Dan On Gay Cheerleaders & Why He Can't Get Girls - TTTF #4

[@tttfpod]

I am working on actually answering questions in the future!

[@Zubzublivingindreams]

Liked it before even watching it! That was a nice surprise🎉🎉🎉

[@Luro2022]

😂

[@PinkRose0910]

You watch yourself when you edit. So definitely lies/sarcastic humor about not watching yourself.

[@haleyfranker]

I feel like we need a video of Dan mic'd up at a bar, trying to pick up women with the FORD method.

[@vanellopewinchester15]

I’d pay entirely too much money to watch that video!😂

[@Broken.Into.Beauty]

Omg YES 😂😂😂

[@lorance329]

YESSS😂😂

[@bmk8103]

Dude, that's a great idea. You know Dan's problem that he is too much inside his own head instead of where he should be relaxed and let things play out organically.

[@dee-yq1df]

That would be the best possible video ever

[@whileinbetween]

I think the unintentionally funniest part is that the song theyre singing is from Frozen 1 😂

[@Michelle_Lynnn]

Dan: *approaches a girl at a bar with his pickup lines* Girl: *milly rocks* Bonde: “she’s uncomfortable”

[@SuperKurvaszad]

Dan: approaches a girl at a bar with his FORD pickup

[@Michelle_Lynnn]

@@SuperKurvaszad Oh My God HAHA just imagine!

[@Michelle_Lynnn]

@@SuperKurvaszad Dan: “So… uh… who are you here with?… 🛻 Bonde: “DUDE!” 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@timothytraver5918]

Dan: *Admits to completely failing with women* Dan: *Proceeds to give advice about picking up women*

[@mikeschaaf6455]

Wish there was a way to read Bonde’s mind because there is a ton he wants to say and doesn’t. 😂

[@curtismiller-robus486]

😂😂

[@hannarussell5728]

Dating advice by Dan: Just keep talking to as many women as possible until eventually one doesn’t leave 😂😂😂😂

[@btschannel5209]

Classic lol

[@AnnaAnna21847]

Watching this all I could say is now we know why Dan is single 😂

[@loanze4141]

JAJAJAJAJ

[@imyournme6632]

Yea that's literally how it works.

[@juliepatten8868]

😅😅😅😅

[@brettknighten1171]

I love how Bondie set traps for Dan and when he catches them he is just deer in the headlights

[@hairylarrymcnarry4838]

Bondie is the guy that u avoid sitting next to in class. Cause he is for sure gettin u in trouble . BUT it is worth it for the feel good laughs.

[@jenwhite5103]

Bonde's face when Dan said he is super masculine!!!!!

[@Manx36]

Bonde’s face through all of this is magic, his expressions had me rolling. It made me think back to the video where Dan said to Bonde, “wouldn’t it be sweet if we did this stunt holding hands” and Bonde’s face just looked like wtf would we do that 😂😂😂😂

[@jenwhite5103]

I think Dan is sweet, innocent, and naive, and Bonde is his patient guide to the knowledge of not sweet, not innocent, and not naive.

[@simplyeason]

timestamp?

[@My.Funny.Bunny.]

That, by far, is one of the weirdest conversations I’ve ever heard in my life.

[@The_Hidden_Grove]

the ending almost killed me. Ima be in jail lmfao.....you need to do more episodes omg this is so good.

[@kaiti1925]

That song is DEFS from frozen 1 🤣

[@stuff9172]

I was literally shouting this😂

[@BrunaSantos-ye1yn]

Dan got be the most rizzless good looking guy out there 😂 we luv u Danieeeel

[@jonathanemontgomery]

My wife said she found my complete lack of rizz endearing. So there’s hope for Daniel! 😂

[@BrunaSantos-ye1yn]

@@jonathanemontgomerysuuuure! Rizz is totally overestimated haha

[@jx2738]

The pipeline from "I'm a masculine man 🧔‍♂️🏋‍♂️💪" to "I'm a tootsie pop 🥰🌸🍬" is craaaaazyy

[@winterwildflowers8439]

youRE A BABY BOTTLE POP

[@simplyeason]

timestamp?

[@Bizzle227]

Give me a “WE”! Give me a “NEED”! Give me a “MORE”! Give me a ”PODCASTS”! “WE NEED MORE PODCASTS!!!!!” (screams ensue)

[@dinJadude]

yo dan and bonde keep this podcast alive the algorithm brought me here and im glad it did!

[@melissaw1813]

I tried listening to this while putting my daughter to bed. I had to pause so many times to hold in the busting out laughing

[@G.W.It42069]

DAN!! I actually met you in Wisco at a cheer camp back in 2015. I don't know if you'd remember me but, I had the HUGEST CRUSH on you back then. Y'all's videos popped up on my KZbin a little while ago and it's been a crazy blast from the past. I'm happy to see that you're still cheering and you didn't let the small town Wisconsin mindset sway you from doing what you're passionate about! 💛

[@curtismiller-robus486]

Omg you guys should date coz he's still single!

[@atlphotoguy]

Please. GO ON TOUR 😂!! Every episode is better than the previous one. “Who are you here with?”

[@vanellopewinchester15]

This was absolutely amazing! I was laughing so hard I couldn’t breathe for most of the video😂 Can’t imagine how much gold we missed cause Bonde’s mic cut out. I think we’re all eagerly waiting for updates on how the FORD method works out😅

[@lexiburnham796]

Your videos ARE meaningful!! They are entertaining and give people a reason to smile and laugh. Some times a funny video could be the best medicine on a bad day... that holds a Lot of meaning!

[@astrobot702]

Bonde is legend!! Dude makes me laugh all the time... 🎉🎉🎉

[@Ateszika]

On one side i wonder why Dan feels like sharing that fact that he is not good with girls would help him get good with girls, on the other hand it's interesting that being among girls for so many years, throwing and catching them casually, and it's still possible that a guy doesn't develop the skills to talk to woman

[@vitalyaloves]

At least in their videos he doesn’t really talk to the flyers, at least not very casually. He seems to have the “women are a different species” mindset. He can joke with the other bases (aka why he wants them to be straight dudes) but feels the need to put on a performance around the women or otherwise avoid them altogether. If he treated the flyers, and women in general including women he was into, more like he treated his friends he would already know how to talk to them. Like people lol.

[@tluvsbeauty1]

@@vitalyalovesyeah, I’m a long time fan of the vids, but the clear subconscious misogyny became more obvious over time, unfortunately:/ I found it pretty shocking to start to realize, bc I had originally given them the benefit of the doubt, assuming that men who spend countless hours one teams with women, that they wouldn’t see women as totally different than men…

[@vitalyaloves]

@@tluvsbeauty1 Yeah, after many years I have come to accept that what men do and say in other areas of their lives predicts very little about how they see and treat women. The only way to know how what they believe is to wait, listen (especially when they’re around their friends), and watch. Enough patience will reveal how they feel every time.

[@MisAdventurousBookMouse]

Honestly I think he’s more pansexual and struggles to connect initially with people he’s attracted to than letting them get to know him before he gets attracted to them

[@gkf411]

@@vitalyaloves It is a weird thing I also picked up on after watching so many videos. Hopefully it is only a quirk that is played up for cheap laughs and not something actually problematic.

[@hannarussell5728]

I want to know if Dan is really this awkward? I thought I had issues but if this is accurate then Dan has me beaten! 😂😂😂😂

[@Gruesome_j]

Yes he is, he seems unable to be fake lol he’s definitely himself 24/7

[@Tytanicc]

NO I GET THIS! He doesn’t seem that awkward in his cheer videos but I def feel like he’s different in the podcast

[@katharinemeyer5213]

Poor Dan, he’s going to be single forever😂🤣😂🤣

[@MiguelPlata26]

It's going to blow their mind when they figure out masculine gay men exist! 🤯

[@duckalotl]

Righttt

[@BloodyHowl69]

you mean dan isn't one?

[@eugeniocazzo4198]

Yeah this entire conversation was just one dumb stereotype after another

[@ericwalker2434]

A guess there’s not a lot of them who choose to get into cheerleading though, so I understand their confusion

[@simplyeason]

whats the timestamp where they talked about gay men? im trying to find it

[@debbiekerr8374]

Bonde for goodness sake teach Dan how to pick up woman😂😂

[@landendays]

bro he picks up women all the time in his videos

[@debbiekerr8374]

​@@landendaysDid I change sex ?

[@Dr.Spatula]

@@debbiekerr8374 When did "bro" become gender specific?

[@debbiekerr8374]

@@Dr.Spatula I'm a woman ,bro has always meant male to me.

[@Loongbottom]

@@debbiekerr8374 a chick can be called dude as well. doesnt have to be gender specific

[@jeahm09]

Definitely one of the weirder podcast eps ive ever listened to while working. But damn I was laughing my ass off the whole way through

[@jasminef3521]

Loving the podcasts so far; ya'll have to get Eliza in here. Would love to hear a deep dive on how all three of you work together.

[@sierrasteele0224]

There’s something about Dan being 100% himself (even if it’s awkward) that’s attractive to me.

[@Mexifairy27]

I know nothing about cheer. YT gave me a reel and now I'm staying for Dan's very solid dating advice 👌🏽

[@cheerpedge41]

Please bring these back. These are gold 😂

[@Sn0tragg]

Lmfaooooooo when Dan dropped that “so who are you here with” I lost it 😂

[@sarah01.777]

Hi Dan, just wanted to say i love your podcast and main channel videos, you guys always have the best energy! ❤Love from the UK x

[@julianlisette2705]

My face is hurting from laughing so much. Good lord what an epic comedy duo you two are! Fkn sensational!

[@SaraTanner-b5u]

I just love you guys. It's so entertaining. Thank you so much!

[@ramadiii]

Oh my God, I'm laughing so hard I'm crying! Dan being awkward and Bonde just keeping with the roleplay is fucking hilarious 😂 Also, as a librarian, a lot of us like anime in a non-weird way so just throwing it out there 🤣 "Do you know what the trunk of a Ford Fiesta looks like?" is such a horrible joke and I'm laughing my ass off at it 🤣

[@SuperKurvaszad]

4:26 It was nice knowing you Bonde LMAO

[@diego_fe]

I think the out come of this podcast is Dan will be forever single 😂 but dont worry you arent alone on that boat

[@Jacques_Merde]

Oh, for a while, I thought Dan & Bonde were a couple! 🤣🤣🤣 (just kidding, but they do have amazing chemistry!)

[@MrUod]

Human watcher got me. I do that at work while on a break. Watching people walking on the street from the break room and I create a dialogue for them in my mind.

[@HickoryDickory86]

Dan, trying FORD... Dan: *approaches girl at a bar* "HEY! WHO ARE YOU HERE WITH?!" Girl: "Ew. No." Dan: "OKAY!" **sulks off to get a supportive hug from a disappointed Bonde**

[@SuperKurvaszad]

35:45 Hard to know if anything should be taken seriously from these podcasts, but this one kinda struck me. Dan moved across the whole country because of cheer, to be where the best cheerleaders are. I never got the impression, that it was "forced". On the off chance this was serious, please google sunk cost fallacy.

[@MisAdventurousBookMouse]

He likes the athleticism aspect but not the cheer culture

[@nikkis2906]

I feel like I could see the moment Bonde realized the “common interest” topic should be discussed further in therapy 😅

[@aliross2720]

I mean this is the nicest way(and I can tell you guys won't be easily offended) but you could do with working on your emotional intelligence. Daniel seems like a smart guy but seems compromised by a really low and immature emotional intelligence Sometimes educating yourself more on your own psychology, motivations , mindset and the psychology of human relationships in general can help a lot. Logic and reason work best when it's working together and tenpered with emotional intelligence and understanding...kind of like empathy can be one of the highest forms of intelligence. That and having a strong stable sense of self an learning to define who and what you are and not caring so much on what others opinions of you are. You don't need others to tell you who you are or affirm your worth or any of these things. Self love and self worth/esteem helps. When you are truly happy in your own skin it won't matter if you get rejected because you know it' doesn't define you and it's more about the person rejecting you. The healthier and more well adjusted you become the more you will attract healthy like minded people. The relationships we have with others mirrors the relationship we have with ourselves. Have a better relationship and understanding about yourself and you will have better relationships with others and be able to spot more easily unhealthy people who aren't doing the same and you won't be attracted to them.

[@aryaherrera7351]

This is a very sensible comment tbh

[@The_Hidden_Grove]

lol i mean the anime comment is so funny and kinda accurate. LMFAO

[@michaelshannon6558]

Sometimes, the one for you is right in front of you and you don’t even know it.

[@janine_]

This podcast always makes me laugh till my stomach hurts 😂😂😂

[@timothycannata7400]

BRING BACK THE PODCAST I really enjoyed these!!

[@Fearlesspudding]

Hilarious and chaotic 🤣 Love your podcast!

[@oldmanmerc]

When I was younger I was a hairstylist and watching women's expressions change when they realized I wasn't gay was hilarious.

[@shaun_gaming6]

8:28 This is pretty true. No guys really do cheerleading in Wisconsin at least in highschool. So whenever someone found out I did it in highschool they would call me gay, because the cheer scene with guys is the gay cheerleaders that do all star and stuff like that

[@ivnmbgy]

2:30 Bonde has a great singing voice

[@gibsonmitchell]

“For us to feel more comfortable in the sport, there’s gotta be more straight guys.” If you can’t be secure within yourself, then the issue doesn’t exist within the context you think it does. You have to be willing to work on your own insecurity or doubt and be careful not to let it start to cloud your choices and hurt other people.

[@lucaleone4331]

Yeah, he just needs to kind of flip that. A gay person going into a predominantly straight sport like football or basketball? How do they feel? How would it be for them to say there needs to be more gay people in the sport? lol

[@matthatake6227]

You’re both wrong!

[@gibsonmitchell]

@@matthatake6227 Ah yes, yet another standard act of comment section behavior. Tossing something into the void without any follow-up. Next.

[@gibsonmitchell]

@@lucaleone4331 Apparently, we’re both somehow wrong🙄 I like those questions!

[@matthatake6227]

@@gibsonmitchell yeah they were just gay comments

[@riaanvr2624]

I don't listen to podcasts, at all! Ever! But this had me laughing so hard all the way through... I'll definitely be coming back for more! 😂

[@ZeroDarqDirty]

Enjoyed the podcast! Keep them coming boys!

[@The_Hidden_Grove]

LMAO dan is the reason dan is single lol. hes like hi your hot lets do the nasty and not talk about anything. i feel like that what dan is saying. that only works with men dan lol.

[@lorance329]

It's been a long time since I've laughed this much😂😂 thanks for these videos😄💕

[@hobk1204]

Did they stop doing these? These talks are amazing:(

[@tttfpod]

It will continue don’t worry!

[@driftchick2152]

First of all I would like shirts made with the phrase I'm a Tootsie Pop and secondly I have to give props to Dan for having patience to learn how to talk to girls and for making an effort to try and talk to them..... If only he lives closer

[@melissaw1813]

Bonde needs to set up a speed dating session for Dan. For sure film that! 😂😂😂

[@ClarkyMagick]

There's so much to unpack here. First. As a flaming homosexual with no cheer experience, I watch your videos for the athleticism and the absolute laughs. This pod series is a great idea for us to get to know you more and see the hilarious relationship you share. I think, not to be a bitch about it, but the trans stuff could be somewhat more respectful. But I get you're in America and it's not a deal there. Regardless, content is hilarious. 😂😂

[@momakesvids5704]

the comment was disrespectful, its not cool just cuz theyre in america

[@BairMendoza]

Dan and Bonde are literally the best bromance ever. They need a masculine GBF that just thinks they are hilarious and they bond on bro stuff and is as hot or hotter than both of them, so he’s just not interested in straight dudes and not interested in getting accosted by gay dudes, so they keep him safe, but he’s a great wingman, so he can teach Dan and get him a girlfriend. Because Dan’s not bad. He’s just deeply clueless like, if I was a Florida boy, me and Bonde would be the Cher and Dionne (I’m single. He’s not) who would take Dan (as Tai) under our wing and make him passable in public because we would care. Hahahahaha. They are so dumb. Thanks guys. You are deeply entertaining. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@WetNapkinFarts]

"I'm a tootsie pop" is my new text notification sound

[@oscarcardona1028]

I myself as a gay older man love your shit (your content) for the fun and the sport and I love you two guys!) It's great and fun. Not thinking you gentleman are of gay homosexual level, but wanted to tell you you're MF hilarious

[@Strike177]

My man Daniel needs a hug.

[@thekingkyle1000]

We need more of these

[@Bizzle227]

I 💜 how Bonde catches Dan’s pronounciation mistakes (or geographical) and DOES NOTHING TO CORRECT HIM but you can see it on his face 🫠

[@loriburnip]

I think Dan's going after the wrong girls. He needs to go after a confident nerdy girl who understands awkwardness. Someone who's not expecting him to be super Charming just because he looks like Prince Charming. Someone who may actually make the first move. I can see him trying to walk up to one of these Club girls who are dripping in Gucci and Louis Vuitton and bombing with them, but a cute cosplayer might understand his love for anime & get that he's kinda awkward. So less clubs, more comicons Dan.

[@leif1075]

Or he can go after guys?

[@blakegonder372]

Its the laugh bro....the laugh turns them off lol.😂

[@MakkaPakka319]

I’m Australian and live in an area where cheerleading isn’t a thing/available but you guys are so entertaining to watch lmao

[@AdamMclardy]

Yup I’m an Aussie dude who has zero interest in cheer but Bondi is just so funny

[@ramansgdeep]

Someone needs to save Dan from Dan. 8 years in a co-ed sport and still not enough confidence talking to women!

[@Josh-Alien]

Please bring the Podcast back 😢

[@junkfire4554]

bro you gotta hire an editor for these, there's so much dead silence, the pacing's killin me 😭

[@evadeans]

YAYYYYY BEEN WAITING FOR ANOTHER VIDEO THANK YOUUUU

[@SippiFiree]

A wholeeeee lot to unpack in this episode. I would say you will always have problems until you fix the true issue within yourself first. No matter how masculine you are or others are that's on the team, if you aren't confident in yourself and in your own sexuality then gays and those not "masculine in the sport will always seem to be a problem for you. All sports or activities have people of all orientations, the thing is yes Cheerleading has it's stereotypes, but if that is the road you chose to travel it just comes with the territory and you have to grow strong in your own confidence and sexuality. Still a fan and love the content, this one just was a little rough lol Still laughed through alot of it. Bonde is a gem!

[@blablabla1000able]

I don't think you understood what they were saying.

[@JJJBunney001]

Yeah you definitely missed what they were saying about that

[@jarrodpatterson9907]

Hahahaha omg I can’t even begin to say how much I laughed at this!! What a great team! 😂😂 You guys are way too hot to be this awkward, but the jokes are genius and I love it!💙💚

[@MasterMartey]

This the best, I can relate, but you ultimately only need to stop overthinking shit - that has caused me at least a couple handfulls worth of trouble 😄

[@marcellelugli]

Unfinished TTTF topics: Dan and the Pyramid scheme Bonde's top 3 favorite movies

[@adlx101]

So awkward 😂 I can't figure out if you are for real or exagerating everything 😂

[@frightenedinmatenrtwo]

New Podcast Episode, please. The last one was so long ago.

[@ori_gina_lart7621]

How sad i was when i realised this was the last Podcast 10 months ago 🥹 i could hear you two talk all day long, its so funny it litteraly made my day xD i Hope there will be more in the future

[@spazzologist]

Dan and Bonde need to be in stand-up comedy😂

[@aryaherrera7351]

The video with the foam roller was actually good. Don't say it's pointless! That was fun hahaha. Saw it on Patreon

[@maddiemarkland3580]

this one has me FLOORED 😂😂😭😭

[@tnshydra9856]

Y’all need to bring back the podcast

[@Theflamesouls]

Today’s the anniversary of this podcast’s launch. So…..no episode drop?

[@hhiimmyymm]

I don't think we will ever get a new episode. ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

[@ScCrash26]

I haven't cried around you in weeks... 😅🤣

[@iamtheonlytiff]

When we gona get a new podcast??

[@aryangaikwad1]

Laughed a lot keep posting, feels good watching 2 friends do same crazy talk we friends do here.

[@sunnyflower671]

Maybe instead of asking about family, say something Funny - and just be yourself. Love the podcast and the main channel, the humor and .. just all of it. Keep it up! :)

[@msmisunderstood4348]

I am from Nebraska 😂😂 thank you very much. It is pretty boring

[@AutoSalesByRoger]

Dan, How many female employees do you ask out before you have to visit your HR manager.

[@pride2558]

😅

[@Tina-Purpose_thru_Pain]

Here’s some advice…ford method is dogshit in real life. At least for me, just get to the point. Be your authentic self Dan. Preferably don’t use your judgemental/uninterested face. just speaking from the vibe you naturally give off you’re charismatic use that. Don’t overthink it. Don’t behave like you just suffered a brain injury. My real question is where the heck is Jeff in all this…your boy needs a wingman. I say we just blame Jeff for the losses in Dans love life 🤷‍♀️ lol 😂 there’s my solution.

[@AushenFutureWife]

Dan you should probably go through your dm requests

[@mbsanocki88]

I did not expect to laugh this hard watching this.

[@AndreasDIY-how-I-like-it]

🤔 Regardless of whether there really is a dating problem or a generational issue being addressed, everyone wants to get to know someone. The social and personal sense of entitlement unsettles and inhibits us. 😐 🤐Stop sharing too much personal information. Complete strangers make hurtful judgments without knowing the real reasons. Or to understand your kind of humor. 😎 🤩Return to the original content of the channel. This has so much potential: the hard training, the real conditions and the incredible successes as well as the personal developments are absolutely worth seeing.❤👀 🤫I don't give dating tips. As a mother of two sons, I recommend: be honest with yourself and the person you meet. Have fun but be prepared; laugh - even at yourself and try not to chase after a false ideal... 😻But maybe something has changed in the last 11 months - I wish you that from the bottom of my heart 🤗

[@ZeroDarqDirty]

Also, if home schooling had a poster child…. Sorry Dan 😂