Controversial Q&A - I had to address this | Tamara Kalinic

[@nelephone6826]

“Confidence is not knowing I’m not gonna fail, confidence is knowing that if I fail, I’ll be okay”. Wow, I needed that rn.

[@sakksarkissian9693]

EXACTLY!!! Thats really important 👍

[@Cherrysmith2809]

Our Tamara, from Serbian pharmacist to global fashion influencer with the love of her life and a large rock on her ring finger. Dreams do come true 🌈

[@Seemstobereal]

You are the only influencer I enjoy watching because most of your content seems to come from your heart. Also you are honest about your paid promotions

[@LittleMoonXD]

I have watched you for over 8 years and never really commented but I have to applaud 👏 this video because your answers and approach to life is amazing. You are so kind and sincere. I live in Nigeria not sure if we will ever meet but if we do I will cry a river, love you

[@hayleyhorrigan1142]

What makes you so relatable is you understand your life is quite unique and not relatable to a lot of people! I have a very comfortable life however nothing like yours but I love watching your videos as you look at things from all angles and are so wise and considerate to everyone’s feelings! I love the unboxing etc but I love watching these chats just as much! You are a beautiful soul xx

[@anniegnyc]

Tamara! I love this message and your openness, it's so refreshing. My husband and I just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary (we were married in Florence at Palazzo Vecchio, I'm a Brit and he's an Italian American) ! I too chose him and he was attracted to the fact that I was a strong independent woman. When you find the right person for you, every thing else falls easily into place! I wish you as much happiness in your marriage as I have in mine! x x

[@dyssa]

The amount of respect you have for your followers is unique in this industry and at your level. Every video you post lifts me up and gives me motivation - it's just your energy and 'no-bullshit' approach to life that is very inspiring

[@JessicaGioglioTravelLifestyle]

Wow, Tamara, I am so impressed by the story of greeting fans after the robbery. It’s remarkable grace under pressure. Speaks so much to your character.

[@wendy7404]

I asked my husband what the intention of our dating is because I had no time date unintentionally, 14 years later he still says that question is what nudged him to make a decision to marry me. You made a right decision Tam 💫

[@Pinkpeonysss]

I enjoy your random thoughts and unboxing and fashion weeks. You have a wonderful personality, show a mature level of empathy, and are mindful of others. I admire you a bunch

[@tonijjang]

This is so therapeutic, i feel like I’m having a therapy session via zoom. Unboxing is also therapeutic for me coz those things will never happen to me. But this is what I needed right now, thank you for this. Thanks for addressing “unpopular opinions” that’s how i came about your vlog especially the quiet luxury.

[@lexi24850]

Love this video and your wisdom, Tamara! Please keep this series, I’m sure everyone appreciates your input on all the topics you discuss and can take something away for themselves.

[@isagoldenjewels]

Tamara, I revisited your initial videos back 12 years ago, and it was truly inspiring to witness the progress you’ve made and how dedication and hard work can lead to achieving your dream life. Well done! You absolutely deserve it all ❤

[@pc.102]

What you discussed about a partner having the “provider” mentality is so important. I think both should always have that mentality for the relationship to work and last. ❤Thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@blacknoise]

This was exactly what I needed to hear today regarding confidence, Tamara! Very cathartic very touching video. You’re definitely a very wise woman.

[@neilharewood8399]

Don't worry about people! You already have your tribe ❤ we love you!

[@TamaraKalinic]

I love this comment! Thank you and love you

[@lvlclarke]

We love your thoughts - your whole personality is amazing and we love to watch/tune in ❤

[@SuysRomy]

I honestly love all of your videos from vlogs to unboxings to Q&A’s, the reason I watch your video is to relax from a very busy working life, your videos are my guilty pleasure and I love your advice! I own several businesses myself and like you I feel guilty when I have some free time but when I watch your videos the guilt is gone. Fantastic video!❤

[@zoe18241]

We love keeping up with Tamara, no matter what the content 🫶🏼

[@mirjanasavic1117]

Tamara, pratim te od tvojih početaka i obožavam te, tvoji videi me raduju koja god da je sadržina, zato što si ti posebna. Voli te tvoja sugrađanka iz Novog Sada ❤️

[@genexye]

I love that. Men should have a provider mentality and should be generous. At same time women should have her own money.

[@jelena4281]

Jao, ja se milion puta zapitam kako je moguće da imamo toliko različit život a da nekad identično razmišljamo i osećamo i imamo u datom trenutku slične potrebe i raspoloženje. Mislim da je to budno i aktuelno, moderno, stanje duha i duše kod nas, i to je nešto što najviše volim kod tebe.❤

[@miradonfbd]

I love shopping videos, even if nothing was purchased. Day to day is fun!

[@ericamartinez8030]

Thank you for sharing about not wanting to be intimidating and your life coach’s response. People also find me intimidating which I really don’t understand as I am always nice to everyone. But I think you are right it is more the fact that you are confident and they are not at that same level.

[@thesparkedlife]

I love these AND your hauls. You are wise beyond your years and a very mature and self aware person. Spread the wisdom!!! People need to hear it. ❤❤❤❤ Hope you both are enjoying some well deserved time together.

[@aioaneimiriam1104]

i am one of those people who enjoy any type of content you post. I love the unboxings, but I also love the q&a's and home vlogs!

[@Ellen-rv8sf]

I’ve been watching you for a couple months and this video is the one that made me want to subscribe. Thank you!

[@florajones2302]

I equally love everything, because you are like sunshine and are so honest

[@boonails4351]

Tamara, thank you. I needed that message at 16 minutes. So happy for you and Phillipo. Hope life continues to bless you and hope that one day I will be as strong, resilient and sassy as you! ❤️xx

[@mp7140]

Tamara is absolutely gorgeous with healty values and is very wise .

[@TJ-yv3kp]

You are a class act & hardworking woman. I love your fashion and travel content equally but appreciate your sit down videos even more. It can be a nice break from all the materialism. ❤from Chicago

[@warangkananunta1928]

To be honest 4 years ago I started follow you on KZbin to just watch your luxury items but later on I remember I start to watch your VlogMas and since then I wait for every single video from you then I realize I became your big fan 😁 every time you visit NYC I was hoping to see you once. We love you Tamara and now we love Fillipo too ❤

[@fivestargypsy.]

You are a really amazing woman. I’ve seen your content on IG for a long time and am just now watching you here on KZbin. You have a really great personality and seem like a really genuine honest woman that’s showing her authentic self which is something you don’t get to see from people based off of IG photos ..

[@TamaraKalinic]

Ah thank you so much for this kind and sweet comment😘😘😘

[@islegirl5048]

Love the variety you offer Tamara. i am someone who cannot afford most of what you feature, but it doesn't matter. I am drawn to your personality, positivity and grace. Also, the fact that you understand we are all not as fortunate. Love your advises. Very similar to mine. I do have ine request...pls try and feature a little more affordable item for some of us 😊. Loved the skims dress recently. ❤

[@SusanS777]

Love the unboxing, the travel, lifestyle and thoughts. Never change, be yourself. I enjoy everything you upload. Enjoy your holidays

[@saltandpepe68]

Love this! Love the confidence, love the mentality. Go Tamara🎉

[@conniewesson4640]

I’ve been happily married for 30 years & my husband is generous & supportive in all ways😊 I agree with you

[@user-fl2yo5pk9t]

I enjoy all sides of your content so much and have so for yeaarss. Keep goinggg

[@nourishedbydorothy]

I love this video and your messages! please continue posting these every month. you’re seriously giving big sister advance in a time I need it ♥️

[@CNM-ht7em]

Dear Tamara, merci so much for mentioning our lovely meeting in St Tropez. It made my day. You are the most amazing person, so very special and so talented. To more female leaders and to never giving up 😘

[@laurentmartini586]

I came for the bags and hauls and unboxings but I’m staying for you, your thoughts, your get ready vids… do your things it’s great ! Love from Paris

[@Adelina2399]

I love these videos, the travel vlogs, the unboxings - your platform is amazing and I feel so lucky that I found your account back in 2015 and be part of this community ❣ You have helped me a lot during the pandemic, during hard times and when I need to relax your videos always seem to pop up in the right time - greetings from Bulgaria 🇧🇬

[@dorletagutierrezsanz7011]

Hi! I just wanted to say I loooove your unpopular opinions videos! I actually love to hear your advice on everything, I would also love to have filipo’s input. Even about working in the fashion industry I think it’s super interesting!

[@castrokarolina]

I like your point of view and all kind of content that you create.

[@annieblair233]

FROM YOUR FAIRY GODMOTHER- My three son's girlfriends and fiancé all said that they wanted to live with them. Honestly, they were also cave men and I think most men are like that, they were happy with how they were living but now they the girl's have brought so much joy and love in their lives and they are so happy. I am 59 and have seen a therapist since I was 30 years old and it has been a positive in my life to get through life's challenges and as you said keeps you mentally fine. I am a fitness addict and it is important to have fitness for your brain. xx PS. I am glad you don't let the tossers get you down.

[@cristinamac-kay7175]

We are type A personalities angel. I have a feeling that a high % of your beautiful followers are. But we have a heart of Gold . You know what I mean . Love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@carolawabdy]

I haven't felt inclined to like a video (thumbs up) in forever! This video was so good I want to verbally thank you for it! You're beautiful from the inside and it obviously randiates! Wow this was nice!

[@janett2903]

Wow Tamara!!! The story about the girls outside the building.. speechless how you handled it!! You were 100% entitled to say I’m so sorry it’s not the right moment but for you to actually engage with them in that way👏 impressive!! You’re very strong❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kovacevica88]

Meni se svidja sve sto ti radiš. Ti si nas ponos. 🫶🏻

[@nikolinaralic63]

What are the necessary skills to have to work in the fashion industry (not as an influencer) ? What do you think is the future of the fashion industry? Any advice for all of us who want to work in it?

[@dorletagutierrezsanz7011]

I have a question for further q&a: 1. How were you confident in the early stages of your career when you switched from farmacy to fashion and what advice would you give someone wanting to go into the fashion industry.

[@yasmincopper7317]

I so agree with you about independence, but also about generosity of spirit and time! Thank you for putting it so succinctly xx

[@aleksandravojnovski44]

This is such a good vlogIza ovakvih stavova i razmisljanja stoji veliki rad na sebi.Odusevljena sam!

[@lynnpetti3817]

Happy to see the elephant being worn. Love it.

[@portiac9132]

That's really solid advice on confidence when dating thanks Tamara xxx

[@marialopez9891]

Hi, from Napa California… I personally love these kind of videos. A little bit of everything is great… I have to say that I also approach my partner first, and made the fist move. And here we are almost 8 years later more in love than ever… we helped each other through grad school… finding our fist job after university… and now saving for our future together. Sending you much love… oh and I seen your videos where you speak Spanish.. May I say how impressive.. omg your Spanish is amazing. Maria…

[@Kayleena]

I’m only at the beginning but already I want to say YES babe! We’re around the same age and I too can’t anymore with all this content centered around telling people what their relationship should be. Each relationships is individual as is it’s success, compatibility, and happiness. Looking forward to the rest of what you have to say 😊🤍👏🏼

[@korianacartier]

Love your channel Tamara🎉

[@danaweaver4129]

I'm one of those who likes everything! Honestly I like your fashion and beauty content more knowing you better from your 'random thoughts' because those thoughts show us your substance as a person and that all the luxury is your job, that you love, but its not the entirety of who you are. Saying this as someone who loves fashion and beauty but is also studying for my PhD in history. None of us are only one thing. ❤

[@stars4295]

I just love your personality and the way you are as a person. Please do not change who you are. You are amazing

[@onemustalwaysbedifferent]

I did the same as you - I visited my now husband for a week, and then I re-invited myself to come back and I never felt lol. Married now for almost ten years and have a beautiful family 🥰

[@mabu3390]

Great state of mind!! woman should choose her life (in a bigger picture) always!

[@par.ramadaserunion9805]

Good for you , you dont have to apologize for going after what you want

[@pakpaks8007]

srpsiiiiiii toooo nastavi sa sinhronizacijom !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@winniechung69]

I’m very interested to learn how one purchases an AP watch. I really like your AP watches, especially the black one. ❤

[@amandanelson8430]

Absolutely love you hun , just started following you last month and have watched so many vlogs in that time , think you are so down to earth, we live in different worlds but I love visiting yours ❤, also think you are a stunningly beautiful woman 🥰

[@dyejessica35]

Tamara, I love anything you share. I'm sad others can't simply enjoy your time. If they don't have anything nice to say then they should keep to themselves and not watch that certain video. I appreciate you and Mr. F sharing your bits of personal intimate moments. I love that you share your fashion. Words can not be taken back and hurt. I apologize for those that do not know what they do. Please continue being you! Sending Love and hugs to you. Xo

[@paulabogi7020]

Honestly Tamara I love all kinds of your content. I enjoy each video you upload so much and you really inspire me with your mindful, tasteful and wholehearted character 🤍🤍🤍

[@loupjules4448]

Tamara, I would love chat with you because your content is so interesting, I can’t get enough of your advices that I keep in mind for my future. You are an example for me. Take care of you and hope to see you at the Fashion Week 🙂

[@jc1181]

Očekivala sam samo subtitles a ne sinhronizaciju i to od strane nekog drugog a ne tebe, pa me to malo iznenadilo 😅 mislim da bi subtitles bili odlični, ovo mi ne predstavlja neko trajno rešenje, mada to je samo moje mišljenje, svakako svaka čast za trud 🥰

[@IAlexandraAndre]

I love this kind of videos! Please do more. Funny enough I am doing my psychology master’s memoir on social pressure in gender in couples right now and you are talking about this as well which is something I think people are not talking enough about 😂❤. Life is so funny I swear. I might thank you in my memoir about giving me motivation because it’s a subject that should be talk more about. You are giving me so much energy to finish this tough project ❤. Thank you I also want to work in the influencer industry after my master (maybe in fashion) and find a way to talk about psychology too. I am through uncertain and stressing times and I thank you so much to help me and motivate me to see that better days could come if I work and fight for what I want in life even if this is freaking me out. I hope you all the best and a lot of love 😘😘❤️

[@amyrosegordon]

Eugh... I love you so much. Your words on approaching a man are really enlightening for me. I've been playing the waiting game and it doesnt work and its boring tbh. I used to always make the first move but then I heard something about men respect u more if they ask you out... or some bs like that so i started to hold back. BUT, ill go back to my no messing around straight forward self. THANK YOU. YOURE THE BEST. Xxxx

[@lundi44]

Great video - and yes, more like this would be good. Would also love to see more recommendations for destinations to visit and places to eat. I love how down to earth you are.

[@jaquii77]

I LOVE these types of videos from you 😍🫶🏾

[@krushr17]

Love following you! Love your style, you are so beautiful and also can relate to your light reading preferences (Sophie Kinsella). Also obsessed with shoes

[@ninastaffolini]

Tamara, you are an inspiration for so many women and I can speak for myself for sure that I love your openness, your opinions and your strength and independence! You are someone I look up to even though our lifestyles are so much different. I am a married woman with 2 kids living in Bulgaria with my French husband. I am very happy with my situation and the people I am surrounded with but I’ve always dreamt of something even more! I want to be independent and well earning woman and this is something that I will focus on a lot once I am back to work next year. Lots of love 💕

[@nehagoswami2019]

U r soo sweet. This was one of my favorite video. I love your outlook to things in life. Very inspiring. I m sending this to my daughter, who lives in New York right now:). Thank u❤

[@minaselakovic]

Ahhhhhh volim te ženo divna, predivna!!! Baš si inspirativna!!!

[@reginagilyadova5159]

You are so fabulous Tamara! Listening to you speak is so motivating

[@user-tb2wf5dh6r]

Tamara! I love EVERYTHING about YOU! All your videos! Yes, my lifestyle is 180 degrees from yours but you are taking me on a journey with every video which otherwise I could never take!!! Love you Tamara! Please be YOU and keep going! LOVE YOU as you are! HAPPY FOR YOU! And I enjoy life with you ❤

[@LyndaS.]

Yes Tamara, there is no doubt, Filippo LOVES you.❣❣❣

[@gabrielabutzer6353]

You are soooooo sweet ❤ I wish to run into you once …. I love those type of videos as well as your vlogs, unboxings and hauls! I just really enjoy your content 💝

[@helisa8263]

Can you please recommend me a good hair serum? ❤

[@kapi5093]

All kind of blogs are highy anticipated! ;-)

[@jig_7677]

Link to the necklace please? X

[@lorenaimsirovic]

Hvala za ovaj video Tamara❤

[@alycat9186]

Newer subscriber and I LOVE these chats bc I feel I am getting to know you better and I really share similar opinions on these topics so that’s cool to know. As you can imagine, people may seem superficial when it comes to being consumers of luxury goods, but it is refreshing to see when someone appreciates these things but it doesn’t define their character and them as a person. I love luxury items, but I don’t judge people who don’t care for them and who don’t own them. You can look great at any budget! Like you, I also come across as unapproachable if you are observing me (my husband and family tell me I have RBF 😂), but I really am such a friendly person and I live by treat people as you would want to be treated. It’s not only good manners, but the right thing to do.

[@diannemccaffrey8405]

I love everything that you do and I’m not a young girl anymore but I so enjoy your travels as well as clothing hauls and unboxing. Keep doing what you’re doing xo

[@ThatGirlLindsNicole]

Couldn’t agree more with the first question ❤

[@Anu_Tuvs]

This video is absolutely great! I have so much respect for you and I can only agree with you!💖

[@senta4950]

Love these talks and they way you think and handle life❤️ enjoy your holiday with the love of your life🍀🥰

[@helsdels9324]

Hi Tamara, I've just started watching this video. I am a follower who loves all your content! Gorgeous handbags, fashion, travel, at home, fashion week, jewelry, random thoughts, Filippo, your nephews, vlogmas, winter sweater hauls, your sister telling you belt bags are awful 😂. All of it ❤

[@fangxianchen5754]

I love both opinions and unboxing vids! I love ur tastes and thoughts! very helpful!

[@mjovanka]

Tamara please write a book including glossy photos! Maybe a cofffee table style with photos of you at fashion weeks and your lifestyle and career points ❤❤❤ молим те !❤️💛

[@saltandpepe68]

You inspired me, you are my role model. Thank you. Love you❤

[@ApplesThatRead]

Can you do a sit down video on the best vacation spots, especially for couples? I am especially interested in what you think is worth doing in America and the Caribbean since its a longer trip for you and its gotta be worth it

[@nonku_s]

Love your pov! I always enjoy your chatty videos ❤

[@carolynjones6273]

Enjoy your life and blessings that come with it. I love watching your vlogs, especially the holiday travels..😄 Continue diversifying your vlogs and gratefully sharing your loving opinions. 💞💐

[@nastasia.dobrova]

In the past women didn't have friends but huge families. It was enough. Nowadays we are lonely, no children, or little families. We can't search for a family in a friend! Friends come and go. You are getting married. Hopefully will have a big happy family with lots of domestic duties, taking care of your tribe. You will understand that friends were there to make your journey less stressful. Not more than that. And YES! You are stronger than a lot of people 🥰

[@sarahwestall4464]

Love all your blogs, that’s why I’m here ❤