Consequences of Emotional dependence | Sahil Adeem | Ask Sahil

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[@faizashireen5]

Amazing! It’s absolutely true that you can’t imagine ke Allah ki madad kab aur kaise aati hai. One of Pakistani coach I spoke to have advised me that you can’t leave abusive marriage without your father and brother support, you must stay with your husband. But I didn’t listen to him and completely rely on Allah swt and how Allah supports me with money and other resources, I couldn’t even imagine about it

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

idiots not intelligent people says about : that you can’t leave abusive marriage without your father and brother support, you must stay with your husband..........😄 only unintelligent people can listen to them not intelligent people ..........

[@amashtahir7992]

I appreciate that sis,I m in same phase but my mother doesn't agree to leave that man and she said me a women good shouldn't have two husband in her life if any women had then she is corrupt and also said if you do so I will not have any relationship with you,the thing I m scared of is her health if I could do opposite to what she want then if she took that to her heart and be ill then what would I do bcz my father is not alive I have just her as a parent and if something happens to her then

[@beautifullioness5309]

Which coach you took advice.. because mei NY b li thi aik coach se. He said same

[@technocamon6665]

@@amashtahir7992 Allah ap k lia asani aur afiat kauamla fermye. But you too emotionally dependent on your mom. Allah ap ki mother ko sehat aur salamti ata fermye. But parents hamesha tu nhi rehte. Allah ki zaat he jo ap k sath he . Aur hamesha sath rhne wala bhi Allah he.

[@bintehawwa.]

Allah ka bnaya huwa nizaam hai aurat ko mehram rishta chahiye This is ultimate fact Koi exceptional case ho tu alag baat hai

[@seemanazir]

Emotional dependence on Allah is theeeee best part of this lecture...

[@roshaankhan9310]

exactly aisi hi baat hay k maa baap k ghron mein b sakun nhi hota lerkion k liay. to wo samjhti han k yahan sey kisi trah niklain

[@olfruits]

Same issue I am totally dependent on my Husband emotionally and get depressed when ever he just push me off with any of His act, I go through an emotional episode again and again but this time I tried to catch my ultimate source of Help, Allah and Namaz. Allah help me.

[@bekind913]

Pray to Allah for every problem. Make Him the main focus. In sha Allah will solve all your problems for you.

[@sanji546]

But we are emotional creature it is man’s duty to nurture it

[@areejkhan9056]

Going through same..but this time its only Allah swt..he wantscme come near him..

[@humaibrahim5210]

Sabeen me too

[@humaibrahim5210]

Going through emotional roller coaster due to dependence on bipolar spouse

[@stranger6652]

It's a duty of all mother's to educate their daughters about their rights .

[@EnSabahNur-ir5mw]

lav🍌 da education. beta tujhe abhi Insan ki Nafisyat ki alif bey bhi nahi pata. Tujhe lagta hai baiten Chuuudne se koi insan apne andar change la sakta hai... you are such an ignorant person

[@Aaobaatkrain]

خالی ماں کچھ نہیں کر سکتی اکثریت کے سامنے

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

What are the consequences of being too emotional? Additionally, feeling overly emotional can be exhausting and unpleasant. Some people may feel out of control because of intense anger or anxiety. Some symptoms that a person might notice due to high emotions include: difficulty sleeping. What are the effects of being dependent on someone? Someone with dependent personality disorder may have several symptoms, including: Avoidance of personal responsibility. Difficulty being alone. Fear of abandonment and a sense of helplessness when relationships end. What are signs of emotional dependency? Some Symptoms of Emotional Dependency The constant need to be close to other people. Constant insecurity. A feeling of not being good enough to be with the partner. Obsessive fear of losing their partner. Constant feeling of guilt if they don't pay total attention to their partner. What are the causes of emotional dependence? Those with emotional dependency are usually people with low self-esteem, many insecurities and little self-confidence. Also, there are contributing elements from their experiences of relationships and the references that they've had throughout life. How can I stop being emotionally dependent? Ask yourself what kind of life you want to live. Don't confuse fulfillment with getting lots of attention from the person you're emotionally dependent on. Think about what would make you happy even if they weren't in your life. Create and pursue your own goals, rather than trying to meet other people's expectations. What is emotionally independent? Emotional independence is a type of inner resilience that lets you know you can meet, solve, and be with any circumstance you face. It means building your sense of self on your own, without depending on others to make you happy or tell you who you should be. Can you be emotionally attached to someone? You can become emotionally attached to people even without romantic or sexual attraction. Simply feeling close to someone helps you bond and increases your sense of connection. This attachment might help you feel safe, comfortable, happy, maybe even somewhat euphoric in their company. How do I stop being emotionally dependent on parents? Then check out the tips below for ways to rely a bit less on your parents, and become a more independent adult. Don't Pick Up The Phone. ... Give Yourself Some Space. ... Hustle For More $$$ ... Set Up A Loan System. ... Learn How To Rein In Your Emotions. ... Make Lots Of Mistakes. ... Surround Yourself With Other Independent People. How do you become emotionally independent? 5 Steps to Achieve Emotional Independence Stop blaming others for your unhappiness. Emotional independence begins with personal responsibility. ... Know how your brain works (and rewire it) ... Discover your character strengths. ... Accept the harsh truths of life. ... Cultivate gratitude. What are the causes of emotional dependence? Those with emotional dependency are usually people with low self-esteem, many insecurities and little self-confidence. Also, there are contributing elements from their experiences of relationships and the references that they've had throughout life.

[@zaibunnisasarwar7385]

Jzk khair for Sharing.💮🙌

[@samiaarif8294]

Absolutely right 💯😔😔😔 Hum ny hamsha suna k ek kameyab mard k pechy ek urat ka hath hota pr believe me asal may ek kameyab urat k pechy ek mard hota hy jo k us ka baap bhai r khawand hota hy..r agr ye mard he urat k sath sahi na hon sath na dain r urat ko degrade karain tb larkiyan wo ghalti kar bethti hain jes ka sir ap zikar kar rahy thy video k shoro may to plz sir ap mardo k leya b kuch bolain k plz apny ghr ke uraton ke ezat karain appreciate karain ta k us ko kesi ghalat mard ke tareef ke zarorat he na rahy

[@natureandyou5149]

Exactly happening with me..mere husband ney muje mentally sick bana diya...Ghar ma qaid kar Liya....jab maa KY ghr Jao te bachy nhi jaengy tumhry Saath chahye wo 10 din ka bacha hi q na ho ..or muje yahi kehta Hy..KY Tum NY Meri jaiz najaiz har BAAT manni Hy q KY may superior hon ......he is jilaad...mery Dil Sy baduaye nikalti us KY lie..

[@Hashivirk]

😢😢😢

[@rimshafarhan8493]

Great, agar ham aurten is BAAT KO smjh Len to Rona hi kis BAAT Ka hai,aurat mard pe depend krti hai emotionally b or financially b, Allah pe bharosa nai krti, or iska result ye hai k hmarey muashrey Mai aurat hi aurat k Saath na I Safi krti hai q k wo insecure ho jati hai, kahin maa k roop Mai , kahin BV k roop Mai or kahin Behan k roop Mai q k SB ko mard hi ki tawajjo chahye Hoti hai k isk bagher hmara guzara nai hai or is chakar Mai auraten 1 dusrey k Saath nainsafi Ker jati Hain, maa KO Lagta hai bahu baitey KO cheen le gi, BV KO Lagta hai SAAS Usk shoher KO cheen le gi, Behan KO Lagta hai Bhai bhabi KO baton Mai aajaye ga or usko nai poochey ga, or is khancha tani 1 dusrey per zulm krti Hain, q k bharosa Allah pr nai hota emotional attachment Allah se nai Hoti, umeeden Allah ki bijaye Usk bandey se lgai Hoti Hain.

[@mukhanum]

Sir, There are very few girls that are lucky enough to pick a man for herself. It is her parents who choose for her

[@olfruits]

But they really tried to do best for them, and before marriage we should preach our girls to seek help of Allah to let her parents choose the best for her through Namaz, Istekhara do it on your own, the girls themselves.

[@shahtruck7817]

If you think parents choosing a man for their daughters is bad luck then you need to think about your mindset

[@zeekeytrivia]

I’m extremely grateful that I’ve come across to this channel and this GENTLEMAN 💌💥 I was feeling lost since a year and I’ve cried the hell out of myself last night and I’m listening to him ever since the morning…maybe I needed this!

[@ayazmars]

This is Allah's help

[@mominaahmad27]

A very frequently occurring reality of our society!!! JazakaAllah sahil bhai for raising such awareness!

[@mindcare5261]

I have felt many times k main Allah ki hifazet Us ki made k hisaar mein hon

[@irfanasabah9337]

I appreciate it because it's true that most of women don't know about Islamic knowledge or Ahadees which have to be quoted by men .

[@muslimah.3556]

MA SHA ALLAH This lecture is precious. It should be dwelled in heart of every girl of this Ummah.

[@sadiachaudhry9698]

Well said : weak and ignorant mother is a main reason of her daughter's bad life . 😊

[@bushraehtram1097]

Point is man always agree to marry woman who looks pretty .he never ask for a average looking tan skin girl .so looks matter .trust me 99% unmarried females r having affairs now and 38% married at some level.woman need appreciation it's in her genes and man always use it .

[@sabaameen6053]

How amazing and exact words u hv used to explain the psychology... Sir I m big fan of urs.. JazakAllah for giving us the best knowledge about Islam and about this perspective of women psychology..

[@peacepeace4256]

I just depend on Allah. First I used to depend on my husband .He left me. Then I depend on my son .He is also like his father. Depend on people your heart will get pain.Depend on Allah he will never leave you alone.

[@maryamkkhan]

Subhan Allah I finally received the answer I had been looking for. JazakAllah hu khairann katheer ameen

[@ummeali4017]

Mashallah bht zaberdast 👍👍concept of dependence and liberty in the light of Eeman ❤

[@naveezfatima4410]

The best sentence Pari likhi mtlb Hadees or quran pra ho Ma shaa allah

[@mobeenakhan3630]

یہ ھے اک پڑھے لکھے انسان کا فلسفہ

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

more explanation : nah ke sirf andhi bani raho ... Hadeeso aur Quran ki baato se...... andha ban kr raho gi sirf apna hi noksaan kr rahi hoti hai sab se pehle nah ke kisi aur ka

[@raniaimtiaz1549]

I agree that Allahtala hi sab bachion ki hifazat ker raha he her jaga per werna her taraf darinday hen

[@ayeshasyeed5702]

Last words wt he said 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 it's like fire ....... So let's Allah take from us lots of deen work inshallah ameen

[@Akbarkhan-sx5to]

Sir great words,that aurt k kam allah khud kr raha hota hy,Allah kary hum sb aurtee is bat ko understand kareen,so proud to be a woman 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

[@healmindbodywithnabilapira1996]

Ye cycle chla jaa Raha hai

[@healmindbodywithnabilapira1996]

What do you think which task a woman should do independently. Any worldly desires

[@Akbarkhan-sx5to]

@@healmindbodywithnabilapira1996 i think a woman should do any thing,Allah k hadood main rahty huy but hum women ko wo hqooq dyty he nahee hain jo Allah ny diy hy ussy .

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

kisi aur se haqooq na mango lakin sirf ALLAH se haqooq bango chahe wo shohar hi kiun ho ....... warna ye kehta rahon ke shohar se haqqoq mango ALLAH se haqooq wo na mango .... 😄

[@lubnakanwel2519]

finally i received the answer i had been looking for.....👍jazak Allah o khair so much sahil sir

[@bookbuggy]

MashaAllah ... It was beyond my vision... It gave me confidence in myself. JazakAllah

[@naghmakaukab4914]

very true.Allah k madad aati h. Allah impossible ko possible bnata h.aor jb baat pori nhi hoti aor hm Allah sy zid krty hn tao after a few time We become aware k Allah ny hamen kitni bdi musibat sy bcha liya...hm tao zid kr rhy thy iss musibat ma koodny ki....shuker h Allah ka.

[@nahidnoor6421]

I am impressed with you content . You’re talking about real issues and addressing them well

[@k.hussain4395]

Just waaao.... What a lecture.... Jazak-allah khair Sir. Your words "Emotionally independence on Allah" left me speechless.... Have never heard this before. I feel like I want to cry.... Because that emotionally independence on other people has ruined me.... You just set me free 🙏.... May Allah bless you 🤲

[@sacred_grace]

What a masterpiece, MashaAllah,may you live long

[@mominaali2700]

Lagta hai tum aik aurat ho

[@newsupdate6773]

Young women can get messed up by social media and Hollywood from anywhere in world . Good report. Yes need training or self awareness to gain knowledge. Behaviour too influenced by social media sites. Main issue is self esteem and self respect and what young women experience today vastly different now .

[@khaulakhanum9589]

Great words.... I needed this dose, jazaakallah

[@CUBER.2248]

Me too the one who needed such great words

[@pkustravelvlog6118]

Sir your talks are mind blowing. We never thought on this perspective 😢

[@hayashoaib5062]

In this video ur way of talking is normal nd ur points penetrate in our soul deeply.....

[@alfataho6162]

That’s an amazing debate thank you so much sir that’s so informative for us generation

[@mussaratali7594]

"Well said". Really impressed. I wish you give your talks in just english so today's generation liveing abroad can benifits from your talks. Whatever the social disease first start from West and then spreads in our muslim countries.

[@humatahir6443]

First time I saw your video great video .

[@eshashamim4540]

Bhai Assalamualaikum kehna boht asan hota ha main ne Islamic studies main 1st position main master kia 15 sipara tk tafseer parhi sb janti hn lekin jis ke 3 betian ho jayen phr jaise bhe halat hn shohar jitna bhe zehni torcher kre phr aurat ko sirf nibhana hota ha phr na koi maika na susral sb ap ko bs sabar shukar se rehne ko bolte hn

[@dailyrecipeshealthandbeaut5423]

Exactly 💯 % apnay theek Kaha Meray husband b ASA hi kartay han but I have great knowledge of Quran and hades

[@nighatisrar3330]

اللہ تعالی ساحلِ سمندر کو اپنی حفاظت میں رکھے ۔۔ اور ہمیں ان کا مددگار بننے کی توفیق عطاء فرمائے ۔۔

[@Cinematic-p3t]

Where u r talking about the emotional dependency Yaa it is right I m feeling it with my life experience as much I m getting dependent only on Allah becoming less dependant on men like husband father brother ..I m feeling strength and a feeling of power with me all time.i care about my relationship but I m free mentally emotionally now.alhmdulillah

[@seemanazir]

V v nice n top level type of thinking... Infact insaan Ka maqsad e hayyat ye nhn tha ...Jo hum SA samjh liya

[@hayatafreen9961]

SahilAdeem Sahab uh were soo true when you said that Women have visible intervention ofاللّٰه سبحان و تعالیٰ اللّٰه ﷻ always helps us as I literally needed ur these precious notes at this current time. that really feels to be اِلٰہیہ مدد ✨

[@Explorewithaminausman736]

sir you think differently .....admirable

[@jaweriasheikh4232]

Bht bht bht sahi bola Hy ap ny.. or aisa e hota Hy ziada ter ouratain aisy e sochti Hain... Shadi sy phly b or bd m b..

[@Hasaal]

Allah pak sab ko haseen shaur ata farmay... Ameen

[@tayyabaasif1449]

Absolutely right 👍

[@kidsfreetimeactivities6677]

I am apologized for my previous comment hum insan hy hm se ghltia hojati hy hope ull ignore my previous comments qk hum kese ko bhtr ni janty hoty so frst time unko sun k aggressive hokr unky zaat ph bat kr lyty hy ...m listening you today in depth so i found u a great person...

[@afreenjawaid8233]

Bhut sahi baat hai 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 beta pr aurat kahi kahi pr bahut majboor hoti hai

[@truebeliever3948]

Sahi hai, khud QUR'AN aur hadith samajhna chahiey

[@humbleruman9497]

بلکل ایک ایک لفظ ٹھیک کہا آپ نے۔

[@roshaankhan9310]

wakayi maa to is dunia ki sbbbb sey khobsorat jazba hay... lekn society ney is ko kuchal kr rakh dia hay

[@SuperTayyabah]

Sahil bhai, intellectualism is not required by most of the men in our society. These creatures are only require the other thing you talked about.

[@hinnakhalid7622]

A mother is the most important entity who should be brought up and regarded as most precious especially during her child rearing and child raising years

[@SaadAziz318]

This is the root cause why women post their pictures on social media. They need validation from men. Tiktok is same. Nowadays even they have started making vlogs for validation. You have rightly pointed out the root cause of this disease in women.

[@blumoon3662]

Bilkol Sahi bola...mra b yhi case ha..Allah rehm kry

[@fatimaansari8695]

Bahut sahi.

[@SadiaAzizvlogs]

Marvellous bayan hay JzakALLAH ALLAH pak airat ko ye samajhnay ki tofiq ata farmaey

[@pixelsandbytesnexus]

Thank you !it is seriously need to look forward by every women that depends their selfs on Allah only

[@mrs.masroor4549]

SubhanAllah,aurat k sar pr Allah ka Right hand h, Allah aurat ki bht Help krta h,kiya bat kahi sahil sir, well done

[@sdwajih9317]

Very good sir you always come up with points no one thinks.

[@Enjoy-404]

He is really intellectual person by Allah .

[@sanji546]

This happened to me may Allah reward you

[@ummemubashir1777]

لاجواب ساحل بھائی۔زبردست گفتگو کی آپ نے

[@raniaimtiaz1549]

amazing I appreciate these kind of videos enlighten woman of today

[@roshaankhan9310]

exactly sahil sahib... ap ka aik aik word hakikat hay

[@afzal76548]

Love and respect for wise man

[@dhillonofficial2220]

Jazak Allah kher Sir

[@sananasir7987]

Great Great.bilkul Sahi .💯words.

[@sanji546]

What an amazing lecture

[@chillilover123]

100 percent true words

[@Dilawar_khan7]

خودی پہ لادا ہے بوجھ نفسانی٫ اغیار بت سکونت ایمانی ؛ ابلیسی حربہ اختیاری ° اتراۂے نطفہ مسلمانی _ تائب قانون ِ الٰہی

[@almahaditv161]

100% truth

[@FawadJaved]

super 13 mins of today

[@Inner_Peace343]

Jazak Allahu Khayran 🌼

[@Sarah-oo9bk]

It seems you r talking about me but I was well educated and v pretty I but I couldn’t take decision still

[@funstack3382]

Very intellectual explanation really ... The word's that ever be heard before from a man 👏🏼👏🏼 MashaAllah

[@aishazakaria6335]

its,true,sir,i,am,divorced,since,fourteen,years,i, am,treated,like,shit,in,my,own,family,u,dont,need, anyone,from,outside,to,let u,down,your, own,family,dont,accept,u

[@shaz3shaz327]

App ne bohat sahi baat kahi

[@unboxing0021]

I am grateful I found your videos

[@abaidullah5352]

Thanks for making such kind of video Thanks for supporting women Emotional dependence a new topic I have either listen

[@mairajfatima5195]

Jazak'Allah khair!!!

[@99yyjj]

How beautiful he explain every point

[@Sarah-oo9bk]

OnGod same I did my parents mahol was so strict only option was to get married arrange marriage it was horrible experience but still I’m living 18 years now

[@m.kamranrafiq9238]

18 years still going in horrible experience?

[@beghumair9541]

Thank sir

[@Cinematic-p3t]

U r talking v keenly about v sensitive issues it is also right k ghr se start hota he mamla orat k andr ek feeling he Sarah jaye Bo b koi ho ghr valon ki ignorance bahar vale ki ghatiya c tawajjo Me sroor paida krdeti pr Kon baat krta in topics pr

[@MariamTariq52]

Very nice and true. Allah safes women no doubt

[@gulali5671]

Asalamualikom wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu 🌹 well said 👍 Taqreeban har larki is Ka shikar hoti hy.parhi likhi bhi is me phas jati hen.

[@shaziaazizullah]

You're 💯 right 🥺

[@mafiasaleem987]

Jazaklaah Very informative massage 🥹

[@MohammadAli-rf4kn]

I heard a waqia a sahabiya insisted Prophet s.a that she won't live with her man ,Prophet suggested not to do so, she asked if that was God's command ,he (s.a) replied no, she said she is not following his suggestion in this matter. Prophet ended her relationship. Shows that that woman knew how to depend on Allah by asking that if that was God's command to her for doing not.

[@zainabbhat8438]

Voice quality kabi achi mahi hoti Sir Appki Itni precious videos ki...

[@shamimashaikh1771]

mashallah bilkul sahi baat hai

[@closerlook6578]

ALLAH hm sb py rhm kry

[@leansage4081]

Absolutely on dot.

[@brightsunshine9216]

Khawateen ko Hazrat Fatima RA ki sunnat par ilm kahan se hasil karna chahiye? Zada tar info shia maslak mai hai lekn unki authenticity kahan se sabit hogi? Khwateen ghar ki masi bani hui hen wo ilm tak nahe pohanch sakti khud se. Thora waqt nikal ke apke lectures sun sakti hen. Ap se guzarish hai ke ap yeh sab ilm wazeh tor par bayan kr dijye taken ek aam aurat bhe sun kar samj ley aur amal kare.

[@Jannatbabyroutine]

true sir

[@nighathasan2375]

So True and Sad 😔

[@saniapraveen2448]

Plz upload full lecture