Cyn - I’ll Still Have Me

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[@imnobody3235]

"Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being."

[@nehar.7953]

Couldn't agree more.

[@nehar.7953]

Ps- it's one of my favourite song.

[@imnobody3235]

💞

[@invictusrockefeller8407]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/laK3o2SVi6aGg9k

[@filipzagawa]

Sadly, people don't realize that and they just broke other's hearts

[@saltyshimakei4155]

This song is both self-empowering and sad and I am not sure how exactly I am supposed to feel about it.

[@sadboi3119]

same

[@JessThatsIt]

You can be sad and empowered at the same time!

[@vonnytsamara9208]

I feel it tho, can relate :')

[@lorsange1107]

Both.

[@fiza5275]

Okay but does anyone notice how she teared up at the very end??

[@terristockburger8648]

I'm bawling my eyes out during this song. I'm a 30-something year old person who just started working in a Senior Care Community as a caregiver. All the elderly residences are so sweet. On my third shift, an elderly gentlemen who liked to joke around with me told me he was off to visit his wife at another building. She was suffering with Alzheimer's and they haven't seen each other since before christmas because of Covid. He was so excited. Then when I came back, I asked how it went, and while helping him get ready for bed, he couldn't keep his brave face on anymore. He broke down crying saying 'She just smiled at me.'. She didn't remember who he was. He went on talking about how he loved her, she was his life, if she left he wanted to go too all while crying. I couldn't help but tear up and hold him. I can't imagine being elderly, and many of my friends, family, pets, places, associates, all slowly disappearing from me. ...idk, just wanted to say that. Please treat everyone with respect, because we are all hurting and many feel so lonely, but there are those out there who are willing to talk to you and understand.

[@pattiallen3741]

Beautiful! Stay strong beautiful soul

[@StewNWT]

Thank you for this beautiful comment. I'm a doctor who works in palliative care and I see and feel this all the time.

[@perfectlyimperfectmae6137]

and now I'm crying with this... 😭❤️

[@auntynoa1702]

I am very sure this is not just a job to you.. Thank you for being his listening ear. You are really kind.

[@Atr42Greasemonkey]

God love him poor thing. I also worked in a nursing home for for a few years. The residents have amazing stories both sad and good.

[@jennapolignone7205]

My grandparents are in this!! The first couple interviewd that’s them they are the best :)

[@pierrebalandras6320]

oh wow !!!!

[@pierrebalandras6320]

what did they think about the making of the video, and about the song ?

[@afridatasnimchowdhury2285]

They are sooo adorable!! 💕

[@MamaChar]

They are beautiful!! It was a pleasure working with them! Please give my regards!! ✌️💃🎶

[@MamaChar]

@@pierrebalandras6320 I am the solo dancer in this video (mamacharblessed) and we enjoyed filming this video very much. As seniors, who have loved and lost, it was a perfect song for each of us! Thanks for listening and commenting! ✌️🎶💃

[@JulianaMarcelinobaus]

When my grandpa died we were so scared that it would kill my grandma. They were married for over 60 years. They had 3 beautiful daughters and tons of grandchildren. They travelled the whole world many times with their van and dogs together. The goodbye was hard for all of us. But they spend their whole life with each other. Every day for this entire time. And now after his death she retain the van to travel again. To visit all the places they both liked the most. She is such a strong person and I am so proud of her for not giving up on life ♥️

[@Your_Best_Nightmare]

That's beautiful ❤️

[@1987samanthakay]

This made me cry, very beautiful...give her a hug and kiss from me :)

[@monikamylonopoyloy6223]

Such a beautiful yet heartbreaking story. Your grandparents sound to be awesome! I'm glad your grandma didn't give up despite the huge pain she must be feeling. I wish you and your family the best! Take care :)

[@Nanancay]

Your grandma sounds amazing, that's so hard to do. The person you love is gone, but very few people even want to keep going.

[@GoldenArtsOnline]

OMFG, You manage to bring tears to my eyes, the last time I felt wet in my eyes was 2013, honestly.

[@plankton383]

"Love requires the commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being" ..too deep ❤️

[@winddragonlundholm1792]

I thought that was common knowledge and that's why no one want me....

[@Schneeeulenwetter]

Omar Ilias I liked his response so much! he seemed like a very wise person!

[@met.drankje294]

Alexandra 。 whats the meaning of that?

[@gshimmer]

Omar Illias exactly wat I heard the loudest

[@sopanhaung6095]

tell me I'm not the only one who thought he was morgan freeman

[@sandipkarmacharya]

If you‘re going through Depression Abuse Heart break Or just have a bad time Remember there is somebody on this world who loves you and you make them smile.

[@AellaAstra]

So many of us abandon ourselves for those we love, then when it crumbles we’re left with that broken abandoned person. That’s what this song speaks to in me. It’s really a beautiful song.

[@fuzzy8593]

Very true, wonderful comment.

[@brittanypenney5880]

❤

[@sari5045]

I am one of these people. I tend to lose myself in relationships. The last one was really bad. I was also dealing with a narcissist though but that one damaged me so deeply. 5 years later and I’m still trying to heal. I’ve remained single. I need and want to learn how to love myself first before I can love another. I often wonder about what love used to be like back in the day…..when people stayed married and stayed together thru the ups and downs in life. That doesn’t seem to exist anymore.

[@chaotic.interference.processor]

@@sari5045 The first verse really hit me. Dealing with a narcissist is the worst. 4 years alone next week for me. After 18 years with her I was left with no friends, no self esteem, a huge empty void in my heart, and hardest of all, questions that will never be answered. Discarded with no discussion and no warning. I thought we had made it. I was so wrong. Sucker punched. I hope that love of which you speak still exists. It's probably just a little harder to find with all the noise in the world. I don't seek it. I seek my self now. Perhaps that love will find me of its own accord. Perhaps it will find you. Keep on keepin' on. You still have you. Peace.

[@sari5045]

@@chaotic.interference.processor ❤️❤️❤️ hope is a beautiful thing!

[@atlasmoreas5684]

this song made me feel sad but also calmed at the same time? Like it was saying," it's okay to be upset, I'm here. You're alright." I really like this

[@sampcdreamer2965]

i feel the same way

[@jj0511]

Same here. I couldnt really find a way to describe the feeling it gave me, but you hit the nail on the head

[@CrackaDon]

She looks like one of the digital drawings that hit the front page every day from r/art

[@mynamo12]

Badguy Birdie Yes 😂

[@NiteshKumar-ur3td]

r/ihavereddit

[@mynamo12]

Nitesh Kumar ??

[@kllause6681]

@@NiteshKumar-ur3td okay nitesh

[@adequatelytrying6568]

Oh my god perfect description

[@settledsea]

I remembered I first found this song from when I was thinking I would be single forever, and now coming back to it again for strength after losing the love of my life suddenly after a year and a half of being together. 3/18/21. He was 31 and died in his sleep. Life is so unfair. Kaitis was my everything and we thought we would be together our whole lives. Now I must live my life for us both. I love you so much honey. I will never forget you.

[@genesismedrano618]

wow your comment. I send you my comfort. You see this song from a different lens. And that lens is the lens I'd love for everyone to look through. That although the love of their lives passed away you know you still have you. The strength it took you to come back and make a comment. To share it with us. My heart. My spirit. My soul. I send it over to you. I send you over my love and comfort. You are needed. You are divine. You are a blessing to have come across.

[@anastasie5203]

I wanna cry

[@jovanguzman9834]

youre so strong.

[@MickeyValenz]

😥

[@marcelineMCID]

May he Rest In Peace 🌹 stay strong hun hope you are doing okay.

[@palithepancake2873]

“everybody knows I’m upset, they don’t even have to ask it. They know I believed in us last week” Hits different.

[@anabeatrice2743]

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[@AmroAzzouzi]

I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the ally Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me

[@karenlima4366]

Thanks!

[@anabeatrice2743]

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[@aelren]

Thank you!

[@elisavieira737]

Beautiful thanks

[@sohanprasad8989]

👍

[@patrickdaviesii4139]

Okay, but seeing the woman dancing alone amid everyone with their spouses, like. That 100% broke my heart, wtf.

[@braddavistube]

i keep wondering who that is?

[@elizabethihambo606]

It broke my heart too 😢😢

[@BleachFreak4710]

Oh, i was flat out bawling.

[@lucaswagner1933]

She is not really alone. In her thoughts, the couple are leading the dance.

[@simpsosh7648]

She's literally the message of the song. --- "If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me" She's an older woman, on her own, presumably thinking about the one she doesn't have anymore...

[@user-dk2yz8ww8k]

This lady, dancing alone, she reminded me of one very good friend of our family. She died from cancer, but there was one last party, organized for her by friends. She was already in a wheelchair, not being able to walk or even to breathe without an oxygen. But she wanted to dance and she was dancing, in the wheelchair alone. She was a great woman, very kind and very generous and smart. We were not that close, but I often remember her and miss her

[@MamaChar]

I am the solo dancer (mamacharblessed) and I am so very sorry for your loss. Your friend is dancing in Heaven!! 🎶✌️💃

[@andriaxela8690]

This comment made me cry. Thank you for remembering her that way. I'm sure she's with you still

[@DasMunk]

Even seeing this comment ahead of time while listening to the song, I stilled teared up when that lady started dancing alone. All I could do was wonder about her loves lost and life lived.

[@amit9453]

Lyrics... "I'll Still Have Me" I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the alley Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me 2:03

[@tammyrosebennettbennett5793]

Deep pain in( your) Actions against innocent. Woman love is what's harmfully. 💋

[@DeborahWalkerXOXO]

Thank you x

[@bordrline_baby]

Ty for this

[@sabinayouki7602]

3:10

[@felipeluna9597]

Thanks

[@miae.g6129]

“His name was Bruce and I just thought he was darling” honestly that was so cute, I want to know more about this women and Bruce

[@N0U6122]

Mia E.G And her voice was so quaint.

[@miae.g6129]

Jimmy Bob ik, she seems so lovely

[@SabreenRezvie]

that's my grand ma

[@haleshel2220]

Sabreen Rezvie really?

[@SabreenRezvie]

@@haleshel2220 no ;(

[@kenneth1608]

it takes a lot of untapped courage to admit to yourself that you have to choose you, and to free your heart from the burden of knowing that you were not chosen by the person you would always choose in a heartbeat is a great form of bravery- much more, to leave no grudge to the person who did not choose you, I think, is the greatest gift you can give yourself. It's hard to admit that we can not amount to the person they need but it is always necessary. There is a great relief that with everything that has been said and done, you can still find it in your heart to be yourself, to choose yourself and to love yourself.

[@fairywings4242]

Kenneth Magkasi perfectly worded

[@gabes.castro]

Thank you for that

[@elenabontia]

the way you combine your words plays on the deepest strings of my consciousness. Thank you p.s do you write?

[@chrysterkaecorreos4602]

Spot on!

[@robynnehertruth1120]

beautifully expressed - both your words and Cyn's lyrics =)

[@symasham]

I wonder if Cyn ever cried a little when singing this song.

[@sitashmathapa6942]

She told she did

[@stelabloom8847]

At the end scene it looks like she did during the video too

[@anabeatrice2743]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/naatdqV9a91papY🎶

[@ronnielyn4147]

Near end of this video, as she dropped her head. You could see tears in her eyes when she chuckled a little.

[@lenamccarthy9757]

id say so yeah girl

[@tesadityousfirey8915]

After losing my parents I've been bawling like a baby to this song, "if I don't have you at least I have me" is a healing way to think about it though

[@fauzianalwoga1002]

Sorry dear. I lost my beloved mum last year and am looking for everything to keep me strong

[@badvibezzz7394]

*”Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.”* Strongest quote I’ve ever heard.💔

[@candioree8456]

That was the one that grabbed me by the feels

[@MrNokkes]

I must requote, if you don't mind, especially these days

[@chuchugiin8390]

Yes! Agree 😁👍

[@gloriacutrer2820]

Right?! Like how fucking perfect is that!

[@A.C.71]

one of the most accurate quotes ever. right up there with Love your neighbor as you love yourself - Jesus Christ.

[@noahsannoying5319]

Wow time to cry,,, that woman dancing alone at the end got me

[@collins_chronicles]

milkteabae _ me too 😭

[@komalafzal8004]

same here 😭

[@amayawhyte]

same😔

[@christinaparnell5853]

Me too 😭

[@JudithAffran]

Got me too...

[@japleoj1500]

Dear Cyn, Thank you for making this song, back in 2018 I was at the lowest point of my life, I was at my freshmen year in College and struggling to figure out my life. Now I’m at my senior year and I am a candidate for Cum Laude, this song had an integral role in my life journey. I’m still figuring out my life and I just want to tell you that this song became my friend when i had no one else. ❤️ If you’re still at this part of my comment, just want to say thanks for having time to read!

[@ilanieb2423]

❤

[@jasmin1773]

That's beautiful. I hope you're fine:).

[@therese8958]

I swear discovering these kind of artists is what makes life soooo wonderful!

[@BubblegumBrown]

Listen to everything Laura Marling has released. Every song is different and a masterpiece.

[@john-qz1sv]

"there's no reason to speak badly" GROWTH

[@yuuzhang222]

If you made it here, you're the main character.

[@imjarrifried5819]

96 people liked this so far, that's a lot of main characters XD

[@niya9387]

Wow that's cool

[@CDot182]

someone told me i give off main character vibes today lol

[@cerenb7909]

11 million? nah.

[@SR3272]

That's one way of looking at my Murphy's Law of a life 😂

[@brandocalifornia3024]

I crank this whenever the homies ain't around

[@beenbetter4481]

I’ve interpreted this song is so many different ways in so many different circumstances, it’s such a beautifully universal heartbreaking moment. I love it. I will always come back here to mourn or rejoice with her voice. 🖤

[@LenaPhoenix]

Burst into tears after opening a random song from recommendations?? Sure. Why not.

[@iplayrunescape1998]

My same experience bahaha.

[@superpussycat6648]

I think you're missing somebody.

[@elliotridoutbuhl9490]

Same happened to me f*k

[@m.k.mcgill]

Yep. Good to know it’s not just me.

[@tiffclemons9197]

😢😪😭

[@ashpomare8107]

Sometimes KZbin recommends me the weirdest videos but today they got it so right and I’m so grateful!

[@yanausui9778]

Hey J Hope😎

[@KAMU13]

Right? Same here, but I’m glad it did.

[@420Brothelsprout]

This song makes me cry almost every time. It's just so beautiful and sad and I've felt so many of those things.

[@agapelove4992]

Self love and self care are the key to true love, abundance, and happiness. No joke!

[@paolar.299]

not joking at all, the best nose ive ever seen.

[@coctodon1751]

I know right?!

[@abhishek8987]

Its like her nose was made with the help of a 3d printer...

[@abrahamalaniz3468]

Mines like that

[@AnthonyMartinez-vt1rm]

paola R. Your just beautiful

[@somerandomdude8095]

@Brenna loves llamas what

[@DustinKloeppel]

i have no idea how i found you, but holy shit. i'm so glad i did.

[@anilu.s]

Dustin Kloeppel I found it for katy perry and shit, I'm in love of her music, is artttt

[@danieldini8685]

Dustin Kloeppel samee

[@danieldini8685]

Dustin Kloeppel samee

[@gabiduncan18]

Same

[@shevanyacicilia3691]

SAME

[@imaginaryphi1618]

This is beautiful. To the people struggling with anything. Here my prayer to you... Hope you may be able to carry it lightly. ❤

[@sheameeker7290]

This makes me smile and cry at the same time I’m 40 and sick and this touched my heart ♥️ I have 5 daughters and 4 grand babies from 25 yrs to 3 yrs 😢😭and finally found my soulmate after abuse for 22 yrs

[@shakurwonders5216]

Proud of you Queen 👑

[@maarez8869]

This song makes me miss someone that doesn't even exist.

[@nkzy9438]

Me too! Didn't think I'd see this in the comments. But hey guess there's always someone else that could relate to something you feel.

[@faithoquinn9356]

Fucking same

[@Summersnow-lr6vd]

Seriously wtf

[@nevs30]

Same :'(

[@joefroeber5886]

Jesus?

[@dt564]

I was at a friend of the familys wedding reception. I was 16 years old. I didn't have a very good home life back then, and I had zero confidence, kind of an ugly duckling and even at such an early age was extremely depressed, hopelessl and very alone. I was dancing by myself just like the old woman in the video and I heard a voice say " Why are you dancing by yourself? Let me cut in." And it was a handsome guy around the same age, with a pretty smile and an earring. I d danced with him and I just laid my head on his shoulder like I knew him forever hahaha*cringe* but it meant so much to me. Afterwards he asked to kiss me and I had my first kiss. I never saw him again but his name was Brandon and I smile wherever I hear that name. Never be afraid to dance alone, because you never know who is out there that will want to cut in.

[@KeelyAnn]

Wow reading this made me start bawling 🖤

[@waves9832]

i love that it feels like this was written for the older generation, but also ourselves as a message for when we get older. so beautiful

[@FreeEditsForYou]

so sad. RIP Grandpop. Love you. So much. I'll make sure to take care of Grandmom for you. See you again one day.

[@charinabacalso97]

I want to give virtual hugs to someone who came here for the first time.. yes, we found the comfort place!!!

[@ruthacrocha]

* hugs back*

[@meadish]

Group hug!!!!!

[@todordanekov6581]

free hugs for everyone...i just found this masterpiece

[@GPWT-video]

🥳❤

[@Stranger_In_The_Alps]

If someone notices this, I’m still alive and fighting depression

[@pam5646]

i’m glad you’re still here

[@haleynimmo6637]

I noticed, and I'm glad you are still here as well 😘

[@Alan-cd9iv]

Stay strong! Is your name a reference to the Big Lebowski censoring on cable TV? I remember the first time watching it on cable and that just cracked me up!

[@Stranger_In_The_Alps]

@@Alan-cd9iv yes that is the reference, thank you for noticing

[@waddlesmom]

Hang on there buddy

[@ReaseRice]

You know, one thing I really noticed was her smile at the end. That smile alone tells a whole story full of bittersweetness, peacefulness, and acceptance. You can tell whoever she’s singing about still is part of her, but she finally accepts that that person’s gone and I think that’s beautiful. Because I’ve felt that before, had that same smile before….

[@silentmortuary]

If you’re reading this. I promise, I won’t give up. I won’t let heart ache win.

[@brichroberts]

BIG FAT TEARS ROLLING DOWN MY FACE RN. That lady dancing by herself just destroyed me.

[@ashminley]

You're not alone

[@lindseyshupee]

I think I might have two tears stuck in my eyes.

[@misbahkabeer265]

Same

[@Travellight21]

This is heartbreakingly beautiful

[@invictusrockefeller8407]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/laK3o2SVi6aGg9k

[@asenaberhane]

But confidence building at the same time, it’s crazy

[@jimlahey9253]

Like u

[@catedoge3206]

yes

[@user-sz4vg4zx2k]

🔻 🎥私の個人的なビデオはここにあります🌺 shake-body.com/nobiella/?秘密のビデオ 💖 ここにビデオと写真 💞➖➖🔺🔺🇯🇵 ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもんね（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした！今後は気を付けないとね. . ! 💖🖤❤️#今後は気をライブ配信の再編あり がとうです！#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね！#１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（#笑）#やっぱり人参最高！#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,.💖🖤 #在整個人類歷史上，#強者，#富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落，#氏族，#城鎮，#城市和鄉村中的弱者，#無`'#守和貧窮成員。#然而，#人類的生存意願迫使那些被拒絕，#被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式，#並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。.#說到食物，#不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。#相反，#他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。#他們學會了清潔，#切塊，#調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，#在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類，#並且學會了使用芳香的木煙（#如山核桃，#山核桃和豆科灌木 #來調味食物煮的時候.

[@brandanreese19]

I love that song wrangles all my Sorrow and pulls it out of my soul. The tears are healthy and I appreciate the help these days

[@fraise000]

My heart broke when this beautiful lady started to dance alone

[@misskabalan]

I broke my back cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when It's the morning and you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I still have me And if I don't have you At least I still have me I never thought twice Cause you were my number one I put you first cause you were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the ally Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I still have me And if I don't have you At least I still have me There's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I still have me And if I don't have you At least I still have me Me Me

[@0Haseo]

Thanks for the lyrics but it's ( every body knows I'm upset)

[@misskabalan]

0Haseo thanks for the comment!

[@Ilikelasagna]

I LOST IT IN CLASS IM BAWLING

[@EclesysGalaxy]

I'm crying lol

[@harshit_v]

people like you are gold! thanks mate

[@siennacahill1715]

Me: DONT CRY IF YOU DO I- *tears start rolling down* Me : DAMN IT!

[@ambrosefox611]

I feel u.

[@urdadsellsket]

Christ you just read my mind

[@dora1148]

@me

[@nadiacenal7305]

SAMEEEE

[@TaunellE]

I would've at a time. But there's none left..

[@user-po3ss2dt8q]

This song hits differently for different age of people, to be honest. When you have walked a long way, this song just hits those memories back. It feels like home...

[@armoricaboyle4000]

This is going to be a rough holiday season for our world. Coming out of a pandemic people are changed, for better or worse. God bless you all. You are loved and we can get through it together

[@SocratesSetarcos]

I'm dead inside. No friends. No family. All alone at 25. I've been trying to hold in my pain so I wouldn't have to feel much... But then KZbin recommend this song.. It hurts so much..

[@cianelt9963]

Stay strong, it gets better ♡

[@asea7095]

Its going to get better, friend. Reach out to someone who cares. Not all ppl suck.

[@totallynotaturtle._.5285]

Socrates setarcos I hope you find one good person to change your life

[@lizbethgaleno9186]

I'm here if you need to talk

[@neversurender2739]

same

[@kacperb8919]

Can we have a moment of silence for the people that still can’t find this song.

[@lessr5075]

Tis was me 5 min ago and now I’m crying and so much happier although everything around be is gone

[@mysteryofautisticsproducti6503]

I was one of them till today.. Wow.. Ive been deprived.

[@Thibzz180]

Same

[@asenaberhane]

Underrated comment 👏🏾

[@bunnywabbit7275]

yes sir

[@beebecker9453]

This song really fucking hurts when you first discover it during what you think is your forever relationship, and then rediscover it a year later after that person shattered your heart

[@boasorte8595]

Beautiful and admirable to see a young person acknowledging old people.

[@autumn6988]

Songs like this help people get through things

[@mralmostknowitall]

Caleb Williams yes true ...try sasha sloan - the only ...its also just as beautiful as this one!

[@sofiatsiakalou1405]

EXACTLY

[@silverwolfeve]

That's the beautiful power of music... Being understood.

[@vvkii4534]

I don't know wether I'm crying over the music video, the song or simply the people I'm thinking about while listening to this song

[@user-zc9ih8em5r]

Thatonefriend That person on your profile. He's all I can think about. 🐳🌙️

[@stabbykahl538]

me neither, friend

[@tiffanymann6193]

Struggling with that too

[@nehaharikrishnan4346]

Wow. I couldn't have imagined that there was a song that could break me apart and comfort me within a span of 4 minutes, but here we are ❤ 😭

[@angelinaakicita24-7]

Maybe because you give too much of yourself away 😔 remember to always keep a little bit love for yourself.🥰🪬📿🧿

[@andiswakona5410]

I always come back here, I love this song so much. I remember the first time I heard it, I was so sad and broken. I felt so alone and three years later… I am glad I listened to this masterpiece at the lowest point of my life❤. I always remind myself that it was a phase I needed to pass to become who I am now. I still do not understand why I had to experience all that pain but… I’m alright. I’m alright.

[@maxink1809]

Glad you are alright❤

[@azurendsc]

The woman dancing by herself just breaks me.

[@sarah_siki]

oh honey there is nothing better than realizing that you love yourself more than anyone else could ever love you. It's exhilarating

[@SilentRaven8]

@@sarah_siki were you not paying attention to the story the song gave? "if I don't have you then at least I still have me" widow grief pain loneliness envy that Lone woman dancing by herself is the main character of the video. its talking about losing your married other half like halfway through the marriage or somethin, an when it comes to times both is required (dancing) at least she still has herself. so its comin to terms with it

[@syzygymasen2418]

@@sarah_siki i- that statement is actually good but not in this context, not with this song. they're grieving.

[@myheartwillstopinjoy8142]

@@sarah_siki wrong video.

[@hanna2850]

@e Yes, she's not dancing because she 'loves herself', and she did lose someone. But she's dancing DESPITE losing someone, and that shows some self-love manifesting there. Hope.

[@CharlotteVerras]

“Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.” This one broke me, because I know I can't do it :(

[@ambrosefox611]

Correct. I broke up like a week ago due to the same reason u mention. Still hurts like shit..

[@Camvi6538]

Me too 😏

[@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim]

Same

[@fatjune93]

It's do-able if it's true love. It happened to me. I can; but unfortunately, he can't. Love is unconditional, so it's worth fighting for; but he always gave up whenever things went down without putting a 100% effort in it. In the end, it hurts when i was the only one who's holding at the end of the rope for us. He has a choice, either to move forward for the betterment, or to stay the same. He chose the later. It's sad.

[@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim]

J. V. The most unconditional love is the one you should have for yourself, because it’s the longest relationship you will ever have.

[@JupiterSun-888]

I have come back to this song again & again- and right now I am listening to it after a period of releasing someone who was very bad for me & I feel hopeful & renewed- I no longer feel alone or as though I have nobody- because I learned, I have me

[@sarahnichol8435]

My great godparents -aunt Betty and uncle john. When aunt Betty passed away of old age, every night he would talk to the poster with pictures of them together that was at her funeral. He would say that he would join her soon. He did 6 months later. They were together over 70 years. I’ve never seen a love so pure between the two. They traveled the world together and their house was full of trinkets he would get her on every trip. Gosh I miss them.

[@rylinmariel6431]

The video is a nice commentary on how in earlier generations - in my generation, in fact - people felt that they were not whole people without a mate. For my own part, I feel like it's a shame it took me til I was in my late fifties to figure that out. Now I'm sixty-four, I'm alone, and I'm reasonably happy. And that brings me to the fact that happiness is vastly overrated - in the sense that in the world today, and this began in my generation, I guess, everyone started chasing this illusion that they could be happy all the time - but that's just not possible. All kinds of things come into our lives: illness, heartache from the loss of loved ones, and it can be possible to attain some kind of superficial happiness "all the time" when you're younger, but as you get older, it's harder and harder to hang onto that kind of happiness all the time, until at last (if you're lucky!) you realize how hollow it is. There is another kind of positivity that one can have, that acknowledges sadness as well as joy, and embraces all that life has to bring, changes what needs to be changed and can be, and accepts what can't, and looks for a greater sense of meaning, in whatever form that sense comes. The ability to be content on one's own is part of that kind of adjustment, and the consequent inner wholeness.

[@anitapoof8074]

Thank you for sharing. I hope I can talk more about it with my grandmother, but we are far apart.

[@fevb.2750]

This is genius! Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@marianah.3306]

Thank u for sharing this

[@Ian-dn6ld]

Your comment should be at the top of this comment section tbh

[@deez2569]

You're AMAZING sir. 💯💕💋

[@amberperson9418]

"I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then" Amazing lyrics.

[@mbsucks101]

I'll come back here again with less burden in my heart someday

[@valentino1646]

I miss him. I miss him so much. But I know at least I still have me. Thank you

[@fernanorobertomcqueen9773]

She's so fkng beautiful

[@Luke-ft5ow]

im sorry you just wasted your precious minutes

[@moseskisebe979]

This song hits you different when you're heart broken.

[@user-kx1xm5mb9i]

you mean hit you like a fucking truck

[@MissPurpleKush]

@@user-kx1xm5mb9i One made out of cement & solid steel.

[@tiffclemons9197]

Agreed

[@jaymeals8571]

Every song hits you when your heart is broken.

[@cyclicalspiral]

Very much so.

[@giuliavalenza99]

I send a hug to anyone with a broken heart crying on this song rn. I feel you.

[@Amelie-gj4zx]

very much needed, thank you, stranger

[@shawnbronson941]

LET’S ALL AGREE..... this kid is way ahead of her time. Songs....... the best songs...... make you feel something. And this one rips your heart out🥺

[@leticiam.5884]

I'm afraid I won't be able to stop loving him

[@user-ef8pj3mi3x]

Leticia M. you will. Take your time. Everything's gonna be alright.

[@anaclara-bl4qh]

Maybe you won't. Depending on your story, you won't forget him or stop loving him. But you'll (and I can assure it) leave it in the past and move on, so when you look back you'll feel the love, but know it was the best to just leave it behind. Maybe you wont stop loving him, maybe you will, but you love yourself in the first place :)

[@catherine5684]

actually, you can never stop loving someone. if you truly loved them. if it was actual love, you cannot. how can your heart forget about something that once made you so happy? it can't. you may find other loves. greater loves, that will lessen the sting of your past heartbreaks, but no, you can never stop loving someone. once you love them. it's there for good.

[@leticiam.5884]

I'm having the best relationship I've ever had and I truly love him. I know that cause I've never felt the same with anyone else. Unfortunately, distance at some point of the next year will tear us apart. We don't know for how long. We promised to enjoy the time we have, but I want a whole life with him. I'll keep in mind that we found each other for a reason.

[@zainabibrahim50]

You will

[@jacksonnc8877]

Im happy today because "you" are apart of this amazing world in which we live 😁

[@chyhart]

"Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being" love that quote

[@lovingatlanta]

👍😍@0:23 “Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.” 💞

[@peanutluedke5987]

❤️this

[@niggamaster9139]

but not gay love coz its not love but perversion

[@goosebattalion1443]

I'll tip my hat to that 🎩 😔

[@skeletoninyourbody9896]

@@niggamaster9139 shut the fuck up idiot

[@MorounG]

Made sense

[@freespirit4225]

[Verse 1] I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too [Pre-Chorus 1] Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Verse 2] I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought [Pre-Chorus 2] No more riding on the train No more smoking in the alley Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week [Chorus] And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Bridge] There's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me

[@hanifahahmed4851]

Thank you!😊

[@randomamateur1583]

I love that guitar, that chord progression. Just love it.

[@Madams25]

I love the harmonies falling out on the last "me". That's a beautiful AND gut-wrenching touch.

[@sierraduke3142]

This makes me realize that after all my failed relationships all I ever had was me

[@arielquinn2079]

Yes, You are the only person that You're gonna spend the whole life with.

[@satadhi]

try making better decision !

[@thegreatmistersuzuki4147]

To anyone who reads this, you don't need anyone to feel complete, and you never did

[@Weird_but_neat]

The great mister Suzuki took me 30 years to learn this Thank you

[@jamesoquinn9168]

This was all emotional. And thats what finally cracked me. Damn you. Thank you.

[@karu4115]

"I don't need a man to complete me" Miso - Take me, another great song

[@MeryPhorera]

We are not born to be alone

[@MeryPhorera]

@Jack Jones yes, completely agree

[@annenijhuis5495]

She slowly captivates you...what a voice !

[@Hiktovyu]

the years passing really fast.

[@cloudaugust]

If I don't have you at least I'll still have memes

[@xarzroth2298]

Hi Hello Annyeong 😂

[@okamieee6830]

I was about to cry then i read this 😂

[@venuss1818]

👏👏👏😂

[@loveyoulikeguitars_]

Memes save all.

[@wuzzyyy_]

Memes are love. Memes are life

[@PepermintFroyo]

*this song made me feel sad over my nonexistent ex boyfriend*

[@amiraanwar8534]

Huhu same

[@goldennuggetofwisdom5068]

G ABI I feel the same way :) !

[@LilDtownBarbie]

SAME!!!

[@junreylosbanos6572]

Sad😢

[@KaviSenanayake]

Aye

[@rutolien9097]

Never forget who was with you at your worst.

[@Flatlandish]

Fabulous! Great combination: a lovely angelic voice, a singing guitar and a heart touching cello. I love this stuff!

[@StrawberryMilkForYou]

This song got me, but can we talk about how beautiful she is. Her face is like the prettiest thing ever.

[@alfieholloway]

lana winters yes. It really helps deliver the song I sad to say. Beautiful voice beautiful face beautiful song . I’m sad to say because beauty isn’t given to everyone although people can be beautiful in different ways.... but what she’s been blessed with.... kinda not fair but we get to enjoy it

[@KyokiPon]

You’re beautiful too I’m sure :)

[@Mira-vp1jj]

Can I also just point out that besides sounding like an angel, she also *looks* like one? How is she so perfect?

[@anniemariekennedy2505]

Mira Rose yesss hair goals voice goals basically everything goals lol

[@sparshagarwal3733]

Too beautiful. I didn't expect this to make me cry all of a sudden...

[@sameera7939]

In 2018 when this dropped, I jammed to it 24/7 thinking I loved the instruments, the vocals and setting but now I realize that I've been drowning myself in these lyrics day by day, and let me tell you, it's still beautiful. Everything about just having ourselves as our number one, to put ourselves first, to believe in ourselves is just so potent and bold. It's beautiful. Thank you Cyn for an enchanting song

[@froglover2752]

WHO ARE YOU AND WHY I'VE NEVER HEARD OF YOU UNTIL NOW?

[@cf8415]

She reminds me of that spider girl from undertale

[@QueenOtiot]

My thoughts exactly. What a blessing. 💛

[@MuhammadHafiz128]

found this in my recommendation. her music and her voice.... is a pop music timebomb. ticking its clock to explode anytime soon. watch out.

[@sannaq3421]

Thank you so much for creating such a thoughtful song that not only resonates strength to deal with heartbreak but also to reflects what love actually is. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@jessicavargas8822]

I just left my relationship of 10 years. This song is getting me through it. I hope one day I get to sway along to it with the love of my life.

[@nutbastard]

Same boat. I thought I had found my soulmate. Together for 7 years. Ups and downs, we helped each other so much. The only explanation I got was that her "needs changed". I'm still in love with her but we don't talk. Hope you're doing well. It's really rough walking away or being walked out on after so many years.

[@just1moreepisode.735]

Finding out that there are others who have been in a happy, healthy relationships and they could see their "forever's" with that person .. ending up not being together after years and years of relationship... Its just feels so saddening. Like there are so many who get their happy endings why didn't we. My relationship ended last year.. on 18th may ..silly how some dates just get imprinted on your mind. As if someone tattooed it .. and I never ever saw it coming.. never expected it. Because everything was just really good. Almost like a fairytale good. Yes we had our fights we had our drawbacks and ugly sides but still it was something I was happy to last forever with His life goals changed. His needs became something that didnt align with mine anymore. After 6 years he didn't want the same things anymore . And so it was a separation I didn't want but could do anything about it. I thought it might get better with time. But it's been a year and still hurts like hell as if it happened yesterday.

[@angpowell9942]

Hope you re doing better now! Everyone is every ones soul mate, I think... its all about energy and vibes when you meet...self love is a major theme for many now a days in the world of virtual opportunity.. blessed be.

[@jessicavargas8822]

​Thank you for the beautiful words. I think I agree in many ways. I am less heartbroken but I'll always wish my first love was the love of my life. And that I could have had a lasting and intimate bond with the same person my whole life 🙏🏽💗 a childish dream, I know ​@@angpowell9942

[@Elnilove]

Lyrics: [Verse 1] I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too [Pre-Chorus 1] Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder Passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Now I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Verse 2] I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only song [Pre-Chorus 2] No more riding on the train No more smoking in the air Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week [Chorus] And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Bridge] And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me If you are wise back then [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me

[@sarahxxx2021]

I think "and you are wise" should be "and who I was back then" 😊💕

[@imtheart]

Bless ur soul 💕

[@Elnilove]

humm sound its make sence but the lyric was wrote .. you can re-write on your wish honey and cover ^^

[@Elnilove]

bless ur soul honey

[@Martin-ui2dk]

Instead of "air" it should be "alley" :)

[@someonewithanamepink9918]

How can there be such a delicate song with such deep emotion? Love your sweet voice too.

[@ovo5806]

很美的歌，謝謝創作出這首歌的所有人員。

[@Naotasenseii]

I can't express how much I enjoy this song. Such a wonderful meaning to never forget. Stay strong everyone

[@sarahd8674]

This gives me a calming sensation as in if I lose a partner. Whether they pass away, break up with me etc. I’ll still have me to pick myself up and think of the good times.

[@sophiedan5329]

I feel the same way! It's sort of sad but more so about how you havent lost everything even though they will always be a part of your past.