People who support backstabbers and cheaters being shocked when they get backstabbed and cheated on will never not be funny.
@daishawilliams830110 ай бұрын
Funny how Sarah mocks op saying that she's going to be a lonely single woman with her cat and no man will ever love her but funny how the tables turn when the girl the ex-husband cheated with ran away with her fiance.😂😂
@marie_williams10 ай бұрын
Sarah was jealous of OP, and glorified in the ending of her marriage. Well now she has to deal with her cheating fiancé's baby while he's off living his best life. And the cat-lady jab was very low. I hope OP keeps her out of her life.
@kaitohkid722910 ай бұрын
"Best life" with a chronic cheater 😅. Will be short lived....
@Allantitan10 ай бұрын
Hey at least those cats won’t cheat on her and are better friends than most humans
@penguinZ8510 ай бұрын
She is better off with her cats than with a cheater.
@angelabohot743510 ай бұрын
First cats pick you. Second, don't take him back bc the issue will come back. Third bye Felicia.
@Allantitan10 ай бұрын
Fourth those cats are better friends/family than a lot of humans
@andreavanhoof604710 ай бұрын
I would prefer the cats or dogs to alot of people myself!@@Allantitan
@Allantitan10 ай бұрын
@@andreavanhoof6047 especially since they can’t backstab you by leaking all your secrets. So they make pretty good therapists to vent to
@metalmouth041310 ай бұрын
It's ridiculous to just shaft someone all because of the inability to have children. It's also childish and stupid to tell someone they'll forever be alone. There's a huge difference to being alone and lonely.
@jameseet10 ай бұрын
I think Opie should give her cousin about 6 months just to then maybe forgive her start talking to her again because in spite of everything else family and maybe maybe because she is so manipulated by this so-called good friend best friend she's after her man too and she couldn't see it because her happiness
@mesquitemagic10 ай бұрын
No matter how the weddding turned out, Sara supported your husband cheating on you. She deserves what she got.
@heatheraucoin583210 ай бұрын
Allison is the worse. What did she have against OP and her cousin that she just had to have their men?
@Allantitan10 ай бұрын
Some people just don’t understand what morales are
@PurpleSunset8210 ай бұрын
Some people are into the "rush" of dating taken people. Matt will learn that lesson soon too...... After the all paid for holiday, of course....
@lauralfreeberg217910 ай бұрын
@@PurpleSunset82If you've read any Reddit stories, brides cheat during the honeymoon, and even the wedding night itself.
@nimisilverbird123910 ай бұрын
I knew it. Nick and Allison were cheating and Sarah knew. Your cats knew Allison was a snake
@penguinZ8510 ай бұрын
Cats are good judges of character. My aunt had a cat who didn’t like any of her boyfriends except for the one she ended up marrying. They just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary.
@tegz69210 ай бұрын
1000%
@antoinettebates24410 ай бұрын
OP...Let your cousin go. They're trying to hook up Nick and her best friend from work. Let her know thanks but no thanks to her wedding and that its best that she waits for you to contact her.
@sherrischweigl686010 ай бұрын
Op, if you decide to let your cousin back into your life, she has a lot of apologizing to do. She is not a good person if she knew about Allison dating your ex and didn’t say anything. Then your ex comes back to apologize, what a jerk.
@esthermaughan69510 ай бұрын
She should never let her back in her life my sister tried to seduce my then boyfriend he told me she begged saying she was drunk my mother said forgive I let back in my life years later she slept with my husband just before the separation we had an argument I asked him if I was so bad why did he marry me he said he regretted marrying he should’ve listened to my sister I said which of my sisters he called her name then I remembered when a lady called me and said if she’s your sister she feels sorry for me because that lady hates me and will kill me to have my life. Well right now her husband is cheating on her and using her money to cheat no kids and she’s bitter ex is still begging me to come back refusing to sign the divorce it’s six years now I am just waiting for my kids to go off to university in 3 years then I will fly to china where he works to get it sorted I am focusing on the wellbeing of my kids and as for the rest of my toxic family they are not part of me and my kids life
@Allantitan10 ай бұрын
@@esthermaughan695good on you for trying to take back control of the situation (though sounds like he doesn’t want to give up said control)
@evelynberrios816410 ай бұрын
H For all the fans out there, wish you a happy new years with your love ones. Thank you for bringing these insane stories. I’m so happy I’ve never had that drama. 🎭
@elisejackson285410 ай бұрын
What a doormat.
@Kya19909 ай бұрын
Karma hit her so fast! I hope OP keeps her distance from her cousin. She is foul, and she knew Allison was sleeping with OP's ex-husband and karma caught her before she could say I Do! 😂😂😂😂
@dianafrazier283010 ай бұрын
Don't think OP ever heard the saying " We teach people how to treat us ". When people say mean things to us, betray us, treat us badly, it's because we have always smiled and let them. 😻😁😻
@robertx802010 ай бұрын
Sure mate Way to blame everyone, that was ever bullied, for their own problems
@tegz69210 ай бұрын
In this case I don't think it hits quite the same, OP didn't teach the cheater and she is hopefully be able to have a baby either way
@ediemurray169210 ай бұрын
Ty
@jmarie999710 ай бұрын
Single, with my cat? Like that's a bad thing?!
@Objective-Observer10 ай бұрын
No, Op, do not go see her. As the one the Bride stabbed in the back and the Bride joined her 'husband stealing' friend to laugh at...The Bride has nothing but negative emotions around every single one of her Top Teir Support system. She will not be processing ALLLLL of that any time soon, because that baby is going to be here soon; that will be the priorty; she won't have a choice. The best thing OP could do is update her lawyer about the infidelity, and get more from her divorce because of it. Then ask the lawyer about a good Family Lawyer, and send that business card to her cousin. No note, no return address, just the business card. She may or may not ascertain who sent the card to her, but it would give her something productive to focus on, nailing her Ex's family jewels to the floor. Then with shared custody, potentially dumping a baby in his lap every weekend... for his paramor to have to deal with... yeah.... the Homewrecker won't stay long with that reality: her Sugar Daddy's monthly wages are going to be severely diminished, AND she's going to have to help raise a baby?! and she might have bolted the second they get back from the honeymoon. After the baby's birth, send a second business card with Op's divorce lawyer, including a note that the Sister Cousins should Sue the Homebreaker for Alienation of Affection, since she destroyed both of their marriages. The Bride/Mommy might see that as an opportunity for a truce: they are united against a common enemy; the enemy of my enemy is my friend. She might not take it positively, at all, because she is too busy as a single mother. I still think, it would give the Bride/Mommy an opportunity to talk to her Sister/Cousin as an ally, and not an enemy. They probably wouldn't have the funds to do the second court case, but it would give them a productive project to focus on, instead of how the bride hurt her sister/cousin.
@Danarchy310 ай бұрын
9:17 the fact that you call them “fur babies” proves that you are exactly that kind of pet owner
@aleksandarvil571810 ай бұрын
to OP’s sister: *Karma Strikes Back !!!*
@Semoy2310 ай бұрын
Nick told OP she was defective... Wow heartless. OP needs better ppl in her circle.
@char-leewiebe719910 ай бұрын
Sometimes you just have to stand up for yourself and let your friend/cousin/sister know how wrong and how jenky they were with the fertility and wedding issues. That is YOUR BODY/HEALTH YOUR BUSINESS
@vetaroberts33339 ай бұрын
No she meant what she said. Don’t let them take advantage of you
@belindahagan333410 ай бұрын
Thinking later Matt will get cheated on by Allison soon. Once a cheater always a cheater
@momcat5213able10 ай бұрын
The global cat distribution system is real. I'm a willing participant. 😂
@Dreamerlighting10 ай бұрын
No they don’t !! Not like that ! Means you need to have self worth and tell !!! Your aunt
@andreavanhoof604710 ай бұрын
Skip the wedding OP and tell Sarah were she can stick this wedding
@andreavanhoof604710 ай бұрын
I hate Nick for what he did to OP because she was infertile!
@daemonember10 ай бұрын
Yeah Allison can GTFO it's their home and cats can be free.
@melanieme841010 ай бұрын
So.... in the end she still got divorced? Not back together?
@andreavanhoof604710 ай бұрын
You are not overreacting OP; just do not show up for the wedding and explain why in a letter!
@kimsantos18932 ай бұрын
She meant every word and OP is way too naive and with her rose tinted glasses was blind to the fact that every single person in her group were just plain foul and vile. As a fur mom I would take dying an old cat lady over having disgusting people like that in my life any day. I’m mad for you.
@25scigirl10 ай бұрын
I cannot conceive any children because of a genetic birth defect, but I don't tell that to the man until after we have gone out a few times. Usually the men and I go out once and then we never see or hear from each other again. I'm also allergic to cats, so I have a dog that does not affect my allergies. Maybe a cat or few did something to Alison in the past causing her to become scared. You should have suggested going to a restaurant or someone else's house instead of your cat house. The truth is, you have a right to say no to your cousin because even though she is in charge of her wedding, she cannot always get what she wants. Too bad if she becomes a bridezilla. There are other options such as adoption, surrogate mother, and/or IVF. There are also lots of deities (Gods and Goddesses) that you can pray to and ask them for help with your fertility issues. You can also get a DNA test so that you can see if the infertility problem is genetics or not. I wish you well and I hope that you will find a man who likes cats too. Thank you for taking the cats in and we need more people like you out there.
@annewilliams552710 ай бұрын
A little known fact about Maids-of-honour…… this title is only given to the MARRIED ATTENDANT and best friend of the bride as the bridesmaids are usually her UNMARRIED friends. I honestly don’t know how or why this changed, is it just an American thing?
@Dakaharins10 ай бұрын
whats with the title "cousin sister" im not understanding can someone explain for me pls
@cherief92610 ай бұрын
A cousin/ sister is a cousin that is as close to a sister as you get. Me, I don't have any sisters but a few of my cousins are like the sisters I never had. That is how we greet each other 💙..."hey cousin -sister"
@brat4610 ай бұрын
Basically these were cousins that lived close to each other and saw each other almost every day for school and play. Had sleep overs at each other houses, etc. You didn't see one without the other.
@tracygardner631810 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with being a cat woman that cousin is crazy she doesn’t deserve to have cats in her life if that’s how she views them, and not every woman needs a man in her life to make her life complete like it does in her cousins life
@juanitabrown893110 ай бұрын
So nick admitted to cheating..
@eileenstewart986610 ай бұрын
Meet OP the world’s biggest welcome mat-watch out dear you got a little dirt on your forehead
@nomahlubinyatlo10 ай бұрын
The updates are missing. What happened afterwards?
@robertx802010 ай бұрын
In order for an update to be missing, there first need to be updates Are there any updates?
@persebra10 ай бұрын
the updates start at 11:28 most of the story are updates
@Danarchy310 ай бұрын
12:43 you say adult but you meant doormat 13:41 you spent so much effort to say your being an adult and taking the high road and then you say “I don’t care if that’s immature” me thinks you doth protest too much
@maryfeasley777510 ай бұрын
Sorry but this one boring shorten just a wee bit
@jeanannd10 ай бұрын
Cat women just get nice cat men. If you cat approves of him and he loves you and your cat - go for it. If OP's cousin's bridesmaid is so against cats - I hate to think of her as a mother. She can't even stand the cats in another room or the slightest mess. That woman will be a horrible mother to her poor children and of course will also deny them a pet. I think OP's cousin wanted to say something but was afraid of loosing a friend and didn't realize how hurt OP was. Her cousin asking OP to step down from being Maid Of Honor - really sucks. Nick had been cheating on OP with Allison before he left her. No wonder Allison was so snarky. LOL, OP's Ex is now being cheated on by the woman he was cheating on when he was with her. OP's cousin believing her intended over OP, Oh my GHOD, this is a Peyton Place. Of course cheating intended runs away with Allison and leaves OP's cousin at the alter. He deserts her and his unborn child. I think OP shouldn't just reject her cousin. Yes her cousin said those things, but she was in love and couldn't believe her intended was cheating on her. She needs to make up with her cousin and not to mention she will be an aunt.