Not true but encouraging. Downplay your expectation and focus on what is possible, don't drown yourself of the negative events. Mutual moral support is good however band together to see how can be done for those who suffer the same fate in the future. Accepting the predicament is one thing, overturn it is another. There must be a way solving this problem to prevent such incident. Put your mental resources together and produce solid solution. I have confident in woman, they have show the past results but a word of advice, let not your head expand bigger than your head. Be humble.