Cynthia Amadi Spoke To Emeka Ike; He’s Not Happy His Son Dropped Out Of Uni To Work In A Restaurant According To Her.
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@joysreality8 ай бұрын
No body is talking about the trauma this young man has suffered due to the marital crisis and parent separation.How do you expect these children to cope and turn out alright
@covidvaseline818 ай бұрын
I was just about saying that. Reactions from his peers probably makes it difficult for him to concentrate, or who knows if his father actually paid the fees he claims. This man has been talking since on the media and the one time the woman came out to defend herself, blogs are suddenly interested.....so sad
@topcattc768 ай бұрын
Which trauma? Nigerians want to be westernised so much that it is becoming so annoying.
@mammaman84008 ай бұрын
When I was a teenager I wanted so much to become a star musician and didn't think going to school was useful for me. But my sister told me to become a good musician you need to be educated. My mum practically dragged me to getting a degree. I didn't become the star musician I dreamt of becoming but today I'm very proud of my degree. Every educated parent will want their children to be educated because they know the importance of education
@kobusingyejoan68208 ай бұрын
Still, something is not adding up for Emeka, As he is claiming that he was paying tuition at an expensive university, and giving pocket money to his kid, this means the kid was living a good life. Then suddenly his kid dropped out of university and started working at a cheap restaurant. If that kid is a spoiled kid, I don't think that even he will look for a job rather he will go to the streets and join the Street groups. Something from Emeka is not adding up. Emeka said his ex-wife took some of his properties, what Emeka is trying to tell the public now is that his ex-wife is not responsible enough to use all the worthy she from him and pay tuition to her kids after taking some of Emeka‘s properties. This man needs help.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
What are saying the boy. Mind is. On music, That’s. Why he. Ruin to his cause the father said no,, as off you don’t know youngsters if they Don’t have have there way
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
What are saying the boy. Mind is. On music, That’s. Why he. Ruin to his cause the father said no,, as off you don’t know youngsters if they Don’t have have there way
@osazuwacollins44398 ай бұрын
This woman is full of wisdom. We need ladies like this in our society today
@francesiweha-onukwu2748 ай бұрын
Daddy Freeze before you judge please invite the woman and hear her out with an open mind. The boy is already broken, he has to be in a good mental health before going back to school. Be realistic please.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
That’s boy looks over pampered that you see how he looks? He his healthy see his skin, pikin wan sing music let him go to achool
@adeyanjuuyoyo70098 ай бұрын
@@NgoziNwaimo Over pampered but humble enough to work for a small restaurant
@kylieking81638 ай бұрын
Just like daddy freeze always talking about his ex . Till she comes out 😂
@nubianprincess7668 ай бұрын
Finally someone making sense. This woman hit the nail on the head! This young man who tried to use Davido as an example should know that Davido too had to go to school. His family almost disowned him because he didn’t go to school. And now that he has gone to school he said it was the best thing he could have ever done and he has developed skills that he would not have developed unless he attended school. So pls Emeka’s son should go to school. Even if he doesn’t use it just have it .. especially if his father wants to pay. And no more interviews. Pls let husband and wife deal with their matters.
@florenceomotoyinbo9628 ай бұрын
Look that Emma went through the university, would not have wanted anything less for her kids but the toxic marriage must have affected them.
@irenesimalike39628 ай бұрын
You are right. These people don’t want to be truthful with themselves. That young man is hurting because of what they went through
@henrynwokoro47518 ай бұрын
Fact
@ifeomaikegwuonu61858 ай бұрын
Giving an excuse for a failure is what baffles me about you. Some of our mothers rose beyond toxicity and pain just to see us rise above their mediocre. Then why make excuse for a mother whom her own husband equipped in education now want an unseen future of nuissancy in the community. Please look for another excuse. Suzanne is looking good and doesn't look an inch a mother making effort like our mothers of those dayz.
@ifeomaikegwuonu61858 ай бұрын
If I were to advise Suzanne to advise her son, I would tell him to pipe so low as to acquire all he could from his father especially when I am not sure if I can cater educationally for them. I do advise house helps who are not in a life or death situation from their bosses whom they can achieve positive lots from.
@AmayaRue23608 ай бұрын
It already says a lot that it took the ex wife and son speaking to shut Emeka up. He that has been dragging the wife for 10 years while the world did not put ring light for how that dragging will affect his kids. Ring light is only coming out now.
@pamela-sonyaovono47588 ай бұрын
So much wisdom from this beautiful lady ! Congratulations to you Sir for inviting her on this subject ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@triumph17418 ай бұрын
Myself was pushed by my mum to go take my final exams. Though I was truamaticed at the time and I'm grateful to God she did and love her so much. So I'm really suprised the mum is supporting him dropping out of school. Well na only them know wetyn dey happen...
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
It’s the fact that people are expecting more composure from a 20 year old who experienced abuse from his father-whether he, Emeka was aware of it or not- than a whole 50 something year old who put his family issues out for public discussion just because una no wan blame am. Emeka needs to be held accountable
@appliedwisdom138 ай бұрын
You need to be accountable too….let the man be lady
@Uncensored-Updates8 ай бұрын
Ok let the boy remain in the restaurant
@edemaayonmi8 ай бұрын
No parent will be happy about a child dropping out of school, I'm a parent when me kids do stuff I don't expect I say words I'm not even proud about😢😢i
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
@@edemaayonmiEmeka Ike that has lied many times. I’m sorry but I can’t just take his word like that. He already lied about never touching his wife when his PA admitted to him doing so. Take everything he says with a pinch of salt
@blacocloc22018 ай бұрын
This woman, u just dey here dey misyarn. Did you ask the boy why he dropped out? Is it to put pikin for school? What of paying the fees? Yeye talk! Anyone that has common sense can see Emeka lies a lot to cut join body. But common sense is a scarce commodity to Nigerians
@leticianamale86108 ай бұрын
Please distinguish between anger and psychopathic narcissism. Also, know that the behavior of the dad can explain why that child dropped out of school. He is emotionally traumatised by the abuse and separation during childhood. The boy has mentioned changing schools due to fighting during childhood. Have you analysed how the siblings are? Women subjected to narcissistic abuse go on to be very high achievers when they snap out of it. So, the trajectory that Emma has taken is not surprising at all. There is still hope for that child. He needs therapy.
@stellaayodeji25018 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this comment. DF is always supporting the people of his likes like Emeka.
@kamunalessons8 ай бұрын
DF is frustrated and he's always happy to support frustrated and psychopathic men like him.
@abaraonyenonye66518 ай бұрын
Well Said
@femilicious8 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@keta94798 ай бұрын
The abuse! The abuse! The abuse! Can we focus on the abuse. He is a monster. What a leap over all the atrocities. You expect a fantastic son when you damaged him from childhood.
@nanas.recipes_8 ай бұрын
Exactly my point. 😅people do have the slightest inclination of what abuse can do to children. I am even thankful that the boy is not into some terrible vices honestly. Whatsoever that child is going through is because of their parenting issues. Not every child can move past pain and abuse without help. That boy needs fatherly love and support but Emeka is carrying out the anger of his ex wife on his children. Like the saying, ‘ when two elephants Dey fight, it’s the grasses that will suffer’. I say it with my full chest, when you decide to bring children into this world, be ready to give your presence, encouragement, correction (in love), unlearn, learn and relearn. When you have four children, you have to be intentional as a parent to know what works for each one. I am a teacher and I see, hear what children go through and some don’t even want school to end as an excuse not to go back home.
@festusuche3838 ай бұрын
You guys should encourage the boy to go and make peace father, for his own good. Instead of blaming Emeka Ike or his ex. Profound solution instead of deepling the problem
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
@@festusuche383Did you watch the interview because the boy said right before Emeka Ike granted the interview, he was trying to make peace with his family that was when he found at his father went online to say all these things and when he confronted him it there was more tension
@justemeka8 ай бұрын
Focus on your life. You too like toxicity
@Theartofemman8 ай бұрын
@@Daraa727both sides have a role to play in it that's just it
@khalilyahhamzie87358 ай бұрын
Some people were insulting the ex wife. The boy wants to be a musician. If it's his passion, give him your blessings. He is working in a restaurant, yes at a least he didn't go into armed Robbery o Emeka. Encourage him we will all not want to become a lawyer doctor,
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
To have a degree, have you consider if the music no work? He might two to 3 songs shut down what next? People were saying let streaming song after one day everything went down, how many of the is musician last? Do you want sustain them? Their degree they pick it and dust it and go to work, so make the child go they do waiter they collect 50k every month? You self no like the child
@khalilyahhamzie87358 ай бұрын
@NgoziNwaimo That's his choice. You cannot force someone to drink water. We al know what we want in life. Not everyone has heads for education my dear.
@christainaoyiliagu13018 ай бұрын
You have not heard from the young guy what really transpired.daddy freeze abeg go sort your problem with your first wife don't use your problem to attack the woman pls.i can see it in your questions
@Epic_explorer_18 ай бұрын
I tire oohh. He really needs to sort himself first. Just missing the point on purpose.
@keneekenee57068 ай бұрын
Growing up, I supported my mom wholeheartedly, believing she could do no wrong. You know women can work on their children's emotions, just to receive their supports . Now, as an adult, I find myself backing my dad, realizing he's not the villain I once thought. It turns out, he simply kept his own side of the story to himself. I regretted supporting mum then, maybe not supporting her would have helped their marriage
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
This is not about gender
@fluxnekta8 ай бұрын
I can relate
@liliankamara42088 ай бұрын
I understand have lovely day 👌
@topcattc768 ай бұрын
My own experience is the same as yours!
@ednahchirchir19248 ай бұрын
Emeka has come out insulting the son and threatening the wife after the interview so it's not about supporting her. Emeka is proud and arrogant while she is calm and composed. Narcissistic people act good but in private are not. The boy was traumatized from childhood and needed counselling and understanding
@walburgaefuetawung78288 ай бұрын
Emeka has been talking for 10yrs. His ex gives her side of the story she should come and explain herself because her son spoke his mind. The one who forcefully seize the children from their mum, not for keeps but just pained her. Who ruin the children, Emeka Ike. Their mum collected them after the divorce, who ruin them. Emeka Ike.. So, Emeka ruin his children.
@GloryTessy9578 ай бұрын
Emeka left them with his family member and was still staying in the same estate with them.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
He was given custody of the kids by the court oo, then they share carry two small and he took the bigger one, but man has to hustle, the woman said they were living and staying with nanny and relatives, he send them to good school Atleast one guy on Twitter said they were mate at school that they guy they enjoy die, they drop and pick him, so they are wandering why this now? There is something not right I think music
@samblesselo8778 ай бұрын
Even in Abroad you need a degree. Get a degree then you can do whatever you want period. I remember growing up my mom will always remind us that because she did not go to school that no child of hers will be an illiterate. Today all 7 of us are graduates and we all are thankful for that.
@iduokoko93268 ай бұрын
Thank God for the kind of mother God gave you. God bless her. God bless my mother too. Every good mother wants their children to have a proper foundation.
@kiv_daniels8 ай бұрын
So how do you communicate that with your child, this is exactly what my mom used to tell me, that she didn’t have the chance to go to university so she would love for me to complete. When I went to school I focused and I studied, I passed my exams, left the school in peace without any issues. And even though sometimes things were not so good I always remembered what my mother said, I wanted to make her proud. I didn’t want to break her heart. So how do you speak to your children, if not for how some of us our parents talk to us, do you know where some people would be. If you want to do something, you remember your mother or father’s face and you’re like no I can’t.
@NaturalIdara8 ай бұрын
Degree is very important. I have managers that can’t advance because they don’t have a degree, it’s hard for them now to go back to school bc of family commitments.
@marygloriaokeke14198 ай бұрын
From the point of view of an educator yes degree is important but you don't necessarily need a degree to be successful. For example the CEO of face book, Microsoft...... all dropped out of school a lot of well known individuals don't have degree. You have to know what your child's strengths are and guide accordingly. Also in this current age the old way of parenting does not work to me it's like existing in digital world but operating in analog mentality. Ameka neds to work on himself first and then help his family for he is a broken man and can't give what he don't have. I will keep this family in my prayers 🙏 ❤
@marygloriaokeke14198 ай бұрын
From the point of view of an educator yes degree is important but you don't necessarily need a degree to be successful. For example the CEO of face book, Microsoft...... all dropped out of school a lot of well known individuals don't have degree. You have to know what your child's strengths are and guide accordingly. Also in this current age the old way of parenting does not work to me it's like existing in digital world but operating in analog mentality. Ameka neds to work on himself first and then help his family for he is a broken man and can't give what he don't have. I will keep this family in my prayers 🙏 ❤
@lysangeng-wd7zq8 ай бұрын
But how can that boy manage to continue schooling when the family environment is an abuse one. The children need peace
@mzsho8 ай бұрын
Very sad that we appear to be justifying abuse under the guise of that is how we were raised. We need to break this cycle of pain, starting by condemning it.
@TOOO9518 ай бұрын
You're in daddy freeze channel, what kind of comments do you expect to see. How is daddy freeze himself different from Emeka?
@uwachristian97178 ай бұрын
Can you clearly state the abuse?
@femilicious8 ай бұрын
@@TOOO951he too was abusive to his ex wife.
@jamesonuora51238 ай бұрын
Life is a process and from what she was saying, our parents wanted us to gain the ground first before we look for mat..no one is condoning abuse.. teach children that life is a process..just do it right..
@angela-bx6gu8 ай бұрын
Daddy Freeze your degree don’t mean a thing if you’re blind to see what Emeka is doing
@ukochiezeabata38038 ай бұрын
Nollywood actors and actresses are picking sides. It is now clear to me that they are promoting their upcoming movie. But they must know that Emeka has personerlity problem. Emeka is sick. Soon all of you singing praises to Emeka will turn your back on him.
@victorperemene22478 ай бұрын
Abeg go rest
@RAMayor8 ай бұрын
Mumuish
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
This your comment no. Make sense,, Wait till your kid refuse to go to school
@anneaburime69428 ай бұрын
Do you want them to say what they did not s:ee?
@florenceomotoyinbo9628 ай бұрын
Emeka is an actor like Yul. At least the son is not into crime or yahoo yahoo. There us nothing wrong in working in a restaurant to earn decent living.
@oghoghoidemudia5038 ай бұрын
What drop out from uni he is responsible paying is fees..make una the reason for talking rubbish 😊
@hanson4christ4968 ай бұрын
Lolsss How can a big person like you be saying this So if u are a parent, and your child does this, hope you will applaud him and give him a nice treat for doing this, even if Emeka ike words are not right, people say things out of anger, you don't know wat happened next after that vn, if he apologized or begged For God person, the Media only shows u wat they want you to see to shape ur mentality And it's so amazing I will say that you are dancing to their tune Will you tell me that Emeka ike has not say any Good tin to his son since he was born?? Why didn't he record the good tinz and play online Think oo think before talking
@cis998 ай бұрын
Florence let your husband send your own child toTurkish school pay thousands of dollars and after send him to Uni Abuja then go withdraw him from uni and find him a job in amala joint to make a decent living
@keneekenee57068 ай бұрын
It's good if one think from a parent's perspective
@umaisaacamadasun318 ай бұрын
What is wrong if the boy went to university and better is life,
@EdithEkete-vo4oo8 ай бұрын
Auntie, pls, blf u conclude your decision, find also from his own son , what really happened blw him and the father. to know Who is the one telling the truth. Leave the crocodile tears, the father is crying to u. We have a bad father who can also lie against their children to get sympathy for himself. Thanks.
@seyioyetade8 ай бұрын
True sha, but U know everyone lies sha, kids lie alot too, they lie alot pikin dey lie gan o 😮😮😮
@oseremenilens36958 ай бұрын
Nobody lie reach kids😂
@EdithEkete-vo4oo8 ай бұрын
Also, nobody lie reach some fathers. Some fathers were evil .eg. evil yul edochie and Emeka ike. The same feathers.
@seyioyetade8 ай бұрын
@@EdithEkete-vo4oo listen kids lie alot, all kids lie, am a teacher in pry and secondary sch, there is no innocent child, only children who are less manipulative, none is innocent, kid that U will caught redhanded, he will still say other tinz before saying the truth
@eliasobed57438 ай бұрын
I love this lady narrative, she knows the family and share the pain of the family, knowing they are hurting. I was very skeptical about the PA. Because Cynthia confirmed my taught about Emeka Ike's wife and that is an easy going, cool and calm lady. Lets not judge them. I just pray God rebuild that family. There is still hope and all is not lost.
@giftedchild94908 ай бұрын
Amen o amen
@AnnaKaali8 ай бұрын
There is no excuse for physical abuse or any type of abuse. Children are allowed to follow their dreams, African parents stop this mindset of discouriging kids following their dreams. Emeka, you are cancelled
@larrydag18 ай бұрын
You're not wise. Allow your children to do whatever they want to do with their lives.
@uzochukwuchinedu30978 ай бұрын
Very unfortunate That is why the family is going haywire. Train a child the way he should go, not the way the child wants. Training a child has become abuse. Flog a child even the bible said foolishness abound in the heart of a child and only stick can correct it.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
This is way we are having so many useless young adult let them go how they want, abeg this your word no follow. Read your book of proverb in the Bible , the said foolish avid in the heart of a child but a touch of rod will lead him aright.
@AnnaKaali8 ай бұрын
@@NgoziNwaimo If they have a potential on what they want to become I will 100 percent support them and provide my guidance.
@AnnaKaali8 ай бұрын
@@larrydag1 This is not what I meant, I meant supporting there vision and dreams. I am that product of this mindset, I wish I had a bit of say of what I want to do in life instead of go to University and get a office job, silly mindset. There is more your kids can do with the talents and skills God gave them.
@ozughatariebi32788 ай бұрын
Stop talking about someone's kids,fix yours first. I went through an abusive marriage and I am lucky to be alive , he took my kids and turned them into bad kids. it's so easy to sit outside of a person's relationship and speak about it without knowing anything about trauma and more than worse judge.
@sadohpeter55548 ай бұрын
This is the most foolish and sentimental discussion I have ever watched. Keep siding Emeka for his actions, everything has its price. Nigerian parents scold their children, but not cursing them to fail. Try to know why that boy dropped out first before judging him, I nearly dropped out cos of cultism and oppression, if not that my parents were supportive, I would have dropped out, and the world would judge me. Emeka is a failure when it comes to parenting, he brought his family issue to social media, and now he wants people to side him and he keeps shedding crocodile tears. He needs help, he is really not ok. Daddy freeze, ur own is even worse, u are not in position to talk about married people cos u are divorced and u have pride.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
Nawaho
@Martinchinedu1648 ай бұрын
O.P. You talk from a point of H8te and Pain. Heal bro. 😅 Ignorance is not a problem but admitting to awareness for growth is Key.
@sadohpeter55548 ай бұрын
@@Martinchinedu164 if I really want to talk in the place of hate, I will be on the side of Emeka cos I like his acting and still watch his movies everyday, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't speak the truth. Emeka has anger issue, go and watch Segun Arinze's interview, u will know that he is too temper. If that woman had stayed in that marriage, and died, we will still blame her for not speaking out, and now that his son is speaking out too, people are saying the woman has turned him against his dad. That boy said, at some point, he was fighting other children in school, as a result of that, he was always changing school cos of bad parenting. So tell me, why would u expect that kind of son to do well and not drop out of school. Let's be logical here.
@sadohpeter55548 ай бұрын
@@Martinchinedu164 and asking me to heal, maybe u should go and check urself if you have issues cos I am speaking from an angle of a father who loves his children and who will do everything to make my children succeed, I will keep blessing them always, and not cursing them.
@Martinchinedu1648 ай бұрын
@@sadohpeter5554 If you read my comment on this post you will understand what I'm really saying. There's no truth in whatever the 3 parties are spitting out so far im concerned. If they really want to prove the truth. Then they should be matured enough to call themselves in a room or environment. Tell the differences and narrate there stories looking at each other face to face.. That's why I'm telling you for you to be supporting one Party due to the actions of the other you're pouring h8te and allowing ignorance set in by neglecting the other party. And let me point this out, Emeka son fighting and doing whatever he does in school is never a problem from his father. A popular saying quote; say no evil, see no evil, speak no evil. For a fact I know when my parents had there issues, you can never see me going to watch them, even when my mum will want to manipulate our minds. I'll tell her nothing concern me. I never picked any side. And I know today 6 of us as children not picking sides between this couples helped a lot in keeping this marriage. Growing up with a Neutral identity and not allowing parents problem get to you was something nobody thought me. I assume I'm too young for that and hence is none of my business. I never fought anyone and I'm the first to even advise any girl who gets beaten during a relationship to immediately serve breakfast. No amount of sorry should anyone accept. So clearly we all are responsible for our behaviors. You won't blame a father of someone who was old enough to pick side as a kid and now his over 20 yrs for his child behaviors. I was 15 years when my dad told me until I make my own money I'm not entitled to the least of his wealth. Then my eyes opened, immediately you are able to think and make decisions as a human being for yourself. Your behavior and pattern of growth lies in your hands. Omo, if only digging a grave could make the dead come back to life. Calling a spade a spade is right when the axe agrees they work in different dimensions and can never be described as equal.
@yomiwilliams43688 ай бұрын
Cynthia Amandi:💥😊👍 I passed by because I saw her name, and has been a long time Facebook friend ( although I’m off facebook for now ) before I matched her face with seeing her in Nollywood. Amazing actor However, that’s neither here nor there. What I like most about her is her ability to be very lateral in her views. She always gives a well balanced and non sentimental views. Whenever you hear her speak publicly, on politically or social issues, pay attention to her. She’s an amazing lady 😊 I agree with all that was said in this post by them.
@msk74588 ай бұрын
This is not about bad parenting. This is about the trauma of abuse. This is about a man who had personality problems and ruined his family. He did not give his child the right foundation. Kids are different. Naija parenting does not work for all kids. The child lacked LOVE.
@adeyemiadeniyi17938 ай бұрын
You de talk rubbish. Pray ur effort on a child to be in vain. If I see a father that can go that mile for me I will be happy
@crownsuites90568 ай бұрын
you see Nigeria style of parenting in the early days till 19s kids ,is when parenting nigeria style give birth to the best generation. but you see this new gen z generations . they don't want to listen to correction oooo. so parents are living them alone now .have you seen this generations .
@iduokoko93268 ай бұрын
Who is this one? What foundation are you talking about, do you know what it means to put your child in Turkish school? 70% of our young guys doing well in the Music Industry are graduates if you don't know.
@iduokoko93268 ай бұрын
@@crownsuites9056 Thank you. Our generation want you to let us do what we want, and when we fail at what we want, we turn to crime just to cover shame. You know success now is having money and showing on social media.
@victorperemene22478 ай бұрын
So he should disrespect his father.Davido has a degree,stop talking rubbish because Emeka want the best for his child,boy wey go expensive schools no get foundation pls be constructive
@eneebong51818 ай бұрын
You are judgemental of the mother. No mother would want to watch her child without a degree. How do you know the mother has not tried. Why is the failure of a child the failure of a mother. Success belongs to dad. Freeze you need to freeze 😊
@oseremenilens36958 ай бұрын
I thank God i listened to my dad They see farther than we do I wouldn't be were I am today if i didn't listen to him. I am convinced my talent wouldn't have gone beyond our parlour
@housetogo20058 ай бұрын
These people have not been through the kind of abuse these people have endured so they cannot understand. Particularly this man here justifying everything for Emeka Ike
@verajjingo67068 ай бұрын
I dont even know why thus case has become his reaponsiblity. Let the family be
@chibunduecheruo48078 ай бұрын
Why would he drop Out of school there is sometimes parents say things at of anger..but for the child to capitalize on what they fathers said to him isn’t right ..that words are to motivate you to prove him wrong..so please no father would spend any amount of money to his child to school and the child drop out..please if na una you guys would more than what Emake said..or you sold everything you had just to see your child succeed and your child decide to shatter your efforts it pains…pls
@DM-rh7ul8 ай бұрын
I understand this very well as a parent who has a son who arrived from Kenya to study in the University in UK. Since he started doing factory job he does not want to study anymore. I went to his university to find out if he was attending class. The school called him for me since he doesn't pick my calls. He said l was shouting to him. God help this children.
@consumingfire-u3w8 ай бұрын
My dear I wish I could hug you now.........I know how many times i walked up to my mother that father wasn't my father and she would cry n told me that,she has never known any other man in her life and she will plead with me and talk me into seeing the good in my father ........my darling today i can never pray for a better father ..... .my father shaped me,my father is my hero today,my father taught me how to make money with my hands even when i never knew the value of money .....my father taught us simplicity,humility,focus,hardwork etc....my father would take me round town showed me the end of an obedient child and the end of a disobedient child.......now i pray for long life for my father so i could repay him.....for all the disciplines he gave me and my siblings......
@pastorchidishekinah47398 ай бұрын
I am sensing that a lot of men are jealous of fellow successful men. I am amazed at how men attack emeka
@Chrisugo8 ай бұрын
Cynthia you've really been a blessing indeed . So good listening to you sis. Thanks Daddy Freeze for bringing her
@titustobudei46778 ай бұрын
Fear is equal to respect. Appeal to kids of today, and you'd regret it in the future. My dad was also a dictator and was so feared, but looking back today i am greatfull to God for my father.
@NO-su1gi8 ай бұрын
It's good to do interviews and continue to ask questions about why this and why that.... But in this case, you guys should just stop, freeze stop already! How many interviews do you want to do on top another man matter?? E don do abeg, you guys are just rubbing this matter in, just stop 🛑 This family needs our prayers, you guys are giving the matter more and more tentacles... Your interview is definitely not going to bring healing, only more division.
@zobasworld46898 ай бұрын
Cynthia Amadi you earned my respect biko you’re full of wisdom
@WhoData58168 ай бұрын
Mother cuddle father discipline, all my successful friends always thanks their father
@eneebong51818 ай бұрын
Freeze you are wicked. That woman did not take him out of school. Please stop stating what you dont know.
@foxcnbc98028 ай бұрын
I agree. 👍
@Epic_explorer_18 ай бұрын
I just tire. I think at this point, he’s just being one-sided on purpose.
@kingsleytulasi82218 ай бұрын
The woman didn't help her son
@dipitavanessa85228 ай бұрын
If Davido didn’t make it in music, he was born into one of the wealthiest families in Nigeria. Not to mention his dad insisted he must follow his family tradition and get a degree at least. Unfortunately the world of entertainment is quite a tough one especially in Africa… It’s great to believe in yourself and chase your dreams but you’re way better off having a plan B. Plus the more educated you are, the better equipped you are for every sphere in life.
@florenceomotoyinbo9628 ай бұрын
Daddy freeze pls forget Emeka right now for any proper role in the life of his first family when he has another one he may be struggling with.
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
This woman is claiming to have spoken to Emeka but I find it difficult to trust him when he has lied twice. He said he never beat his wife but his PA who came to do damage control said the wife started it first and He said she took his property but there are articles from years back with his land lord speaking which suggests that Emeka was unable to pay rent. There are so many loop holes in his story for him to be trusted. I thought we had learnt that already but apparently not.
@justemeka8 ай бұрын
Focus on your life and stop expressing opinions on another person's life. There are things you probably don't know.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
Stop reading what’s out there, things are not always black and white, leave the family and focus on yours.
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
@@NgoziNwaimobut yet you have comments on this channel given your opinion. Sekof my own opinion does not align with yours. Double Standards
@Daraa7278 ай бұрын
@@justemeka That is what the comment section is for. To express opinions.
@femilicious8 ай бұрын
@@NgoziNwaimoso ignore evidence and just agree with him😅
@Edith.Praise8 ай бұрын
It's really not about the expensive schools you take me to, even if it was cheaper schools as long as "common decency " from a parent is missing, it will yield to nothing. Emotional Iteligence is very Key. I listened to the audio Emeka sent his son, iam broken.
@hanson4christ4968 ай бұрын
This interview was so intellectual If you listen with an open mind and be more analytics, you will learn alot
@yvettewilliams59678 ай бұрын
I’m out! So she is supporting parenting abuse in Nigeria because of her mother’s actions? Oh please!!!!
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
What’s parenting abuse?
@florenceomotoyinbo9628 ай бұрын
The problem is having happy and enabling environment. I had a nephew who wanted to be a pilot and did not see the need to attend a university despite gaining admission to unilag but wr sat him down to educate him on the need and even got a pilot to talk to him and he changed his views because of the happy home not forcing him. We told him he could study a related course like aeronautical engineering
@barazaalex72878 ай бұрын
ATLIST YOU COULD GET A PILOT TO TALK TO YOUR NEPHEW, DO YOU THINK EVERYONE CAN HAVE THAT??
@terryfidelis67118 ай бұрын
Remind Emeka's son that the so called Davido has a Degree too. He needs to do the right thing.
@johnfamous63168 ай бұрын
If 15 smart to get into University nothing stops 21 in getting married. Majority count's in life. 35 years Old is rilling a nation... And all her citizens are joyful. President Timubu is over 60 but Nigerian are crying in pain
@pamelazindi69698 ай бұрын
How can he make someone of of a son he constantly shouts and rants at. Children need love and encouragement. Do not support bad parenting. It results in bitter individuals who are a danger to society. That is how rapist, armed robbers and abusers came about. Thry are mostly people with horrible childhood experience.
@Chrisugo8 ай бұрын
Don't be so quick to conclude. Nobody is the best in parenting. He may not have got it all right but that is not an excuse in this case . Most of us also was shouted at, beaten , flogged etc, but it wasn't an excuse to drop out of school, in fact it was a reason to fight to be better . So don't come and blame any one person here . Emeka, his wife and that boy all played a part in this misfortune. If Emeka was so gentle and loving as many have said, and Emma was so calm and peaceful, and they used to love each other so much and could hardly do without each other then. That means something definitely went wrong somewhere . I still see a lovely family in all this. May the Lord heal , and restore them in Jesus' name
@peacendukwe8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@hanson4christ4968 ай бұрын
It's well, how do you guys even think and come up with all these things sef Parents u didn't know personally So bcos of wat the boy says abi People tell u only wat they want you to hear, so you see saying the boy is all righteous in this issue abi All is see is people picking sides and gender favouritism Not going for a solution for the family People are in pain if you don't know
@jerryjackson86158 ай бұрын
You must be born right b4 covid for you to reason this way. Did you even listen to this interview
@Seyi.O8 ай бұрын
Na today Naija parent dey shout. This used to be normal na. We take the beating, face our book and make something of ourselves. GenZs are just weaker emotionally Ordinary wake up late, you go chop beating back then. These days, the child will say he’s disturbed emotionally and he is validated. Times are different. Emeka just used the old school formula for a GenZ especially one that grew up in Germany.
@georgetitus-glover62288 ай бұрын
I can understand emeka ike now! Hpe both parents find solace and love their children!!
@toocheafrica72088 ай бұрын
I tire for you Freeze. Listening to you two tells me you don't even have a good grasp of the situation about the Ikes. At the root of all this brouhaha is a very broken/toxic and, I dare say, immature father/husband. A man who's supposed to be the head of his home, but very unfortunately doesn't just have what it takes to fill that role. Going to school or not is not the crux and should never even consume the amount of time it did in this dialogue. Going to school is so very secondary to the issues at the heart of the matter here. I am the first person to tell you that going to school is very important (anywhere in the world). But it's definitely not an ultimate. The lessons and values gleaned from a stable and progressive home, trumps even the best degree from Harvard. Michael can go to the best school but all that would be rubbished by my the trauma his home served him. Just listening to Emeka Ike, before I saw Emma's or her son's interview with Chude, it was very OBVIOUS that here's a child talking. I don't care how old Emeka is, he needs to grow up. He doesn't even have the maturity of a well adjusted adult. (My 23 year old son is so disgusted at him and says that all a lot of Naija parents have going for them is their age without the commensurate. maturity) My father who is a typical Nigerian parent, told us his children (as each of us turned 18) that the hallmark of an adult is that you make decisions and stand/live by their consequences, good or bad. It's only in Africa that we stifle young people and still expect them to grow up. The result is, the generalty of the people never grow up. Micheal is not a child by any standards and as such should not be dictated to what to do or otherwise. Wisdom would demand that Emeka RESPECTS his son and reason with him rather than ranting like a spoilt brat who must always have his way. I acknowledge that age confers some advantages on an individual, but hey, we live in a society where increasingly the younger ones are showing more good sense and maturity than people way older than them. What's the noise about NTIC(Nigeria Turkish International School)? My son got admission into the school, but after doing due diligence, I changed my mind about him attending the school. That Emeka paid so much does not equate to him making the best choice for his child. EMEKA IKE SHOULD JUST GROW UP!!!!!
@blacocloc22018 ай бұрын
Don't mind our fellow Nigerians. It's why we suffer from Stockholm syndrome by applauding abusive parents and glorifying our oppressors. You would think that these personalities would have more to offer upstairs considering their level of exposure. See that lady here who is supposed to be a mother doing damage control for a friend at the expense of a young man's pain. 'Tears in Emeka's eyes" b4 nko? Is he not an actor? Na today we start to see crocodile tears? See how the young man and his mother were able to own up to their own flaws and errors while Emeka goes about galloping on a high horse as if he can do no wrong. Very arrogant overgrown baby. Who even comes on air to bash the mother of his children without any provocation? That says it all.
@ModesolaO8 ай бұрын
God bless you
@juyinodeleye85678 ай бұрын
📌 THIS!!! 👊🏽
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
I wish you could tell us your childhood story if your parent left you to take decision of not going to school, and if you let your kids not to go to school, saying is effort of sending his kids to Turkish school as nothing buffles me, is not my concern though am not living with them and I don’t know led to his out burst it will still come out though, but I think all should be neutral
@lukmanajalloh36788 ай бұрын
Emeka did not mean what he said to his son he said it out of anger some of us our parents said worse to us anger can make you do things or say things that we do regret saying or doing after.
@izunduchristophernwokocha83768 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@chantelbrown47528 ай бұрын
That does not make it ok. Many African parents are toxic
@henrynwokoro47518 ай бұрын
💯
@gloooooooooooo8 ай бұрын
It still doesn’t make it right. A parent shouldn’t say words like that PERIOD. We need to stop normalizing stuff like that. Those words hurt
@izunduchristophernwokocha83768 ай бұрын
@@gloooooooooooo when you are angry and depressed you might say worse. Lets wait till you get angry first
@caly248 ай бұрын
My parents fid not say those words to me while i was growing up. The fact that your father said it to you while growing up is not justified biko. You guys should stop capping. Just image what two grown up adults are justifying here. Whose parents abuse pass. I hear una. Una Weldone o.
@priscilliaeghomwanre4898 ай бұрын
Get a degree its important.... Its adds to your personality. Forget all the father said,pls wait until u spend ur hard earned money on a child and in the end dropped out..its painful oooo
@lolajaiyeoba77178 ай бұрын
Hmmmn. God bless Davido, God bless his father
@florenceomotoyinbo9628 ай бұрын
All these are recruited by Emeka to defend him.
@tonyebiere5518 ай бұрын
you dont have sense
@iduokoko93268 ай бұрын
Some of the guys talking rubbish here, their papa never call them in 5 years ooo.
@Aestheticsdairy8 ай бұрын
So all of these actors and actresses lived with the couple through their marriage? It's funny how they think working with him is enough to dismiss what people that lived with him knew or experienced.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
You don’t know anything about acting bah? These people travel to a location share a home for months days together, so they tend to know themselves, there behaviors are picked , if you want to know a person better ask the colleagues and immediate family. Colleagues they see the really person oo
@fatimamusa44288 ай бұрын
Everyone should hear Cynthia Amadi... She talked sense not Dolapo that was lying. Thank you Cynthia Amadi, may God use you to mend this home, tell Emeka to stop using foul word on sm.
@consumingfire-u3w8 ай бұрын
Daddy freeze something must have triggered Emeka ike saying what he said......let Emeka Ike's ex wife and son release the full audio if indeed they want to be sincere or they are sincere
@femilicious8 ай бұрын
He was asking him to get education by telling him to jump in front of the trailer?. By telling him he has a son of the same age ao he is not important. ..please!
@mattmathew94758 ай бұрын
This modern parenting who has it helped.....look at our kids see what they are doing misbehaving living a life of vidal loca....we that our parents trained with strict decipline....we are better today..we may not be perfect but we try to live right.
@Edith.Praise8 ай бұрын
Cynthia talk to your O.G as well, don't just listen to one side please do the same to both.
@neroabamusani26568 ай бұрын
Wen u bring ur family matter to the Internet, except negative advices. I was born in a family that my father n mother can't buy a book talk more of paying my school fee's. I'm happy today because I'm the one training my self in school. Education is the key to success.
@F.Diversity8 ай бұрын
Usually the abusive husband are very very nice to other people ti hide their bad side. Why did he bring those issues on the internet? He started it
@iduokoko93268 ай бұрын
This our generation just want to be free. Na big problem oooo. Freedom to do what you want has caused more problems for the society today. When most don't find success at the end of their freedom adventure, they turn to crime just to cover shame.
@nanas.recipes_8 ай бұрын
Most of us adults that was born in an African setting/environment experienced childhood traumas from constant shouting and screaming of our parents and we unconsciously are doing that to our children. The home/family should be a safe haven for the children but the adults that should be nurturing their children are at loggerheads and causing mental torture to the children. Whatever their son is going through, has an underlying background to what his parents did. Everyone deals with issues differently and the son needs help honestly cause he is struggling to process the issues he is having.
@samblesselo8778 ай бұрын
Why do we always blame our failures to our parents?. Because of the Western world culture, now shouting in an African home is now a trauma. Your kid did something wrong, and you, as a parent, corrected him or her is now an abuse. Listen, I went through so many beating from my mom growing up, but you know what? That's what shaped me into the person that I am today. Abroad, there are so many kids that have parents that all they do from morning until night is drugs, yet those kids turned out good kids, So what do you call that? Good parenting?. A failed kid will always blame the parents. Is high time you start owing up to your own mistakes and try to make it right and stop blaming everyone else but you.
@leticianamale86108 ай бұрын
Exactly. Taking your child to expensive top-notch Turkish schools does not in any way heal the emotional damage caused by the father. The way Emeka is raging like a wounded lion because his ex has finally opened the closet and exposed his skeletons also bespeaks a sick mind in need of therapy. Unfortunately, his kind are so lacking in insight that they never reach out for the much needed professional help.
@Daizyonceagain8 ай бұрын
@@samblesselo877 shut up! typing garbage..circle of abuse
@foxcnbc98028 ай бұрын
Daddy freeze you miss the point always. Focus on the role of parent to redirect their children. A child may derail and make a mistake. There is still tjme to return them to focus. The worst way to do this js through the behavior of emeka. Call this out. Call out the bad behavior and do not in any way justify this. Then focus on the role of the parent to redirect the child to the right path.
@amgfcuk32918 ай бұрын
Interviewer is bias and on the man’s side. Not ready to hear how Emma is a quiet person
@DailyVibesHub8 ай бұрын
Regina Askia is a loving grace and she’s so full of wisdom. The way she responds to everything and how she was able to navigate the conversation about Emeka Ike’s don and wife including d man himself taking about what the family needs and the cause/process of the man vents and how she wouldn’t throw him under the bus knowing he’s not as horrible as he was being pa instead is refreshing.
@officialgentleman26528 ай бұрын
The VN played (not supported) was a response to something, what was Emeka responding to? He said he's being blackmailed. He said go and do it now as if the boy was threatening him with death/sucide. The issue with we Nigerians/Africans is we're too emotional and this robs us of the ability to reason; see beyond what's being said. Emeka Ike story has holes, his wives own has a lot too, the boy is pained and also seemingly manipulative, at a point i told my dad i think he doesn't love me, but today I adore that man. Another thing is some people find a way to continually tell themselves a lie until they believe it to be true, that's what this family is doing right now especially the boy, because he now hates his dad he'll taint his image in his head until he believes that's who his dad actually is.
@consumingfire-u3w8 ай бұрын
My dear I wish I could hug you now.........I know how many times i walked up to my mother that father wasn't my father and she would cry that she has never known any other man in her life and she will plead with me and talk me into seeing the good in my father ........my darling today i can never pray for a better father ..... .my father shaped me,my father is my hero today,my father taught me how to make money with my hands even when i never knew the value of money .....my father taught us simplicity,humility,focus,hardwork etc....my father would take me round town showed me the end of an obedient child and the end of a disobedient child.......now i pray for long life for my father so i could repay him.....for all the disciplines he gave me and my siblings......
@remiademola32658 ай бұрын
So if your child states they would commit suicide you would encourage them to do it??? 😮😮
@Deetaiwo8 ай бұрын
Can you force a 22yr old man to go school? Am just asking?
@ajaysinclairmusic72538 ай бұрын
My Dad sha doesn’t tell me to die
@patriciahamilton27288 ай бұрын
Hey Baba J, I know you can make a difference here. I am betting on you to come through. I think you can motivate this young man to make dad, himself and you proud. I am Jamaican. I love Africa on a whole, but especially Nigerians
@findouthow13838 ай бұрын
It is the way their experiences are being generalized as the standard for everyone🤔. Well 🤷🏽♂️
@foxcnbc98028 ай бұрын
This father is suffering from personal trophies. He does not really care about his son. Its about his trophies. 😢 But sad to watch this unfold. The father should stop dreaming, pick up the pieces and support his boy. Let him not compare what others are doing.
@Uncensored-Updates8 ай бұрын
We are looking for parents who can take us to schools 😢but those with opportunity are lousy 😢
@hammedadekunle98268 ай бұрын
I swear
@christianapatrick49387 ай бұрын
No be small thing a lot of youths want to go to school but there parents doesn't have the money.
@liliankamara42088 ай бұрын
This is bad father. Children need love and support
@iduokoko93268 ай бұрын
How much love did you get? What young people call love is freedom to whatever they want, what parents call love is help hidden in discipline.
@liliankamara42088 ай бұрын
I was loved . I don't remember my dad wishing me to die let him do the right thing by loving his kids 🙏
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
How did he know he didn’t love his kids? Have you seen there old pictures? He was always laughing hugging his father, what changed? Go to school leave music he go small see say papa don travel he run to his mum. Then she happily allowed him to stay back not return to university he has gain admission and paid fee for two years? And started recording songs and working in restaurants, he can do better with some degree
@sheilamireku9678 ай бұрын
Yes emeka is a public figure with so many supporters but pls that does not mean he doesn't have personality issues. It might be true that emeka's personality issues affected the children and the home as well. Let him also seek for help so that he can be a good role model for his children to look up to... Pls, do not overlook the concerns of the boy about his father just coz he's a well known public figure, some people do hv double personalities and they need help
@preciousekuma71658 ай бұрын
Madam the scenario in which your father asked the car to -- you is not d same compared to what is happening in Emeka's home. Nothing justifies the abandonment and abuse meted to those kids. If he cared, he would have known the boy wasn't in school and do what he could to remedy the situation.
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
How did you know he has not being trying? You they there? Well nobody fit answer us. Make the boy go school abeg
@igboukwu8 ай бұрын
Even Davido finished Uni and did Youth service.
@faithfulgodfrey20208 ай бұрын
Degree matters in human relations which is a basic asset on planet earth. Wisdom can be applied by all but understanding takes hardwork to grow.
@uzochukwuchinedu30978 ай бұрын
He is not a dictator, if you're not trained that way, you will not be what you are, my mother told me that going to school is laziness and mocked me that l am going to school is to learn laziness. I trained my self as a lawyer and today l am very happy. But without the abuse from my mother, l would have not been able to work hard. I do not know my father. It is unfortunate that some women will go into manipulate their children to hurt their husband is a very cheap blackmail. We are not in America or Europe if you are not hard to the children, they will not grow up. He went to media to say his father is a drug addict. Abusing your father on the social media who is a star. May God help our family.
@ladlesandoven8 ай бұрын
Y'all dont understand abuse
@juliettv50058 ай бұрын
Cynthia olden days olosho shut up, what was the reason he dropped out of school, as for you daddy freeze my ex this my ex that, one day she will come and speak up too,
@AA-ww1tc8 ай бұрын
In my own opinion. I think having a degree gives a person a better edge both in Nigeria and abroad. For example, some countries consider your qualifications when trying to legally immigrate abroad.
@lysangeng-wd7zq8 ай бұрын
Emeka is encouraging his son to suscide . No one can accept it. If something happens that boy, Emeka will be held responsible
@sodangijohn90188 ай бұрын
Did you listen to the complete conversation? Did hear him saying the boy wants to blackmail him? Do you know what emotional blackmail is? Go google it and stop saying rubbish
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
What are you saying….me I don tire for some people comment. Did the people look someone something will happen to?
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
Boy*
@jamash71438 ай бұрын
Education is the only way out. It’s the equivalent of the so called American dream today. I raised 2 children in America and they are both medical doctors.My son who’s now a cardiologist will tell people now at 30yrs old that he considers himself lucky to have a Nigerian father. I know all the struggles we have to go through to even get him focus on his education when he was a teenager. Even in America you need to be well educated. Education does not mean you will be a millionaire. But education has its own benefits that even your money can’t buy. My daughter at 31years old never have to look for a job. She’s a surgeon with double fellowship in surgical critical care and trauma surgery. You have to be a dictator to raise children either in America or Nigeria. People confuse being a firm parent to an abusive one. Failure of your children in a way is a reflection on both parents. Be careful who you have children with. Cooperations of both parents are key to successful raising great children. May God bless our family
@olabadmus46618 ай бұрын
My mum will always say person wey wise no dey loose in two places ,if marriage fail at least make children get good education. Mr Ike is already married to an SA woman with his passion if he gets those children more educated than yours,one has lost in 2 places. Our mothers find themselves in messy marriages with crazy men but their use their small sanity to their best advantage for their children.
@adeolaolatunji93248 ай бұрын
GOD Bless. This woman walked away from the marriage. Good!! But never took up the responsibility of what it takes to be a single mother. Now laying blame on others. I was treated the same way but ex absconded I took up the task trusting GOD. Was so poor at one point but Glory be to GOD I've overcome. ....she chose a path but lived below expectations as pertaining to the kids. Like u said some had worst.
@valentinaisiguzo18678 ай бұрын
His mother should guide him aright please. His father might be handling it the wrong way but the mother should fill in the gap. That boy sure needs some counselling or therapy.
@demaru42768 ай бұрын
Being raised by a single parent in a peaceful home may be enough 'trauma' for some kids, leading to maladaptive behaviors. Any child that goes through the constant family turmoil Michael went through requires some extreme form of grace to turn out right.
@rhymzyoronni36608 ай бұрын
someone can be calm and dangerous at the same time
@mohakweh8 ай бұрын
He is still young, there is no age limit to going to school, he can still go back to school
@foxcnbc98028 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@NgoziNwaimo8 ай бұрын
Why waste the admission and money? If he didn’t run by now he will be rounding up , one day we go hear this regret.
@superstoresng8 ай бұрын
Cynthia Amadi spoke very well. Kudos!❤
@wyseroyideas8 ай бұрын
Those words are thru anger,does not really come from heart.Who can play Voice notes of when he prays for his children secretly.His son need to grow mentally but he will realised this later.Alot of that from my dad and he never means that.I Love my dad and mum.
@florenceomotoyinbo9628 ай бұрын
An anger that destroys the emotions of the child
@nanas.recipes_8 ай бұрын
You people do have the slightest inclination of what abuse can do to children. I am even thankful that the boy is not into some terrible vices honestly. Whatsoever that child is going through is because of their parenting issues. Not every child can move past pain and abuse without help. That boy needs fatherly love and support but Emeka is carrying out the anger of his ex wife on his children. Like the saying, ‘ when two elephants Dey fight, it’s the grasses that will suffer’. I say it with my full chest, when you decide to bring children into this world, be ready to give your presence, encouragement, correction (in love), unlearn, learn and relearn. When you have four children, you have to be intentional as a parent to know what works for each one. I am a teacher and I see, hear what children go through and some don’t even want school to end as an excuse not to go back home.
@Aestheticsdairy8 ай бұрын
Stockholm syndrome
@jasmineakagha43545 ай бұрын
Its so hard listening to Doctor Freeze,he hardly ever looks at the screen.
@afeomotola25558 ай бұрын
Daddy freeze just Dey shout degree You forget that not everyone has the brain for book stress Or because he is Emeka Ike’s son he automatically has the brain?🤷♀️ I use to have this friend that always come to my house to read with us during exam period and after reading all night she still struggles to write something in her exam hall We were in same class but in different exam hall. She will come out not happy feeling like reading is a waste of time… she had to drop out because she was told to repeat a session So not everyone is made for books if u like hire professor to teach him Who nor know book Nor know book👌