Communication That is Hurting Your Attachment Style

[@amykuntzman4336]

Yes understood, I’ve had a lot of trash that were great texters. Now I have an amazing person who is a firefighter and not a texter. It’s taken a lot of communication and understanding. But when we have our time together it is quality. ❤

[@CrabOfCake]

I feel like this is really helpful! However I hope this can still apply to me. I tend to be anxious, however theres been some things in my relationship that has come to the surface that added on to my already anxious nature. My partner has never cheated on me (physically). But he's had friendships with females that i wasn't comfortable with because some of these girls had a flirtatious nature. I never found anything suspicious, but I just wasn't comfortable with these females. But hes been sweet enough to consider my feelings and cut them off. I know its stupid but aside from my trust issues, im just afraid of losing him. Im also feeling miserable about having this fear as well. I know its something within me that i need to resolve because i even have trouble creating friendships because of my trust issues. I crave having friendships and closeness but its so hard and scary for me thats its been a struggle.