Colton Confronts Cassie Over Her True Intentions | The Bachelor US

[@mocita_]

It’s funny to me how defensive Cassie got and how much she denied everything, when she literally wasn’t ready in the slightest

[@Anne-nf1ze]

The girls: cassie isn't ready Cassie: idk why would someone lie like this Also cassie (after colton chooses her): I am not ready to commit for a relationship

[@kendramalotka9850]

anne Cassie thought she was ready until her dad talked to her

[@kendramalotka9850]

However, at least they're still together

[@DSlav2488]

She may not have been ready for marriage at that exact time in her life but that doesn't mean that she can't love colton and date him after the show. That's a terrible take. And if I remember correctly the girls told colton that cassie "wasn't there for the right reasons: which is different than not being ready to get married

[@SweetAsCandy456042]

Cassie also expressed this didnt feel like ENOUGH time!!!!!! And the uncertaintity isn't fair.

[@alli2448]

Kendra Malotka not anymore

[@TheShuaness]

Tayshia was right - not surprised - she reads people so accurately

[@zaidarodriguez30]

What did she predict???

[@bluntsmoke9913]

^?

[@lanalove353]

Cassie's response about being ready did not age well...

[@chelseygarrett4221]

Maybe she just felt a little off you know because Colton was already putting the tracking device on a vehicle at this point in the show.

[@kwalt6396]

PLOT TWIST

[@lanalove353]

@@kwalt6396 GIRLL BAHAHA

[@asakhatuta8264]

She never loved Colton but he didn't listen. He wasted his time in Cassie and I feel he could have found something better.

[@Joy-iw4mp]

He wanted her cuz she paid him no mind, Cassie did her own thing,men love that 💚

[@samsonred1005]

Joy *** Uh no no they don’t if I was in Colton’s position I’d send Cassie home!

[@Joy-iw4mp]

@Mercurial Empire 😅

[@Joy-iw4mp]

@@samsonred1005 he's still with her 😅

[@samsonred1005]

Joy *** Yeah because of other reasons I’m assuming surely not for that!

[@Joy-iw4mp]

@@samsonred1005 I got 27 likes, guess other people think so too 😅

[@diversejoe617]

Bachelor nation:Cassie reveals her true intentions Cassie:The other girls are manipulative

[@jessicachess9828]

And the funny part is that she left him and he's still chasing her

[@diversejoe617]

@@jessicachess9828 Exactly😂💀

[@francesstradowski7041]

Jessica

[@madinatuleshova6292]

Considering the restraining order against him, it seems pretty clear why she was so hesitant to enter serious relationship with Colton

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

No, she just truly wasn't there for ``the right reasons''.

[@mambamentality6005]

@@exnihilonihilfit6316 No he wasn't there for the "right reasons", he was probably more into her dad

[@Ilikeklee]

“I’m so shocked” girl.. no

[@kendramalotka9850]

I truly believe Cassie was ready until she let her dad get into her head... and for those who say "If she was truly ready, she wouldn't have let what her dad said to her get to her... UM yeah, I've seen people "re-play and hash things out and change their mind regardless... Also so what?? She wasn't ready... He knew she wasn't ready... He know Tayshia and Hannah were. However COLTON chose to let them BOTH go for a JUST A SHOT with Cassie because that's who he WANTED and HE KNEW IT...& look they're doing just fine!

[@janeryan2709]

LOL this didn't age well...

[@1313sp]

It's about who he felt that ultimate connection with. The girls who are acting like they are trying to save him are disempowering him and looking desperate. Like that's going to make him want to pick one of them when he feels stronger for someone else.

[@sdl444]

She was lying the whoooooole time and we all knew it deep down

[@jenniferhansen3622]

Colton was lying to himself. He wasn't accepting himself for his true self. He is now married to a man.

[@shaynaglick9325]

Ugh I really can't stand Kirpa's self-righteous attitude. She doesn't know the truth because she wasn't there, yet she acts like she was. Also, she brought it up to Colton, he did NOT ask her.

[@grammarlover292]

Whaat?? Kirpa was 100% right. Cassie wasn’t ready to be engaged and just broke up with Colton. He had to shut down the show To chase after. Not saying Cassie is a bad person but the other girls were right.

[@LoganL1014]

Grammar Lover yeah but even tho she was right, it still doesn’t give her the right to stick her nose in other peoples business and be gossiping about them. Just say what you gotta say and leave it alone. If you want him to love you then be that person for him and if he wants a girl who’s not ready for a relationship then he’s big dumb.

[@sakura360ify]

Grammar Lover that all doesn’t matter now because they don’t really know her feelings and her & colton are still dating.

[@pessim1st681]

Shayna Glick yeah but she was right Cassie wasn’t there for the right readon

[@chetanmoghe5011]

i just watched the video back. he asked her first, kirpa was right. cassie waa wrong.

[@abigailmintah5148]

She really wasn't ready

[@soniaprince3666]

Wasn't is not the word, Isn't is the word.

[@DSlav2488]

That's not entirely true. After the show was over she acknowledged that she kept a journal during the show where she wrote down her feelings and she felt really bad that during the show she didn't fully Express how she felt towards him. Like have you guys not been following the show? They're still together. Are they married yet? No. But they are together and they do seem like they're in love. She's also young, 25 I think. Give it time folks. Sometimes the best things in life take time

[@tamifoster5371]

Kirpa is just manipulative, she is using what she hears as ammo to confuse him. Deep down she knows that Cassie is who he wanted. Men don’t go for second best, they will chase what they want until it’s gone and then start over if they have to. You really just friend zone yourself when you gossip about the other woman a man is interested in. Dumb move on her part, she should have focused on her own relationship with him and left the other women out of it.

[@Jewelv10]

The girls to one extent or another were all doing that gossiping and bitching, some worse than others. There was a good deal if manipulation going on a difficult and extremely wearing issue to deal with. It's no wonder that Cassie was confused it was tanking a toll on her, the same with Colton, although he tried to keep out of the drama he was getting sucked in. The thing I admired most about Cassie was apart from her serenity was her integrity she didn't gossip and manipulate. She played a clean "game" and I believe Colton saw that about her and that's why he fell in love with her so easily. Her values and the way she conducted herself was beyond reproach . As a Christian she shines. Most people wouldn't get that . She acted appropriately when Colton chose her, instead of jumping into an engagement after spending very little time with getting to know him, was exactly right, she does love him but she just being cautious and thinking through her feelings in what became a fiasco and was in a totally unreal and contrived situation. She was wise in doing what she did and taking her dad s advice. Step back and evaluate. Make a decision away from the cazyiness. Colton understood that, he totally got her that's why he was able to say with certainty that he knew she loved him. They both fell fast for each other and needed time just to be and work things out. I never saw anything but respect and love from both, two kindred spirits.

[@Jewelv10]

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[@NightRises234]

I agree Kirpa was trying to sabotage Cassie so she could maybe climb up in his rankings. She was threatened because a lot of the girls saw how much Colton was into Cassie and tried to fill his head with doubt about her. Thankfully it backfired on all of them and Cassie won!

[@Julietavolcano]

It’s so funny how Kirpa kept her cool, she was mature in her responses and she told her truth! And Cassie called her an idiot (to the cameras, not her). Idk I think if one is more manipulative it’s Cassie lol

[@justteething8428]

She is so acting and so not good at it , Colton is so naive

[@arigaines1789]

Cassie never did and still doesn’t really want to be with Colton for the long haul. All of the girls on his season will be married with kids before the two of them even think of saying I do. He is just a glamorous bf to her

[@CeeeN16]

NightRises234 LOL how the tables have turned

[@arigaines1789]

@@NightRises234 People come on the show to get married. My how smart you are.

[@johngarcia7631]

damn! the girl was right all along; Cassie was there just for the exposure!!

[@scarletll]

Cassie realized she would not be the bachelorette and took the one bit of opportunity to fame she had left and is now in a relationship she never wanted

[@sakura360ify]

Scarlet Larios if she didn’t want to be in a relationship, she wouldn’t be in one a whole year after the fact. she didn’t have her dad’s approval and wasn’t ready to be engaged.. and that’s fine. her and colton are very much in love and together. don’t be bitter

[@scarletll]

Muniira Yassin I very much respect your opinion

[@DreamCloud124]

This girl was the real villain all along. Lol such a bad liar.

[@soniaprince3666]

When will she be ready? It's like being on the show, traveling, having fun it's still taking a lot of convincing! He may have to jump another fence and she Still won't know.

[@elm457]

This is CRINGE TO WATCH. Feels like she’s lying.

[@shelbycovington4831]

You can never tell Cassie she not ready

[@rivanazhera8414]

He didn’t learn from Sean Lowe “don’t end up with someone that anyone doesn’t like”

[@acutiepieb2011]

You mean everyone? Not anyone?

[@mistralcaydamli5268]

People who have avoidant attachment styles are extremely terrified of intimacy/commitment. They are scared of getting hurt and are experts at repressing/ignoring their emotions as a defence mechanism. They worry they will lose their freedom if they are in a relationship and that they will lose their control if they are in love. For people that come from dysfunctional families, ignoring one's painful emotions and being in strict control of people and situations are survival mechanisms that are unfortunately carried into adulthood. Hence, Cassie may have run away from Colton not because she didn't have feelings but precisely because she did - because of the reasons I have explained. I know it doesn't make sense to most people who have healty or even anxious attachment styles and that this sounds like a bs excuse, but trust me. These symptoms are very real and painful for the person experiencing them. They want closeness, but don't know how to be close because as soon as they develop feelings their alarm clock goes off in the form of emotional and physical distress and tells them to just run or else. It my sound silly, but these people desperately want but are painfully scared of love. And I don't know if that is the case with Cassie, but I am proud of any person trying to break through the instinct to run and stay to work on love. Because it is tough as hell.

[@vs939]

I've studied this in school before and I know this is real. I actually have an avoidant attachment and I went through this very thing when I first met my husband. It was one of the most difficult decisions I've ever made in my life. I felt so confused because I loved him so much and felt he was the person for me but I was also consumed with so much fear of how many things can go wrong. I decided work on this and we ended up getting married. I still struggle with this insecurity but he is the only man that I've ever felt has understood me + the only man I've ever had the connection that I have with him. It's the weirdest experience I've ever had.

[@MarielleMurphy]

Mistral Caydamli I think that Cassie is just not that into Colton. She has given him a chance. My feeling is she does not have a fear of attachment issue. Cassie is not with the right guy. This show forces the girls to date one guy, while being away from their friends, their family, their cellphones. It is not a normal situation.

[@zazlar4228]

I don’t understand why people were so hard on Colton for handling the rejection from this girl in the end when he straight up asked her what her intentions were here so he didn’t get blindsided, because that’s exactly what she ended up doing. He was prepared to let her go and she completely wasted his time for him to end up heartbroken almost 3 years later . Colton did the same to tia on paradise, so what goes around really does come back around. Be careful how you treat others in life and don’t toy with peoples hearts for your own satisfaction and ego.

[@TheShuaness]

And the Oscar...or Raspberry...goes to Cassie :P

[@torimac67]

Kirpa tried to warn him. Cassie and Colton are no longer together because Cassie wasn’t ready and wasn’t into him

[@jenniferhansen3622]

He wasn't into her. At the time he thought he could force himself to be straight. He is now married to a man.

[@stel1236]

How can she tell Colton if another girl is ready or not and call it “facts”🧐 it’s actually your opinion🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lubangasarah4331]

In the end, she was not ready.....

[@jillcollinsbrown7857]

I mean Cassie and Colton are still together. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@carolinexin5299]

not anymore now

[@karlesiataylor9604]

Jill Collins Brown not now

[@yw3276]

It’s over

[@hello8987]

She has a restraining order

[@gr8deziner4u]

He should have listened.

[@nubiabermudez7149]

It’s kind of true:( at the end they didn’t even get engaged and they also had a pretty bad breakup💔🥺

[@scarletll]

Colton is just soo needy

[@christiner8616]

He is very very needy

[@carolinpuschel6467]

"Like - I'm so shocked." ... :D

[@moonstars315]

The question is not,"What do I do to protect myself?" Colton, it's what do THEY do to protect themselves...... for REAL, dude.

[@pancakesandtea]

The whiney girls harping on about some else being potentially ready or not...they need to get lost. Who cares if she isn't ready it's ok not to be ready and have doubts , they are making it out as if it's the most evil thing. Let's put this in context it's ridiculous to be ready to get married within two months if anything Cassie is sane for thinking that

[@soniaprince3666]

Well! I would say Kirpas was right! Didn't he have to jump a fence for her, didn't it took a whole lot of convincing for her to date him because she kept saying I don't know, I don't know! Seems to me like she still doesn't know!🤔

[@krystalpark8269]

Honestly though, it makes sense. Seeing other girls with the guy you think you like.

[@elloguvna6820]

Who’s here after he came out as gay! ✋

[@fatimajackson854]

Where r they here

[@leaedenk5975]

I really feel that kirpa is false..she has passive agressive behaviour with cassie. If I were cassie I would be so disapointed and angry against her. Even if she said something..kirpa shouldn't talk about it for hours, maybe it"s just jealousy ?

[@dt9538]

kirpa was right and that’s on that

[@hearts16]

If someone made up lies about me, I’d be pissed. Getting pissed and reacting isn’t necessarily a red flag.

[@brendadesmond6573]

As it turned out, there was truth to it, but Colton ended up not being ready also because he was lying to himself.

[@Mang33444]

Idk I think the girls insecurities are showing. You wouldn't talk about someone else unless you had your own insecurities. Deal with that first before hopping into a committed relationship

[@yw3276]

This didn’t age well. Cassie just trying to time the breakup for next bachelorette

[@dianasohn2515]

Nope they were right

[@katewinslet8758]

HAHAHAHAHA You're all calling The Female Movie Star a Your Screen. I don't have One Oscar I have more than one.

[@haunted330]

I am with Cassie. Kirpa really does not need to be butting into other people's business like that.

[@dianasohn2515]

She was right about Cassie tho everyone see now

[@kwalt6396]

PLOT TWIST 😬

[@lindokuhlefurunek3868]

😂adcassie is not ready

[@averydavidson6888]

Personally I am on Cassie’s side in this situation. Never thought I’d say that

[@roseofsharon3240]

Colton should have taken the advice of the girls about Cassie WOW.

[@200991602]

They are no longer together. Colton has COVID19. :( Get well soon.

[@lacha608]

Omg. Too much irony.

[@200991602]

They're back together .

[@jackward313]

He had to let her go. He hid his homosexuality for a long time.

[@krystalpark8269]

LOL its not dumb if its not a dumb situation

[@thepamela050]

Cassie wants fame and would rather be with a rock star or celebrity..

[@chrisnoziere2893]

Kirpa is kind of childish

[@dianasohn2515]

She was right tho

[@kylerutz2660]

Taysha is just jealous because of colton and cassie relationship also caellyn. They were the front runner's and taysha just wanted to sabotage

[@katewinslet8758]

Tatnall School doesn't know who The Classmate is they mock. All Republicans are gonna laugh. HAHAHA HAGS

[@jinified1062]

Damn Kripa desperate....

[@RoyalPlay3r]

If I was in his shoes I would’ve just send her home in episode 4 I know this season is old but I liked it 😂

[@jenniferhansen3622]

I go back and look at the videos and watch old seasons too. 😅