Compare Leads To Despair I Season Four, Episode 8

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Who is your hero? When you look at them do you feel like you cannot measure up? It’s not bad to have heroes you look up to! But when it comes to comparing yourself to them, are you careful? Comparison will rob you of your joy in life and will leave you wanting more.
The comparison trap is a real place. But you don’t have to live there. You CAN get out of it - through learning to trust God with your life, celebrating your life AND the lives of others, and believing that there is a enough for everyone.
Are you ready to leave the comparison trap behind? Let’s dive in together!
In this episode, you will hear Candace and Bianca discuss:
Why comparison steals your joy
Ways you can get out of the comparison trap
How comparison can destroy your life
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Each season of The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast features one guest for a deep exploration of a single theme, encouraging viewers to grow in their experiences of faith, family and purposeful living.
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Best known as ‘D.J Tanner’ in the hit television series “Full House” and Netflix’s “Fuller House,” and as the actor and director who takes over your television around Christmas time. Candace is also a New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, and CEO of Candy Rock Entertainment. Candace has been interviewed many times over her decades on television, and decided it was time to host deep conversations about the many topics people find important.
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[@DeanaMarie71]

You don't have the same numbers because they live for the world and you live for Jesus. That truly is the reason why ❤

[@joniuptain5509]

This is my favorite season- you two are such an amazing duo. This episode was so so so relatable. Thank you!!!

[@michelleheltz6116]

What helped me with comparison is when Jesus said in John 21:22: If I want him to remain until I return, what is that to you! When one of his disciples asked about another disciple. Just do what Jesus wants you to do and don’t look at others.

[@jessicaking-staino3019]

Thank you both. You can't possibly realize the hope, excitement and peace your content radiates. I'm putting you on my Christmas list. 🤟🏼👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏼👭👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏼👭👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏼👭🌈

[@belindaschramm3195]

Comparison starts right after birth. Doctors are rating babies right from the start. So parents get that in their head right away. If we stopped doing that and focus on simply the health of a baby, the cycle of comparison could end before it begins.

[@whitney5581]

Oh goodness, I need to listen to this episode every week! ❤

[@MJBlack412]

I would be careful with the Enneagram, it had a dark origin, involving automatic writing. While it may be helpful for some people, you might want to investigate the origins and prayerfully consider whether or not God has His hand on it.

[@countrygirl4362]

Women pastors are disturbing to me Not biblical

[@carrenduran]

I loved this series! It got me through some hard times but God saw me through and used y’all along the way. God bless.

[@Lannz31]

Wow!🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@DelightfullyMe]

Candice, it’s so wild that you talked about how your voice was a huge insecurity for you. I’ve always loved your voice and was actually just thinking at the beginning of this video how I long to have a soft velvety well paced voice like yours. Ive always been told that I speak too fast and sound like a mix of Rosie Perez and someone from the sopranos. (I’m from NYC). And when I speak I feel like I don’t sound mature enough and as I’ve gotten older I’ve become so incredibly insecure about it. I’ve even begun to practice reading out loud to try to pace myself and make sure I sound out all of the words properly but it’s always in the back of my mind. So can you imagine how I felt when I heard you speak about the comments and feelings about your voice!? I needed to hear this episode so badly, between what Bianca spoke about the Velcro and Teflon examples of negative and positive thinking and then your struggle over your own voice. I love your voice and have used it as a means to help me work towards improving my speech. Thank you so much for being you and for having these episodes! Also, Bianca, you rock!

[@adrii1628]

Love watching your podcast ❤❤❤ Amen 😇🦋🌺🙏🕊

[@daniellekramer93]

Pray during the podcast. I agree with the person who asked that question.

[@TwoStory.Studio]

I’ve always loved by two mantras ‘comparison is the thief of joy’ and ‘attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference’. ❤

[@faithhopeandlove1219]

This episode was like a hug from Jesus. Thank you both for this with the Lords help!

[@tercia113]

Been feeling like I'm being punished..Why is my daughter sick? Why can't she just have a normal life?...Why me? I cried so much this week. Comparing my life with others and thinking their family is blessed and mine is being punished...😢 I'm struggling to pray, I'm angry with God

[@jessicaking-staino3019]

Also.... your hair looks great! Your colorist has talent 👏 🙌!

[@amytoon1815]

Thank you for this episode I can definitely relate. I am grateful for Gods grace and family.

[@kathystammen8774]

I adore you two. But I have to slow it down because she talks toooooooooo fast. You are both beautiful inside and out ❤❤❤❤

[@tracibell2693]

I am absolutely thankful for the small town I live in Indiana! It is so amazing to me that God saw me 25 years ago and brought the Gospel to my doorstep by way of two other teens(at the time)

[@thisisbeasuarez9123]

I knew of Jasmine Star but oh my God Bianca!! YOU ARE AMAZING!!! Soooo excited to get to "know" you and what an honor to learn from you!

[@GenXfrom75]

I feel like that about my dad, too. He's also 73 and just celebrated 31 years of sobriety. And survived throat cancer AND Guillain Barre Syndrome, which left him paralyzed for months. Through ALL those struggles, he never relapsed (it took 7 tries to STAY sober,) and he continued to trust in God. ❤✝️🙏

[@empea3837]

Wow! What an amazing witness of trust in God. Prayed a prayer for continued health and sobriety for your dad. Thank you for sharing!

[@April.King11]

I am so thankful for this podcast and thankful for ur vulnerability, Candace! This season has been a blessing to me!!

[@authorsavannahhendricks]

Great episode! So needed these words!

[@scottasbell1677]

Amazing word from the story of Jacob and Esau

[@pattistuber8018]

Thank you once again for these encouraging podcasts with Bianca and that both of you are willing to be transparent so we listeners and viewers can relate. God is glorified more than we know. His light and healing power is being released. Things said come back to me when I feel like just staying home. I thought of a different way to still proceed forth. Later I realized that was a " pivet"

[@mt1885]

Hey girl- This was oh so good!😀😉 God has created each one of us for a reason. We need to trust and obey🥰

[@trishagatch596]

Thank you for all your encouragement. I feel like y’all are family! In our family, if someone grumbles about something or says something negative, we replace that with three things we are thankful for that relate to that specific grumble. It totally changes our perspective and attitude. I love it!

[@beechannel27]

Such a good and timely episode! 😊❤

[@maisg3513]

I am celebrating that my 7 month old slept through the night last night and she actually napped long enough for me to finally wash my hair!!! (Also crying that this is now my achievement!) 🤣

[@deborahfetene5641]

❤❤ love this!! Watching from Ethiopia🎉🎉

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

And my ex husbands endless comparison/endless competition issues are linked in with his mental Illness. And the only person who can heal him. And His family are God/Jesus Christ. And I praise God for absolute permanent divorce/no reconciliation ever ever ever ever ever ever!!!!!And if God/Jesus aren’t going to heal them because that’s not their plan then Gods favor is enough for them:) and that’s what they need to hear today as they prepare for their afternoon. And I also Praise God for my Singleness 100% :):):):) it’s an amazing amazing gift from God/Jesus to me:)And I’m forever grateful to them always:)@Candace Cameron Bure

[@Rosesandchocolates7777]

I think it is not how many followers they got, not about the quantity of fans but rather the quality of the fans . You have fewer fans cause you are doing something right : You are a woman of faith,you dont undress to impress,you chose family centered movies...

[@tanithjohnson2802]

Heya Candace Bianca I love your podcasts I've been very angry and messed up good thing now i have help with seeing Psychologists Coming out of Covid and the Polliticised the world has become. Please may I ask can you pray for me

[@hey_brea]

Hi, i would like some prayer for my eyes and my mom she has vreast cancer and the state of my family

[@vofafa2005]

Um Natal de mudanças , filme muito lindo onde Candace fez 2 personagens !!! Que filme lindo ❤❤❤❤❤!!!!

[@vofafa2005]

Aqui no Brasil veio título como Um Natal de mudanças querida 😊 .

[@thethriftycab5834]

Thank you both for this podcast today❤❤

[@angelburkholder3843]

I relate to the body comparison, yet the complete opposite...I was an ever so tall bean pole....and desired a more curvy short body as a teen. Funny how we think we want what we're not. As an adult I am comfortable in my own skin.

[@maisg3513]

I struggle with this too! I have 4 sisters and we all have different body types and the comparison can be sooooo tough!

[@amytoon1815]

This episode is so beautiful to hear. I can relate to this. However I decided that it wasn't worth it to compare. God has blessed me abundantly.

[@hannitabeautysison]

Yessss👏🏽👏🏽 thanks so much for this!

[@sherrylee1072]

Thank you both sooo good. God bless

[@vofafa2005]

Sempre preciosas lições ❤❤❤❤!!!!

[@HannahThompson]

I love this!

[@sherrylee1072]

I’m a twin, I have Aways LOVED being a twin. Always wanted to have twins, but God didn’t bless me with them. My twin and I are super close.

[@teresahunte1205]

I'm always grateful for everything God has done for me, in good seasons & rough seasons of my life! Just recently my friend told me to look back at where my family was a year ago & where we are now. Last year we were homeless & struggling, but now we have a home & God has blessed us in so many ways! So I praise & thank Him for seeing us through this!

[@CynthiaRaeC]

Thanks, as always, for a great podcast!

[@jolene555]

Great great episode!!!!

[@jessicaramos2804]

❤❤❤

[@456monaliza]

Blessing to you both and God's favor in all you do.

[@gloiraingle136]

She a pastor did I hear right? Does she preach to men?

[@angelita9572]

Yes, comparison kills...and the only one that is really hurting is you❤️‍🩹

[@amytoon1815]

I agree it's so easy to think about what you want to be but then you realize that being yourself was enough. I can honestly say that I am blessed and grateful for the wonderful life God has given me. I wouldn't want it any other way. Sure ups and downs are apart of life but we learn and grow from that.