Coupon Dating

[@scoobie8amg]

Ridiculous! I'd rather a man with a coupon than a man with a ton of debt and blows all of their money.

[@tesc-zn1pg]

Ally235G preach. Loni is being too much right now. That's why she's single

[@mjlovahh12]

Ally235G flashy men really are the brokest ones

[@iamsoiexist7192]

Hes probably using a coupon because he blew all his money

[@2FINE4YOUBABYGIRL]

Why are those the only two options?

[@gaellengadjui126]

She's using two extremes as examples to show that she'd rather have side A over side Z in the worst case scenario, I mean obviously we all want someone who can afford to take us out to extravagant places without couponing but if it came down to it would you rather your partner splurge money they didn't have or save money

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Right on the spot Jeannie. At least you know earlier that your dating a guy who wise at spending his money. Being practical sounds great. Dates don't have to be always fancy and expensive. What matter the most is the fun and memories you shared together.

[@shantaneptune4682]

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[@vj221]

Loni got ALL THE WAY in her feelings when that dude spoke the TRUTH 😂😂😂

[@kelendria]

ValJay if I was one of the hosts I would be the backstage like " so this is your show now?"

[@TeAmoCristoJesus]

Alexii Campsteyn 3:35

[@TeAmoCristoJesus]

jeanne violette She was kicked to the ground with the guys comment and tried to show off lol! Wrong move by Loni.

[@kelendria]

Luna Azul that kick hit home!

[@alexiastargirl]

And Jeannie and Adrienne clapped too. She must of felt some type of way.

[@KairoK]

MAN HERE: 1. Get a trim: $10-20 2. Get a fresh outfit: $80-$150 3. Fill up the tank: $35 4. Research the restaurant/check the menus/reserve the restaurant: 45mins 5. Wash car and clean it: 1 hour 6. Pick you up and drive to the restaurant: 45 mins 7. Pay for food and drinks, dessert + tip: $60-$100 8. Go to the movies + snacks : $40 9. Drive you home: 40mins 10. Get laughed at for using a coupon, get blocked on social media, number deleted and you telling your homegirls that men aint sh*t: PRICELESS

[@jonnydavis6066]

Kairo LMFAO 😁😁😁

[@Jamaican_queen25]

No way. Pick one if you are going to the movies, just go to the movies and if you are going to dinner just go to dinner. Way too much to be paying for on a first day my friend. lol

[@jonnydavis6066]

true

[@juliaarnold01]

Where have you been mate? The guys I go out with tell me to get what I want coz there paying then say they forgot there wallet

[@baggladyjayy]

Kairo lmmfao

[@OnyxGoddess]

Am I the only one who's gonna give it up for that brother who called Loni out? "That's why you stay single!" 👏👏👏 😂😂😂 Be Humble 🎶

[@kelendria]

Onyx Goddess he said it and the crowded went wild...

[@XOMoonlightXO]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@thepinkprint5936]

ohhh shoot!!! lmfaooo!! i didnt know what happened, i was confused during that part! lol she was shook! STARTED SAYING "THIS MY SHOW..LET ME TALK" LOL

[@juliaduke41398]

Onyx Goddess OMG WHEN WAS THAT

[@erico0310]

Around 3:32 or so is when he said it lol

[@dd1ee2vv3oo4nn5]

Shout out to Jeannie and Adrienne for being the kind of women we would want to marry. I never had to use coupons on a date but even if I did its nice to know you two would understand.

[@weddingswithbelles7613]

But Tamera is married.

[@ericamlca]

They both start from poor backgrounds too making them be humble with more humility, Tam & Loni had money earlier on in life than them two and they are used to certain things. Going after a woman in your means is best to avoid those type who don’t want to see coupons being used.v

[@craymay4766]

If you're not paying, why complain? You're still eating fam......... Anyway I thought the guy yelled "and that's why you single" to loni 😂

[@swaggpro17]

Cray May girl say that for the choir. It'd be different if you went half or guaranteed him some head, but if you just chilling? If i got some cheese sticks with curly fries a bitch gone be quiet 💯💯💯

[@craymay4766]

swaggpro17 I know right??? Smh. 😭😭😭😂

[@mjlovahh12]

Cray May as long as you feed me I'm happy. Idc about all that money blowing bullshit. I actually hate men that flaunt money.

[@Kembo14]

when?

[@girlyfab]

Cray May OMG I was HOLLERING when that guy said that 😂😂😂 Loni was so pressed!

[@alid6060]

My husband and I met when we were both homeless and volunteering for churches serving others. Our first date was Little Caesar's pizza in a parking lot. We don't have any false ideas about each other or what we are worth to each other. He fell on hard times, so did I. But now, we can afford to go where we want. (But he loves my home cooking more than anywhere we go.) We have a great life together because of the struggles we both had. Broke doesn't mean bad person. "It is easier for a camel to get through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter Heaven." My husband is rich in the way it counts- an amazing heart and love for other people. We have all we need and give away what we don't. We are truly blessed!

[@MajesticMyronn]

Ali D awww that's so cute

[@rebelliousnation3230]

I love this

[@laylaa64]

I hated it when she kept saying "if you can't afford to date me, don't date me" like bringing out a coupon doesn't automatically coincide with being broke. We out here in an economic deficit loni! if I can save a buck , heck imma save a buck!

[@j.avienn]

I LIVE FOR A GOOD DISCOUNT, ESPECIALLY WHEN 100% OFF .

[@j.avienn]

stop being sooo uppity

[@Alexis-ec9cl]

JVN lmfao 100% off

[@m1zzp3bb13z]

Lmao

[@ylomas3593]

FREE...that is one of my favorite words. Cheap, however, I don't care for. If you don't know the difference look it up, dont leave uninformed/misinformed comments. 🙂

[@sean75005]

If it's free it's for me.

[@joshandautumntorresvlog661]

When my husband and I got together we were both broke as a joke. What was important to me was the time we spent together. Why is Loni so upset?

[@4daluvofnikki]

I wonder if her answer would have been different if this question would have been posed to her say 20 years ago. She is in her 40's and she is far more successful now than then. I think her answer would be different.

[@hulahoopandperform]

I agree. Loni's delivery of what she was trying to say was off. The coupon thing depends on a number of things. 1. Where you are in life. 2. What you have to offer 3. Depends on where the date is, and the creativity because there are good free dates like the museum. It wouldn't bother me, but I could see being older and financially secure and not wanting to be with someone that wants to scrimp and save (on the first date) when you're already established.

[@zaynab99]

Nope Hell NAW, im riding with that guy. He is SMART! You bring a coupon im looking at you like Hello future husband. Lets spend that money with our HOUSE, Vacations etc. Not some random ass date.

[@Isaacthedondada]

Karma Farrah Thank you! Money is not something to be wasted. As long as I eat decent/good food, I couldn't care less what you do with YOUR hard earned money.

[@Laila-fq7hk]

Karma Farrah girl....smartest comment on here...I mean you never gonna have that house or go on those trips if you just throw money away!

[@mjlovahh12]

Karma Farrah 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@lamoyadoeman]

You consider yourself some random ass date? Lol. If a guy genuinely does not have the money then I'm fine with the coupon but if he can afford it, he should spend on me.

[@mjlovahh12]

Lamoya Doeman you want him to blow all the money on dates when he could be investing into a house, vacations, etc. like she said? That's what she meant by "random ass date". & if a man can afford it AND uses coupons, then I know for a fact he spends well, which means he got money.

[@tislamdennis2137]

Loni was very rude and obnoxious about this topic.

[@hulahoopandperform]

Hmm.. Loni's delivery of what she was trying to say was off. The coupon thing depends on a number of things. 1. Where you are in life. if you're in your 30s and looking for someone who matches what you bring to the table then maybe a guy who uses coupons isn't for you 2. Depends on where the date is, and the creativity because there are good free dates like the museum. It wouldn't bother me, but I could see being older and financially secure and not wanting to be with someone that wants to scrimp and save (on the first date) when you're already established.

[@hulahoopandperform]

Like I said I wouldn't have an issue with it. I agree with Tamera, Jeannie, and Adrienne, but from my understanding Loni goes out with the REAL co-hosts and their husbands to nice places and often pays for everyone because she is able to do so without needing a coupon. I think she just wants someone who is on her level financially and not someone who's still in the scrimping and saving stages of life.

[@hulahoopandperform]

And to add on I also said "place& creativity makes a difference"

[@kennedyhart7451]

I just didn’t like how she was like “ this is my show” .....umm hmmm..ok girl lol.

[@Imokayluv]

Kennedy Hart she was just joking around because she was trying to explain herself during that time but everyone else had a lot to say.

[@camillesingh22]

loni this aint YOUR show lmaoo

[@tesc-zn1pg]

camille22 she can leave and no one would care

[@JustBrii]

camille22 it was her concept lmboo but yeahs she could leave I wouldn't care

[@Dan1ella]

Tesy Lava ouch 😬😬

[@tesc-zn1pg]

Daniella sorry Loni made me mad ☹️

[@samiras8574]

that middle seat is going to her head

[@ReaSoRea]

I’m sorry Loni made me so mad during this show! “If you can’t afford to date, don’t date”. What kind of stuff is that? Yea sweetie that’s why your single

[@marcusmelton2295]

And why she also mentioned how to has another dude every other month or something.

[@kashiefbebeto1]

Loni is so damn childish, sis you the oldest one at the table but the one that needs to grow tf up. I'm starting to think she's not single by choice like she leads us to believe. I'm glad that audience member said THAT'S WHY YOU STILL SINGLE

[@kelendria]

Kashief Mc she definitely isn't single by choice. she drops hints here and there that she may remarry if she finds someone, etc. she got a bad attitude towards men and they probably feel it

[@mjlovahh12]

Kashief Mc I try to believe Loni but she really lies her ass off. I don't want to call her a full on liar but she definitely exaggerates

[@osimeon00]

And the fact that she's always talking about who looks like a tree monster. I think she's the tree monster she's always referring to.

[@gleegleek4eva]

She just seems to be very old-fashioned when it comes to dating. It's modern times, thinga are expensive and people gotta save. I'm not going to say "That's why you still single" though. We don't know her whole past and everything she went through and I'm not going to judge her for her dating preferances. She was just being real, and the name of the show is The Real isn't it?

[@milcahnd]

aiken relkins 👏👏👏 after that episode she shared with her miscarriage. I have a greater respect for her.

[@tdepp2311]

Loni get over yourself girl that man didn't talk over you pffftt "it's my show let me talk" 😒😒😒😒

[@girl8295]

Teresa Silva Right. She better see where it landed Tamar. She can definitely be dismissed

[@MicheleAleczandria]

Teresa Silva Right, She seemed like she was talking to Adrienne & em too 😂😩

[@LisaAnn164]

Teresa Silva Have a heart.

[@TaelyLee]

Side note: Adrienne I see your highlight girl! YES! 👏 On The Real note: I don't have a problem with anyone using a coupon, like shoot I use coupons and I love the heck out of them! If I can save money you bet I will be saving my money! My boyfriend and I share meals all the time, we use coupons all the time, and we're happy. Just my thoughts though 😊

[@tesc-zn1pg]

Taely Lee Good for y'all!! ☺️

[@TaelyLee]

Tesy Lava Thank you! ❤❤

[@carole-anned.1423]

Loni is feeling herself too much these days... her behavior looks similar to. another host who is no longer there.

[@mahimakedlaya9035]

C-A D. ☕️

[@saltandpepper2889]

If you're in college and a guy have coupons... He is a keeper... Whachu mean? Plus food is food... And knowing was a discount, taste even better!

[@tesc-zn1pg]

Kiran Guësphiree amen 😂

[@FitnessSweets]

Exactly. We're both near broke anyway, might as well.

[@Dan1ella]

Kiran Guësphiree ikr I'd feel better if i knew the guy got a discount off the food lmao

[@PLazz257]

To my experience, when restaurants (buffet) offer a promotion, they usually remove those quality good food and leave us with the "inferior" foods. That's how they still make a profit.

[@suzygonzalez3871]

Kiran Guësphiree you mean free its taste a lot better when it's free. Discounted just tastes like half way? :p no one wants half way things.

[@asch25]

But you ain't paying so why complaining :/

[@tashawilliams8093]

Exactly.

[@morgandynasty5005]

Right 💯

[@mjlovahh12]

A first date is especially the best time for a coupon. I wouldn't want someone to spend loads of money on me, only for me to tell him that I'm not interested and would not like a second date.

[@Kayleec20]

exactly!

[@lovexoxo251]

Yes! And sometimes I'm only there for the food lol sad but really

[@jonettaknight8417]

That's why first dates should consist of something simple, like coffee or ice cream.

[@CourtneyA.]

That's true

[@jonnydavis6066]

Dee Jay bullshit nobody buying your story

[@cindybell4817]

If your a very picky person date someone on your level, don't date a man who has a big house a nice car and a good job and meanwhile your a woman who lives with your parents , no car and no job , you also have to bring something to the table and remember that man might have gotten​ all that probably by using coupons 😀 ( I love coupons)

[@chriss6531]

Cindy bell spot on

[@jjtt850]

Lol wtf Loni mean this is MY show? Girl you just as disposable as Tamar was FOH! You apart of this show sis.

[@keeram4363]

Jay 2.0 she showed her true colors

[@alexiastargirl]

Exactly. She's APART of the show just like how the fans are apart of the show aswell.

[@stephaniec7216]

Jay 2.0 I think she meant that it was her show and not the guy's. She just felt salty 😂

[@erinboonzaaier5383]

Jay 2.0 exactly tell it!

[@dee27206]

She says that a lot. Have y'all noticed?

[@playtimeisover_pod]

VERY DISAPPOINTED IN LONI LOVES WHOLE ATTITUDE THIS GIRL TALK

[@kelendria]

oh.. so this is YOUR SHOW loni? when did that happen? So you gotta have money to spend to date? That audience guy read her and her true colors showed! Your attitude and entitlement is why no man stick around. if I was a man I would show out every first date, men aren't made of money.

[@tesc-zn1pg]

jeanne violette preach. She's "single" by choice my ass

[@DominicanMeridaLife]

Yeah Loni got hot. xD She was dead wrong though. Adrienne was right to ask her "Is there a price bracket to date?". You can be poor and still be worth someone's time. Loni and Tamera are acting like a work in progress is a nobody. Those are the women that successful men tell stories about. How they didn't believe in them and left them for someone else. I wouldn't take advice from loni anyway. She's the only one at that table in her 30s or 40s with a failed marriage and no children. Girl Bye.

[@awettycigarettey]

DominicanMerida so is Genie

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

Sam Rivera yeah but Jeanie is because she didn't want to have kids and her husband did

[@awettycigarettey]

Sofia Rodriguez ohhh gotcha now thanks for the info

[@gucciemania13]

Sofia Rodriguez Loni had a miscarriage BTW your rude

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

gucciemania13 how am I rude? Loni has gone through hard times but her divorce is different from jeanies. I don't get why that's rude

[@swaggpro17]

I don't have a problem about a man using coupons, what I'm worried about is if he drive you to McDonalds for that dollar menu date. I know the McChicken's be fye butttt.... #TellatBoyBye ✌🏽

[@xust2957]

thanm you I don't see the problem. Ve happy your getting a paid meal

[@Waldo.]

swaggpro17 first world problem smh

[@craymay4766]

swaggpro17 exactly 😂 if it's a nice place, good food .. who cares if he gets 20% off .. you still get 100% off.

[@javiruiz780]

Well then you pay for it. That's why you single

[@swaggpro17]

Javi Ruiz WHO? WHO SINGLE???? 💀

[@teenagefirework1]

Loni annoyed the SH*T out of me with this one. If I met a guy, and he asked me out. And he was kind, sweet, had a great personality, was interested in me and did everything right and *PAID*. You're telling me, he's whack if he pulled out a coupon? I would be IN LOVE AF if someone did that. You took me out, we had a great time and paid. Who TF cares if you used a coupon? Not me, and if you do, good luck finding a man. Priorities like that are f*cked up. Jeanie was so right, the richest people in the world are the best savers. The money he's saving today will bless you in the future when you hopefully won't have to worry about money.

[@bookbag6432]

Tamera said Adam spent THOUSANDS on her on her first date so you know she doesn't understand coupons

[@MajesticMyronn]

h Bag she said he spent A total of 1000 dollars overall after 6 months of going to her favorite restaurant " P.F. Chang's" there's a difference ! He was showing that he was interested by taking her somewhere she loved

[@simphiwehlatshwayo5007]

Then she proceeded to pay for her whole wedding

[@chantelshernelle7722]

LOOOL IM DEAD 3:34😂😂💀this had me weak af, Man in audience: thats why u stay single *everyone applauds* 🐸☕️👀 Jeannie: give it up for the man who said u stay single Yass! Loni: THIS MY SHOW!!!😒 let me talk hahah Loni be all in her feelings😂😂 audience and co-host shading her like that!!

[@marcusmelton2295]

😂😂😂😂😂 Loni does always talk about how and why she stays single.

[@clinteaston6000]

im a guy. u aint that important if its the FIRST date. give it a few months/ years then ill really spoil you. but £100+ on a date with a chick they might be scamming me for food.... nah

[@missovercomer2488]

Clint Easton I'm glad you said that because I was thinking a guy not willing to pay full price just feel the girl isnt that important so thanks for clearkng that up.

[@giulia2098]

Clint Easton same reason don't put on 4 inches heels on a first date if I do not know the guy is worth the pain💁

[@clinteaston6000]

Giulia M. Crawley I respect that. Just be real from the get go. And let eachother know what's what. 👌🏽

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

Clodia Frazil RIGHT

[@ravenevonne4105]

I've Realized Women Can Be So Shallow .. Omg & Then Wonder Why They Can't Stay With A Man..

[@britney-leejohnson9572]

Loni so annoying in this episode and lately overall bro lmao and this definitely is not your show😴

[@yaclilly]

It's tricky because at the same time a guy will place value on a female based on the value she places on herself. So it's not just on the guys back it's also on the girls back to ensure that she values herself. Using a coupon on the first date is not bad if he genuinely likes you but CAN'T afford an outing. It's only bad when he CAN afford to but wants to be cheap. That's where the problem lies.

[@nicee123456]

THANK YOU! The only comment I've seen that embodies my opinion. I was really searching for this comment, lol. I didn't want to have to type it myself.

[@scarlove8888]

i think nothing is wrong with a coupon/groupon .Think about the quality of conversation and fun you had. All because you use a coupon doesn't mean your poor or cheap 👎👎it means you wanna keep your money👍👍. even if he doesn't have a lot of money be nice enough to not shut him down. Loni was kinda rude "if you cant afford to date me dont take me out" 👎💩💩maybe he wants to take you to the nicest restaurant in town and can afford but would love to save some money. I feel like you should be more focused on how he's treating you 💆and if you're having a good time💃. you can be missing out on a great guy because of something as petty bougiee and "first-world" as judging him because he pulled out a groupon. COME ON NOW.😒 I met people who blow money on me and i dont have a good time. Money doesn't equal manners and Cash doesn't equal commitment 💯💯✌✌

[@CourtneyA.]

Amen 😇

[@TT-xq4qy]

Scar Love well said

[@kamichamabell2516]

Scar Love preach about it !

[@marliej2280]

Scar Love yes 👏🏾👏🏾 exactly. Loni was just rude asf

[@gigimoore4529]

Scar Love say it for the people in the back 👏👏👏

[@sabrinanc]

This is so dumb lmao if i can get a discount imma get one IDC how rich i am i like discounts LOL

[@viviannamontenegro4841]

Sabrina same 💕

[@bigbossbambino7216]

As a man, I think thats a lil tacky, Especially if its the first date. I'd never take a girl on a date & drop a coupon

[@jesusislove3058]

I agree.

[@DD-gt2uu]

THANK YOU. FINALLY SOMEONE WITH SENSE.

[@PrncssJazmin777]

Snootie_Jay . THANK YOU. It's very tacky in my opinion.

[@feyiplus4500]

Well, are you single and into black girls? 😂😂

[@lovexoxo251]

It's not tacky, I think people are thinking of an actual paper coupon. It's on your phone and they scan it, and some places actually ask do you have the groupon if not maybe you should purchase it right now to get a discount. Groupons today are so normal. Maybe not for dinner but activities like autobahn racing, sip and paint night, paint ball etc. it saves you a whole lot and it's great for a first date.

[@sugarspiceunlimited]

I'm kinda boujie, but as long as the guy puts effort into the first date and remains a gentleman, I can't miss out on a good guy because he wants to be frugal with his money. Too many assholes out there for me to be so picky as a single girl 🙃

[@babybabylouis5229]

I'm sorry but loni if that's how you really feel you ganna die alone

[@kashiefbebeto1]

we been knew

[@tesc-zn1pg]

Babybaby louis yeah that's a given

[@giulia2098]

Babybaby louis maybe that's what she subconsciously wants.

[@rakrobn]

As big as Loni is, that ensures that too.

[@j.graham8201]

MDBL Now that is an unneeded comment.

[@phileciatyrell1165]

The fact that the guy took the time to plan a date to the point that he has a Groupon that's a good look to me. Life is expensive. If I couldn't afford to do all that why should I hold it against him?

[@chronicles6065]

Loni grow up, The reason why you are single is because you expect men to be financially staple not all men have it together, like I always say if your looking for a man who is financially stable then date a man in your age range who has worked and established a career for themselves. You can not place that type of expectation on young men a lot of them are working to get established, whether it is going to school, or working in order to save up money. Now if she wasn't successful and she was dating a man who was couldn't that man say the exact same thing she said "you cannot afford me so you cannot date me" Really Loni, who cares if the man pay for dinner with a coupon, your not paying so you shouldn't be complaining. I am a young man in college and working in order to pay off student loan debts so you mean to tell me if a guy is not financially stable then they should not date whoa. I have six sisters they are radio broadcasters, clinic managers, chemist, food safety managers, nurse practitioners, and a pharmacist all of them are married and at the time of them meeting their husbands, the young men was not financially stable so it was a many of days that they paid for dinner, with coupons. Loni please be quiet because that is a stupid reason not to date someone. I always tell women "one man's trash is another mans treasure" So be careful when you discard a man because you might be throwing away a prince in the making. I feel like the only people offended by someone using a coupon on the first date are people who grew up privileged meaning they believe in the idea that fairy-tails exist but in reality fairy-tails are depictions that are not necessarily realistic because humans are flawed and they endure a lot of hardship before they become successful If you was a person who grew up poor and had to use coupons as your only means of survival then you understand the struggle "Never look down on a man, with out picking him up" that means do not dismiss a man or woman who use coupons because you might be throwing away a gold mine, relationships should be based on love, loyalty, and respect. If you work together then anything is possible to achieve.

[@nadijadominica]

...and that's why loni is the only single one...

[@HeyMyLifeIsLibby]

Loni is trying it too much. "Your" show? If this is Loni's show, then Latavia was a lead singer in DC, Orlando Brown was relevant after 2006, and Jeannie only fantasizes about white men....I could go on all day. 🐸☕️

[@sofiarodriguez6768]

HeyMyLifeIsLibby not to mention that it was Tamar's show and Vince was the producer but they both got fired ☕️

[@Snickers1655]

Brother was fine too 😍 and them teeth was straight fuego!!

[@kamariasia]

And I'm not with all this new age stuff, aint no way in hell I'm taking a man out on no damn date unless we're in a long term relationship and I'm doing sumn particularly special for him, Loni fell and bumped her head, yall can believe all that "single and satisfied" stuff if u want, Loni got deeper issues....

[@deandrejohnson7752]

gold digger mentality lmao. i hope you are not screaming for the equality and feminism you you certanly do not represent either.

[@kamariasia]

gold digger? Lol ur, funny been married for 10yrs to my high school sweet heart, now how is that gold digging? idiot

[@kamariasia]

spoken from a man that clearly needs a woman to buy him a meal

[@kamariasia]

and clearly u didn't read my other comment since ur calling me a gold digger, just scroll through the comments Jackass

[@kamariasia]

Lmao aww someone's having a bad day🙁, feel better hun

[@GabriellaLascano]

EW LONI'S ATTITIUDE

[@itsjackson91]

That audience member was 💯 tho... "that's why you stay single" preach! 😂

[@blakecoston1831]

It so weird that girls like Adrienne who is really beautiful. Gorgeous even are so understanding but loni the one with high standards from jump lol. Using coupons doesn't equal broke. If you have them it be a waste not to save money. Why does money equal a good date. Did you enjoy the conversation. And even if they not the richest guy in the world. That doesn't mean they always going be that way. Ambition and hard work go far.

[@olaonuoha9419]

Blake Coston thats rude! Loni is beautiful I don't what kind of standard u have but her beautiful blackness is stunning! And are u saying even ugly people can't have standards???? Are they not worthy, chai now! Mmchewe

[@Imokayluv]

It's strange, because I have a feeling that many of these "understanding" girls in this very comment section would also be at least a little bit embarrassed if their first date started counting out coupons when it's time to pay the bill. I really don't get the reason for the hate. Loni is turned off by coupons at a first date and she was being real and true to herself when she admitted that.

[@rsimon2088]

I would have loved to hear what Tamar would've said

[@giulia2098]

Raquel Simon Let me tell you, them coupons??? LLLLLIEES UH,UH!! ✋✋

[@laurier.2250]

I was thinking the exact same thing 😂 listen to what Tamar said on "The Real: Don't Eat That on The First Date" and think about how she'd respond to somebody using a coupon to [help] pay for the meal.

[@j.graham8201]

Laurie R. Or the video "Thanks for the date, but I gotta go": "OH NO! No. No. No. No".

[@laurier.2250]

Good one, I remember - Tamar said if you're not feelin' the date, then end it and leave. Don't feel bad about it, what you should feel bad about is staying and having that man spend his money on you and then you never call him again... Adrienne said she'd stay and even offer to go dutch - Tamar nearly lost it 😂

[@moniquer9803]

Hmmm Loni you got REAL obnoxious on this topic

[@honeysweetbunbun]

Loni was just coming up with dumb excuses after that guy called her out lmao

[@atelimakaveli1651]

When the guy said, "That's why you stay single." Loni got mad asf and went on straight defense mode. Because she's single 😂😂

[@ShelbyAime]

couldn't deal with Loni this segment 😒

[@jessicam1039]

i much rather deal with a man that collects coupons than foreclosures and side chilrun

[@kdlpeach6015]

Jessica M "chilrun" that's how my granny say it😂😂😂

[@girlyfab]

Jessica M Adrienne doesn't care... You just gotta be insecure and worship her

[@YPM498]

🐸☕

[@heatsd]

Adrienne Bailon

[@laurier.2250]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 lawd jezus

[@atelimakaveli1651]

Loni eat a lot and a Groupon coupon just ain't gonna pay for enough food 😂😂😂😂

[@warrenaray]

Ateli Makahili I’m dead 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nellef2872]

Why should he have to hide it?? Jeannie is right. You can't be so picky over the littlest thing.

[@normanikodei8097]

I guess this why Loni will be forever single. Always trying to be picky.

[@angelabennett3847]

Wow this conversation did NOT make sense at all. You're not ok with a guy using a coupon on a first date, but ok with him taking you out during happy hour so the meals are cheaper? Isn't that basically THE SAME THING? This in my opinion is just shallow thinking. You want a guy to spend all his money on you on the first date just to impress you? I'm with Jeannie looking at the date as a whole. You treat me with respect, take me out to dinner, drive, pay, etc. That's a good first date. Coupon or not.

[@lsoakai5276]

"thats why you stay single" LMFAO! thank you for reading my mind.

[@spokenbycynthia9105]

Loni actually had the gall to say that "a real man wouldn't carry around coupons". What a dumb comment!

[@user-wr4eh7gh4b]

I'm usually a Jeannie person but I 100% agree with Loni don't pull out coupons on the first few dates for gods sake. A little bit later would be absolutely fine but your supposed to be pulling out all the stops at the very beginning. The 'happy hour' would be alright though

[@juliaduke41398]

Was Loni read by a audience member???💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@khalasutherland10]

I feel like if you love me and want to take me out and show me how much you love me ( and your funds are lacking ) but you still out the effort in then I'm all for it. I've thrifted, couponed and certainly understand the funds situation. I'm only 19, so if my man has to use coupons what else can I expect, I am a student, don't have a job so how can I expect him at 19 to have it all together. Now if you're 40 and still don't have that fund situation pulled together, I got a problem.

[@reshallyatooma7625]

Khala Sutherland I so agree as a fellow college student. It's all about his character as a human being. As long as he's a gentleman than that is the most important thing.

[@kokoe2390]

Well if your have a problem the coupon dating ... why don't you pay for it for your damn self ?

[@jeremyceniza]

You will need a lot of coupons if you take Loni on a date

[@strive4jannah68]

Jeremy Ceniza Lmaooooooooooo

[@Nah2998]

Stoooooooop 💀💀💀

[@lia36ph]

Omg! You actually made me laugh out loud. I haven't done that in a while 😂😂😂😭

[@kachiedward7918]

Really disagree with Loni. All people care about now-a-days is money rather than the quality of a person🙄

[@lovinglife4111]

This is really random, but Adrienne has a really nice head shape lol. That ponytail looks really good on her!

[@sherickad7445]

At the end of the day first impression last- I agree with Loni. I want to feel like he is putting out that effort and not just a convenience of a coupon use. However, it depends on the nature of the date and all other dates after that he is free to use watever!

[@jyn88]

Loni is older than her co-hosts and more traditional in her views of dating impressions. She didn't say never ever to use coupons. She just saying in the beginning of dating, not to show the girl your coupons. First impressions are always important because it sets the tone of your future dates. I'm sure all girls can appreciate a man knowing how to save money but it can be misconstrued on a first date.

[@laurapaniagua7179]

jyn88 this is the most logical, non offensive comment on here. I see coupons as a more personal thing to use? Once you’re comfortably in a relationship and have discussed finances, etc. But on a first date, idc if it’s just a burger place but it’s more of making a girl feel special. Not “nice taking you out, got it for cheap too.” Idk, I understand what Loni and Tamera were trying to say and I think their comments were misconstrued and labeled as “gold digging.” Jeannie and Adrienne are men pleasers, they tend to care more about what the other person in the relation feels and how comfortable they are before themselves (what I’ve perceived from watching the show and different experiences they’ve shared with us, the audience) whereas, Tamera and Loni are more straightforward, how are we BOTH content and getting what we want out of this.

[@tyrekjennings9466]

Im tired and not feeling to explain why but thats a little ignorant to say. They're not men pleasers they just understand that its not all about the money, there are other more important things about a guy. I get the first date thing but its not saying" i did it for cheap too" its saying" maybe i don't have alot but i still wanna take a bomb girl like you out". Make sense? Would you rather him take you somewhere shitty and pay full price or somewhere bomb half off for a first date?

[@Izlandprincess1]

Laura Paniagua so true. Same thing I'm saying. Not on the very first date. Normally you want to impress but still stay true to yourself. When y'all are on that level...then groupon all u want.

[@weddingswithbelles7613]

Absolutely! It can also means hes cheap!

[@hannahcurtis9919]

If a woman used a coupon, a man would not think the women was cheap. Double standard.

[@hannahcurtis9919]

Also I'd rather a man save his money than go into debt for me! So he can save money by taking you to dinner early but he can't use a groupon? Dumb.

[@tajj13]

Tamar would be like: "Now you know SHE is always about saving the coint BUT.....She don't wanna see that

[@IraBronnson]

According to Loni, poor men aren't allowed to date smh

[@rigoyomarcota]

"That's why you're single [Loni]" haha well said. There's nothing wrong with a man that likes to save money. It doesn't make you any less of a man to use coupons.

[@marcusmelton2295]

If I could save money I'd do it anyway I can.

[@notyourtypicalgayguy5591]

Loni that's exactly why you are single.

[@winxclubfairiesrule1]

I'm down with Loni. Like the first 3 dates, I want a guy to make an effort and impress me. But after that, use as many coupons as you want. In fact, let me know and I will bring some too.

[@winxclubfairiesrule1]

Like, I'm not high maintenance or anything. I don't need a place extremely expensive. I don't care about all of that, but the first 3 dates I think are really important to a relationship, and I don't think a guy or a girl for that matter should cut corners. Honestly, who even says for a first date we even need to do dinner or anything. Like, take me on a picnic or to the park. I don't know... I've never been on a date before I don't know what people do for first dates, but I don't need to be wined and dined and lavished in gold and all of that.

[@glorialino7828]

"It's my show let me talk...." ooooooh loni in her feelings lmao

[@Classic_Dom]

"If you using coupons on the first date..." I would rather someone be upfront and real with me about it. I couldn't give 2 fucks if you use a coupon, I love saving money. Loni doing too much for me, personally. It's not they can't AFFORD to date, they just like saving money. But that's probably why she's still single.

[@misterreal9620]

Loni didn't like being told the truth! 😂 and it ain't just your show

[@RaydellBrown]

It depends on the age of the man. A young man starting out is establishing himself and probably doesn't have much money. But if a man is around Loni's age , he should be established by now. So, on a first date he shouldn't need a coupon, but as you'll establish a relationship, use as many coupons you want.

[@m.makoha2520]

Be Humble Loni and thank God for blessing you; stop laughing about people who don't have so much. Situation can be changed very fast!

[@fragilecontent1065]

Who cares about how he's paying. Man as long as I'm getting fed, it's all good.

[@arodrodrodriguez3385]

The least wealthy member of the table is the one with the most demands

[@mjlovahh12]

I'm a 20 yr old college student, my broke ass is all about saving a coin. & I utilize my student discount! I'm always looking for a discount. Y'all want a man that blows his whole check just to look "cool" in front of you, or one that knows how to save and invest?!

[@MariaaLovee4]

I'm holleringggg! Loni got in her feels real quick!

[@AD-jq7ow]

so loni only dates rich guys..ironic considering her background!

[@vapor5145]

Adam MDB she's a golddigger. She's made it pretty obvious now and in the past

[@smileeday]

I think the reason the coupon looks tacky is because the other person might assume that the coupon is the reason the date was possible. As in, if it were more expensive the other person wouldn't want to take you out, therefore putting a value on your worth which is inevitably pretty cheap. In reality I don't think that's always the case.

[@leilani7485]

How many times did Loni say "first date" 😥

[@ednagirl1]

You want him to have to secretly pay if he's using a coupon? That's lame lol. If he's gonna use a coupon, use it. I'm not gonna lie and say that I wouldn't take note of it, but i'd 100% still date him if we had a nice time.The only reason i'd "take note of it" is because i'd be wondering if he's a smart saver or one of those people who wont do anything that's not discounted or go to great lengths to save money. Like my uncle who refuses to buy a decent pair of $10-$30 dollar headphones and instead buys $1 headphones that sound terrible and constantly break lol. I guess it just really matters because it's a first impression on a first date.

[@messiejessie92]

First dates are about first impressions and seeing a coupon would bring the topic of money up in my mind. I'd be asking myself if he's cheap, poor, or just good with his money, but it's too serious a topic for a first date and that's why it would make me uncomfortable. Just hide it if you gotta do it until we know each other a bit better.

[@bdoti1822]

I saw a different side to Loni in this clip that I didn't like. I'm with Jeannie 100%. If you manage to find a good deal on Groupon that will save you money and we can have a good time then I'm all for it!

[@corylatham3835]

I'm sooo not here for this convo. -.- I think it's p.e.t.t.y. for a woman to be picky like that when they are already eating for free. If there is an issue, then put half on it.

[@dileycacepeda9184]

I dont have a problem with a coupon. I have a problem with someone who just got whatever coupon and took me there because he just didn't care enough. Effort is key.

[@monaDJ139]

I would be more *comfortable* to split the check, rather then him using a f*** coupon on me. DAFQ

[@smileeday]

Is it just me or does Adrienne look so radiant today? I love her makeup look! I wish there was a tutorial

[@MajesticMyronn]

To me I don't think it's bad if you were using a Groupon a few dates in and you're developing the relationship... HOWEVER i wouldn't want to do it on the FIRST date !!! Like yes be yourself but at the same time you want the lady to feel like she's not worth enough just to go to Mcondlads and order off the dollar menu... But also you can go Dutch once you're really in the relationship... and you can save a coin but don't be using a groupon ALL the damn time !

[@ariadnebene8413]

I'll give Loni one thing, the VERY FIRST date is EXTREMELY important for first impressions. If y'all been dating for a minute, fine, but not right out the gate.

[@AlishaNic]

I agree with Tamera Espevially on the first date! If we been together for a minute then who cares what kind of coupon you pullin out because by then you already seen me without my makeup/weave etc. But on the first date it's a turn when a guy comes off as a cheap. I'm not asking you to spend hundreds of dollars on me just be smart about where we go without you coming off like you can't pay for it. Even if it's a well thought out picnic, I would be down to do that. Just don't be bustin out coupons at a restaurant in front of me on the first date that's a no no for me.I went out with this guy that was complaining about the food prices and I just ended up buying my own food and being just friends with him, because that turns me off so much.

[@pwincesstrix]

What's to bet that these same women who don't want their date to use the Groupon are also the same women who don't want to go dutch on the date. At least this way the guy is paying for the date and saving for the next one.

[@lovemecom3832]

In my own opinion, I really don't mind if my date will use any kind of coupon but I guess I’d rather be happy because he knows how to save his money. I know that first dates are very important but of course we can't force our date to bring us to nice places that he can't even afford. So, I always appreciate every little thing as long as it is sincere.

[@didinkwocha294]

I agree with tam and loni on this one!