Dai & Shun|| Their story (Part 4)

[@taehung8172]

Whoever is calling Shun toxic is speaking from a place of privilege. First of all: 1) his moves are defensive mechanism : Imagine being a baby or a kid who knows that no one will be there for him, and the only one who is going to protect him in this scary world is himself. Being an orphan is way harder than growing in bad environment.. he was alone in this world.. 2) He must have been surprised that some people fall in love at first sight. That's why he wanted to know if Dai was serious or if it was just a temporary feeling. He wanted to understand why Dai liked him. That's obviously because he never experienced unconditional love. He never experienced being cared for; he was abandoned. That's why, when Dai love-bombed him, he was uncomfortable and wanted space and to be just friends. It’s not his common sense-his common sense is fight or flight. 3) Shun made an incredible effort because, at first, Dai wasn't his type. (I’m pretty sure most of us have a type, and it's hard to give someone who isn't our type a chance.) He didn't want to give Dai hope that he would be with him or interested in him just because Dai had a crush on him. 4) He grew and became better. He was afraid because he knew that when he falls in love, he will fall hard. That's why he was stopping himself from falling in love with Dai, trying to find reasons to prove himself wrong-that he doesn't deserve love and that it was just a phase. That’s why he was testing him. 5) You can tell he is neurodivergent. For example, he gets overwhelmed by noise, which is expected because of where he grew up. Any way let's be kind and an understanding people because we have no right to judge a person we know nothing about him or about the demons in his head especially if that person is aware of his problems and is working on himself to be better 🤍

[@amruthaholla5718]

Wonderful psychological explanation

[@jobeecroft8422]

Beautifully written - 100% agree

[@c.yz.1660_daishun]

Wedding.. Life together.. Raising kids together.. Grow old together... DaiShun

[@pabooyaa88]

Damn!!! I binged all the parts and waiting for the next one

[@lostttt............2363]

Ikuo being the casualty

[@naylaindra7041]

Please more❤❤

[@tracyparry5901]

Did they stay together someone please tell me

[@vaishnaveeseshachalam1220]

Yes

[@soniap1217]

Yes they are together ,Shun after the show lived for 3 months with Dai family ❤ now they stay together the have at IG separate and join accounts and the have a KZbin account @Daishun, today the were making a live for 10 minutes from Korea ❤❤

[@hashichathurika9118]

Yes❤

[@CarmelitaAndrade-r1s]

Sem legenda em português aff Brasileiro não entende nada 😡😡🤭

[@Mianao1314]

Y'all always make it about you, everywhere 🙄

[@RajeshAruna-zy4ii]

Next show please

[@KainatUmar-t3t]

In Urdu

[@kuroneko7022]

I’m sorry but if I had been Dai I would have given up on Shun way before now. His game playing is immature and Dai is a good guy.

[@АнельКобзева]

Мне кажется, что Шен очень сложный человек , Ди проще ! Ди с Шеном будет не легко ! У Шена эти постоянные перепады в настроении , это напрягает ! Хочется знать : кто актив , а кто пасив ? Это можно узнать или нет?? Кто ответит ? ?