Conservative Mother Disapproves of Black Wedding Dress | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

Melody Choate has her heart set on wearing an edgy black dress on her wedding day, however mum has always dreamed on seeing her little girl wear a white ballgown when walking down the aisle.
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[@sadia888.]

*"But, my loyalty today is to my sister."* *Such a great brother* 😊

[@suziclark4244]

She definitely brought him along to be her support against their mom. I picked that vibe up from the beginning.

[@grraceavvila2418]

Yup and the other day my brother is choked me I just love my sidling 😶

[@bts_armyforever1719]

Black dress,video about black dress and black writing?Everything is black *Black is amazing* *NATURE*

[@shady8479]

Agreed, great guy

[@robynsbored]

IKR, her brother is the best

[@sanityisrelative]

I honestly appreciated the "who's paying for the dress" question. It was a very polite way of asking "how much of mom's opinion should we actually take into account?"

[@Nxox_]

Lol ikr 0^0

[@frogsareelite3942]

YES

[@urixiac2860]

HAHHAHAAH FR

[@aetlian]

i would like to politely disagree although i do think that your mom should have a little bit of a say in it especially if she’s paying for the dress it still should be what the bride wants ( after all it is suppose to be one of the best days of you life).

[@cami5431]

@@aetlian Im not paying for an ugly dress thats only going to be worn once and different colored wedding dresses usually aren’t passed down because most people go for the traditional white

[@contentkoo2004]

"my loyalty is to my sister" WOW BROTHER GOALS

[@rociorafael97]

ARMY

[@aishulko6169]

pastel-namjoon your username makes me uwu ^_^

[@darlingmoneymoneymoney9505]

Armyy!!!

[@sanah9785]

Lmao can't relate my brother isn't like that.

[@sophiaisabella4474]

ARMY FGJBCDJCDUJCDU FSTHXFIB OMG!

[@Duck-cb8rk]

“It’s her wedding day!” Exactly. HER wedding day, not yours.

[@vic9344]

True

[@cielo_ciel_]

My mom and dad married without a diamond ring just wedding bands because they don’t like gem stones. Also my mom hates dresses, she married in a gold silk blouse and a pair of wide leg trousers. None of their parents said shit and that was in the 80s Asia. I can’t believe the conservativeness going on here.

[@Duck-cb8rk]

@@cielo_ciel_ I can only imagine how beautiful their wedding was! I never understood white dresses, diamond rings, weddings in general etc. Honestly it’s just sad when parents don’t support their childrens decisions.

[@cielo_ciel_]

@@Duck-cb8rk thank you! They are both artists and mom is also a fashion designer, so she made her own blouse and wore a pair of flats. I, while enjoy being single (never 'want' to get married, but if it happens it happens), don't understand diamond rings, huge reception parties and all of that. Just find someone you love and begin a journey together is more than a bless.

[@kimkyja]

uhm, whats up with the sass?

[@PistachioDean]

Is the brother also looking for a bride, because dayum.

[@divyaism007]

😂😂😂😂

[@JeanSammons]

MA'AM- 😭💀

[@jessboo173]

Well the mother might still want a prince charming for her child..

[@matty_fressshhh]

Wassup JC😗✌️

[@itsjessicabae7024]

Paws off buddy! 👬 already have taken the most and best men from us straight women. 😪 Stay in your lane. 👌😄

[@Liamisah]

The FACT that not only is she getting married in a libary and wants a black wedding dress but ON TOP of that she's marrying a woman like yes queen living the lesbian aesthetic.

[@goldfish7835]

I want to be like her when I grow up lol

[@someantisocialkidwithayout8828]

My dream wedding

[@ari9525]

Lydia Hilbers Jesus loves you

[@alicewang5398]

Yep

[@karen2018]

I'm not lesbian BUT YAS QUEEN I LOVE THE ASETHETIC

[@zaedahblack]

Dress number one looks like she's wearing a comforter...

[@mabelmanabat8054]

Omfg hahahhaa

[@delphineblue]

LMAO I actually thought it was beautiful until i read your comment, now i can only see a comforter.

[@marjanabrstilo3306]

It looked like a shower curtain to me...

[@pixelpudding3914]

It looks like a tablecloth

[@vanessacosner5092]

A big, wrinkly duvet that didn't get stuffed into the cover properly

[@kattahj]

If she's conservative she should be all about the black, seeing how that was a common color for bridal dresses before white was. :-)

[@calimorales9880]

@@DreamWorld-1960 ?

[@magnarcreed3801]

@@DreamWorld-1960 Not these types of conservatives. Conservatives are confused people that don’t know history, just what the generation right before them did.

[@miaironstone6783]

If I remember correctly, the white dress wasn’t really a thing until the Victorian era, and even then mostly for rich/ noble born people since white was an expensive fabric to make and keep white. I don’t think the whole dress and diamond rings started to be a thing for somewhat ordinary people until the 1920s and 1930s when catalogs started portraying them as the ONLY way to get married. The modern symbology of a wedding is only around 100 years old and comes solely from a marketing gimmick

[@briananavarrolopez9286]

Actually it was red and blue

[@OnLifeandLove]

Black was and still is the color at funerals. Before Queen Victoria brides did wear different colors, but not black

[@justchillin6735]

*"Its her wedding day"* that's the most common dialogue every mom says when their daughter wants a black dress

[@jakesandoval1]

you just dont have .....

[@justchillin6735]

@@jakesandoval1 honey

[@jaydenabraham7512]

Exactly. It’s her wedding day so it’s her choice. Saying it’s her wedding day so THE mom wants her in white changes nothing

[@leichan356]

Not mine she knows me and my sister want what we want

[@justchillin6735]

@@leichan356 😊😊

[@deborahl3083]

That is the funniest thing ever “she worked at a coffee shop...she was so nervous she asked me to get coffee” Lmao that’s some shit I would say 😭 ❤️

[@sukia-chan2228]

IKR

[@anerdandherbooks5064]

“And I mean now, of course, she’s got a princess charming” *evil laughter ensues*

[@gosiohamiracle1918]

I actually don't support this kind of marriage

[@ruledbyvenusss]

Gosioha Miracle no one asked

[@thepaltriestchannel7341]

Yeah Goshioha Miracle No one asked if you support it or not.

[@helmihakulinen3425]

@@gosiohamiracle1918 Why not? They are still humans that love eachother

[@joellabauza1936]

@@gosiohamiracle1918 just curious why? Also are you rude to them or do you just not support/dissaprove of it?

[@riri12566]

These women are literally living in a gay coffee shop dark academia romance AU and I'm living for it

[@missclaire8673]

OH MY GOD YOU'RE RIGHT Man I want what they have

[@elenavazquez6574]

Exactly. They are living the life I want.

[@yamaguchishoe6015]

When she said coffee shop I immediately thought of this

[@raetail]

This is almost word for word what I was thinking of commenting and I love that fact.

[@yuh_we_out_here]

YES

[@caie5710]

1. You can tell her mom isn't 100% supportive of the couple 2. She's trying to dictate her daughters wedding day when really, it's not her day, it's her daughter's so imho THE DAUGHTER SHOULD BE HAPPY

[@chastiana]

I just think her mom is trying to be supportive but is still having a hard time wrapping her mind around this new norm. She obviously loves her daughter.

[@isabelkailey2152]

And the daughter is paying for it

[@amberslahlize7961]

She wont. Thanks for showing no concern.

[@arisymphony]

Not only is it not the mom's day, it's not even the mom's money!

[@ebonidt]

@@chastiana I disagree, I think mom is way too controlling. She isn't the type to say she disapproves, but there's subtle signs that she does. She is really uncomfortable and it feels like she is trying grasp control of her daughter in any way she can i.e the dress.

[@Sakura-tv5gs]

If my daughter wants a black pink blue or neon green dress I’d 100% support her!

[@centaurithething1649]

And if she was gay? Uh asking for a friend

[@finnthefuzzymoth1717]

@@centaurithething1649 ...that would be cool too

[@layla916]

@@centaurithething1649 even better

[@Sakura-tv5gs]

@@centaurithething1649 Even better!

[@Theainakim03]

Even magnet rejects the same magnet

[@willow9912]

Black dress and a black ring* Safiya Nygaard entered the chat Edit: Thanks for all these likes 🤧

[@laishatakami3771]

Vatsala Mehta seeing this after crying all night to Safiyas cute wedding video 🥺😭

[@ee8546]

@@laishatakami3771 I just watched it too 😭

[@dessire1175]

@@laishatakami3771 Same🤧🤧

[@willow9912]

@@laishatakami3771 Everytime they cried, we all cried 😭

[@laishatakami3771]

Vatsala Mehta yessss 😭😭😭😭

[@littlepeach9444]

In the Roman Catholic church Spanish women would wear black wedding dresses representing being with the husband till death and the color black means Mystery Strength elegance formality and sophistication. It also gives the women a sense of power and authority

[@opsidiann5131]

Sounds great, would love to marry a person in a black wedding dress

[@dantemaquiavelli9039]

Wait really? I live in Spain and my family is Christian Catholic, but we've never seen a bride in black, was that before Queen Victoria? Edit: spelling

[@drunkensailor5612]

in Italy white dresses for marriage are quite a "modern" thing, common people started to wear fancy white dresses only after WWII, before that time only rich people could afford such a dress so common people used to wear dresses that could have been adapted and reused and, most of the times, dresses weren't white but brown or black . I even have a photo of my great grandmother wearing a brown dress at her wedding in 1930

[@rociorodriguez589]

What? Sorry, I'm spanish, VERY catholic family. Have not ever seen a black wedding dress in my life. My dad would call me a vampire and cry for months.

[@bridgethoggan1814]

So pretty

[@thatonegirl3391]

THEY MET IN A COFFEE SHOP, ARE GETTING MARRIED AT A LIBRARY, AND ARE PROUD GAYS!! THIS IS A FANFICTION; I REPEAT, THIS IS A FANFICTION PEOPLE

[@clashfan2875]

Thanks, I needed to laugh for a solid 3 minutes today. :D

[@marlanakleiber5012]

AND WANTED THE BLACK WEDDING DRESS

[@andra3672]

COFFEE SHOP AU FANFIC

[@adiposeNarnian]

THE BEST.

[@madking6668]

Obviously

[@hannahwilson4815]

I feel like every comment the mom made about the dress always stared with "I..." "I want a ball gown" "I want an ivory dress"

[@bunnyqueenkj]

I would've LOVED for the daughter to come back at her and say "Well *I* want you to wait in the car, mom."

[@lynnn8715]

plus its not the moms money buying the dress

[@MelonHere20]

@@voiceofsaph3225 Honestly though same!

[@MelonHere20]

I know! It's not even her wedding either! It's the bride's decision. But she wanted to find a dress that her mom would also like.

[@valeriafuerte7285]

Frss

[@xaudxbeachxmusicx]

"you always wore princess dresses when you were a little girl" "because you made me!" 😂

[@JC-mm6fu]

Honestly tho parents think when you did something as a child it still applies when you’re older. You did everything as a kid because your parents wanted it especially clothes

[@botanicalmelody]

Exposed⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️

[@xaudxbeachxmusicx]

Møøñ Šhīñë what?

[@gabecheca4661]

Nice but it's illegal to be lesbian or gay in Singapore It's stupid to have that as a law tho..

[@faraway-2009]

Jeffery Volkov why do parents do that, smh it’s so annoying

[@lolasills878]

i love how supportive her brother is omg, he was so kind abt how he liked the first dress just not the print and didnt make her feel bad abt it at all

[@Chaotic_Observer]

Shes getting married in a library? Lol imagine needing to say “I do” and some person trying to read, is like “SUSHHHHHHH” Edit: it was a joke

[@swaggiegran5882]

I DIED😂

[@Sweet_Oni]

Panda Gal low key now I wanna get married in a ball gown

[@firefistingace]

Panda Gal I live in Jacksonville and the downtown library is actually huge and beautiful, with an outdoor courtyard and grand staircases. There’s tons of weddings thrown there!

[@Chaotic_Observer]

@Nikki Winchester ooo neat!

[@lavitamahanta5043]

🤣

[@tiffanys358]

1:08 “Prince Charming” that’s how you know her mother isn’t 100% supportive of this marriage

[@miaberry5159]

She said princess charming xx

[@alexalevon4885]

Well, considering the fact that being lesbian isn’t you know common, she was probably thinking she would be straight.

[@SunBeeSmoked]

@@alexalevon4885 regardless, the way she was acting about it seems very unsupportive. Like she's embarrassed.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

@@SunBeeSmoked I don't blame her. The future kids are coming from a turkey baster and won't know their dad unless they get the legal papers. Wow, it's almost like the mom wants her grandkids to have a dad.

[@SunBeeSmoked]

@@blacktigerpaw1 kids don't need a dad and a lot of people use anonymous sperm donors, not just gay people. If they do go the route of a sperm donor, they CAN know the identity of the man who gave them the sperm if they want and in that case, if ever the kid wanted to know who the man was that never planned on being a father to this kid, the kid can know. People donate A LOT of sperm because it's easy money.

[@OnLifeandLove]

"Melody and my mom don't see eye to eye on everything today, but my loyalty today is to my sister." Sibling goals!!!

[@ari6092]

The mom is literally so annoying. The fake laughing and smiling in unbearable.

[@launalopez342]

Ikr.

[@sage1463]

Listen I wanna like.. But it's at 69-

[@garlicbreadisbetter]

@@sage1463 your a good person 😔

[@ari6092]

@@sage1463 LMAOOO

[@Alexis-go5cd]

Not really, she loves her daughter, it’s just she planned everything for her and nothing went her way, it’s pretty sad. In the end they both love each other no matter what and I think the mom just needs to make some adjustments and let it fully sink in.

[@BrookeBerghuis]

Not gonna lie her black ring actually looks really nice 😍🖤

[@darkkitty645]

Mom is trying really hard for the camera to hide her homophobia. She's passive agressive af.

[@evanescent_light]

@@gurl8327 no tf?

[@gurl8327]

@@evanescent_light let me give am example . a person should like and agree all religions and their believers . Don't u think it's stupid ? We can respect a thing doesn't necessarily mean we have to accept that and agree with it

[@evanescent_light]

@@gurl8327 it just hurts when people say such things like “I respect them but I don’t agree with their choices”. No one would choose to be at a high risk of being hate crimed all the time. Just because some homophobe mistranslated a book few hundreds of years ago doesn’t mean you can justify hate

[@mariakeys5708]

@@gurl8327 in the Bible the Hebrew words for man should not sleep with man was actually saying that man shall not lay with child (pedophillia). So therefore, someone who was a pedo changed the words so instead, it would label gay people as sinful, when I reality, the Bible never stated anything about being gay is a sin

[@evanescent_light]

@@gurl8327 homosexuality was never a sin in the bible. It got mistranslated and it meant a man shouldn’t sleep with a boy. Sadly in other religions the scripture says that it is

[@xXlaurXx]

I wanted a black dress too. I wanted something classic and elegant, and so I bought it... and my whole family gave me so much shit about it that I returned it in tears. A year later my dream dress went on sale, and I was like "you know what, screw it" and bought it. At the end of the day, it's my day, and white just would never do me justice. People will talk, but whatever.

[@neenasky08]

Yes queen! You get that dream dress! It’s your day, not theirs.

[@geetee2392]

Well, your family is probably pretty used to your attention seeking behavior.

[@trishc8390]

You go laurenlucia, Gee Tee is one of those people who leaves ugly comments everywhere.

[@geetee2392]

@@trishc8390 You stalking me? I leave comments that are honest....honestly is very ugly to narcissists.

[@escaramujo]

@@geetee2392 But your attitude is narcisistic too... I'm confused.

[@lei3114]

i melted when i heard “her name is -“ oh my god i’m so happy to see lesbian representation omg you don’t even understand

[@yessin9541]

Yessss i love this serie

[@redcherryblossoms]

Ikr!! I was watching these, and waiting for some LGBT+ representations, so when I heard that the fiancé was a her, I got so happy!!! I’m not lesbian, but I am a part of the community, and it’s so great to see representation in these shows!

[@melonfrog8470]

@@redcherryblossoms same I’m pan and gender-fluid

[@killinglonliness88]

There are a lot of episodes with LGBT representation, just gotta look for them.

[@violetfantasy2537]

Yeah I heard “her name” and I was like- gasp yay lesbian brides! I'm straight, not part of the LGTBQ community myself but I'm totally ok with them and I think they need more people to accept them

[@winniedapooh597]

ok i’m sorry but the mom isn’t even paying for the dress. I really liked dress number 2 in black:/

[@that_sage1png]

Well there’s her complexion to consider, mom. She is pretty pale already, a white dress would flush her out. A darker color would look better on her

[@bec2224]

Showed this to my mom, she said "mom is sitting there trying to act all young in leopard print looking like a cougar, telling her daughter to be normal. If she's a true mother she will except black to make her little girl happy, but she's all about what she wants. She's selfish." And my mother is 85 years old, lol

[@YelloLibra83]

I like your mother's mind

[@chinawhite1080]

I love your mom 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍😍😍

[@lindseyw5023]

👏🏻

[@arenasification]

a "true mother" would teach you grammar and correct spelling. A mother is a mother, not a "friend" who'll say yes to whatever.

[@pandagirl42087]

Sure, mothers aren't friends and they shouldn't be, but they also shouldn't try to control their daughters' preferences on something so arbitrary that has literally no effect on them. It's a friggin dress color, and she's not going to be the one wearing it. Also her daughter is an adult that doesn't require her mother's permission in the first place.

[@briannastultz6924]

What is with the moms who can’t let their adult daughters be an adult? 🙄

[@tinamarie2121]

THIS! THIS X 1000!! (And sons, too. All adult children, for that matter.)

[@elizabethk2527]

SHE LIVED THE COFFEE SHOP AU I LOVE IT

[@ShamblingAround]

Elizabeth K I thought the same exact thing!!!

[@niamh8585]

NDJSIDISN LMAO

[@ringsdings3381]

YESSS

[@femmefatale6293]

Same thoughts

[@amytalbot9141]

Lori: not only are they not on the same page, they’re not even reading the same book *Am I the only person who loved that line* Edit: OMG thanks so much for all the likes, this is so cool

[@katerinawilson4520]

Not at all! It was so funny!

[@Sangonomiiya]

Amy Talbot it was great lmqo

[@snowballecho1359]

You are not! I loved it so much that I put it on my notes. It was I think an amazing line.

[@desireecowling167]

Yes I laughed so hard

[@cyanrecords7933]

As soon as she said that I saw the comment 😂

[@Viwaldron]

“ My wish for her is to have found her Prince Charming” meaning “I wish my daughter was straight” 😂

[@johannax6653]

Likely. But what a struggle it must be for the mother to accept her daughter's choice and give up her lifelong dream of her daughter marrying a man in a romantic white princess dress. Courageous woman to appear on a TV show knowing that likely she would be definitely be robbed of her dream ..in public.

[@constancep7632]

Leonie X Nobody is robbing her of anything. Her daughter is living a happy, authentic life, and as mothers, that’s what we want for our children.

[@laurenc9458]

Not necessarily most people just assume their child will be straight

[@paigefontenelle6393]

She is a rude homophobic mother

[@paigefontenelle6393]

Lilly Gopaul true

[@nkzlgm17]

isn’t anyone gonna talk about how cool her ring is tho

[@jackmeriustacktheritrix]

Psst, mom.. guess what IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU!

[@jfm14]

Right!

[@talaa.8350]

i kNow!

[@norahaynegreenan6674]

Amen!

[@isasantos8577]

Bride: I really want a black dress. Lori: *I love heeeeer*

[@aashichaudhary2278]

Her mum would pass for her sister. She looks so young!

[@charismaluv9920]

Yes

[@kleiohra6843]

I think she looks older than 26

[@TheKatisama]

I think the daughter just looks old :)

[@mandirapatil1288]

I thought the mum was the bride at first 😂😂

[@dimmiecandy2928]

She had her kids when she was 13

[@mitzy183]

i love how lori and her crew always support the bride. its so sad when family sometimes cant hold their tounge... i mean its her choice after all. im glad that she felt confident in telling the world how much she loves her partner!

[@mehnazameen1464]

5:45 this dress is totally breathtaking and imagining it in black is overwhelming for me 🖤🖤

[@leveticki4293]

“I love that color” *Looks like its been in a smokers house for 50 years* MMMMMM ok

[@samsmith757]

leveticki that’s exactly what I was thinking 😂

[@aichitoshiki1321]

🤣👏👏👏

[@jchen8902]

It doesn't even look white to me - it's more yellow

[@elevenpoisons2484]

OMG yes you're spot on lmao

[@le-ro]

Video: she wants a black dress Me: nice Video: she's gay Me: NICE

[@ZzippystardustT]

That Leo Again Oml Same

[@sifaelnanono9077]

Hahaha

[@nhungnhu9902]

More like SWEET

[@terrianaserrano3518]

That not nice to say

[@laneypaulk2790]

YO SAME

[@RockstarWolfie]

Mom really said “I want her to have a Prince Charming” and then went on to say “princess charming” and then say that going to pride was being baptized in hell Miss ma’am your homophobia is showing ✨✨

[@Adriana-hp1eh]

That is not what the saying 'baptism by fire' means. At all. And I think she was very awkwardly explaining a situation she was new to and not totally comfortable with, yet being immersed in. Which IS the definition of trial by fire. She obviously loves her daughter and is obviously trying to assimilate.

[@rlast4698]

She fine

[@magnarcreed3801]

@@Adriana-hp1eh Oh and every other comment? Mothers just a piece of shit. But since she’s “traditional” she gets a pass. Fuck off with that bs logic. I was raised in a physically abusive home. Does that mean I get a pass to occasionally beat my kids? No. No more free passes people. Either be 100% for your kids or don’t have them.

[@gabrielhorvath2486]

her mom is having a homophobic nervous breakdown that she's firmly in denial about

[@57andstillkicking]

She is clearly doing everything she can to accept her daughter. Labeling someone a homophobe for needing to take time to accept what they were taught against, is wrong.

[@gabrielhorvath2486]

@@57andstillkicking man i just think it's funny

[@thevampirefrog06]

That laugh is the laugh of a woman who had a crying fit in the bathroom to the theme of "why couldn't she just be NORMAL" after her daughter got engaged.

[@thevampirefrog06]

She's going to the PFLAG meetings but she also goes "what do you want honey I'm still GETTING USED TO IT" every time her daughter calls her out on a passive aggressive homophobic comment.

[@Girl._.Interrupted]

Word

[@josephine8545]

“You don’t look like a bride” the moms definition of bride is still being betrothed to a man

[@69nadyacole69]

she doesn't look like a bride in black. Facts

[@69nadyacole69]

@Brooklee Prince looks like she's attending a funeral

[@khills]

@@69nadyacole69 Fun fact: for many cultures in the world, white is the color you wear to funerals, and it's shockingly bad taste to wear white to a wedding. 🤷🏼‍♀️ And even in the British West, white only became the color of wedding dresses with Queen Victoria. Some people want their connection to culture-whether it's a red wedding dress, or white in the name of Victoria. Neither tradition is the only wedding tradition in the world, and there's no one "right" color for a wedding dress. Or funeral-wear. Or anything else. The right color, for this bride, in this situation, in her culture, was black-and that's as beautiful a thing as any red, white, blue, or any other wedding dress out there.

[@69nadyacole69]

@@khills no, it's just your imagination

[@khills]

@@69nadyacole69 …well, congratulations on an utterly nonsensical reply.

[@moonbear5929]

I wish Mom would shut up, esp since she's not paying for the dress. If Melody is paying for it, she should get whatever dress she wants, period! It's not Mom's wedding, she shouldn't be trying to live vicariously through her daughter on her wedding.

[@opeth7021]

This show really shows that there are a lot of manipulative mothers out there.

[@kassieritter8871]

manipulative??? do you even know what that means fam?

[@inglesideyukon]

Girl: I work at a coffee shop. Also Girl: Budget is 6k.... Hoooowwwww

[@RagnarokLoki2012]

worked is the past tense of work. She doesn't work there anymore.

[@Bruh-lf7wo]

She WORKED at a coffee shop It's pass tense

[@robynsbored]

*Must be a good coffee shop :/*

[@chopppedliver]

she used past tense, but also shes probably been saving money for a long time since shes paying for it herself. and her fiance is helping out with funds too haha

[@yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38]

@Layan Strawberry her fiance was a patron at the shop she worked at. She said so.

[@rubashaikh6471]

oml her bro is so nice. if i brought my brother to something like this, he'll find a way to somehow spill chocolate pudding all over the dresses.

[@rosetheflower9290]

😂😂😂

[@sophiaisabella4474]

Lol😂😂😂

[@KJ5ify]

Ruba Shaikh ko

[@pennycouch5824]

Lol

[@pennycouch5824]

@@ambrosiaking941 me 2 tho I have 4 Bros and 1 sis all younger

[@advaithabhardwaj4367]

The mom: “I love this color” That color look like a white dress that someone spilled a bunch of coffee on

[@allyzimmerman5224]

That shit be lookin YELLOOOOOW

[@NameName-yj7lp]

Advaitha Bhardwaj See it’s not that bad- if it were tiny with other colors to settle it The whole dam dress is that same yellow- looks like pee ngl

[@excusemeum....8053]

It looks like a coffee stain basically

[@justjaein]

:(((( I liked that color too

[@justjaein]

although I can admit, it does rly look like a coffee stain lollll

[@andihoxha2069]

Her mom: “Prince Charming” and white dress Her: “Princess Charming” and BLACK Dress The opposite of what her mother was thinking over the years!😂😂😂

[@peachtea4088]

I love that the mom thinks she's being cutesy or funny while she's being homophobic "LOL, it's just so crazy, I wanted my daughters' wedding to be to a man and to be wearing white because I think of children as copies of me!"

[@GraceSavidesKeller]

"You always wore princess dresses when you were a little girl." "Because you MADE me!" Her mom needs to do some serious soul searching.

[@rlast4698]

@@GraceSavidesKeller oh leave the mom alone.

[@GraceSavidesKeller]

​@@rlast4698 I get it. It's hard to let go of your little girl, and maybe I was a little harsh, but ultimately it's important to see them as the adult they become. I'll admit I have some baggage around this so I'm extra sensitive.

[@magnarcreed3801]

@@rlast4698 Stop excusing homophobic ride parents that view their kids as extensions of themselves.

[@dcbt9037]

“I always wanted a black dress ever since I was 16” **rock music starts to play**

[@renatal.129]

from the moment that mom said "found her prince charming" i saw what i needed to see...

[@juliavalencaschoen2234]

I love that the brother was like: I'm here for my sister today

[@hyoyeonsnsdfans]

5:19 that dress behind there is very pretty xD Don't mind me tho~ I'm just admiring some dresses in the background ^^

[@RedNightmare-qr5mb]

Mom wanted Prince Charming Daughter got Cinderella instead

[@izzybrown3218]

heck ya, she’s better either way lol

[@fordsyconnormurphy_lil_les4685]

couldn't have put it better myself

[@jodikeehn4581]

So sad

[@Johnny_B_85]

@bubble gumgirl69 no it is sad because that poor mom had raised a daughter like that on accident

[@Resident_avonU]

@Sweet cuisine Ah, another homophobic fuck. Just leave. Stop spreading your negativity, hopefully you stop being negative about people liking the opposite gender.

[@BrokenQrow]

Girl looks ✨GORGEOUS✨ In a black dress

[@vanessar1804]

Strange how they hang onto the color of a wedding gown. A few centuries back, black was traditionally the color. How about pink, with yellow polka dots!

[@OxyaaRriau]

Ikr? Everything is so monolith about weddings right now. So boring

[@beepboop9464]

Umm, black has always been associated with funerals and mourning wear. Now white was never a thing for wedding dresses until the last century. But black wedding dresses weren't really ever a thing in English culture or most European cultures.

[@jessiejesjessica]

Blue was originally for weddings some cultures red is for weddings and white is for death it depends on the times and the culture etc. also she is paying for the dress so the mom should be silent

[@OcraStars]

Vanessa R I'm planning to wear light purple when I get married one day, but that's mostly because I have dermatitis and being in anything white makes me really uncomfortable.

[@vanessar1804]

@@OcraStars, light purple sounds awesome.

[@jiminsjams9842]

2:36 she's got a point tho✋😩

[@jamie6506]

IT WAS NOT UNTIL QUEEN VICTORIA WORE A WHITE DRESS WHEN SHE GOT MARRIED THAT IT BECAME A THING; BEFORE THAT THE SCARCENESS OF BOTH MONEY AND RESOURCES MADE IT HIGHLY IRRESPONSIBLE AND NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE ANYWAY TO WEAR A WHITE WEDDING DRESS Ah, the misconceptions people have about traditions.

[@Cinnamun52]

I so agree! I don't think everybody looks good in white and around the world brides wear all kinds of styles and colors.

[@lizmowrey9866]

Right

[@chewymoonrabbit]

Mary Queen of Scots wore a white dress first, and it actually was thought to be bad luck. When her husband died young (they were both children when they married), everyone blamed her white dress, and it fell out of fashion. Victoria later popularized the look again, with her husband also dying younger.

[@Mickey_Moon507]

Queen is Love, Queen is Life. Is that from Adam ruins everything?

[@chewymoonrabbit]

super nova What do you mean?

[@narayogini3241]

bride: i want a black dess mom: i want a white dress lori: what should we do?! me: GrEy dReSs

[@fueledbypaintwater]

The bride shouldn't need to compromise

[@narayogini3241]

@@fueledbypaintwater well, I mean it IS HER wedding

[@ncertbookreader8251]

Perfect comment

[@narayogini3241]

@@ncertbookreader8251 thank you

[@parvindarkaur9612]

Thanks.. this made me smile😊😁

[@iamallamaninja]

Married at the library!!!!! I love this so much. I’m a queer lady, and I love libraries sososo much. Goals af

[@ouestlelivre]

Omg... that's what I was thinking!! Library! I'm such a library nerd!!

[@iamallamaninja]

Andrea D I’m studying to be a librarian!

[@ouestlelivre]

@@iamallamaninja me too! I'm a high school teacher taking courses for school librarian certification!!

[@enharmonics]

Queer library-loving solidarity 👍

[@enharmonics]

Edgy douche in the comments, no thanks.

[@darkness_noir999]

I've been thinking of having a black wedding dress or something similar to it, and seeing multiple videos with women wearing black dresses at their weddings, warms my heart to the brim it's so inspirational.

[@thornvolkov7426]

“It’s her wedding DAAAYY.” Thoughts: No. I hate this woman. And it only got worse from there....

[@Elisabeth-rf7il]

@Thorn Volkov How can you say that you hate her. Hate is such a strong word to use especially for a video that was poated by TLC. I mean this with the upmost respect please don't judge someone by a video on the internet.

[@thornvolkov7426]

Jamie Catedral I don’t hate her in the sense that I detest her with every fiber of my being. I hate her in the sense that I hate what she represents. She’s whiny, entitled, and homophobic. So, in the sense that I strongly dislike her, I hate her. In the sense that she seems like an awful human being, I hate her. I can absolutely decide if I would dislike someone based on a video like this. With all due respect, you shouldn’t gatekeep the word hate or attempt to tell others how they should feel.

[@haileyparsons3844]

I don’t think she was homophobic more so upset with the fact her daughter wanted to be in a black dress. White dress is supposed to be traditional, and I think the mom wanted her to be in a white traditional dress, since she from southern u.s.a and she has a expedition of brides being in white wedding dresses. If she were homophobic. She wouldn’t be there, she wouldn’t even want to go to the wedding. She is allowed to have her beliefs on god and homosexuality, if she wants. But she accepting her daughter for who she is. Is the best thing she can do and is doing so. My mother is a christian she doesn’t agree with the LBGQT group but she willing to accept them for who they are and have no problems with them being LBGQT. And I’m asexual so it makes me happy that she accepts who I am. If people have no problem with LBGQT being themselves and accepting them. Then why can’t christians or people who are religious have that same treatment.

[@loveu2deathhh]

Go to hell

[@alixx3622]

The tight cream dress looks WAYYYYYYYYY better in black with white 'belt' than the egg shell/cream color

[@donnapuckett4992]

Simple; the mother is not paying for the dress, so who cares. If the bride wants black then she gets black, it's her day NOT her mother's! Geesh....

[@remyasreems1552]

Mothers have some dreamsssss

[@nurse956]

@@remyasreems1552 so true.

[@fb9001]

nurse956 even If the mother is paling I think it is the bride who dicides what she want to wear and not the mother

[@remyasreems1552]

Still... mother's have some dreamsssss....

[@shaliac.7268]

the daughter got the type of dress her mother wanted in her color i don’t know why her mother is so upset

[@ningning5561]

THAT BLACK DIAMOND IS GORGEOUS 😭😭😭😭

[@ksystem6047]

You *KNOW* she’s having a bit of a denial breakdown

[@carmengogeidnas9670]

I'm drowning in the powerful waves of that mother's denile rn

[@ariyanna1056]

are you happy now youtube? i finally watched the video you recommended to me.

[@XHikarixxx]

These girls literally have the coffee shop love story that all the gays want. This is incredible.

[@Toastymosty69]

Ok?

[@XHikarixxx]

@@Toastymosty69 Ok

[@FoffYT]

Ikr, I immediately thought of Mary Lambert's "She Keeps Me Warm" music video 💖

[@Aj_Orito]

I love how openminded her Mom is even if she was raised in a traditional way. The Mom's lovely but she's even made lovelier by her mindset.

[@magnarcreed3801]

She’s absolutely not open minded. She’s passive aggressive. I’d uninvite her until she learnt better.

[@ascent8487]

@Magnar Creed, I’m really sort of amazed by how people see this woman. She’s not hateful. She’s not disowning anyone. She’s not unaccepting of the fiancé. Ultimately she wants her daughter to be happy. Was she thrown for a loop when her daughter came out? Maybe. Should she be free to admit that? I think so. I’m sorry but all these very progressive or so open minded commenters seem very lacking in empathy and quite frankly seem incredibly close minded in regards to other people’s experiences.

[@mi4tc]

1:14 woah she sounds like kim k

[@vietnameme]

the most frustrating part if when parents envision themselves in their children's place just because it how they want. they already had their wedding, it isn't their day ://

[@baneblackburn]

As someone who is queer, there were so many micro aggressions by the mom. It was honestly uncomfortable to watch the mom talk. Also, I really want to see the actual dress!

[@crow625]

Daughter pulled a whole ass uno reverse on her mothers dream lmao

[@magnarcreed3801]

He shouldn’t have expected things from her kids like that. It’s fucked to plan someone else’s life for them.

[@Simply-Anne]

When she was wearing the first dress I immediately thought: Is she wearing the curtains right now?!

[@dunemae]

Melody reminds me of Avril Lavigne...idk why. Maybe the hair

[@cherri_tsuuuu]

And the eyeliner

[@dunemae]

definitely

[@uraniumdepositsonly]

She reminds of Taylor Swift oddly

[@dunemae]

Unicorn Girl another good comparison

[@michellesimmons2756]

Eyeliner

[@kushagraverma6456]

"so mom, what do you think about a black dress?" mom: "Its HER wedding dayyyyyyy" me: awwwwwwwwwww mom: "ofcourse i want her in a white dress, cant help it" me: oh

[@sam-c4f8b]

Why is her mom telling her that she can't wear a black dress because she doesn't look like a bride? I mean she's not the one that's buying the dress...

[@wregell72]

Bcuz wearing white in America for American dresses that’s traditional bridal style just like with anywhere else people wear certain bridal styles for their wedding

[@issyroylance5900]

My mum does that all the time. Even if she's not buying something she's going to say what she wants.

[@issyroylance5900]

@@wregell72 .... I think people understand that in western culture that when people get married they wear white.

[@jadeheart4587]

@@wregell72 ironically enough, white wedding dresses had NOTHING to do with symbolism in the beginning. in the old days people got married in whatever they wanted/the nicest cloths they had at the time, but when a princess from Europe got married in a pure white wedding dress, thousands of brides wanted to imitate her style. it got so popular and big that it eventually became the expected norm for any newcoming bride. in short, the reason why white wedding dresses are so popular to begin with was because women wanted to imitate the rich.

[@overpassing-jumpsuit6080]

Jade Heart That’s really interesting actually, I always figured that it had something to do with white being a symbol of “purity” which is traditionally part of a wedding.

[@ilahill2371]

I love black wedding dresses!! None of my friends like that I want a black wedding dress but I think it’s soooo cool. Also my mom has a black ring and I love it!!

[@leaht6381]

Bean Hill well it’s your decision!! If they want a white dress, they can get one for THEMSELVES!!

[@ilahill2371]

Leah Torzilli thank you!

[@leaht6381]

Bean Hill 🤗😊🤗😊🤗

[@dianebrady6784]

Don't trip out baby. I'm a veteran single mom who recreates formal dresses.......kind of cool frankendresses.I do black dresses and well you gotta just love a black veil bride. Wear what you want.

[@ilahill2371]

Diane Brady thank you😊

[@gahyeonlvr7501]

There love story is actually so sweet, and I love the concept for the wedding. Like having it in the library- god, it’s beautiful. The mother is honestly so irritating. She throws shade at her own daughter for marrying a woman, then tries to control what her wedding dress will be. Ugh, ridiculous.

[@ArkAwaits]

can we talk about how the brother is really cool and supportive bc i think he should get a shoutout

[@VAGleaso]

She doesn’t want not traditional but likes the off cream colored dress

[@heavenlyhellion916]

The mom seems a bit bitter about the entire thing in general

[@KomaedasOneTrueHope]

@Lil Nene Brb no she doesn't because she can't control HER GROWN ASS daughter

[@BabsChannel]

@@KomaedasOneTrueHope Awe, you don't have a full grasp on reality yet. Yes, little one, she does have the right to say and think whatever she pleases.lol I hate kids so much. You don't get a real firm idea of the real world until you finally figure out life is a free range.

[@ChexNyx]

Cult Leader Greg um. What? 😂 At first I thought you were talking about the first comment, are you serious? Did you click on the wrong one to reply to? Please, wtf about their comment has to do with kids or their age or what they say? The mom was being rude and unsupportive, yEa she can say whatever she wants, but just because someone is allowed to call someone racial slurs does that make it okay? No. No it doesn’t. It’s the same here, just on a much lower scale.

[@ghostgrl6]

the bride is literally so gorgeous, love the brother too

[@trucvivianpham9919]

You can tell the mom is trying to play it cool but she's madddd, and manipulative

[@sharknom8867]

Vivian Victorie Yeah in the start the mom I’m sure forced her daughter into princess dresses and stuff So she would be society’s version of the perfect little gurl

[@abyc-m2291]

@@sharknom8867 agreed.

[@watersheep2663]

I mean her mother has been waiting and picturing for this day since she was born. So..

[@sierracollins1383]

@@watersheep2663 Yes but its the daughters day, not the mothers. Why do people need to conform to society, be should who they want to be as long as it does not harm others.

[@LMSPetRescue]

water sheep funnily my mom never really pictured either me or my sister having a big wedding, she expected we’d marry a man someday (I’m pansexual so she’s “like whatever never mind I quit on expectations”) but she’s always just assumed we’ll have something very low key

[@emily_toots]

I hate the subtle remarks about her being "unconventional" because she's a lesbian...

[@maxwellbrian690]

Hi Emily how're you doing today

[@bellamarshall3240]

even if i didnt like my childs wedding dress if they loved it i would never tell them that

[@rhiski177]

“I wish she found her Prince Charming” ohhhhhh.... so THAT’S why she’s so against everything.

[@uthrapriya7030]

@bubble gumgirl69 no what would have not been okay if she disrespects her own daughter for being gay. But she was quite happy and contented that her daughter found a princess. Also she wasn't mean to her daughter. All she wanted was to see her in a white dress, she just said she couldn't picture her daughter wearing a black dress not that her daughter should not wear a black dress.

[@uthrapriya7030]

@bubble gumgirl69 her mom was a little annoying but not mean or rude how most people are in the show.

[@uthrapriya7030]

@bubble gumgirl69 I am sorry but 'many others' can also see just the same thing I or you can. In this video (atleast) she seems genuinely happy for her daughter, maybe she didn't expect her daughter to be gay. Trust me I have seen parents react worse. Now neither of us know her personally to decide her character based on a 8 minute video, cause 90% of the stuff that is shown in this channel are staged to increase drama and viewers attention. For me she is fine, all she wants is to do, is see her daughter in a white dress. In the sequel to this video where the bride puts on the black dress, her mom is filled with happiness. She is a mother, never question a mother's love,unless you have got proof otherwise.

[@uthrapriya7030]

@bubble gumgirl69 its not wrong. It would have been wrong if she reacted badly. I mentioned this before. Mother's. Opinions. Maters. If you can't even take this much from the woman who pushed you off her uterus, who sacrificed her entire life to you a perfect one, then talk about being ungrateful. The bride herself said that she's close to her mother in the other video. So stop assuming when you don't even know about her.

[@uthrapriya7030]

@bubble gumgirl69 also as I said, this video is mostly staged, so really you don't know how anyone feels. Again she's a mother, I don't think you'd be so please if someone says the same about your mother. So same goes for her.

[@darialayne2300]

Why are people so against black wedding dresses, like seriously it's the clients choice. Marriage is starting to die out currently, so just let people do what they want like wtf😂

[@_aiko020]

@YoungOasis what the fuck THATS SO COOL

[@v.h6866]

@YoungOasis that's so amazing!

[@Mrs.FloatyHeart]

@YoungOasis that is actually lit

[@ceilidh.___.]

I was listening to this in the background, and when she said “she” , I nearly cracked my neck from how fast I turned my head to look at the screen to make sure I heard that right.

[@equuleusp3150]

GURL YOU AINT PAYIN FOR IT LEAVE HER BE

[@saanstarantolin2641]

Just asking.. if someone wants black wedding dress, wouldnt they have more options in the prom dress shops, party dress shops, rather than bridal?

[@shenanigansofanotaku]

True. Prom dresses would give her far more selection and it would be WAY cheaper. For my prom (a thousand years ago, lol), I fell for a black prom dress at Forever 21. Mom bought it, even though it cost over $200. She didn't tell me the cost till many years later. I felt so bad, lol. I still have the dress to this day. Dunno what I'm gonna do with it. :P I bought my wedding dress on Etsy since it's a Celtic midnight blue dress. No way in hell a bridal boutique would have that. XD

[@bunnyandthehunterz1081]

I think it’s cute that the brother is just like “she’ll always be beautiful” it makes me happy 🌸🥺

[@ry1940]

she really said getting baptized in fire... shes not even trying to be supportive rn.

[@LadyGrey260]

Her mom seems homophobic, but is just keeping it together for the cameras. She has that attitude of “oh, it’s just a phase.”

[@zabindhanji]

I hand it to the Mum for letting go of her vision of a white wedding dress, as she can see how happy her daughter feels.

[@youknowwho3351]

Her brother is cute

[@baimken3001]

We read th same book 😆

[@sacredgirl8173]

n handsome ...

[@pollypockets508]

I know right.

[@tebuhongulube398]

Now am so distracted..

[@liinat3067]

Yeeeesss