Couples Reveal Their Sex Struggles | Side x Side | Cut

[@LeNu2001]

It‘s so nice to see real and honest sex stories, makes me less insecure

[@ANJIN-p4q]

Yeah go ahead and tell the internet about your sex life.

[@swatik2509]

@@ANJIN-p4q ?

[@LeNu2001]

@@ANJIN-p4q u mad huh

[@MathisZip]

Imagine being insecure

[@pashibaba2506]

ikrrr

[@dalilmofo]

Her: “He’s not super into medication for that kind of thing.” Him: “Absolutely!”

[@palashverma3470]

2 times

[@ciararoberts5118]

Her: “we are not huge medication people so uh“ him: “yeah absolutely” 💀💀

[@theminoritynyc]

Men will take just about anything to have sex good.

[@Jsparrow123_]

It's good for these discussions to be open around ED and raising how common it really is

[@BRUH-rj1mh]

I got confused for a sec I read it as eating disorder lol

[@ulixo1132]

It would be better if not sponsored though...

[@mitzi3262]

Except that guy whos good every time lol

[@BazzaroPlays]

@@ulixo1132 this is a far better placement for said service opposed to on a videogame video.

[@theRAGEGAMER999]

Wouldn't ED mean they aren't raising anything?

[@thatobaloyi6194]

The diversity of the couples just makes my heart smile

[@TheOnlyTaps]

💯

[@rhodabaruch4]

Not a single all black couple though…

[@ef245]

@@rhodabaruch4 so?

[@123anes1]

@@rhodabaruch4 or latino or asian or middle eastern or aboriginal, so?

[@thatobaloyi6194]

@@rhodabaruch4 So?

[@leila9871]

"both butts" HERE FOR IT

[@MsLhuntMartinez79]

😂😂😂💪

[@CuznLuvn69]

Same

[@bircesuzen8513]

i was like HELL YEAH

[@effyvoux]

Hey Cut - it would be really cool if, next time, you discussed sexual dysfunction on the women’s end too. I, for example, suffer from vulvodynia, which means I have chronic pelvic pain that causes excessive tightness. Many women who have this problem don’t know what it is, and therefore don’t know that it can be overcome with a loving and patient partner. Like, I used to think I would be single forever because of it 😕 But then I met my husband, and we figured it out! There are also women who have trouble lubricating, or women who suffer from low libido due to medications they’re on, as one of the ladies in this video touched on. I think it would be really interesting to explore these kinds of issues at greater length. Thanks!

[@Tostito777]

If ur interested there’s a show that talks about this I think and other things it’s called sex education

[@arirj844]

@@Tostito777 is it in the 3rd season? I haven't watched it yet but I remember that in the 2nd season the nerdy girl has vaginismus

[@robert7567]

@@arirj844 yeah Lily had that. And Sex Education does an excellent job around various sexual topics. Such an awesome series.

[@kdh70]

don't bother - this video was never even supposed to be about couples' sex lives, it was literally just a really long add for dick pills. i knew it seemed like they were lingering on erectile dysfunction for too long...

[@marthaatakora1650]

@@arirj844 yeah that’s how i realized i have vaginismus people hate on it but the show is really helpful

[@arielf]

Wish they spoke about sex struggles generally and not just ED

[@erincurley1234]

hoping for another edit of this video !! with more questions !

[@Mobin92]

This is a probably staged ad for vi*gra...

[@stephenjbro]

@@Mobin92 don't know if you watched to the end, but yup, it's an ad for an ED medication lmao. fucking CUT is relentless

[@stephenjbro]

guess we have to wait until someone makes a medication for other sex struggles, then CUT will make a video advertising it

[@megc25]

Same, it would be nice to hear more real stories about sex struggles

[@Solidude4]

Btw some people don't know that there's a difference between erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety. One is a physical thing the other is psychological. If you can still get an erection while alone then the issue is performance anxiety, not ED.

[@Kirbystare1992]

Does ED mean you can’t get it up at all ?

[@houseoffoxx4878]

@@Kirbystare1992 Yes! P.A. is just having issues performing for others.

[@scoobie8amg]

Oh interesting. My bf def had performance anxiety in the beginning. I was his first and he was an older virgin.

[@philipsparks6089]

Yeah I dont have ED, but i have pretty bad performance anxiety, just cant get comfy with other people

[@yasink1995]

@@scoobie8amg hey im very curious how did he fix his anxiety how long did it take for him to perform good while having sex and what where the problems he had

[@bec7080]

"oh yeah I'm old" best answer But also I'm glad the younger guys were honest.

[@fazops6853]

Whatever sex struggles you had, always open up and communicate with your partner

[@TheOnlyTaps]

Big facts 💯

[@roshanb9637]

not juzt sex struggles also...whatever the problem is, communciate it. communication is the key.

[@OnizenArt]

It's easier said than done when fear and embarrassment sets in, on top of the thoughts of how your partner will handle it

[@TheOnlyTaps]

@@OnizenArt True dat. It's an uphill battle. Ultimately though just gotta deal with it head on, better to try n work on an issue than suffer in silence.

[@itdobelikedattho8112]

Silverhand knows this

[@heatherlovebug1]

These couples are all so lovely and communicating with the audience and each other! So nice , and open :)

[@magababy4291]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eX3FonyBfsx9pJo Racst teacher caught

[@rixx46]

It’s fake. It’s a commercial for ED pills

[@richardcamarenaiii]

“If we hug it’s like, I am fuckin’ hard now.” LOL too true

[@cristian-bull]

every time, every time!

[@Kevin4M3]

You guys get hard when your cousin hugs you?

[@OhhFocal]

weirdies

[@svilendenchev9984]

@@Kevin4M3 Alabama shit

[@Dotakid99]

He just like me

[@themrnorwood]

“What a bummer” is the understatement of the year

[@wakeup9557]

Just want to say thank you to the people willing to put themselves out there in this video. I've struggled with ED since I was about 23 and the shame over it has only made it worse. So thanks for being so open and showing that lots of people have issues with it!

[@assumealu]

Despite its flaws, the best thing about cut is the representation. Being able to see real people talk about real things is important.

[@jordansatow4048]

This is so refreshing to know how common this is and hear it be discussed so openly.

[@tierk4328]

Getting ED for the first time, you feel an overwhelming sense of shame and embarrassment. However, a good partner will try their best to comfort and reassure you

[@robert7567]

Truly appreciate these couples for speaking so candidly and publicly about ED. Special shout-out to the men because there’s a lot of shame around this topic. 👏🏽 👏🏽

[@houseoffoxx4878]

CUT NEEDS AN AWARRRRRD!! This is something 90%of males in my opinion deal with! It makes a lot of us feel like lesser men. I’m so happy to see not just men but COUPLES talk about this issue and I’m 29!! 💪🏿👨🏿‍🦲⚒️

[@jathanthmith1519]

Are you a man?

[@emilymarie4333]

This video wouldn’t have come at a better time for me. I’m in my first real -what I would call adult- relationship. We’ve been together for 4 months and lately we’ve been struggling with ED. It was really important for me to hear a mans prospective. Love you CUT!

[@caseyblankenship987]

@emilymarie433 if he watches porn a lot and masterbates that can play a huge role. It helped 100% for me to stop doing those things. Your brain becomes required to get turned on from porn instead of your partner. Which sounds ridiculous but it’s 100% true I heard a psychologist explain it and I tried it and it worked for sure. If that is it and he isn’t willing to give up porn for a good sex life than he’s gotta go

[@katf6077]

Fuck yes, Cut. The openness from this channel is so important.

[@melissaharmsworth1962]

I love the Cut. Normally I don't comment on videos but I have to applaud the video. This is so refreshing to see real open couple struggles and will help many people feel like they are not alone. Thank you to the couples that took the time to be vulnerable here. 😊🙏

[@loomonda18]

Thanks for being open and honest about sex issues guys! Sex issues are more common than ppl think for both guys and girls, and needs to be talked about more!!

[@Bilra_Ach]

"none of us are very demure" hits in 2024

[@isaiahp3818]

“Why is it so HARD to talk about?” Ha that was on purpose!

[@spookygreg]

After a certain age, it’s more likely to have ED than to not have ED. It really shouldn’t have a stigma. It’s natural and not typically indicative of a larger problem.

[@abirmakesdumbvideos]

Shoutout to CUT for including the realest the most normal diverse couples not super gorgeous hollywood models!!

[@brwnsuga.mangos]

I dealt with a guy who had performance anxiety-you have to be patient and understanding. He got better the more we messed around.

[@NatashaVincent]

2:12 😩💔 The pressure some guys put on themselves to "perform" is so stressful. An entire industry has been created around a so-called _dysfunction_ while there are a zillion ways to be satisfyingly intimate and enjoy ecstasy with your partner that don't require penetration.

[@personrandom8215]

So your solution to any guy with ED is to just never use their penis again and do other things for the rest of your life? Sheesh you're definitely not a guy

[@Ineverusemychannel]

@@personrandom8215 all men experience occasional softness, premature ejaculation and dysfunction and as they get older it’s frequency increases. Young men should not be experiencing these issues at the rate that they are. It is not normal or healthy for this to be such a huge part of their sex lives that they feel they need to be medicated (some as young as teenagers). Pressure to perform, porn and stress in general have made it more difficult for men to engage in sex that they want. Instead of just universally band aiding this with a pill, we should be focusing on fixing the root causes. We are playing into a market that exacerbates the problem rather than fixing it for young men. Alleviating the cause is the most sustainable way for men to have the penetrative sex they want while avoiding dependency on substances. Focus more on improving men’s lives than attacking women for considering other means of sex.

[@emilyscloset2648]

Natasha exactly. Also, @Person Random. No, it is to deal with the toxic mentality behind it. A lot of ED cases are actually mental rather than physical. And actually, allowing yourself to enjoy the experience rather than worrying whether what you are doing makes you less of a man, will be a better experience for both yourself and your partner. On a amab cis guy, there are so many different erroneous areas that feel amazing to explore apart from your penis. And no, I'm not just taking about your prostate. Your sides, shoulders, back can all feel amazing when simulated properly. And when you drop that mentality that penises are required for sex and the only way to give pleasure, then you get a much better and more fulfilling intimate relationship with your partner

[@Solidude4]

@@personrandom8215 That's not her point? Pretty sure the point is that it would be better if men didn't feel as if the entirety of their sexual worth depends on whether they can get hard or not.

[@personrandom8215]

@@Ineverusemychannel Umm...read my comment again. You're jumping to assumptions that I've given you no reason to believe. I completely agree with you that ED may be a symptom for other causes that may include blood pressure and heart problems so you should for sure consult a doctor. And I also agree with you that you should be cautious when taking drugs and look for other solutions first. I didn't say anything to the contrary. I'm simply saying that using other means to have an enjoyable experience is a temporary solution not a long term for multiple reasons. Also I'm not attacking anyone I'm just disagreeing there's a big difference.

[@OnizenArt]

I've been dealing with minor ED recently as a 33 year old, and that "what a bummer" response is an accurate response

[@MissBlueEyeliner]

“…any samples?” 😂 I love her, she’s always great.

[@cataloid]

i wish we could talk about how often this "dysfunction" happens to women too but there's just no word to describe it so it often goes un-talked about. Very often many women myself included just cannot get aroused and sex can be incredibly difficult and disheartening when it feels like- why won't my body respond the way I want it to? Why does it only feel good sometimes but then others I just can't seem to get aroused or finish. It's really frustrating that there isn't a word to describe this in women and it's NEVER talked about. :( especially considering how common it is.

[@cheetahtfk7274]

Very true. When I first got on anxiety meds I had little to no sex drive and it would take at least an hour to get an orgasm and the orgasm sucked. It was super depressing and lasted for a few months. I wish issues like this were discussed more.

[@by.an_ca.9936]

2:01 Guy: “I think not every guy can perform 100%” Guy2: “Every time every time ” 💀💀💀💀

[@joharanabee]

Would be great to see a video with more female sex struggles as well

[@Halatheone]

I really love these kinds of honest videos! I think it removes the stigma off of normal mundane issues. It is entertaining and educating at the same time.

[@jillsarah7356]

I'm all for medication that helps properly diagnosed folks, it just sucks that all insurances cover ED meds but many insurances don't cover birth control, which many people need for serious medical ailments, in some cases life-threatening ailments.

[@dreamingofraaain]

It makes me sad that people with ED feel the need to explain themselves. It's obviously not their fault, the same way as it's not somebody's fault if they can't have an orgasm, no one's to blame here. Our bodies are tricky, they don't always do what we want them to and there's no reason to feel guilty about it. I appreciate these people's honesty though!

[@matthewsisti4382]

ED is so extremely common that either it shouldn't even be called abnormal or society at large needs to come up with a solution to the dangers of porn (not having it freely accessibly on the device we're all on 24/7 would definitely help lol).

[@dollophead8718]

"Both butts 😎" lmaoo the way he said it

[@youthoughtiwasdone7625]

I loved it when he said "Both Butts"😁😂😂

[@BakedKipling]

My sex life has been limited due to childhood obesity. I have lost 200lbs+ and changed my life around about 10 years ago however i was a heavy smoker & drinker, i almost certianly had ED and was very upset over the matter. Since i quit alcohol and that in itself flipped my world, i also quit smoking cigarettes (I still vape & smoke weed) this and working on my cardio, diet & spending time working my kegel muscles my penis is not only bigger but i am a completely different person down there. ED is not a poblem anymore and i live a simple but happy life atm which i love. If this inspires anyone i wish you luck! Alcohol is a toxin please don't dismiss that.

[@t00sa]

I like channels like Cut, channels that share stories from all kinds of people and don't shy away from 'taboo' subjects

[@rein952]

I’m glad we’re having these conversations 👍🏾• _ •👍🏾

[@starheartskull15]

The couple w the girl in the polka dot shirt & the guy from the end are sooo cute to me

[@tomoraalice9961]

Can we talk about this from a female perspective? There are lots of women who suffer from sexual dysfunction and more awareness is needed!

[@bezeir]

This is legit “couples talk about ED”

[@ijustwannasleepforever]

2:01 the editing 😀

[@by.an_ca.9936]

Ik 💀💀

[@sonpyh3989]

The fact that the guy behind the camera is 32 and I’m in love with his voice- well you didn’t see anything

[@paigepaii]

This video should be more popular! One comment every 4 days?! The couples are so respectful and nice, they are super chill too lol 😭

[@arksector]

Even tho this is a shameless ad (not judging), I love how this brings awareness and stimulates openness about such a "regular" subject

[@rugaothegreat]

if i watched this like 10 years ago i would be much less insecure today

[@blubala5893]

Nicki is too precious for this world

[@b33p]

She's a porn star, I think. Saw her interviewed by some dude years ago, can't remember his name but he tries to make his guests feel awkward. She was funny. Was weird that wasn't even mentioned in this video, but I suppose it's basically a long advertisement where the end goal is a plug. So they just wanna get to the plug ASAP while trying to feel organic. Except it doesn't, because the whole video was about men struggling.

[@syriangamer89]

@@b33p she was on kessemG

[@jonaswolterstorff3460]

Which one is that? And is she really an adult actor as the other comments claim?

[@FluoxetinaBelcher]

@@jonaswolterstorff3460 Nicki is the person with blonde hair wearing a red polka-dotted dress.

[@bellissimabombshell]

HA 😂😂😂 you must have very low standards for precious then

[@todaogunbanwo7748]

I like the checkered shirt/stripped black jumper couple. I'm tryna see more videos with them in it!

[@timaglam9140]

Men should start talking about these. As much as women are vocal these days about things that make them insecure I think if men start talking about this it would help a lot of young people

[@berkerrang4149]

We can't. i would wager 90% of men's insecurities come from women. Just go on tiktok or twitter and you'll see entire comment sections filled with people saying how useless and bad men are.

[@BlueChew]

This is so great! Thanks Cut! Our goal as a brand is to break the stigma about ED and performance anxiety! Here's to happy, healthy, and exciting relationships!

[@gre3nishsinx0Rgold4]

Idk why but I like the shirt of that one guy with a yellow beanie. It's like a mood.

[@ICavalcadeI]

"Would you consider medication" Women "Hmm, I don't kno-" Men "ABSOLUTELY" 😂😂😂

[@kathleenreilly828]

“Why is it so hard to talk about?” “Well the fact of the matter is that it’s not hard at all”

[@alexh2065]

Interesting to hear the response on ED. As a 33 year old whose like the one that said he gets hard with a hug, I didn't know ED was so frequent even for younger guys.

[@haleylafferty9870]

People need to be more honest like this

[@fjp9]

i wish they put their names up whenever they’re talking.

[@wyattolson5404]

"No dude can be 100% everytime" "EVERYTIME! EVERYTIME!"

[@ericaudy9282]

Aahhh theaters Nice to see, Definitely enjoyed everyone honesty... We are new here but definitely not new as a couple...Being together more than 10 Years... We always talk about everything and I most say he is very active and never have any issues.... He is very aware of his body and knows what to do and what not to do at those moments.. I guess I will put this topic on our list of videos we will be posting in the near future... lots of love to everyone who reads this & we wish you a Beautiful day

[@Insanearth1]

1:50 I just love the mindful editing lol

[@singingblueberry]

It makes me so sad to hear about the performance anxiety and self doubts people go through because of a body function that you can't control. It's okay. It's nobody's fault. There's plently of ways to have sex and be intimate, let's embrace them.

[@gauzeeeee]

The biracial couple (black woman, white dude) are so cute together

[@Solidude4]

Not to be pedantic but that's an interracial* couple. A biracial couple would mean they're both biracial.

[@acetaminophenus]

I love Nikky!! She cracked me up when she finished with "Any samples? :D"

[@abbypierce4196]

Yes! We have to make these conversations normal! ✨💕

[@kaitlynnharker3368]

I’ve been w my bf for almost 5 years now and honestly we used to have sex like 3 times a day, and everyday. Now it’s like once a week, and sometimes it’ll go for longer and sometimes it’ll happen two days in a row. Super fluctuating. So if you came here nervous that you and your partner don’t do it enough just know your natural libido will go down over time and the more comfortable you get with ur partner as well! So don’t fret it! It’s natural

[@giusepperesponte8077]

My main takeaway from this video was that erectile dysfunction is a bigger issue than I previously thought. I never realized how common that is. I’ve never experienced it personally but it sounds awful.

[@Moaritsu]

Never hear about women's struggles w penetration tbh, would like to hear that

[@Plantmermaid]

Loved the old guy in the white shirt that says COLOMBIA im guessing her wife is Colombian, such a sweet couple

[@amethyst4990]

It's ironic that the only couple who agreed he could get it up everytime also had the girl say sex is just ok for them x:

[@KreeZafi]

It's great that they talk about ED but I wish they had discussed female issues too. Unfortunately I think female issues are largely ignored because you believe you can just slap some lube on and it works anyway, but female arousal is about more than just lubrication so that's really not a fix!

[@KreeZafi]

If anyone sees this who is not very educated on female arousal, I'll go ahead and elaborate a bit. For one, the vagina expands quite significantly during arousal to accommodate penetration, the cervix shifts up to make room etc. Because of this, penetration when not aroused can be uncomfortable even if you use lube. Furthermore, just like with male erections a lot of blood will rush to the genitals and make them swell and throb. The clitoris enlarges and pokes out, making it easier to stimulate, and everything generally becomes more sensitive and receptive to pleasure. This is why foreplay is really important particularly if you have a female partner! The fact of the matter is that female arousal takes longer than male arousal, and if you rush past it you're more likely to experience discomfort and less likely to experience pleasure. As a woman myself I know this very well, like sometimes if I want to masturbate but go at it too quickly with insufficient preparation it's quite an underwhelming, disappointing experience. One of the main sexual complaints heterosexual women have is a lack of foreplay. Seriously, I cannot stress enough how important it is for females to be properly aroused, and that it goes beyond lubrication!!

[@englishbeauty88]

The guy who gets hard when his partner hugs him is absolutely my partner and I haha im so grateful

[@abelkibebe577]

4:57 I dont want to surprise her😆😆😆

[@rocksta201012]

Lmaooo this was really just a long commercial 😂I had feeling when they spent over 1/2 the video talking just about ED

[@dirtydevotee]

I love how honest this video is. ++

[@jj7409]

I love how honest this video was but why were all the additions directed towards the men not “performing”?

[@jordonbrown69]

“every time every time” that was a funny ass transition

[@grossliz1995]

When you watch a 10 minute ad for a subscription box..

[@babatundejones52]

0:42 hurt my soul. People living my dream rn

[@GeneralRock114]

Blue Chew is just Sildenafil which you can save a lot of money buying it at Sam’s if you are a plus member and have a prescription.

[@lovemyself6441]

You know what as a gay guy, I think gay couple doesn’t talk about it and are more embarrassed about it because gays always need the fantasy perfect sex. You should do this video with gay couple, I am dam sure results will be different. I guess part of reason is women are more understanding in general so they understand buts in case of two guys “toxic masculinity “ comes in the way of understanding. DO THE SAME VIDEO WITH GAY COUPLES

[@reneejames4034]

So funny the guys saying they’re not huge medication ppl, and the guys saying Absolutely!

[@emilyscloset2648]

It slightly annoys me how problematic the discussion is around sex. Firstly, penises are not required for sex. Secondly, when they are involved using them being erect to determine if someone is into you is a terrible way to do it. There are a plethora of reasons someone might be erect or on the other side of things, not being erect. If someone wasn't into it and not into you, they wouldn't be having sex with you. Thirdly, the whole idea that a penis is the only way to please a partner and if you can't they'll leave you. That's so wrong on the face of it, hardly worth explaining. Also the whole notation of having to perform is kinda fucked up. It's adult fun time so you are meant to be having fun. There isn't a performance going on but a connection with intimacy. And this is why, everyone is so gosh darn insecure about it all, because society is crazy immature and tries to force unrealistic expectations on everyone instead of telling everyone to communicate and have fun with their partner.

[@lynxaway]

Thank you for saying it‚ the whole approach here weirded me out esp with cut’s usually more diverse/aware content… we didn’t even see examples of partners that both have penises‚ or any trans people who have their own ways of having sex wrt the effects of hormones/surgery. And yeah‚ my answer to erectile dysfunction is… you have hands??? And a mouth?? Just so weird.

[@Biancabm1]

Everyone’s different

[@n00n1n]

Huge props that guy being honest about his shortcummings and erectile dysfunction. I don't know that feeling but I bet when I get older I will experienced that feeling, and I admire his bravery and honesty

[@Insanearth1]

1:55 That's so me...no issues getting hard. It's great until your in public or are getting called by family lol...it gets down quick too most times.

[@pauline1-1]

Paul & Roxy (?) are such a beautiful couple!!

[@stefaniamalatesta8076]

My ex had ED and it is why we broke up. He never wanted to talk about it and I finally cried about it. I had a bad moment and internalized it, partially because he never talked about it, partially because he never complimented me, etc. He never spoke to me again even though I wanted to work on it. Communication is key.

[@katelyndiggs5966]

I wish Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED) was discussed a little more in this

[@IsAbElGoNzAlEz9829]

As someone who has yet to dip their toe in the sex world, I had noo idea erectile disfunction was so common

[@peace.404]

It’s surprising how common this is. And how everyone deals with it.

[@KyleVolt]

They probably need to get their bloodwork checked, Low testosterone is very common.

[@brittbritt6857]

The dull sex part is normal so if you plan on getting married remember it's normal.. it's boring.. it's a natural feeling

[@SincerelyPsych]

Cut is the main reason why I can mind my business. This channel satisfies my nosey instinct. 😂

[@smadak]

This video was basically just about erectile dysfunction. Would have been nice to hear about the female partners' sex struggles too.

[@DMBSRV]

This is literally just an ad for bluechew lol

[@user-je6io6cv5d]

More vids like these! ones where girls have difficulty 2 maybe?

[@kaykay12152]

I don't want to surprise her. Best statement ever bahahhahahhhhha

[@sebacodpy6983]

THERES A LITTLE BIT OF VIDEO IN YOUR AD