COMING OUT STORY | BEING OUTED

A couple years ago, I found comfort in watching other's coming out stories. I began to gain confidence through these videos which eventually lead to me coming out of the closet. Never in a million years would I have ever imagined that I would be out of the closet, let alone posting a video like this for others to watch. Hopefully, like similar videos did for me, it can help others gain their confidence.
Feel free to shoot me a message on Instagram with any questions if you're going through a similar situation!
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[@davidquickel3941]

Jacob, thank you for your story. I came out as bi to my parents when I was 31 years old. What I remember is dead silence. Several months later I wanted to talk to my Mother about it and she said that she doesn't want to talk. My close friends are not bothered about my orientation. Most of my colleagues at work knew. Several years later all of them have moved on to other jobs so my present colleagues don't know except for my supervisors. I came out to one of my current colleagues a few weeks ago and to her it was blip on the screen. No big deal. High school was not fun for me. Nobody knew my orientation. I suspect some of my classmates knew. I did not anticipate that my comment would be so lengthy. Thank you Jacob.

[@danielueblacker9118]

You are loved.

[@alisarsour8552]

I confided in my mother about my sexuality. By the morning she outed me to everyone after she said I could trust her. Now she has rewritten history and made herself the victim. Plus after my mom outed me they took me to the cemetery to purchase a gravesite because I was going to die. Then the family called me some homophobic words. To this day she at times says some really hateful things. That's is why I dont associate with my family and moved far away. She does call time to time she wants me to take care of her because she has a illness. Hell no I won't help her out. I've given my family a second chance amd they destroyed that to. She has money and is giving it all to my sister and wrote me out of the will. So let my sister take care of her. I feel nothing for my family. Ive made my own money and I am independent .

[@danielsc3761]

That's one of the potential reasons I haven't told my family

[@bob-re6eq]

Daniel Cruz you should probably wait till you can move out and not depend on your family and just live your life how you want it’s sad but I guess it’s something to look forward too

[@mohammedmir9912]

Why should you tell others about your sexuality? Have you ever seen a straight guy coming out !!?

[@CT-vm4gf]

A true lover There could be many reasons I guess. Maybe your mom keeps talking about a wife and kids, so you have to let her know you’re gay. Maybe all your friends keep asking why you don’t have a girlfriend, it’s about being honest instead of lying to loved ones.

[@mohammedmir9912]

chris toey it’s super easy, just tell them that you are a red piller and you hate females cause they love conditionally and see us as an ATM machine

[@chriscoleman8459]

I am gay and proud my family already knew that I was gay. When I told my sister I cried she says that I love you I don't care what you are. I hope that you have a good life you are so sweet to tell everyone about you story ❤️

[@ransom182]

Today I've learned that being unpopular in high school has its advantages! No one gives a shit about my sexuality 🤣

[@CARLOSVAZQUEZ-pn3vn]

And you won't have those disgusting friends from high-school who would try to keep up with you forever.

[@ConnorMalbeuf]

From one Western grad to another, thank you for sharing this. It is a tough realization, no matter what. All the best. x

[@tbirdparis]

I must be at least 15-20 years older than you, and the thing that struck me the most about your story is how it was almost precisely the same for me back in my university days. Some details were different of course, but I remember every single feeling you described like it was yesterday. On the one hand, it's always great to hear someone making this important journey. But on the other hand, it makes me a little sad to think things still haven't changed in all this time. I would've hoped by now people didn't have to go through the same crushing self doubt and fear of losing friends and family just because of who they are. Glad it's worked out well for you, you should be proud of yourself! :)

[@walterbutt9220]

It’s gonna be fine buddy. You’ll be fine. God bless.

[@michaelc7876]

It doesn't get more real and honest than this guy! I hope the happiest life for you!

[@SOFYSTHETIC]

Hlo can I have ur insta handle

[@dennisalvarez2603]

It's never easy to express for who you really are in this world because people will judge you, but at the end of the day it's you who know who you are. As long as you won't hurt anybody then feel free to be true to yourself and most important thing is ACCEPTANCE. So proud of you Jacob. Raise our flag 🌈 ☺️

[@d.e.t4147]

My mother found out before I was ready to tell her and when she confronted me with it I remember feeling terrified. Things got really ugly between us for a while but in hind sight it was the best thing to happen to me because I no longer had to carry the weight of my secret and I felt free. Even though she was angry. Even though she kicked me out of the house. Even though our relationship was strained, I felt so free and happy that none of that mattered. So happy you’re in a healthy place in life. Thanks for sharing your story. :)

[@leedaniels7196]

Hope things get better and better with you.Sorry that you weren’t accepted by your mom.Some parents don’t realize how fortunate they are to be blessed with kids.What really counts is that you are free and happy and not hiding who you are.Maybe she will realize what she did was wrong and if she doesn’t it’s her loss,not yours.Been in your shoes before so I know what it’s like being rejected by someone who’s supposed to love you unconditionally.

[@garybregel4259]

You have to remember that you are not going to give your parents grandchildren Say goodbye to the family legacy and the family name. So for some people that's very important. Grandchildren for a lot of people is the icing on the cake. I never got married because I never found the right woman. But I saw the expression on my parent's faces when my brother would stop by with his kids. They would lite up with joy when the grandchildren showed up. So I can understand when parents are not happy with their gay children.

[@schnoman740]

Jacob you are truly a terrific guy and someone your parents should be very proud of.

[@Uyhn26]

I love that the first time ever you came out, it was because you thought it wasn’t fair to your mom.❤ I respect people who love their own family. 😊 Wish I’d find someone like that one day.

[@kenking7320]

Good for you, Jacob! I hope you have a long, happy, and PROUD life! Congratulations!

[@sarahsimone640]

I'm a straight female but I'm watching coming out videos lol instead of studying. Good for you for coming out and being your true self. Hi from Ontario and damn, your Alberta accent is strong.

[@garygreely7782]

I am happy for you. It is never easy to come out since we have to first come to terms with it ourselves. Keep being you and loving yourself.

[@NoctisAquila]

Be happy that your first experience was a real, true, deep infatuation (“crush”) and that you felt heartbreak- I remember being exhilirated- it felt so exciting and so oh sooo right! - also clearly somebody did something right in raising you so that you could feel that in the first place with someone else- and you will be much less likely to fall into unhealthy relationships throughout your life. So It’s been like 4 years since you posted this, and I clicked and now am commenting- so I hope you are doing amazingly well especially since you seem so down to earth and also because you are canadian (not gonna lie, my bias is real 😂)- and you’re totally someone I’d be attracted to- you fit my type - so there’s that

[@patrickturner136]

So glad to hear you mentioning the emotional aspect to this. It's not just who you want to sleep with. I was super shy in high school so I'd just go out with any girl who expressed interest (only a few did, lol) and I figured "okay, this seems to work so... I guess I'm Bi?" Then in college I met a guy I clicked with and we started dating and it was like WHAM! - THIS is what it feels like to be in love. THIS is what I've been looking for. It wasn't until then that I really knew I was gay. :)

[@emilyi7284]

So many parts of your story resonated with me. I too had a hard time accepting myself at first and tried to bury and tried to go as bi, but after a while, I couldn't ignore the fact that I'm a lesbian. I have been coming out to friends for almost 2 years now, but I didn't want to tell my family. But, like your mom, my mom knew and told my dad to get ready for it. She confronted me, and while the situation has been rocky for a while, they are finally starting to be more accepting. You are so brave for sharing your story online, thank you! ❤️

[@jaya2244]

Amazing story. So proud of your courage and vulnerability. You’re a smart mature young man. I was exactly like you but ended up getting married and had kids and came out at 40. I don’t have any regrets because of my three amazing kids but no debate. Being out and authentic is the only Way to go. Congrats!

[@safat_rahman]

I’m so proud of you! I’m incredibly sorry your were outed, but I’m happy to see you living your life as your authentic self ♥️

[@dang3810]

The hardest time we have in our life can become our biggest strength

[@Jason-sm5pk]

Its crazy how different things have become, idk if its just that im in an accepting part of the world (California) or if its just different times but its way different in my highschool, like usually all the “gay” people are the most popular in my whole district and usually they are the ones winning prom king and homecoming king and stuff like that. And its kinda been like that for my whole school experience, like every since 1st grade, and its crazy to me hearing how different things were or are in the world.

[@emreksakol5512]

I can't even imagine how overwhelming that could be you really are strong

[@EqlOpper2Nity]

I heard him say out and house, and I instantly knew he’s from Canada. I guess I wasn’t paying attention to the background with the Canadian clock on the wall.

[@hori166]

What about the poster in French? I had to check where London was in Canada. Obviously he wasn't referring to the U.K. His "uit" and "huis," known as Canadian raising, sound different than in other parts of Canada.

[@danielnogueira4585]

And the massive Alberta flag in the background lol

[@brodiea8958]

@@hori166 You do realize that Canada's second official language is French. There are many French Canadians :)

[@andrewmackaybryan]

yes and his tee shirt - plus the provincial flag and the reference to London and Western (UWO) on the posters. But more importantly - he is working through one of the most important milestones for gay people: being out. Looks like there is a lot of love and support for him which is wonderful.

[@YYC403NOYP]

@@danielnogueira4585 Now I wonder where he is in Alberta. 😙

[@robertpaulrpj]

Jacob your story is so inspiring for so many guys including me, I wish I had someone like you when I was questioning my curiosity. You are a handsome dude with a strong personality I am sure you will succeed in anything you put your mind to it since you have passed this biggest hurdle. be happy and have great career dude much ❤️

[@kevint2878]

Awesome; I've never heard a story so similar to mine, but with a 40 year difference.

[@stalbirdjessiah6457]

Jacob everything in your life only get better after you accept yourself. I'm 70 years old and I came out to my Parents when I was 17 years old. My Parents were very accepting in a day and age when it wasn't Socially Acceptable. I was a Jock of the 1st Order and no one ever even though that I was Gay. My Partner and I were together for over 40 year until his Death 7 years ago. He was my History Prof in College, I was 22 and he was 32. Life is Good and I wish you the best in the Years to come. Peace & Love Always. Jessiah

[@laurentco]

Why is it still so hard? One would think things would be getting easier, what with society's growing awareness and acceptance of the gay lifestyle. Clearly, we still have a very long way to go. I “came out” to myself in 1980. And by that, I mean I had a fling with an openly gay man, so there was no more denying it to myself or anyone else. I see that telling people is still as hard as ever. It’s really too bad, but I'm glad you’re happy with your decision. And BTW, coming out was probably the single best thing I ever did. I met so many great people who encouraged me to do things with my life that I might never have done otherwise.

[@Trent69Miller]

Coming Out is never easy, so many Gay Men have lived your story, Thanks for sharing :-)

[@wtfstudioinc.1827]

Trent Miller I’m 37 years old I am still in the closet. It is so hard to come out because my mom has heart problems and I don’t want to lose her. I really want to have relationship with man but I hope whoever he is, he would understand my situation.

[@Trent69Miller]

WTF STUDIO INC. That is unfortunate, as your Mom is living her authentic life in her beliefs, you should be living your authentic self as an individual, nobody nobody should stop you from being you 😞

[@wtfstudioinc.1827]

Trent Miller I agree. I hope one day everything will be ok. I wanna have a true and lasting relationship with a man.

[@michaelgaynor6866]

@@Trent69Miller ,BRAVO! I hope he takes your advice!

[@wtfstudioinc.1827]

John Kimber thanks babe ❤️ I’ll take note of that ❤️☺️

[@jeffmcmu]

Jacob, Thanks for sharing your story of coming out. I am so glad for you to have come so far and especially to share with others. Very well said. Thanks again and best wishes going forward.

[@johnrichardpagan8898]

Jacob, I hope that you continued to have this bravery and comfort these past three years. Your attitude is/was contagious. Keep being positive and trusting of what you feel and know from within. Best wishes.

[@robertsega3454]

Good for you Jacob, divorces are nasty thing. Was married for 22 yrs

[@betelgezaa]

Two important points: 1. In case of a stressful occurrence people - normal - may star to behave distinctively different usually they just back away from their usual behaviour and get less active and more distant. If anyone would ever observe such a change by a close person don’t become offended or resentful but be aware that something important has taken place and try to assist the person and give the person time to come out with that. 2. He said - as long as he had been closeted his self esteem has been limited and he has judged himself only by what other people have been thinking about him. After coming out he regained respect for himself and his self esteem has returned to its due place. It is true. If whoever judges himself by what other people say - be sure that that person wastes his life and means nothing. Is almost nothing. Never do it. Only temporarily if we need get back on track. Overall - he is quite normal, not a haughty boy, quite sensitive and handsome. And full of energy. He is young still and he makes most of it now. Great. I would like to listen to his further stories !

[@JJ15108]

I am gay and didn't come out until I was 29 years old and AFTER being married to a woman for 7 years. I have been with my husband for 31 years now and wish you all the happiness that I have found in my life. God bless you my friend !

[@gordd4396]

Ĵacob, congratulations on coming out, albeit not on your own terms. I'm retired and was married to a female. Similar background -- small town, ironically then went to university Queen's and then Western. Really had no understanding or knowledge of being gay and it truly wasn't accepted years ago. Later in life, felt like I was totally pulled towards coming out, had some months of mental torture and concerns, and then finally did come out, divorced, and later met Mr. Right. Best decision of my life. I hope everything works out for you. Remember being gay is just part of the whole complex individual that is you. Enjoy the feelings, emotions and exploring !!

[@chasebennett9904]

Jacob, you are a stud from the word go. Glad you're out.

[@kaitatarelis232]

Jacob, live your life and don't follow others! You are good just the way you are! Because it doesn't matter what sexuality a person has! No one should care what others are doing in their bed! It's just a private thing! But it's good when you don't have to hide anymore! Stay as you are! You're a great man!

[@HiImSpencerTate]

found this on my recommended feed, and instantly clicked because of the large Alberta flag on the wall. From one albertan to another, proud of you for coming out!

[@huxin100]

Jacob, thanks for your story. It is true, if we can't live as we are, or tell the people who love us who we are, it can easily cause pressure and disappointed that would eventually eat us away. I can feel that, sometimes I become very easily to get angry and really unhappy.

[@jar022653]

Tough way to come out by being outed, but you handled it so well, CONGRATULATIONS !

[@daveh4328]

I remember agonizing for 3 years living with my bf. I finally went home & asked her to sit down and I finally sed that I was gay. Without skipping a beat she just sed let's go out for breakfast. Felt like Mt Everest was lifted off my shoulders! I love you Mom! Rest in peace ❤

[@johnanderson3700]

Thanks for telling your story; and also for developing an early understanding of it’s not just about sex; claiming your authenticity is not an easy journey; take your own pace. Glad you’re finding being out positive. Hope you have a wonderful life.

[@rodellacquio636]

Proud of you, man. In my case, I dont know yet if I can say any words to my parents. Im a prisoner of my on self.

[@heretic9999]

M LIKING THE MOM "I'm out for a drive" TOO CUTE!!! LOL Its all self preservation and intention..........................

[@kcmaldonado3948]

I remember coming out to my parents. Their reaction" "It's about time!"

[@jethrojackson6023]

You lucky fish!

[@newbernpuppets929]

So happy for you. From my own experience, no gay guy regrets coming out of the closet.It's great to be free to be yourself.

[@Oli92Technik]

Respect Dude! I am Gay as well and i work on the Construction Site and it was really hard to be outed! Hope you are well! Greeting from Austria!

[@warrenpaine]

Good that you're not wasting years trying to change something you didn't choose and that doesn't go away. The rational choice is to accept yourself as you are and live your life to the fullest. I hope you find someone to love and who will love you back in this life. You deserve it.

[@stevvfallyear9627]

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈You are amazing , and so strong , so proud of you , LOVE IS LOVE .... #LGBTQ ❤️❤️❤️

[@10GOLDENWOOD20]

Now all that energy can go into life! You're gorgeous!

[@kadashevens9907]

Good on you my dear” living your true authentic self which is who you really are! Is the best feeling in the world” it will set you free! All the best n trust your self and your feelings! Love and light 😊🌸🌺👍👏

[@kenirvine9546]

Wow so proud of you man! Loved ❤️❤️👏👏your coming out story I came out right on fb crying saying that I was gay and all I ever want is to be accepted. And said I am who I have always been just coming out that I like guys. Everyone said they accepted me and we’re saying so glad you can now be yourself . Thing is a made a lot of gay friends. straight friends seemed to fade into the background their lose . My true friends still treat me like me. They are certainly the keepers that I will never forget. ❤️❤️You will alway know your true friends.

[@Iamblack34]

Hi fromToronto. Got outed when i was 15, denied it my mom was a pastor and she believed me and now I'm in Toronto from Jamaica.

[@liftedlorenzo]

I was the same way man, great story. It really hit home. 👌🏼

[@davidfryer9359]

Your beautiful person through and through,regardless of whom you love...i am proud that you found yourself and happiness. I was sixteen and a lifetime athlete when I told my parents. That was in 1982. Nobody ever made me feel bad about me because I would not allow others to bully or marginalize me...Of you are truly happy, you can never be the victim. Like the old adage says "kill'em with kindness." Dont be affected by others' venom...its poison only if you allow it to be...You are young , smart, and truly beautiful in every way imaginable...I wish you lived next door. You seem so likeable. David

[@stevestinson2432]

I'm happy for you. I've known most of my life that I had an attraction to men, but I didn't do anything about it. I came out 3 weeks ago to my dad. He was/is very supportive. I'm 57 years old. I've had a good life. But what I would tell anyone is live for you and your happiness. Don't worry about other people's thoughts or opinions. You're responsible for your happiness. Embrace your truth, and you will be happier. I feel the same way you do. I'm happier than I've ever been. Someday I'll find my special someone.

[@ricka684]

Very engaging story, well related - thanks for posting. I found tears in my eyes at one point!

[@billetj]

❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Congratulaion Jacob. I came out last year at 40yo and I think you video will inspire me for doing also my story in video. What help me the most to come out was the fact to know that I was not alone in that situation (married wth a kid) and that truth with yourself and happiness is possible.

[@BLonTheMoon]

Dude, you are freakin' gorgeous!

[@jimmyhudzgarage]

I am 50 years old and I have never been able to live my life. My Father passed away not knowing me. My Mother is in denial but my sister knows. My life has been very sad. Be open and be free. Don't lose even an moment brother.

[@kycowboys]

Damn, Jimmy! I hate reading your life has been very sad and I hate that you've not been able to live your own life. It's not too late. I'm going through a divorce right now. My husband and I were together for over 30 years and fought the world most of those years just to be able to live in peace. We finally blew the relationship up ourselves. But, as painful as it's been and even though I'm 57 years old, I'm optimistic I'll find love again. In the meantime I'm working on me and living the best life I can live. I've got a little farm that I love and want to share it and all it has to offer with that right guy. He's out there. I know he is. I've just got to find him.

[@stevefreedman470]

Sweetheart....that was a beautiful coming out story and I am so proud of you! It takes alot of courage and strength to do what you did but now the rest of your life will be so wonderful! Live your BEST life happy, joyous and free....NEVER let being gay define who you are because you are so much more than that. I have been out for years and knew what it took for me to come out even though my family figured it out and knew before I actually came out. The easiest person I came out to was mom and she's knew before I told her. So I was lucky that my coming out went very well....I started coming out at 27 in the late 80s and had my first relationship early 90s. Be well, be safe and hold your head up with Pride!😊❤👌"Mama" Steve😊

[@wwspCEP]

Thank you for sharing your story. The world opens up when you are true to who you are.

[@ronaldwatford5953]

you seem so sweet and nice. you will be a great boyfriend for that special one.

[@PnwChillin]

I confided in my Mom and within two days she had outed me to every family member and friend of hers. Luckily, everyone was very accepting and it was almost a relief that I didn’t have to tell everyone. Still, it was a crappy thing to do, and we rarely talk now.

[@donaldstorm4959]

I love a lot of these coming out stories it sounds like you kind of outed yourself and somebody overheard and you live in a town called queen of gossip holy cow I was laughing so hard one person told one person and 10 people told 20 people oh my God I'm sorry that it had to happen that way it's just mind-boggling how everybody's private business becomes theirs they have to spread it around the world like they have nothing else better than life to do oh my gosh great story I was trying to check you out on Instagram I think you're brilliant and whoever you settle down with is going to be one very lucky man! You seem like such a beautiful person so much to offer this world! I for one am glad for watching your story it was almost funny the way it spread around wishing you nothing but the best of luck have a fun love life have a great life I'm glad you're not depressed anymore either I'm just so happy that you're happy I think you're amazingly handsome! Anyway take care it's nice meeting you. Bob STORM!!! Merry Christmas and have a great New Year 20/20 I hope the virus hasn't gotten you! Stay safe my friend.

[@KeianLocke]

This is a super cool video! Gotta say being outed sucks especially when you had no intention of telling other people or when they just assume you are and spread it like wildfire. However i'm glad that despite being outed you found happiness. This was super enjoyable to listen too!

[@kaigeddes]

I came out when I was 18, I don't think anyone cares anymore now that it is 2020 when you posted this.

[@nickjsanderson]

A very touching video. I came out eventually at the age of 44. I'm now 51. I wish I could have my time back and do it differently. You're a handsome young man, any guy would be very lucky to have you . Stay safe

[@TheMikester307]

I didn't come out (as Bi) until about eleven years ago! I was fifty and the guy I was in love with was moving in with me! We've been married for five years and my folks are very happy with it! And we're happy too! All the best to you, Jacob!

[@derekgussin1768]

No judgement here, now enjoy your life🌈

[@arnoldquinzon61]

dearest jacob , hugs , and yes i agree with you , thats probably the best thing in life you did , your coming out , to make you validated , authentic and be the best version of your self , and know what ? you are most beautiful person and coming out , the world have the chance to see you , a beautiful person and yes gay , thank you for coming out ....

[@djsmith1964]

I am honored you shared your coming out story. I never came out i just moved away and lived as a gay man. Mentally you have benefitted and as you sleep physically you will benefit. Hope you have a good life

[@zach4832]

Hi. I feel the need to tell my friends and family I’m gay as my mental health is eating away at me too. Problem is I have this girlfriend of 2yrs who is so kind. I just can’t continue being dishonest, I just know when I tell her she’ll tell everyone, which is understandable. I hate this hole I’ve dug but have slowly come to realize I’ll be better for it, and so will she :) sorry english isn’t my first language only in my junior yr of upper school so learning to improve better.

[@martinbeckmann9376]

I love what you said . You’re lucky to be out at this young age. I’m gay, my whole life , but closeted. Trust me , it’s not ideal. Now in coming out age 62 as homosexual , here in Alberta , Edmonton was quite homophobic back in the eighties.

[@dango9970]

Thank you for putting your beauty out there. The more we share the more we grow. Thank you

[@jasonwhite3678]

What a beautiful human being inside and out.

[@tommaple]

I love the story. It's awesome that you published it on KZbin. I already had my coming out a few years ago, but it's so helpful for guys who didn't!

[@curtislyon9405]

thanks for taking the time, good on you. this will help people still unsure or even terrified to be out.....

[@PaulSmith-xc7vt]

I know you probably won't respond but I'm proud of how you handled everything. Happiness is what is important. Why we are here. Enjoy life while you have it. Take care Jacob.

[@briandelamater8887]

The process you shared rings really familiar in some ways. You sound like a fantastic guy; do **not** settle for anyone who doesn't value you. e-Hugs about your experience! Being outed by others is **never** cool. Sometimes it really does get overwhelming and even mean. Bravo that you're proud of yourself. More e-hugs. I am glad to hear that you came through stronger and happier living your life for you. I am also glad to hear that your did not have friends (or family?) turn on you. The fear of that and sometimes reality of it happening does enormous amounts of damage to your mental health.

[@adipande]

Proud of you man! 👌🏻

[@stevenscholze8196]

It's horrible to 'out' anyone or being outed, but I love your story. Great message. 'You do you'.

[@MarioMartinez_]

I still don't understand why coming out is BIG NEWS and a gossip for some people. It is nobody's business. I'm happy for you. Coming out is not easy

[@rogerb707]

what advice would you give a 50 year old man who has been lonely for so long and never had a relationship with any one ive struggled for all of my life

[@paulmason6474]

Join various groups get involved with volunteering. See if there are LGBTQ’s places . It will take courage to make the first move but you never know who you might meet. Cultivate friends they are reliable. Good luck

[@mikewalmsley6411]

Brave young man.. ALWAYS walk with your chin held high!

[@paulmurdock3813]

you accent is the best thing, at certain times you sound like your from Northern Ireland. (where im from)

[@dominictsang]

I agree

[@Cpd0127]

wow Jacob. Incredible story. so happy for you. Your story will be an inspiration to a lot of guys who are struggling with their sexuality. Thanks so much for being so honest.

[@jeremyedombingo]

A combination I would never expect in my KZbin recommended: a coming out story and a berta flag

[@danialdevostmusic]

lol featuring a guy who lives in Ontario

[@timduggan1461]

I want to thank you for this video. I am a "bit" older than you, laugh...but I came out several decades ago. I hope YOUR story will help others like you. Cheers!

[@petermeng6875]

Watching this made me tear up , am 27 and am still dl because am scared of loosing my family 😭

[@graemeloyer]

You are so beautiful. Wish I'd met you when I was 18 or 19. I've never found any guy in my life no matter how hard I tried and now it's too late. Woe is me. That was my lot in life.

[@rayhunsakerwouldacouldasho510]

Blessings to YOU

[@jurassicsmackdown6359]

My coming out was really weird. I just spoke about my bisexuality like how people would talk about being straight, and noone really questioned it.. well, except my dad.. he's grown better though. He still thinks sin exists for some reason... But yeah every time i ask myself if Im straight, the thought of me being so is insulting to myself "Am I so out of touch with myself that I think Im bi? ..." *imagines me as a hetero* "... *shudders* no, Im very in touch."

[@jimmyhudzgarage]

More power to you buddy. God bless you my friend.

[@DerekWilliamsMusic]

Good for you! I wish you every happiness.

[@nothingelsetolose7661]

I hope you find your soul mate and make plans to stay with that one person for the rest of your life and that you build your life together and share your wonderful experiences with each other and hopefully you can grow together growing in a different professions and Expounding and expanding in all different directions but still have each other to hold onto I've known a few gay couples that were extremely monogamous and they did have a wonderful life

[@dakaraireed1206]

That’s small town livin for ya sorry that happened to you bro but happy for you now!

[@Tunneldreamer]

Be happy. Have a wonderful life!

[@tevman09]

I didn't officially come out to that many people in the beginning but as time moved on I started to get somewhat more comfortable with the fact that I had some people around me that were in the same boat as I was in my late teens. I had my first official boyfriend at 19 who I was together with for a number of months until he broke up with me. It wasn't until I stayed in a capital city for a brief period that I became a little more myself as country towns made me feel like I had to hide who I truly was. Then when I moved states to the gay capital of Sydney (for reference I live in Australia) that I really came out of my shell and kinda left my past behind in Western Australia. About a year or so after I moved here to Sydney I sent my mum a text basically telling her that it looks as though my brother will be the only one to bless her with grandchildren. In the week that followed my phone completely died and I had to wait until I could afford a new one at the time. When I did I was able to contact her again with a response telling me that she had been so worried when I never replied back or never answered any calls. So naturally I came out to her. Both parents are fine with it ... the next thing that was holding me back was my brother. For years he and I never saw eye to eye until one day he just came out and asked me straight up which confused the heck out of me. Apparently, a cousin of ours who is the same age as him had already mentioned it to him years ago. So my immediate family are all cool with it, I have a lot of friends in many parts of the country some who know and others that don't. The ones who know have never had a problem with my sexuality and the choices I make in life. Just not too sure whether certain friends are ready to know as they all live so far away. So you see we all have those issues, even for someone in their mid-40's like me.

[@brandonwebber34]

I definitely understand, saw a flyer last week about lgbtq research. The entire survey I poured my heart out. And then the 3rd question, what does healing mean to you? The ability to tell others my experience.

[@jonwarddotcom]

Love your story. Next year I'll be 50, our story is very close except I had no iPhone and do everything took a little longer. Looking back I think people were cool too even if I didn't think they would be at the time. Again it took a while longer for people to adjust. Me too. Seriously great to hear your honesty. One or two homophobes I knew when I was 13 are now my best friends. Best of everything to you Jacob. Also, I've lived in London UK for two decades. The world is small. Travel.