Consume Last struggles

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[@jaysonp9426]

Ni/Ti consume last: If it wasn't for Google I would be a hobo. Thinking about going to the library for answers makes napping on the street corner with a bucket for money sound great. Instead, I'm an entrepreneur. Thank you Google. Take my identity and shopping habits. You've earned it.

[@catstrawford]

Only it's not just Google who's gonna end up with your data... Js

[@Roxaho]

This made me laugh so hard because it's true. Ni/Fe demon consume

[@Nerdy-By-Nature]

That hurt 🤣

[@DGolden247]

I find the whole process that Tai explained about reading a book fascinating. Not because I agree with his style of reading, but because it’s very telling as to what kind of person he is. It also got me thinking about how I approach reading a book (or any media in general). Usually the only goal I have when I’m about to read a book is to either enjoy a story or to receive a new understanding over a topic I’m interested in. I know that sounds vague and like something that everyone does, but I don’t specify the goal like Tai does. “Looking to understand management, therefore I’ll find the parts that talk about the how-to manage.” That’s not how I think, I think instead “I want to know more about this topic *in general* .” If a book lines up with my interests, I’m going to take my time to read the whole book. Or at least attempt to. But if there’s a section within the book that I’m not interested in, I’ll skim through it, scanning for only the most relevant stuff. Along with that, sometimes when something else takes ahold of my interest, I set the book down for a while and I might wait until my interest comes back before I pick up the book again and continue from where I left off. Main point though, whenever I start a new book, I intend to finish it, whereas Tai will intend to hop around trying to find the ‘gold nugget of truth.’ I guess the intention is one of the differences between someone with Consume Last and someone with Consume that’s higher up. Going beyond that, I think analyzing how one approaches information is a good approach towards typing them, along with others.

[@InternetLiJo]

Yeah I’ll do anything to avoid going to any store as well lol

[@bobcruz2826]

Thank god for Amazon

[@SantiagoRodriguez-fe6ng]

same

[@SantiagoRodriguez-fe6ng]

@@bobcruz2826 In amazon you also need to gather

[@ladybluebell1598]

Shopping is a nightmare

[@softly128]

I leave my online cart for days sometimes weeks then come back and see if I'm sure or not. At the store I have to make up my mind quickly.

[@XavierGuillaume]

I am consume first so this video is hilarious to me. My earrings broke and my mom (I believe an ISFJ) she wanted to fix them and use gorilla glue too. It was like 10 year old gorilla glue because she keeps everything and does not throw anything away. It was hard as a rock. She probably would have cut it open and dug for fossil glue if I didn't stop her. So she tried to use rubber cement. Meanwhile I am like this will not work and looking online whether or not rubber cement will glue together metal. It does not. I was going nuts. I was like Mom just leave it alone. It is broken and it is okay. I just need to take it to a jewelry repair person and they will fix it.

[@usercanalviejo2]

This is so relatable .-.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

BUT WE NEED TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD RIGHT NOW OR WE ARE BAD!!!! Love, an ISFJ. :)

[@claytonia1586]

Oh god! When I was typed as consume last I thought 'really? But I consume all the time!'. And I do, but in this exact way! Looking for something specific for a task or going to tried and tested resources! I have so many half finished books to read and so many books I've never read. I actually have loads of books but it's going to take me a lifetime to read even the ones I have! I feel so proud of myself if I read a book 🤣. Anyway, this made me laugh so hard. I always thought Dave was the annoying one. Now I realise I am Dave! 😂.

[@natebot321]

1:44 Shan 'accidentally' choking Dave

[@box-of-chocolates]

There is so much to learn for me from the "animal concept"!!! As an info-dom Consume third, I just automatically pick up any information lying around after I'm finished with the Blast/Play for the day. I read books like a vacuum cleaner sucks up dust, without even noticing. Through your channel I learned that there are actually people out there who need "READING ROUTINES"! Whaaaaaat? 👻👻👻 As a professor, I now started developing Play/Sleep based learning scenarios where I can sneak-in the information for my Consume Last students without having them go through the panic of having to "read a book". 😉 Works pretty well! (Plus: I have a lot more empathy for those poor guys...😄

[@einsame_Maria]

As a person who was tortured by professors at my university with "here's your reading assignment, I'm not gonna tell you anything, just go and read about it and then we will discuss it at a seminar" I wanna say Thank you😭

[@box-of-chocolates]

@@einsame_Maria 👍😇

[@someonerandom713]

I just love seeing how the OP system comes to fruition in real life application! :O Could you tell me what that looks like? The learning scenarios? :O

[@box-of-chocolates]

@@someonerandom713 Sorry, but here comes my long Blaster answer 😈😈😈: . . . I try to structure my classes more like dishes on a menu now, and students can put together their own menu by picking which assignments they want to do. In the past, I would try to define one learning path and one set of assignments for everyone, but understanding more and more how different we are especially when learning, I gave up completely the idea that everyone has to do the same. They can go on different „tracks“, in the end they probably will have learned different things, but that’s much better than not learning anything. E.g. an element that will appeal to the Play types is action oriented learning: They can choose to take part in a day-long real-life case study (lots of team dynamics, role play, etc.) with different tasks that build on each other. To complete the tasks they need additional input/knowledge which I sneak-in (once they figured out they need it) in small portions on every step of the way. An element that appeals more to the Sleep types would be something like a learning diary, that they can choose to complete at home over the course of the seminar with lots of reflective questions on topics we cover in class. The Blasters can book themselves „teaching slots“ where they prepare short learning sessions to teach the other students (because they learn best by explaining stuff to others). Those methods are of course nothing new, but what is new to me is that I let them choose freely and that all assignments are considered equally valuable. What I observe is that the more freedom I give them to choose according to their preferences, the more they will actually challenge themselves by taking on tasks that make them explore their demons more, .e.g a Blast/Play ExxJ will suddenly try to really force himself to do the self-reflections. A Sleep/Consume person shows up on „action day“, etc.

[@someonerandom713]

@@box-of-chocolates That's super cool! :) The blast/play stuff sounds pretty easy going compared to the sleep and regular consuming, to me 🤔😅

[@nishbrown]

Dave - Cuts open glue bottle. Me - Uses the broken shears to cut the bottle open.

[@PRoseLegendary]

That guys method of reading sounds like he's taking the joy right out of reading. My goal when I read something is to enjoy the experience, maybe get out of my head a little without needing mind altering substances, and if I'm lucky, I might learn something. Kinda why I hate self-help books, they're boring, unless they're written from a personal perspective, with people's real stories about how they've implemented the stuff from the book. I learn more from stories than from step by step how tos. But then, I probably need the step by step how tos when it comes to overcoming my demons.

[@someonerandom713]

I guess, for him, there is no joy in reading to begin with. He just does it because that is what success people are supposed to do.

[@sybrandwoudstra9236]

So basically taking a walk through the park and attaching a leash onto yourself. ''You can explore the bookworld, but you have to be home by 5 pm because then you have to do stuff in the real world.''

[@Chatoyancify]

II'm probably consume first, but I wouldn't get new shears either. It's an opportunity to use one of the multiple adhesives I'll research before purchasing. Yay!

[@Chatoyancify]

@@SailorSiFi Because something else will break and require that glue,. Perhaps you would research if you cared greatly about the shears.

[@ayushzaveri8193]

Damn, Tai Lopez should give a new TedTalk on how he manages to read 3 books a day

[@Frawjon97]

Is there not a correlation between having Sleep first - Consume last and hypersensitivity? Apparently only 30% of HSP are extroverted. Seems like high Sleep with low Consume to me. Also, have the two of you thought about how your four animals are pretty much the same as the four classical humors? Sleep = Melancholic, Blast = Choleric, Consume = Phlegmatic, Play = Sanguine.

[@ayushzaveri8193]

Okay, I think I have consume last or at least third. Whenever I read a non-fiction, self-help book, I'll never read the whole thing. I've never been able to. I just look at the core ideas and jump right to the page where the central idea is mentioned. In terms of videos online or looking for a movie to watch, I have trouble looking for something new. I always want to go back to something I've watched or read before and re-read it. I think it helps me consolidate. I hate Tai Lopez and think he's a fraud, but I'm similar in this sense. I also have trouble finishing studies quickly. When something is excessively detailed, I won't finish it. I take too much time trying to read and consolidate and perfect what I already know. Even when it comes to ordering online, I'll call for the same kind of food again and again and again. Even while shopping for clothes, I'll buy the same clothes again after the old ones of the same type are worn out. And whenever I try something new, I feel proud of myself. But that's me peacocking. I get it from my dad, who I think has consume last, which is probable, since he's an ISTJ.

[@LemonMeIon]

Ayush Zaveri, Same and I’m an ENFP, however I don’t lie and brag about it like Lopez here.. I hate reading for a long time and know that I don’t have enough patience to get through an entire book. That’s why I have 50 tabs open on my computer with every new idea I’m trying to figure out. When shopping, I also search deeply for the previously owned version and tend to be very picky about finding the right thing and getting a good deal. I think I’m much more open and fair than blasters like Lopez.

[@grumpyschnauzer]

That’s how I feel about shopping for foundation... and then one day my foundation company changes the entire line of foundation and the color number sequencing on top of that and... -_- the store that carried it shut down and moved without me knowing so... I had a meltdown that day and boycotted shopping for the new foundation for a month... that’s how long I got away with avoiding that *situation* altogether 😤🙄

[@MrLuigiFercotti]

This often leads to "I don't know shit but, I sure have a lot of opinions syndrome."

[@ilcapitanoalexandr8698]

Shan: What he's actually doing? 3:08 Dave: Lying. Me: 😕😂 Hahahahahahahah.

[@Oilofmercy]

I love going to home depot. I collect 1000 paint samples, look at all the appliances and dream about which would be fun to own. Check out all the light fixtures. I skid down the isles and have fun. Meanwhile ex hubby working on his list and mumbling. This is why I stayed home and did laundry while he went to the grocery store. Lol. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ( not the reason why we are divorced)

[@heatherbryant4197]

Leading with consume, I couldn't even fathom what consume last would look like, until Shannon mentioned the Google thing. OMG I know some people who will ask me to define a word they don't understand through text message... 🤔🙄😒😯😰🤐 It's like WTF... You're already on your phone... How can you not just Google the definition of the word and have an answer you _should_ be able to comprehend in like 2 seconds? Instead, you're going to ask me to define it for you and wait for me to reply via text message? As much I appreciate that people think I'm a walking encyclopedia, more often than not it means I'm the one who's going to have to Google it and make sure my understanding is sound before I give an answer. 😵 These are also the same people who make judgemements based on assumptions that are based on their own ignorance... which causes oodles of problems down the road... Yet they'd rather do that than consider asking a simple clarifying question to ascertain whether their assumption is correct. Why, you ask? Well it seems like it doesn't even register in their brain that they could be wrong. "Makes sense to me" = "Good enough for me" = must be true = presented as fact, OR, another judgemement predicated on the faulty assumption is asserted, leaving me to scratch my head wondering how they came to that conclusion. In the absence of explanation (which is their responsibility to seek, IMO), perceptions become reality. Like, "I haven't seen you eat today, therefore I assume you must have never eaten all day." 🤦 Then if you can muster the energy to contradict them and explain why they're wrong, they just say, "Oh, well, I didn't know." To which I retort, "Exactly. You didn't know. So if you DON'T know, don't act like you DO know." 🤦😤 Uhg. Sorry to get so worked up, guys. This particular trait is a huge pet peeve of mine. I used to call this "having a defective brain" (mean, I know). But I guess when I think about it, it's basically unsound inductive reasoning. At least in the experiences I've had. I should specify I'm referring specifically to the Blast first types (BS/P(C) and BP/S(C)). I don't have much experience with PB/S(C) or SB/P(C), though I have seen them make mistakes due to having consume last, it's not as obnoxious.

[@someonerandom713]

✋ Hi there "Well it seems like it doesn't even register in their brain that they could be wrong." It doesn't. Really. I wouldn't call it ignorance as much as I'd call it lack of awareness. Maybe it's not as much an "Ni tunnelvision problem" as it is a Consume last thing. At least for ENxJs and probably INxJs, I can attribute it to weak Ne not being active enough to stop Ni from narrowing down their perception on too few possible explainations right away. Autopilot organized, known, established perception instead of having ones head up and looking around for something new. I don't know how it is with SJs, or any other types with consume last. I've mostly seen this through the Ni>Ne lense. Could be similar with SJs through Si being above everything else.

[@someonerandom713]

"Having a defective brain" Honestly, that doesn't sound so far off to me. I've caught myself even having an accusing tone in this manner. Like, telling the other person: "Put yourself in my shoes. This is the things I saw. So it can only be this or that. How would you even come up with the idea that anything other than these two options I see are true?" I'll in turn be accused of actively wanting to see someone else in a bad light. While actually, I do not even perceive any clues outside this negative view I'm narrowing down on. It's always pretty painful to then rightfully be proven wrong. I agree, it is everyone who is responsible for their own accurate understanding and perception.

[@oscarl.3563]

I really do appreciate a good walking-encyclopedia when I can find one =-). Befriend one and they have you covered for life.

[@jeffreysherman8224]

I'm blast first (BS/P(C) INFJ), and I feel the exact same way you do! Like, "What the actually freak is wrong with you!? Don't present your opinions as fact! And you sure as hell don't present ASSumptions from your limited perspective as fact! UGH! STOP ACTING LIKE YOU KNOW WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW S***!!!" As an Ni lead, my desire for correctness is just as strong as (if not stronger than) my desire to teach or share (blast). It's a huge fear of mine (and I would have thought other Ni doms as well) to teach information that's inaccurate. Teaching, guiding, influencing, and information itself are very sacred to me. I Google things all the time just to make sure I have the details correct before I tell something. From what you've said though, that's not the case with every INFJ or blast lead. Or perhaps it's a Te/Fi thing, since the example was an INTJ. I think that's just bad character to nonchalantly mislead others because you couldn't be bothered to make sure you're correct. I feel it's cruel and very hurtful. I believe everyone has the responsibility to be accurate in what they say. How else can you trust them? And if people are casually misleading, why would you even want to talk to them? I'm disgusted by people who are full of crap but talk anyway. I believe you should present what you say with your level of certainty. If you know something as fact, then present it as fact. If you're unsure, then make that known by saying, "maybe" or "it could be." If what you're saying is an opinion, then say, "I feel" or "I think." None of us knows everything, so we would benefit from having the level of certainty/uncertainty given to us. Anyway, I just had to jump in on this rant, because it's a pet peeve of mine too. And it's surprising to me that INxJs would behave flippantly with regards to information and understanding.

[@heatherbryant4197]

@@someonerandom713 Hey! 👋 I love that you always respond to my comments and we can bounce ideas off each other :) Yes, I'd say it's definitely similar with SJs, except with the SJs, their perception of the present and future is informed by their past impressions. I guess it's also kind of a low Ne thing, but particularly with high Si, I see them as living in what I call "a constant state of surprise." Never saw that turn coming because the road has been straight for the past 5 miles! Like they just expect things to keep on being the way they've always been. Personally, I see it as very short-sighted, but that's my functional bias speaking, once again. I'd say most of my experience with this phenomenon is with SJs. I've experienced it with xNTJs as well, albeit with a more future-focus in their conclusions. xNFJs actually not so much... I mean, they are sometimes wrong with their Ni conclusions, but somehow it's not as annoying to me. It comes across as less insistent and overconfident, which I thought was because of Fe/Ti, but it's still a bit more grating to me from Fe/Si and Si/Fe... So maybe it's just because their thought process is mirroring my demons with some sort of pushy, certain (masculine or reminiscent of masculine) Si + Fe combination... I'd have to ponder that one. I'm writing this as it's popping into my brain. Maybe it really is just a personal issue I have because of my own personality. I bet not everyone finds these tendencies as annoying as I do. True, Ni can get "tunnel vision," but at least with Ni 2nd, I'd think that with 6th slot Ne, they'd actually have a decent comprehension of Ne -- perhaps enough to at least consider possible deviations, even if they default to narrowing down. But alas, it is hard to consider possibilities that arise from a mindset completely contradictory to your own, which I do see with NTJs attempting to consider others' perspectives, but failing to envision advice that actually works with the stack of a person in a completely different quadra, for example. I must say that, at least for myself, my most frequent response to the faulty De/Oi judgemements is to say nothing. If they make a habit out of thinking like this, even after being corrected, I stop bothering to correct them. I feel like I'm wasting my breath if I can't train them consider other possibilities. I also feel that if they're going to judge me without bothering to seek the truth, they don't "deserve" to know me or the truth. So in a way I'm "punishing" them with the loss of knowing me (I guess that all sounds pretty Fi/Te, huh? Lol) But it's also letting them "dig their own grave," or "giving them just enough rope to hang themselves." Because if you let it go unchecked long enough without volunteering feedback to feed into their processing, they'll keep looping through Si or Ni perceptions until they eventually compile a narrative that is so off, it becomes all the more embarrassing and obvious to knock over in one fell swoop. I suppose a part of me thinks that's more likely to get through to them, but it might not work. That strategy also depends on me taking initiative to check them and be direct, which is far from my strong-suit in reality. Unless someone else does it for me. But my point in mentioning this was to perhaps alert you to the possibility that others may take the same approach (however many people out there are like me). So, unfortunately, you may not even be made aware that you're being a bit hasty, unless you slow down and reflect and put in the effort to seek the information you need to make an accurate judgemement.

[@nternetrat]

the end bit was SUCH a great explanation of gathering/organizing

[@4thNebula]

These type of videos are helpful. It appears that Consume is normally (I am not willing to say always but for the say of the 512 types system it is) the combination of an extroverted observer taking in external information and then deciding introvertedly on it via value or logical analysis. I am constantly taking in new information. I eat breakfast while watching KZbins or finding new data somehow. I spend a lot of alone time at work analyzing my data that I often have the drive to go out and collect more to answer questions I have. According to this video sounds like Se or Ne working with Ti.

[@NoraRoisin]

Thanks so much for this video! I have suspected I might not truly be consume, though I feign consume for the sake of being accepted. I was torn as to whether I was really saviour Blast (and I'm going to peacock here and say I'm waiting for more information on this) because I do have a bit of the 'you can't know enough' syndrome, but I think that might have been drilled into me by my family not being impressed with what I said, as well as being teased for being wrong. So... I just got stalemated. I don't really care to research properly (and I know it), but I couldn't ask questions/interact to find out the information; they didn't want to be bothered. This kind of hurt my feelings as a child, but it meant I was forced somewhat more to figure things out on my own and I also felt a strong pressure to learn enough so as not to be made fun of. Whiiich really meant I hardly spoke what I thought until I was late in my teens and I'm still opening up.

[@findandobserve]

I haven’t accessed this memory in 5 years....and it’s all coming back (all coming back to me now): Desperate to escape a flying drone programmed to film guests at one of his parties, I found myself hiding in one of Tai’s upstairs bathrooms, crouched down between a pile of books and a sitz bath. It was at this moment when I planned my Irish goodbye. Really makes you think.

[@tomwiggins2869]

What a penny-drop moment this was! I'm an ENTP, all about the consume. I will read literally anything that wafts in front of me, even if I'm not remotely interested in the subject. As a kid that meant being in a book all the time because that was all I had available. These days I have to be careful not to get my phone out when I get home from work, or else I'll suddenly find I've spent two hours crawling through [internet content] and no longer have time to exercise. I consciously make an effort *not* to pick up a book, because that will be the end of me until I've finished it, and I don't rush! In fact most of the time it isn't a challenge, because I've got too many tabs open that need reading first and never get around to long-form text anyway. I've lost track of how many forums I've joined with the phrase "long time lurker, first time poster". By contrast I have several NJs in my life (INFJs and ENTJs have popped up a lot for me over time, for some reason) and their common theme is making damn sure that everybody knows how much they've been reading/listening to. They've even got a book club! I've always put it down to a status thing ("look how cultured I am..."), but peacocking weak consume makes a whole lot of sense. I'll put forward some interesting material which I think might cause a discussion: firstly I get whacked in the head with their conclusions before we've even got started finding the most interesting questions; secondly it is amazing how reliably they hone in on just the parts which justify what they believed already. Proof! Obviously! Really not a fan of sensory consume though. If I need a thing, I need the thing. I'll do whatever I need to do to get it and stop having to think about it, as quickly as possible. Having too many things is as undesirable as spending a lot of energy getting them!

[@xynx1211]

Huh. I'm add intp (hm, there seems to be a pattern here between being intp and being diagnosed with "add") and i think I'm SCPB (turbo-introvert (everyone stresses me out)), and i can't read anything less interesting than Terry Pratchett (good entp humor), the problem is that when i try to read and i don't find it interesting I'll find myself counting the number of letters in each word and the number of words in each line or sentence (like my brain's saying "I'm not gonna waste energy processing this boring shit"). Also, it seems I'm either disinterested or obsessed. Either I'm never reading, or I'm helplessly reading for many hours in a single day. I guess i naturally go too deep, so that it takes a lot of energy to get in or out of the mindstate, so i avoid going in simply because of the initial barrier of getting into the mindstate. Well this explains why i never do anything...

[@ndcoach29]

“You don’t GET toooooo!” Me. “I can fix these!” Also me, LOL!!

[@GothicPurple]

I'm NiFi SB/P(C) and this is such an issue for me. Its like I have severe ADD when trying to learn something new. *Reads an article on how to do something for 5 seconds* Ok I'm bored, Im sure if i keep trying Ill get it eventually.

[@ssg2991]

I used to have severe ADHD myself, but then I learned i had levels of heavy metal toxicity (mercury poisoning mostly) that was fucking with my brain and body. I used an oral spray called Metal Free by Body Health that was recommended by the health practitioner Paul Chek and it almost cured me entirely. The rest of the disorder was fixed by not eating sugar anymore.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Wow. Ne/Fi CS/P(B) and my struggles are completely the opposite. I can’t even bring myself to START new projects or activities, and I never feel like I know enough. I get lost in the Consume hole trying to read article after article of advice and information, and I wait for that moment when I feel like I finally know enough to start. (Which never happens, by the way.) And if I do start and find out something goes wrong along the way??? Panic. Immediate panic at the realization that I’m lost and don’t know what I’m doing, so then what do I do? I go and look up mORE articles for help and information 😭😂 you blasters actually blow my mind. I look up to you guys.

[@GothicPurple]

@@sophiaredwood5825 I actually type as Ni/Fe now so I'd be dominant blast haha! It's likewise too I envy consume people! You have enough information for like, anything ever lol, don't listen to your doubts!

[@eleob9098]

this hit way too close to home

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

Oh, my Lord. I will teach others, pace around the hallway thinking for hours, and even have rapid-fire conversation with someone when trying to solve a problem _long_ before looking things up online... I basically use my Play energy to get quick into then see if I can fill in the blanks and do it myself. As for the refusal to replace old things with new... It's a preservation thing - squeeze as much out of a thing as I can and bolster against possible issues long before wasting time, effort, and money to get something new.

[@dylonias]

Shan (S-Se): go buy a new one (whichever brand), it's all the same glue Dave (D-Se): no, I dont know the (one) new brand, it could be different Dylan (S-Ne): I would love to buy another bottle (old brand), but my new roommate is taller than me and insists on this other one, with which I will accidentally glue my fingers together and decide to conquer by using it on every project for a year Secondary comment: I recognize those outfits/that editing style. You made this in February and forgot to post it, didn't you?

[@jaideepsingh4395]

Great observation

[@dacksonflux]

I don't know what my animals are, what my type is, whatever... but Dave is my spirit animal.

[@einsame_Maria]

3:47 "last little missing pizzas"? 😂

[@insecureintellectual4783]

lol 😂

[@hfortenberry]

Okay, INTJ here and Tai Lopez offends my consume sensibilities! WTH??? LOL How can he call that reading????? And he sets a damn TIMER??? 15 minutes??? That is NOT reading! This is such a joke! I read the entire book, never skipping a line, sometimes re-reading lines to make sure I really understood it and taking notes along the way to cement the knowledge into my brain. I blast as well AFTER I've done a good amount of consuming/studying on a subject. Then you can't shut me up about it. :-) I think after watching all the OP videos on the animals, I am SCBP

[@joelmirabito7390]

I read a book every 6 months, sure there's heaps of shorter articles or comics I read through, but the actual books have 300 to about 1500 pages.

[@orangeziggy348]

It sounds like he's talking about his "skin routine" when he talks about reading for 15 minutes using a timer. It looks like he's even struggling to stay seated in his chair.

[@dianaleestudio]

Sleep first please~~

[@carryon8935]

yesss!

[@carryon8935]

yesss!

[@lyrimetacurl0]

@@carryon8935 don't you mean yezzzzz

[@Nimrad780]

This is why (c) has either one glue or no glue, while CX/X(X) has 9 different glues, half of which are almost empty 😂

[@blacklantern4753]

Te/Se Play/Blast/Sleep/Consume I really do hate reading/studying. I always think I can learn by getting my hands on it. I find myself skimming alot to my detriment. I've gotten better about it. I incorporate one other person in my study sessions to keep me on track

[@einsame_Maria]

My room is literally covered in book (I wish I could attach a photo to this comment), I have 6 books right at my bedside. Do I read them??? Occasionally(rarely). Only when I get hooked up on the plot. Like if there is an end goal to the story, I will finish it. If not......

[@einsame_Maria]

Okey, not literally covered. The thing is I have no shelves in my room. Only the window sill and a coffee table. And I put my books, my exercise books, other stuff there(my make up). And it's not like I don't want shelves. I just can't get to ordering them, and well, I need to ask my sister to order them and I need to order a table. Because she said I needed a table, and I agree, I do. I just, don't know, I guess I don't wanna spend money. But my room is a mess.... And I need shelves. And when I wanted to, my sister was really busy and couldn't order them, but when she could, I didn't have money to spare. But then I go and buy makeup and clothes or food(like fancy food) and I'm sitting and thinking to myself, why can't I order the shelves? I guess it's because right now I'm low on income and till September we're living of my savings and I'm afraid if I spend money on the shelves and the table, then we'll run out of money before I start working again... I don't know.

[@heatherbryant4197]

Lol what type are you? Se PoLR or Se inferior?

[@einsame_Maria]

@@heatherbryant4197 I think, I'm an FF-INTJ-B/S Play or Consume Last, because honestly I can't do either of these. If I can, I can't even go out of the house(I once spent two weeks in my room watching Star Trek TOS) But it's so hard to type myself, when I know I can be overseeing some things. What I know for sure is I'm Blast first. I talk non-stop, also I'm literally a teacher(English, German, Life). And I know it, because I used to say how introverted I am, and quiet and not talkative at all, and people around me would be like "Bitch, really? You never shut up, you're an extrovert!".

[@NotSoNormal1987]

I've come to the conclusion that reading books and buying books are 2 different hobbies. 😅 I've read a lot of books that I own. But I also have shelves of unread books.

[@einsame_Maria]

@@NotSoNormal1987 as well as wearing makeup and buying makeup. I buy it all the time and wear it only occasionally. I have, I think, more than 30 lipsticks, and wear two or three shades, or none.

[@phh.8393]

This made me laugh as I bought 2 types of glue this morning. And I just fixed our broken fan and a loose-screwed study table. I rather fix things than throw them away as long as things are still useful. Buying less = less garbage. However, I like consuming a lot of information.

[@tiggerjimbo1275]

Wish I could read a book a day, I don't have time or the fucus, every other book I start is never finished, unless it's revolutionary, a page turner or is going to have an impact on my life

[@scilines]

Poor Gary 😂

[@worldwidehappiness]

That was weird! (I'm consume first.)

[@frogjackethuman781]

I do the timer thing too! I hate school work so I'm only going to do it for 1 hour to objectively track this and I can't wait for the timer to hurry up and end! The other one is stuff like researching a new fridge to buy or having to disassemble a shelf, all that sucky Se consume stuff I want to be done with as soon as possible. Te/Ni

[@dolfdervish8495]

I'm having a tough time typing a friend.. Which type(s) is/are (a) Doer(s).. Yet, they *must* be 1st intrigued.. Then, observe & trust before doing.... Once they Trust enough to try, they go *all in...* Afterwards, sharing their experience(s)/perspective(s)...?"

[@EnidFPatternson]

Holy crap, these exemplars are all so good. (And this guy's 'daily head-filling with reinforcement' routine is unbearable to even listen to . . . though his effort level and discipline be admirable. :-))

[@shannonthejeepgirl]

I have a new guy for you guys to type! His name is Dr. John Demartini and I feel like he is the parallel universe version of Tony Robbins. I love him and it’s killing me trying to type him.

[@thijsjong]

He has a business because. Buyers buy into him. His business model exist because others buying into him. That is all. No further substance. It is empty inside. He is full of fluff. He does not need more if there are enough taking the bait. He just jeeps saying stuff that cant be deverified. Like a poltician or lawyer. Just saying safe stuff that can never be wrong.

[@NotSoNormal1987]

I'd of done the same with the glue. But that's $ I wouldn't have had to spend on glue or new trimmers. Which means $ for things I'm actually interested in. 😁 Plus I've had to be resourceful pretty much all my life since I grew up quite poor. When I was a kid learning to sew, I would unpick thread to re-use for making doll clothes. I'm so glad that I can just buy thread now. 8 year old me would be jealous.

[@craigmiller1870]

This sugarcain gots my blood raising to its boiling point! Holy Jesus, please don't let met finsihging this senetence. How embarrassing for this young man not knowing a single thing about Jack Welch, Such a great idea for a man.

[@cherishtheday2223]

So you’re telling me I don’t have to know the ins and outs and every minute detail of a skill before I start monetizing it???

[@SimpleAmadeus]

Listening to this video I keep flipping between "guess I'm consume last" and "guess I'm not consume last at all". Does that mean I'm consume middle?

[@sledge5400]

Sux bad for The ppl getting ripped off

[@AS-jq4lb]

Consume last invented Blinkist.

[@justinwhite2725]

Okay. Consume/Sleep here. How do you ONLY read for 15 minutes at a time? If I'm picking up a book that's 45 minutes minimum for that one sitting. and I've studied speed reading. That's one of the reasons I stopped reading.

[@kerbes]

Can anyone explain me how does the opposite charge functions work? For example, if my first function is Ni, how does my Ne work? How can I develop it? If my last function is Se, shouldn't I be focused in developing my Si? I think these are called shadow functions, but I know nothing about it, so where can I learn about it?

[@jaideepsingh4395]

Bro the internet's got solution to all your problems.

[@SantiagoRodriguez-fe6ng]

@@jaideepsingh4395 Didn't you get the point? Consume Last. Research is heavy

[@abbyanderbard]

Always looking for that golden nugget. 🌕 I always buy lots of the same shit that I love because I've learned that people just stop making things all the time. And it SUCKS. -- 3 years later. LOL I'm actually Consume first. I just have Si instead of Se, wheeee ~~~

[@ibanezmonsterg]

Often my mind wanders so much so that i barely remember anything i watch or read, even though it's a lot and i always make sure to finish everything. I wonder what underlying reasons consume last people have for not wanting to read? Maybe it varies a lot?

[@einsame_Maria]

I personally don't like reading (don't know if that means consume last) just for the simple reason that it takes too much energy for me. I don't understand how people can "read and relax", it's takes so much concentration, I can read only at night, when everyone's sleeping and it's really quiet. Or I have to put in earplugs(I do have a very strange relationship with sounds, I love music, can't live without it, but I can't fall asleep if I even so much as hear the rustling of the sheets under me). But reading, yeah, it's just exhausting. That's why I only read if there an end goal, like there's a mystery or a problem in the story that will be solved at the end

[@someonerandom713]

Hm, I do not relate to this one as much as I thought I would 🤔

[@heatherbryant4197]

In my experience, it's far worse with Te/Ni and Te/Si types than Fe/Ni and Fe/Si types. Or maybe that's just my bias. After I wrote a comment, I was even starting to think maybe this is part of why I associate Te with jumping to conclusions so much (as I had already previously noted this seemed most prominent to me when Te is coupled with Ni or Si in the first 2 slots), but now that I think about it, it's really not as bad from Fe types, from my perspective. Maybe they just know how to be more tactful so it's less noticeable by virtue of being less abrasive?

[@someonerandom713]

@@heatherbryant4197 Well, what is "it"? I was just refering to the video as a whole 😅 Te, I would say, jumps to conclusions more than Fe and Ti, because Te is goal oriented, thus conclusion oriented in its rational way of thinking. So maybe it seems to give itself less time for perception, but in actuality is just faster to articulate a conclusion than Fe and Ti, which are more willing to explain the whole process. I just see the issue with self and gathering combined. That's just work and it's not fun. I like telling everyone immediatly when I learned something new. I think I can do the self stuff without new input and I can do the gather stuff when it's with the tribe. So sleep and play second and third, would be my self perception. I just realized that friends often catch me off guard when they tell me they learned something new. When I ask them about it and they say: "Yeah, I've been doing this for three months / I learned of this several weeks ago", then I will always want to ask them something like: "What the heck, why wouldn't you tell me earlier, then?" I've even gotten offended over this. Because if I had something new to report, I would have told the people who are important to me. And them not doing the same, to me, initially seems like I'm not important to them, like it's one sided. When in reality, it's just not everyone having that crazy imbalance of blast first and consume last which I think I have.

[@Chatoyancify]

@@someonerandom713 I am that person who doesn't share the new thing I learned weeks ago. Sometimes it has immediate repercussions, like I neglect to share a step in a live process and it's too late to share. "But I thought you knew to do that." I, understandably, get such flak for that. Now I wonder if Blast last people have a tendency to assume others know more than they should because it saves us the effort of sharing.

[@einsame_Maria]

@@someonerandom713 I once thought for a month or two that my friend had a bad falling out with her musical band and there were some deep hurt feeling attached to it, because our common friend told me about it and was like "Yeah, it happened a long time ago, did she not tell you about it?" But I knew nothing about it, and I didn't say anything, because I thought she would tell me in her own time Fast forward a few moths, it comes up in a conversation and I say "Yes, I know, I have been waiting for you to tell me about it" And you know what she told me? "I didn't? I thought I did" Turns out, no hard feeling, no drama, no deeper emotional meaning. They just disbanded. That's because I saw the situation through the prism of my own functions. I do blast information, and I am emotional about it(mostly either rage or excitement), but when I'm experiencing some type of a feeling, personal feeling, I tend to not talk about it. Sadness, love, embarrassment. I find it really hard to talk about them WHILE I'm experiencing them. And once I'm out of the feeling, I'm blasting my experience with them out in the world. That's why I have a problem of oversharing.

[@heatherbryant4197]

@@someonerandom713 Lol okay, you got me on ambiguous wording. By "it," I meant the tendency in question. :P I can relate to your anecdote. I have that issue with xTxJs close to me. I just want to make sure I know what I'm talking about and have met what I consider a requisite level of understanding, reflection, and certainty before I open my mouth (also part of why expressing myself in writing feels more natural). I also don't want to say something I regret or bother someone with issues that may lose relevance, that I can potentially deal with myself, or for which there may be a "better time" to address. But they interpret that sometimes as hiding something or withholding information. They say, "why didn't you tell me?!" I say, "why didn't you ask?" They tell me everything, in an effort to be "transparent," apparently, but sometimes it's an overwhelming purge of information that can even come across as conversational narcissism. So I say, "Why don't you wait for me to ask?" Lol apparently someone's always gotta ask to show interest. In my mind, that's just how polite conversations work. And yes, absolutely, especially with romantic partners, they can let their insecurities, or past experiences filtered through insecurities, get the better of them and end up thinking I'm not making them a priority or they're not important enough to me. Once that comes out, I have to try to get them to understand they're not the only ones, that I do that with everyone. It's just a reflection of the way I operate; not their worth to me. Although I do end up sharing more with people who _initiate_ asking questions in a curious rather than pre-judgemental or interrogative way. Those people may end up _becoming_ important to me because I'm able to share vulnerably with them, but I don't share _because_ they're more important, if that makes sense. You kind of have to gently coax information out of me by refraining from jumping to conclusions and thinking you already know. I've only known one person who attempts to finish my sentences for me and actually ends up being correct.

[@rayanrafea5869]

0:34 "bullshit anecdotes" 😂😂😂😂

[@TheNicMMc]

consume last is doesn't react to new information. It can seriously fucks with your life if you have it personally. There countless times looking back when I've should simply adjust when things or my ideas but I am like "nope! Shut up, it will work" and keep shooting myself in the foot.

[@sayscate]

Here's your problem: you're buying them from home depot. Home depot does not have them made to last. Everything home depot has is disposable on purpose. In a related story, I tried to repair mine the same way. That's the wrong gorilla glue though.

[@ucjapecuch9094]

Oh yeah now I do understand why some people are like " I read 200 books per year and I am so intelligent" then when it comes to real argumentation they are like well I dont know what I read but I will just talk bullshit for fun.

[@joshuapowell3526]

*knowledge* 🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄🐗

[@crshia]

Wow, but those turned out pretty spanking new with that Gorilla's glue.

[@sledge5400]

Beware

[@esjel9804]

LOL! Hilirious!

[@0halibut0]

Oh gosh, my brain is revolting at his setting of timers for book reading. EWWWWW. Who's the person who reads the whole book and finds the nugget of truth? Lead Consume? And I would have bought new shears, because I know that the repair won't last long enough and I'll have wasted my time trying to repair them.

[@hfortenberry]

Dave you are so funny! "Alright, so I'm about to read a book. Here I go...Let's make this quick. I'm about to open it up....Arrgghhh" LMAO That's exactly how he sounds. Like he's showing off and he's not EVEN reading a damn thing hardly. SMH

[@surfacetension2298]

i want to know who the fuck is garry, what his type is, why you throw shit at his backyard and why he is part of the lore of the channel now.

[@surfacetension2298]

i will literally beat the fuck out of garry, fuck that guy.

[@jvc8947]

My husband, with his phone in hand, will actually text me to google something for him or to find a business address. PHONE IN HAND. He thinks he is super, intellectually, curious. I know I’m blind in areas-I just have to ask people to tell me and then believe them.

[@balder6337]

Think I have consume first cus youtube is my life. I sink more hours into youtube than real life fr.

[@bubbleoftrouble2329]

You mistyped Tai lopez. He's ESTJ. Si tool function

[@JeriahMiller]

Professional victim Then why is he always giving huge abstract Ni concepts?

[@dirhido9665]

I just cant stand tai lopez