Cruising Gay Bathhouses | Patrick Marano

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In this video, we take you on a journey through the ins and outs of navigating a gay bathhouse. From the etiquette and rules to the various areas and activities, we will give you a comprehensive overview of what to expect and how to make the most of your experience. Whether you're new to the gay bathhouse scene or simply curious, this video is the perfect guide to help you navigate this unique and important aspect of LGBTQ+ culture. So join us as we dive into the world of gay bathhouses and explore what they have to offer.
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[@Jayseman79]

My first experience with a guy was at a bathhouse. When I was getting undressed and wrapped my towel around me a guy was in his locker and looked me up and down. We met in the jacuzzi, let our hands wander then decided to get a room. The sound of other guys getting it on was such a turn on. He was all over me and soon so was I. Unbelievable experience. Since then I love being with guys. I’d recommend it for someone who’s experimenting. I also found out most of the guys there weren’t feminine and were your everyday kind of guy.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for sharing your story with us!

[@TwinFalls88]

Thanks for BASHING femme guys. Real "nice"

[@Jayseman79]

@@TwinFalls88 WTF. Did you even read what I said. I’m not bashing fem guys. I said most of the guys there were your everyday straight acting guys. Not my problem there wasn’t any fem guys. Nothing at all wrong with fem guys they’re hot. Just wasn’t many there. I’m letting people know from my experiences that most of the guys weren’t feminine.

[@TwinFalls88]

@@Jayseman79 Ah okay. Maybe I misunderstood, sorry. Just so used to some guys saying "no fems". But evidently I misinterpreted your comment as that. I stand corrected. ✔️

[@Jayseman79]

@@TwinFalls88 All good my friend. I hear you. After I read what I wrote I understand where you’re coming from. Got me thinking about going back to the bathhouse.

[@GU-hl8yy]

Nice top 10 bathhouse tips. I'll add these three: 1) Take a hint: If you approach two guys making out and/or going at it and they brush you away....walk away. Don't keep lingering trying to sneak in a touch hopeful that they'll change their mind. 2) No Stalking: If you get turned down don't continue following the guy like a creep. I've seen guys get turned down follow other guys to their rooms once they've hooked up with another guy checking their door knob to see if it unlocks and/or knocking on their door. This is insane on so many levels. 3) Wear a Condom: Prep or not will not save you from any STI's. Remember these are strangers that you're dealing with and you do not know their sexual history. HIV is not the only thing that you've got to be concerned about when having unprotected sex.

[@preorgasmic8343]

To me 1) is Smile and be friendly to all.

[@MonoGiadating]

Condom is better than Prep

[@naturalPaths]

Wear a condom: remember Michael Callen.

[@TwinFalls88]

Thank you 🙏 for @ least mentioning CONDOMS 😊 It's kinda irresponsible of the guy, whatever his name is, who creates these vids.... to not @ very least do a 2 second condoms plug @ the end. He should really change his ways and plug PrEP plus Condoms @ end of his vids.... IF* he actually cares about his viewers...

[@GU-hl8yy]

@@TwinFalls88 Thank you so much for the comment. Yeah the "prep mentality" that no condoms are needed with casual hookups blows my mind. When I visit my doctor for check ups she tells me the STIs that are trending in my area and it's insane. Wrap it up folks!

[@clubpittsburgh9680]

In regards to #10: We have, on more than one occasion, had to scrub a drinking fountain because someone decided to use it to clean their more sensitive areas. Please go to the shower

[@PatrickMarano]

oh boy, that's really not cool

[@naobe5]

ew...🤮

[@miccia3561]

not a single phone in sight, this is the america i’ve missed ✨😊✝️

[@f.v.l3959]

This was super helpful. For folks who are not those who have been as they identify as women. It’s helpful if you are curious.

[@PatrickMarano]

Hey that's so great to hear!

[@dariusanderton3760]

that sentence sounds as confused as some people's gender

[@AndyEdge-qw5dr]

I'd love to hear your thoughts on why bathhouses are closing down so often in North America!

[@PatrickMarano]

Covid didn't help. Grindr doesn't help. Conservative politics don't help.

[@anthonymavilia7315]

AIDS was the beginning of the end for the baths in NYC. Now even safe sex places like NYJACKS are closed due to cv19 and monkey pox. Now it's all about grinder etc.

[@dividav1224]

Bathhouses have been dying for years….. they started dying with Grindr. They were mainly for tweakers a and drug users anyways…..

[@joe7528]

Cruising isn't hip much anymore it was very popular back in the 90's and early 2000's but now it's not and the cities have responded to that and revamped the areas many adult novelty shops and adult theaters and bath houses have closed down due to the cities revamping look at time Square it had peep shows , porn shops , tattoo shops, bath houses , gay bars after they revamped the Square none of them are there anymore Atlanta had several gay bars , bath houses, porn shops , sex clubs back in the 90's and early 2000's now not many are still open unfortunately

[@Moxy770]

@@joe7528 Wow!!..you covered everything!!total thanxx Joe...

[@randallfrink2701]

I’ll never ever go into the jacuzzi at the tubs again! 🤮 Had no idea some people have had zero home training and did such things, it’s unsanitary not to mention just gross.

[@L1a7even]

lmao.... are you even gay 😂😆😂

[@aureliuswright1456]

I never ever go in the hot tub. I don’t even go in the pool at my gym and my gym tend to be very clean.

[@dramonmaster222]

Thanks as always for these Bathhouse tips. Plus everything is better with a friend.

[@ritapompana]

Haha! “You do don’t ya, you shouldn’t “ 👍🏻funny!

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha

[@echospaw899]

OMFG, people have to be told about these things? Oh gawd, we're in trouble.

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha

[@Traderbear]

I would add learn to give and read eye signals

[@nopongasreplay]

It happens to me everytime that when I enter into the baths everybody want to approach… it is ok… most of the time there is a very polite rejection from my side. The problem is when some guys touch the ass… they become so invasive, I consider that very very disgusting and not polite. My reaction is most of the time rude because these people are just gross and they even don’t feel affraid that a muscle guy can take their hands away from the peach in a more serious way.

[@TwoWholeWorms]

Avoid the jacuzzis, got it. o.o

[@rethablair6902]

I have been looking forward to u doing this for awhile Patrick😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@MonoGiadating]

I go in bear night and not all are bears. 😢

[@MDFMKisKMFDM]

OMG did you really just say some guys douche in the spa with the water jets eeeeercht.... the very idea has never even.... i mean... seriously lol - thanks for that Patrick...lots of love from Downunder (Aus)

[@PatrickMarano]

Kisses

[@tpardue2593]

#1. Wear flipflops

[@gaywizard2000]

It's never as great as that one time!

[@PatrickMarano]

Nothing is. But we chase it.

[@thomasbleming7539]

@@PatrickMarano I can still remember my first time and how it felt to loose my virginity.

[@JimmiAlli]

Do they still have bathhouses? I thought everyone has Grindr?

[@PatrickMarano]

the Bathhouses are full!

[@JimmiAlli]

@@PatrickMarano oh wow. That sounds amazing. 🤩

[@FilPol-yu1es]

In the Gay World..Good looks reign Supreme. It's just the Reality. Or..be a Troll with💰 💰💰

[@raphaelszok8561]

Why don't those folks use their shower at home, I do.

[@rextrek]

IKR!? Just ewwww

[@rethablair6902]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rextrek]

@Darren no schit derwood

[@IAmTheM0nk3y]

@rextrek nicely done with the bewitched ref!😂

[@zachary-evie8489]

Because sope is overrated

[@johngolden891]

Good idea to keep both pubic hair trimmed and kwell shampoo at home in case one has picked up at the baths some unwanted little critters... Johnny🌈

[@PatrickMarano]

ewwww but yes

[@johngolden891]

@@PatrickMarano Thanks, Patrick, and have a great weekend!

[@trungtranuc1158]

Is that the one in Berkeley

[@PatrickMarano]

Toronto actually

[@michaelkushnir2640]

NUMBER SEVEN WHAT THE FUUUUUUUUCK?

[@rextrek]

3rd...heyy Patrick......Great vid...very Informative.....seriously 7 - douching in the hot tub? I just cant.......Ewww, just ewww ....the older Ive gotten...Hygiene is Paramount..if it dont smell like Soap - I aint going near it...seriously / and fresh breathe as well......thats my only thing about -hookin up- ..its been years since I was at a Bathhouse...like over 10-15yr ....I appreciate how -today-its more Mainstream..and not considered as -seedy-as it once was..... whats that famous play/movie about a bath-house THE RITZ ..chk it out if you havent ....classic

[@PatrickMarano]

oh thanks I will

[@rextrek]

@@PatrickMarano famous people in it - Rita Moreno is one - its about a Bath house

[@eelementrixx]

I have a question: does anyone know who the guy with the square tattoo on his chest is??? does he have instagram... does anyone know that???

[@PatrickMarano]

His name is Kyle or Windom on OnlyFans. There's a link in the description of the video to find him

[@eelementrixx]

@@PatrickMarano thank you

[@waffle8364]

wow, you're only fans?... on YT? really?

[@PatrickMarano]

sure... everyone has one now, who cares right

[@L1a7even]

in my dream bathhouse, the jacuzzi would be filled with semen

[@TwinFalls88]

IF* you care for your Viewers if this channel.... shouldn't you @ very least do a 2 second plug at the start/end of Vid on condoms plus PrEP combo ? 🤔

[@PatrickMarano]

Nope. I have full videos talking about sexual health and how to take care of yourself. I speak about it all the time on this channel and in my podcast.

[@TwinFalls88]

@PatrickMarano Alright fine then. I stand corrected. You do deserve credit for those. - I still think more regulations would help tho. Every, all Industries should be regulated. Show businesses their place. Mandate condoms in bathhouses, in porn, and Universal Healthcare for access PrEP (add on, not substitute). Plus crack down hard on hookup Apps (who just sell health info status etc) require warning labels akin to cigarette cartons.

[@teresaalford5978]

That whole concept of men going to a BATHHOUSE to find a naked dude for sex sound disgusting !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@PatrickMarano]

Hey Teresa! Thank so much for that insightful comment. It will absolutely go towards changing behaviours and attitudes. Ur amazing! Keep it up!

[@dwightdodd3734]

you might be in the wrong place,Teresa.................

[@roccolacertosaj.r.4718]

Your judgement is even more disgusting ❤

[@he_lives_in_apineapple_und9743]

It wasn't disgusting when your mom did it so why is it disgusting when guys do it?

[@farsthchi]

MY TIP: don't go. I am a big ole bear and I assume it's just like the bars and 95% of gay guys are not into my type, and most think they can be rude and disrespectful because I'm not their flavor.

[@PatrickMarano]

well, I see bears all the time and I know they love going to the Black Eagle here in Toronto

[@farsthchi]

@@PatrickMarano it's just my experience. I'm sure a lot of people feel thay way

[@darrenedgar1697]

Sorry, man, but you’re wrong. Bathhouses are for all guys, regardless of age, ethnicity or body size and shape. Both Steamworks and Spa Xcess here in Toronto have bear and other themed events for larger men and those who lust over them, as other baths do in other cities. But even without these I feel I can go to any bathhouse almost any time and enjoy myself, despite being a big, hairy dude only into other big guys. There’s something for everyone pretty much all the time. A positive attitude is most important, but going with a buddy also helps a lot.

[@kerutlj]

Very sorry you haven’t had a good experience, they are the ones missing out then! The main thing I’ve learned frequenting the Seattle Steamworks is the “right guy” is the one with a good energy, regardless of his looks.

[@damnbrainlets7721]

Ye bears are not my thing

[@vala.1094]

This is the easiest way to transmit STD ....

[@PatrickMarano]

Nope, ignorance and misinformation is...

[@vala.1094]

@@PatrickMarano yes and its all over the bathhouses which is thr center of diseases !!

[@janekjanek2588]

@@PatrickMarano No, STDs are not transmitted by "ignorance or misinformation" but by PATOGENS: viruses, bacteria, fungi... Public baths are perfect places to get infected.

[@Hayesgary]

No longer called STD.... its an infection which is now referred to as STI

[@damoncarr6779]

We’ve never been to a bathhouse (the closest one is actually Toronto which is 800 miles away). Also our relationship is monogamous, but we love watching Patrick’s videos! However there is a very important tip that Patrick missed. Wear flip-flops or crocks to prevent contracting athletes’ foot or worse toenail fungus.

[@PatrickMarano]

Great point! And thank you for watching!

[@TwinFalls88]

Athletes Foot ?! 😂 Come on ! How about advice to (WEAR A CONDOM*). HIV a little more concerning than athletes foot. Just saying....

[@popgas3821]

Someone really douched in THE JACUZZI?! Wow, I feel embarrassed in behalf of those owners of bathhouses and to anyone who witnessed the horror 😱💀🤢

[@saintlitt7075]

Ewwwwwwww

[@lacarlousjackson8]

I remember my friends beg me to go to the bathhouse in California for the first time. I was so nervous 😬 lmaooo but soon I took 2 shots I was walking like I’ve been there before 🤣 🤣 i really enjoyed myself ❤

[@PatrickMarano]

haha thanks for sharing!

[@rickwallace4226]

I tried but couldn't as I was contented with my Hubby. Of 37 years,,,. Rick

[@lacarlousjackson8]

@@rickwallace4226 there’s nothing wrong with that!! 😊

[@TwinFalls88]

Alcohol not recommended prior. Can inhibit sound judgements.

[@PracticalPerry]

You missed a major bathhouse tip, that can be used at a bar or absolutely anywhere: 1. When you reject someone/reject someone's advances, be polite and respectful, just as you expect others to be polite when they reject you. I would love to read some replies to this tip, on how, in your opinion, one can politely and respectfully reject another, while minimizing hurting their feelings? The best rejection I received, involved a compliment-- The guy I was hitting on was straight and told me "I am flattered, you're a good looking guy, if I was gay I would date you". This was at a sex club in San Francisco, California, specifically The Power Exchange when they were on Otis Street. The Power Exchange had a gay section and a Str8/mixed section of the building. I usually went to the str8/mixed section as I like str8/bi/curious guys. ; )

[@PatrickMarano]

haha I would be on that side as well... if for no other reason than the challenge. But yes, I agree that respect is paramount when 'rejecting' someone. There is no need to be rude (unless they really won't leave you alone... then you might have to get serious)

[@bpattila11]

Long ago I used to accept advances and approaches from guys. BUT: Then a lots of them changed his mind and left me in a few minutes using the "I have to go to the toliet" louzy excuse. So, I got so much enough from this shit and "shopping around" on me that later I started to "spit out" ( turn away) from everybody who wanted to pick me up: both the good and bad looking guys, both the young and old ones and I decided to be alone and lonely since that time! And I am a goodlooking guy.

[@JimmiAlli]

The best approach is be honest and say “this isn’t working for me”.

[@TwinFalls88]

​@@bpattila11 You DESERVE someone who wants you for your ❤️, not just fixated on a part. Maybe you were looking in the wrong place is all ? Try a queer sports team, book club, activist group, volunteering, "SAGE", Etc. Bathhouses aren't the best places to find deep people. They tend to float in the shallow end...

[@Jusell]

Bathhouses are a wonderful experience 🔥😍🔥

[@Onetalld1984]

I wish guys understood the bacteria they can leave in the jacuzzi by douching in there

[@sirdavidoftor3413]

I would add one thing to the tips, though it controversial. Get vaccinated for Monkey pox. I live in Toronto, and there are 4 new cases found just recently. It has been going down since the summer, but there seems to be increasing. The vaccine is free and there are two needed. Many years ago, I did bathhouse outreach for ACT. Having safe fun is essential to yourself and others. Stay safe, stay sane, stay strong 🏳️‍🌈

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you for that

[@TheEwing69]

There was a monkeypox outbreak at a Dallas gay bathhouse in 2022. No telling how many contracted it.

[@TwinFalls88]

THANK YOU 🙏 for that ! Shouldn't it be the responsibility 🤔 of the Bathhouses to provide this Info. In their Ads and when entering establishments? And hmhm .... For Patrick M. to do @ very least a tiny blurb spliced into each vid on safety (condoms). These places should really be shuttered unless* enforce condom usage....

[@bjornjohansen5397]

I could never get myself to go to one of these places. It seems you really need very high self esteem and a good body to be appreciated in there.

[@PatrickMarano]

Not really, there are all kinds, it's not as scary as you think. It's honest and up front (unlike the apps)

[@bjornjohansen5397]

@@PatrickMarano I guess so. One day when I look as good as you I might gather the courage to go.

[@TwinFalls88]

​​@@bjornjohansen5397 O come on ! Build YOURSELF* up, not him. You're cute from what I can see in that tiny pic ! Maybe you deserve better than these dingy, dangerous, rundown hole in the walls tho.... Not trying to lecture. But maybe you deserve a guy who will treat you right and not value you solely on appearances ? That's superficial and shallow right. Just a thought. But if you go, just WEAR A CONDOM* and value your safety. Also, confidence is sexy because "good" & "bad" looking are really only relative anyways.

[@keithhooper6123]

All types go to the saunas, as we call them in the UK .Some have T girl events ,and male\female swapping events.

[@bjones9942]

The jacuzzi? Really? Ew! Thankfully I've not been to a bathhouse with a jacuzzi, so no belated worries for me - but it is disturbing that you felt it happens enough to warrant being on a top 10 list! Thanks for the video!

[@naobe5]

I was shocked as well....🤯

[@thomasbleming7539]

I remember back in early 1966 when I was living in Miami, Florida how on Saturday and Sunday the gay bathhouse that was on Miami Beach would be filled with a lot of guys who were all eager to make that connection and have fun. Back then no one seemed to have any worry when it came to AIDS. Few guys wore a condom and most were bottoms.

[@PatrickMarano]

Hmmm.. did you say 1966? AIDS wasn't a thing in that time...

[@thomasbleming7539]

@@PatrickMarano YES and downtown Miami, Florida was loaded with an awful LOT of gay men.

[@naobe5]

@@thomasbleming7539 weren't you worried about being arrested? Was it not illegal/unlawful back then?🤔

[@thomasbleming7539]

@@naobe5 Back then it was NOT all that much to be worried about if one was discreet and not openly flaunting it around. Believe it or not Miami, Florida was wide open back then.

[@pan8753pan]

The good old times.

[@wernerbergh2593]

OMG !!! they acutely do it in the Jacuzzi?? that's horrifying. I love your new setup Patrick it looks really good .Thanks for this video

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks so much!

[@yngblkguy21]

Good hygiene!!

[@BoardroomBuddha]

Important tip: WEAR SLIPPERS/SHOES. Things can get messy on the floors...including water, lube and other fluids..

[@StheMagnificant]

how about the staff there being polite?

[@PatrickMarano]

Well, we can only control our own behaviour I suppose

[@Jaws69]

Flip flops are great but be careful…. One move on a wet spot and boom wipe out😂

[@jslasher1]

Enjoyed KKK in Kensington, a Sydney suburb in the early 1960s. It's gone now because the owners decided that the real-estate was more valuable when put to other uses. Not much attitude here. The men were hot - and mostly 'cut' in those days.

[@braddahg]

Great tips, and since you even had to mention #7, I probably wouldn’t go in one to begin with.

[@matthewjameshall2145]

I love your frankness. Honest and polite. And TIP!!!

[@marco.gouveia]

Don’t take your towel inside the steam room. It will get drenched in two seconds. 😂

[@PatrickMarano]

haha good one!

[@fairamir1]

To me an open door always means walk on in no asking

[@JPJP-gx5nm]

Guy with an open door usually means all his holes are open for whatever you want.

[@seantownsend8417]

Adding to numbers eight and ten, be courteous and help keep the bathhouse clean. The people that work in the bathhouse are not your maids. They work hard in trying to keep the bathhouse clean and sanitary.

[@PatrickMarano]

100%

[@snikovsky]

Drink water before and perhaps inside too, especially if you're staying in the saunas for a long time and drink alcohol.

[@floreanchannel]

I hoped there is more steam there and a bath or jakuzi, I would feel so awkward just standing in a semi dark room with porn on a wall.

[@joethielen9603]

Oh how I miss a good bath house. I wish society would open up on the omg. 🤔body attachment to save your own life

[@becomingwilkinson]

Well, that was dang interesting!

[@rainbowroom24-7-52]

It is sad that the humans have digressed to the point where we need a PSA on proper BASIC manners while at the bath house or grocery store or place of employment.

[@Dhruv_Dogra]

Regressed is the word you need

[@greggi47]

Realistically, there will be times when nothing happens that you expect/want/need. Sometimes you might have opportunities with people you were not looking for--not the right Look, not the hottest guy in the place. Be open to unexpected hookups with surprising people, Some would say that's cynical, even exploitive. It might be. But go with what happens, to the extent that you are open. Be friendly and respectful. And if nothing happens the way you wanted, enjoy being around naked men, the steam or dry heat,

[@PatrickMarano]

100%

[@taxol2]

My experience with bath houses were pleasant. I used to go to these places when I was younger

[@Kstar579]

Question: in bath houses, it it social acceptable to walk around in the nude or is it just to satisfy KZbin?😉 That is a genuine question. Tbh I did skip around but promise to watch the rest

[@PatrickMarano]

You absolutely can walk around in the nude if you want to

[@TomTobin67]

Most of the bathhouses near me have closed. The nearest one is several miles away.

[@PatrickMarano]

That sucks

[@rickberning7238]

What's the policy of someone using a cane to get around? Is it cool to bring it in a bathhouse?

[@PatrickMarano]

Well, if you need it you need it right? I would def suggest getting a room so you can relax and maybe have people come to you

[@pablovazilovelovegoogle4ever]

Come to U🏳️‍🌈R🇺🇾GAY🙏🏻

[@PatrickMarano]

I'm going to Argentina next year... maybe I'll swing by

[@pablovazilovelovegoogle4ever]

Ok gay people r waiting 4 u

[@cubbyv]

Why was the ken doll in the room?

[@PatrickMarano]

He goes everywhere I go

[@cubbyv]

@@PatrickMarano waaaaa?

[@AlbertHess-xy7ky]

Does he go where you don't go?@@PatrickMarano

[@Stephanie-b8b]

❤ I must say being around beautiful attractive gay men is something I really look forward to when going out in public❤

[@TomTobin67]

Flip flops are a must. You just don't know who or what has soiled the floors and you probably don't want to track that into your car or house. Ewwww

[@anthonymavilia7315]

I didn't know they still existed!!Gone from NYC for sure.

[@PatrickMarano]

That's impossible... there has to be at least 1 in NYC

[@joe7528]

Nothing at Time Square any more they revamped the Square to be more family oriented

[@cs0779533]

douching with jets. thats fucked up. sorry about that going on. maybe they did too much tina to thing straight.

[@yetsinghwong212]

Keep valuables safe... My comment...

[@bravoprojectrunwayfans]

That was number 6 .

[@yetsinghwong212]

@@bravoprojectrunwayfans ok

[@BrianWhalen-eq2um]

I think I'm gay

[@PatrickMarano]

Great!

[@revanum]

Hygiene and cleanliness very important

[@1NYCHombre]

You always make me so glad that I’m Gay! ❤️💋🏳️‍🌈⭐️

[@PatrickMarano]

that makes me happy!

[@bernardcruz6934]

Steamworks if you want to explore

[@DavidSmith-rp8yk]

always wear something on your feel

[@OliverMarron-m5n]

Very good.

[@istvanpraha]

Oh the shot around 5:20...hot

[@therealpinoyhapa]

Guys in the bathhouse should be lined up to have a chance to get it on with a real star, Eddie Stone!!!

[@PatrickMarano]

awww

[@rongenung]

I have wondered if some of them have closed-circuit TV cameras installed in certain areas?

[@PatrickMarano]

There is one in the "porn star room" so ppl in the other rooms can tune in and watch them (if they have it turned on of course)

[@mohdhasan4557]

O

[@KeithCrenshaw]

I use to go to these types of establishments when I was younger. But there is a reason they are all disappearing.

[@PatrickMarano]

What is the reason?

[@camerondavis1556]

Never been to a bath house don't think there is one close to me nobody would want to do anything with me anyways nobody does that's why im still single and 44 to ugly and fat

[@PatrickMarano]

People come in all shapes and sizes, and what's attractive to one person might not be for the next. Please don't be hard on yourself. Try to accept and love yourself cuz when you do, you will find people will naturally gravitate towards you.

[@AlbertHess-xy7ky]

No one in a dark room is fat, can't you see that?

[@GuyFoster-ew9ho]

Skip the meth in bathhouses. It's just not going to end well.

[@PatrickMarano]

Skip the meth anywhere... it never ends well

[@Charlotte-kv7bk]

There is a WINDOM.MINNESOTA

[@PatrickMarano]

haha funny

[@justinthomascryptogaming]

This would definitely open up things to me. Wish some were close. But if I was in Toronto. I’d love to go with u 😏

[@toddkasper4384]

Good tips

[@PatrickMarano]

Glad you think so!

[@tnchaptnchap]

I take extra towels on my own, just to have some extras for the room, so not having to return just one at a time. Also, I take my own water/cokes, snacks to keep in the room, so don't have to pay for extras. And take flipflops with you. Don't walk the floors bare foot. You never know what's been on or is on the floors. HaHa !! All this just helps me feal more comfortable and relaxed while there.

[@PatrickMarano]

That's awesome, thanks for sharing!

[@RJHadleyFlorida]

Your tips are always informative and clever I'm one of those tops who goes with the aim to hook up, suck & go so i get a locker. Prep by bringing exactly what i need in a bag. Extra lube, condom & water or gatorade

[@TheWilmaFingerdooReview]

A) This was a excellent video. B) You're adorable! LOL xox

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you for that xo

[@matthew8153]

I admit I’ve been to the one in Orlando (to see what it was like) and one in Ft Lauderdale (to ensure the first time wasn’t an outlier in terms of experience). I have no desire to ever go to one of these disgusting places again.

[@PatrickMarano]

Sorry you had a terrible time

[@vicdog4440]

@Matthew.. sad, isn’t it. Not exactly what comes to mind when you think of the best aspects of the lgbt movement.

[@matthew8153]

@@vicdog4440 Indeed

[@bodilsoldeberg5412]

I think only old guys go there nowadays

[@PatrickMarano]

nope

[@simonmaverick9201]

I'm scared

[@PatrickMarano]

haha don't be!

[@davidmims6790]

I am sure this Guy's parents are so proud of him! Can't wait til you are older and realize how ridiculous this is!!

[@fairamir1]

How is it ridiculous?

[@PatrickMarano]

Oh my goodness, thank you so much for that insight into my life. You have changed the trajectory of my entire youtube channel with your thoughtful intelligent opinion. Bless you my friend!

[@janekjanek2588]

@@PatrickMarano But you know he is right.

[@fairamir1]

@@janekjanek2588 Explain what is ridiculous ?

[@dariusanderton3760]

when I got older I just wished I was young again so I could keep going and getting lots of action

[@bpattila11]

Long ago I used to accept advances and approaches from guys. BUT: Then a lots of them changed his mind and left me in a few minutes using the "I have to go to the toliet" louzy excuse. So, I got so much enough from this shit and "shopping around" on me that later I started to "spit out" ( turn away) from everybody who wanted to pick me up: both the good and bad looking guys, both the young and old ones and I decided to be alone and lonely since that time! And I am a goodlooking guy.

[@PatrickMarano]

I hope you're not lonely. But being alone is ok

[@daddyone11]

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