ึcas pab hlub nej ua luaj li os cov me nyuam aw! tsi txhob tu siab os mog ntxim hlubdhau
@mailee-xiong7064 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, your stepmom didn't tie a string blessing for your child, because she's not your mom. You shouldn't be disappointed. Don't count or wait for her. Remember you don't need to love her when she gets older, cause she never loved you.
@ntxhiandnomlwmchannel77854 жыл бұрын
Cas tu siab ua luaj OS viv ncaus aw kuv nrog nej quaj2 lawn mog
@janesoyaj4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why Hmong people feel the need to be so judgmental. Niam ntsuab teev is not the richest person but she is human just like us. Don’t matter about the way she looks, how her hair is, her weight and how her shirt looks. Upgrade your KZbin to KZbin Premium so you can turn your phone off and still be able to listen to her rather than just staring at her about what’s next to judge on her. Smh 🤦🏻♀️
@corrupt_559-44 жыл бұрын
I agreed! People are so judge mental. They’re saying that she looks tire and go take some time off but when she does people are asking where she’s at and have been waiting for her story. Just let her do her thing! Geesh.
@janesoyaj4 жыл бұрын
CoRRupT_559 - and lastly , ppl go to work everyday looking like shit most of the days anyway. But you still get up and do your job. It’s life! It’s called being an adult!
@sillychakids62504 жыл бұрын
You are 100 percent correct. I listen to her with my phone down while doing whatever i have to do. It doesn't matter how she looks like, she's here telling us stories and thats all everyone should worry about.
@tswjntug23464 жыл бұрын
Neeg ntseeg Vajtswv es rseem hu plig thiab lov, cas txawv ua luaj li ntawd tsis tau pom dua thiab laiv. Ntshai yog ntseeg dab xwb pob.
@shuavheu29924 жыл бұрын
Only love those who love you. The ones who doesn’t love you won’t care regardless if you do good or not. As far as your dad and step-mom, they don’t love you. Koj hlub lawv los tsis muaj nqi es hlub tus neeg hlub yus xwb mog tus me niam tsev. Txawm nej tsis hlub koj txiv thiab niam tshiab los lub ntuj yeej tsis rau txim rau nej vim nkawd yog niam yog txiv nkawd twb tsis hlub nej.
@maiyang66014 жыл бұрын
Don’t wait for people like that to love you. I know there’s always that yearning for what could have been if your birth parent was here but just love your siblings, husband, and your children. Build a good life with those who truly care and ignore all the other noise. Thank the negative people for coming into your life to teach you what not to do and for motivating you to be a better person. You sound like a good woman with a strong head on your shoulders surrounded by loving people. Keep building on that and I know you will be fine. You could have been a victim of your circumstances but you chose to work hard, made something of yourself, and overcame all the obstacles that worked against you.
@sillychakids62504 жыл бұрын
Agree with your words!
@yksc86344 жыл бұрын
Mloog ma kua muag lo2 li o
@yeebntshachannel92544 жыл бұрын
Peb cov niam tsev uas yog hmoob na, thov nej pab hlub peb cov mi nyuam ntsuag li na yog tsis hlub tej mi nyuam ces txhob yuav lawv txiv thiab mas Los,cas yuav siab phem tshaj li os Lawv aw mob siab rau niam tshiab cov lus tshaj plaws li os mog!
@xaihlub344 жыл бұрын
Cas cov niam tshiab es nim ua cuag li nws tsis paub tuag yuav tseg nws cov meyuam ntsuag thiab. Ntxim ntxub tshaj li os!!!
@SL-pk6lg4 жыл бұрын
May, you're looking more and more tired, worn out and stressed each day... Don't forget to take care of your health. We understand you work hard to share these stories with us, but your health and well being is more important. Take some time off if you need to.
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
Agree! Take care of you before business. No health, no business. God bless
@cindythao3694 жыл бұрын
May, you look so tired , take some time to rest enough for yourself. I listen you every night and day. Some of your stories I have learned so much from it. Thank you
@thengvang95534 жыл бұрын
Nej twb ua tau niam ua tau txiv lawm es nej tseem pheej yuav mus nrog 2 niag niam txiv uas tsis hlub yus ntawv sib tham sib hais nawb. Yog kuv mas twb tsis ntsia ciaj thiab tuag los tsis k txog nkawv na. Muaj noj muaj haus tsis hu kuv los kuv twb tsis yog nws yug. Kuv muaj noj muaj haus los kuv yeej tsis hu vim kuv twb tsis yog nws yug. Hu tuaj los tuaj cem yus xwb tsis k tsis quav ntsej txog tej niag niam txiv siab phem siab dub.
@siathao44164 жыл бұрын
When people see that you have a better life they will say or do anything to tear you down. You need to love yourself and stop visiting your family.
@amazinggrace81364 жыл бұрын
John 3:3 Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again[a] he cannot see the kingdom of God.”
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
That’s so true here
@monicaxyooj9054 жыл бұрын
I have a similiar story like yours, too. My stepmom was so evil like yours and abused me like she did to your baby brother. I had no Hmong clothes at my wedding.
@sillychakids62504 жыл бұрын
I used to only think these kind of stories were only in movies, then when i grew up, i realized it takes a real story for them to create something to write about or film on. Hopefully your storm is over and only sunny days ahead of you.
@monicaxyooj9054 жыл бұрын
@@sillychakids6250 thank you. God has been so good to me in blessing me with a wonderful husband who is very supportive. I'm now working as a RN and have 4 wonderful children. I learned to forgive and move on. I give my children the things that I was lacked of. I hope that you and your siblings are doing well.
@bliathao58784 жыл бұрын
Koj zaj neej neeg hais tau tu siab kawg os me ntxhais aws tsi txhob tu siab os mog txoj kev tsi muaj niam ce yeej yuav txom nyem tshaj os
@tusiabmoua91694 жыл бұрын
Niam tshiab thiab koj txiv nkawd tsis hlub nej cov nus muag los, nej sib hlub nej, txhob tu siab uas niam tshiab tsis hlub nej, thaum nkawd need nej pab txhob pab ntau 2, tsuas pab me me xwb, koj txiv twb nyob under koj niam tshiab xwb es nej yuav nco ntsoov tias luag twb tsis yog yus niam es txhob tos lawm, tsis need mus saib nkawd ntau, mus saib me ntsis xwb, nws xav noj nej lub zog, kaus nej cov nyiaj xwb, hlub nej cov nus muag thiab os.. need Vajtswv nawj
@pahouaxiong61424 жыл бұрын
Txhob tus tus siab mog, nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no ces yeej tsis muaj ib leej niam twg yuav hlub lwm tus menyuam tshaj lis nws cov. Kuv tus kheej los yeej tau taug txoj kev lis koj lawm thiab. Thaum kuv los uas kuv lub neej kuv thiaj hlub kuv cov menyuam heev.
@yangby2k14 жыл бұрын
I thought her husband is a Christian why she still do the old tradition for her baby.
@dablaugntximntxub23184 жыл бұрын
fake ass christian ... people line this will only bring problem, sickness and calamity if they don't put an end to this wishy washy religion.
@caaspasvang74274 жыл бұрын
Ua Neej nyob qia dub npaum ntawm es thiaj pluag kus mas Tsi txhob tu siab mog yus peem yus thiaj yog yus li os mog 😢😢
@mayang1264 жыл бұрын
Cas Tiam nov tseem muaj cov niam you fucker siab phem npaum li yav ntuj thaum ub tom qab 75 thiab los hmoob lim hiam
@caaspasvang74274 жыл бұрын
Ma Yang cov tiam no hab yam phem os
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
Who cares about niam tshiab zoo li cas. The lady of the story is an adult acting like a kid here.
@dinayoung47974 жыл бұрын
Tus viv ncaus aw thov txim hais li no nawb tabsis koj txiv yog ib niag txiv dev xwb es nws thiaj li tsis hlub nws tsev neeg thiab cov me nyuam, ib niag txiv dev es thiaj li mus hlub lwm tus cov me nyuam hos yus cov ces muab cia ua ntsuag. May cov neej neeg mas feem coob lub neej puas yog tim peb cov txiv dev siab phem siab coob es coob poj niam me nyuam thiaj li quaj ntsuag.
@nouxiong90914 жыл бұрын
I was so mad at you the older sister listening to your story. Koj twb tsis muaj siab es lawv thiajli tsis hlub. Why let allow them to hurt you n your siblings after you all grown. Move out away I’m sorry. Kuv hlub nej cov me nus muag tsuag nos os nawb mog.
@drkashmedicalandlife4 жыл бұрын
Let it go Let it go You are too dependent on your mom and your dad Yes before you are married!!! You need a place to stay and finish school But once you are married Work Have $$$ Do your own thing Stop depending on your small mommy and daddy and grow up!!!
@sasikanninasaengthamnamcho27664 жыл бұрын
Omg very sad story I miss my mom to sister 😭😭😭😢
@xeeramirez94614 жыл бұрын
It's time this lady grow up you blam everything on your stepmom
@aivyajchannel36754 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu tu siab. Xav tias tsis yog yus niam. Es thiaj tsis hlub yus puam chawj mog. Kv nim mloog quaj mloog quaj nrog kJ os
@kayoualorkyl4 жыл бұрын
Hmmm you let them treat you that way, just disown them😒
@kayherrs98764 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@kaonisvue38794 жыл бұрын
Nco ntsoov, ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj leej twg hlub yus npaum yus leej niam yug, cov tsis muaj niam li kuv no lawm yeej tu siab tib yam nkau.......
@user-zl6jn2fe9s4 жыл бұрын
Yus tsis muaj niam ces zoo li no tiag tu siab tsha plaws os ib tsoom phooj ywg
@baoyang56864 жыл бұрын
Kuv yog koj ces kuv twb tsis k k niam yau thiab txiv lawm.
@fuemoua83454 жыл бұрын
niam ntsuab teev koj zaj dab vim txiv yawg xuas nyab koj hais nrog zaj daim tiab sib yuav pos yog koj muab delete tawm lawm os cas kuv nrhiav tsis tau mloog lawm, thov koj qhia kuv pos tau
@vanlor66674 жыл бұрын
Cas hmoob lub neej es yuav tos niam thiab txiv ntav xwb os. 2 leeg sib pab npaj Kom tau tso mam sib yuav pob🤔😩.
@yeebntshachannel92544 жыл бұрын
Ua li cas nej pheej hais tias niam ntsuab teev look so tired, no na, nws look okay kawg sav pab txhawb nws lub zog os!
@pamthao30824 жыл бұрын
Txhob mus mus lawv lawm os Ua ib siab os
@ameliachia48074 жыл бұрын
😢😭...ik the feeling.
@nickelchengcheng134 жыл бұрын
Dag los tiag os
@zuaghawj48884 жыл бұрын
Txaus hlub tiag2 li os tshwj xeeb nej cov nus muag sib2 hlub ces zoo heev lawm os.
@keyangchannel21614 жыл бұрын
May, Cas hnub no zoo li koj sab sab os.
@lilyroseyang14454 жыл бұрын
Niam ntsuab teev aw....yuav tau pw kom txau thiab os nawb....txhob sib sib zog khwv heev os....yus lub cev important tshaj os nawb.....
@kouaxiong10334 жыл бұрын
Sister I feel your pain and sorrow. I never knew my mother because she died while I was a baby. When I married, my husband and I just went to the court house. We didn't get anything and didnt expect anything. I'm lucky that I married a great man and have a wonderful life. My grandma (real mom's side) reminds me to live in the moment and enjoy my life because I'd suffered enough. Thats what you need to do. Let go of the pain and love your family and kids and enjoy the happiness that you have now. Your mom must have watched out for you and your siblings from above to give you such a great life now even if she's not here with you. Be happy so she can rest peacefully. Love yourself. Dont live in the past or pain anymore.
@hollylee97694 жыл бұрын
tus viv ncaus es koj txiv tsis muaj qaud li los? niam yog poj dab ntxug nyug xwb es koj txiv hais tsis tau dab tsi los?
@l.s.tqaibej10434 жыл бұрын
To the author in this story - your story sound so odd? You, your hubby, and your bothers/sister to their spouses - everyone seem to have some sort of education, a job so why still depend on the OGs to start your life? And keep dogging your heads to your OGs for everything? Grow the heck up and put on your big pant because you have no more parents or grand parents; take care of yourself, your own family and love only those that love you. This is America and no one waits for anyone. My wife and I, we both have parents, siblings, cousins, and relatives. But we worked since we were 15 yrs old, finished high school, finished college on our own $$. And we owned our own house before we think about wedding. We paid and planned our own wedding both traditional and American styles without bothering anyone including our parents. Everyone just be our guests. We owe no ones anything, we live a free and happy life. You should do the same and stop yearning for love from people who don't care to love you. It is worthless to give time, energy, stress, money, and etc! Say no to things that are not your responsibility. Because if you don't stop...….you can get sick and die out of this sadness on wanting love from people who don't love you!
@callalilies074 жыл бұрын
True, I agree with all the points you've given here. Self love is extremely important as well and forgetting the past. Ua ib siab and move is will be great. But I also think you're missing the main point of the author's message here though. The author is expressing her missing piece that she had to grow up without. She's yearning for that final touch from her mother that she'll never experience. Having a mother present on one's wedding day is so crucial for a Hmong daughter. That special moment where the mom will fix that daughter's outfit for the last time has so much meaning and she missed out on that. That final word of wisdom of to be a good nyab, she lost that. I don't think you'll understand because you're a guy. Ask your wife, she'll elaborate ;) I see that you have both parents growing up so you wouldn't truly understand the author's standpoint (shrug).
@nkaujhmoobvwj4 жыл бұрын
Agreed with u. I dont get why they kept depending on them og. Or why they spend money on meka wedding when they got no money for a dress, it's common sense..also she was told to prep the dowry for her sister, yet she didnt n still have to depend on the aunt. I dont think they r as independent as she makes the story to be.
@zoolisxyooj82514 жыл бұрын
nkaujhmoobvwj, she is so stupid cuz she got her accounting degree and get the job, but still no money.
@mainouyang99444 жыл бұрын
Good morning!🤗
@iayang11074 жыл бұрын
Tus mes viv ncaus ua cas koj hos tsi faj lus rau peb cov mes viv ncaus es peb mam npaj rau koj nas tus mes niam hluas
@aivyajchannel36754 жыл бұрын
Cas kJ niam tshiab yuav Phem ua luaj os me ntxhais. Rau Rau siab ua yus lub neej km zoo zoo muaj ib hnub twg nws yuav txaj muag rau kj os.
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
Oh, your husband is not a Christian? You didn’t’ find God into your life? You don’t know about God’s love? It’s not making sense. Why care about those who don’t love you? Let go sister. Forgive and move on. Cut out the people who are not for you, even it’s your birth father. You are on your own now, not that 13 yrs-old anymore. Find God’s true love for you, fill that emptiness and stop desiring for that worldly attention. You said it yourself, “yus pheej nrhiav kev tu siab rau yus xwb.” Koj tu siab es leej twg care txog na los lawv
@SaiLor-vd8kg4 жыл бұрын
Tu siab tshaj li os cov me nyuam aws
@saykaomee4 жыл бұрын
If we can choose which parent go and which one stay, generally speaking, mothers should be the ones who stay because those who love their children will keep their families together no matter how difficult things get.
@iaxiong21284 жыл бұрын
May you look beautiful everyday. I enjoy all your story
@kaythoj37234 жыл бұрын
Such a sad story 😭😭
@souayang83344 жыл бұрын
May koj hnav lub tso ntawm ko0j mas koj zoo nkauj kawg li. You so beautiful.
@dablaugntximntxub23184 жыл бұрын
are you a fake christian, only if you're fake christian then you'll do the spiritual hand tied... your baby cries because you're mixing two religion and that brings you problem and soon calamity to your family... koj twb hais tias koj tus txiv yog neeg mus kev cai tshiab no ne, ua cas koj ho hu plig rau koj tus me nyuam na?! cov neeg vwm li nej thiaj muaj teeb meem los rau koj lub neej ntag?!
@denamoua72624 жыл бұрын
Pab tu siab kawg.tsuas yog niam yug thiaj hlub xwb os
@tsiamoua22354 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@nengthao83184 жыл бұрын
Ua cas zaj no yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li. Txhob ruam ruam mas cov me nus muag ntsuag no. Nej twb muaj neej tag lawm. Nej sib hlub sib pab nej xwb, es ua dab tsi los nej ua nej xwb txhob tos tos txiv nkawd lawm. Kom nkawd thiaj tsis muaj muaj plhus khuj nej nyiaj mus pab niam tshiab cov me nyuam ma. Nej tseem ntse tsis tau txaus los cas nej tseem nyob ze nkawd tseem vam nkawd tos nkawd xwb na? Nyob ze nkawd ces tab tom koj niam tshiab thiab txiv lawv tsev neeg ntawd tau lub sij hawm khuj nej tas zog xwb mas. Nej tsis hlub nej es leej twg yuav hlub nej naw?! Nej hlub lawv es lawv twb tsis hlub nej li tsum kiag khiav mus nyob kom deb lawv es kav tsij mus vaj tswv xwb txhob ntshaw niam ntshaw txiv lim hiam li koj txiv nkawd lawm os mog.
@SaiLor-vd8kg4 жыл бұрын
I can’t listen when I’m listening I cry.
@angielo064 жыл бұрын
Why still go to your parents place after they treated you, your brothers and sister like that?
@pibneejtshiab70804 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab o kuv lub neej lo twb zoo li ko thiab
@jennyfervang854 жыл бұрын
😢😭
@moobsiab4 жыл бұрын
You looked so tired May, Get some rest.
@maryly094 жыл бұрын
Idk why u continue to keep in touch with these toxic people? U need to stop all contact with them. Only keep your same blood siblings and discard everyone else. U will be happier.
@kaciewanh19864 жыл бұрын
Vidncaus, koj hais me los kuv paub ntau vim kuv lub neej tsis muaj niam hlub, phijcuam rau yus mus ua neej.
@youwatchme36314 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up tus niam tsev, stop going to visit your stepmom
@sengtheking4 жыл бұрын
Just another regular story to prove my point that: torture your kids and they will love you when you are old. Why? They feel they have something to prove to you that they are worth to have/loved. Love your kids and they will betray you when you grow old.
@sunshineyang9534 жыл бұрын
Your eyes, May your very tired. Are you okay? Koj kav tsij so kom txaus2 os koj sab dhau lawm.
@jasmineflower71154 жыл бұрын
I have a stepmom like this too. Although she haven’t said anything directly to us but she has shown us many times she only loves her kids only. But we’re not mad at her. We understand we’re not her biological children therefore she not able to love us. We just accepted that we don’t have a mom anymore and don’t expect any kind of love from her. We just take whatever she gave us and leave it at that as long as there no hate towards each other. We will only love and expect love from our dad only.
Tu siab kaw lub neej ts mj niam hlb lo lo kua muag
@jalynnkat4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t listen to the whole story. Too depressing. I could never be with a man that doesn’t take care of his children. Says ALOT about the man. Same with women. Yet, they keep opening their legs.