COOKING WITH MY MOM/GURUMBA/STUFFED EGGPLANT/SOFT CHAPATI

It was so nice cooking with my mom. She’s such a joy to be around and I’m always learning new recipes, recreating my grandma’s recipe for Gurumba was awesome. Everything turned out delicious! Hope you all enjoyed cooking with us, thank you for always supporting us, take care, stay blessed and always remember ONE LOVE ❤️
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[@BeingRocky]

Hope you all enjoyed this cooking video with mom and I, it was a pleasure having mom with us, thank you so much for your Love and Support, take care, stay blessed and always remember ONE LOVE ❤️

[@sandyscupoftea3933]

Love this video with mom enjoy your time family.

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, we had an amazing time with her, best regards

[@fidelsseecoomar3279]

Rocky your MOM is the best NO NONSENSE ❤ , cherish her, I lost mine at the young age of 62.

[@BeingRocky]

My mom is our greatest blessings, it was so nice having her here with us, May your mom rest in eternal peace my friend

[@richiebisnauth3134]

Bless the hands that makes you the man you're today my friend (mom)!!

[@BeingRocky]

Definitely my brother, mom is our greatest blessings

[@judypersaud8634]

Nice to see your beautiful mom! You looks like your mother. Have fun cooking 🥰

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, my grandma, mom, ali and me, we all looks similar my friend

[@babai5461]

I don't peel mango when I cooking fish curry too I love the skin green or full

[@BeingRocky]

That’s the way we like it too my friend, have a wonderful weekend

[@247samd]

My mouth running water cant wait to try cooking it

[@BeingRocky]

😂 it was delicious, happy cooking 🥘

[@patriciaparkinson9323]

Hello Rock Sherri and mom great recipe very simple I will be trying it moms cooking always the best. The meal look so freaking delicious along with presentation Yum whish I was there to part take lovely! Hello Azim and Ali beautiful family love love watching all your shows . I just love how everything you do is always so clean and well presented Rock! Awesome 👌 keep keeping on way to go! Watching from Maryland.

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much for your kind words my dear friend, it was so much fun cooking with mom, we’re always learning new recipes with her, so blessed having her here with us for a few days, Ali and Azim sends their love ❤️ take care

[@khemwantegangaram4280]

Wow this is lot of gurumba.enjoy

[@BeingRocky]

It was a lot my friend, mom took back some to New York

[@sandramahadeo4910]

Hi Rocky and family I now watch your video and Rocky the love between you and your mother I had it once I cry seeing both of you I remember my mother let that love always be there and everything looks delicious take care bye.

[@BeingRocky]

My mom is our greatest blessings my friend, may your mom soul rest in eternal peace, we really enjoyed cooking with mom, take care and best regards

[@chandroutiepersaud4813]

Hi Rocky good evening how are you the best hand cooking is your mom no matter what guramba looks good and delicious began curry look delicious God bless you my Brother proud of you you always I send my love for you Sherry and Allie enjoy the rest of your weekend take care

[@BeingRocky]

We’re doing good my sister, hope all is well, we enjoyed having mom here, food was delicious, Ali and wifey sends their regards, have a blessed weekend

[@irisrogers2002]

Mr Rocky i enjoy you and your mom Cook.God bless you to have your mom jet have a wonderful weekend 🙏💯♥️🌹

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, truly appreciate it, best regards

[@buckaramramassar2166]

Wow that's awesome enjoy your day we love all your videos

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, truly appreciate it

[@adeshtikasingh7889]

Hi Rocky & family nice cooking yum yum miss my mum's cooking enjoy your sweet mum she is wonderful V UK 🌹🙏💞

[@BeingRocky]

It was so nice cooking with my mom, I’m always learning something new from her, take care and have a great week

[@nadiamungal6839]

Hi Being Rocky, very good job mummy 👏 delicious 😋 ❤❤🇹🇹🇹🇹

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, it was fun cooking with mom, take care and best regards

[@chandradmangal]

Hi Rocky and family Good morning and how are you all doing, hello mom how are you doing ☺️, good food and sweet guruba,and roti, and today l see how mom do chapati roti, thanks mom l enjoy your kinda cooking and Rocky please cherish your mom,❤️ her unconditionally, because mine gone a long time and misses her so much, so one ❤️ , enjoy the journey not the destination as Danny (ARD),thanks for letting us join you and your family in your kitchen cooking 😊 😄 ☺️

[@BeingRocky]

We’re doing good my dear sister, it was so nice having mom here with us, we had fun cooking 🥘 together, mom is our greatest blessings, food was delicious as always, take care and have a wonderful week ahead

[@bibikhan9025]

Salam to you Rocky and family it have been a while since I was not there..your mom is so sweet and beautiful I haven’t had gurma in years and thanks for sharing your story with us and I love ❤️ the video with greet and meet it was a pleasure to see you’re promoted you and your family and also the KZbinr them that was very sweet of you. I pray 🙏🏼 that Allah bless you and your family and all your KZbinr .also sherry and Ali are doing a great job which I was there may be next time. I was to busy with vacation to Guyana 🇬🇾 for qurbaini and my 61 year birthday.❤❤❤love you guys and have a wonderful and blessed day.

[@BeingRocky]

Wsalaam thank you so much my dear friend, it was fun cooking with mom, hopefully next year you can join us on the next meet and greet, would like to wish you a Happy and blessed birthday 🎉 wishing you all the best in health and happiness, Ali and wifey sends their salaam

[@lornasamaroo9043]

Happy Saturday. Enjoy. Delicious. Good job mom..👍👍🫶🇬🇾🇬🇾💞💞

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, best regards

[@shyammohabir8283]

As-Salaam-Alaikum ...Your mom did a fantastic job - It's the mom's touch :)

[@BeingRocky]

Wsalaam mom is the best cook, she’s an amazing mom to us, so blessed to have her here with us

[@sharmainethurton9320]

Hi Rocky and family so nice seeing you and your mom cooking 🍳 everything looks delicious 😋 beautiful 😍 family thanks for sharing ❤️ 🙏

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, I’m always having fun with mom in the kitchen, she’s awesome, take care and best regards

[@bakshg]

Hi Rocky Nice seeing you cooking with your mom. I grew up wth her in Annandale. Your grandmother was family to us. God bless you Guys

[@BeingRocky]

Wow that’s awesome my friend, it was so nice having her here with us for a few days, take care and best regards

[@dorehb7679]

Mangoes look sooo good. I watch late I’m watching now ❤️🙏

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, best regards

[@nippon359]

Lovely video with mom! I feel like Ali resembles her so much, of course she is a mash up between mom and dad. I was happy for the baigan recipe, looked yummy!

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, my grandma, my mom, me and Ali we all look similar my friend

[@nippon359]

🥰🙏🏾

[@buckaramramassar2166]

Wow that's awesome enjoy your day

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend

[@schennahpersaud2055]

Good night rocky I see you’re enjoying your mom and you should cherish her, nice cooking teaching u lots of new things,I always see those egg plant but didn’t know how to cook it,u really take care of mom very nice.really nice video thank u rocky .🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇬🇾

[@BeingRocky]

We had an amazing few days with mom, I’m always learning new recipes with her, she’s an amazing and sweet person, we love having her here with us, take care and have a blessed weekend

[@indrabaggan4622]

Hi mom love seeing you cook with you son and your daughter in law I enjoyed watching your video great memories both of my mom gone to the great beyond ❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, we had so much fun cooking and chatting with her, always making beautiful memories, may your mom soul rest in eternal peace my friend

[@annazeez9173]

Thank you so much for the recipe for the Gurumba. You and mom look so beautiful and handsome. I will certainly try this

[@BeingRocky]

You’re very welcome my beautiful sister, make some for Fizee, it was Deed recipe, I really enjoyed cooking it with mom, take care and Allah’s blessings always

[@user-un7oi1pp1i]

Very nice looks yummy enjoy guys ❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend

[@zeenamohammed577]

Hey guys mom sure could cook first time seeing mango cook like that I am going to try it for sure and rocky make sure to bring mom Trinidad when you guys coming can't wait to give her a hug love you guys have a blessed and wonderful week ❤

[@BeingRocky]

Mom has blessed hands, everything she cooks it always delicious, so much fun cooking with her, we will visit one day my friend, take care and best regards

[@satteesingh3741]

Such a loving family. Thank you so much Bro. Rocky for this much awaited recipe. Can’t wait to try it. Thank you very much!👏👏

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear, happy cooking 🥘 always a pleasure, take care and best regards

[@sallykumar2971]

That was great a different cooking today love the chapati roti and the eggplants. 💐🥰👏❤️🙏🏼never heard of stew mangoes 😋 mmmm

[@BeingRocky]

I’m always learning new recipes when cooking with mom, everything turned out delicious my friend, best regards

[@sallykumar2971]

@@BeingRocky yes we can always learn from our moms hands cooking 🥰👏🌹Blessings to her. By the way love your kitchen makeover. 👏

[@nimiraghunandan2121]

I love that eggplant curry I have to try it sending love ❤❤❤

[@BeingRocky]

It was delicious my dear friend, happy cooking 🥘

[@nalinidabie1009]

Yam yam looks sooo good ❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend

[@Sabrina-yb5qe]

Hi Rocky, Sherry it’s so nice to see mother and son in the kitchen. Rocky’s mom is sweet and lovely. Can’t wait to try some of these recipes. Thanks for sharing!❤

[@BeingRocky]

Mom and I had a great time cooking together with wifey, we’re always learning new recipes from mom, it’s a pleasure, take care and best regards

[@Reza-1223]

Assalaam Alaikum. That's some great looking mangoes. They are so tempted to be eaten with some salt. Where I'm from gurumba/ gurma isn't something well known. I had it maybe twice. Your grandmother's recipe does look amazing. Your mom is enjoying the family, and she is such a pleasant woman. You guys are all blessed to have each other. Those stuffed balanjay are looking very delicious, they are very good for you too. You guys have a blessed rest of the weekend. Always a pleasure to watch your posts. ❤👍🏽✌️✌️🙏❤️🇬🇾💯💯

[@BeingRocky]

Wsalaam my brother, gurumba is one of my favorite dishes especially when I cooked it with my grandma, it was such a pleasure making it with mom also, very delicious and satisfying, we had an amazing time with mom, she’s fun to be around, I’m always learning new recipes with her, take care and have a blessed weekend

[@jennyrampersaud2514]

Delicious soup good job sana🇹🇹👍

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend

[@anndinanauth9369]

I’m enjoying this video.

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, glad to hear that, best regards

[@sumatiejuman2396]

Family love is everything

[@BeingRocky]

Definitely my dear friend

[@g1g2a3_squad]

Wow Rock, I'm jelly, mom made you soo much good food. Love seeing you all throwing it down in the kitchen! Food looked delicious 🙂... we can tell where you got the master chef skill from! ~Sham & Prea

[@BeingRocky]

It was so much fun cooking with mom, I’m always learning something new from her, definitely learned from the best, thank you so much, you guys are awesome, take care and best regards

[@g1g2a3_squad]

@@BeingRocky awe love that! She taught you well! 😘

[@sandramohammed5061]

Salaams. The food looks good. I celebrated my 33rd wedding anniversary. Enjoy mom❤😊

[@BeingRocky]

Wsalaam my friend, wishing you both a happy and blessed anniversary, May Allah always shower his blessings upon you both Ameen

[@jessiesanders2670]

Your daughter has features of your Mom so much, beautiful mom, daughter and wife ❤️ 💕 💖

[@BeingRocky]

Yes they do, my grandma also looked similar to us as well my friend, good genes 😂 take care and best regards

[@annamohamed5445]

What a beautiful video with mom and you guys. Moms is an ole gangster in the kitchen yuh know! 🤣. Love you guys, ❤️🙏

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my sister, you done know 😂 we love ❤️ you guys too, have a wonderful weekend

[@Rosalindgovender]

Mom is so beautiful..❤

[@BeingRocky]

She is an amazing and wonderful mom my friend

[@paropersaud5370]

That mango looks delicious with sweet rice and puri your mom so sweet enjoy have a great Saturday. 🤎👍🇨🇦🌻

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, yes that would be delicious also, we enjoyed having mom here with us, best regards

[@parbattiechandool9438]

Rocky you are really lucky to have your Mom with you God bless you all ♥️

[@BeingRocky]

It’s so nice seeing your comment my friend, we missed you, it was so nice having mom here with us, she’s our greatest blessings, take care and have a blessed week

[@bibirajjab7618]

Looks delicious I didn’t had gurumba for years I have to try that sis Mom I coming by you one day to make that lol

[@BeingRocky]

It was so delicious, maybe when we come next month we can make it by moms and you can come, take care and best regards

[@jacquelinemadoo2616]

Looks so yummy. Enjoy your family time🎉

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, it was so much fun cooking with mom

[@richiebisnauth3134]

Great video my brother 👍👍

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear brother

[@sabo19yusuf83]

Mom food always the best,enjoy Rock and family I love gurumba😋

[@BeingRocky]

It is my friend, we had an amazing time with mom, take care and best regards

[@marymulchand2259]

That's my favorite. That's how we make it .send some now😅

[@BeingRocky]

It came out so delicious my friend, 😂 ok np, best regards

[@khemwantegangaram4280]

My mom usually made gurumba and roti it was sooo delicious

[@BeingRocky]

Mom’s cooking is always the best my friend

[@ceciliapersaud6856]

Nice you and your Mom cooking together ❤️ Looks so delicious 😋 Yummy

[@BeingRocky]

We had so much fun cooking together, I’m always learning new recipes with her, best regards

[@shantie6535]

Nothing like a mother cooking her food always the best big up to you and family rocky enjoy why it last because what is today happiness become tomorrow memories enjoy your mom to the fullest stay blessed and the food looks delicious 😋 ❤

[@BeingRocky]

That is so true my friend, mom is our greatest blessings and we cherish her, her hands are blessed, everything was so delicious, take care and best regards

[@krissingh3744]

Amazing 👏 ❤❤❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend

[@RaviSingh-gc5bb]

Love it my bro !!

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my brother, best regards

[@kumarmangalam7950]

I always learn new dishes I've never heard of from you as usual.. I'll need to try Gurumba if I can find it somewhere.. Love from India

[@BeingRocky]

So happy to hear that my friend, happy cooking and best regards

[@marianbhim1q834]

Love the way you cooked the Gurumba and the eggplant. I will definitely try out these recipes. One love to your beautiful Mama and your family. Cheers from Toronto💞

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, everything came out delicious, it was fun cooking with mom, take care and best regards

[@triciadafryck7547]

Wow looks delicious mom food always is the best 😋👍🇹🇹

[@BeingRocky]

Blessed hands my friend, nothing like mom’s cooking 🥘

[@haniffa4485]

Hi guys. Always nice to try new recipes.enjoy your mom rocky. You are so lucky to have her still. Enjoy very much.👍❤️❤️❤️

[@BeingRocky]

Yes it is my friend, thank you so much, we enjoyed having mom here with us, have a wonderful weekend

[@patriciaadams9116]

Your daughter looks like your mom. Both beautiful. Enjoy cooking with mom.

[@BeingRocky]

My grandma, mom, Ali and I, all look similar my friend, we enjoyed having mom here with us, best regards

[@doreenmangru3490]

It’s my favorite dish

[@BeingRocky]

It was delicious my friend

[@yonettecummings3923]

The food looks so delicious, enjoy ❤❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend

[@junef60]

Enjoyed video of Gurumba today with Wifey and Mom. I thought it was Starapples at first! Was waiting for you to add a shot of Rum. I really enjoy all the videos.

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, 😂 no it was mangoes 🥭 take care and best regards

[@junef60]

The rum was for tthe Gurumba, I took the Eggplant for starapples. Happy cooking!

[@BeingRocky]

@@junef60 oh ok 😂

[@lady.J3962]

BLESS UP🙏 to u and your beautiful family. Enjoy Mom to the fullest ❤ cooing looks delicious as always. Thank u for sharing 😊

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, we really enjoyed having her here with us for a few day, it was fun cooking with my mom, food was delicious my friend, best regards

[@zorasamaroo4884]

Hello rocky and family ..hi to your mom..she is good love the chapati roti..and allo with stuff baigan ..love everything so Awesome...mom is so cool.... and the mango looks so good...nice video rocky...enjoy your weekend guys ❤❤...

[@BeingRocky]

It was so much fun cooking with mom, I’m always learning something new with her, food was delicious, take care and best regards

[@bibikhan8760]

It's nice seeing you and your mom cook together. Allah's blessings always. I make my gurumba the same way.. ❤

[@BeingRocky]

It was so much fun cooking 🥘 with mom my friend, thank you so much and have a blessed week ahead

[@roshansamsudeen7448]

Awesome

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my brother

[@juliamatthew4]

❤❤❤❤ that looks delicious 😋 I'm dribbling just watching it. I will try it out for my birthday and say how it tastes since I have never done that before. Thanks for sharing. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@BeingRocky]

Happy and blessed birthday 🎂 to you my dear friend, wishing you all the best in health and happiness, yes please do and let me know how you like it, happy cooking 🥘

[@donnad6402]

Hi guys, mangoes looks delicious,mom so cute an a great cook Rocky i can see where u got ur cooking skills 😅 Ms sherry ur lucky , hi Ally an Azim, enjoy wy mom an hav a bless day ❤🙏

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, I learned from the best, we enjoyed having mom here with us, take care and best regards

[@ewwilliam9530]

Good Evening Beautiful, Mother,Wife Daughter and Mango 🥭😊

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, best regards

[@aslamalli6797]

Asalaam Alaikum to you and family. Nice video .

[@BeingRocky]

Wsalaam thank you so much my friend, best regards

[@sv2434]

Omg nice mangoes 🥭

[@BeingRocky]

They’re so sweet my friend

[@cindypanchoo8708]

Hi rocky and family wow love everything your mum make must try the mango 😊sherry and rocky Ail is so much like her grandma❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend, we enjoyed mom’s cooking 🥘 take care and best regards

[@angiesudary4322]

Delicious ❤

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend

[@Dianabalram]

I will glad to get some sapadela I didn't had that for years

[@BeingRocky]

That’s in season now I left the information in the other comment

[@nimiraghunandan2121]

Love guruma and rotie ❤❤❤

[@BeingRocky]

That delicious my friend

[@sheldonbeharry6583]

Bess food is mammy food!! ❤

[@BeingRocky]

Always my dear friend

[@robinsingh7824]

Yummy and looks delicious 😋

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend

[@robinsingh7824]

U welcome bro..

[@savi7493]

Hi, beautiful family. Mom recipe is almost similar to Bigan bharta. And yes chapati always hits different, not too heavy.

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend, yes it is, we enjoyed mom’s cooking, take care and best regards

[@pauldeopersaud8542]

Haven’t had this in a while now, my favorite growing up. Looking very appetizing. Gurma in Hindi means Jam. The dish is believed to have originated in the state of Gujarat, where mangoes are abundant. Thank You 🙏 rocky

[@BeingRocky]

Wow that’s awesome, thank you so much for sharing that with us, I love ❤️ as I kid I use to enjoy this dish as well, especially when my grandma made it

[@misslemon1970]

Those mangoes looks so luscious!

[@BeingRocky]

We missed your comments my friend, so nice to hear from you, hope all is well, they’re so sweet

[@misslemon1970]

@@BeingRocky Busy like a bee. 😅

[@misslemon1970]

I can see how much you love your mom. That’s so nice!

[@BeingRocky]

@@misslemon1970 we all love mom, she’s our greatest blessings my friend

[@Dianabalram]

Hi rocky always watching your videos, am where I can get some nice fruits here in Florida, we just visiting 😊

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much for your support my dear friend, our favorite place to go is the flea market the address is 13600A Icot Blvd, Clearwater, FL 33760 they open Saturday and Sunday but please go Saturday morning it’s the best time, hours are 7 am to 2pm go early ok

[@Dianabalram]

@@BeingRocky thank you very much brother I will check that out, I will glad to meet you guys I will be here for a few days, and I also is a KZbin ber so that will be so if you available eny day of this week, we can meet up somewhere 👋👍

[@BeingRocky]

@@Dianabalram ok sounds good when you get here message me on Facebook and we can meet up ok, best regards

[@nasheera9338]

Salaam beautiful family. Uncle Rocky use an electric saw next time to cut the mango. Mom said electric knife but I feel a saw would be better 😂. Your mommy so cuteee lol especially when you help her head. My mom don't like anyone touch her hair and head. Everything looks delicious. Take care Salaam from mom and dad and lots of love.❤❤❤❤❤

[@BeingRocky]

Wsalaam that’s a good idea, why didn’t I thought of that 😂 I was fun cooking 🥘 with mom, please give our salaam to your mom and dad, have a wonderful weekend

[@rekhaseenarine1827]

Oh wow I haven’t eat Gurumba over twenty years or more,

[@BeingRocky]

That’s a longtime my friend, make some, it was delicious

[@zamelabalram6764]

😋😋😋👍🙏

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend

[@Star-vg7ix]

Amazing size on that mango!!

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my dear friend

[@RenatoHarripaul1217]

👍👍👍👍

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much my friend

[@anonymous-mt9zx]

Alicia looks like her grandma

[@BeingRocky]

She does my dear friend

[@angiesudary4322]

Yummy but we needed some Roti 😂

[@BeingRocky]

We had it with oil roti my friend

[@shazammohammed9191]

Rocky it's Shazam From 129st Liberty Avenue, New York. I Would like you to make black masala mango. Could you make request.

[@BeingRocky]

Salaam my brother, I never heard of that but I will ask my mom how to make it and will try it ok, best regards

[@user-co4lo1bu5d]

Oh my God I know that lady she’s from annandale. Hi Aunty.

[@BeingRocky]

Yes my friend, that’s my beautiful mom

[@user-co4lo1bu5d]

@@BeingRocky you from annandale

[@user-co4lo1bu5d]

@@BeingRocky I am from annandale too

[@user-co4lo1bu5d]

@@BeingRocky are used to live in a nursery school street My dad name is Vishnu.

[@BeingRocky]

@@user-co4lo1bu5d oh yes I think I remember you guys

[@RyanDat-mt2gs]

Mango should be more ripe buddie

[@BeingRocky]

You can make it with more ripe mangoes but we like it half ripe my brother

[@porter105]

*Promo SM* ❤️

[@BeingRocky]

Best regards

[@rekhaseenarine1827]

Can I get a shout out for my birthday on July 30 please thank you

[@BeingRocky]

Wishing you all the best in health and happiness my dear friend

[@balrampersaud6897]

You are doing a job don’t get me wrong but are you related to Terry Gagraj because you guys always showing your teeth for no reason

[@BeingRocky]

Thank you so much, I’m enjoying my life, love the life you live and make people smile, ONE LOVE ❤️ no time for negativity and sadness Only good times bro

[@dawnecamacho2601]

This looks so delicious. I must try it. So nice to have your mom with you. She is a lovely person.

[@BeingRocky]

It was so delicious my friend, mom and I had fun cooking together, we’re so blessed to have her