Community Top 10: Krystal & Steven's Full {THE AND} Conversation

[@Mary-xx9qu]

He knows he lost a good one and as much as she loves him she knows she deserves better. This is a women that loves herself enough to walk away because she knows she deserves better.

[@1mooski]

who says there is better....maybe she needs to forgive him and go live a happy life

[@optimisticallypessimistic8043]

@@1mooski lol....I feel the same..base on what i c going on i really wonder if there is better

[@sarahventura7578]

Well, she did get married to another guy recently. 🍀

[@optimisticallypessimistic8043]

@@sarahventura7578 i feel like that doesn't even matter the fact she's married or not cause we nvr knw what the relationship is actually like.. But i do hope she found better

[@ssonkojulius1862]

She still loved him, her ego was just fighting her feelings

[@The_Harylaba]

This brother really fumbled this one. This lady is peaceful and she is the prize of any good man. This is the kind of woman you don't ever want to lose or play games with. This is the type of wife that grows old with you. So unfortunate for this brother.

[@thereddittimes683]

First time I watched this I cried so much because I went through something similar. Fast forward to now, I am healthy, happy and living a good life. There’s hope and there’s healing. For anyone reading this, you will heal and thrive.

[@confidenceogbonnaya4995]

She painfully loves him and that’s okay. We can love a person and not be with them.

[@chellefell1331]

she married someone else :)

[@Sona77.]

I think he painfully loves her, but she realized her worth and walked away ;)

[@uSiyanda]

this comment!!!

[@chellefell1331]

@@Sona77. YES!

[@IntoMeonly]

Painfully!!!🙏🏽💪🏽🥴

[@karinaMarisol]

The pain in her eyes when he said im sorry and she said it's okay 😩 made me tear up

[@gloriabyas8088]

Me too!

[@jamesdid]

time stamp please

[@karinaMarisol]

@@jamesdid 2:21

[@brendajohnson3063]

She seems so aware of herself and very clear in her boundaries and expectations. He looks like it was taking everything not to cry over the love of his life that he threw away

[@tratrazy1633]

This is my second time watching this. I can watch this over and over. It's so raw and genuine. It's like watching a good movie.

[@patiencegrey5916]

Can we be friends coz that's what I have been doing

[@kaota6975]

This is presently my second time too. Theirs seem to be the only that's this touching , I tried finding the connection between others but just couldn't see it. I sincerely hope they get back together.

[@Ned_xo]

@@kaota6975 she’s found someone and is now married. As much as you can see how much they loved each other, I’m glad she found someone else because she deserved better.

[@santus1350]

@@Ned_xo she married a Muslim

[@santus1350]

She is married to a Muslim now

[@ritagorgees1550]

This interview had brought sooo many tears and heart ache back… it’s very weird how you can have similar stories but different people

[@aminado]

I said the same thing!. Watching this episode made me think of my own breakup. Although it did not happen the same way as their own, we share similar experiences. So this one hurt 😪

[@ChantalesprettylittleDIYS]

He lost a good one and he knows it. She just oozes good spirit

[@santus1350]

She is married to a Muslim now

[@rpool100]

she lost a good one and she knows it

[@willbanks2085]

She’s really patient and cares about how he feels despite not being with him anymore. I admire her, very soft spoken but she ask valid questions, she doesn’t completely sympathize with some of what I think the insecurities he had.

[@thefoodie5701]

This one is a classic, made me cry the first time I saw them

[@shanleeviola6400]

Me too ..

[@colletmokoena581]

I just watched it only now, gosh I don't know how many times I cried.. Classic and emotional it is the words

[@CocoaMommyAJ]

Me too

[@gladymirramos659]

Yes 🙌

[@gregoryjones6974]

Man you can tell there was alot of love between them

[@niange5404]

But he cheated

[@serg9705]

@niange5404 I'm pretty sure he regrets it a ton of a ton ,but what's done is done

[@taihairs]

she wanted to cry so bad omg, a strong woman. That feeling of ur boyfriend/best friend betraying u is horrible

[@phindilemaseko3840]

"I hold what we had in high regard like it is something that I haven't been able to find anywhere else" ♡

[@santus1350]

Who said that between the two

[@phindilemaseko3840]

@@santus1350 the lady

[@Licia.S]

And he never will, that's the sad part. There'd always be that longing even when you know you can't have them in your life anymore

[@rorisangtsoeu253]

Phindile wena ngoana lapeng SA. Cute quote from em

[@shabeebshibu]

❤❤❤

[@kimbala44137]

The energy between theses two says this was not fleeting…they still really care deeply for one another…but the damage and distance

[@tahysribau9479]

I love this woman so much! She knows her worth and knows that that man was just a chapter in her life and shes ready to walk away to continue her book. Abt the guy, im really sad that he did that to her, and he knows that he did one of his biggest mistake. I dont feel bad for him but at the same time I do....we can see the pain in his eyes.

[@HK-th1sw]

Shes extremely mature

[@LJadeSummers]

"I never said someone else was cute to your face" No, you slammed multiple girls behind her back instead 🤷🏼‍♀️ What a fragile 'man'

[@Ellael98]

People he is still allowed to express his experience? My god he is obviously so embarrassed for what he did and that’s good

[@quadzilla561]

@@Ellael98he got humbled

[@michaelmata9171]

Takes a lot of courage to admit your the toxic one, mad respect to this man.

[@NtateGoose18]

Watching this now, the man is hurting… his heart sank when he heard, “close the chapter in a proper way”… I would die of heart palpitations, that is pure chest pains. He messed up big time… this lady is golden… considered a mans “dream”… much bless to her.

[@ulyseeslorenzosutton1772]

She’s everything wonderful a man would want or need. An absolute gem 💎.

[@genito1]

1:16:40 looking at her eyes you can tell there was still sorrow... Probably a realization of what could have been. I am happy that they had the opportunity to get the closure many of us might never have

[@briancasa1054]

Key elements in general in relationships is to communicate, communicate communicate!🙏🏾✅

[@caleb-ngeno]

KRYSTAL I have not seen a woman this beautiful both inwards and outwards. I like her..... A good heart is palpable in her especially the way she is so humble, smiling all along from the start of the clip, shes a good listener, a definite wife material who for all reason you would never think of cheating on her. a true treasure and carries a true sense of a friendship and wife. This woman is so special in that.....she has a true heart of love ,laughter and forgiveness but as much as she still loves Him, she knows she cannot stay here she deserves better that she was treated. That is maturity in its entirety,just because you still love your ex doesnt always mean you should get back together. I am saying this because of the way they both look at each other....No like seriously the start of the video, they stare at each other for 24 seconds without a word, i saw love, missing each others company and knowing the fact that you cant go back to how things were.......that alone broke me up. Krystal was very hurt by Steve and by all means when she says she is still gathering herself I know it is a hard transition being in the line where you know you still have something for them but you cannot change the past. Women like Krystal in this world are few, who are loving, patient, caring and friendly with a touch of peacefulness around is hard to encounter STEVEN This guy is a representation of of a really good person out there who shows us that not all of us are perfect, we all mess up and sometimes what we do can eat up our lives. I LIKE THE FACT THAT HE IS SO OPEN. He comes to tell the woman that he cheated on her, not most men would do that, He is a real man who feels the need to take responsibility for His action and very much He understands with all his might that Krystal did not deserve what he did to her. He crossed a lane. He is so positive and he is the kind of person that never wants to repeat what he has done before, his apology to me feels really honest and real and he fully owns the mistake, deep in the inside i feel His regret and pain, 3 years seems like a hell for Him. seriously you dont move away from a woman like this to find a better one that her. He seems the 3 years he spent without her, he never really met someone else or forgiven himself and find peace within himself, but the talking was a closure for both. This guy also to me seems like he has learnt his lesson, i hope he meets someone best too like Krystal or more because he also deserves best, guys like these........who are honest, apologetic, kind, loving, true, selfless......they are rare out there

[@veralexa7760]

Right in the feels. Sometimes we need to go through the difficulties to grow within ourselves and our relationships with others. "Success is the sum of small efforts,repeated day in and day out."-Robert Collie

[@adasaura8648]

Oh my gosh.. I watched the short one and I was like this guy doesn't seem like he knows exactly what went wrong.. and now I'm glad I got to watch the whole thing because he's dangerously so unaware of himself.. in so many ways. Just to name a few: 1. He cheated in the beginning of their relationship when they were open about talking about things but he held back from telling her .. until he felt like she didn't love him anymore.. so then he told her "as a way to set her free". (Trash btw because he really sounded like he thought he was doing her a favor by telling her that late in the relationship... when it was really just him finally giving up) 2. He suspected she was cheating... BEFORE they even got together.. because he was insecure about a lot of other things but he used that suspicion to justify his.. it's such a weird mind game cus they weren't even together and he even agrees she was open and honest but he felt she was still hiding things... (I'm glad she caught on to how backwards that was) 3. There's a part were he gets upset because they were at a restaurant and she said "he's cute" about maybe the waiter.. and he was deeply offended... even though they look at/hit on other women together.... It's so crazy that something so miniscule like that set him off... because he..actually cheated... like? I'm so glad this is over and she didn't go back to him because he has a lot more life to grow into before he's ready to commit to something at a level of honesty that's outside of his ego. Sad on missing out on their friendship but she totally deserves to be with someone who can meet her at the level of growth and emotional maturity that she's at. I hope him playing with her emotions didn't make her lose sight of love because she is SO deserving. Love is out there waiting for her and it won't be manipulative like whatever they shared. Wish I could give her a hug fr 🥺❤

[@innovationscode9909]

You wrote this so well Awesome

[@sandybaker6692]

Well said and I so agree. I believe he's very aware of what he's doing and very manipulative/dishonest.

[@Gift_Salama]

This is like so brilliant.

[@__miraaa2x]

No fr you wrote this well

[@brendajohnson3063]

I love how clearly they communicate and ask clarifying questions.

[@jujitsujosh4774]

The worst pain I’ve ever known was not due to the actions of another woman. The worst pain I’ve ever experienced was from knowing my actions caused the woman I loved pain… a pain that she didn’t deserve… a pain that also caused me a great deal of pain. I watched how revealing to the woman I love the truth of what I was painfully struggling with become the source of her pain as well. And then the pain just magnified 100 times worse when she left. I needed her to believe in us and to support and love me as we fought my addiction together. I struggled alone for a year and was losing an uphill battle alone. But I wasn’t alone, I was engaged. I was in love but I was in shame of my addiction. When I told her the truth, she returned the ring and left. When I came home the next day, she had already moved out everything that belonged to her… furniture and all. A few weeks later my addiction had taken ahold of my life and I crashed my truck into a river. I broke all my ribs, my right cheekbone, got 11 stitches in my face, and totaled out my truck. I made it easy for her to get over me and move on. But I was as stuck in the water smashed into the mud of that river bank as I was in the pain of my addiction. A couple months later I got a roommate and a month or so after that I discovered he had stolen my identity. My banker said I had to call the cops in order to be reimbursed for the thousands of dollars he had spent of mine and that it would help with all the credit card debt he racked up as well. When he knew the cops were coming, he put his drugs in my other truck I had. After they arrested him, they found the drugs and charged me with delivery of Meth in a school zone. Then he robbed me after he was released from jail and had moved out. The cops did nothing because I never gave him an eviction notice. They were out to get me. I had learned this guy had stolen a woman’s mail and used her identity to attempt to give himself the legal guardianship of her two minor children. The guy was a human trafficker and I was just some younger more naive guy that needed company to distract me from the pain of losing my ex fiancé. I ended up in the biggest mental health institution in the state of Iowa for awhile. By the time I was released I had lost my job and my freedom was on the line. I still struggled with staying clean and eventually admitted myself into residential treatment for my chemical dependence. It was a 30 day program, but they made an exception out of me. On my 48th day in rehab, I finally graduated out and followed up with another 14 months of outpatient treatment. Being in recovery saved me from going to prison because I got a deferred judgement and was sentenced to 5 years of probation and confined to the county. It’s been 3 years now and I recently let the next woman I loved move in. After I discovered she was cheating on me, she became hostile and abusive. She had the cops come kick in my door and acted as if I held her prisoner. After my release from jail I discovered her last boyfriend was sentenced to prison for the same two charges I have… domestic assault and false imprisonment. About three weeks ago there was a probation violation filed, even though I haven’t been found guilty of anything. So despite the fact that I never assaulted or held her against her will and never been convicted of breaking the law, I was arrested and violated the terms of my probation. I’ve relapsed and used every single day and night since my probation revocation hearing. And I sit here 3 years later after my ex fiancé walked out still thinking about her awaiting my prison sentence. I have never seen her once since that day and we have never even spoken once. I never had a criminal record until now either. I wish I could sit down with her and talk like this show. Otherwise I’m afraid I’ll never forgive myself and I will never finally lay my pain, guilt, and shame to rest. And my addiction will always win. Even after when I’m released from the state pen, I’m afraid without closure, I’ll just end up back there again. She was my best friend, but when my dad died, she wasn’t there for me when I cried. So I coped the wrong way and it didn’t matter how much I loved her or she loved me, I was addicted to crystal meth. Maybe she couldn’t have helped. But she definitely didn’t even try and left me wanting to die. This is my story, but it’s not the end of my book. I just hope that one day when I find this comment and look back, that I’m not still hooked to this shit that took everything from me and that I’m finally back in recovery.

[@timothyaigbe3830]

Jesus loves you bro,give ur mind a different food/hobby to feed on,cut urself from the source of ur addiction,it's ur sole responsibility to starve the force and urge of the craving. Get a good church,pray with all it heart,study ur Bible and God will renew ur mind and a Good woman will come.

[@lordjungalee]

Hell of a story homes. I don't think that you're addicted to meth as much as you are addicted to escaping responsibility. Seems like your standards are too high for yourself...

[@jujitsujosh4774]

@@timothyaigbe3830 God bless you… It’s the best any of us can ever do.

[@jujitsujosh4774]

@@lordjungalee I appreciate your input and will consider it deeply.

[@FEMININELY_ME]

How are you? I genuinely hope you're better 🤍

[@selenagomes7469]

This conversation has always been inspiring for me. Always loved rewatching it. Thank you for posting the full conversation. I now sadly hope I will experience a conversation like this in a couple years…

[@Iwish387]

She’s now married! Her now husband kinda resembled this guy here, but she married to someone else.

[@ms_jblessed5031]

not to him? 🥺🥺 congrats to her and many Blessings!

[@Mimitalksfaith]

@@ms_jblessed5031 yep not to him 😭😭

[@cammy60467]

Ooo how’d you find out?

[@andresugrinovich3438]

Update: they divorced :(

[@aliiiiiiiful]

The male ego is so fragile. This waiter thing is such a manipulation. How’d it go from why did you cheat to you thought a waiter was cute once before we were even official 🙄

[@BeautifullyMyself]

It proper turnt on her! Like shes at fault for his insecurities! He cheated because he was insecure!

[@Artliker1234]

I really really hope she never went back to him. Cause WOW

[@niange5404]

@@Artliker1234 she never did

[@sinqobilem]

Right and at that point she didn’t owe him anything

[@LoveNia_]

I couldn’t believe he did that. Her complimenting the waiter was NOT the reason he cheated MULTIPLE times!!! Wtf

[@artegentile8365]

It's so funny because the short version a long time ago made me think he was such a prick, but actually he is so honest about how he felt at the time, and he has apologised multiple times very truthfully. I love them both, they will make great friends one day.

[@santus1350]

She is married to a Muslim now

[@sandybaker6692]

@@santus1350 I'm late but I'm glad she didn't take a chance on this one. I didn't buy his apology-didn't seem sincere to me.

[@Rbfilmzz]

They so in love even after 3 yrs.. it’s right there.. I really really hope I see somewhere they got back 🥹

[@chimakalu41]

👍🏾

[@DIAMONDGIRL57]

She is now happily married to someone else.

[@andresugrinovich3438]

@@DIAMONDGIRL57she’s not, she divorced before you commented this

[@miguel1982castro]

I’m 40 yrs old. This made me cry. Their story reminded me of my ex. We had a similar bond like them. Where we can joke around and be ourselves. And like them… i have not found that person that made me laugh and smile as my ex. I’m happy the couple in the interview finally got their closure. I wish I had my closure. I wish i had a proper good bye and a proper end. But i wish my ex the best in the world. May she find happiness. Miss ya #RegularBread #WhyAreYouLaughing

[@Nellasheboo]

This was deep…my take on this is his insecurities and ego about his girlfriend fueled him to cheat. Almost to teach her a lesson and break her down…like to get her back for giving someone else a compliment. This was hard to watch and take in.

[@andregaines1616]

This was a heartfelt , sincere apolog the long way. Its obvious what they had was special and perhaps the first time either of them had experienced real love. In my conclusion , I'm glad he cared enough about her to let her go, and I applaud her for keeping it 100.

[@hewanassefa1089]

The way he looked at her says everything!!!

[@keishapuryear8180]

I don't agree that she still loves him. Compassionate people don't like to see others in pain even if they've hurt them

[@prbydominiquepryor4198]

He is such a manipulator. I'm glad she can see thru and standing up for her boundaries.

[@shortcake245]

Classic looser…both of them..,just head for the hills… Manipulator is an understatement…

[@vuyolwethusabani3352]

He was enough for her but she wasn't enough for him.

[@bubalove8357]

She put him on a high horse. And still viewed him highly throughout the entire conversation. While this dude needed to find any excuse for why he cheated. They weren’t exclusive. This is why communication is key. If his feelings got hurt he could’ve expressed that to her right then and there. To sit there and have a proud demeanor like this after someone is looking directly at you, with clear facial expressions of hurt & pain is a very questionable persona. Be careful with people who have similar traits like this guy. They feed off of the pain they’ve caused to others. They want to know they were capable of hurting you, and if that’s the response they get from the person who’s been targeted...then it would mean they have some sort of power over you. I’m glad she’s moved on. She deserves to be in loving relationship.

[@Ellael98]

I don’t feel like he was finding excuses. He is aware that he fucked up. And he even said he was ‚the toxic one‘- so I wouldn’t say he is feeding of the pain he was causing her. I know which kind of people you mean but I feel like he doesn’t fit in that ‚category’. These kind of people would never reflect on what they have done like he did here. Of course there is still room for improvement and I don’t want to sugarcoat his act, but I feel like he is not as bad as a person as you state it here.

[@joshuabassa7413]

Finding excuses???? You're just making this up now. He took accountability more than anything and he knew he messed up. Heck! He wouldn't have reported himself if he was trying to make excuses. He's a good person.

[@adasaura8648]

@@Ellael98 nah lol he was definitely manipulative in several parts of this interview. It's ok if you didn't catch that but this person is right. I do feel like the guy apologized and in some ways probably meant the apology.. but his demeanor throughout this interview is very prideful and composed like he's still holding back. And he did make excuses for cheating.. because he walked around the fact that he was insecure.. and just basically blamed her for why he was insecure.. which is not her fault.

[@sinqobilem]

This video is the equivalent to when a guy texts in months or years later telling you how bad he fucked up the relationship in hopes that you don’t see him in a bad way, to get your understanding of why he did what he did, and to share blame in how things fell apart so that you both can get back together on an even playing field. It sounds like he is doing this for himself because he is still defensive with the waitress situation and the phone thing.

[@adasaura8648]

Oh my gosh, you explained it perfectly!!! It's like he really still blames her for being the reason for why he cheated. Because he was insecure.. it's so wild to see

[@marhar2473]

The sad part is he's still insecure and doesn't think he's good enough in general. Can't even take compliments or words of encouragement.. God bless them both om their individual journey.

[@keishapuryear8180]

Aiming for a woman who is really attractive and then faulting her for the attention from others is the result of insecurity within. Being ego centered is encouraged in this country yet toxic to relationships. I've always said a man will not learn to treat his woman right until after he's experienced the pain of losing the one who got away. Unfortunately many men still don't learn from it they just get better at hiding their indiscretions

[@MetalHeadRed954]

She has a beautiful soul how could you cheat on someone like her?!

[@rareflower72]

Is he too proud to just say the words, I loved you. He's seems proud. That's what gets in the way of obtainng what you need, want and looking for.

[@sandybaker6692]

I think he didn't say it because he didn't feel it. Sometimes, there's a reason for the omission.

[@quadzilla561]

@celpatbra3ofushe can repent

[@nyikoluckyhendrickz]

The emotional intelligence is bonkers on her behalf 🎉❤ much respect

[@kiararolanda]

He knew she was being faithful that’s why he had to mansplain a situation that happened before they were even together to justify cheating.

[@Rucha2096]

PLEASE tell me you guys will be uploading Andrew and Keisha's conversation too

[@tankisokgomonyane5033]

Literally cried the whole video 💔💔

[@claudiafegari5116]

I felt so many mixed emotions watching these two... 🥺 It is very clear that "regret" still burns his skin, even if after so long. I do hope those two can cross paths, again, after "doing the work" , growing and evolving. It is clear that, although they are both doing the work, she is way ahead of him. Based on this conversation, they had what so many of us want and look for: friendship, comfortability, the bond, the love... *sigh* 27:32 >> "- With you was the first time in a while... I was actually able to open up and just really be myself, no matter what who or what was around..." (S) 28:35 >> "- Being comfortable with someone in all regards..." (K) 28:55 >> "-Being happy... I was really happy when things were good..." (K) 30:55 >> "- You were my best friend... (S) 31:07 >> "- When it ended, I lost my boyfriend and my best friend..."(K) 31:32 >> "- It happened for whatever reason..." (With tears in her eyes) 34:18 >> " - Who am I to clip your wings for my errors?" (S) 46:42 >> "- We had something real..."(K) 47:44 >> "- Do you miss what we had?" (S) 48:25 >> "- I hold what we had in high regard like it is something that I haven't been able to find anywhere else" (K) 50:09 >> "- I was the toxic one... My ego got in the way..." (S) 58:04 >> "- You were my best friend. A lot of things about you do cross my mind all the time..." (S) 58:38 >> "- A lot of things make me think of you..." (S) 01:00 >> "- The connection we had; the comfortability that we had..." (K) 01:06 >> "- I wanted you to know that I loved you..."(K) 01:09 >> "- Don't let anybody hurt you again..."(S) 01:12 >> "- The bond we had, I haven't found anywhere else..."(S) 01:16 >> "- I had my best friend and my boyfriend in one package..." (K) 01:18 >> "- We had a lot of good times..."(S) 01:19 >> "- I wish you to find everything that I wasn't in a man..." (S)

[@justrules134]

Gentlemen stay warm, loving and loyal to your lady. Ladies NEVER make compliments about other men in front of your man. If you have someone you love, adore and care for, treat them how you would want to be treated. Fair love is balanced love. Whole love is nearer to holy love. "God" made love...to take good care of.

[@CarolinaBoyTV]

I feel u bro. I still miss my ex it really took me to lose it and go thru life to value her. Shii still bothers me till this day. Known her since middle school. I'm just happy bout how successful she is now. Nun but genuine

[@TheFearlessmo]

He really tried to make a case for himself with that waiter thing huh? Glad she held her ground.

[@mbalixhakaza537]

When KZbin first recommended me to watch this channel their conversation (if not Lloyd and Melisa) was the one I saw and it really reminded me of how I've been wanting to be in the same situation with an ex of mine from 2018. Seeing this again really makes me wonder where yall are because I really want to have a conversation with the guy 😭❤.

[@christinabundy3744]

He’s lying and she knows it. He should’ve just said he wasn’t ready.

[@kimbala44137]

I wish self confidence for him…so that he knows he is enough and I wish for her that the trust of self be restored…

[@alexlexusZXpredator]

You can clearly see they are still connected on some level.

[@shabeebshibu]

“expect the best but prepare for worst… “he saying from deep 😢😢😢😢

[@smallgalbiggod1409]

They both still love each other 😍

[@lawrencelogan5100]

I get it, 28 years for me still trying to heal. You can't erase someone from your life. Moving forward with those memory (good & bad) is hard at times and painful. I sense from these two there are some very deep feelings (presently). The only way to keep your relationship good is what they are doing now in this episode (must be done daily) and above that is to know thyself first. (LOVE sometimes Hurts 😞) In my opinion this relationship between these two is fixable. I wish both of them the very best in whatever decision they make in the lives.

[@zzinkk]

At 0:45, she realized things were different, he was looking at her but not into her. He had moved on from whatever they HAD.

[@lilanoko7673]

The convo was good until he started talking bout her checking out other dudes...so he was insecure, n projected his own shit on her... cool guy but definitely insecure...

[@miranblazek5303]

Don't judge. You sound like you never had love, because if you did, you would understand the other side of that coin, wich is deep pain

[@piedpiper1234]

@@miranblazek5303 he cheated lol him feeling "pain" over her complimenting a guy she didn't even talk to does not give excuse for cheating Multiple times at that. that's not love. cheaters will always be cheaters.

[@bossb8989]

Such a beautiful, sad, deep, healthy episode.

[@chichomrt6459]

That girl is a beautiful soul ... and that dude will regret the rest of his life that he lost his soul mate

[@josephdavis8576]

We as men have to do a better job of communicating with our women because if he had articulate that one experience and how it made him feel he could have save himself this heart broke because she was definitely his soulmate that got away because his guilt and the inability to articulate how that one experience made him feel.

[@vannisworld]

This hit deeper than I thought it would. I went through something similar and it was hard to see it on screen.. when she brought up his cheating, after she told him that she wanted him to explore.. and he still waited until he had her to cheat. 😢

[@wizzypromax1641]

I think this two needs to give it a shot again

[@adriannepearson2654]

So much conversation is about her, but he seems to have grown and learned to be better for himself. I hope the best for him and hope he finds happiness

[@diasgad]

They look so cute together... I wish they rekindle the relationship...

[@pumkins_world9277]

She eventually married another man. Had a son with him. She recently separated from him because he was physically violent and a narcissist.

[@clifftonnjoroge9301]

Waiiit, you're serious?

[@scjohnson1987]

I was so shocked to see this but I also lowkey want her and Steven to get back together. Of course, after some healing and if he's single too.

[@stanleyandrewmwambala7653]

Kyristal still loved the guy, I can see her heart racing

[@ssonkojulius1862]

True, she still loved him and maybe will still do, but she let's the ego do the driving, she wants to make a point just

[@stanleyandrewmwambala7653]

@@ssonkojulius1862 she is just trying to make him see what went wrong and how he was supposed to react

[@ssonkojulius1862]

@@stanleyandrewmwambala7653 agree. But they were too meant for each other

[@imkabura9168]

@ssonko Julius what if it was the ladies fault here,what would you say(like if she was the one who cheated)

[@ssonkojulius1862]

@@imkabura9168 maybe the same, you know!?, Cheating doesn't imply that you don't love your partner, sometimes it's like an uncontrollable force that attacks you

[@saucyfaces]

That waiter situation is honestly laughable. He's extremely fragile. I suffered second hand embarrassment listening to his take of it.

[@089eva]

There's no need to laugh at someone being vulnerable.

[@saucyfaces]

@@089eva I'm an adult. One that has experienced enough manipulation to be able to decipher the difference between someone being vulnerable and manipulative. Now, we can agree to disagree but this was absolutely ridiculous as it was an attempt to shift blame to her instead of holding himself accountable. Again, I chuckled. 🤷🏽‍♀

[@089eva]

I see what you're saying and you may be totally right. I just hesitate trying to judge a situation or people without knowing either one of them.

[@chellefell1331]

@@089eva that wasnt vulnerability. that was insecurity and projection of blame.

[@rashadmuhammad1991]

@jackie sears - what an evil person...

[@johnfields1206]

Watching this again, they should really get back together because they definitely had something special!!

[@artel6225]

He’s got guilt/fear in his eyes, gotta lay his burden down. Lovin some1 deeply comfortably doesn’t mean ya stop. He knows he hurt her badly. Life’s regret. People move on to love others. I don’t want to be proud of that - good ownership. ❤️is hard takes work committed work. He’s more insecure than her vulnerable but when you have an attractive woman that’s life as men we have to swallow that insecurity & be humbled by it so you cherish her even more

[@kellibrown4930]

He tried to put his insecurities on her especially about the restaurant situation. He has a lot of things to grow on. Nonetheless, I’m glad she’s out that relationship and thriving.

[@MUBARAKGLAL2255]

I swear she is so insanely beautiful

[@graysonred2641]

Cheating is wrong but shiiiiiit, fellas sometimes you gotta take it to the grave. He lost a good one, and he still regrets it

[@khalielstrong1614]

Somebody had to say it bro😂💯

[@apresdavis]

i just feel like as a female this girl has so much grace. I kinda feel like he's super ambiguous when he speaks of his wishes for her in the least. I still am content on saying he hasn't really sat with the things he could of done diff'ntly, idk maybe that's just me but even in my own men kinda speak about how they'll never betray you and how they have all this passion for you and than boom here comes the abuse. I noticed the form in which his started to show; like how he mentioned he was being controlling for no reason; I know i've had issues with noticing things i like and dislike bout me; but i felt like it would of been a diff outcome had he expressed in some sort of the way the lack of assurance. I def went thru the phone circumstances, but i think i had already been played if I'm not mistaken; idk. This one got me thinking in a circle now!!...Half way in it's good; this is the adulting that missing; like the discourse on social media does drown me out; cause it's like as if it's men against women and its constant; everytime i look up itss a bash fest so this was brought to us with so much ease!!! I like her!!! 💕💕💕❤‍🔥

[@arielcristina774]

She still so very obviously and painfully loves him

[@Artliker1234]

Clearly not 💀

[@chellefell1331]

she is married to someone else and is very happy :)

[@morilangshaw5367]

She's sharp. He has a bit of growing to do. At the end of the day, they seem perfect for each other. Give it another shot!

[@MrMarkeze23]

I think there was one point that was missed. Although he cheated early on in the relationship, it was wrong and his actions did line up with a person that acted out of self guilt. However, when he was to the point where he couldn't hide it from her any longer, he said that he had to get it off his chest and let her go to free himself. Meaning that he wanted her to know his mess up, and giving her a chance to leave, but I don't think it was his actual intentions to lose her for good. With the saying of "If you truly love something, let it go, and if its meant for you, it'll come back."

[@numbernine3436]

People are hating on him but I don't think he was a bad guy. This lady seems very down to earth & intuitive. I don't think she would give a crappy guy a 2nd look. He cheated. I think men cheat for several reasons one feeling insecure. I think that was the case here. He clearly loved.her.

[@mandlenkosi5193]

Exactly i feel like i understand him a bit. And they clearly in love.

[@Jadecatz]

He was getting upset because he was already being unfaithful. He was insecure.

[@VershyTheQueen]

The amount of black men I have seen from these videos mess over good black women is really pissing me off. Because black men will go out here and talk about us and whole time they were the ones who did us over. I love this conversation and this is my third time watching this since it came out a few years ago.

[@jerrynkumu]

Dunno how this got in the playlist but watched the whole thing. I hope bro get her back

[@elephantisiolo4866]

I wish they could try to work it out again coz they still have the strongest connection in their eyes and even a deeper bonding till now

[@stardragon5547]

They obviously still love eachother❤❤

[@keymoon420]

whew to survive dating a narcissist should come with a check at the end

[@fuckyovideos23]

Im not getting that narcissistic trait from him. He was open and honest and took accountability. He called himself toxic. Narcs do not do that

[@kingsleylaurent562]

Work toward circling the block again........I dont understand when people who break up and say, "we cant get back together again because we're two different people or in different places" yet they were two different people and in different places before yall met. So stop playing and get back together and be diffrent together

[@aksaucy777]

Yeah… idk how you can lose a Queen like that 🥲

[@cirstencrayton698]

I wanna do one of these so bad 🤣

[@NefetariEnchanted]

Me too! I went on their website and bought the cards!

[@smallgalbiggod1409]

@@NefetariEnchanted could it be possible to share the kids with me dear?

[@tiffmoore8831]

Same!!!

[@ncobilebhembe1964]

same girl

[@marhar2473]

Lowkey lol

[@veronicajohnson7971]

Hold on... he had me until the waiter comment 🤦🏾 he used that moment early on to sabotage his entire fucking relationship with her. Healing is soooooooooo important... he's insecure and fragile.

[@Keviekev115]

Honestly men are like that. From experience. We are fragile but we do have these stupid reasons to cheat or etc. either we felt betrayed or cheated on.

[@michellebf9585]

He cheated on her, cause she's above his stations and he felt insecure. Even when she loved him and proved her loyalty he was betraying her. He lost a good woman and he knows it. Shame for him. She's a 10.

[@Mara-hh3gr]

You shouldn’t get into relationships, if you’re not ready to have difficult conversations, like telling your partner about what’s bothering you/insecurities. Hiding insecurities allows room for it to fester and grow negatively.

[@lerchization]

Cudos to the content creator on this one!!!! Yo, the raw emotion and hurt feelings came out. It was like I was emo roller coaster. Its good tho!!! KZbin has not let me down yet. It’s always something on the tube. This was different for me. I love that they laugh together, and I saw the good time in the way they looked at one another. Their pain run deep on both sides. Bruh, he got commune more with his future boo. She still loves in a way but she seems done to me. I would like to see them again to if get back together. “Catslug” baffled me, but they may have something if forgiven. And start something new and fresh.

[@rareflower72]

I love them. I wish their relationship can resume after they honestly talk about everything. Maybe it will be better this time and elevated differently.

[@tamerawilliams1781]

She’s married now …

[@shortsweetness876]

Even if she wasn't married HELL NO! HE'S A CHEATER OVER AND OVER! Clearly he ain't LOVED HER. You just don't cheat on someone you're in love with tf!!

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

Girl bye, you’re a joke

[@sportjames23]

Krystal is beautiful and seems like she is just a sweet lady. She looks like a young Whitney Houston. Steven, ya messed up, brah.

[@christopheradodo4718]

The key points are that the man cheated, and the woman appreciated another man facial appearance. While the latter may seems insignificant, but nevertheless can create some levels of doubt. Including the fact that the woman was always on phone. Relationship requires openness, honesty, and dedication. However, cheating is of a different level than mere appreciating someone. Because it is a key factor that degrades relationship. And could actually affect the victim psychological and mental wellbeing. Also, the probability that the cheater would not repeat it again creates uncertainty. However, what was responsible for the failure of her second relationship?

[@Funweaet]

She got married to someone else 💖

[@asm347]

Was she seeing someone when she did this?

[@Funweaet]

@@asm347 I don’t believe so i think they tried again but it didn’t work out there’s an update

[@Denchanter]

@@Funweaet I can’t find the update

[@itsyaboysaber784]

I came across this for the very first time and felt really good watching it, I hope they are still in touch wether as friends or couple or whichever way, I will say that what he did as far as cheating, was messed up but at least he have learned from it and to be honest I kinda feel like the love is still there on both parts so I truly wish the best for them