He Wasn't Scared! ✂️

[@Mroot.]

I love how real and open and honest that you guys are! It’s just so nice to see you guys be open about how marriage really is and to be honest with your followers about life and how hard it can be sometimes!

[@kathleennicole3891]

These vlogs have become on of my favorite things. To see the real side of y’all. The open and honesty has really showed me a lot more on life.

[@MyBeautifulChaos620]

FINALLY got my husband to take the love language quiz. I took mine about a year ago just to see, but we never talked about it. It made so much sense! He's always praising me and telling me how amazing of a mom and wife I am or when I do a good job. It's because his love language is words of affirmations, which I've been horrible at. Mine is physical touch so I always showed I loved him by hugging or kissing him randomly. We've already made adjustments and I'm excited to strengthen our marriage even more. Thank you for your encouraging talks!

[@magtom9781]

Those kiddos are adorable and Brooks is talking so much and Gaines is so smart!!!!!❤️💗❤️💗❤️💗❤️💗❤️💗❤️💗❤️💗❤️❤️💗

[@cathyray3861]

NO marriage is full of bliss and a lush bed of roses no matter what love language, therapy etc. that a couple does .If one tells you this they are lying ! It's hard as hell as Cullen stated and has to be constantly tended too . Especially when both partners are equally headstrong . Always a work in progress !!

[@SympleMynd]

That shoe saleslady is awesome. Obviously loves kids.

[@CullenandKatie]

Seriously the best in town!

[@kpowe65]

Marriage takes work. My husband and I just had our 20 year anniversary and we have some issues that you have said in the vlogs. I am a touchy kind of gal and he is not. I tell him all the time that he talks better to the pets than me. We have the conversation all the time that "why dont you listen to me" " you have selective hearing" BUT we love each other, he is my best friend as I am his, never ever NOT talk.....silence only makes it worse. In the beginning I would not talk and he would be silent. Each on of us waiting for the other to apologize, We still argue like anyone else, but I also know what the good Lord wants...to love each other as he love us. I wouldn't want anyone to treat him badly and he would want the same for me. This is the second marriage for us both and have learned from our mistakes. Divorce isn't in the picture, ever.....our 18 yr. old looks at us as we argue and then we laugh it out....she thinks we are weird! LOL I love you both and will continue to pray for you........hugs from Texas

[@annaclairecicero6019]

I think y’all win the award for cutest kids!!!!!! Such a sweet vlog!

[@justrobin5991]

Yes !!!! Fresh snips . I love that song

[@peggybowe5556]

Praying that you 2 can keep working through things. You are such an awesome family.

[@paytonezzell]

I love that you’re honest about marital struggles! It’s so real and happens to everyone!

[@myapiea]

I thank you both for being so real and honest about your realtionship and hardships, I've had marital issues for years. It's not easy and I don't even have kids lol. much love from Canada

[@marybrewer6244]

I think in marriage it's important to choose your battles. Some arguments are completely unnecessary

[@mindyvanhorn3199]

Mary Brewer I totally agree! Sometimes its not all that important to be "right"

[@TheFamilyFromOz]

Yep but we still have them lol Cheers from family vloggers in Australia Check us out if you get the chance : )

[@brooksskll4]

In all honesty, with marriage, the struggle and work doesn't ever end. You start fresh every day. My Grannie (married for 55 years when my Grandfather died) told me on my wedding day that if we wanted to stay happily married we needed to put God first and pray together, we each needed to be determined to be peacekeepers and we each needed to be willing to give 110%. She said you'll never both be able to do that, but if you both aim for that, you can pick up the slack when the other one fails. She also told me to not let everything be about our kids all the time and to take some short weekend trips alone, just the two of us. They did this and they had 8 kids 😳. It's hard. We work hard and fight for our marriage. Some days suck, but Grannie was right. She's 98 years old and I love her dearly.

[@Annette1965]

Thank y’all for keeping it real fun us. I’ve been trying too talk with my husband but, it’s hard because he’s not much of a talker. He works hard and needs his space after work. We finally came to an agreement that Monday through Thursday, I leave him alone and the rest of the week we’ll spend quality time together. He gets so frustrated at work because he has had too train so many people that just up and quit because they can’t handle the job. When we married, I told him it was for life, I don’t believe in divorce. The judge who married us said, promise me y’all won’t be back for a divorce 😂 It will be 32 years May 23rd. We’ve had our ups and downs, communication is the thing we have a problem with. I’ve come too realize that I need too let the small stuff go. It’s not worth having an argument over. I’m happy for y’all that y’all are working on things, I totally agree it’s very hard but so worth it in the end. Love ❤️ and hugs 🤗 to y’all from Illinois 🙋🏼

[@laurabaisden5209]

Gorgeous kiddos.

[@FizzyliciousASMR]

So glad y’all brought up that you’re still working on things... I am enjoying the happy and upbeat vlogs with the good Cullen-style editing, but I had worried you might be pushing things down; so glad you aren’t, and healing will come to y’all because you’re putting in the work. My new fave thing is when Cullen puts his quote on the screen when he says something funny/strange. I always giggle at those! Also, Cullen so hilarious (even if inappropriate) at the end of the vlog. More tongues in mouths; this should help, LOL!

[@kathymatheson6543]

This is definitely your platform in using your channel for helping other families who struggles with the same issues in life. I've watched a few other vlogs and found myself asking, why would you choose to use a perfect opportunity in helping others through your success. Thank you Cullen and Katie for using this opportunity through U-tube to show the real struggles of life and sharing your story for others who to may struggle. I can only imagine how many people who have been watching your vlogs lately and have come to the conclusion that their not alone in what they are going through.

[@ketocatmom7770]

Love you guy's💗💗 continueing prayers for you guy's hope you have a wonderful weekend much love from southern Illinois!!!

[@tracybazzie9141]

Praying for you guys every day!

[@robinnelson9578]

Thank you SO much for keeping it real!! Love you guys!!!!

[@TeamTimmons]

Seeing Cullen playing with Katie's hair at the end of the video was the sweetest thing ever. 😍

[@rebekahburns4502]

Your kids are so beautiful and sweet! I love watching your videos! Thanks for posting daily! 😀

[@brittanyrmc96]

Y’all are seriously my favorite youtubers. So real, so genuine, and just such a fun family. Regardless of the ups and downs, I’ve never missed a vlog and have never seen one that hasn’t made me smile. I just about died when he said “Can I just stick my tongue in your mouth?” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@clarissahehman5909]

I love Jordan and Bubba Page!! I loved those videos so much. We are doing budget boot camp now also.

[@annefreed]

Looked like a fun day! We’re rooting for y’all. We’re almost 32 years into our marriage and five kids later ( three biological and two adopted from China) and we still are working things out. BTW the kids are all grown!

[@clairepaquette5676]

You guys are sooo cute and I believe with all my heart that you guys are going to be alright the fact that you are both trying to make things work. HUGS

[@marjanf56]

DAD LOOKS SO PROUD.. THE LITTLE MAN IS GROWING UP.. im glad you left gaines hair long .. she has gorgeous hair

[@G4RA]

That clip from the music video was the best! I love when Cullen say spontaneous things like the kiss cause she acts like is inappropriate but she likes him with his craziness and all...

[@Autmazing]

Brooks did such a good job getting his hair cut! What big kid!

[@patriciagelenaw6235]

Progress NOT perfection! !!!!😝😝😝 I know you're human. Your blood is red just like mine, you put your shoes on one shoe at a time, just like me, and you have DAILY struggles, JUST LIKE ME!!! These videos help me and in sure making the videos help you. One day at a time ya'll!!

[@marissarock7632]

Awww love cutting kids hair , been doing it for over 17 years . Hairstylist love ❤️

[@TLifeDailyVlogs]

Our son, Talon, always screames when getting a hair cut and his finger nails cut but when I was there comforting him, he was relaxed. :)

[@nellieleigh228]

I was wondering how you guys were doing...love that Cullen was playing with Katie’s hair at the end! You guys it’s worth fighting for. Wish I had fought harder on my marriage!

[@meganmoore9445]

I love how honest you all are being. If you haven’t seen them, check out the movies “Fireproof” and “War Room” They have been helpful to us.

[@kraftingwithkizzie833]

Ganes u smile just like your mom. 😊

[@julieannjensenwhitesell1106]

Just started watching ! Your kids are BEAUTIFUL..My husband and I have been married 41 years. It's not all rainbows and roses. Love this Man more than I can put in words. But ... JUST today I had to say what is your problem today. He said I'm sorry !!! Thank heavens for meds!

[@tonibrown7000]

I just really love you guys! That’s all I wanted to say!!!!

[@aliyahburnette8231]

Brooks is so sweet 😍😍😍😍

[@marynesaldeahernandez3278]

Love Your Family

[@Jimalene]

Brooks is really cute

[@Allyson-xb3nx]

Y'all are so amazing. Thank you for being so real and honest.💙💚

[@emmyssimplelife7882]

Only liked this video for Gaines’ “don’t forget to like and subscribe”. That was too cute!

[@Patty-jj4en]

No marriage is perfect! Just go on it will get better. Don’t give up on each other. I’m 49 years experienced!

[@MsCandidLife]

Marriage is work and marriage is hard. It's just like family though your wife and your husband love you hard, but they also know how to hurt you hard as well. You really need to stop and think before you say anything because it can't be taken back and it will be remembered forever.

[@marjanf56]

omg those big boy sunday shoes are just adorable

[@katiefountain5607]

The cowlick on Brooks... part his hair the other way. Try that. My hairdresser told me that with my son and it was GENIUS!!

[@muffin2u63]

As a woman has been through a divorce, think about if you were alone. The first Christmas was the hardest for me. I bought my son soooo much stuff because I wanted to keep his mind off things. It just wasn't the same as if you were a family. I'm glad ya'll are working through things. Everybody has marriage issues, it's normal. How you get through it is the thing. Love ya'll !

[@nancypeteja6560]

Sometimes you have to decide if what you are angry about is really worth arguing about. Is it really worth it?? That is what I had to do. I was frustrating MYSELF because I realized it was ME...I had to decide for MYSELF to not get frustrated over little ,stupid things that are all meaningless in the end. Keep working on it and remember: COMMUNICATION is the key!!!! 💖💕💖💓💖

[@jennywinget1144]

You have to pick your battles. Don't sweat the small stuff either. You are going to make it. Just one day at a time.

[@mindyvanhorn3199]

Nancy Peteja Amen, good point!

[@lindseyhenry4059]

I agree with your thoughts Nancy Peteja!

[@triciamcdowell8973]

Nancy Peteja great advice, the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venice really helped me understand how my husband thought. It’s very different from us. A lot of times it’s unmet expectations in a marriage that cause it to fail , and like you said is it really worth fighting over ???? Lol

[@jessicahamel1970]

you guys have helped me and my significant other so much with the 5 love languages thing.. we took the quiz and its so life changing. you really see the stuff you may of not seen before.. and now knowing its cool that we can pin point the things we need to work on now. ❤️

[@aracelipolendosandoval6767]

I appreciate you guys keeping it real. I have made it a point to not argue with my husband in front of the kids. I'm sure when they go back and watch these videos (as teenagers) it will help them remember the good times. love you guys and still praying for y'all.

[@heidiholom8086]

Love brooks & Gaines haircuts!

[@thekgaming9899]

Brooks was so cute when he got his hair cut

[@sarahcarroll388]

Yess with the fresh snips throwback!

[@LauraWez]

Gaines 😂😂

[@oliviak.666]

I took the 5 Love Languages quiz yesterday. I'm single, but I shared it with my best friend, sister, and mom. It's so great to improve all of the relationships in our lives! Its so helpful to better understand the people that we love! I told my sister that I would spend more quality time with her, and she said "I'll make sure to affirm you more" lol!

[@christinebrown7666]

hi guys love the videos you have two very cute kids enjoy them they grow up so quick

[@laurenellis5807]

The FreshSnips song during Brooks haircut was awesome......it kinda felt like a full circle moment

[@terrydominguez4405]

You guys look like your Navigating all this family stuff pretty good...It takes time ...Hopefully all will turn out Great

[@heatherpieper3417]

Married is an on going always evolving thing!

[@breannakevan9195]

Gaines is too cute!!! And getting some little "guns" on her arms from gymnastics.

[@margaretpervier8357]

Brook’s haircut looks great!

[@jathansmom1]

I have been married for almost 18 years. There are days I look at my husband and think why are we still together. We have 2 boys that are the center for us and sometimes that is why we are together and other days why I don’t want to be together. But we always I mean always just talk before we go to sleep. We lay in bed and talk about the day the good parts and the bad parts. My husband has this bad habit of walking away while I am talking to him and he always says but I’m listening. If he was I would have my dream car about 50 pairs of huge diamond earrings and so much more. But when I started the I don’t care if your made we are going to talk after we lay down but before we sleep true talk so many things changed. We don’t allow day to get away without connecting even if we are not happy with each other and we do go to bed mad at each other we talk we may still be mad but we have made sure the other person knows what the issue is and we go to sleep holding hands even if we are mad. That has made a big difference for us and the fact we made a promise to each other and we both refuse to break the promise. I don’t always love my husband some days we are just friends and some days we are just parents to our boys but I won’t give up on us and neither will he. I hope you get over the bump in your road together because I think you finish each other in such a great way

[@SnapesPrincess4]

I am loving Brooks' hair cut!! He looks so freaking adorable!! 😍😍 I am definitely happy to hear an update!! Glad you guys are doing well. Still thinking of you and sending prayers.

[@jessiecullen9095]

I love it, little Mary Jane's. So cute Gaines

[@kayla-fm1od]

My son's barber loves him! He always gets excited when we go see him and tells us he is the best kid that has ever came into his barber shop. He is super chill, sometimes he falls asleep lol. It's good when kids do great at places like the barber, dentist etc. Good job Brooks! He is getting so big!! Wasn't he just born lol

[@shelby81496]

Brooks looks so handsome with his haircut!! And Gaines looks beautiful!! No surprise there though! 💙💜

[@korriekearns4584]

Wow, shoe stores like that are few and far between these days.

[@alyssawynn4007]

When I clicked on the video I thought of fresh snips and a full tank of gas and when I heard it I started laughing 😂

[@sethmegandoran2561]

Love watching your vlogs! Highlight of my day -Megan

[@triciamcdowell8973]

Wow I can relate to you guys. No one ever tells you marriage is work. I’ve been married for 35 years and I still get frustrated, mad at my hubby but I choose to forgive and get over it and move on. It does take two but it is a lot of work that both partners have to be willing to make. Love you guys

[@25803]

Love you guys

[@joannap3478]

Brooks is so tall!

[@tubeofyouemily]

I hope y’all went to Savages!!! I can’t wait to get my kids first shoes at Sikes! I live in Charleston now but my whole family lives in the ham. Love watching y’all bc it’s always a little piece of home.

[@aradhanakhameraj5291]

Ya people..... don’t forget to like and subscribe! 😂😂

[@horsekrazy450]

I can relate so much to you guys in this season of life. Listening, in my head I was think yess!! So much yes! This is my life! Lol 😂

[@erosario1974]

I like that you help each other’ and that what you have to do . Yup that’s right we all argue but remember we are not prefect marriage is never perfect we all have ups and down . No it will take time and work . God bless I love your family . 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@BigMoneysLife]

Brooks' haircut looked ADORABLE! What was that face Cullen was making after y'all came home from getting yogurt? LOL!

[@macprincess2]

The "I have to use the potty face" LOL!!!!

[@jennym5015]

Thanks for reminding me Gains sometimes I forget. I love Brooks Sunday shoes and regular play shoes and Gains I love little boy shoes with straps. Honestly it’s normal for married people to argue if married people say they don’t argue they lie. Everybody has struggles either with depression or what ever it is. Love you guys.

[@janetgray719]

We all have struggles and argue at different timesabout different stuff. You guys, you are normal. Yes, it is does suck at times, but you kiss and make up. As long as you never go to bed without apologizing and saying you are sorry. My Mom said you never go to bed angry. It doesn't help your marriage to let things fester. I think she was right. Hang in there, it will level out.

[@misaki52008]

So cute haircut on Brooks

[@wheelerbeauty84]

Yess! Fresh Snips!!! I bought it so I listen to it every single day!!! LOVE IT!!!

[@audreywildrick6102]

He is so cute

[@mdavis353]

Have you read sacred marriage by Gary Thomas? Literally changed my life as a wife. Super good read. Marriage is like a mirror to all of your flaws as a human. It’s work all the time.

[@sschackmann]

Love Funcheaporfree! Those videos were great! My little guy has a cow lick right in front too! I have no idea what to do with it! Lol! Love the fish tank!

[@kaileecory2864]

Sarah Schackmann what is funcheaporfree, is it on KZbin or where can you find it? Thank you.

[@sschackmann]

Kailee Reimer yes she is on youtube.

[@teresamartin6975]

Still continuing to pray for you guys.

[@glendajennens9551]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@BarbaraBoronda]

love your family you all are so cute

[@sabby7]

Heard you mentions Locks of Love. I personally don’t recommend using that charity. Check out Wigs for Kids in Ohio or Pantene Beautiful Lengths in Michigan for future hair donations. ❤️❤️ Brooks looking like a dapper dan man

[@labaker345]

Sabrina A i agree.locks of love makes cancef patients pay for their wigs

[@sabby7]

Julie Jules - Who? Katie? I don’t necessarily believe so. There needs to be a certain length to donate and she probably wants to wait until she can donate more and be able to have a cute hair cut.

[@Brewer8481]

Bacon!! I love it 🥓🥓

[@jrsmommi10]

Brooks looks so much like grand doc

[@marykay4667]

jrsmommi10 his twin for sure 😊

[@sajelspeyrer6488]

So funny I just saw a friend of mine in your video! Also, Jordan And Bubba Page’s video were amazing!

[@mckenleypearson6261]

The fresh snips song made me miss the dbejck (aka the best youtuber family treo). P.S. keep y'all in my prayers

[@trishlawrence396]

Have y’all ever done the study “Love and Respect?” My husband and I did it and we need to do it again, but it’s really good. Similar thoughts to the 5 love languages, but a more male vs female focus

[@ashleyhaskins8618]

Love the vlog

[@AllyCarts]

Haha I’m pretty sure Gaines forgot what we weren’t supposed to forget and she improvised on the spot xD

[@jpcor45]

Brooks and gains are getting so big

[@heatherhunt2982]

Omg I wanna be little again just so I can sport those adorable shoes!

[@melissaharding8407]

Brooks is ssssooo cute..

[@madusanumberonefan1447]

wow he was so brave