CONVO| You've Won Every Argument But Have You Won Your Wife's Heart? - VTJ Masakona | ThatHusbandPod

[S1] EPISODE 31: ARE YOU SEEING THE BIGGER PICTURE IN EVERY ARGUMENT?
In this episode, we explore the heart of conflict resolution in marriage, focusing on how couples can navigate differences with intentionality and grace. Conflict is inevitable, but resolving it requires maturity, accountability, and understanding each other's unique approaches-whether one processes slowly or prefers to address issues immediately. We also discuss the influence of our upbringing, the power of forgiveness, and how to move forward with wisdom.
VTJ Masakona of ‪@ccc_peast‬ dives with us deep into tough topics like intimacy and loss, emphasizing that sex is about giving, not transactions, and that grace should be extended even when it’s hard. He highlights the importance of nurturing affection, not giving room for division, and the value of sacrificing for each other in ways that lead to true oneness.
Finally, we reflect on Jesus' example of sacrifice and challenge viewers to fight for their marriages. Ask yourself a crucial question, If you had to redo your marriage from scratch, with all that you and your spouse know, would your spouse choose you again? It’s a call to build stronger marriages where conflict deepens intimacy and both partners grow together.
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Some highlights I got from this so far: 1. Conflict management - having the perspective that your spouse is not the problem, the problem is the problem. Fight the problem, not the spouse. Tackle the problem together. I also love the point about understanding each other as well: if the spouse needs space, give them the space. And check up on them. 2. The father that passed on leaving the legacy of respect, joy, love etc. Man! These are the kind of husbands we need. 3. Bravo to you Mr Nubon and all men who self-reflect and are intentional about being good husbands and fathers. The world needs y'all! P.S: still watching, not done yet😅.

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[@thakhaniramulwela4863]

This was too goooood 🙌🏾 ✍🏾Going into conflict-addressing the conflict together ensuring that you come out of it together. ✍🏾Seeing the value in your relationship more than the conflict it self. ✍🏾 being cognizant of the fact that even as the one being offended, you too are not perfect. It could definitely be you on the other side tomorrow.

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Thank you team for discussing such a touchy subject- conflict resolution bcos 2 days ago and my wife corrected me that it's not conflict management but conflict resolution which I struggled with, thanks guys.

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