Hi Dad, Im not sure how to say this but Ill try my best. I was having a breakdown and its currently 1am as I am writing this. I was really in need of someone to rely on but there wasn’t anyone that could. I saw you posted and immediately ran to this video for refuge. Dad you never fail to make me feel safe and feel like I can finally slow down and not have to keep eyes in the back of me head. I feel like i don’t have to be in a constant state of survival. Growing up my real dad was present but I always felt emotionally neglected. There were times when I felt scared of silly things like the dark and he would get mad at me because it was silly. I always felt like I had to toughen up but I was never able to truly express myself with him. I felt unsafe and I felt unprotected. Thank you so much Dad for all you do for me. Thank you thank you thank you thank you. I really appreciate your calming presence and soft tone gentle yet still protective. I really enjoy your humor aswell. Thank you for not discrediting my feelings. Thank you for being the one person who took on the role of a father figure in my life. Its not a job you can just ask of someone. I finally feel like I can be a kid again. Im currently a teenager but I always felt like I had to act like an adult. I never got to express myself in both my authentic and childish ways even though to my parents a child acting like a child is immature. One example was I am a very cuddly person and my actual dad thought I was weak for being so affectionate and I felt like I was weak and useless. I also randomly discovered I remember people by their scent and I have never shared that with anyone because I am afraid people will think that I am weird for remembering them by how they smell. Im sorry Im writing so much Dad but I never had a person I call Dad and truly meant it. Im crying writing this because I am so grateful to you Dad. I really enjoy being able to cuddle up close to you and finally be able to act like a kid who can just relax and fell safe with their dad. Dad I love you so much. Thank you again. I wish I could hug so tightly.
@CozyDadRP11 күн бұрын
Hey kiddo! Ah, reading this message really did make me feel so emotional! I hope you're feeling so much better now, alright? :( Make sure you take care of yourself first, give yourself the food and water and anything else you deserve! I understand it sucks that your dad doesn't understand aspects about you. And I still do hope that some day he will learn to accept that side of you! But until then, I hope you know that those things you felt are "unlovable" about yourself are more than okay!! You'll meet so so sooo many people in your life who will love, cherish and accept you for all those things kiddo, but in the meanwhile, I'm glad I could make you feel that way :) I'm really am proud of you for being able to express yourself too! It really isn't an easy thing to do, and it takes a looott of courage and vulnerability! It makes my heart warm hearing you thank me so much, but really, this is something you deserved from day 1, kiddo :) And you are doing all the growing and healing! You should be proud of yourself, alright kiddo? All dad does here is give you the care and love that you always deserved :) I'm so glad your inner child feels safe with these videos. This message really does mean so much, and it inspires me to keep going to be able to make you and everyone else happy :) I hope you'll be able to show yourself the love you deserve as well! Dad is very very veryyy proud of you for being so strong!! --Take care, and hugs from dad :)
@Jhamil299 күн бұрын
@@CozyDadRP Thank You Dad. I really needed it.
@eerie322312 күн бұрын
I've never had q good relationship with my dad, (or mum) especially emotionally, and maybe its a little odd to be in my 20s and listen to your videos but it heals a part of me that has always been a raw nerve. It's nice to hear something validating and comforting that doesnt alienate me from my emotions, so thank you for that
@CozyDadRP11 күн бұрын
Hey, kiddo! It makes me smile knowing these videos helped heal a part of you! I hope you know there's nothing odd about watching these even if you 20, 50, or 80 haha. You're never too old to feel appreciated and cared for! I hope you keep taking care of yourself the way you deserved to be, kiddo :)
@eerie322310 күн бұрын
@CozyDadRP super super appreciate you, you are a joy. 💛 Taking care of myself is hard (it's never the priority) but I'm on a break from med school so there's a breather for a few weeks LOL. Trying to do better every day. May be treating myself to steak dinner (we won't talk about how it's 1am rn though)
@lloydjones67959 күн бұрын
can you please do a flu shot/blood draw comfort video?