Dad Thinks Her Bad Behavior is KEEPING HER SINGLE! II Steve Harvey

[@blessedbeauty5411]

She seems to have a nice personality and she is nice looking.There is a time and place for everything.

[@MyWayWendy]

"Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a Dad" A quote by Anne Gedde.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Honestly, they really need a quote like that for women because definitely not every woman that has a kid is a mom lol

[@gregkipkirui2331]

There is nothing called a dad. That language is feminist bs. There are only fathers

[@victortaylor7737]

I agree- a stranger can be ur father but a dad is special.and she needs to be self respecting-dressing& acting like a honcie will turn a guy off,only get him sexually excited,nuff said

[@panashe_talent]

Steve was backing it up for real 🤣🤣🤣

[@Mr._Moderate]

😁

[@cdo8994]

Steve isn’t a psycho therapist, but he gives wise advice many times on his show.

[@reasy1978]

Where was all of that wisdom in his own marriages?

[@cdo8994]

@@reasy1978 People don’t only learn from their own experiences but also from others & books as well so do I. Old age can also be a factor of maturity.

[@mrjuannorris_]

@@reasy1978 that’s where the wisdom came from.

[@reasy1978]

@@cdo8994 he sure has you fooled. Doing the same dirt but in secret isn't learning lol.

[@cdo8994]

@@reasy1978 Don’t we learn from mistakes? Nobody is wise at the time that he was born. Live and learn. Some people can’t even learn from the same mistakes and that’s sad.

[@arnaudfrancktaptuekuate5367]

She’s so cute She’ll find someone who likes that I do like her energy ❤

[@thabanghopane1455]

I feel like she just needs to find somebody like her and they might get along very well. It's hard to change who you are internally, like it takes time. But if she fing someone like her she might not have a problem

[@conniefan1028]

I'm sorry but I also disagree if you can't listen to music and have fun what's the point?

[@323azteca]

She finds people like her for sure, none willing to take the extra step of marrying. That's not what they see "the backing" for.

[@musicgal9830]

@@323azteca Oh stop being so negative.

[@323azteca]

@@musicgal9830 buhuuu 😂

[@KWin-ik5cl]

If your DAD is saying that? GURL!!! you need to listen to that man.

[@antonialovesyou4462]

Old Fashion Is God's Fashion!

[@maiNmusica]

It's how the patriarchy wants women to be like.

[@reasy1978]

No its not, it's patriarchy. Women have been brainwashed to believe their purpose is just to please & be used by men.

[@thewise2443]

I needed this. Bc I want my life partner, but I can’t lie .. when it comes to music, I’m dropping it like it’s hot in the club lol but I do realize, that ALWAYS attracts the wrong guys

[@healingIRT]

Proud of your growth

[@jeannettemcghee5775]

Absolutely that is the truth Steve 👍🏽

[@onemercilessming1342]

All she has to offer is what she's flaunting. Her Daddy is right.

[@kellyprosper7192]

I can understand how one might see it that way. But I think if a person is only looking for what is on the surface, they are not worthy to be offered the value of what she offers from within. We must think bigger than the surface and go deeper. Also, we must allow people to enjoy their lives and not live up to the expectations of others.

[@kimm3375]

NO. You don't know what she has to offer. Her father's point is she has more to offer and because of her behavior people people will think that's all she has to offer.

[@onemercilessming1342]

@@kimm3375 Don't make me laugh. What can she offer? How to glue eyelids shut in your sorority? How to lie about your education? Her degree is supposed to be a double major in International Studies and Theater Arts--a double degree that Northwestern states they don't offer. Acting as a paralegal doesn't make one a lawyer!! She's a fake, a fraud, a poseur. Risible at best. Those of us with real science degrees, professional licenses, and solid careers using our education, talents, and expertise are mildly amused by her audacity and hauteur.

[@kellyprosper7192]

@@kimm3375 And what people think about us is their problem, not ours.

[@tonye.5410]

​@@kellyprosper7192your probably single with a pet. That's the wrong mindset, stemming from a fatherless, feminist POV

[@itssricaa96]

I meannnnn I GET IT ! You want to act with a little class but at the SAME TIME WHY are they playing music like that at a classy function if they don’t want nobody to dance ? 🤔😂 That’s the REAL question here !!

[@AT-zl6dk]

I’m from Louisiana it’s definitely the culture class events & less class events we going to play Louisiana bounce music & dance. The guys like to dance as well. I get what her dad saying but it’s a moment.

[@AT-zl6dk]

Classy

[@danieldemire6987]

What about having self-control

[@nataliesherwin3246]

I was thinking the same thing

[@davidmaltais2912]

You don't have to dance like a stripper either... Plenty of ways to dance that don't make her look like a hoe

[@RILLAMAN84]

My daughter is 16. She’s not into the whole butt shaking. I thank the good Lord for that one😮‍💨🙌🏽. She doesn’t understand why girls do it. I told her a real young man in her age range, wouldn’t go for someone like that. A real man wouldn’t go for a woman like that. You need to respect your self before a boy/man can even begin to respect you. We have many good conversations like that. I pray she makes wise decisions in her young adult years to come.

[@alanarzate93]

Please stay in her life way to many daddy issues in this world already

[@rexididia6624]

Awesome... I get blessed watching every episodes.

[@ogbuehifrancis1177]

This is incredible love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

[@catturner1224]

So bc Steve told her it's immature she listened, her Dads advice went through one ear and outta the other 🤔

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

I am so glad a woman in the comments could point it out because of me and any man would have typed that same comment everyone would just 🙄. Her dad literally gave her sound advice but only when a male celebrity told her the same now she gets it? This has nothing to do with the father or his parenting skills she’s just a little girl that needs to grow up and be a woman and listen to her dads obviously good advice lol

[@realmaureenoyakhilome]

@@hawaiianrussian1047most kids don’t listen to their parents. Men or women.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@realmaureenoyakhilome ok but this clip is about a grown ass woman who genuinely didint want to listen to sound advice from her father she’s not a kid? lol

[@TrivioHQ]

even Jesus noted that a prophet is never appreciated in his hometown

[@olowofelabode6476]

You just highlighted pain

[@princesselizabethgarden7556]

Her dad is a wise man. It’s not really about the song, it’s more about her and her values….

[@elongaabigail8636]

Being single isn't bad.

[@SowNowWhat]

My question is, why was the DJ spinning Back That Thang Up at such a posh event 😂 that sound like a setup

[@realdeal8099]

I think Steve just gave the best advice he's ever given

[@ariellemayaali]

she is 29, still very young. If she’s out with her girlfriends and they’re having fun and are being safe, I don’t see anything wrong with that. There’s a time in place for everything, I feel like as long as you’re not doing that EVERYWHERE you go she’ll be fine and to 7:08 be completely fair, the last place, I would want to try and find my husband is at the club, the club is for fun. When it comes down to looking for a husband, I will check out local events, shows or walk around the Home Depot or something 😭

[@prettiilexii672]

That is the mindset of why she is still single at 29.

[@Qvotes]

Exactly this! I mean, ppl are always defending right off the bat without acknowledging that there's soundness in some restrictions. And you know, pointing out these things doesn't necessarily mean telling them off that they can't do this, they can't do that. For sure, the father of this lady only worries how she might look like to others, worse for her safety (with so many sexual harassments here and there). Ppl really have to zoom out from their own perspective, every once in a while.

[@Anonymous09981]

29 is not very young 😅

[@Lil2toxic]

This is my sister in Law!

[@SharkyBG]

He took it too seriously. If you wanna dance at 29 - you dance! If you wanna dance at 69 - you dance and when you find the one for you he will dance with you!

[@GregoryBlackman-6319]

Spoken like a single person

[@SharkyBG]

@@GregoryBlackman-6319 Wrong. My man loves my crazy side and I never feel like I should stop myself from being who I am. It's important to find somebody who appreciates you for you.

[@MrSimpleCF]

@@SharkyBG you can be all crazy at home. No need to shake your ass in public for other men's desires.

[@Mscookie3131]

Just because there are exceptions to rules, doesn’t make it right. Keep telling women it’s okay to keep twerking for the world to see all your intimate body parts and black women in America will continue to be the least married group in the world.

[@serious7179]

​​@@GregoryBlackman-6319you sound like a terminally miserable, single man. Thankfully, those of us who love life, are vibrant, and like to have fun have found husbands who are equally fun-loving...

[@janetkeen8280]

Excellent advice Steve

[@maudebakye]

Good advice to young ladies of today's world❤❤❤ More love❤ from Ghana🇬🇭

[@NasibHabib]

I myself am 29 years old and i have been single for close to three years now, there ain't nothing wrong with being single at 29 my dear, it is very okay.. you cant force love into your life, it just happens without you even knowing it. What you're doing it called living your life, in fact, enjoy it.

[@megalattie3824]

Exactly, and she can "back that thing up" as much as she wants to a song if she likes it - so what? Doesn't take away from her being an educated , beautiful woman..it ain't that serious.. She's just having fun..They try to turn everything into something it's not.. She may just find someone who likes to dance as well and laugh at themselves while they dance together.. As crazy or as fun as they'd like 😊

[@NasibHabib]

@@megalattie3824 Right from my mind is your opinion.

[@terrycoeur9875]

Thing is she wants to meet someone special and get married. She is not single by choice which is why her Dad's opinion bothers her. Steve even says it out loud in 2:34.

[@NasibHabib]

@@terrycoeur9875 Right! That is why i was of the view that she shouldn't take anyone's opinion serious. He knows better than anybody at her age how hard it is to maintain a relationship and reach milestones. Each moment in life is chance to breath and appreciate life as we hope for the best.

[@Azteck9]

I disagree Steve. All the good girls will be the ones not on the floor. Let her stay out there. The single 40 - 60 year old aunties gotta be an example to the younger generation of whats to come.

[@Lijah578]

30 - 40 year old generation deeply concerns me...

[@donnag183]

I can always count on you for a good laugh before work Steve Harvey!!! 🤣🤣😂😂😆

[@kennethyoung4892]

Now this is good sound advice

[@NylahNashayY2k]

I like how the man at the end listens to his wife 😊

[@AT-zl6dk]

But grown people every year travel to NOLA for Mardi Gras & act a fool though lol 😆

[@redwallz4624]

And single

[@emtydoctrine]

I agree with the father. There needs to be time to grow up

[@MoonBeamsChild]

I'm sorry I'm 51 and if I'm at a party and they play AAAAAN-ONE OF MY SONGS, IT'S ON! Let them start playing 'Cap D coming! Cap D coming! Cap D coming! Cap D coming! Me: 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheAmiviBrownShow]

😂😂🙂❤

[@bsd1158]

Too many people in their late 20s and 30s living like they're 18 gotta grow up

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

Miss out on fun for silly cheating dudes that won't come?

[@ojotope2340]

I have been married for twenty years. My wife says walk, I got to walk....'wise man'.

[@FleetingDream755]

She's 29 years old but not mature

[@moroccanaroundtheworld2431]

Definitely

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

She’s a little girl trapped in a grown woman’s body lol

[@maiNmusica]

Because she likes to dance??

[@FleetingDream755]

@@maiNmusica I guess you're not mature either if you're asking this question

[@alphabanks]

@@FleetingDream755 Dancing has nothing tyo do with it she has the demeanor of a 7th grader.

[@LiciaY686]

But how Steve know the dance tho🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sotopnotchguy]

😏😏 -good question, luv - Seems like, back in the day, Steve was a proBLEM!

[@shyymusic]

because he think like a man but act like a lady

[@LiciaY686]

That part 😂

[@Sotopnotchguy]

@@LiciaY686 😎😎 - facts

[@seoulseokjin]

The name kinda self explanatory 😂

[@theresenydahl9531]

Steve sure can back that thang up!😂😂😂😂😂

[@official.allanjackson]

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[@kellyprosper7192]

Having fun and dancing is not inappropriate!

[@MarquelCherry-o5q]

All depends on the kind of dance.

[@kellyprosper7192]

@@MarquelCherry-o5q I can understand your point; however, I disagree. Kind regards.

[@prettiilexii672]

You must be single?

[@kellyprosper7192]

@@prettiilexii672 Happily married 21 years, and my husband loves it when I dance, and always has!

[@kellyprosper7192]

@prettiilexii672 Also, we met at a party on the dance floor. We didn't twerk back then, but we sure did drop it like it was hot. When our kids and grand kids come home for the holidays, we all dance to old school and new school stuff. It is a part of what we love about each other.

[@jasonaragon2766]

Traditional men want Traditional women. None of that looks traditional.

[@theladysingstheblues8322]

What's wrong with being single at 29??? In Europe many people are single at 29!!

[@roflpill]

For a young woman who wants a family it's a problem. You need time to get to know a man to know if he's the right one before making that kind of serious commitment, and then she only has a couple years left, if she's lucky, to have children with him. It's not something you can just put together overnight. Each kid takes realistically an entire year to grow, especially when you add in the recovery time for her body. And at 35 it's considered late to have a pregnancy because of increased risks for birth defects and/or pregnancy complications. Not to mention, it gets harder to find a serious partner, as most have already settled down already. The mindset of men (and women) is very different in America. It's not easy here and she's setting herself up for failure, sadly.

[@thisisashya5510]

A lot of hypocrites in this comment section

[@blueskies773]

I love his advice. Women need to hear grounded, real, advice from men who are willing to be honest and compassionate towards women. Like a big older brother, or a spiritual father in a sense. Someone who won’t demean women.

[@GGGinJe]

Cackling, immature child. Hope she listens to her father and grows up soon.

[@Oh_kay]

Baby God is in control. She wants a man she better take it up with the true Father up above.

[@erikaerika7788]

It's trashy 😊😊😊 if this lady has a dad who guided her,,,, IMAGINE THE FATHERLESS LADIES 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@alanarzate93]

Accountability is woman's kryptonite notice how she keept blaming on the song

[@roflpill]

Accountability is a maturity problem, not a gender issue. Plenty of men lack accountability as well.

[@ariellaabrahams]

0:33 What class? There's no class to go out the window

[@ronaldwheaton5058]

I definitely can relate!!!!! Back that thang up does something to us all😄

[@prettiilexii672]

She is ignorant and will remain single in her 30s. Smh She thinks it is funny.

[@lilreddy37]

Why can't you still have fun in life. I gotta be somebody else just to fit in a certain group Boi please.

[@dennismctye9048]

That's not the point

[@awatson8832]

I agree. Life is for living. Who cares about age? Seriously

[@323azteca]

Have all the fun you want. Just then don't expect society to accommodate. In other words, you can't force men to like that. If you can get that, then, it's ok.

[@prettiilexii672]

Continue to have fun like that if you're not looking for a husband There's a time and place for everything. Single behavior will not make you a wife.

[@chisomibezim1481]

A respectable man wouldn't like that. And what woman doesn't want a respectable man? The only ones that would like that are the ones that just want sex and nothing else

[@maggiemeltabarger3458]

Listen to Steve.

[@Sarah-y5w]

Find a man that loves you for u❤❤❤❤❤ Backing that thang up or not😂😂😂

[@pollys2142]

Her dad is right. Time and place for everything but his experience is teaching her here. Listen cause he’s saying it for a reason

[@D_Mekole]

Get your husband and then back that thang up with him! 😆 She’s innocent and cute and wants to have fun…you are 30 girl 😆

[@dorothyd2559]

HER DAD IS RIGHT.

[@cliobhabie]

She acts like she’s 16

[@nailahdawkins]

He's like "Baby girl, you're _too old_ for this 💯." At 29, get your life together you're almost 30! Responsibilities, maturity, discipline - hobbies. Not being elemental with an old song. Classic advice given🎉.

[@chrysokitsou7611]

Such an incredible advice !

[@rburgess7601]

“Old fashion” is wisdom.

[@Vivacious7913]

I’m from New Orleans-born and raised and still here. Juvenile “Back that thang up” would have you jumping though. You gotta be from New Orleans to understand. 😆😂However, backing it up can be a bit much. If I hear it I usually just regularly start dancing with my hands up or something. I only act like a clown and actually act up with it in the company of people closest to me-family/friends events, or if I’m not partying IN New Orleans because i understand that in other places, their cultures are different. I think maybe she’s bending over with it, so maybe if she just do a lil’ shake while standing up with, it might help her look less tacky maybe. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂But even then I’m careful of how I carry myself. I wouldn’t dare carry myself like that in public or an event that’s not at least 85% family/friends. No ma’am 🤔In all honesty though, “Back that thang up” is cultural here in New Orleans. I don’t think that that’s why she can’t get a man. It’s probably her immaturity or her character, because again-If I’m being honest, seeing women back it up when that song comes on is normal here. If Thai song comes on at a party here most women run to the dance floor or dance from their chairs. I be like “alright giiirl get it.” It’s that “You get a pass on this one do your thang” type of song. That’s how normal it is. We New Orleanians don’t see as the rest of the world sees it. It’s normal for us here🤷🏽‍♀️🫣 Now, if sexual parts are exposed while doing it? Then that’s different.

[@tamberlynnbrown3011]

They don’t understand what that beat mean to us in Louisiana, but yeah a more controlled shake still works. Do the extra shaking at the house😂😂

[@sunshineellivic2858]

Uncle Steve please have your day time again please

[@Jejohns]

Be careful of giving someone advice on how to get someone or something, sometime the change can be temporary & they’ll change back or get worse once they get what they want

[@lakeishabrown993]

I believe there is an appropriate time and place for everything. If you backing your thing up any time and any place, Steve’s advice is perfect, but other than this, dance 🕺 🪩 💃 your life up!

[@opium77757]

Come on she is 29! ((Dance like tomorrow ain't coming))!🤩

[@charityfrazier8639]

But tomorrow is coming. She won't be young forever. You gotta grow up sometime especially if you want a spouse for the long haul. It's called self control.

[@beverlybennett963]

I would ot want to see my daughter or granddaughters, they are teenagers, act that way.. No, No, No.. Daddy is RIGHT!!!!!

[@ChipsAddict]

This is the same girl from Ready for Love. About 2 seasons ago. She was either the 1st or 2nd lady to get kicked out and she was a bit toxic 😅😅

[@durgeshbhandari4764]

Sir I like your speech or style also voice. I'm from India

[@MarquanWatson]

Mike said something a lot of men are nonchalant to sexual altercation sponsors satisfaction but it's not more important than goals nor staying professional when your around profession.

[@antoinemull6682]

Only God knows what’s best for us only for those who believe or want to believe and true fact is a lot of us single because we don’t allow God to direct our path

[@RuthAdebolaHola]

This is the song that gets all the class out the window "Back That Thang Up" I am sorry I don't see it😕😕😕😕😕

[@carlcwms]

She will become your embarrassment.

[@TheAscott307]

She's not the only one at Zulu ball doing that! I was backing it up at the Zulu ball in my gown too! And so was every other lady! Her dad need to realize it's NOLA and that's how that go. Lol

[@itspossible3381]

I wish there was an update on if she has found love!!! 💕 😂

[@beatriceowusuachaw6210]

All will be well

[@janeybakarbessy2330]

It’s still going but you shouldn’t be… love the advice!

[@4bratkab565]

I understand that lady😂🎉🎉🎉As soon i hear music i sing and dance😅 She is still young, beautiful girl let her enjoy life🎉🎉🎉I like Steve and advice but also i love dance😅🎉🎉🎉sing

[@anthonyporter5093]

She’s a little too old for people to keep saying she’s still young. She’s grown as hell.

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

​@@anthonyporter5093Too grown to have fun and dance? I don't want a man if he hates me for that

[@charityfrazier8639]

I think it depends on the kinda dancing you're doing. Nothing wrong with dancing but don't be all nasty with it. Just unnecessary. No one wants to practice self control anymore. Out there twerking and acting a fool wondering why they can't get a man and if they do it's only for a short time bc dude got what he wanted. If you want a man that will stick around keep that part at home. You got a man there is no need to be out disrespecting your spouse like that. Most men don't like their woman acting like that in public.

[@JayC2k08]

Sorry i have to disagree Sir Steve music is in someones soul. If they hear their song the song that most speaks to them they will dance. I do understand the dad but that's not understanding his daughter. Its like if a song from the 70s 80s or 90s played wouldn't anyone with a musical soul linked to a song start to dance

[@emmanueldique7407]

Shaking your ass in public at a place where your potential husband could be watching is not having fun, its lack of responsibility. 29 is no joke bruh. She only got a few more good years to stably get settled

[@cyrilchefor8054]

Music is food for the soul no doubt, the issue is her dancing moves in public

[@MoonBeamsChild]

Facts!!!

[@JayC2k08]

@emmanueldique7407 lol and her potential husband could have been right there admiring her for doing her thing

[@JayC2k08]

@@cyrilchefor8054 exactly 😊

[@ItsRissaBaabbyy]

That's Kourtney!!! She's dated Vinny on his show Shot at Love!!! I thought they were so cute and was rooting for her to win but she had to leave early due to a family emergency!! She's still gorgeous!!❤

[@Reinadelbaile]

Thanks

[@droberts1664]

Shes only 29, and shes so cute.

[@kimberlyturner820]

Your dad is right.

[@GetTheGrandFunkOut]

In an ACM college campus visit, a young man asked George Clinton to explain _Atomic Dog,_ because every time that song comes on his headphones, no matter where he is he gets to strutting like a dog! So, put this woman with him and when she backs that thang up, he can strut toward it like a dog!

[@etnohc]

The first lady was on Double Shot at Love. She was trying to date Vinny from Jersey Shore. Vinny really liked her but she had to leave the show because of a death in the family.

[@cyrilchefor8054]

Happy birthday to him, mine was on Monday the 18 and it was a ghost town here in English speaking part of Cameroon due to the Anglophone crisis I was indoors all day

[@bunmibabatunde2819]

Happy birthday in arrears

[@rachaelferguson7046]

I’ve gotta disagree with Steve on this. Just because she’s 29, it doesn’t mean she can’t dance & have fun in public. Life is too short to not take advantage of fun moments.

[@thisisashya5510]

Exactly

[@kadiatouthiam3909]

Me too

[@reasy1978]

Women have been brainwashed to believe they have to please men rather than themselves. It sounds to me like it's not so much that she wants to be married, but rather her father that wants that. She seems to be enjoying single life just fine, and men tend to hate that because it means they can't use women for their own selfish purposes.

[@lblove4756]

I agree and and their should be a nice man who loves her uplifting vibe.

[@zxcccccc1]

She can back it up on her husband.

[@mothercomet]

This one is so sad for a human. God help America.

[@chimakalu41]

3:40 haha. Play it and do nothing.👍🏾. I hate that song

[@tedebare7874]

Yes it does that beat go hard. And why are they playing back that thing up at a ball

[@onlyme24]

Mental challenges galore

[@xheartiiz]

Girl, marry a man that will tell the dj to play Back That Thing Up on your wedding day!

[@johnkhupsamte6893]

Back that thing up😂😂😂

[@E.M1.12-w3c]

ThAnks boss 🙂🎉..

[@MarkDaugherty-xw1eq]

Yes, u do

[@LaminFatty-ly7ng]

Many single ladies and man wow 😢

[@brandonahmed7459]

He's still a deadbeat Dad/Father to her I would have never brought him back into my life again

[@Jejohns]

I need to go to the Zulu Ball next year

[@lyreenathan3837]

How about a visit to the dentist and get those front teeth straightened. Great advice from Steve Harvey, she keeps behaving like this, the wrong guy would understandably take her actions a dangerous way!!! She's showing no respect in herself or her father!!!

[@charityfrazier8639]

If a man loves her, truly loves her.. the teeth don't matter. Just practice some self control and don't worry about the superficial stuff. The teeth don't matter to someone who loves you for you. Society puts way too much pressure on women to be perfect. We need to be helping eachother and lifting eachother up. Not being critical about someone's looks.

[@realtalktherapyreactions]

But theres a time and place for everything, a party is reasonable