Controlling Anger - Nouman Ali Khan - Quran Weekly

Nouman Ali Khan explains how reducing anger is tied to surrendering love for this world, refraining from major sins, and guarding against shamelessness.

[@rgvn5]

I'm not even muslim but it's good to see everyone's point of view. I have seen some of these Quran weekly videos, very interesting.

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Mmkli

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May Allah Azza wa Jal give you hidayah

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Our goal is to prepare for the next life in we never know when we will pass. Therefore ask God to guide you to the Truth.

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May Allah guide you iA

[@rakhshandaqadeer8146]

It's ok you are not muslim because please correct me if I am wrong but I think Allah has said those who respect each other and don't disrespect others they will go to jannah inshallah

[@bitehunter122]

I am Catholic, and I totally love your vlogs. I have started to read the Holy Quran, and I am absolutely fascinated with its truths and palatable sense of civility. I have to favorite this one because I am sometimes tempted to anger and feel like I want to explode or displace my anger onto the object of my anger. Remembering to forgive, like you said, shows that mankind can control himself for the greater glory of Allah. Love these vlogs!

[@sayedamehjabin3641]

Alhamdulillah🥰 Can I have your update.....how is your quran study going. Did you accept Islam? I'm really curious about your progress as it has been 1০ years since you wrote this comment😊😊

[@farhanaagufa]

May Allah guide you

[@dobbyafreeelf5941]

The reason we can't forgive people in the family is because you expect the most from your family. Family is supposed to help you shine and bring you up rather than tearing you down. May Allah give us all the courage to forgive in anger.

[@mofasshararafiq8213]

Dobby A free elf also you need to live with your family which brings the anger back and doesn't let you move on...I feel the pain

[@samidica]

I feel the pain as well. All I want is for us to be one family again, but why is it so hard. Ya Allah give us strength to face the things that we find hard to deal with.

[@notyouraverage917]

True

[@beli3ver]

Ohh Allah the merciful, indeed this is the reason why Im losing patience all the time. I think I have expected too much out of my parents while they may not be capable of doing things I could do. Instead of them helping me, I should help them for I read and Quran better than those who don't.

[@zeeekim]

I was just about to ask, why do we do that. amongst my friends, they all know me as someone who easily forgives people. and very patient. but I have no idea why, I am easily angry with my family, especially my mom. But when you said it this way, I kinda understand a little. maybe if others do me wrong, I would care less, like they mean nothing to me. but when my family do wrong, I became so upset like, you're my family, how could you do this to me.

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His wife, parents and children are way too blessed to have him or I would say they r luckiest on earth.

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i totally i agree :)

[@tahatv5269]

Allahuma barik lahu this basically means May Allah bestow his blessing upon him and to not strike him with the evil eye

[@roskstar342]

Yes. MaShaAllah may Allah give him afia both in Dunya and akhirah.

[@princessdiamonds3527]

Asad Shaikh v I agree there is three that i look up to I have three people I listen to who help me deal with my anger who help me and educate me about my religion number one to me since I've begun educating my self on Islam and these three are Bilal Assad, Nouman Ali Khan and the notorious sheik Mufti Menk, I adore them so much mAy allah be pleased with you three and all of us from ummet Muhammed, these three have taught me so much and bring it in the most loving ways your rewards will be immensely huge on judgement day I love you three so much esp BILAL ASSAD WHO I BEGUN WITH HES SUCH AN AMAZING SOUL!!!!!

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Starr Bae say mashaallah :)

[@dreambogor]

This is 11 years ago but still touches and relevant up until now. May Allah safeguard Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan.

[@sherrylsnyder610]

Excellent sermon for any religion.. When you hear this with your heart you will hear the sameness. Big diffedence is we live our lives with impulse reactions. Now I understand why so many of my friends in Gaza tell me not t to be angry or even think revenge.

[@MB-tb6jy]

May Allah give you hidayah to Islam as well. Our goal is to prepare for the next life in we never know when we will pass. Therefore ask God to guide you to the Truth.

[@sirajS]

Love you. May Allah bless you with imaan. Aameen

[@audiobooksanaram692]

I've soo much anger issue i want to control it I'm trying soo much to control my anger may Allah help me

[@Whatyousee1]

Afsheen Mahmood Inshallah Allah help you. Just remember you will reach Jannat ul Ferrous and sit with prophet Mohammed pbuh If you control your anger. Also when your angry and your standing up sit down and when sitting and angry lie down. Also keep wudu always remember this is a test. Train your self to control your anger for 40 days remember constantly Allah is watching because I did and now I'm in control with my anger.

[@audiobooksanaram692]

+Kabir miah thankyou so much for these words. sitting with Muhammad Rasool Allah saw is my life goal n I'm working so hard on my anger issue May Allah bless u :)

[@magicisme1672]

Kabir miah 😍😳😁

[@RenderingUser]

May Allah help you in controlling anger ameen

[@sanamaqsood_nedian]

Samee Pray for me too

[@neobulletproof]

He is the Best Man on Earth among us! Oh Allah protect him, and give him a very long life!

[@dlitton123dan9]

12 years ago ? I'm a convert and I've been watching Mr. Khan for a long time now. He surely shares the Beauty and strength of Islam.

[@TheSanjay151]

may allah grant nouman ali the highest level of jannah, and may allah give us the same knowledge as him jazakallah khair

[@cocoberry6373]

I’m happy after listening to this noble man love from India 🇮🇳❤️

[@swetlanamrinal8698]

Omg!I never thought Him to be this good,I have never had such respect for Him,He is good man!!..I have just recently started listening to Him..Thanks to god & Thank You..

[@andykumar9855]

A beautiful message from Quran....Thanks :)

[@Staerkebombe]

Allahu Akbar

[@carolnahigian9518]

I wish WE ALL had such serenity & Wisdom!

[@michaelissacturea6919]

Forgiving family ..... that’s our greatest test

[@mstizdale]

This video was much needed tonight. I love being a Muslimma.

[@yotubermy]

Assalamualaikum , Allah bless Nouman Ali Khan and increase his knowledge, I am out of words, the verses NAK recites lays on me like a ton of bricks , cuz I just had that experience(lost my patience) and the reason was what Allah has revealed in his brilliant mighty book .. Allahu Akbar ..

[@romanoor2477]

masha Allah... I can control my anger in a better way now. This is so amazing jazak Allah

[@lolilom2]

So today I was angry about this life and the people I'm surrounded, and it comes that I stumble upon this vid! Allah is listening and giving me question to my answers. MashaAllah I have tears coming down, happy

[@OZoneRidah]

These words made me cry, oh allah, thank you for everything you have given me, thank you quranweekly, may allah reward you

[@Muslima20155]

There is not a single day where I don't have an argument with my family. I don't even know where to start it is ruining my relationships.

[@fahadahmed8536]

Same brother. I love them to pieces but every single day we have an argument

[@hijab7737]

Kindly watch on KZbin this video -(Allah loves to forgiving come back to him by ILovUAllah ),(Don't be sad Allah know by islamic guidance)

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Nauman Ali Khan is awesome.

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may Allah mold me and keep me on high standard they way he likes!ameen

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Fabulous scholar

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Algeria 🇩🇿 always stands with Nouman khan United and amicable

[@kanizfatema2923]

Just now I quarrelled with everyone in my family...I was trying so hard to control my anger and satisfy Allah swt for the past few months...I just dont know why I exploded today after so many days...i overreacted so much... I just couldn't control it.. now I feel so sad that Allah swt will be really disappointed with me...😥😥

[@imchoking6919]

dude Allah knows you the most he understand i think its because you were holding it in for so long no one just overeacts unless they have too much on their mind i hope you have a friend to talk to and pour you heart out to Allah he did create you

[@EngHopefulHopes]

I just checked it and it's authentic (found in Abu Dawood , one of the 6 authentic books of Hadeeth) ..... May Allah help us control our temper ....

[@sulemanbilquish2632]

I found this video.today is the second day of Ramadan one of my roommate bring her Friends to eat and drink liquor and laughing at loud.oh Allah help me to control my temper.send me more patience this time.

[@applyfizz23]

SubhanAllah!! SubhanAllah!!! I am a very angry person...but after listening to this video it brought tears to my ears...Islam is so beautiful...it has solution for all major n minor issues in life... May Allah reward brother Nouman!

[@alihanrisvan8033]

Thank you so much my brother may allah reward you with paradise 🤲🏼

[@SJ-dp3zm]

I like how he said that we should particularly forgive the ones in our family. The hardest thing is to forgive your brother or sister in your family. And if u can break the grudge between you and your siblings then I believe the reward for that is unimaginable and indescribable.

[@nilufarsalimova6154]

When ever i listen to Nouman Ali Han i am getting so much proud that i am muslim, alhamdulillah. Unfortunately some imams behavior and their actions let some muslims leave their religion((. Astag'firillah

[@mwk0011]

SubhanAllah!! MashaAllah very beautifully translated brother Nouman. Thank you very much not only for this video but for all the other videos. May Allah SWT grant you and other people associated with Quran weekly Jannat ul Firdous. Aameen. JazakAllah Khair.

[@acam6919]

May Allah grant Nouman Ali Khan and all of us who struggle in managing anger a place in Jannatul Firdaus with all the pleasure that Allah promise. Amiin

[@harlem6365]

I feel I have so much to offer, so much to achieve, but my toxic environment and current situation is preventing me from doing so. I think this clash between current reality vs. desired reality is what creates frustration and anger

[@petrapeckova440]

الحمد لله على نعمه الاسلام

[@akbarwardak]

JazakaAllah khair. Love u brother for this astonishing piece of naseeha. May Allah give u the rewards in multiple. Summa ameen.

[@syedhussain3133]

Alhamdulillah. Thank you brother Nouman for this video 13 years ago.

[@samanthaesra4035]

thank you.I have so much anger.

[@keta7550]

May Allah blesss you Nouman Ali Khan

[@ayaemad2545]

بارك الله لك وبارك الله فيك. May Allah enlighten you furthermore. Actually I got badly upset by one of my family members this week. Rethinking about my reaction, I felt like aallah would not okay or happy with such view. However I kept thinking why if I only took my revenge. Sincerely I couldn't find a reason why should I deny myself or forgive if it's even allowed in Islam. I heard from many people and got into many discussions towards that case, nothing managed to persuade me That was Untill I got your video Thanks to God Masha'allah. Looks like understanding the noble Qur'an would be enough for any Muslim to live well according to Islam. "أنزلنا كتاب فيه ذكركم" فالحمدلله بارك الله لك نعمان على خان نتمتني ألّا تتوقف أبدا عن مثل هذا الاجتهاد القويم. والحمدلله أن أعاننا على أنفسنا بالقرءان وأن أعاننا على أنفسنا ببعضنا بارك الله لكم

[@rtruth550]

Alhamdulillah i found the right message in right time. Allahu Akbar.

[@nurn.3969]

OMG! Alhamdililah! I really needed this. May Allah reward all of our teachers who r helping us to connect to Quran. Im just so emotional right now. I was wt my therapist i couldn't figure out my anger issue... my mom she is going through alot so her patience is not always in best form. She reacts n after i talk bk similarly. That was disturbing me alot. Of course i keep asking for forgiveness to mom n Allah. I know this was one of the worst thing i could do. Im kind to others but i find it difficult to b kinder to ppl closer to me. I did alot of thinking. Self searching..... no answer was satisfying. I have low self-esteem how do i have ego? I don't understand my mom. But i know i have respect care for her for many reasons... i don't want Allah to b upset with me. But it's so hard not to talk bk. Today i was talking to Allah again abt this.... n i found this . This was simple, v effective, to the point. Not sure i can control. I will keep trying. How does my keep forgiving me. SubhanAllah she is again amazing. He deserves more, better than me. I wanted share my emotions so someone else can relate perhaps find a way to heal,hope. Yes we have difficulties, not perfect. Sometimes mistakes that we can't accept. Have hope in Allah. He can hear u, only He can give u strength that u can't. Ur dua n hope is ur assets. If u hurt someone by ur anger fix it , asap. Than work on ur self. Yes it's hard to b kind to ur parents especially If they r ill or lonely,or getting old. But our Allah is waiting wt His presence n jannah. So,forgive. They r not always in their right mind. Forgive. For some it's ur jihad. Salam my big family.

[@iamremmie]

Thank you so much. You’ve been so helpful. I felt angry today because a friend of mine hasn’t spoken to me in over a week and I feel it’s something more than her just being busy. But inshallah she’s just busy. Still, say it’s not just that she’s busy. Then, maybe it’s just maktub

[@rashmiz5048]

@nouman ali khan sir indeed an admirable piece of advice sir...i am a listener of yrs and keep looking forward to your lectures...May Allah guide You and helps you in guiding us all

[@uimass]

Doesn't matter if the videos are long. I love to watch more and more.

[@hazel8882]

From the bottom of my heart I am thankful. I am observing your video simply through wanting peace, forgiving the ignorance around me and I want to connect to my rabi rahman. Thank you ya akhi; salama alaykum!!!

[@muslimsista111]

Love this video. I always come back to it when I get angry. For me though, internal anger is much much harder to put out than temptation. Alhamdulilah Im not one to outwardly show angry feelings. Also, it is especially harder to forgive family (parents included). May Allah make us of those who are able to forgive and forget easily Ameen. Keep up the GREAT work brother, I hope you realize that it is greatly appreciated, muchos dua coming your way!

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it’s the ads that show up about hunger before the speech...💔

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Nouman Ali is the best😊

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May Allah s w t make us people of the high caliber who are angry and they forgive Subhan Allah

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I feel really sad about the 77 people who down voted this video

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+Sha and i feel pity for them.May Allah guide them...now its 84.

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They are followers of devil

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Haq hai!!!!! You refreshed my Eman

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May Allah Bless Nouman Ali Khan

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Ma sha ALLAH, very nice lecture. May ALLAH give us hidayah. Jazakallahu Khairan Brother :)

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Oh my god I needed this so bad.

[@diligoscientia]

Good review for Ramadan ;-)

[@SaifFaridi]

Jazakallah Khair brother Nouman.. May Allah grant you Jannah for helping us understand these minute details...Thanks

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MashAllah may Allah grants us Jannah InshAllah

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May Allah bless you brother Nouman Ali Khan.

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MashaAllah may Allah reward you brother Nouman, thank you for delivering this message and may Allah give us all the ability to follow the right path. Ameen.

[@jigsaw332]

thank you for uploading this video. it has really helped me

[@n8dne]

I am an Arab but I cant read the Quran like Nouman Ali read .. Maasha Allah Very impressive !!

[@Optimist225]

Ya Allah, subhanallah! I needed this so much it was like a personal speech to me, jazak Allahu gayran brother you are the best may Allah swt grant you with the best in this world and in akhirah.

[@fatimasiddiqui7609]

Jazak Allah Khair Akhi. May Allah SWT guide you each day, and may you in turn help the seekers of truth reach the path of the righteous. Regards from India

[@jakenathan3498]

Thank u brother.....for telling beautyfull verse from quaran.....

[@jtking2504]

Thank you so much, these are words of wisdom!

[@saharahennadesigns]

MashaAllah brother MashaAllah. May Allah(swt) keep you safe and in good health. You knowledge has helped so many. I am grateful for your lectures.

[@pan.africafairtradenigltd]

Salam Alaykum Waramotullahi Wabarakatu, Thanks so much for sharing knowledge with us. May Allah SWT make it easy to overcome Anger Ameen. May Allah SWT Bless you and others propagating our beautiful Deen Islam positively. Jazakallahu Khairan.

[@nomaanqureshi7543]

Paece me upon you all. I am muslim and grew up in a house with a father who has had anger issues. For 23 years i endured this every day of my life. Im 31 and married with a son. I have had problems with smoking cigg, marijuana and anger especially towards my wife. Allah had guided me and answered my prayers and cry for help. I would like to inform you that i quit everything i have just mentioned from this lecture. May Allah bless your family and give you high ranks in Jannah, ameen.

[@kasht09]

Mashallah, great talk...much love from Scotland

[@iaadotlk1]

very, very good message my dear brother.

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You always know what to say.

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Umar Islam is thia you umar

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Timely reminder!

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Barak Allah oh feek brother

[@MegaWavesMusic]

You are on the right track :) Ahmed Deedat cleared that for me. The 'Me' used in arabic that is only for Allah translates to "We" in English. Such is the depth of the Arabic language. Peace :)

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This guy's the best.

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Jazakallah i really needed to head this! May Allah grant you the highest of heavens Ameen!!

[@umairrozan]

It's amazing and very influencing,a must watch

[@alishba01]

Whenever I am angry, I just listen to this and the next thing I know is, I am smiling.

[@ahmrou82]

Some scholars said "we" mean the kingdom of Allah, because he has a servant from angels and other kinds that Allah order them to do things.

[@MsNaffee]

I know someone who was in a situation as you. This person was negative bout things. An attitude like: what's praying gonna do for me anyway? I said trust me, start praying regularly and make dua to Allah, talk to Allah swt bout what makes you angry and ask Him to help you control this emotion called anger. No joke, after a time i noticeda change. Not saying it'll poof in a day. Give it time. But be tough with yourself and pray. Not the most elaborate piece of advice but iA i hope it helped.

[@another00person]

Jazak Allahu Khair! You've seriously helped me see the light.

[@IlyasWidaad]

Mashallah may Allah bless you and accept all your good deeds brother. May Allah reward you. Ameeen

[@solbang3159]

I'm working to preserve my friend

[@EngHopefulHopes]

Jazana wayakum I made a small research and this is what I found: It's Hadeeth number 4777 in Abu Dawood (Volume of manners; vol # 42; hadeeth # 3 in this volume) in Al-Tirmidhi, hadeeth number 2021 in Ibn Majah, hadeeth number 3394

[@ActiveSufi]

Allahuakhbar I’ve disrespected my parents because of my anger issues

[@traderpapertiga]

The trick to forgetting the big picture is to look at everything close up. Chuck Palahniuk Addendum (1): Feel anger Express love Heaven above 😂 Forgiveness, Makes you forgivable. Addendum (2): Life is short enough to forgive, And long enough to forget. Addendum (3): Forgiveness is a virtue; Naivety is a sin. Addendum (4): (Locked) Addendum (5): (Locked)

[@zainubaali2999]

Watching this video helped me. I watched it a few times to fully get what he means. But it helps. Thanks

[@wannie0204]

This video feels like it was addressed directly to me. Mashallah such a great, great video, all your videos are amazing ALHAMDULILLAH. Thank you so much for sharing this with us as I can relate to it perfectly at this moment.

[@farahzaidee3334]

SubhanAllah!

[@roseandaya3315]

I want to be angry to the people angry or making me a mistake but Im not, but my heart say no don't be angry with them. They making me a mistake that I don't even know 😞

[@NoumanAliKhan100]

Jazakallah Khair for sharing....always a good reminder

[@216sana]

The things u think you will get in the hereafter, are just the first level of thinkning

[@hafsoa.a4636]

Im 13 and i have anger issuse. I really wanna control it cause i dont wanna be angry all the time😔

[@anwaraakther834]

Jazak Allah khair

[@AhmedHussein-de3dx]

jazzakumallah khayr akhi

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thank you brother nomin for teaching us

[@tariq0513]

Jazakallah brother for this great talk..

[@funtimebabies3939]

Brother may Allah give the Muslims more knowledge

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assalamualaikum Quran weekly, May I donwload this video and put the subtitle of my language and upload it again?so that my people who can't understand english may benefit from this video?

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Ahmad S R you don't have to ask,what you ask is amazing,just do it, because what you're trying to do is what he is trying to do

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