Competing with Your Ex’s Partner? Nene Leakes Says She Competes with No One

[@kimpatterson852]

"I don't care about that bitch" I DIED 😭😭🤣💀☠

[@sherenay3109]

Me too.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sotica1324]

Me too😂😂😂

[@Prosper927]

Me too 🤣😂

[@Pampy93]

Loni spend too much time with baby Jay 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jazzyj904]

I laughed so hard when Garcelle told Nene that her response was “healthy” 😂 because I’m listening to Nene like MMMMM. Yes… very mature.

[@rosalongbottom761]

Adrienne definitely competes with her partners exes. She’s also said it before on the show.

[@Elaaaaa2001]

Exactly why is she lying😂

[@melissalitus8879]

Yep she did. Maybe she outgrew that mentality

[@ChellesShell]

She said she didn't want to compete but that she is very aware and would like to be better than the ex..which in my mind means she does compete🤣

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Adrienne was a mistress. She will always be in competition.

[@VolumePerfection]

@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 I-

[@rainbowglazednights]

The way Adrienne said "PREACH" LMFAO. Okay, Mrs. Houghton. We know you're talking about Israel.

[@dawncullen0214]

Or herself 🤣 Why yall expect her to keep addressing rumors & gossip

[@DreamsAreForWeaving]

And Garcelle's response in reference to her ex husband? lol

[@jakenyajones7268]

The Way I Cringed. . . 😬😬😬

[@jakenyajones7268]

@@DreamsAreForWeaving she was telling THE REAL

[@BigbossBonita]

When Adrienne say she was a cheater, she has said on the show, it was with her boyfriend in high school before Rob Kardashian. Girl your husband was a cheater in a MARRIAGE. He was grown grown and cheated on HIS WIFE not his girlfriend when he was 21. Stop trying to justify

[@yf8350]

Omg right ! Literally said the saMe exact thing

[@dtrn254]

Wait, I'm not sure what these comments about Israel mean.. Did Israel cheat in his past or on Adrienne? 🤔

[@MaishaOnTop]

@@dtrn254 He cheated on his ex-wife and had two children. Years later he got with Adrienne.

[@dtrn254]

@@MaishaOnTop Really? Israel had two kids outside his marriage? Never heard this before.

[@britbritnicole]

I agree, with NeNe and Adrienne. I don’t judge who they were especially if they’ve changed and learned from their past. Because that’s part of maturing and growing.

[@njc7224]

If you are dating or meeting someone new shouldn't the only question be how are we going to make this work, what do you like and don't like.

[@njc7224]

People bring out differnt things in differnt people.

[@knl5330]

SAY IT NENE!!! Just because you and I have dated the same man doesn't mean you and I have dated the same man....because people do change

[@QueenLwiththecrown]

It's not just that people change, it's also the fact people act different in different relationships. And that goes even for a child itself, you could take a misbehaving child over the right person house and they will behave according to the way they're expected to act in their home versus someone else's home that will allow the foolishness. It's all about what will you accept and tolerate.

[@justafanfave228]

It depends. I am taking no chances with abuse.

[@TonyBVideos]

Loni’s giving “let’s test Nene’s ‘turned a new leaf” vibes 😂 love Nene on the show

[@drtash21]

"I don't care about that bitch!!" Loni Love, 2022

[@aishaturner5419]

Yeessss 😂😂

[@ClaryPamela]

Goes to show she does care.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Compete with who ? Cuz I ain’t competing with nobody for nobody 😂! The only competition I have at the end of the day is with myself… anybody else is a figment of my imagination… I’m Like Stevie Wonder & Ray Charles “ I don’t see you “ 😎!

[@melissalitus8879]

Factual we don't see each other at all 💯

[@griselp677]

😂😆

[@mirandatwumasi]

Period😹😹😹😹😹

[@ClaudiaMabry]

LOL LOL LOL

[@MelissaMNaturealiztabeauty]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😫

[@thanosave7112]

“CLOSE YOUR LEGS TO MARRIED MEN” Ms. Nene Leakes.

[@nellymathipa1337]

Talk is cheap!! Bammmmm

[@njc7224]

These woman are real grown woman like this discussion .

[@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman]

I agree with Adrienne. What helps me give people grace is remembering how I used to be. I was terrible in my 20’s 🤦🏾‍♀️ lol but today I am a completely different person. And because of that, I know it’s possible to do a complete 180. Also, I think it does matter if you know the ex left him. Two guys that I’ve dated who were left by their exes were still hung up on them. I have learned that men seem to take longer to get over relationships than we do. So for me, I never want to date a man again who was left by their ex lol… unless its been yearssss and he’s absolutely sure he’s over her

[@madridista703usa3]

You’re a little bit more damaged does a man want that

[@dlo3955]

I agree! I dated and a guy and things were great but then all of a sudden when we would get into an argument he would call her I found out later or he would try to compare me to her by saying I exhibit the same traits which showed me it clearly is him with the issues. So I don't advise anyone to date a man who's ex left them unless he is truly far removed from the situation.

[@agathachris9722]

It really does help to look back at yourself. I'm not a perfect person, why would I expect them to perfect.

[@24pixiegirl]

Interesting!! I wonder if the exes left because of the boyfriend, or the exes left the boyfriend for someone else…

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

Don't date a Man who was Dumped. They NEVER heal. Talking from experience.

[@Loganne92]

There’s no competition when it comes to messing with Nene! BAM! Yes ma’am! That’s right!

[@melissalitus8879]

Energy all 2022! No competition messing with me

[@Simplykiebby]

TOOT TOOT BOOP BOOP BAM 😂

[@Desi-zz4gb]

Compete?? Lmao what that ex got to do with me 😂

[@meaganbianca2978]

This topic triggered me because I had a friend who I found out through mutual friends was “competing” with me. Ladies there’s no competition. Hope for the best for everyone. Lol I love how Garcelle doesn’t have to talk a lot about it but she makes it clear her opinion.

[@michelleh.3326]

Yooo this segment was hilarious! Y’all gotta have Nene on more! 😂🤣 between her and Loni I was weak

[@richuncle-o]

I'm loving Nene's perspective on this!

[@osenifabua1912]

Adrienne always talking about her cheating in the past just to defend her husband…

[@yf8350]

Always

[@dtrn254]

Defend her husband? Israel cheated on Adrienne?

[@stxrstrxckmxteo515]

@@dtrn254 I think he cheated on someone else before her

[@dtrn254]

@@stxrstrxckmxteo515 oooh ok. Thx so much 👍...

[@bathroomdiaries5393]

right lolol

[@kayla435]

I agree with Nene and Adrienne, I love the input they both have, very wise !! Nene's a great add to this show

[@deethomas417]

Competition??? Absolutely 💯 not!!! Y'all can have that. F all of that. I'm good. Let me fix my 👑.

[@shmooboogieharper748]

I’ve learned my lesson from past relationships and don’t ask anything about the ex. Not even how they ended,because then depending on what his answer is I overthink the whole situation in my head,it’s better off if I’m kept in the dark. His past relationship wasn’t mine with him and if he’s a shitty guy I’d rather trust my own gut and find out that way instead of constantly using his past relationships as a clues

[@camirowe6139]

Asking has upsides, what if the relationship ended because he had hit her...

[@melissalitus8879]

I want to know about certain things but not everything if that makes sense 💯 I don't want him to keep me in the dark about past situations cause I'd feel hurt if I found out some tea 🤔

[@shmooboogieharper748]

@@camirowe6139 he’s not going to say that though! That’s where your own intuition comes in,pick up on subtleties,stay on your toes in the beginning and allow yourself to look at the guy objectively,sometimes you don’t even need to bring up the ex they will do all the talking,I could tell the kinda guy a dude I went on a date was just by the way he randomly referred to his ex as a dirty whore. Red flags for me.

[@shmooboogieharper748]

@@melissalitus8879 oh for sure! I think it truly just depends on knowing yourself and what’s gonna benefit you knowing and what will only just make you insecure and second guess yourself,him or the relationship as a whole,me personally I did spend 4 years of my life in a previous relationship with a toxic man who’s ex I was constantly competing with,I knew more about their past relationship than I did about my own with him! It was very unhealthy and not a good time in my life,since then I realize it’s best for my state of mind if I don’t even let myself get tangled up in that web.

[@melissalitus8879]

@@shmooboogieharper748 wow that's crazy. I am glad you are in a better position now and you are not dealing with that toxicity. I hate when dudes do that smh it takes away from our relationship when he constantly brings up his ex and their experiences.. I noticed in the beginning if a dude is truly over his ex or not, their actions will be loud and clear lol

[@ChellesShell]

I would hate to be in a relationship that I always felt I had to defend..or be with a man that I had to always speak out about...every cheating topic A has to say the same exact thing just to defend her marriage and her husband.

[@krissy9128]

Israel has a bit of a messy past. A failed marriage and 6 children (2 when he stepped out on the marriage).Also he was with his ex-wife for so long and it still ended. I think him already having so many kids and why the marriage ended maybe bothering Adrienne just a tad bit because she's having issues getting pregnant and of course, fear of infidelity. But also thinking will it truly last and if she's (ex) better. All this history definitely brings these things to her mind every now and then I'm sure... But I'm glad she seems to be happily married for now (hopefully forever) and just living freely!

[@naomeraphasha1494]

You said 2 what 😦 !?! Thats not a bit messy, its a WHOLE mess 🤣

[@lastinghappiness3977]

@@naomeraphasha1494 yes!! I just found this out 2 days ago too. He admitted to cheating when it came out he wasn’t paying child support 😬

[@2sense110]

You guys are the best that's what made this show so good. They bare their souls. They put everything out there. Some more than others

[@babygirl4949]

I’m sure not having kids yet makes her feel inferior but girl you trying to have kids with this man and his old ass sperm, not surprised you’re having a hard time!

[@SantiaLingamTheAwesomeCreature]

my mind immediately went to a time where adrienne admitted to forcing herself to have sex with him every morning until it became rlly tiring at some point :(

[@griselp677]

I love Loni❤️ She is so funny and she makes the show fun to watch! Her personality is awesome!! She’s one of my favorite.

[@ismahanm1118]

I love her too! She can be serious if need be but I also love that she's playful and laid back!

[@jestiny]

When Loni said "Ion care about that bitch" 😂😂

[@leesajoy3234]

Adrienne is worried that man is gonna cheat on her…SHE IS ALWAYSSSS TALKING ABOUT IT.

[@missmack2328]

m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWa5goCrn8yJlck Stop at 4 minutes. Adrienne needs to compete with his ex soo bad

[@LockedInNOW]

I am with Garcelle , am the new one …. So why would I be thinking of the EX ?!

[@Ari-hn7gd]

I really like this format. They don’t even need an audience.

[@EmorettaRobinson]

Adrienne is right since we all (really should be) continually learning in life whether from our mistakes or in general. That means we've grown as a person. Who we used to be and who we are isn't the same person. There are many things that I've said and done in the past that I would never say or do today. People can change in time and it is the result of growth.

[@maddieperks4427]

I agree with loni. Who gives af about the ex ? Shes in the past. Im not about to hate on a girl just because shes the ex of my current man.

[@davionrooplal]

Garcelle’s shady comments kill me every time 🤣🤣🤣

[@Bribgaming]

"I don't care about that b***h". 😂

[@missmack2328]

We all know adrienne competes with IS real. She said b4 that she wanted to know whether or not his ex was “wack” and to “hype her up with hes at it” and stroke each others ego

[@kaki_karei]

Ad HAS to believe that people change.

[@heatherlynsey3092]

If he is making her feel like there’s any type of competition, then there’s no point in keeping it going. It’s normal to compare but you don’t ever wanna bring that energy or those questions into y’all’s relationship.

[@stevekima8881]

Loni seems so over Nene and her antics. 🤣. Like she keeps calling her out but in a light hearted funny way but she definitely calls her out even in other clips.

[@thanosave7112]

They never touched the topic of why is nene involved with a married man .If you don’t speak out against wrong you are for it .I was married . Things did not work out and he began to see other women while we were married . It really hurt me even though we were in the process . Starting a relationship with a man who is STILL MARRIED IS WRONG ! I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR ANYONE THAT DOES THIS OR SUPPORTS IT . Good afternoon.

[@a.m6523]

So by your comment it sounds like you’re saying you and your husband were separated and in the process of a divorce. You felt some type of way when he quickly moved on without waiting until the divorce was finalized. I can understand how you feel. The harsh reality is that there is no time frame of how long the divorce process can take and people don’t want to wait until the divorce is finalized before they can start a new relationship.

[@canadamonroe6229]

If you were already in the legal process of divorcing, what’s the problem? The papers had already been filed…

[@melmel7011]

@@canadamonroe6229 Looks like she didn't want the divorce, maybe its the partner that wanted the divorce. She was still in love

[@FriendshipIsMagic1998]

If they are married on paper, but already have one foot out of the door I don't see the issue. He's clearly done with his marriage as was your husband. Just because the wife hasn't moved on doesn't mean the husband can't see other people. And vice versa.

[@HadassahNaomiC]

I think everyone competes with their partner’s ex in their head up to a certain point in the relationship.

[@cherisselambert3774]

No i have never thought about it, in any way. Like because i don't know the person at all. For whatever reason my partner left their ex for...I find to be a waste of time to compete with someone who likely doesn't even know you entirely. Its like a sign of some kind of sick insecurity.. i would hate to think my ex's new girlfriends were competeing with me. They'd be wasting valuable time.

[@njc7224]

The only conversation should be How are we going to make this work , what things don't you like and what do you like. In this relationship.

[@marcellacollins4697]

Some ex might not wanna talk talk to you find out on your own when you dealing with him

[@sunrae7680]

Nene, yesss. Mature answer.

[@Everything_Ju]

Garcelle is giving Black Moira Schitt today and I love it lol

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

When I make the mental decision to move on that's exactly what I'm doing no hesitation

[@cece1907]

Well if your significant other keeps bringing them up or comparing the new girl to an ex then it ruins the girls self esteem over time. I HAD a friend like this. I say HAD because it led her to seeing everyone who is somewhat attractive as a threat. She dodged bullets all day every day lol how sad. I no longer feel sorry for her after the way she ditched me without conversation over HER insecurity.

[@shaudajohnson4356]

Loni’s face🤣🤣🤣

[@ione97]

would LOVE to see nene on this show permanately! not as a replacement for jeannie though, she can come back too 😂

[@miekaxiii]

Loni was too funny in this one 🤣 she said idgaf about that b* .. I didn’t even know they could swear on this show 😂

[@DatVideoDoe]

Shouldn’t the title be “Partner’s Ex” instead of “Ex’s Partner” ?

[@cameronanb]

Yeah. Cause they’re talking about their current partner’s ex, whereas the title says they’re talking about their Ex’s partner.

[@MEGIDIOT]

Adrienne is so insightful here.

[@justafanfave228]

I remember when Miss.A was competing with Israel’s ex wife.

[@njc7224]

I like what Gracelle says, the first thing she says .

[@trendalecharon7021]

Of course addriann who wanna talk to the girl that got away so they can "bond"

[@jo-pj3rf]

Nah I strongly disagree. With what nene leaked said. Most importantly is the time. Men can change if they done the healing or realized what they done butttttt it’s also how long they just got out of a relationship on to the next….

[@2sense110]

Well said. Men don't play around. Their urges are stronger than that of a woman so as soon as one relationship ends they're looking for another one and if he was the one to mess up the last relationship believe me he has not changed in such a short time. And this statement is coming from a man

[@shaystar5008]

I love how Adrienne said that her husband is not getting the same version if her that her exes got. Very insightful. I never thought about that before, but it’s true

[@missmack2328]

She slick saying hes not gonna cheat on her like he did his ex but used herself as an example instead to be slick💀

[@yenitaylor683]

I love when Garcelle wears a tie 😍

[@SerferTJ]

She really does rock menswear so well. Just a gorgeous woman!

[@queenjj201]

Nene can't speak on this subject. Her man is still married. Question should be, should you date a man if he's not completely divorced yet?

[@michaeltrayshawn]

You are a hater

[@desjennings1325]

Cmon NeNe! She fits in so well! Love this❤️

[@Angela-cd9bj]

NeNe sounds that she is maturing that’s a Good Wow!

[@sesimakoya]

I hope a channel offers Nene the right money and they give her a show 😹😹😭 this woman has given us amazing content ever since she’s been on our TV chileeee! 🤣 I miss her so much on TV!

[@ChellesShell]

My husband stayed with his ex even though she was cheating on him. She ended up leaving him for another man..it didn't work out and then she wanted him back but he didn't wanna go through that again..so all men don't want the ex back who left them.

[@Onlyabbymm]

I would like to see nene on the real as a co-host

[@indianahoosier6367]

NeNe would be a great addition to the show.

[@missea0704]

Adrienne, you do not have to ask about your husband because his reason was all in the news. He is a cheater so there are no need for questions. Your husband past and having a child outside his relationship should have been a done deal to his original wife and to you as a woman. A man of faith (yea right). He is a complete joke. Adultery is a sin.

[@solomona85]

I have never ever competed with a partner's ex, I don't know that person.

[@vivisnotes]

Future can't compete with Russell Wilson. Financially 👈🏼, physically 👈🏼, mentally 👌🏼, emotionally. Ciara won! 🙌🏼

[@thericashow6797]

STORY TIME: I really enjoyed the segment and touched on a lot of topics first, my child's father's girlfriend was in competition with me the first seven years of their relationship and a big part of that I honestly feel was his fault because I was the one who left the relationship and he constantly compared us which kind of put a bad taste in both of our mouths for each other. However she had her own victiv ways where she felt that entitlement that because she was dating my child's father she can talk crazy and act how she wants because she felt like the joke was on me because she is with my child's father. But the joke was really on her LOL because I LEFT him because he lack motivation and ambition and he is a cheater, she soon found that out the hard way and chose to stay. now they live happily ever after and their dysfunctional relationship, I however moved on and I got to grow from the person I was and now I can treat my husband the way he deserves to be treated, he can treat me the way I deserve to be treated! Children need to see healthy love, even if it's not with their father. It was my father's job to treat me like a princess but it was my man's job to treat me like the true queen I am. Don't sleep on love ladies it's a lesson and everything and please don't be in competition with something you chose to leave behind! Anyone that has an issue with you that's their personal issue, mind your business.💪🏽💋

[@thanosave7112]

Why is no one calling her out on this married man . The world 🌎 is changing for the worse. In my day , we would call people out for bad behavior!

[@lionsbaker7927]

Because it’s not true only small KZbinrs are reporting on it. The top internet blogs haven’t even reported on it , which is a giveaway that is not true.

[@thembsy8618]

Nene please stay, I love how comfortable you are here

[@njc7224]

I like Gracelle for real what she said. When she's says it don't really matter to her.

[@lesliebarber206]

Sounds like a question about Porsha 😂😂

[@vanessamillwood9710]

2:32 - Nene spitting some "Same Script, Different Cast" - "He's changed and I'll prove you wrong, so go away, leave us the hell alone! He loves me (he'll hurt you), he'll stay with me (he'll leave you) for surrrrree, for surrrrrrreeee" 😂😂 I'm just giving trouble. When she said that, I just heard the song start to play in my head. 😂

[@wendywendy6771]

Agree with Nene

[@Ronsayy]

Compete with no one!!!

[@thanosave7112]

Being a host/ cohost on these shows is very difficult. You can say or share one wrong opinion you may have and you are let go from the job .

[@doris_okk]

Keep Nene foreverrrrr!!!! She’s so entertaining.

[@cynthiamyles6179]

if there's no compitition then why did nene take greg from his wife and the same with Nioni (whatever his name is) especially when she said "keep yo legs closed to married men."

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

You may ask questions but it doesn't mean you're competing because you're around for a reason

[@Jaquay10]

In my Tam Tam voice “Lonniiiiiiiii”. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mikelast3146]

Nene is pretty good has a host

[@Planet-Everything]

Did anyone else here “cheetah forever” @3:37? Crying. CHEETAH GURLZ CHEETAH SISTAHS

[@ascendedprincess]

NeNe needs to be a fulltime cohost!

[@NeverLetLoveGo]

Nah she’s better than that.

[@blueman18423]

Loni has been taking digs at Nene the whole episode. Wondering why Nene didn’t clock that

[@nenala7684]

Nene this wig is a LOOK!

[@sierraparker8374]

Garcelle's wigs could be so much better!!!! It pains me

[@vividbinauralbeats2254]

Facts

[@kariahpierre1679]

I know. I love Garcelle a lot but I do believe that she needs better wigs. It looks so fake and cheap. She needs to get the lace front wigs at least.

[@tylerhandsome7344]

I think it’s the real’s styling department because her hair on her Instagram when she’s not on set be on point

[@rags2richez398]

I've never went beyond knowing who the previous woman was, thats it, but childdddd every ex girlfriend went in trying to find out everything you could possibly know about me, and i styled for the more🤣🤣🤣

[@icandytv4169]

I Agree With Adrienne & Nene

[@quentinjones6877]

I don't see the reason of knowing why the person and the ex broke up matters when they're not together anymore but then again I've never been in a relationship so I guess it matters to some people

[@ChellesShell]

I never cared about my exes exes..but when I met my husband I wanted to know about him and his ex wife. I did ask questions and he was very honest with me. I appreciated that but we don't continously talk about it..we are happily married

[@quentinjones6877]

@@ChellesShell that's good, I hope you and your husband continue to have a great marriage

[@meeky0420]

Loni lost some shimmer when Nene came on… Her role is kinda different now, and you can tell by the way she is sitting. Loni baby! Chime in more! Don’t let her intimidate you.

[@njc7224]

3 18 Adrienne so real you learn and be better you learn ur from past flaws.

[@ms.moniquebrown6754]

Good ending points Adrienne.

[@babygirl4949]

Oh Adrienne girl we get it. Your husband not a cheater no more. Even though he had two children on his ex wife, he “changed”. Who you trying to convince, us or you? Comparing you cheating on a childhood bf is very different than what your husband did and you know that. We don’t believe you. That’s why you don’t ever wanna tell him no to sex. Bc he told you that’s why he cheated on his ex wife so you don’t want that to happen to you. We see all right through y’all. Not saying ppl can’t change but let’s stop acting like you’re not insecure about your husband’s past bc you bring it up all the damn time!

[@kit2564]

I STILL DONT UNDERSTAND HOW NENE GETS ANY JOB! I NEVER NOTICED HOW MUCH SURGERY SHES HAD!

[@Thatcunt_logan]

Can Nene just be a permanent co-host make the team 5 again

[@fsjafsja508]

Loni is hilarious!!! 😂❤️

[@vonshayjohnson24]

I love NeNe on her!!! I hope she stays as one of the host permanently.

[@wadhaa5045]

Loni vibe the whole show with nene is not it she is being messy or shady for no reason and I love loni but I’m starting to believe Tamar especially after Adriane talked about she is the last to anything when it come to work related issue in the show and loni usually get the news first instead of sending any updates to all co-host equally

[@millermiller9258]

I get so giddy when I see NENE 🥰 love her