Coming out to my mother | This is how my mother reacted【Japanese Gay Boy】

[@shakke565]

"Now just be sure you study hard" LMAO a real asian mother

[@anggisuryani8151]

Just like my mom everyday tell me this thing lol

[@tempest206]

Anggi Suryani my mom said it's ok to be gay but if you get with a thotty boy i swear then she said focus on shcool

[@shakke565]

@@corntv278 stfu Queer culture IS part of Asian culture, just go and educate yourself. Speaking of Babaylans etc.

[@37.5-i9c]

study hard or not thats not a point here men. it just a way to show supporting implicitly form mom. She could say "take care your life" or something else whatever thats same meaning to show her love

[@tammyyyx1159]

Schlackie 😂😂yh

[@TarynBell]

I can’t imagine how scared he must of been to tell her that

[@sivabalankaniapan8786]

I think if ths world accept ths liberally thn there shouldnt been any problem...its just in contrary with 'laymens term' which relationship of human being lies in between 2 different sexes....but love is love...

[@28Justchecking]

Haha I was in this situation at 18. That's wasn't fun but after the stress I ended up calling the rest of my family who were in the living room and had a meeting in the kitchen with 8 persons and announced it hahaha but it took like 30min of trying to tell them 😂😂

[@SairaAkhtar78]

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[@anthonybalista7421]

Ya I’m pretty sure he didn’t rip his mothers heart apart. What a vapid comment to make.

[@malaguenasalerosa4705]

Mothers don't have the right to be againts male homosexuality. It makes no sense. All son to mom coming outs should be like this: - Son: "mom, I like men" - Mom: "cool, me too!"

[@setjet6544]

よく頑張ったね。 この母にしてこの子ありだわ。 素敵なお母様。 あなた今一番素敵よ。

[@MoaandMore]

本当に両親は偉大やなって、この時改めて感じました。 素敵なコメントありがとうございます。

[@アーリィ-y4j]

お母さんが全肯定するでもなく、「なんで子供が欲しいのに女の人(のパートナー)はあかんの？」と言う様子がリアルでした。でも、決して否定はせず、何より、あなたの幸せを一番に願っている姿に胸を打たれました。 正直寂しい気持ちもあるよね。リアルを伝えてくださってありがとうございます。優しい素敵なおかあさん。

[@jbram9778]

When she told him, "Don't worry about this, it's your life." "Id that's what makes you happy it's fine." I was teary eyed. You're lucky having her as your mom.

[@jay-rr8xz]

I agree my mom would most likely disown me if I told her that I'm trans and bi

[@ambrose153]

Right, I was genuinely in tears because I can only wish and dream that my parents were like her

[@jay-rr8xz]

@@ambrose153 yeah

[@M.x8u]

What is bi? Sorry I just dk -,-

[@jay-rr8xz]

@@M.x8u bi is when I like guys and girls

[@JJ-fx3sc]

2017: nothing 2018: nothing 2019 - 2020 : recommends me to watch this at 3am

[@shreyap3982]

Haha😂for me its currently 00.26 and it was in my recommendations😂😂😂late nights...duhhh

[@kuriharayuki7128]

Right 😮 It came for me too 😅 I wonder why...? 🤔

[@r.3710]

Same 😂

[@rainbowang3305]

Jennifer Jui same here LOLLL

[@earth-to-zola3725]

omg sameee ahaha! (Btw Im your 100 like lol

[@vicksteria2216]

"I'll be waiting for my grandkids." What an accepting and loving mother. All the best of wishes to your family and yourself. Truly inspiring.

[@nemui_minkani]

「お母さんが女の人を恋愛対象に見れんのと一緒やん。それが逆なだけ」っていう言葉がなんかすごいしっくりきた、、、世界中のみんな幸せになってほしい

[@lilshaunin6637]

Tell me why the gay men are always more attractive. This isn't fair.

[@mariekegrandia]

TRUE AF

[@francaismp1812]

Bissexual

[@maddy-fj2mh]

Lol

[@hn6498]

Because they actually take the time to look good and groom, unlike most straight guys

[@hn6498]

@Manuel VAQUERO most of the coming out videos have gays (males) in them and their comments are filled with girls saying "why are gay guys so hot" with like 10k likes each comment. What ive noticed is that their hair are well made and their faces look neat and eyebrows done? Ill side with gay guys take care of their appearance rather than gay guys are hot or hot guys are gay.

[@sincerely_6362]

"If it makes you happy, it's okay." Gosh i need to hear that so bad.

[@katielololol]

Well since you need to hear it, if it makes you happy then it’s okay, lol I hope u really know that’s true no matter what anyone says❤️

[@rierina6108]

"if it makes you happy, it's okay". And that's so right. U should do what makes you feel happy bc this is all that matters in life. ❤️ Just be yourself

[@Alyssa-bt9vp]

If it makes you happy, it’s okay. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise you are you and that’s amazing in itself you shouldn’t let things get to you just know you are loved by many, many people and we will all be here if you need us just remember you have a community that can back you up we love you 💗

[@KCMM.5747]

That's exactly what my mom said to my older brother🙂 "If it makes you happy then it's okay. And whatever you want to be, just be a good one."

[@marwalalalala]

Same :(

[@MinYoongi-cc7xt]

THIS WAS 3 YEARS AGO AND HE STILL HEARTS COMMENTS EJEKSKSIDUSS

[@babylovesxobabylovesxo6578]

OOMGGGG YFTUFF LOVE HIM

[@ascellmc9337]

yeahh

[@bernardovalle6414]

brasileiro rindo

[@taenten]

Yoongi what are you doing here skksksks

[@T-Hilke]

@@taenten 😂💜

[@hanamurahukuoka]

「そっかー、そうじゃないかと思ってたわ。それで？あなたはどうやって生きたいの？」 これ以上嬉しい言葉無いよね 私のカミングアウトの時と似てる、良かった良かった

[@moomoo7025]

どうやって生きたいの？ってすごい質問。普通に生きてたら親にこんな質問されないよね、すごくグッとくる。この質問ひとつで自分の人選について本気で考えることができそう。質問に見えて、すごい助言だと思う。

[@afrodita6335]

People really need to understand how hard is the culture in Japan and how they have been raised, most of the parents would punch him and stop talking to him forever, but if you know a little bit about japanese culture you would understand how much his mom love him, please respect her, and I wish you the best with your dad, follow your dreams no matter what I know your parents always are going to love you.

[@karinadavodova29]

With russian Parents is also very stressful and hard to say that because there very homophobic and strict, in Russia is this very hard to understand and many people there bully LGBTQ people for being gay or a lesbian or something else. For example I'm a bisexual and I'm scared to say that to my parents because we're a Russian family and my mum hate LGBTQ so much and yeah.....sad :-(

[@jeonjungshook4356]

Karina Davydova omg you’re right I lived there for six years and I really saw parents who were so racist and homophobic ofc not all of them but most of them. And all Asian parents are soooo strict and it makes me stressful but when they say that study you have to cuz sometime you’ll regret not studying 💖✨

[@oneekochan1386]

@@karinadavodova29 I define myself as a bi too. I live in Italy and, luckily, I am not scared to tell my parents about what I like, I'm only not 100% sure about me being bi and not just asexual. I know it sounds strange but the fact is that for now I still don't know because I need to experience, but the only thing I know is that there is something, different from the other girls, in me... I need to wait, but I think they already understood that I'm not 100% straight.

[@invinciblecucumber]

@@karinadavodova29 All Slavic nations are extremely homophobic...

[@NeverMind-tp3vz]

@@karinadavodova29 the same in Ukraine and, I think, in the rest of post-Soviet countries

[@ふぉんふぉん-d7p]

うちの母親は気持ち悪いとかすぐ言うからその度に反論してるんだけど、本当に気分が悪くなるんだよ。素敵なお母さんですね。受け止めようとしてくれてるところが

[@脳筋-04]

その母親をどう思うかは勝手だけど否定はしちゃダメだな。お互い

[@user-dk6ur9if2y]

気持ち悪いね人間の失敗作 男が男好きになるとかキモ！！

[@しか-b7p]

野獣後輩 お前が言うな んでネタでも言うな

[@虫虫-d4i]

野獣後輩 人の気持ち考えた方がいいぞ。大人になってから苦労するよ。

[@godjapan3928]

野獣後輩 野獣だからってなんでもいいと思うなよ？

[@1857kyle]

僕はバイですが、親にバレてしまい、家から出てけと言われて日本に来ました 僕の場合は認めてくれなくていいから、ほっといて欲しかったです この方のお母さんも複雑だと思うし直ぐには受け入れられないだろうけど、息子さんの話に一生懸命耳を傾けている姿に感動しました そしてお友達も素敵な方ですね 日本語下手ですみません

[@そうだ-n4b]

日本語上手くて草

[@1857kyle]

ひまんちゅ暇人 あひゃ！ありがとう！

[@しい-k5u]

お母さんに話す前に感極まって泣いてしまうところ。色々な思いがあるんだろうね。 お母さんが理解しようとしてくれて良かった。お父さんにはお母さんから言っといてよぉ。素敵なお母さん。素敵な息子さん。

[@片なぎさ]

いやいや、本人から言ったほうがいいでしょ、

[@he8241]

あんたの人生や、とか、あんたがええんやったら…って、息子に言っているというより自分に言い聞かせて理解しようと努力しているお母さんが素敵。

[@jendolls4053]

The fact that he still likes the comment shows what this means to him.

[@heathermurgatroyd9164]

I just wanted to give him a hug, poor guy was obviously terrified

[@lovelemonster]

Bruh, zero comments

[@user-ck8bx6ch3o]

ほんとにカミングアウトするだけで、泣くような社会ではいけないと思います。日本がもっと変わるべき、人は進化してるんだから、国も進化するべき。日本でも早くLGBTQの方がもっと生きやすい社会になるのを私は本当に心から願っています。

[@moomoo7025]

別に進化してLGBTになったわけではないと思うからこの言い方には違和感あるなぁ。人は最初から千差万別ある。

[@user-ck8bx6ch3o]

@@moomoo7025 そんな言い方をしたわけではないですが、そう聞こえてしまったならすいません。人間はカミングアウトして、偽りの自分ではなく、自分の生き方を貫いて歩んでいる。一生懸命、人は進んでいるのに、という意味で言いました。

[@riohayashi6457]

@@moomoo7025 個人の意識や考え方は進化しているのだから、国家の制度なども同様に進化すべきって意味ではないでしょうか？ある種の暗喩で、進歩や革新などを進化と形容してるんだと思います

[@zenmetsuzogo4005]

Mom was disappointed but you can see on her face that she slowly realized that her love of you trumps her disappointment. Just live being who you are. Don’t ever sacrifice your own happiness for other people’s approval.

[@samanthavillanuevavazquez2201]

So true, own happiness is what matters ~

[@Rosak]

I think it's more worry rather than disappointment; Japan isn't exactly the easiest society to be gay when it comes to a lot of things. It seems to me she's been hoping for kids and what not and suddenly realised there that it's not going to happen, until he explained it a bit. The later one with his dad is a bit better as he seems to be more able to explain how he feels and all that.

[@marian6641]

Giving grandchildren to your parents is not your obligation

[@eltan8410]

Me:Mom Im a gay Mom:What is gay? . Wtf

[@sandhiyaselvaraj5335]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 America:- Me:- mom I'm a gay Mom:- don't worry you go enjoy your life. China:- Me:- mom I'm a gay Mom:- hmm. I will support you India:- Me:- mom I'm a gay Mom:- what??? I will slap you first go inside your room😠😠😠 Me:- !!!!!

[@Chaseyourgoal]

Damn if that's you in the dp . You're so cute

[@xyuwijaya6115]

@@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 Arab or Indonesia Hold my !

[@kokichioma7110]

@@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 it’s the same with Arabic’s I know bc I’m in one my mom is mad that there are people who are different she hates gays, tomboys, and other things

[@erdoganlaputinishiplemeyen1281]

Jsnxksbd çok iyi

[@Kali_1666]

My mother said she’d kick me out of the house if I were a lesbian...

[@user-du8zy6rm5k]

Lady, you seems like an adult person. She can't really do anything about your thoughs after this.

[@Kali_1666]

@@user-du8zy6rm5k Thanks for the compliment (calling me grown up)... But i'm 18 years old :)

[@komdt6613]

@@Kali_1666 girl, if ur mom don't change her mind, don't told her that, when u have ur own work and u can live alone, maybe it will be the right moment. U need to be happy without toxic persons. Sorry for my bad english, good luck! ♡

[@angelablasilopez6718]

Well you just said you're 18. Let me tell you something. When I was 16 I fell in love with my actual boyfriend, he was 32 back then. And at the beginning my parents wouldn't accept it. But I fought and fought for what I really wanted and loved, and they finally understood that there was nothing they could do about it. So when I finished school at 17, I went to his apartment and we're living together since then, and I'm 19 now. You must do what your heart tells you to do, cause you are the one and only one who can decide what to do on life. Do what makes you happy and don't care about others👍🏻💖

[@xenirzh]

Ля, мне мать то же самое сказала, лол

[@shiromaru369]

お母さんなりに理解しようとしているのと、彼の涙に胸うたれました。ゲイだからって泣かなくてもいい世の中になって欲しい。親不孝なんかじゃないから。いい息子さんです。いいお母さんです。

[@くちばし鴨]

人をあやめた訳でもなく、人の物をとった訳でもなく、人が人をただ純粋に好きになっただけ。なにも悪いことしてない。どんな形であれ、愛すること、好きになることは美しいと思う。

[@zoeysnow5122]

3 years ago and he’s still liking comments to this day.💔

[@kellenross1694]

Lol true 😂

[@ascellmc9337]

agree

[@istan9682]

He just liked yours

[@gachaqueen6372]

"now study hard!" yup a true Asian mother-

[@AnkitMaurya-zj6wb]

Yup😃😄🤗❤️

[@gachaqueen6372]

@あいでんあいでん hm did i do something wrong or offensive?

[@mrtomkool93]

So emotional the entire video but this detail made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gachaqueen6372]

@あいでんあいでん o its all good

[@putrizahra9439]

That's my mom bruhh🤣❤

[@わさび猫106]

「お母さんが女性を恋愛対象として見れんのと一緒や」 そう!そうなんだよね

[@bjorkursula7452]

Parents that can’t accept their children for who they are,shouldn’t be parents. And your mom definitely deserves to be your mom but she has questions and that’s okay💕

[@1Chase0]

honestly, to say that those parents shouldnt be parents is kind of a NAH. just because they didnt accept them for one fact dosent make them bad , they still parents and look for your own good!

[@randomhuman805]

Yes! I came out to my mom as bi- she accepted me

[@GreenGiant96]

@@1Chase0 No, parents need to accept their kids on this issue. If they can't do that, then they shouldn't be a parent because otherwise they'd be asking their kid to change or abandoning their kid.

[@GhostWalking512]

@@GreenGiant96 what the fuck. Who says that parents should accept all theire kids bullshit first of all?

[@GhostWalking512]

Imagine being that ignorant thinking that your person and emotions should be on top off everyones and everybody should accept your shit "bEcAuSe ThEy'Re yOuR pArEnTs, oThErWiSe ThEy DoNt DeSerVe tO bE pARenTs". Sweetie you're no the center of the universe. Everyone can choose what to accept or not. Stop being toxic lmao.

[@Hd-ge1vz]

She’s hurt but she wants what makes her child happy 😔❤️❤️

[@mildredsoleana5785]

She knew it , all ready , She 's his Mam

[@marijanasiljanoska107]

I think so😢

[@elektra6473]

She is hurting but I admire that she spoke with him calmly and not negative. ❤️💋🙏🏻

[@ascellmc9337]

💜🌼🌼🌸

[@mckavitt13]

Hurt by what? Sexuality isn't a matter of choice.

[@Nicki17321]

The strength of a woman is on display here. That lady was seriously heartbroken and didn't want to breakdown in front of her son because of her love for him. She definately cried to herself multiple times.

[@None104Nxs]

i can see :(

[@あぽぽ-z6j]

こうやって自分の事をきちんと話してくれることが、親としては嬉しいと思う。 申し訳ないなんて思う必要ないし、幸せに生きてくれたらそれだけで親は幸せです。 私も息子がいるけど、そう思います。

[@touyatodoroki3797]

It’s nice to see 3 years late he’s happy with his boyfriend

[@imaghost1577]

Yeah lucky..

[@izuku9052]

Hey big bro, didn't expect to see you here

[@imaghost1577]

@@izuku9052 it's really ur big bro? --v--

[@izuku9052]

@@imaghost1577 nah, i was roleplaying lol

[@imaghost1577]

@@izuku9052oooooooh '_'

[@sawa9302]

お母さんの素直に残念そうな気持ちが伝わってくるのが、辛い。 そんな中でも、すぐに受け入れてくれる優しさ。 自分は親には言えなさそう。 あたたかい家族で素敵です。

[@victoriavarela1574]

habla español ndea

[@タイマルs]

カミングアウトしたあと 「(やっぱりな、)んで？」って続きを促してくれて、話聞こうとしてくれる時点でなけた。

[@MoaandMore]

コメントありがとうございます。 これからも、LGBTのことについて配信をしていきますね!!!

[@MEMENTOMORI-iq9iu]

子どもが親を、想う気持ち。子どもが親を、想う気持ち。好きになるひとが、性別が同じ。命が繋がる事を諦めないで欲しい。そして日本でもっともっとこのようなケースが当たり前のようになって欲しいと思う。

[@hira_0401]

ふふららわやまつ

[@Glass_Pig]

子供が親を想う気持ち。 親が子供を想う気持ち。

[@あにお-z7y]

言えて良かったよね。友達には言えたけど、親には言えなかったんだね。

[@user-pj5nm5gq1r]

「お母さんが女の人を恋愛対象に見れないのと一緒やん」って言葉すごくいいな。その通りだもんな、何もおかしいことじゃない

[@kollykolly1607]

やっぱりなぁー せやと思ったわ 多分お母さんは息子より先に 覚悟があったんでしょうね。

[@megumisofficial]

kolly kolly やっぱり母親はなんでも分かるんだよね。

[@よろしく-u5l]

In Japan a guy married a Miku Hatsune hologram but gays can’t get married lmfaooo

[@itzm3dora]

Lol

[@minyoongi9258]

🤣🤣🤣

[@trashtrashmoretrash8559]

😂😂😂😂😂 omg!!

[@RaRa.C]

😂

[@_lk_3111]

In Germany you can 🙈😂

[@ciee-hf4zh]

この4年後になっても同性婚が認められていないっていうのがすごく悔しい。

[@fazsaid]

They do say the hottest men are either gay or taken -

[@dilipsaha4732]

Yeah 🥺🥺

[@holger_p]

This expresses, you cannot be gay and taken at the same time, cause gays are always up for something ;-)

[@starrynight440]

Not true for me tbh... I've seen many straight men/guys who looked very attractive, and I've seen many gay or taken guys that weren't really that good looking 😅.... I guess beauty indeed is very subjective 😅😂

[@iteeparx]

Dude,,, your username 🥺😔

[@라희라구]

She is sooooo sweet! She did her best to be understanding and as kind towards the situation. How lovely..

[@rokitdemo136]

Ikr

[@lawenabdulla9100]

“I’ll be waiting for my grandkids” SHE IS SO CUTE

[@mycmeranyswai7957]

but she's in pain over I know that as a mummy

[@ゆかりん-z9g]

もうダメだ。涙が出て止まらない。 ご家族と友達も最高に良い方達ばかりでこちらとしても凄く嬉しくなりました。 応援してます。 この先もっともっと幸せになってほしいです。

[@はちみつ-z6p]

son: **sobbing** mom: "hold it together"

[@drewstae6536]

no one: me (straight asf): watching gay people telling their parents they're gay

[@drewstae6536]

@10k subscribers with no videos project lmfaooo I wish that was me in the pp...the guy is Kim taehyung...idk is he gay or not

[@francineblackman5963]

@@drewstae6536 in the world.. Lol nope

[@drewstae6536]

@@francineblackman5963 2017.....Google it bby

[@chrisskalls702]

Meeee

[@canangul7917]

Same bro😂

[@me-tp3vy]

同性愛と言うだけで涙を流しながらカミングアウトしなくてはいけないなんて辛かったですね。陰ながら応援してます！

[@mmm-bc4pb]

私もトランスジェンダー(FTM)の彼を初めて紹介した時、父には｢女性同士で気持ち悪い｣と言われました。 しかし母には｢一緒に居たい人と居ればいいやん｣と言われ、父も母の言葉にそんなもんか～みたいな。 めちゃくちゃ勇気いりましたよね。 大丈夫です。本人たちが幸せなら伝わります。 今では父も息子のように夫を可愛がっています(笑)

[@user-eo8wp8mo4n]

何で好きな人ができただけなのにこんな泣かなきゃならないの。なんで受け入れられない人がいる世の中で苦しまなきゃならないんだ。誰が誰を好きになろうと自由じゃないか

[@I-am-gakky]

動画で号泣してこのコメントでまた号泣しました。

[@mayutomoi3712]

このコメント素晴らしい

[@kominokuma2962]

このコメント見て余計うるうるしました。批判かうかもですが生き物すべて子孫繁栄が1番なのでどうしても同性愛は批判的な意見な人が少なからず残ってしまいますよね･･･

[@トリンドル佐藤]

キリストとか宗教絡みになって来るとそう簡単な事ではないよ

[@Yamazaki-l2z]

現実ではみんな大人だからね気持ち悪いなんて言わないし言えないよ。思ってて発言してもそれは批判の対象になるだけだし。だけど私はゲイを受け入れられないし、そういう人間の声も大切にしなきゃいけない。

[@JellyBeanssus]

i actually can feel his mom feeling.....she is kinda sad after hearing it beacuse every parents except their child to marry and hv kids and live a happy life but she did not disagree on him and decuded to support him. Your mom its just so kind and lovely and open hearted 💜 Edit : Thanks for the 2k likes which yall agree what i hv said n btw i nvr have so many like b4 😊💜

[@clarkabinaya6125]

Me to, her face looks so sad and disappointed.

[@JellyBeanssus]

@@clarkabinaya6125 yea as a girl or a women we can understand this 😔

[@TastyQueen]

Wel you can still have kids when you hay

[@moon.937]

You can adopt and being forced to marry someone you're not attracted to wont help you have a happy life. I hope she realizes that her son's coming out is the first step to his future happiness.

[@JellyBeanssus]

@@moon.937 ya i know this im just helping her telling her feeling im not like banning him from doing dat bruhhhh🌚

[@mogemogmogegon]

ほんと良いお母さん 理解のある良いお母さんで本当によかった 「やっぱりな」ってところは、ああ母親だなって思いました

[@おしね]

この報告するまでに、色々な葛藤があったと思います。辛かったと思います。 涙を流さず、フランクに言える社会になってほしいです。 私、オムライスが好きなんです、くらいの。 幸せを願います。

[@BlueeCo91]

He seems so kindhearted, it's like good energy is radiating from him.

[@GReyn]

true.. i feel it as well.. and he is goodlooking as well, that is a plus..

[@ilknurdss4871]

It’s cute he talks about to have children .. he knows it will be hard, but he really want to have children

[@freeseijuro6780]

Whattttttt?? Thats not possible

[@osamuscumdump1901]

Free Seijuro you know, they can always adopt if they cant

[@noramarzook7648]

Children*

[@mrskaa7584]

Yes. Children is the plural of Child in the English language. So you don't say Childs or Childrens. Just another odd thing lol

[@noramarzook7648]

@@mrskaa7584 Yeah, I agree with you. Noura Marzook- second year English language and literature student 🤗

[@imnoorah]

The way he’s explaining to her that he could have children so she won’t feel so sad 🥺

[@24-scmz]

愛しか感じなくて、もらい泣きしてしまった。

[@ahegwhat4446]

Me: Mom, I'm gay. My mom: Oh, its fine. Me: really?? My mom: Yeah, I mean when I was in high school I would ship your father with his bestfriend (a boy). Me: 👁👄👁

[@Punkwmenn]

LMAO

[@doyoulikelosos3286]

О МАЙ ГАРБЛ ОТЕЦ,ТЫ ЧТО,КРЭЙЗИ?!?

[@giappo1752]

Ahahha

[@azert22kari31]

bro your mom is fujushi ( bl and gay fan girls )😂

[@hanatiara2130]

this make me crying😭🔪

[@shiorio7504]

お母さんの気持ちとしては、あなたが同性愛者と言うことより、海外に行くことの方がつらいと思う。「もう戻ってこんつもり？」とか「だから海外に行きたいの？」とか言う端々に、寂しさを感じたので、遠くに離れて行く事の方が不安そうです。どうか寂しい思いをさせないように、たまに電話してあげてください。息子が可愛くてしょうがないのが伝わってこっち雅泣きそう

[@suicamomoruri5730]

子供を授かるっていう表現してくれてるのがすごく嬉しいです。 妊娠経験はないですが、とにかく嬉しかったです。

[@ten9107]

これをカミングアウトっていうこと自体なくなる世の中になってほしいな

[@valentinasalazar5522]

2017: Algún día. 2018: NO todavía no. 2019: Estamos cerca... 2020: Si ahora sí. Love is love, honey. ♡

[@nayelivargas2556]

Yo 2020: NO AÚN NO

[@sam-qk1uc]

@@nayelivargas2556 douu mal :( 😔👊🏻

[@annsilper8161]

2020...no aun no puedo...

[@jericprincehernandez8121]

Me: bisexual Mom: Straight Dad: straight Older sister: pansexual Cousin: gay Niece: pansexual Aunt: straight

[@imaghost1577]

O- my goood My cousin she's the only person who's bisexual ;-;

[@imaghost1577]

@@bradleymenezes6196 ask him idk how can I tell u :/

[@aessrff]

Omg

[@kafabidunya8950]

@Dormin's Subs Bisexual means "having the potential to be able to get attracted to both sexes and all the gender identities but not necessarily at the same time and not necessarily at the same amount." Sex-uality has nothing to do with gender and I am saying this as a bisexual and nonbinary person myself. Saying bisexuals only like girls and boys is biphobic and saying pansexuals like transgender people is transphobic as if trans people are something different. Bi in bi-sexual addresses the 2 sexes (everyone no matter what their gender identity is either biologically male or female or intersex (which is a hormonal and physical condition) ) not the " 2 genders"

[@thebiker7698]

My whole family from both parts...total 22 members all straight...im BI ...LMFAO NEVER GONNA DO COMING OUT

[@EggsheeransBitch]

me: ummmmmmm Mum: hmmmmmmmm Me: mum im....- Mum: ur lesbian? Me: -......lesbian Mum: Ik i've seen you kiss that girl UnU Me: WUT

[@kaiosantos2976]

Whaaat lol

[@sweestry]

LMAO

[@kayleecollier9404]

Oh word😂

[@69raisinswhy]

I need to know more

[@fortitudeinsolitary8769]

@@69raisinswhy me too. Could u tell us more.

[@例のあの人-c6k]

何かを悟って息子さんをずっと見つめるお母さんの顔が印象的。

[@高橋なつき-g2h]

話し出すまでずっと黙って 聞いてあげてるの泣ける。 やさしいなあ。母は偉大。

[@missak1365]

*She is the calm mother i wish i had, my mom don't listen and understand me.... That's why we can't communicate...and even if i say something...she takes it the other way. I am really happy that you have a mother like that*

[@aishaniiai]

i get it

[@everywherebts3149]

My mom too

[@loverbxy]

𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝙡𝙤𝙡 ☻

[@kumahara_kumami]

同性も異性も同じように恋ができるのが当たり前な世界になってほしいですね！ あなたのこの勇気が、大きな幸せになりますように！

[@MoaandMore]

僕もそう願ってます。 ありがとうございます‼︎

[@user-qsryj]

相手が同性だって、結婚できる、子供もできる。そういう普通の世の中に早く日本がなって欲しいと思った。泣くことないよ。大丈夫、みんな応援してる📣

[@MrFluff1623]

She looks like she is not killing him just becuase of the camera

[@chicago2colombia]

Funny

[@AdriCr4ft]

Valentina Charlotte I don’t get that impression, I thought she was more “sad”. But very supportive. She’s more sad about him leaving.

[@monkeyslap]

She’s restraining herself while continuously asking, “You’re going to tell your dad, right?” Dun-dun-duuuuun!

[@AdriCr4ft]

stimul8 my mother acted just like this lady did when I told her I was smoking xD “your going to tell you dad right?” Is one of their favourite sentences. It doesn’t matter if your gay. Mums usually always take it easier than dads.

[@takuyamatsuda7214]

stimul8 you literally know nothing lmfao.

[@dariashurakhtenko2976]

Не плачь ❤ Ты молодец Хорошо, что есть такие родители, которые принимают тебя таким, какой ты есть

[@tiffyqwq5812]

Мне бы таких родителей

[@dariashurakhtenko2976]

@@tiffyqwq5812печально, когда наоборот ㅠㅠ

[@匿名希望-c6o]

お母さんも必死に受け入れて上げようとしてるのが伝わる いい母だね

[@もずく-o6n]

私の友達も同性が好きです。 学生の頃から誰にも言えず苦しんでいました。 めちゃくちゃ悩んで打ち明けてくれたときに二人で号泣しました。 きっと本人しかわからない苦しさとか色んな葛藤があったんだろうなとおもうと涙が止まりませんでした。 でも、打ち明けてくれたことに本当に嬉しかったです

[@laiszeyap3706]

He actually look like he loves men. That vibe. He look like a gentle young men

[@monkeyslap]

Yes, he seems very genuine. But I also feel a bit sad for him. The kind of love he wants is even more uncommon for gays than it is for straight folks. There is a greater likelihood of infatuation, over sexualization, and infidelity in the gay community. It will open it’s arms to you, then torture you and spit you out. Or your heart will harden and lose that innocence, in order to remain in its embrace.

[@arraikcruor6407]

@@monkeyslap This is so true. I recently accepted I am gay and I started off with grindr. A guy talked to me for over a week. Said good night and good morning to me everyday, enthusiastic to see me, told me about his life and hobbies, joked about the future, used to make blush all the time. Then when the day came to meet him he was offline. He has been offline for a week now. Not a single word. 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@nikolettkondi7930]

Arraik Cruor i mean we don’t have to think right away that he doesn’t want you maybe he lost his phone or got logged out? Or maybe he died?

[@arraikcruor6407]

@@nikolettkondi7930 I agree that anything could have happened. I just hopes he gives me closure one day.

[@ViktoriaYatsenko]

@@arraikcruor6407 hope he or whoever was that was not cat hmm I forgot the word.. It was entirely new to me. Well it's someone pretending to be someone he or she is not. And when It's time to meet they don't show up, all of suddenly they disappeared as if they never existed. Sigh such a cruel way to set up person after they give them hope , and using them for their own benefits without any guilt , and when it's time to meet they panic because they don't want to be caught. Oh i think I remember the word . is it Catfishing ? Anyway, be careful online. Anyone can be anyone they want to be. Don't give them money or anything or any information such as your address, ID etc, including your phone number unless the person is genuine and maybe you did video chat etc hmm. Idk , judge as you see fit and stay strong.

[@atari_rx]

This is so beautiful. Coming out to Asian parents, especially Japanese parents, is very difficult and scary. I’m also Asian and came out to my parents when I was 14. My mom immediately cried and gave me a hard time up until I was 27 years old. It was only until recently that my mom realized how hurt I felt growing up gay because I finally expressed to her how bad it feels when your family doesn’t fully accept you for who you are and now she finally understands. Recently, she defended me in front of my entire extended family about how she loves me no matter if I’m gay and vowed to hurt anyone if they hurt me. It felt really good to see her defend me and not be ashamed for once. My mom and I now have an amazing relationship and I can openly talk to her about my girlfriend and our future kids together. She’s waiting for grandkids just like his mom in this video :) And my dad, well, he’s loved me ever since I came out because I’m his baby girl and daddy’s princess. For all my LGBT Asians and other gay brothers and sisters out there, it takes time. Our parents are from a different generation and cultural upbringing than us but they will always love you, even if they don’t show it or accept it at first. Stay strong and hang in there, it usually gets better over time.

[@ayusharora5102]

So beautiful. And what you said is totally right. It really takes time. Congrats for your future. Enjoy your life. Stay blessed and happy with your loved one's.....

[@mushr--m]

Time to wait until I'm 27 I guess ;;

[@yuzuruch.7491]

I'm scared to tell my mother I loved a girl once. Bc she's also really religious. And I think that would be a shame for my family. I dunno.

[@skarutbaboon6256]

Im currently only 13 and i know im into girls and not guys.i am way to scared to come out just because i get a lot of hate on me because of how skinny i am or how i act.im very shy so people tend to not speak to me.i only have my mom.shes all the support i need tbh and i love her the most.

[@rachel8116]

Oh this is beautiful. Thank u for sharing ur story

[@RaisedinVERMONT]

お母さん、素敵だね。 差別とかじゃ無くて、素直な反応だと思う。

[@logcome3427]

生きづらかった事実を声に出すこと本当に勇気のあることだったと思います。無理せず、頑張ってくださいね。

[@satomis.6835]

初めの一言が出るまでの間に、涙がポロポロ出てしまいました。 とても素敵なお母様ですね。 大事にされて下さいね。

[@pinotsdiary2074]

ものすごく勇気のある行動、同じように悩んでいる人が沢山いるこの世の中でこういう動画を作ってくれてありがとう。カミングアウトするまできっとつらかったでしょうね。でも、とても素敵なことだと思います。 応援しています。

[@00sakura0]

親に言うの本当に勇気要るだろうし、お母さんが思うのは男同志だとどうなるとかだろうし…普通に不安な部分があるだろうけど、それを受け止めてくれるお母さんで本当に良かったとしか言えないな… 自分は全くゲイとかおかしいと思ったことないし、本人が幸せなら、別に周りに迷惑かけてる訳じゃないから、1度も｢え、ゲイやばー｣とか｢きもちわる｣とか全く思ったことない。 幸せなら、別に迷惑かけてる訳じゃないから全然いいと思う。 言い方悪くなると思うけど、ゲイとかに対して興味がないから（あくまでも悪い言い方）全くヤバいとか思ったことがない。 色々あると思うけど、頑張って下さい。応援してます！

[@鴇田絵里]

お母様 優し 何があっても自分の子供ですものね よく、打ち明けた～

[@carolinad9098]

I felted when she said; “if you want to have kids then why don’t you like woman?”, I can assure you he tried, but there isn’t such thing as forcing yourself into liking someone. You did well, lots,lots, lotsss of love and fighting 💛

[@sofiasofia5405]

Come to America! You can adopt a baby or child!We have so many that need a loving home!

[@Bookwormxox]

Frl❤️

[@carolinad9098]

Zeera Cheeze can I ask why you say that?

[@steventalik4782]

Zeera Cheeze Gay people are not sterile. They still have effective egg and sperm. If he wants a biological child go do IVF. Get a donor egg. I know a gay couple who had both child through IVF. One child biologically belongs to one father and the other is biologically to the other father. Both child share the same donor mother. The two father has been raising those children since birth as they are both the legal guardian of the child. Mother is just a donor and she said she doesn’t want to be involved.

[@hellgavampenstein9906]

Gosh me too 😭

[@YK-uv4ui]

すごく素敵なお母さんやと思う。「色んな人がおる」って分かってくれる世の中になって欲しいですよね。

[@砂漠-v1l]

お母さんも動揺してるだろうに、落ち着いてしっかりどっしり構えてあげてるのすっごいいいお母さんですね

[@取扱主任]

人の心を変えるのは難しい。だけど、自分の心を変えるのは簡単だ。 この社会が、少しでも人に優しい場所になりますように…。

[@catherinehargrave5142]

His mother should have given him a hug, that’s what he needed x

[@niloofarnavaei3752]

Oh Asian moms....

[@lincoqie]

We don't have hug culture in Japan. Sorry 🙃

[@YonaIsh]

I'm asian ( my parents are too ) when emotional things happen between my family ( or even my friends ) it's very awkward to hug after and no one will have that thought to comfort someone.

[@uthrapriya7030]

I would feel weird if my mom hugs me, no matter how emotional I feel.

[@maryu258]

Anything else?😏

[@blackswan3882]

Nose si vas a leer esto o siquieras me entiendas pero solo quiero decir: Ser homosexual/bisexual/asexual/pansexual, etc. No te hace mejor ni peor persona,solo sos una persona común y corriente, con gustos como cualquier otro ser humano, admiro mucho que grabaras tu confeción y en la manera que reaccionó tu madre sinceramente no me lo esperaba, pensé y me hubiera gustado que alla dicho cosas como "te sigo queriendo" "no importa, seguís siendo mi hijo y te sigo amando" etc... Pero bueno, cada quien con sus maneras de expresarse... No se sientan mal por tener "gustos distintos" siguen siendo seres humanos y en cuanto a esas personas que los criticas e insultan solo dan lástima, preocupense mejor por ser una buena persona y cuidar a sus seres queridos en vez de preocuparse por lo que digan ellos o aquellos... Y para los religiosos homofobicos que ponen de excusa a dios diciendo "dios castiga a los homosexuales"....... Soy atea pero estoy 100% segura que su dios no va a castigar a una persona por amar a otra, actualicense gente, personas son personas, sin importar importar su religion,país en que nazcas,sexualidad,clase social, etc... Te apoyo y a todos los que tomas en valor de decirlo frente a millones de personas, te mando la mejor vibra del mundo jajaja... Bye, saludos desde Argentina 💕

[@axs5153]

Mae se gano mi respeto 😔✨

[@gegedantas4307]

Me encantó tu vídeo me encantó tu historia ojalá seas muy feliz. Besos des d Brasil 💋🇧🇷

[@Arisdoesvideos]

Eso es lo que le abia dicho a my pa que todavia era la misma niña de antes y que todavia lo amaba pero no le importo eso a el Sorry por my español porque es my primer language but se me olvida como escribir en Spanish, y tambien autocorrect no deja escribir bien que pedo

[@albak4746]

Estoy de acuerdo contigo,pero la pansexualidad realmente no existe. Jsjs

[@blackswan3882]

@@albak4746 en realidad si we jjsjaijaja

[@JayJayBONKS]

I wish my parents would be this accepting about my gender identity, they understand my sexuality (they don't really like it tho) but my gender is another story. I explained my gender identity to my dad and he seemed understanding but at the end of the conversation he said that i'd always be a girl. That broke my heart and honestly I think of it everyday.

[@lennyanyn]

Parents aren't always right. It's okay, be yourself, and with time and pacience they will have to accept you. Even If they don't, please know that there are many people like you and me in this situation, and everything will be fine, there is always someone who cares about you and support you. Please stay safe.

[@JayJayBONKS]

@@lennyanyn thank you for your kind words, please stay safe too.

[@megalodoyok]

So ur a girl? I'm in the same situation as yours too, I'mma 14yo girl, n a lesb, i'm tryin to be a trans man at 19/20yo, but my parents r kinda strict...

[@raythepan]

My dear let me tell you something. You are who you are no matter if you're ftm, mtf, genderfluid, bigender, nonbinary or anything else. Parents often don't understand it and will sometimes try to change you. Please stay true to yourself and don't let people change who you are. One day you're going to be the person you are and no one can change you then. Stay safe and remember that you are valid!

[@bababooey6222]

FreakSlayer That doesnt sound like u trans

[@れい-s7r]

お母さんの反応見たら受けとめきれない所があるけど、自分の子が本当に大切だし、幸せになってほしいって心から願っているんだろうなぁって伝わってきた むしろ幸せになってほしいからこそ、心配している感じのお母さんの愛素敵です

[@shark_bee]

Me: Mom I’m bisexual My mom: No you are not Me: *w h a t* Edit: 2000 likes? Omg After two months I found out that I’m Omni and non binary, Lmao

[@Lale_Canfeda]

wtf 😂

[@GracieGray10]

Legit what happened when I came out

[@miaanthony2688]

My parents: it's just a phase😂

[@martyrigs7141]

My mum: r u crushing on Ur best friend then Me: erm no My mum: well u don't know ur sexuality yet Me:😶😑🤔

[@sabrinya7700]

😂😂

[@min_juan1518]

También fue difícil decirle a mi mamá que me gustan los chicos de mi mismo sexo, pero ella ya suponía que a mi me gustaban, y el día que le dije a ella, me dijo que a ella no le importa si me gustaban los chicos de mi mismo sexo, sólo que fuera feliz, ya que amor es amor, enserio agradezco mucho a mi mamá, por haberme apoyado😢❤

[@nosinonosino9613]

Que suerte

[@elcalladitodelsalon682]

Digo que soy asexual pero soy bi y no we Como decirle a mi family

[@BenBen-kn5do]

Vaya..tuviste bastante suerte

[@Liaishappy]

Esta es una cosa muy buena❤ Cuando los padres aceptan la ideologia sexual de sus hijos, es maravilloso❤

[@abcDan_24]

Que bonito apesar de que a mí no me pasa eso (por qué soy hetero) pero me parece bonito que sean fuertes ustedes pueden amar a quien quieran 😁😊

[@sude0809]

Her reaction was so pure. She was disappointed at first but later on seemed really ok with it. It's clear that she wants him to be happy and I've heard that Japanese people don't hug each other at moments like these so don't ask yourself why she didn't hug him. Every country has its different culture

[@troyebixen4493]

Yes,hahaha no hugs in Northeast

[@user-dk2eb1bq8o]

Lmao people in asian side just dont know what a hug is

[@troyebixen4493]

@@user-dk2eb1bq8o 🤝💀

[@YS-mw4bf]

I’m actually glad she did not make a big deal out of him coming out. A hug is a big deal for Japanese people..

[@SemihaSilik]

can someone explain why they do not hug at these moments? What would it mean if they hugged? I am curious to know.

[@けとみな]

はじめまして。お母さんの、涙にあたしも母親として、涙でました。お母さんは、ちゃんと感じていたんですね。 やっぱりお母さんはスゴイ!

[@priscillamacharia3090]

Am crying as I laugh she's like "I'll be waiting for my grandkids"

[@applepi3991]

Literalmente estoy llorando, se necesita de mucho valor para decirle a tu familia, es bueno que hayan respetado tus gustos y espero y seas muy feliz ❤️.

[@jemjem5194]

No entendí ni madres, pero el chico está sacando el corazón del pecho y la mamá con cara de empacho. No soy gay pero el chico me hizo llorar, que va, mujer daleeee un abrazo hombree! Manda la frialdad y el que dirán a un carajo. Un hijo lo es todo.

[@owochiensalada]

Yo resido en Japón y la gente por naturaleza es bastante fría a comparación de otros países, más los adultos. Entiendo la frialdad de la mamá pero las generaciones más jóvenes ya empiezan a cambiar eso

[@emiarimoto8206]

@@owochiensalada Yo he vivido en Japón desde hace tres años y medio y soy mitad japonesa también pero viví en Costa Rica casi que toda mi vida. Los japoneses no es que sean fríos por naturaleza, es que simplemente no demuestran lo que sienten (en especial las viejas generaciones). Y también hay que considerar que no en todas las culturas se expresa el amor al igual que nosotros, los latinos, nosotros tendemos a abrazar, besar, decir "te quiero", "te amo", etc pero el japonés demuestra su cariño de otra manera (hablando de relaciones de padres e hijos). Mi abuelo japonés nunca ha abrazado a mi papá cuando creció pero su amor hacía él lo expresa de diferente forma. Sin embargo, mi papá "cortó ese patrón", él sí nos abraza a mi hermano y a mí, nos dice "te quiero", etc, se acostumbró al "estilo latino" porque adoptó una cultura diferente. Es cuestión de acostumbrarse y entender esa manera de pensar del japonés viejo, que no digo que esté bien o que esté mal, sino que simplemente, es así. Sin embargo, como tú dices, las generaciones cambian con el tiempo y eso está cambiando aquí poco a poco pero es difícil ya cambiar los valores, formas de pensar, creencias y costumbres de generaciones viejas no solo aquí sino que en todo lado.

[@owochiensalada]

@@emiarimoto8206 toda la razón,!! Nunca lo había visto desde ese punto :

[@jakyes25]

Me pase casi todo el video deseando que la señora lo abrazara o al menos le tomara la mano o algo, aunque entiendo su comportamiento, porque yo tampoco soy de las personas que anda demostrando demasiado sus sentimientos, pero en este caso estoy segura de que si estuviera en el lugar de la señora agarraria a mi hijo y lo abrazaría y le diría que todo está bien y que sin importar nada siempre lo voy amar y apoyar.

[@emiarimoto8206]

@@jakyes25 siii, creéme que ese también fue mi sentimiento

[@コスモス-o6i]

お母さんは立派なかたですね 今の時代型に納めようとかはみ出したら変とかありませんしそもそも誰が決めた事に振り回されているのでしよう 私の母親の口癖は｢みっともない！」でした母の言う｢普通」とは何なんでしよう 今思えば社会性も知識もないプライドだけが高い母親に振り回された人生でした あなたのお母様はフラットでシンプルで波に揺られながら遠くを眺めているかたです 良いお母様のお子さんも又良い人です

[@Feliciti919]

Lol when I subtly told my parents I like ppl of the same sex, their reaction were different. My mom was disappointed and I remember she said "But a man for a woman is better! Even for cuddling!" And she tried to show me that men were better than women for a relationship. My dad, on the other side... We were at a fastfood, eating our 5$ sandwiches and I stopped eating. I was a bit stressed and I said "I dated a girl in highschool..." to which he answered "Do you want more french fries?" I was taken aback and repeated "Y'know, i think i might like girls..." "Yeah I heard. In fact, that's not a big matter. Maybe I should order more frenchfries for your brother" The best reaction I could've ever dream of 😭

[@likeakittie]

awwww...😢😢

[@EMBEEAY]

I would hate that reaction. Someone has done that to me before and it still bothers me to this day.... People think they are making it better by “not caring”, even though it emotionally and mentally means a lot and has taken a toll you. But I guess it depends on the person.

[@vivi1970]

Your father is so cool that's a fact

[@minniexoxo1352]

Once, a woman in my city asked "do you have any mental problem?" (I feel like everyone in my country knows that i am bisexual) and my daddy answered "my princess isn't ill". And when my mummy was alive she always defensed me. Love you Dad and Mum ❤

[@huevos3031]

Awww so cute and how parents should always react~ ❤

[@saga2828]

Mom, please don't be so sad. He isn't terminally ill, he is just gay...

[@nallelytapia3664]

I think she wasn't sad because he is gay, it was because he was moving so far away

[@perfecttionist3507]

It's normal to be sad because being gay is minority...

[@dunjavulovic2027]

@@perfecttionist3507 its not a minority anymore now that everything is allowed.

[@perfecttionist3507]

Dunja Vulović u even know what minority is

[@dunjavulovic2027]

@@perfecttionist3507 I wouldnt say that If I didn't.

[@Stare_into_void]

The fact that you're hearting comments even now even though you posted this 3 years ago. We stan.

[@はいご飯です]

「仕方ない」って言う、日本にはよい言葉があるね

[@ichieyu745]

これは私の意見ですが。。。 仕方ないというのはいい言葉じゃないと思います。本当はこうであって欲しいのにちがくて仕方ない、と言うのは、聞いてもらっている彼はきっと心を痛めていると思います。 お母様は気づいていて、受け入れる努力をする段階の仕方ない、なので、お母様を責める気は全くありません。。。 LGBTがまだまだ受け入れられていない現状では、受け入れてくれるようになっただけで、今はいいのかも知れませんが、将来はもっともっとLGBTが一つの性扱いになる、普通の世界になって行く事を願っています。 そうそう。私はアメリカ在住ですが、某大きい会社に履歴書を送ったのですが、その質問事項にlgbtの質問があって、流石、と思いながらも、ちょっと違和感も感じてしまいました 。lgbtを特別扱いしているという事は"普通"扱いではないですものね。

[@m.rose777]

色んな意味が含まった仕方ない　なのかなっとどうがをみておもった！日本語は色んな言葉に色んな意味を持たせて話す事ができる素敵なツールだと思う。お母さんがどんな気持ちを含めて仕方ないという言葉にしたんだろうね、、

[@citrun5949]

仕方ない…と言う言葉の捉え方は人それぞれです…ですが使い方を誤れば…人の心を傷つけてしまう可能性もあると言うことを忘れてはいけない事が分かりました…