Cozy 🍵days in my life in Denmark 🇩🇰| Slow living| Scandinavian living/Lets talk friendships

[@Milly_in_denmark]

Hello friends, Merry Christmas. This vlog was supposed to come out later because I thought would post my Christmas vlog before. But I’m behind with this vlog and I thought you could enjoy this one while I work on the Christmas vlog. Hope you enjoy the vlog 😊

[@mirembehellen5387]

Hi Milly! I'm in my fifties, also have a friend of more than 20 yrs, who in the last three or so months changed attitude towards me. She started being negative, I thought I had seen it before but gave it time because we are all human. I would ask simple questions and she would answer rudely. I decided to stop going to her office because we work in the same institution. I decided to send her a Christmas message today. However, I don't think the relationship will ever be the same and I choose peace over toxic relationships.

[@kemikemi]

@@mirembehellen5387 I'm sorry to hear that and 20yrs knowing someone is precious. I would have a one-on-one sit down with her to see what' up. Sometimes, in live you never really know what the other person is going through and maybe this is her cry for help. If you can, do have a one-on-one talk with her. Happy! holiday season to all.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@mirembehellen5387 Sorry to hear about that. Maybe she is going through something if this is not how she has been before. It’s difficult because if you ask they might say that nothing is wrong . But choose your peace no matter what.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@kemikemi Exactly my thoughts. Because if the person has not been like this and it’s out of no where, they might be going through something. But it’s also had when you have someone not being nice to you when you ask a simple question.

[@priscillamatika3668]

I looooooooove❤❤ your hair Milly. You have inspired me

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@priscillamatika3668 Thank you 🙏 so much and I’m so happy if I can inspire anyone. Merry Christmas 🎄

[@Over50andMe]

Dear Milly from my perspective people change and people response changes as your life changes. Sometimes friends can be envious and jealousy when your life changes. Some friends are comfortable when we come to them with our troubles and problems, when life changes they feel unworthy because you got it figured out. BE YOU and walk with those that understand and appreciate you. ❤😊

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Over50andMe Thank you 🙏 so much for the kind words. Merry Christmas 🎄

[@macywacy7384]

Love your natural hair! It's really hard to find and keep true friendships. Like you I gave up all my fake friends. Alone but love my own company. Try to stay positive and strive for the best in me. Take care and stay true to yourself! ✌❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@macywacy7384 Thank you 🙏. It’s actually painful but one has to choose 😊

[@Ami-ml7gp]

This is my first time watching your content, and you're right. Over time, you outgrow people. As soon as I see something I don't like, I make myself scarce. You are worth more than that. I enjoy spending time walking the dogs, hiking, running, working out, doing meal prep, or cleaning the house. Keeping a full schedule helps.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Ami-ml7gp So true. When you are so busy occupied with your life, you have no time for things like friendship that don’t serve you ☺️. Merry Christmas 🎄

[@bellewill9748]

You look amazing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@ss1nga]

You have a beautiful home

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@ss1nga Thank you 🙏

[@dornett2701]

You are so right about friends, sometimes you just need to do what you have to do

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@dornett2701 We have to keep our peace

[@FashionPassion-f2k]

I love your outdoor view, The video is relaxing, for friendship i let some people go long time ago, i enjoy my own company, i have peace i am happy with my self.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@FashionPassion-f2k Thank you 🙏. It’s sad but sometimes it’s bet to move ourselves from situation that disturb our happiness.

[@FashionPassion-f2k]

Very true

[@khalnamodi8599]

Lovely as usual.The views are beautiful.Have a merry Christmas.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@khalnamodi8599 Thank you 🙏 and merry Christmas to you and your 🎄

[@opaljohnson4762]

Love the vibes. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@opaljohnson4762 Thank you and merry Christmas to you too.

[@roxannethwaites5387]

Thank you for the vlog Milly, and Merry Christmas!

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@roxannethwaites5387 Thank you for watching 😊

[@proudmganda1159]

Hi Milly xxx Life changes as we age, significant life changes, such as marriage, career shifts etc.can alter our social circles and priorities. These changes can make it harder to maintain existing friendships or form new ones. At 61 years my 2 children have left home one working in Japan and the other in Singapore , My holidays are time with them and I haven’t lost friends but found out who the real ones are. I wish a happy Christmas, full of joy, happiness, peace and love with your family xxx

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@proudmganda1159 So true. Thank you for watching

[@mariaboyce9596]

Love from Barbados Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy New year

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@mariaboyce9596 Thank you and merry Christmas to you and yours ☺️

[@ProjectMind-kw9sp]

I feel you, Milly. It is difficult to make friends in Germany too. Your peace is important, rather have few friends than tolerate rubbish. Thank you for your positivity and good vibes. Happy holidays 😊

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@ProjectMind-kw9sp That’s the biggest problem for many foreigners. But I appreciate my peace and we choose that any day. Merry Christmas 🎄

[@Norvelaful]

Hi Milly pray you and your family have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 your vlogs have brought joy to me this year. You truly deserved only the best! Now im 45 I now choose peace, time is too precious 😊

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Norvelaful Thank you 🙏 so much for the kind words. And wish you and your family a merry Christmas 🎄

[@keturaequalizer]

With age comes wisdom and discernment. My peace is non negotiable. 🙂🙃

[@lydspatience1295]

Nice relaxing vlog,thanks Milly

[@Milly_in_denmark]

Glad you enjoyed it. Merry Christmas 🎄

[@kemikemi]

OMG!...This couldn't have been well scripted, as you mentioned eating well at 500 calories per meal and something about the GYM, I was just putting a slice of cake in my mouth. Merry! Christmas everybody and a Happy! new year.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@kemikemi Ha ha 🤣. I eat cake chips and other unhealthy things but I’m really trying to be better because I learnt all this her in Denmark.

[@roynamatovu5554]

Hai Milly ,I feel happy whenever I watch your videos ,I really love them.I would like to let you know that you and i we share some stuffs or personalities eg.loving nature,same age,I can see you have that sweet taste for color green and the way you embraces your peace just to mention the few. And lastly ,guess what,we are from Uganda ,only the difference is where we reside (abroad).maybe also friendships is a concern too.am person who loves genuine friends,this breaks me down but am healed.thanks God❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@roynamatovu5554 Thank you 🙏 so Mich Roy. It’s so nice to see you here. I think the older we get, we start seeing people for what they are. And then it’s time to find out what’s best