I love the ✂️ emoji, yet that's as serious as a heart attack. Yep, one day, they just snip themselves one too many times and they need to be cut out the rest of the way by us
@candyosborne2142 жыл бұрын
You are so right! You should not call them out because they love to argue, deny, gaslight, blame, accuse & turn the whole thing around on you & use things you opened up to them about as ammunition. Better to just walk away- in peace. There is no peace with them. And no end to the arguments.
@karabrodsky28522 жыл бұрын
Setting a boundary can mean cutting someone out of your life. You can cut anyone out of your life. It can be a family member, a friend or whoever.
@elanahammer10762 жыл бұрын
When someone disrespects you, slanders your name, tells lies in an effort to manipulate others. Never feel like you have to explain yourself for cutting the toxic person or people out of your life. I had to do it. This is necessary so you keep your boundaries. Someone who behaves like I mentioned is not company that I value. Self respect is a value. My dad when he was alive would say sh-t on me once, shame on you. Sh-t on me twice shame on me. Their behaviors will repeat. Best to walk away and you do not have to explain yourself. 🤔❤️🇺🇸
@psychoholiday-ju1cp Жыл бұрын
"Once shame on you, twice shame on me" became an adage that I used at myself as a warning not to keep continuing on in any way shape or form. I could never quite catch them on the active doing slander but became obvious what I compared notes of what they said and what my parents said at the same time even though I lived 2300 miles away from my parents for decades. Like they say in the end of the movie 'War Games', "THE ONLY WINNING MOVE IS NOT TO PLAY (THEIR GAME!)": kzbin.info/www/bejne/hHm6m595lq6lh9E
@elanahammer1076 Жыл бұрын
@@psychoholiday-ju1cp Exactly. If it were me I would not defend or engage. Just walk away they won’t change.🤔❤🇺🇸
@daynesmith52814 ай бұрын
Definitely true I study toxic patterns
@thegeminiclub2 жыл бұрын
Nah. I cut them off but, because they’re getting exposed or things aren’t working out for them they still watch me and thought that trying to steal my clothes was going to embarrass or humiliate me 🤣 I don’t have time to argue with peasants or to defend myself against every single lie because they get crazier and crazier
@kathiebuckner8602 жыл бұрын
Sometimes were raised in extremely narcissistic families. And can get caught up in their webs as adult's as well..unfortunately they are and always will be a familiar spirit. Even though we know the balance is off. We hold answers and are THE solution for them. Known fact...And often times believe that we can tolerate sertain things. But inevetably can not🦋
@LethalHope2 жыл бұрын
And being born in family full of Demons, you could have easily been a Demon yourself, but you broke the chains, now you are breaking generational curses, but beware the Demons will hunt you, so listen to Terry Joel and cut them off straight away without warning, and hey stay beautiful 🙌🙏💚💚💚
@kathiebuckner8602 жыл бұрын
@@LethalHope ❤️💋
@psychoholiday-ju1cp Жыл бұрын
CALLER BLOCK against so-called family became my best friend even though I moved 2,300 miles away (for decades already) from my family of origin that I thought I had a great relationship until I realized it was NEVER RIGHT all along later on. Signing off, a 49-year old guy (I was so sick of the double standards and slander too--I just never admitted it to myself until my mid-forties until they came out of their closet of hate at me officially in a vicious smear campaign for disagreeing about decision that was not theirs to)
@blankblank46422 жыл бұрын
A wise head on young shoulders, well done from sunny England.
@leeleslie55182 жыл бұрын
Knowing the differences between who to cut ✂️ff & be patient with....is everything within me. Energy don't lie only ppl do.💯
@marquiswilliams1502 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@fightingwarrior58932 жыл бұрын
Something very important you must do for your peace of mind and your future.
@angelcontreras39562 жыл бұрын
It’s like cutting people off is my new favorite past time
@AbsoluteMdot2 жыл бұрын
I had to do this with a few ''friends'' that turned out to be Narcissist. These demons know exactly what they are doing. Cut them off no explanation needed.
@kisigma10112 жыл бұрын
Yup 💯
@bw52772 күн бұрын
yeah trying to explain is pointless...
@gavinspeaks2 жыл бұрын
Detach from the outcome, let it go. You are always manifesting something, even if you’re manifesting things not manifesting. Trust the process. ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction KZbinr💜
@Real2k252 жыл бұрын
My cousins stabbed me in the back i feel like tupac its me against the world
@chanettelaing46642 жыл бұрын
💯
@victoriasrandomthoughts86982 жыл бұрын
Just did that with a couple of people that tried to possibly put me in danger.
@karabrodsky28522 жыл бұрын
Yes, same.
@trentmitchell58052 жыл бұрын
I live alone sleep alone eat alone walk alone. It's Just me and God and that's all I need.
@dubes55942 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 25:24. 'Its better to live alone on the corner of a rooftop than to live in a house with a quarrelsome woman ' ☠
@recordio60002 жыл бұрын
Can we just agree having 3 maybe 5 friends and loving just about everything in your life to going to something like this is just insane
@Real2k252 жыл бұрын
Worse people on earth are 2 faced
@Real2k252 жыл бұрын
@Child of Christ for sure
@WildStyleStayWild2 жыл бұрын
Life is too short. Best thing to do is to move on fast 💨
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan2 жыл бұрын
Move move and move faster ! They are emotionally damaged girls , damaged really !
@dl50142 жыл бұрын
I have a question bro. Ive allways been the type that never wanted much out of life other than being happy. I'm usually happy even when I'm at a low level in life. I'm not super motivated but I'm content & I dont judge & am happy for ppl that surpass me & get what they want. I simply dont care about anyone surpassing me aslong as I have what I need to sustain myself & Nobody holding me back..i believe ppls success is non of my business. Whats crazy is that throughout life my "friends" & aquaintances have hated on me & begrudged me for no reason. Maybe they saw my contentment as weakness or whatever but I think they were mad that I was rich in happiness with nothing to prove & they were miserable striving for status & money. What do you think the reason that even though they surpassed me in status, money, strength & sometimes looks, they still where jeasulous of my humble job & possessions?...could it be that narcs crave to be comfortable & content but can never achieve it? I'm confused on how u can hate a person that doesnt judge or compete with you 😆
@amandam41482 жыл бұрын
Some people are so poor, all they have is money!
@PredatorquestTV2 жыл бұрын
They cannot stand your positive energy. I’m always smiling, happy as well and my energy is always upbeat and positive as well. The devil wants to bring you down. Demonic entities within people want to tear that smile off of your face. By you being happy, smiling, happy for others success, the demons within people want to bring you down to their level so that they can try to control your emotions. The devil wants to steal, kill and destroy. They know that you are of God and they hate it. My $.02
@cogyoutube Жыл бұрын
This is how messed up these people are. They envy your innocence. We will win in the end don’t even worry.
@lorraine47552 жыл бұрын
Disrespect and playing games don't put up with it.
@XIL3132 жыл бұрын
Recently cut a coworker off. Dude was crying LITERALLY crying at work today because of it. I know exactly what you saying man! No explanation needed
@lindatallon92176 ай бұрын
Talented..gifted people are attacked the most
@godsnobody29152 жыл бұрын
Your approach when it comes to ladies is spot on Terry. As soon as you see that they are unable to work with a guy, run and run fast...unable to receive is always best believed...👍
@bruceahamnos7542 жыл бұрын
They are Cut brother trust me thank you again mate
@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure2 жыл бұрын
Some people are victims of circumstance. There are soul ties that can lead to people being victim of circumstance. Some people choose people who didn't choose them. Victim of circumstance and not so good families.
@kisigma10112 жыл бұрын
Choosen and not Choosen is a risk it all comes down to intuition and how well establish that person is from the inside out
@lorich.72 жыл бұрын
STR8 facts ‼️ Blessings to you Terry 🙏🏾
@Real2k252 жыл бұрын
All i know is my cousins stabbed me in the back for racks aint no they heart had a price
@cynthiamiller19832 жыл бұрын
I did this the 1st of May to the narc. NO WARNING just thanks, bye. No more bs. Your right, a big waste of life, time with them.
@PaKiKiNg9082 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much God for sending me this way to learn from a Man’s Man, an amazing person. Thank you!
@totalsweetheart47362 жыл бұрын
They r just mad I’m alive well I dunno wtf to tell um so I got this to say nothin
@dionnejordan35882 жыл бұрын
I have some almost 3 years later and they can’t let it go
@smd42462 жыл бұрын
It comes full circle, it’s actually funny to me at this point
@WoziduranJahemter2 жыл бұрын
Strongly agreed! Work ethics and character ftw, few people have balance. The many are going on easy-way egoistic impulses for some wants and desires they didn't earned.
@beehappy32092 жыл бұрын
I didn't want to cut them off - because I thought they would become better people - even towards me. So all these years I thought it could/would heal it only just got worse. I now feel lost because they are all the same- they use the same excuses which I debunked - they have cut me off thinking I would just disappear- NO CHANCE. I want to know why they have become the person/s they are. I get no answer 🤷♂️
@TheeDuhscientist2 жыл бұрын
I feel you on that one💯
@beehappy32092 жыл бұрын
@@TheeDuhscientist have to be lol 👍
@WildStyleStayWild2 жыл бұрын
It’s nuts how funny you are! I am laughing hard 😂 over the toxic waste of space epic rant! 🤣 I guess it’s because your not joking 🙃 I get that! Not gonna lie. Probably a Gemini ♊️ on fire 🔥 thing! 👑✌️
@kenthachosen60522 жыл бұрын
I Cut people off left to right.. My discernment is high 💯🙏🏾
@kisigma10112 жыл бұрын
Facts
@flyphoenixx2 жыл бұрын
if theres a problem yo i solve it check out the hook while my dj revolves it,,, thanks tel for your work man
@FirstLadyCPA2 жыл бұрын
Angel face with a devil heart 🖤 The LIES, cheating, calculated backstabbing betrayals got the job done for me. “You not on my level son” duces ✌️Another great video Terry ☀️🌈❤️🌷🐝🦋
@maddyblackier89532 жыл бұрын
I like the part where you say" you need to sit your ass down and shut up...but no you can't do that" hahahahaha 😂😂😂 that's awesome...I immediately picture actual faces.... like 98% of females in their emotions literally cannot do that...I know this to be the absolute truth . Good video.
@bernadette5732 жыл бұрын
I agree. My brother fell for a turdlike female in his teens, and his entire life has been a horror show of tolerating abuse, even his kids don't speak to him. She had the religious crap down, his job was to turn the other cheek until he spun. As a kid he was an abusive jerk sometimes and ok other times, but I never regretted letting the relationship go. She was slapping my sister across the face before he even married her. She was always so full of drama.
@trentmitchell58052 жыл бұрын
People's action's speak louder than words. To them words mean nothing,just cheap mumbo jumbo
@thomasbutler48552 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I just had to do this. I have much more experience now than I used to have. I can see where things are headed from miles away. Thank you Jesus for making me a more wiser man than I used to be. Thanks.
@jennydoucette25382 жыл бұрын
all the toxic, nasty people that i gave time and energy to were simply not worth it...i did them no favors keeping them around---i was in fact enabling these mfs. it probably has taken 10 yrs off my life. chills.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan2 жыл бұрын
Of course , no bargain . When I feel weird vibes from men and women , immediately cut off . They are just out laws . Protect myself and parents at all cost
@MichaelhuntersАй бұрын
Imagine ruining a good person 😊
@rapstar45759 ай бұрын
A girl I graduated with. She's a narc. She asked me to drive her to meet up to go on a date with another man. I said no and blocked her. She's literally insane and I think she's hooking to pay her rent.
@marlynbonilla46022 жыл бұрын
Terry whoot whooootttt
@Happy-Me.11 ай бұрын
Calling out both my BPD exes after I left them gave me great peace!
@kaym.h.35832 жыл бұрын
☝️ yes- gotta do your homework definitely
@tinaanastasia59502 жыл бұрын
A alcoholic ex friend had audacity to say something that was completely ignorant and false and also meddles in my private life about my ex guy. Idk who she thinks she is. She's so nosy. I did point out things to her and was assertive. No more chances in that fship anymore chances. Thanks Terry for the powerful message.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan2 жыл бұрын
I do not accept alcoholic girlfriends , never ! How a clean man with rich family can allow these girls who only know use alcohol to solve problems get in ! Protect my finance at all cost
@markusvoigt96492 жыл бұрын
they know but the are bound to these people emotionally from the traumatic burden someone inflicted on them
@sylviamjames2 жыл бұрын
All I know is .. from my experience and I have a lot of it.
@ThruTheMatrix2 жыл бұрын
Mother is one of these. Very hard to cut her off as she's got a web of people at her fingertips."Don't waste your time and call them out because they will bullshit their way out of it". Yep - that's my mother and the toughest part is her mob of people behind her. I relayed all the conversations I'd have with her and realized "There is no 'winning' with this women - she will talk her way out of everything". Yep, so not worth the energy - you just leave these people behind.
@rosavance94462 жыл бұрын
I smell confidence 🤣 that I'll get over them
@dionnejordan35882 жыл бұрын
It’s a lose lose situation because I’m cut and dry. When I tell them exactly why they still go run and paint a different version to hide their truth and attack you based on that lie. When you peacefully cut them off they still go lie on you. You really have to let people do whatever it is they are going to do and MOVE ON
@ezocazimz64282 жыл бұрын
jr's home 🙏
@wheneaglesfly48172 жыл бұрын
☘🍀🍀💯🎯
@Moonlight.Melon.Mounter Жыл бұрын
Where were you on June 6th? Lmqo
@blakelywarfield96932 жыл бұрын
I'm most definitely ready to move onto the next phase of my LIFE! I should have already done that but you know...S#it happens. Just glad that my support team had my back to help me sort this situation out. I just thank the Lord that's some great Americans take their job very seriously and do their due diligence and take the things taking time to find out the truth. Actuality all they had to do was ask me, I would have told them, but I'm kind of in a situation where I can truly trust anyone. One whiff of deceit, you lost me
@blakelywarfield96932 жыл бұрын
I want the hell out of here I love my family always have and always will but I will not be treated as a burdened, I am the blessing. If you couldn't see that then, you won't ever see it again
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan2 жыл бұрын
They gone to eternal sky where I will never see .
@brendaleverick36552 жыл бұрын
I don't claim to be a prize, but I still don't like chasing after men I like. I figure that if they like me at all, they will call me or want to chase after me. My high school boyfriend pursued me with a vengeance, even though I wasn't the prettiest girl in high school. He did that cause he knew I was on his level. He was smarter than me. I dumped him for a guy that was above me who stupidly asked me to marry him. I never should have been with him. No, I belonged with my high school boyfriend. Because my husband quickly tired of me and started cheating; cause I wasn't on his level. But, I learned that by not pursuing men, really, that I'd wind up with the men I DO belong with.
@sylviamjames2 жыл бұрын
Interesting 🤔
@TheeDuhscientist2 жыл бұрын
✍🏾
@ll_Scholastica_ll2 жыл бұрын
16:16 😅😂 16:30 💯✨🙏
@paranxietyoia5872 жыл бұрын
You're got damnn right!
@gitodo26922 жыл бұрын
#STOPSIMPING
@hth542 жыл бұрын
All facts again.
@karenstafford64562 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure2 жыл бұрын
There are people who were born into the mafia they didn't ask to be but they were.. People use to think Italians were horrible people, but the reality is you may be born to people you didn't choose and it can affect your life. I'm still alive that matters to me. Again some people are victim of circumstance.
@sallyg45442 жыл бұрын
Are you saying you are willing to overlook someone disrespecting you and abusing you because it’s all they ever experienced in life and it’s all they know?
@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure2 жыл бұрын
@@sallyg4544 my comment post has been edited so you can reread it
@sallyg45442 жыл бұрын
@@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure I’m sorry. :( I’m not sure. Yes some people are victims of circumstances. The world is not perfect and people even less so. Are you saying that even people, such as yourself, who may have been born in unfortunate situations even toxic, can survive and choose a different path?
@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure2 жыл бұрын
@@sallyg4544 it's possible, there are success stories out there.
@sallyg45442 жыл бұрын
@@MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure Thank you for explaining.
@JZMe22 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being amazing
@ghostghost2662 жыл бұрын
Being an empath is truly difficult because I am a life path 11 libra.I know I attract narcissists like bees are attracted to honey.Also i read people and energies almost on auto pilot.Even when I’m not trying to its almost like a ability I can’t control.I look at it like a gift.Being the light in every room I go into people notice right away but im learning to be selective with my energy and who to keep around me,You’d be surprised who doesn’t like the chosen ones for whatever reason,Im also learning that Even if your the nicest person ever they Still won’t like you.What they don’t know is you could be the person to change their lives in a better way and they wouldn’t even have a clue.Its best to let people show you who they truly are before considering giving advice, insight or help.#STAYLOWKEY
@totalsweetheart47362 жыл бұрын
😂🤣true too f bad I called um all out n I dgaf ….😂🤣they deserve it and true … I want no part of any of it I didn’t do s it was out of love n then turned into f disaster waste of time lesson learned
@jackmighty29622 жыл бұрын
Amen that grasshopper 😎thank you for carrying the message 🙏🪶
@epouranios35532 жыл бұрын
Call em out and if you have to kick em in the face and pop smoke 😆
@rosavance94462 жыл бұрын
Saint Bernard maybe 🤔 😂😂😆😆
@trentmitchell58052 жыл бұрын
How very true.
@unamusedcadence2 жыл бұрын
💯🔥💯🔥
@jameswells98222 жыл бұрын
👍🏾
@vickipacheco97872 жыл бұрын
Thank You Terri. Truth Prevails.
@rosavance94462 жыл бұрын
Stop using my data you user
@WildStyleStayWild2 жыл бұрын
Female wrestling 🤼♀️ is not very lady like 👍 but hilarious 🤣 to watch! I only just discovered it. 🧚♂️🫧🍀👑