Crush Culture- Conan Gray (lyrics)

i apologize for the spelling mistakes! i hope you enjoy the video, though ! :3

[@gluestringss2025]

i connect with this song so much because sometimes i’ll get a crush on somebody and my friends will get confused as to why i don’t do anything about it. but just because i have a crush doesn’t mean i want a relationship. admiring people from afar is more appealing sometimes.

[@alenafrancesca9635]

I feel that!!

[@_.kitkat._8677]

Same relationships scare me because in afraid of rejection and them finding someone else so I just dont date.

[@Zeruvyll]

OH?? Whats this??? SOMEONE TO RELATE TO??? HUH.

[@leyetizola1099]

FELT!

[@hanhopkins9163]

I'm the same ~ sometimes I think the idea is better

[@bhalidjojipeeps902]

They should've used this in to all the boys I loved before as a soundtrack

[@leximarecek5707]

I loved that movie and I agree

[@bhalidjojipeeps902]

@@leximarecek5707 Thanks their having a second one.

[@bhalidjojipeeps902]

@@leximarecek5707 I hope whoever's has Insta spams them about this song.

[@leximarecek5707]

@@bhalidjojipeeps902 fr😂

[@bhalidjojipeeps902]

@@leximarecek5707 fr fr

[@breasona2171]

I think Crush Culture is the belief everyone seems to have about how people should respond to crushes, and how everyone should have a crush. It’s that we need to constantly observe our crushes, or stress over them, and that love should be the focus point of our lives. I think this song is about how that’s wrong. You can have a crush on someone and not feel stressed. You can have a crush on someone and not want a relationship. Dating and romance shouldn’t be such a big thing, it shouldn’t always be the thing we immediately talk about. Idk, that’s just what this song meant to me. :)

[@scourgeface]

and also that youre allowed to not have a crush and not desire a relationship as the singer himself (even tho he doesnt like labels) would be aromantic

[@nyomnyom24]

deeeep

[@bbaugher2419]

I love your observation of this but also very cursed pfp you got there bro lol

[@tranqui_lil_ie]

I'm not sure If I have a crush but for now I feel happy being alone! And honestly I don't feel stressed about this

[@milku7996]

frick yes

[@humanerror1011]

As an asexual and aromantic person I LOVE THIS SONG WITH MY WHOLE HEART AND SOUL

[@nathanielcooper4288]

YAAASSSS

[@theshslgay7940]

YAY ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC SQUAD?

[@mothball-8324]

What's aromantic is that like when stuff smells good lmao

[@humanerror1011]

@@mothball-8324 that's aromatic, aromantic is basically not feeling romantic attraction to people While asexual people just don't feel the sexual attraction but could still fall in love with someone, aromantic people don't feel that either

[@gravekeeper5865]

human error me but asexual

[@abrathekadabra7578]

As an aromantic, this song makes me feel so seen. It’s so alienating to live in a society where romance is the main fixture and just… not being able to engage in that like everyone else. I’m never going to get those stomach butterflies from seeing that special someone, I’m never going to have that fantasy happily ever after, I’ll never find my soulmate. And it just helps so much to see that I’m not the only one fed up with having something I’ll never experience shoved down my throat.

[@ryaneder]

Never thought I’d hear “spill my guts out” sung so beautifully

[@eliannepaglinawan1789]

I could _feel_ the bitterness from here

[@echoyaknow1104]

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[@safespacegaming3844]

b

[@ghostlylilacs7144]

c

[@Kai-mx3tw]

e

[@chillcat1454]

f

[@ziqqyziqqy]

when the kids in my class refuse to believe me when i say i dont have a crush

[@rileymars1642]

Im that person :'D (I always just pick a random person to have a crush on even if I don't like them idk why I do it I just simply d o)

[@scourgeface]

i literally hate that sm like when you say no one theyll be all "oooh yes its someone 👀 " like even with aros and aces aside damn i didnt know i wasnt allowed to have a period of time i dont have a crush

[@yourlocaldemon2195]

Ughh it sucks 🖐🏻😩 Im not aro but its so annoying…. I dont have a crush on someone 24/7 people!

[@lincolnjohnson67]

@@rileymars1642 yeppppppp

[@k1zv0]

I can relate, some of my classmates asked me “oOh Do yOu hAvE a CrUsH”, and when i say no, they go like “oHhH i KnOw iT’s SoMeOnE yiEeEeE”, i hate that, i hate that so much.

[@reem-gb7mf]

hey . yeah u scrolling, u have good music taste :,)

[@Itstrashagainsmh]

:')))

[@crumblyairship]

:D

[@Olivia123456ism]

thx, so do u

[@Mimiara]

no u

[@xiomara3267]

Thanks you too

[@conversationswcocco]

I love how Conan talks about people who crush on you as dangerous aliens lmao

[@getomalfoy]

as an *aromantic person* who loves to sing, i'm singing this out loud while playing guitar. it makes me feel so much better.

[@imcomingforyourass4835]

EXUSE me 69 years ago?!

[@daniellemoser6973]

@@imcomingforyourass4835 nah it's 3 months ago they just added that to their name sorry if it's a joke and I didn't get it

[@imcomingforyourass4835]

@@daniellemoser6973 lmao ya thx for clearing it up lol

[@daniellemoser6973]

@@imcomingforyourass4835 lol you're welcome

[@Jays_Hatepage]

lowkey wanna be u rn

[@nathanielcooper4288]

The font kinda looks like something that would be on the love heart sweets. It kinda reminds of the sweets this song does. If anyone doesnt know what they are, they are little circle fizzing sweets (best way to describe them i think) that have hearts on them and they have little cliche sayings like "im yours" and "be mine" ect. Its cute. My boyfriend gives me them all the time. The song kinda reminds me of them in a way

[@lolly8219]

Cute!

[@nathanielcooper4288]

He cheated on me...

[@sunflower9850]

@@nathanielcooper4288 LMAO

[@tzarcal]

@@nathanielcooper4288 oh ok O_O

[@tattooconor5281]

Nathaniel Cooper t

[@cheriszn]

Aesthetic- _Adjective_ conan gray. _Noun_ conan gray.

[@blossomvfx8535]

Yassssss

[@superache222]

yes, also orbit, blink, once?

[@superache222]

i checked ur channel lol sorry

[@cheriszn]

@@superache222 yes!

[@eee-san1259]

I wished that my classmates understood that having a romantic relationship doesn't have to be such a huge priority. I'm getting sick of them all breaking up then getting back together again, for like, the fourth time. I'm also getting sick of them for not realizing how desperate they are. Perhaps I've become somewhat bitter over love, but I still feel attracted to others at times. I just know that I don't have to be in a romantic relationship to be happy.

[@gyanikarathore6508]

OMG that is EXACTYLY how I’ve been feeling and people always lash out upon me for thinking that I’m judging them. I’m not, I just miss my friends who used to have interesting and unique personalities outside their relationships but now their whole life is just based on one thing and I feel like I’ve lost them, which makes me so melancholous. They’ve stopped realising that being in a romantic relationship isn’t the ONLY thing that can bring you joy and now I just feel like I barely know my friends at all, as if they’re completely different people lol.

[@RossiiiChan]

I realized that I don't always have to be in a relationship because it seems like when I was in a relationship I was a lot more stressed which is like understandable because relationships can be stressful and sometimes it's better to just be single no I'm not saying self love can necessarily replace a partner or Partners I'm just saying you can be happy and single if you want to be

[@besaajdini296]

Can we just agree this is the aspec anthem? Like, even if this is a bit more about romance I think both aros and aces are very willing to destroy crush culture😌

[@turbinao]

Asexual aromantic people be like:

[@turbinao]

im asexual ok

[@sugaaa679]

@@turbinao ok hehe

[@asialigotino7815]

@@sugaaa679 yoongi in your profile pic lmao (sorry for my bad English)

[@sugaaa679]

@@asialigotino7815 lmao--😂😂 (your English is 👌)

[@asialigotino7815]

@@sugaaa679 thank you sm, sorry for answering now but I didn't see the notification :(

[@ElonMusk-hq1cp]

This song is aromantic anthem along with Never Been In Love and you can’t convince me otherwise

[@bluesusername]

Cynical fairytale by egg.

[@Kirvirul]

@@bluesusername Yes, you are correct

[@Kury050]

And also people watching!!

[@kaylaallred8839]

Aromantics before valentines Day be like 💚 💜

[@kyliesouthers3564]

I'm listening to this on repeat because I want to become numb to relationships so I don't have to worry about being single all my life.

[@shamelmae]

PurpleRaven Kylie S. BRO SAME

[@nikgomez1876]

Lol same xD

[@AmberisSatan]

This song is about aromanticism

[@kyliesouthers3564]

@@AmberisSatan ik

[@fonzebronze5046]

Me too

[@sev6410]

I literally sent this to a boy who liked me 💀

[@trinity8300]

how i'd go????

[@sev6410]

@@trinity8300 he *seened* me :>

[@ashloomis6017]

@@sev6410 its called "leaving you on read" not "seened"

[@sev6410]

@@ashloomis6017 yeah whatever its still the same

[@salsakirana141]

u have boy who likes u ?! how's it feel

[@fatnugly9570]

This gives me Melanie Martinez vibes and i love it, just imagine conan and melanie making a collab

[@imnotmillie3635]

We stan Conan and Mel!!!!

[@fatnugly9570]

im not millie? Yaaaaaass

[@cookiebaker2170]

For REAL. I thought I was the only one thinking this!!!

[@sheilaconnolly344]

Yeessss

[@mackenziemarin6799]

Oh my god that would be heavenly

[@isabel-wf4fd]

not an asexual neither an aromantic person, just a girl that isn't looking for any relationships in the near future because she feels satisfied being single and isn't suited for one scrolling by

[@samity8695]

Me: *asks my crush out* My crush: *this song* Also me: *cries*

[@jayden1066]

I few days ago my crush and I were texting, and I finally admitted my feelings. Today I saw her in person for the first time since then, and she is a really big Conan Grey fan. She told me that she was listening to his music, and the moment she revived the text saying I liked her the line “I don’t care if I’m forever alone, I’m not falling for ya”. I dunno what this means for my future, but she just straight up told me cold and it hurts.

[@dqftones]

Damn

[@scourgeface]

i mean this was 4mo ago but still accept it and move on she owes you nothing especially not if shes aro or ace

[@bunnyducky1394]

@@scourgeface Being aro or ace doesn't give you the right to be a bitch

[@willowoodz]

@@scourgeface aro/ace spec people aren’t generally rude

[@semidecent4395]

@@willowoodz Well this person may have sounded rude b/c the person crushing was hurt. It’s not rude to be honest about how you feel, but there are definitely worse ways to go about saying it

[@Josh-bu6oi]

tf this is so cuteee AaAAaAaAaAaaaa

[@lolly8219]

Lana's bitch awwww thank u!❤️

[@Josh-bu6oi]

@@lolly8219 u should make more lyric videos !! u make them so cute n i think u have rly good taste in music

[@lolly8219]

Lana's bitch aw thank you! I will definitely make more lyric videos!

[@tenshi3199]

Why'd I think his name was Conan gay.

[@reeseo7005]

I mean if anything Conan Bi

[@reeseo7005]

Maybe Pan

[@roserosiecake815]

He's bi

[@reeseo7005]

@@aln3528 Thank you for clearing that up :) it's appreciated

[@kaseybray7096]

HE IS BI

[@a_lovely_lizard]

'this baby is love-proof' DAMN! THAT HITS DIFFERENT

[@blueaxolotol_2030]

Can't stop thinking about Aros throughout the whole song...Reminds me of when I was in a platonic relationship with someone who was Aro...Sadly we didn't last long but are still good friends...LOL WE LOVE YOU AROS EVERYWHERE

[@StarlitPaint]

As someone who is deeply demiromantic/demisexual and got out of a relationship that was. Not good for me a few months ago, this song resonates with me more now than ever 😭

[@danacohen5704]

This is exactly how I felt when I thought I was straight. I didnt get why everyone is so mesmerised by relationships but then I realised that I was just gay and now I'm like... I AM crush culture omg

[@lolly8219]

Hell yeah! Gays forever :D

[@danacohen5704]

@@lolly8219 ❤❤❤🏳️‍🌈

[@bellac6311]

THIS!!! i would legit make up crushes on randomuys because the "crush culture" was so ingrained in me that i was like "if i dont have a crush im not normal"...

[@snookkit]

ngl,, i've never related to a song so much lmao everyone around me is bouncin' around, happy about their new crush or new partner, and they're always asking me ''oh, do you have a crush yet?'' or if im with my male best friend, ''aww! you totally like him.'' like, man. hell no. im demisexual and i've never had a real crush before. the whole thing is disgustang (in my opinion). so please, kids at my school. stop shipping me with others, and please have not all conversations end up about your crush or new boyfriend. :')

[@imaginebeingsmexy5977]

periodt 💅

[@shumishu6019]

What is a demisexual

[@iizqsexehasstoppedworking6099]

erm, i can relate. i think all of the relationship stuff and intimate stuff if disgusting, so what would that make me?

[@elliotbogle6031]

WHICH ONE OF YA DIDNT FLUSH AFTER YA SHAIT wasn’t me,wasn’t me, WELL IT WAS ONE OF YAS DISGASTIN

[@snookkit]

Iizqs exe has stopped working asexual and aromantic?

[@sistersamich2075]

ITS MY FIRST OUT PRIDE AS ACE AND IM USING THIS AS MY ANTHEM

[@lolly8219]

i’m really proud of you !!

[@sistersamich2075]

@@lolly8219 thanks :’)

[@connieannison549]

1:50 *MOOD*

[@vitasta7968]

Don't be sad

[@nix7699]

:(

[@meredithackerman8493]

Yeah

[@Itstrashagainsmh]

HONESTLY SAME-

[@louvainisacity]

As someone who is aroace-spectrum person, This is my S O N G

[@weirdst_]

aromantic anthem

[@abigail8097]

this should be the asexual anthem

[@rubylily7947]

Aromantic anthem because asexual means no sex, aromantic means no dating.

[@rubylily7947]

@@auroraborealis9068 I'll have a listen!

[@4ninalac0mb3]

The bisexual anthem is definitely Heather by Conan Gray 😚✌️

[@rubylily7947]

I love that song!

[@rubylily7947]

@@auroraborealis9068 I listened to the song and it's more of an aromantic anthem. I still love it, hough!

[@tyunderfull]

as an aromatic person i ✨felt✨ this song

[@ashloomis6017]

I WISH so many people liked me to where id feel like this

[@fin-tastic7354]

I'm on the receiving end and lemme tell you: Not fun LMAO I've had to reject like 10 dudes and I felt bad every time LOOOL

[@donni6315]

Fin-tastic! Stop with your humble bragging 🤢

[@soltsun6121]

*this song is my current mood tbh*

[@bloodygarden1307]

Me: Listening to this song 10 times a day Also me: Have a giant crush on a girl I met a week ago

[@nece9097]

same but I got ghosted

[@indighost__]

mood but i've known her for seven years and we both obviously like each other but we're both too stubborn and stupid to make a move

[@akikoh518]

ararlynn ! Stan Nagito

[@fatimaalolol]

Nece same he left me on open in the middle of a conversation :(

[@you-know-who3873]

@@indighost__ MAKE A MOVE. but think twice, don't destroy your friendship

[@arkacideow50]

whats this font called

[@kagesvfx]

keep on truckin

[@Lola-xp5dy]

keep on truckin'

[@asinine8143]

kEeP oN tRuCkIn'

[@brookebarton7892]

kEEP on truCKiN

[@ratboy6843]

ĶËĘP ØÑ ŤŔÜÇĶÏŃ'

[@urmom1551]

Conan and Melanie martinez should do a colab- 👀

[@urmom1551]

ALN Yes 😌💅

[@badbleep8236]

YESSS

[@ana-vd3to]

YES

[@hmtkdkdnrkwjd]

oo that would sound awesome

[@freakazoid3535]

"Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out" That's what I tell to the kids that have a crush on me

[@ni1918]

listening to this the whole day for valentines again 🤩

[@user-sk1vr3bs7j]

tired of wanting a significant other. we're boycotting love!

[@ayaebony4461]

Lmao we just move to a different planet and start over

[@highlandrowan1180]

the only song that can help me rewire my brain into believing that i dont always need someone and i need to take a chill pill :,)

[@f__db322]

My god don't look at your phone No one's gonna call you Quit checking your volume (crush) I don't care if I'm forever alone I'm not falling for you 'Cause this baby is loveproof (culture) I don't care what you're saying I don't wanna participate in your game of manipulation (crush) And no I don't want your sympathy, all this love is suffocating Just let me be sad and lonely 'Cause Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out I know what you're doing, tryna get me to pursue ya Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out Spill my guts out, spill my guts out Oh no, don't look in their eyes 'Cause that's how they get you Kiss you then forget you (crush) All they're feeding you is beautiful lies So hide in the bathroom 'Til they find someone else new (culture) I don't care what you're saying I don't wanna participate in your game of manipulation (crush) And no I don't want your sympathy, all this love is suffocating Just let me be sad and lonely 'Cause Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out I know what you're doing, tryna get me to pursue ya Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out Spill my guts out, spill my guts out Shut your damn mouth You're talking too loud And no one cares if you two made out I'm sick of the kissing cult Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out I know what you're doing, tryna get me to pursue ya Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out Spill my guts out, spill my guts out Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out I know what you're doing, tryna get me to pursue ya Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out Spill my guts out, spill my guts out

[@alas1457]

My friend texted me, saying “the song crush culture is literally like you”. *He wasn't wrong.*

[@indianscammer8458]

this whole song is just straight mood

[@amandaparvin]

right now I feel the fuck out of this it's honestly a sad mood

[@nouranenaili8960]

A queen

[@cia7290]

This song hits very hard on this fine evening

[@blloversdontforgettobreath8932]

I literally found out about Canon Gray like 2 days ago and i have listen many of his songs i love him😍

[@lxganbrxxke]

Today I randomly heard this song and I actually listened to the lyrics. I know I might sound stupid but I have a strong feeling this is a sign. Recently a person I used to like started talking to me again and my feelings for him are coming back slowly. But the last time he randomly started talking to me I caught feelings for him and he then manipulated me and ghosted me. So this song is currently making me rethink some things and I don’t know how to feel about that.

[@juniper3526]

This song is a breath of fresh air

[@flamoof7255]

As an aroace, I claim this as my anthem.

[@jessieg58]

Happy Valentines Day to all my fellow aromantics who are sick of the kissing cult! Love you (platonically) ❤️

[@superballs__]

i was sitting in the car and reading the comments and one of them said "a moment of silence for the ppl who think this is about crushes" and another one said "this should he the asexual aromatic anthem" i was so confused and all you have to do is read the line "i'm nor falling for you cuz this baby is love proof" Jhahahsuahhs IT FINALLY CLICKED FOR ME OMG

[@ssush1trashh]

listening this on valentine’s day lol

[@lolly8219]

shhh...I’m aware I used the wrong “you’re”

[@chrisevanswifey549]

ps what’s the font you used? xoxo 💛

[@athenakrishamandalihan2412]

What app did u use in making this?

[@kamilalopez5746]

@@athenakrishamandalihan2412 i wanna know too

[@johanagamez2647]

h.t edits I believe it’s keep on truckin

[@meanyapickles]

All rise for the aro / ace anthem...

[@noreenvergara4031]

I LOVE THIS SONG! He is a great singer

[@theloneliestnumber7636]

AGREED

[@ikeachickennuggets9767]

Aromantic anthem

[@cristlewrite7944]

The colors work really well with the song. Thanks!

[@nikiisswag538]

Idc how old this song is it will always be in my favorites :D

[@yourlocalastronaut4006]

any one else HATE valentines day?????~TikTok cat

[@hibam.rizwan659]

me but I also love it cos it's my cats birthday so I spend my day with the only love of my life anyway

[@vedasrikeerthi2748]

@@hibam.rizwan659 omg yay

[@lindaplayspiano]

@@hibam.rizwan659 that's so cute

[@yourlocalastronaut4006]

Hiba Mohamed Rizwan awwwwww🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰~TikTok cat

[@joseconstantino5024]

You mean national stream crush culture day? Lol

[@kiweller6298]

As an aroace I agree whole heartedly to this song I

[@shelley7415]

i was thinking that this song fits otis from sex education perfectly

[@thatrandomchick8921]

Happy Valentines Day too all of you lonley people

[@elianahastings2940]

whos here in quarantine listening to conan grey bc hes one of the things that keeps u entertained c:

[@Littlepup93]

Ah. Such a bitter and wonderful song.

[@orionoiro]

CONAN IS SO REAL FOR THIS

[@milkshakeluvr3679]

i listen to this whenever i question if i'm aromantic or not, especially right now since someone just confessed to me last night after knowing me for two weeks.

[@nandhinivenkatsrinivasan3149]

“Sue ya “ lol *1:02*

[@twigthetroll9279]

aroace MOOD

[@twistedreality997]

i will forever love this song, i used to listen to this all the time because i kinda related to it in a wierd way, i didn't know i was ace aro back then, this should be out anthem

[@Cam-2005]

Good translation

[@sistersamich2075]

✨my ace anthem✨

[@Amur7igr0]

Put this at 1.25x and its better

[@belladonnamustdie]

Maung Soe try 1.5x

[@sandhyaahuja1167]

2.0x is much better😎

[@aaronfielding5814]

Maung Soe I absolutely agree

[@Em-zo8sn]

Wow ya'll are doing that? I be doin' It at 2x

[@andymandyshandy]

@@belladonnamustdie sounds like high school musical song

[@anagarnica1381]

This will be my song for next year's valentine's. I HATE LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ronnieloveshorror]

time to play this on repeat bc i connect with it on a personal scale

[@aaryank9268]

This song is giving Heartstopper, specifically Tao Xu tbh

[@obvnotyourniece9484]

Not me playing this on valentine's day❤️

[@akiiyumii6470]

I'm not aro/ace (I don't think so) but I'm well aware that if I ever fall in love it's not gonna work out so why bother hurting myself and thinking about others when I can just be single and read romance stories to escape reality xb Or maybe true love does exist but I'm dumb bcuz never been in love 💀

[@shroom5485]

As an aromantic, i can relate

[@Starz_boy234]

I’ve so happy there’s a song that explains exactly how I feel❤😭

[@zoeyjensen4910]

My song for Valentine's day

[@freakazoid3535]

me too

[@ninagingrich2992]

So anyone come here from heartstoppers

[@ThirteensHologram]

I'm so happy they used this song for Isaac

[@cheroz]

yess just finished that ep!

[@mabel..shortss]

ofcc

[@Whoos_chely]

I really agree with the lyrics of this song, I love itttt

[@moonbowcraze1632]

I found this looking in aroace stuff and it's way better than I thought it would be.

[@Luiza-sf1hs]

Man, I'm sooo glad edits are showing me those beautiful musics (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤

[@gabrielle69420]

Ladies, gentlemen, and nonbinary folks... WELCOME TO OUR AROACE ANTHEM!!!

[@penname-artist4537]

Me getting a dating site ad before the video: help???

[@khaderbashamohamed8868]

AHHHHHH!!!!!This looks so aesthetic!!!!Yayyyyyy!Loving this lyric video,please keep up the good work

[@viviennas]

Who else is in love with Conan and his aesthetic?

[@user-oe4mt1zv9f]

All these kids in my school wants to be in relationship so bad or at least crushing on each other and im in disgust

[@zarico6157]

I can’t really relate, cause yknow,, I’ve never been crushed on (to my knowledge at least) but I still absolutely adore this song ^v^

[@yuna1578]

aroace anthem idc i love this im aroace

[@roselina7519]

Listening this on December 23rd 2019 a literal year after it was posted lol

[@Kaz_Wonders]

Me too 😊

[@nathanielcooper4288]

Im listening on the 24th tho 😶

[@Kaz_Wonders]

@@nathanielcooper4288 it's been on repeat for abit now for me 😂

[@Kaz_Wonders]

@timaxx I kinda forgot about that.. oops.. thank you ^3^

[@liltomboy2593]

I'm nominating this as a aromantic anthem 🙌🙌🙌

[@Puppet_123]

Valentines❌ Crush culture day✅

[@kittykitty2729]

Shout out to all my Aroaces and Single pringles!