Coming Out For Love - Season 1, Episode 2 - “The N Word” (Exclusive)

Please enjoy the most talked about episode - “The N Word” from Nicole Conn’s “Coming Out For Love” - The first ever LGBTQIA+ dating competition show, featuring Michelle Lundy, Amber Whittington and Supremely Saucy Host Jessica Clark.
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[@moniqueuu8777]

34:27 She didn't want to apologize because she doesn't feel she did anything wrong. The tears were from frustration, not being sorry. She felt worse for crying on camera than saying, insulting others. "You guy's community".........

[@k.compton_9978]

Exactly, she wasn’t engaged cause just crying cause she was embarrassed && ppl were going to be able to see who she really was. She wasn’t engaged cause disengaged from jump cause she don’t like 🥷s. Call a spade a spade. She wasn’t sorry 😂

[@Keepanopenmind814]

Her saying “ I didn’t say that in a derogatory way” is all you need to known smh glad amber said something

[@TchudakPOV]

Please can you explain I'm not an english native speaker

[@lgstar3363]

Well some of us Mexican Americans call each other the “N “ word among a whole lot of other derogatory insulting words or names. I guess it’s just how one is raised or what one is used to. One thing for sure is one shouldn’t use these “insulting words” around strangers and people you just met. One doesn’t know those people and they might take it as very offensive and even personal.

[@stephtaylor6292]

Well I was not expecting this! But WOW am i so glad this was aired. I feel so privileged and blessed to be able to witness the kind of open dialogue in a safe space of women. Thankyou Amber and all the women who participated for being so open and educating and holding accountability. This felt really powerful and empowering to witness. God I love women!

[@JennSarracenia]

🩷🏳️‍🌈

[@ztube2011]

The ultimate gaslighter apology lol

[@tj064u2]

All she had to say was she felt bad for doing it and didn realize at the time, the impact it had. And she's learned from it. Instead of saying, o it was over a year ago

[@luvpurple95]

sunni dread came in with the spoken word woooo the ancestors was speaking through her. Shout out to her

[@JennSarracenia]

Never have watched Amber’s content but now I’ll have to! Good job being kind while digging into the tough subject, fearlessly. You’re cool as hell.

[@itzz_papi8110]

Lundy literally could’ve just said she’s sorry! How is that so hard? No amount of privilege will allow you to use the N word in ANY circumstance. Ever.

[@Victori.A1]

But when a black person says a homophobic slur, no one bats an eye

[@VeganMindset]

You can’t force anyone to apologise!!

[@noregrets7469]

I don’t believe anyone should use the “N” word at anytime to anyone. My people of Spanish descent were called “Spics” we shut that down nor did we use it at each other. It was and still is a degrading term not a badge of honor, respect is what’s need from others as well as from our own.

[@k.compton_9978]

She wasn’t sorry, that’s why.

[@kawaii.cactus1641]

Hmm idk how i feel about Lundy.... love how mature Amber is about conversations and bringing things up

[@sommeraldridge356]

Amber, I commend you on how you addressed and handled the situation, like a True Queen! Thank you Amber! You are truly Amazing! And I appreciate you.

[@tamarabertani]

Love is a mighty feeling. That can cure deseases. Romance are the drive to be happy each other.

[@shawnafish4274]

I really don't understand how anyone in this day and age doesn't know that that is a derogatory and offensive word. Her apology felt disingenuine.

[@66callisto]

I am so here for this...

[@17Indianrose]

Not sure Lundy was ready to be there for love, but glad she did for the converse with Amber. Gosh how grownup and fierce is Amber for respectfully yet strictly addressing this.

[@taylortimeless]

Lundy didn’t seem at all interested in her. It’s good they had the talk and learned and experienced growth but…just send her home dude. That isn’t a match.

[@danihusom8668]

Such an amazing episode!!

[@marinalouise26]

Yeaaaah Lundy hasn’t changed or reflected one bit 😭 wish I could say I was surprised, came here literally just to watch that part.

[@Bluebeauty2]

okay so i knew lundy from the fact that she was cancelled for that incident but i think it's apparent that she's very hurt because the internet is brutal especially for racial things that happen and i get it i do, but I also know how deep it must have hurt for someone who just really didn't understand like think for a second there are so many things that people don't learn because of circumstances in their life as they are growing up. so point blank i am proud of her for pushing through i know it's hard and not easy and be honest she reacted in a normal way everyone tries to push away hard things no one WANTS to go through them.

[@kelsb_o]

I’m confused why Lundy couldn’t answer what love meant to her? Did she genuinely not have an answer or was it too emotional to talk about? Not being able to communicate whatever she was thinking definitely surprised me.

[@N3VLYNNN]

Peer pressuring someone into making a public apology isn't the best example for how to genuinely heal racism. A dating show is not a safe space. She clearly was just giving them what they wanted to hear, and she was manipulated into it. What if she wasn't sorry?! Allow her to be in that unapologetic space and let that speak for itself. Let her learn from where she truly is. She's been harmed too, from the way people responded so she said what she needed to say, to prevent bad things from happening again. As a black woman I don't agree with her using the N word, but at least let people be honest.

[@sciwiz55]

Where are the rest of the episodes?

[@kaylagrace692]

What was the clothing line called again ? I don’t want to have to go rewind to that part lol

[@Dede.__]

Stuzo clothing

[@rihannalover2461]

Yt women tears are everything

[@NubianNarrator]

good talk

[@billionblinx]

Well that took a whole turn at the end

[@divasamai2251]

This show is cute. I read on the screen of the first episode that LatinX masculine presenting queer women are using the term “stud” nowadays. Why can’t black queer masculine presenting women have their own space?

[@lindseyatmore6941]

Need that eat me out shirt that is 🔥

[@ttr8141]

Not a fan of how the Amber and the group called out Lundi. Should have been a one on one conversation off camera

[@VeganMindset]

The entomology for “n” word means Queens!! Royals!! and don’t get attached to words periods!! there is no need to apologise or convince anybody!! Everyones perception will always be different!! Even tho you have a pain body/trauma!!

[@VeganMindset]

Etymology!! Sorry typo!!

[@noregrets7469]

Hahaha

[@SJcookiemonster]

So the whole show is about the ladies trying to impress Amber? Cringe not sure I can watch it, really not my type...

[@GravityDefierforLife]

So don't watch it

[@averyintelligence]

@@GravityDefierforLifenah I’m gonna watch it for the cringe factor

[@marinalouise26]

Anyone feeling bad for Lundy clearly doesn’t know anything about her 🥴

[@ttr8141]

Yeah, Lundhi messed up in the past, and she clearly learned her lesson. But I hate how amber decided to reignite the past and call out Lundhi like this, and how the fellow lesbians pushed her into talking about the word. Amber was clearly upset not just about the word usage, but also her DMs being unanswered. Lundhi likely had a ton of good/hate DMs, it’s hard to notice one particular person, even someone as famous as Amber. This whole thing should have been a one-on-one convo off camera. Honestly, I wish Lundhi had said nothing when confronted by the group, because internet reality show is not a safe space, and even the best apologies can be taken out of context by people on social media that never take the time to view the whole conversation.

[@slayer19978]

To think i used to go to the same high school as lundy

[@freyni100]

The clicking fingers is newish to me. I imagine it is sincere but it doesn't feel like that.

[@ud3mare]

It's like clapping but quite, so people can still hear each other when they talk

[@dianerourke4609]

It came from the60s and 70s

[@arianalewis3042]

It feels like they brought her on just to set her up for this scene on the episode??

[@Лера-щ8у]

Это шоу (почти все по сценарию)

[@tonydaytona]

God the N word thing is awkward. I'm black and lucky that I know there are lots of humanoid races here on Earth and in the Multiverse. So over the n word and human racism. 👽👽👽

[@billionblinx]

Amber looks so out of place

[@SJcookiemonster]

why is the show about them all trying to impress Amber? lol she's not my type at all I don't get it.

[@flyingcat3170]

is this show about racism or lesbian love? Not a good episode at all.

[@66callisto]

They really were kinda digging into lundi and i felt bad cause she obviously felt like crap for what she did. I'm happy she apologized but jeeze...

[@Keepanopenmind814]

Don’t feel bad that’s consequences of actions she’ll be alright

[@SJcookiemonster]

Cringe... I'm falling asleep I'm so bored

[@GravityDefierforLife]

So go to bed. Aren't you already sleeping?? 💤😊😅

[@averyintelligence]

Why is this yt woman apologising for something that didn’t even happen on this show that amber knew about before 😂 They clearly set her up

[@averyintelligence]

This is so long winded. Coulda edited most this video to be shorter

[@FlowArtFreedom]

No offense to Amber, but this was a super yt show. It was giving boring British tv vibes. The people who were non yt were the lightest of their race. This is token diversity which is fake. That’s why Stud tv is growing faster. Ppl are tired of being forced to watch the same ppl and same ppl ideas on screen. Diversity is new stories new ideas new faces. You guys lacked real diversity because this most likely was directed, produced, etc by predominantly yt group or all yt group. If you want better be better. This episode was cringey cuz it gave blue bracelet(2024 election ww) vibes

[@VeganMindset]

Plus y’all need to heal from your ancestral trauma!! When you are healed? You will not be triggered by mere words!! Others will always say things unconsciously!!