Cooking oxtail|| Losing my dad changed my life|| shopping and more

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[@adelaidekhoza570]

I relate so much with the part of hearing your mom cry, it's a sound you will never forget, a sound you wish never to hear again. You will do anything to protect your child from feeling that way

[@MmaMohau]

@@adelaidekhoza570 yep. It never goes away❤️

[@Gloria-r5q]

She gives herself into everything she does. I like that

[@NthabisengRapoo]

You made me so emotional talking about your dad. I don't have even a little memory of my father because he died when I was 4 years due to car accident 😢

[@MmaMohau]

Im sorry my love. Modimo a go fodishe ❤️🙏

[@momchef5227]

I recently came across your channel, you are so authentic, I really appreciate you sharing your life with us. The quality of your work is on another level 💕

[@MmaMohau]

@@momchef5227 thank you so much 😊

[@kwakha6103]

My dad passed away due to an accident when I was 7, me and my siblings didn't like talking about it to our mom, we didn't want to see her break down like when she grieved him.....💔 Years later, she started talking about him and that opened so many conversations, which were so wholesome❤.

[@MmaMohau]

My mom never talked about the incident but just her continued talks about how my dad protected and loved her made the pain a bit more manageable. And kept his memory alive. I am praying for all of us who are going through difficult times ❤

[@biancathabitha9126]

Seeing how my mom was after losing my dad, I just had fear of getting married because that broke her, my dad was her best friend and a year later she also passed on💔💔. Thank you for your vulnerability Mmamohau ❤️❤️

[@MmaMohau]

Im sorry to hear that. It’s interesting how we all respond differently to the same thing. I hope you heal and not be afraid of marriage. It’s worth giving a chance 🥰❤️

[@boys_mom4293]

This vlog will help many, the fact that you shared the part about speaking up and seeking help it will definitely send so much light to many. God never wastes anything, even pain. Look at your life how it turned out. Sending you light and love ❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@boys_mom4293 😢 God is amazing ka nnete🥰❤️

[@Charity_Raps]

Seeing this video while tomorrow it's gonna be 5 years since my dad's passing😢 You actually made me realise that I've been responding to dad's passing the same way you did and tjooh this video made me cry bcos I could relate. Love and light❤ and thank you for your vulnerability.

[@bridgetsebolai6207]

Oh Sis I appreciate you sharing this personal story it explains why you are as resilient as you are. Stay in God’s presence and stay strong, I love how you love your daughter and your family it’s very beautiful. My own brother decided to take his own life in 2018 and it is a very difficult and painful thing for any family to go through,but it is well Modimo o teng he continues to restore us ❤❤❤✨✨✨🥰🥰🥰

[@MmaMohau]

One thing I am grateful for is that my mom kept us in church. Which was hard because my dad was very active in the church but they prayed for us and grounded us. We were never alone. God is amazing and le wena a go fodishe sesi yaka🥰❤️❤️

[@bridgetsebolai6207]

@@MmaMohau Thanks very much Sis and yes we’re loved by God his grace is sufficient 🥰🥰❤️❤️✨✨🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@MpatiMohlaka]

Ka nnete the pain of losing a parent never goes away 😭 you really made me cry today. I also lost my father at 16 but it feels like it was yesterday, ❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@MpatiMohlaka sending you love and healing❤️🥰

[@CynthiaMvelase]

I was a widow at 25years due to the same reason my fathers daughter took his life in front of me i know the feeling my daughter was 2 years thanks for sharing

[@MmaMohau]

@@CynthiaMvelase sending you hugs. Thank you for sharing as well❤️

[@Cyp372]

I am so in love with you 💗. Your honesty and vulnerability have touched me so much. Thank you 🙏

[@MmaMohau]

@@Cyp372 this was a really hard one to record and I debated if i should remove the last part🥰

[@Cyp372]

You made the right decision to share that about your life. We are struggling here my love. Your story has helped me and many others.

[@MmaMohau]

@@Cyp372 and people see us smile all the time and never know what goes on in our hearts 🥰

[@phililechonco7440]

I am sorry that you had to suffer such loss & go through such trauma,,,Hugs to you. Those are profound words. It is so brave of you to share💝.

[@portiankwe5904]

When you said you didn’t wanna disappoint your mom it really hit home 😢

[@MmaMohau]

@@portiankwe5904 🥰🥰❤️

[@gadifelemotlhaga1388]

Sorry for your loss and for opening up to us. I too lost my dad unexpectedly in a car accident while about to write my final exams. I'm in my early forties now but the pain has stayed with me. I've learned to live with the pain but I would be lying if I don't admit that some days are much harder than others. I especially feel the void the most when I achieve great milestones knowing he's not around to share in my happiness.

[@MmaMohau]

@@gadifelemotlhaga1388 askies sesi.❤️ when the feeling comes over me, i just s allow myself a bit of time to feel it for a moment and then I move on. I don’t want to ignore it because that would mean i am suppressing my feelings. Sending you love and healing ❤️

[@gadifelemotlhaga1388]

@MmaMohau I agree 💯 on not suppressing the feelings. I allow myself to mourn him as and when it's gets overwhelming. Modimo o mogolo, he is always there for us 🙏

[@ItumelengManganyi]

Hey Sis❤thank you for ths vlog🙏🏻am so sorry hle, but am so glad the way you are dealing with the situation, may the Lord keep giving more strength n wisdom.

[@MmaMohau]

🙏❤️

[@icynethengwe3579]

Mmamohau for the fact that you entrusted us and opened up about the trauma of loosing your Dad we will keep you in our prayers. My sister committed suicide 4 years ago and till to date I still have questions. It is not something you get over, it’s painful and lives a wound and guilt that no one understands. May we not be ashamed to seek professional help when we face difficulties and know that challenges are seasonal and God will always be there and will never leave nor forsake us. Love and light to you, Mama and the rest of the family. ❤️❤️

[@MmaMohau]

@@icynethengwe3579 more love back to you. It is a reality that many of us live with and getting over the shame and guilt is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and start to move forward. We are more than our circumstances and they make us stronger if we trust God to carry us through 🥰❤️❤️ sending healing to your you and your family 🥰

[@icynethengwe3579]

@@MmaMohau kea leboga🙏🏾. Thank you once again for my favourite dish oxtail. Next weekend ke nna ledi pitsa. 🥰😅

[@nanncymantsho9211]

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[@MmaMohau]

@@nanncymantsho9211 ❤️❤️🥰

[@tiisetsokgwedi4466]

Ka nnete, it never gets easier, the lose of a parent is so traumatic and it's a wound that will last till the end of time💔

[@MmaMohau]

@@tiisetsokgwedi4466 🌺❤️❤️

[@mantinamokoena8169]

Thank you so much for having the courage to share your story. This was so enlightening for my own healing as well even though I didn’t go through what you went through ❤. I really appreciate this channel

[@ZenandeNozibele]

I love you ke sana, saw you on Zan's vlog & subscribed immediately 😊

[@MmaMohau]

🥰🥰😊thank you. And welcome to the family

[@elizabethsetsetse9210]

So sorry for the loss of your dad cc, may God Almighty keep on comforting you and thank you for sharing.

[@Busisiwemanzikazi]

Thank you for your consistency,you have a beautiful home ..the audio is clear.good investment with the mic.Thank you for offloading and being vulnerable by talking about personal staff like your father's passing .i also lost a brother who hung himself and its really something that I don't talk about but I have learned not to blame myself instead accepting what has happened.We might not have closure because he never left any letter .We deal with a lot of things and it's not easy to offload because of judgemental people ...I'm glad that you have worked through all the feelings you had and on the road to healing ... love and Light 💖

[@MmaMohau]

@@Busisiwemanzikazi thank you. And more love back to you. I hope you heal from this ordeal. If it’s possible. I believe we just find new meaning to life and new ways to cope. Because if we don’t, we get stuck and self destruct❤️

[@boys_mom4293]

She has saved lives and healed some by sharing

[@Busisiwemanzikazi]

@@boys_mom4293 exactly...it's not an easy thing to talk about but her sharing this story has reminded us that we shouldn't blame ourselves,we should check up on our loved ones and we should offload if we feel burdened ...

[@makosamonyiloto8428]

I am so sorry, the father of my kids also took his life. It was difficult for them.........

[@MmaMohau]

@@makosamonyiloto8428 askies sesi, ❤️❤️

[@alettakgare9154]

Thobela ka gae, mamotlha re tsene ka pela, ka ga Dipela. Always a pleasure to visit hey❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@alettakgare9154 le amogetswe as always. I hope o tshwere di tissue🤭😢

[@nthatengmakhele2784]

Coffee in the bathroom Mmamohau? That's addiction on another level my sister🤣🤣🤣...... Thank you for the tips, especially when cooking oxtail👌❤

[@MmaMohau]

The coffee follows me everywhere I go 😂😂❤

[@nthatengmakhele2784]

@@MmaMohau relationship ya lona e too strong 😂😂😂

[@M.RMafokwane]

Your video really touched me and made me wanna cry. Thank you for being vulnerable to us and sharing your experience. Sending hugs and blessings to you and everyone who's going through hard times. ❤

[@MmaMohau]

Go leboga nna. PS: my neighbour ke ba ga Mafokwane🥰❤️

[@M.RMafokwane]

@@MmaMohau serious? Swanetše re dire aretsebaneng 😄

[@MmaMohau]

@@M.RMafokwane for real

[@BoitumeloMashiane-w5t]

We are here sesi❤❤❤as usual🎉🎉🎉

[@MmaMohau]

@@BoitumeloMashiane-w5t we welcome you as usual my luv🥰❤️

[@brend45cakee8]

Wow, just came home from, this is vlog is definitely my treat❤❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

To think that I was hesitant to upload🤣🥰

[@brend45cakee8]

@@MmaMohau you must never🤣🤣🤣wow🥰🥰🥰I've really enjoyed every minute of this vlog, the cooking, cleaning, and you opening up to us about your dad,❤️❤️❤️❤️love, love, love it here👌👌👌👌

[@MmaMohau]

@@brend45cakee8 thank you my love 😍

[@Maropeng_Mmatlou_Ramuhala]

Not me crying with you..thank you for sharing your story..I love you

[@MmaMohau]

@@Maropeng_Mmatlou_Ramuhala 🤣🤣imagine me editing this. I had to cut out so many parts🤭❤️🥰

[@audreyrambau5682]

I am really sorry ❤️❤️🌻. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

[@prettysekiti3550]

Am so sorry mama i lost my sister and my brother in a space of 1 year till today am not okay. Million hugs to you mama ❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@prettysekiti3550 ke go romela lerato. Modimo a go fodishe my love. ❤️❤️

[@JerminahMarota]

Im so sorry my darling ska lla be strong as u ar. Im 57 im gonna be 58 in December, i lost my husband when i was 22 .my kids was still young ,but God is taking care of me,my kid's and my grand kid's. I still miss my husband😢, thank u for sharing with us ❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@JerminahMarota we must be glad to have had them for the time that God allowed. Love and light to you mama❤️🥰

[@nomahlubijaba6349]

Oh my love I'm so sorry gor the pain you go through ♥️i also think its not fair for people who left behind because they will have questions that don't have answers i enjoyed this Vlog ♥️😍

[@MmaMohau]

❤️🙏

[@khutso481]

Today ke early I'm soo impressed with myself ko reka ice cream ya R5😂😂😂

[@MmaMohau]

Bae rekisha kae ya R5 mothowaka? 🤣🤣

[@tinamaps1605]

Yooh Le nna I feel so proud of myself 😂🤣

[@MmaMohau]

@@tinamaps1605 🤣🤣🤭

[@sueeland5675]

@Khutso,,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@khutso481]

​@@MmaMohau 🤣🤣I don't know where tgey sell it..I absolutely love love your vlogs everything makes my day thank you soo much fr making a difference in my home hle mmawena I'll share my progress via inbox🥰..trauma triggered huggy hug ee shall heal❤❤

[@kwakha6103]

I've gone for chrome in my bathrooms and added a lot of black accessories.....worked so well.

[@MmaMohau]

@@kwakha6103 chrome never disappoints. I will eventually go back to it in this house 🥰

[@ntebomuwanula3384]

Thank you for sharing we appreciate your vulnerability ❤

[@Mosima_01]

I haven’t been on this streets in a short while, since I am off on sick leave today I can finally catch up. We are enjoying the medium to long format vlogs. Thanks MmaMohau. Edit, thank you for being vulnerable with us, one thing I’ve come to understand about loss or grief is that we never get used to it, we just learn to live with it.

[@MmaMohau]

Welcome back sesi Mosima. O fole hle. 🥰🥰🥰❤️

[@Mosima_01]

@@MmaMohau Kea leboga wesho ❤️

[@maboomazibuko2242]

Shuuu, what a tear-jerker😢. I know not about suicide so I can't relate, but I know GRIEF. You are a true epitome of strength Mmamohau - taking lemons life throws at you and making lemonade. I'm glad you didn't dwell into the "why me" but instead fought the stigma. Your dad would indeed be so proud of you - he born a king 👑. What you said about being your mother's keeper...girl, I felt that!!! I'm happy that you raise your child in a healthy environment free of mental decay. Big ups to that. I relate so much to you and thank you for never disappointing. May you find closure and healing and continue being the humble soul that you are. And to think I wanted to ask who's KB before I finished watching😂. Then seemed so unimportant after watching the whole vlog. Story for another day I guess😊. Take heart sesi 💕

[@MmaMohau]

@@maboomazibuko2242 🤣🤣🤣KB is a story for another day. I am very big on mental health and true healing. I never wanter to parent from a place of fear or lack. That is why i had to ensure that I heal from my traumas before i even got married. Thank you for the ❤️ 🥰🥰

[@TshameleniChuma-ee6fr]

Sorry my sister I feel what you're going through, Only God knows and heal just pray for our late father's God will forgive everything that happened. ❤

[@MmaMohau]

🙏❤️thank you 🥰

[@minahhartney3757]

I am so sorry sesi, love and light.

[@nthatengmakhele2784]

The minute you sat on the bed I deliberately left the video play itself to the end because looking at the title I was not ready to see that because I could relate, having lost my dad at the age of 8. To date it's still not easy. Sending love and hugs to you ngwaneso.

[@MmaMohau]

@@nthatengmakhele2784 🥰🥰

[@BongiKemp]

...Love and Hugs ❤❤

[@Mabuselahope]

Sorry about your late dad. It is very hard to loose dad. I'm also thinking about my dad. I was a dad girl.

[@peggygouws9357]

your topic on the death of your father will heal lots of people, seeing the women you have become😇🙏💪🙌

[@thatobadubi5933]

Sending you hugs my Lady❤

[@thabisosebetha5364]

Welcome fam 💙

[@MmaMohau]

@@thabisosebetha5364 ❤️❤️

[@ThandoVanda]

Thank you for the tips and lessons❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

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[@maprezee5370]

Ah I cried when watching this cos I am looking at my own parents right now and thinking to myself, that's it.. They are slowly aging and I need to prepare myself emotionally when that time comes. 😢

[@MmaMohau]

Focus on loving and caring for them while you still have them. Death is a part of life and we should not fear it❤️❤️❤️

[@jabulisilembatha4313]

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[@ManokoKataka]

Sorry my child, l understand you ,don't cry girllie, ❤❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

Thank you. Im okay, i promise 🥰

[@llt4726]

🫂🫂🫂Askies!!Shhhuuu...My goodness!!I don't know what to say.The announcement part😢😢😢

[@MmaMohau]

🥰🥰❤️

[@moneyhabitswithMpho]

2:50 I love oxtail is my spoil factor though I us a instant pot 5 hours😢, I am not patient enough.

[@MmaMohau]

@@moneyhabitswithMpho I’m old school🤣🤣🤣

[@nanikijsebueng8068]

Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤❤🤗

[@tebogomabusela1694]

😅 thought I was the first ❤

[@MmaMohau]

You were very close🥰🥰🤣

[@matselisooliphant912]

❤❤ Mmamohau

[@yvonnekgoomo6448]

Hey Sesi ❤❤❤❤ 😊

[@MmaMohau]

@@yvonnekgoomo6448 hey Yvonne🥰❤️

[@sueeland5675]

Oxtail recipe well explained thanks Cc

[@MmaMohau]

@@sueeland5675 🥰

[@alettakgare9154]

Sesi, I had to use tissues, sending hugs and kisses ❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@alettakgare9154 askies ngwana gesho. At least I warned you 🫣🥰

[@sueeland5675]

🫂

[@Phyllisjordan2006]

hugs

[@MpatiMohlaka]

Black toilet, I get you I'm struggling with black tiles for the same reasons, want to remove them ASP 😂

[@MmaMohau]

@@MpatiMohlaka 🤣🤣🤣

[@fianong6745]

Sending love 😍 and hugs 🤗

[@MmaMohau]

@@fianong6745 received with love 🥰

[@sphilile]

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[@MmaMohau]

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[@KelebogileKlassen]

Sorry about your dad❤

[@MmaMohau]

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[@NeoPh-l3w]

So sorry 😞dear about ur dad.....my dad passed this year june 24 I'm straggling to accept because I was not not allowed to c him at the hospital even in the coffin 😢the wife didn't want us to be there it's very difficult to accept we are so depressed as family my siblings and my dad family

[@MmaMohau]

@@NeoPh-l3w that is so sad. I truly hope that you find closure and remember God can heal you if you allow Him. ❤️❤️

[@dirontshosethole1076]

sending hugs dear...

[@MmaMohau]

Thank you my love🥰🥰

[@usisiphofani5135]

❤

[@GlitchinGamingforever]

Oh sis🫂

[@Phyllisjordan2006]

🤗💌💌💌💌sending you gugs sis

[@Hlengiwe0717]

❤

[@Rea_Malatse]

So you had your stove on for 5 hours. .. OMG 😲 that could never be me .. , i cook it overnight in an instant pot

[@MmaMohau]

🤣🤣its gas very cheap

[@LesegoGaolatlhe]

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[@bernicetlhabane6848]

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[@zamabhelentangana]

Yho! Mmamohau, your story is exactly like mine. Maybe that's why I fell in love with your channel so much the very first time. Firstly, I'm so sorry that you went through this. My dad took his life when I was 17, I didn't have time to grieve him because I was very angry at him... ten years later, it all came back. I had to seek professional help, I couldn't talk about it either, because I was so embarrassed. 22 years later, I still miss him, I still have questions, I was my daddy's girl. May their souls continue to rest well ❤❤❤ 🕊 🕊 🕊

[@MmaMohau]

So sorry my love. As a daddy’s girl myself I felt so alone. I had to start from scratch and build a relationship with my mom. The anger can be overly consuming. Please seek someone to talk to when you get overwhelmed. I still feel sad from time to time but I have made peace with it❤ sending love and light your way❤️❤️🥰

[@NomangaziMnweba]

Sorry Cc

[@dimakatsomosopa2367]

🫂🤍🤍🤍💐💐💐

[@sueeland5675]

Yoooh. 😢😢 Bells please 🍻 lost my baby boy 2010 still feels like yesterday, sorry Cc but look at you lm sure he's proud of the woman you have become THANKS to mama🫂

[@boys_mom4293]

Sorry about your loss

[@MmaMohau]

@@sueeland5675 im sending you love and healing. I know the loss of a child and would never wish that on anyone. May the good Lord heal you ❤️❤️

[@janetphosa7607]

Hugs & kisses MmaMohau❤ Thank you for being so vulnerable with us and letting us in into your space.

[@MmaMohau]

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[@JudyNgxukuma]

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[@vulanichabalala702]

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[@MhizaBuhle]

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[@g_philly]

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[@MmaMohau]

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[@motlalepulemorake4965]

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[@andiswamdletye8191]

Thank you for sharing your painful experience with us 😢 and for enlightening us on the damage that one cause by deciding to take his or her own life. I'm growing to like you as aperson and your content of course queen❤.... you're so you even though I've never met you in person. So calm and collected the tone of your voice and generally how you handle your self. Youre so dignified, theres just something about you nje. Your mom and dad raised you so well❤ May your channel grow and heal so many broken hearts❤l

[@ReignTravel-o4e]

Sometimes you think it’s decor but God has called you for even more. Your vulnerability has brought healing and given permission…

[@MmaMohau]

❤❤im touched😢

[@busisiwemasoetsa8141]

Suggestion, cooking oxtail in the oven is a proper time saver. It takes exactly 3hrs and you don’t have to keep checking up on it to top up the water. Try it next time ❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@busisiwemasoetsa8141 I don’t top up the water and my stove is gas. Using the oven will cost me money. My oven is electric🤣🤣it actually took about 3 hrs. I ended up not cooking it any longer after i came back. thanks for the suggestion 🥰❤️

[@rahabpulanemakwala4447]

Share the receipe 😊

[@sethembilengidi3495]

Ncese mama I don't wanna see u hurt uzilungele from birth Sometimes I ask myself does she get engry the way cordial Ngakhona Bless u and be healed Pass lv to Mohau I always think she is a teen🙈🙊 We lv u From Durban ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@sethembilengidi3495 🤭🤭🤭i do not allow myself to get angry,if i can help it. The last time i got angry i quit my job 🤣🤣🤣. It is never safe Thank you for the love. Sometimes i feel like im talking to a teenager when i talk to Mohau🤣🤣

[@sethembilengidi3495]

@@MmaMohau 🤭🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

[@LihleM1]

As a daddy's girl who is mourning loosing her dad (this month was the 1year anniversary of his passing) thank you for sharing.

[@maelephoku2771]

Thank you for sharing that part of your life. It takes alot to come out here and be vulnerable... Grieve and other emotions evolved can never be an easy topic. You are a strong woman, Sis.

[@MmaMohau]

🥰🥰thank you 🙏

[@StarTown7634]

Thank you so much for this vlog especially when you opened up something so personal that happened in your life. Thank you for using your platform to highlight the importance of taking care of one's mental health and well being, these are conversations are need especially in the black community. Sending you so peace and love

[@MmaMohau]

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[@AllthingsFudy]

Thank you for opening to us. It means a lot and I pray you continue to heal❤

[@nthabisenglekomola]

My favorite 😊Thank you so much for being vulnerable with us 😊 ❤❤❤❤the audio is Perfect now, Yay to the new mic.

[@MmaMohau]

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[@RaeThupana]

Modimo a tśwelepele a gofe maatla Sesi. ❤️ Ke go rata kudu.

[@MmaMohau]

@@RaeThupana Modimo o lokile. Blessings to you my love. Ke leboga Lerato

[@BrendaM-l2n]

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[@mary-janeletsoalo8885]

Is someone chopping onions or something 🥹😭🥺😪

[@MmaMohau]

@@mary-janeletsoalo8885 it must be from the oxtail😂😂

[@sethembilengidi3495]

I lv your Vlog❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

Thank you Sethembile🥰❤️🤣

[@TshidiVilakazi]

Hi Ausi Mamohau you have a beautiful home and I love every detail of it, and you inspire many woman like myself ❤🎉 love your vlogs 😊

[@MmaMohau]

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[@BoitumeloMashiane-w5t]

I support that you need to speak to mother whilst she's still alive , it will also remove something in your heart.All the best my lovey❤❤❤

[@MmaMohau]

@@BoitumeloMashiane-w5t i agree🥰thank you so much

[@vuyokazinogwente6835]

Be encouraged and be strong cc

[@MmaMohau]

@@vuyokazinogwente6835 🥰❤️❤️thank you

[@BedeshaniNtontela-cn5km]

Sorry about your dad

[@MmaMohau]

@@BedeshaniNtontela-cn5km 🥰🥰🥰❤️thank you. It’s all good now

[@fiolineikorua4905]

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