hearing about it and reading about it. I am loving watching your journey and I think you are blossoming and coming into this better version of Colette beautifully.

[@AllSmiles006]

Thank you for making this video. I’m working on stepping out of my comfort zone, getting over “unrealistic” fears & just be a better me.

[@allelusivepieceofmind]

I love you!! Your advice has been helping me and teaching me back when you started doing them when I was in 8th grade learning how to grow up and now as a junior in college!! It's so crazy how you always say the right thing, I'm so grateful for your Videos Colette!!

[@Oganjc]

Amen sister. I came across that epiphany somewhat recently to find who I AM. Not my husband’s wife, not my children’s mom and so forth. They are apart of who I am, but I am rediscovering my true interests and passions that put a smile on my face and make my heart warm with contentment.

[@nora.098]

You are so sweet and amazing. I completely understand that fear. I think I live with fear everyday as well...so I can relate. You are so brave and inspirational to face it! I need to work on mine too. I love and support you all the way!! looking forward to it!!

[@shanaalove]

Ive been feeling the same way lately, just putting a wall up against everything! Thank you for sharing your personal struggles, you are so inspiring! Love you Colette ! ❤️

[@shelbietodd]

You are so gracious Colette. I have the utmost respect for you. Keep being a lighthouse for yourself, because there's always boats that will see your light and it will help guide them away from the rocky shore. 💖💫

[@oliviariley1024]

Yes Colette!! You go girl!! I am so inspired by you and have been going through some of the same things lately and it feels so good not to be alone. We are strong women and we are going to rule over our fear! Keep your head up and God bless you 💗💗💗💗

[@LaurenLillianHaggerty]

You're so inspiring Collette, I'm going through an awful time and seeing your courage is helping me. We're so proud of you!

[@Lyngseee]

We love you. I have followed your family since you lived in California. I believe in you!! Love from Copenhagen, Denmark!

[@ericas.5982]

I’ve lived these last two videos. Your energy is contagious and appreciated.

[@holycrap127]

We love you no matter what you post! You’re so encouraging and for me, very relatable. I feel like you and I are in similar situations and it’s so nice to see your honesty and and transparency and to hear how you deal with things. Thanks Colette!

[@melissarenae3946]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m so excited that you’re posting again! I definitely feel like I relate to a lot of what you’re talking about in this video because I do the same thing, especially with starting my KZbin channel, which I’ve been trying to do for years now. I have so much that I want to put out there and share but there’s so many things I think I’m afraid of, or that are holding me back. The biggest thing being myself. This was a huge inspiration to me to just do what I want to do because I want to do it!

[@just-a-subscriber]

you always inspire me! ily! just watching your videos make me smile! i love your recovery from that situation and you’re just so amazing! i love how you spread love and happiness through the youtube community despite of all the clickbait and hate! keep being amazing i love you!

[@tocatchafif6993]

I’m honestly so inspired with the vulnerability and transparency the whole family has been showing. So proud and happy that you all are putting yourselves back out there.

[@yazzy1037]

you are beautiful both inside and out! - You are so raw, strong and honest. Thank you. You're my inspiration 💜

[@sydneyturner7221]

You’re such an inspiration and have influenced my life ever since I was in middle school. Freshman in college now, and you are helping me through so much. Thank you for doing this, and continue to create!

[@HouseMDaddict]

I love your "real" videos Colette! The uncut sort of vulnerable feelings and finding strength within is so empowering not only to you but it is to us as well. There are enough people out there that do pre-planned speeches and advice stuff, but the "rambling" and "you" are way more effective and enjoyable!!!! 😁

[@themisskristynicole]

Yay! I’m so excited for this journey. I know I’ve taken a lot of what I love about you and try to implement it into my life and I’ve found a lot more happiness. I’ve always looked up to you and Shay as role models. You’ve been with me through the last four more life changing years of my life and I’m forever grateful.

[@Ringden]

Overcoming fear...what a great idea for your videos. Thanks for bringing us along with you on this journey. Much love xx

[@TruthBeTold4ever-j1n]

I love you! I promise that probably 98% of society is experiencing great grief and pain alongside of you, and quite likely, the same types of grief you are currently experiencing. The world's ideologies are not achievable, for most of us, and that's where our insecurities lie. I'm behind you all the way!!!

[@joanntheman8297]

Your transparency=💖💞💟💘

[@jsan5878]

From the bottom of my heart I am extremely grateful for you Colette and all that you have accomplished. You’re becoming your real self and letting go of the old and creating the real you that always saw in yourself from the vids that I’ve watched aka 8yrs. You inspire me and I’m actually feeling in a rut Nd I just want to create videos because I’m letting myself come out of my shell Nd I love it!

[@depechecherry]

Girl look at your subscriber count! 888k people enjoy your content and will be delighted with whatever you create and put out on here! It makes me sad that you doubt yourself, we all doubt ourselves, but look how far you've come! You're such a strong person and amazing mom, I've been watching since I was 12 (I'm almost 20 now) and I always looked up to you and your amazing skills as a creator and a mother. You will be able to overcome your fears, I know it, you're a strong, lovely lady! Can't wait to see your new videos! Love you!

[@colekitten20]

Thank you!! I needed to hear this today!! There’s some crazy stuff going on in my life right now and I’m super afraid of what’s going to happen. But I’m going to focus on my courage!! I can do it!! And so can you 💕

[@emptybusseat]

BEST. NEWS. EVER! I'm so excited for Thursdays now! We love you Collette! 💖💖💖

[@kaylariggs5188]

No way Colette uploaded YESSSSSSS!!! 🤗😍😁

[@ISangaloUnofficialFR]

the shaytards are back with the vlogs

[@caelyn2873]

Love these kinds of videos, where people just talk about what is on their mind. Looking foward for Tuesday!

[@Hayley-fs3wx]

This video hit home for me! Things you said made me want to tear up because I go through this too. I'm just getting started with a channel, and even though I stay home with my daughter, I see lengths of time pass without any progress made on my videos. I am here with you because I've been trying so hard to get my true self to show through my videos, and gain the courage to show more of my raw self with others! You have been an inspiration for me for years and I'm so excited to see what you create!! ❤️ BTW I didn't know you created music! 😲

[@ebabaay]

Your giggle and smile at the end just made my day. I support you girl, don't be afraid! We love you!

[@emilyfinta]

This is exactly what I'm going through right now! I want to have my own design business and I end up doing nothing after getting home from my day job instead of creating content and doing things to bring in money. I struggle with confidence and the fear of failing and it's something I need to not let control me anymore! Thank you for making this video!

[@lisakelley2198]

You really spoke to me when you said "trying to find my strength and courage to find my strength and courage." I am crawling out of a difficult situation myself. I find you very authentic. I enjoy your strength and fun for life!

[@jesswheel92]

I loved EVERYTHING you said! It’s so true and overcoming those fears is easier said than done.

[@joannabanana9532]

Collette, I hope you know how amazing you are. You are such an inspiration to so many. Sometimes it hard to pull ourselves out of the negativity and depression. You inspire me to take care of myself and be the best me I can be. Thank you!

[@monicac7941]

I don’t comment often, but I just wanted to say something... You are one strong, courageous amazing woman!!! You open up to your fans and let us all in, something almost all of us wouldn’t dare do!!! Don’t stop being goofy, that is what makes you, you!!! I love the goofy you!!! 🤪I love 💕 the videos you make with your kids... You are an amazing mom!!! I love the singing videos you do with your girls!!! You are beautiful inside and out!!!

[@AleneRay]

So happy for you setting yourself this commitment! I can totally relate but you've inspired me to take the leap too... Good luck you beautiful soul!

[@sevenhenrys]

We all do this to some degree and that’s why its good for all of us to hear. Thanks for sharing 💛💛💛🙏🏻

[@MagiSanVlog]

Thank you for this message! It just comes at the very right moment for me, as I feel the same way about my own channel right now. I had to hear this from someone else :) And you know what, I will do the same :) Thank you!

[@gabriellechase8559]

I love it when you talk. I want you to continue to just be you!! Those are my favorite kinds of videos to watch whether it be you or not. I love raw video footage because they are just so real!! ❤️

[@shreya3199]

Love you Colette! You’re working so hard and can wait to see the future videos! You’re an amazing example of showing how to come out of something difficult, stronger👏🏻 So much respect for you and your videos❤️

[@lilacchocolate]

You can do it Colette!!! I believe in you! 💪🎥💕 Definitely something I'm having to do too in my life at the moment. Whenever I'm procrastinating too much and avoiding my creative side or other things that I find intimidating; I always tell myself to "Feel the fear and do it anyway!" - Susan Jeffers 😉

[@ktgresham]

Yes! I’m also trying to be courageous this year and do the things so truly desire. I started a 100 day project for drawing and painting and 16 days in I feel amazing. I still have a lot to learn but just proving to myself I do have time and I can do this is phenomenal.

[@prabhabowden-smith764]

Will totally join you every Thursday and am in full support. Banish that fear and you will feel amazing. Love you x

[@LLJerseyGirl]

I have so much love and respect for you! I can relate to fear and how it holds us back...I think it's hard for others to truly grasp how paralyzing and depressing it can be. That invisible wall that's so hard to push through...sometimes I'm very successful at dealing with my fears and it's empowering. No matter how many victories, fear still seems to dictate how I feel...mentally, emotionally, and physically. Wishing you all the best and keeping you in my prayers. BTW...you are looking younger than ever. 😘💗

[@elizabethrichardson5769]

The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul ~ Dieter F. Uchtdorf. Thank you so much for this video, Colette! You inspire me in my own journey to overcoming fears! Lots of love from the UK 💕

[@BMoll87]

I adore you like you are my big sister. I’m gonna be a first time mum in 2 months and the way you are with your children has taught me so much that my own mother couldn’t teach me. I’m rooting for you and love you loads! Love from Montreal ❤️

[@alexistrilla4478]

There is a whole army behind you supporting you and that loves you! Been watching your family for years and I’m excited to see you and the content you’re excited to upload to your channel! Love you Colette!!

[@extrafeather]

So excited for you & to watch what you create and share with us! This video reminded me of how much I would love a podcast of you just talking about your journey with meditation and books you've read and advice you have... I would spend hours listening!

[@MallaganVloggs]

I’ve been in a period kinda like that, when I’ve not felt like doing videos or anything creative. To me, it had been because of depression. It really sucks all my energy dry. I’m not like that anymore, though. You’re right that creating things gets you connected, and it feels really good. I’m like that too. We just need to find the strength to actually do it

[@1in1000000]

Colette, you’re the KZbinr I most like to watch simply talking on video. I think it’s because you speak from the heart, and express yourself so beautifully. I am very happy that you’re planning on posting every Thursday. What a treat! 💚

[@susansanders1987]

Katilette you are the strongest person I know!!! Really! The weakest part of you is you second guessing yourself! Pick yourself up don't shut down. Open up. Let's us have it. You make us laugh, cry, and make us feel inspired to over come our selfs. I'll be here Thursday to see what we can get into. Love ya Tons!!!😍‼️‼️🤘🏻

[@birdseyeviewfamily]

2016 was a fearful year for me. Had a bunch of things happen to me at once and it was intimidating. 2017 was all about being brave and overcoming fear. 2018 is all about new things. I've been stepping out and trying new things that I never would have considered before. It's fun, adventurous, and empowering. Kudos to you, Colette! I'm rooting for ya!! Blessings -Crystal

[@joeysturm]

Love you!! Happy to watch whatever you do!

[@DannimalCrackers]

I just adore you. Some aspects of your religion and choices are foreign to me, in ways that would usually make it challenging for me to relate to someone. But your strength and courage and talent and amazing pure heart just outshine all that. Much love Colette. I can’t watch the family videos anymore so it is so wonderful to see a video from you!

[@Hannah-xx1sw]

Yes girl💕 I know you’re doing this for yourself but you’re so inspiring & you’re going to help so many people with these videos. Love you girl ❤️

[@LifeOfLauraUK]

I can't tell you how much I relate to this. I used to push myself to vlog, until I realised that wasn't what inspired me. I wanted to make sure I was making videos for the right reasons, instead of forcing myself to do things to make a video. I wanted the video to make itself not make myself do a video. I now find though that I have all these ideas but I don't do them. Once in a while when I'm challenged by something or especially motivated, I will make a video but otherwise, I sit on all the ideas I have and I don't know why. When I create and edit, I get a feeling that I don't get from anything else. I get a sense of pride in what I do and it's truly one of the only things I do that I feel confident in doing, yet my fear and low self confidence won't allow me to go out there in the first place and actually get the camera out. I'm very proud of you for having that courage.

[@heatherhorrocks5759]

One of my favorite quotes is "fear us the opposite if faith." It has helped me through some really tough times.

[@Spartan0bc]

How do you overcome fear? "That's simple. Step. Go. Step into your fear."- Jocko Willink. Love that you're doing this! I often do things I fear simply to get over them. Welcome to Train Fearless!

[@debiharper2683]

I can't wait to hear more of your music, you have a fabulous voice x

[@CTP124]

I am excited for Thursdays! Colette you are a rock I love you and your journey is alot like many of ours, overcoming obstacles and fears and just trying to figure out yourself . Big hugs stay strong!

[@FridaAune]

Last year I made a promise to make at least one video a month - and I did! It felt so good to be create something that I was happy with! This year, I'm having so many ideas, but I'm struggling to get them done. However, I'm going to do the same as you and do what I really want to do. You go, Collette! You bring so much brightness and positivity into the world - I love you!

[@girlsoutnumbertheboys1817]

Thank you for being so honest I really respect you for talking from the heart - your doing great and you are an inspiration to so many of us. See you next Thursday!

[@Knockeye]

Hey Katilette your awesome thanks for sharing :)

[@MissCandyTard]

Love you, Colette! Thank you for being a role model and a person of inspiration when I am in need motivation. Keep up the great work!!

[@noonzie1]

Thank you for being so vulnerable! Your videos are always such a breath of fresh air. Can’t wait to see you more on KZbin :)

[@Makinafamily]

We love you! Your so inspiring, I love hearing you talk. I’d love to hear you sing more videos of them would be amazing.

[@sevey15]

Thank you so much for this video. I am so stuck right now. I do the same thing over and over again. I want to create, but fear and anxiety stop me. I am going to take that leap. Thank you so much.

[@jessicastuckenschneider7255]

I just finished watching the moms view and was hoping this was up already!! And it is🤗 you inspire me so much. We are so similar in so many ways and I’m just drawn to your videos because I get so much out of them. It’s like you’re speaking to my soul (not in a creepy way, I’m normal I promise). Fear is soooooo big in my life and has kept me from doing way too much! I’m always trying to figure out ways for it to go away but like you said it’s never going to go away. I’m going to find my courage. And I’m going to just do things I’m afraid of instead of making excuses. Little by little I can do this! I’m so excited for Thursday’s ❤️

[@PaigeRoelse]

I freaking love you Colette! You’re the real and raw big sister I want! Much love from Michigan 😘

[@kels387]

Oh I LOVE YOU❤️ and I related to this so much, it made me teary eyed too because fear runs my life! So thank you for this Colette, see you Thursdays! ☺️☺️❤️

[@clarec3]

I love your courage. And your are one talented, capable woman! Thank you for sharing and inspiring, Colette :D

[@Sara5865_]

you're speaking to my lifeeee! I needed to hear this. I am going through the exact same thing. we can get through our fears. I love you!

[@megan8832]

This is so helpful! I love how raw the video is ❤️❤️

[@sabinamurman8968]

[@juliannballey5424]

I have always looked up to you! I'm so excited for Thursdays!

[@jenniferglover9905]

That's exactly how i feel. Social anxiety, money, space, people etc. But really it's just me stopping myself. Its frustrating. Thanks for this ❤❤

[@pollyswagga]

Thank you for being an example of strength to overcome vulnerable. It helps me feel not alone

[@thenextsuperstar09]

I was literally struggling with this today, I really needed to hear this. Thank you! Love you! ❤️

[@Blackcatlibrary]

I didn’t realize that you could get more beautiful, but you are. You’re so beautiful, inside and out. Everyone in your life is so lucky to have such an amazing soul.

[@Theprincesssbear]

I’m so proud of you for making that commitment. You inspire me so much.

[@MackenzieMae]

I love you so much. You’re so strong and funny and just lovely, not to mention gorgeous. I hope you find everything you’re looking for especially your strength! Thank you for inspiring me!!

[@StorytimeMegan]

I’ve been doing the exact same thing! It’s good to take time for yourself and make videos for yourself to grow and become healthier ❤️