CONVO| Let's talk openly about sex before & in marriage - Themba Tom Ntuli |ThatHusbandPodcast

[S1] EPISODE 15: REAL TALK, LET'S MAN UP!
In this video, we explore the critical role marriage plays in safeguarding and enhancing your sex life. A healthy sexual relationship within a marriage goes beyond physical satisfaction; it's about fostering deep emotional connections, building trust, and ensuring mutual respect.
As a Public Health Specialist, Themba brings to light the harsh realities of men's sexual health, emphasizing the urgent need for a conscious approach to how we treat this gift of sex, both before and especially within marriage. He challenges us to rethink our attitudes and behaviours towards sex, advocating for marriages of high quality as essential safe spaces where true intimacy can thrive.
Themba's deep concern for the alarming rates of sexually transmitted illnesses in our country drives this conversation. He passionately believes that strong, respectful marriages are a key part of the solution. By creating environments of trust and mutual respect, we can protect our sexual health and foster lasting, fulfilling relationships.
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[@The_Dream_Space]

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[@hlengiwemathenjwa1371]

Future husband i wish he bumps into such conversations before stepping into marriage

[@priviledgetafirei6360]

When Themba said "Sin thrives in secrecy" I just heard a whole episode there. Powerful episode!

[@HlogiKgatla]

Godliness sustains a relationship not goodness🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@The_Dream_Space]

Amen!!

[@HlogiKgatla]

This is so Good👌🏽👌🏽”Christ is the standard of compatibility “

[@TshepangPholoholo]

Man thanks for this space...This has been a great resource for me and my bro as young single bros looking to get married one day ...Cant tell you how much this podcast has been helping us. Keep going and thank you and your guest

[@The_Dream_Space]

Feedback like this so appreciated, thank you so much for taking time to let us know. It's messages like this that keep us pushing. Thank you!

[@tlaly]

What an episode 🙌🏾. How can we broadcast this to our young brothers??? Please somebody needs to call imbizo for all young men in the country and just play this video 😝. But on the real, Themba dropped real gems here👌🏾.

[@The_Dream_Space]

An imbizo is coming, watch the space! Thanks so much for the support 🙏🏾

[@dineomoaisi6724]

Haibo Blaque 🔥 You’re doing the Lord’s work🎉 My support for this podcast is moving to the upper room, y’all are in my prayers. Praying that God gives you strength to keep going and growing in this ministry of discipling men. That he will raise up more men to become social fathers like yourself and Mr Ntuli.

[@owethumazibuko8377]

This is a topic that has to be spoken more about man. Tom shared a lot of insightful things man. This is really building

[@Ck-rc4bk]

Your laughter is contagious, these are serious issues and you have managed to capture my attention but still put some lightness in it. Thank you for sharing. Blessed are those who have you in their lives I am sure they always want to be around you.

[@CraganCrypto-mz8cs]

Thank you for this honest and much needed content guys. Ì can testify that God has been helping me break free from masturbation, the road isn't easy but it's necessary to live a thriving life.

[@nonhlanhlangwenya3124]

Valuable conversation 👏🏾

[@palesakholopane]

What an amazing conversation, we definitely need Abuti Themba back. I am so greatful for this space Blaque, I am learning and unlearning so much. Thank you.

[@MaMtungwa]

What a well spoken man!

[@siphokazii]

I know this is a husband podcast but as a Christian lady can i just jump in on the point of coping mechanisms created by the world and take it to church one of coping or protecting mechanism for us ladies being: close up, zphathe kahle etc when we get to marriage and we must now open up it’s not easy coz we been trained our whole lives to close /cover up & we don’t find it easy to be free and explore sexually or even initiate the deed with our husbands because kunale mindset that was instilled in us & indoda iba frustrated by this!

[@raxxmoriti]

Indoda iba frustrated and starts blaming you for not trusting them or not having enough faith. I never knew this was a built in coping mechanism. Thank you for the insight!

[@kuhlemndabe]

Absolutely love how Mr Ntuli took on the compatibility question. Hard truth right there!

[@KAMOYA17]

Thanks for the work you are doing with this podcast. May it grow from strength to strength!

[@user-dz1fh3yd7h]

I find this podcast interest and I'm a single female, just getting a different perspective of how men are and their everyday struggles

[@gospelinfluence]

Hey bro, I'm enjoying this podcast yho...

[@thandolwenkosimahlangu2772]

🎉🎉 🎉🎉so true godliness is key. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

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Such an informative, refreshing, light-hearted podcast episode. Spectacular delivery. Well done guys. 👏🏾 You’re doing God’s work.

[@EmpowerED1990]

Great show, very deep and interesting ,

[@debramontymmatau5136]

My word, my word my word!!! I wish this message can reach masses hey. Oh wow!

[@busisiwemakhombothi7435]

We thank the Lord for this amazing conversation, learnt a lot🙌

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

Thoroughly enjoyed nuggets!

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I'd love to hear Blaque's story one day

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❤❤❤lovely content mates. I'm so happy for this platform 🎉🎉

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First time on your channel...I absolutely enjoy the conversation

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Very educative,love this podcast

[@sunakotole1865]

Thank you brothers. God bless you and your viewers ❤

[@The_Dream_Space]

Thank you so much! 🙏🏾

[@yolisalisanqari]

I definitely found much value in this conversation... ❤❤ Thank you guys👌👌

[@leonardsoto3104]

Good episode 👍

[@zinedanewikruger7014]

Sish! Malume Blaque.. Thank you Every episode gets deeper, words can't even describe. Mr. Ntuli is a SAGE! ❤

[@The_Dream_Space]

Thank you so much for watching and supporting! We definitely plan to have Mr Ntuli back! So much more to unpack.🙌🏾

[@yolisalisanqari]

👌👌A lot of dopenes, yhoo❤❤

[@6lackSky]

Dope episode gents 🙌🙌🔥🙌🙌

[@The_Dream_Space]

Thanks so much for the support!🙏🏾

[@dineomoaisi6724]

Now I wanna see Blaque’s shoes 😂😂😂😂😂

[@yolisalisanqari]

😂😂Same here but I think I have clue, it's the black square shaped in front, with a mint greenish sole❤❤

[@bellalekwadi9538]

Themba can laugh😂

[@tshxxmx]

Spiritually transmitted (insert word here)

[@yolisalisanqari]

Aww speed of light, Ahab😂😂😂😂🤭

[@user-jq1er2wq8c]

this was so informative. as born again sister who developed a coping mechanism through porn, im now married and im finding it difficult to orgasm while intimate with my husband, how can this be rectified though?

[@ratibamohale]

hahaha. I am a gold man. Finish. This was really a gold episode. Beautiful conversations man

[@neontsoereng441]

You should be on this podcast

[@ratibamohale]

@@neontsoereng441 It will come my friend.

[@yolisalisanqari]

😂😂😂😂 Yhoo in here😅😅

[@leonardsoto3104]

Porn creates s false sense of what sex is

[@nelzg5819]

The irony of it is that its the married men that should be high risk. This is south a. Amadoda lana r not playing they are in unofficial polygamist marriages left right and center. So on paper its as the guest describes by in practice, weleleleee. Thats when a lot of men want to go or and hunt after marriage

[@sarahsmrdal7094]

U r 100% . Black man have hardly any person they have seen being a good father & husband .

[@6lackSky]

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[@The_Dream_Space]

Don't go!! 🫵🏾 you are gold wena!! 😂

[@ctm2594]

😂👌🏽

[@oloratolefenya5992]

He is so 🤣

[@tshwanelorakaibe985]

If you are going to have faith based marriage conversations please also include men from other faiths...otherwise this becomes an extension of church services limiting your reach (not everyone is christian). Not all men who do marriage right are christian. consider including non believers as well who are doing marriage right (however you define that)... South africa is so diverse...

[@The_Dream_Space]

Thanks for the feedback. We are very intentional and deliberate with our angle and our approach. You, however have clearly identified a gap in the market. How can we encourage or help you to get something started? Seriously, how can we help you?

[@davidkobedi9615]

Maybe GOD is calling you to start a podcast...😂

[@MissCombs1511]

Sorry for eavesdropping on men's convo, but: not everyone will get married, just facts we have to accept as Christians even if you want to. Then what 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@malisangxale8038]

As Christians, if you're not married, you don't have sex. Simple. If someone hasn't accepted Christ as their Saviour, we accept that they are lost and living in sin, without the grace and mercy Christians are afforded

[@MissCombs1511]

@@malisangxale8038 may I please ask your age and marital status?

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